I am a big fan of the "Gulesha Podcast". Abinet is very wise, mature, and broad-minded. In my understanding, he said that men and women are fundamentally equal in terms of human rights and dignity, but they do differ in various ways due to biological, social, and cultural reasons
Abenet❤❤❤ metayebet mnged saladin alalfemm so matured neh.... ke Ethiopia yenuro hunita abezagnaw ke 35 amet wend matured aydelum ...yewechiy relationships concept tenseto mawerat kebad new ke Ethiopia contest new metayt yalbt aren't I appreciate you so much-loved
Feminism in Ethiopia is especially a funny concept. They'd rather argue about calling someone w/ro or w/rt and all other superficial topics than addressing real issues that affect women's life in the rural parts of ET
I don’t have a problem that he’s having such kind of opinion. But it looks like he’s giving such opinion authoritatively and he is an consultant at that. While I agree with some of the comments he made RE feminism , modern feminism or radical feminism, he also has, it seems, some biased views on women esp regarding the roles of women.
Everything is wrong with this guy, but one thing that I'm saddened about is how biased he is even though he is a counceler, we can easily see how understanding he was for the male tiktokers and how defensive and not really educated about the feminists. Muaz is the definition of conscious balanced human being but I would Have loved if you guys challenged your guest more.
Whether you like it or not, whether you’re against it or not, a woman being raped has NOTHING to do with her not protecting herself. He is too opinionated on what he thinks the norm should be. Why don’t you take on the job of teaching men what is appropriate? A feminists job isn’t to educate men; it’s to protect women and make sure that justice is served for those who prey on victims. The girl in the back, I appreciate you for putting him out there for his misogynistic ideals.
From the done of human time people know its wrong The bible, the Qur'an, the Law told us rape, murder is wrong but there is always be someone who does it. So if a woman is smart the best thing she can do is taking responsiblity to protect herself as far as she can But if a woman goes through a neighbourhood that has a bad reputation with rape exposing her naked body as modern women do; ofcourse she is partially responsible for what is gonna happen to her. The thing is its not this kinda rape cases that happen in our country it is girls who are vulnerable attacked by family and relatives specially in rural areas. The Ethiopian feminists should work to create awareness and protect the girls ratherthan saying "Stong Independent Woman" in social medias, the victims doesnt even have internet connection
like your ideas on relationships and marriage just don't agree with the examples and justifications you gave. are you saying just because he paid for what she eats he has the right to do anything he wants? the girls who are getting raped are not the one who is in the nightclub, dude try to do research on rape cases, just because you don't support the idea of feminism doesn't mean you have to generalize everything. በር ክፍት ትተው ተሰረቅን እያሉ ሳይሆን ሌባው ሰብሮ እየገባ ያለበት ሁኔታ ነው ያለው try to understand what real feminism is, besides what the ticktock clowns show you, there are real feminists who are fighting for real problems. it would have been better if you had facts rather than social media rumors and talks. love you guys, wish Marti was in this episode .
I think the problem with this guy is he didn't understand the evolution of culture and society. human cultural change is driven by social transformation of beliefs, knowledge, customs, skills, attitudes, languages........I don't think we are equal but the way u articulate it is poor..........................let's understand what nature gave for us and what this society gave us................ena I agree that modern feminism is just madness. However, your view on rape is nonsense..........look the way she express herself can't be the reason to be raped
Ok Let's talk about nature. Men and Women have both feminine traits(compassionate, collaborative, receptive, nurturing, intuitive, patience, forgiveness) masculine traits(competitive, assertive,logical, aggressive) by nature. There are Women who are more masculine than some Men in the personality spectrum/traits. However, that doesn't mean the average woman possess more masculine traits than the average male. While I do agree there is a role of social construct as to why men and women act masculine or feminine, I also believe it is mostly in their nature. Studies in Scandinavia societies support the claim that men and women tend to have different characteristic traits by nature. In a egalitarian society, those different personality traits remained the same, there are more women studying social science and working jobs like nursing, and more men were in engineering fields. I highly doubt that's because of social construct.
@@k.s213 I don’t get what you want to tell me on this! But, feminine and masculine are just gender terms and it’s socio-cultural category. If you want to talk about the psychology traits of masculinity, there are researches show that masculine traits include assertiveness, independence, self-reliance, or willingness to take risk……..but to say man is logical because of his nature it’s nonsense. However, biologically masculinization is just a development of male morphology, like Wolffian ducts or male reproductive structures and the other biological process is feminization, development of female morphology. MY STAND is just simple there is a social construction about female and male role in this society. I didn’t say they are equal in every step of life. LOOK, That guy said “male are born to be ዘበኛ እና ሴት ደሞ ሞግዚት” this is not true. There are male babysitters and mogezet….we have females in the military. we know it’s not only about social construction, it’s about gender (sociological aspects), body (biological or morphological difference), if u go to USA even race also include. About Scandinavia societies we know that they are the most gender free societies and the research shows their job preference but don’t say because they prefer to do more “feminine” jobs so femininity and masculinity is natural…..this is not logical because we need to find other variables that make them to choose not only nature. do forget Scandinavians were betam masculine u can see the history of Vikings …….remember there were anthropologists in the 19’s that they said medical science, engineering works……are male jobs not for females but look now the progress……..
የእውነት አንተ ትክክለኛ ካውንስለር ነህ። ተባረክ ደግሞም ውጤታማ ትሆናለህ የምትሰራውን ስለምትወደው ፍሬያማ ትሆንበታለህ።
አብነት በጣም አድናቂህ ነኝ ሀሳብና አስተያየትህ ጊዜውን የሚመጥን ነው ቀጥል አምላክ ይባርክህ።
እኩልነት እና ልዩነት መለየት አለበት የወንድ እና የሴት ተፈጥሮ የተለያየ ነው ማለት እኩል አይደሉም ማለት አይደለም የተፈጥሮ ልዩነት አለን ማለት እኩል አይደለንም ማለት አይደለም
እዴ ሁለትት ዐተ ሙሉ አዳመጥኩ😮።ብቻ በጣም ተመችቶኛል አብነት የሚያይበት አግል😮 ዋው ነዉ እና ግን ስለ እርቀት ፍቅር አስታቹ እደዚህ እንቅ ፍርጥ ፍትፍት ጉርስ የሚያደርክ ዉይይት ጥያቄ ብታነሱ ዋው ነበረ ይመቻቹ❤❤❤
በፆታዊ ጉዳይ ላይ ደግሞ ሁሉቱም ለየቅል ናቸው ብዬ አምናለው። ልክ እንደ ጨረቃ እና ፀሀይ ___ ጨረቃን የምትመዝነው በምሽት ላይ ባላት ሚና እንደሆነው ሁላ ፀሀይንም በቀን ። ሁለት የተለያዩ ነገሮችን እኩል ለማድረግ መሞከሩ በራሱ ጥያቄውን ያመነጨው ሰው ምክንያት ግልፅ(specific) ካላደረገው በስተቀር የአወንታዊ አስተሳሰብ አለው ብዬ አላምንም። ከዚህ በተረፈ ይህ #15 pod. ለኔ (ለኔ ምትለዋ ይሰመርበትና) አብነትም እ በ ጥሩ 😉ነበር እናንተም ሞጋች የሆኑ ጥያቄዎችን አንስታቹሀል። በርቱልኝ
I wholeheartedly agree with today's guest about his stance on modern feminism. He reminds me of the God father, Kevin Samuels
I agree with him too.
And he reminds me of Kevin as well
Probably because he been watching all his videos and copied his talking points.
በጣም. ደሥ የሚል. ትምርት. ነዉ
this is really informative loving it
በኔ አመለካከት የደንበኞችህን ሃሳብ ሚዲያ ላይ እንዲህ ይሉሃል እንዲህ ይሉሃል እያልክ ማዉራት በራሱ አማካሪ የሚለውን ሙያ ሊያስነጥቅህ ይችላል ።ለኔ አትችልም ለምን መሰለህ የምትናገረው ሁሉ እውነቱን የያዘ
ሳይሆን ወደ ወንዶች ሳይድ ያደረገ ነው።
እውነቱን ነው ሴት ለሸምግልነ አይ ባህል አደለም አብነት ምርጥ ሰው 👌 እር በነትከ ወሎ የሴት ሸምግልነ የለም አትዋሸ
እንኳን ደህና መጣችሁ በጣም ነዉ የምትመቹኝ 😍😍😍ዛሬ ደግሞ ማርቲ የለችም🙄🙄🙄 ተስፍሽን የምናየዉ መች ይሆን……….
great neber.................
gin mecheresha lay mastelalef yemtfelgew mlkt kaleh.... minalbat zare yawekuh liyagegnuh bifelgu minamin blachu btzegut arif neber coz liju kerasu tkim yilk yemahberesebun tikim yemiyaskedim kemehonu antsar yehonakil enante VOT btadergulet bay negn .... beterefe yabede neber tilk tmru wesjebetalew
ሁሉም ትክክለኛ ነገር ነው የተናገረው
ቅዱስ መፀሀፉም ቢሆን ወንድና ሴት እኩል አይደሉም ይሄ ቢመርም ሀቅ ነዉ
አብነት አድናቂህ ነኝ ሀሳብና አስተያየትህ ዋው ነው
Impressed by the guest.
Teberkh👏👏👏👏👏👏
He is very professional
I am a big fan of the "Gulesha Podcast". Abinet is very wise, mature, and broad-minded. In my understanding, he said that men and women are fundamentally equal in terms of human rights and dignity, but they do differ in various ways due to biological, social, and cultural reasons
ጠያቄዎች አትመቹም አብነት እናመሰግናለን
Abenet❤❤❤ metayebet mnged saladin alalfemm so matured neh.... ke Ethiopia yenuro hunita abezagnaw ke 35 amet wend matured aydelum ...yewechiy relationships concept tenseto mawerat kebad new ke Ethiopia contest new metayt yalbt aren't I appreciate you so much-loved
ምንድነው ዝም ብሎ መገልፈጥ😣😣😣
Ena gideta kehonebh min tadergaleh❤❤❤❤
ሴት ለባልዋ ዘውድ ናት ...
Esu yesera ene tegneche ewelalw yemtel hulum set adelechem
Arif hasab tanesalh gn media lay nw emetaweraw ena kalath lay betetneke arif yemeselegnal
Sel successful setoch yawerahw ngr betam yasazenal femenine bahri malet demo yebetachenet ayedelem nigus yal zewdu bariya nw
❤❤❤ sele single mom yetnagerkew guday so perfect 👌 🎉setoche ke kelbachu hunu wendochem adeb yenurachu halagint yesemachu mahal lay lijoche ayegodu
Feminism in Ethiopia is especially a funny concept. They'd rather argue about calling someone w/ro or w/rt and all other superficial topics than addressing real issues that affect women's life in the rural parts of ET
exactly people think feminism is about clothes and this kind of things while forgeting the real issues of womens rape and living in abusive household
እንግዳ ትዋዋሱ ጀመር ከጉገቶች ጋር…ባለፈው ብሩኬ ቀረበ…ትመቹኛላችሁ!
Abnet wesagn sew !
Ena endaydefer mn yedereg???????ketatu bikebed bednb yekenesal cos hulu ngr mebt endehon selemitasebe nw emideregw.
እኛ ድግሞ ስብስክርይብ እናድርግሀልን
Teyakiew gn leraseh bezu yaltezegajeh ye hewet lemd ayent ayedelm mitykew and some how zemmm belo yesekal
የወንድ ቦታ ማለት ምን ማለት ነው፡፡ማ ነው የሰጣቸው?
36:48 wow, you are dam what is your reference point
ሸማግሌ መላክ የሚለው ከዕድሜ የመጣ ሽምግልናን ሳይሆን ማሸማገል/ማስማማት ከሚለው ነው መታየት ያለበት፡፡ ስለዚ ለመሸምገል/ ለማስማማት ከሆነ ደሞ የግድ ወንዶች ብቻ መሆን የለባቸውም ወይም ደሞ አሮጊቶች መባል የለበትም ፡፡
ግን ያላገባና ትዳርን ከፅሁፍ ከንባብ በዘለለ የማያውቅ ሰው አማካሪ መሆን ይችላል ? ምክያቱም ትዳር እኮ ከንባብ ወይም ከፅሁፍ በላይ የሆነ በጣም በጣም ሌላ ነገር ነውእኮ፡፡
I don’t have a problem that he’s having such kind of opinion. But it looks like he’s giving such opinion authoritatively and he is an consultant at that. While I agree with some of the comments he made RE feminism , modern feminism or radical feminism, he also has, it seems, some biased views on women esp regarding the roles of women.
He is right.
1:04:17 doesn’t matter, whatever you don’t have the right to do
ጠሩምከረነው፡፡
1:03:32 I like the girl she’s smart
በእዉነቱ ከሆነ ሰዉዬዉ እዉነት ነዉ ያወራዉ
ለሴት ያለው ጥላቻ የተመታህ
ሤትመሆን. የለበትም
1:16:54 oh I really want to see your life marriage
Yekrta gn sle shemglenaw yawerahew neger doesn't make sense yerasehn opinion masredat lay tensh tru neger alayehubhem
Everything is wrong with this guy, but one thing that I'm saddened about is how biased he is even though he is a counceler, we can easily see how understanding he was for the male tiktokers and how defensive and not really educated about the feminists.
Muaz is the definition of conscious balanced human being but I would Have loved if you guys challenged your guest more.
እሺ ህፃናትስ የሚደፈሩት ተጋልጠው ነው
Mels setual lesum
Whether you like it or not, whether you’re against it or not, a woman being raped has NOTHING to do with her not protecting herself. He is too opinionated on what he thinks the norm should be. Why don’t you take on the job of teaching men what is appropriate? A feminists job isn’t to educate men; it’s to protect women and make sure that justice is served for those who prey on victims. The girl in the back, I appreciate you for putting him out there for his misogynistic ideals.
From the done of human time people know its wrong The bible, the Qur'an, the Law told us rape, murder is wrong but there is always be someone who does it. So if a woman is smart the best thing she can do is taking responsiblity to protect herself as far as she can
But if a woman goes through a neighbourhood that has a bad reputation with rape exposing her naked body as modern women do; ofcourse she is partially responsible for what is gonna happen to her.
The thing is its not this kinda rape cases that happen in our country it is girls who are vulnerable attacked by family and relatives specially in rural areas.
The Ethiopian feminists should work to create awareness and protect the girls ratherthan saying "Stong Independent Woman" in social medias, the victims doesnt even have internet connection
like your ideas on relationships and marriage just don't agree with the examples and justifications you gave. are you saying just because he paid for what she eats he has the right to do anything he wants? the girls who are getting raped are not the one who is in the nightclub, dude try to do research on rape cases, just because you don't support the idea of feminism doesn't mean you have to generalize everything. በር ክፍት ትተው ተሰረቅን እያሉ ሳይሆን ሌባው ሰብሮ እየገባ ያለበት ሁኔታ ነው ያለው try to understand what real feminism is, besides what the ticktock clowns show you, there are real feminists who are fighting for real problems. it would have been better if you had facts rather than social media rumors and talks.
love you guys, wish Marti was in this episode .
He did his research; I think you need to do the same
ወንድም ስለመደፈር ያወራኸው በሙሉ የጭንቅላትክን ጥበት ነው የሚያሳየው እባክህ ከማውራት ተቆጠብ ስለእንደዚ አይነት ጉዳይ
if u were in the position of correcting him you would be on the podcast
@@adukalu168 dear getting the spotlight isn't the main point it is the things you share and the way you think
ሊል የፈለገውን የተረዳሽው አይመስለኝ። ተጋላጭ ስለሆነች መደፈሯ ትክክል ነው እያለ አይደለም። መደፈሯን በምንም ምክንያት Justify ሊደረግ አይችልም። ሊል የፈለገው ወንዱ እንደዛ ሊያደርግ እንደሚችል ካወቀች እሷ ያንን መቀየር ስለማትችል እሷ የራሷን Part ተጋላጭነቷን መቀነስ ትችላለች ነው ያለውን። እንጂ በየትኛውም መንገድ የሴት መደፈር ልክ ነው ማለት አይደለም። ሴት ስለሆንሽ ለምን ስሜታዊ እንደሆንሽ እረዳለው። ግን በትክክል የተረዳሽው ስላመሰለኝ ነው። ከተሳሳትኩ We can Discuss Here
Samrawit, if you really think about it, he is right.
I think the problem with this guy is he didn't understand the evolution of culture and society. human cultural change is driven by social transformation of beliefs, knowledge, customs, skills, attitudes, languages........I don't think we are equal but the way u articulate it is poor..........................let's understand what nature gave for us and what this society gave us................ena I agree that modern feminism is just madness. However, your view on rape is nonsense..........look the way she express herself can't be the reason to be raped
Ok Let's talk about nature.
Men and Women have both feminine traits(compassionate, collaborative, receptive, nurturing, intuitive, patience, forgiveness) masculine traits(competitive, assertive,logical, aggressive) by nature.
There are Women who are more masculine than some Men in the personality spectrum/traits.
However, that doesn't mean the average woman possess more masculine traits than the average male. While I do agree there is a role of social construct as to why men and women act masculine or feminine, I also believe it is mostly in their nature.
Studies in Scandinavia societies support the claim that men and women tend to have different characteristic traits by nature. In a egalitarian society, those different personality traits remained the same, there are more women studying social science and working jobs like nursing, and more men were in engineering fields. I highly doubt that's because of social construct.
@@k.s213 I don’t get what you want to tell me on this! But, feminine and masculine are just gender terms and it’s socio-cultural category. If you want to talk about the psychology traits of masculinity, there are researches show that masculine traits include assertiveness, independence, self-reliance, or willingness to take risk……..but to say man is logical because of his nature it’s nonsense. However, biologically masculinization is just a development of male morphology, like Wolffian ducts or male reproductive structures and the other biological process is feminization, development of female morphology. MY STAND is just simple there is a social construction about female and male role in this society. I didn’t say they are equal in every step of life. LOOK, That guy said “male are born to be ዘበኛ እና ሴት ደሞ ሞግዚት” this is not true. There are male babysitters and mogezet….we have females in the military. we know it’s not only about social construction, it’s about gender (sociological aspects), body (biological or morphological difference), if u go to USA even race also include. About Scandinavia societies we know that they are the most gender free societies and the research shows their job preference but don’t say because they prefer to do more “feminine” jobs so femininity and masculinity is natural…..this is not logical because we need to find other variables that make them to choose not only nature. do forget Scandinavians were betam masculine u can see the history of Vikings …….remember there were anthropologists in the 19’s that they said medical science, engineering works……are male jobs not for females but look now the progress……..
the guest is extremely biased about gender roles and he actually decided he is correct about it 🙄 and he is the so called 'advisor'
He is correct
ልጁ ሰለሴቶቶ ያለው አመለካከት እጅግ ኊላቀር ነው። በተለይ ስለመደፈር የተናገረው ነገር እጅግ ያሳፍራል ያሳዝናልም። ሲጀመር ስለ ሴቶች መብት ኢትዮጵያን ከሌሎች ሀገር ጋር ለማወዳደር ማሰቡ ራሱ በጣም ያስቃል
Anchi nesh yemtaskiw. He is 100% correct
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46:56 the worst person I ever listen in this podcast
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