Why a Man Is Not Spending Money on You
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With so many women willing to take care of men and spend on them just to have one, the men don’t feel the need to have to spend or compete for feminine women. I’m in my late thirties now and I can see a shift in their mindset. They used to be really into pursuing women. I enjoyed this video it’s good advice on how to vet properly and keep our value and standards high.
You are very right.
Yes, the world has changed but understand that you will always manifest what you believe you deserve regardless. The world will always operate on LEVELS of consciousness. This is not new, women paying men’s way, it’s just visible because of technology. Women have been doing it from the beginning of time but it was covered yet still there are women that get looked after by men still today. Chin up
I’m married to a masculine provider but I am learning still. You can never stop learning. I know I could never be with a man and be a man for him at the same time.
My husband is either feminine or wants to have a sugar momma and I don’t make enough $.
Oh dear 😅
Lmao dear
It's very sad to see a dominant of feminine energy men who are set in there ways . Thank you for these wisdom nuggets. I appreciate this content an you no sista chingi am glad I've choosing to be dating myself after recently coming out of a unequally yoked situationship . I discovered why I have attracted broken guys because I was the truth hurts and it's not easy to digest so I rather be alone season with Jesus Christ an my healing community than to settle being with any man.Iam also discovering that it's healing is painful no fun but it's worth the investment.I'm becoming a whole woman holistically unapologetically that sometime down the road I'll will attract a whole imperfect 💪man of integrity that's reality not a fantasy 💜💯✍️🏝️
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It's my similar take on cheaters. Cheaters are created. Cheating is a learned behavior. People are reared differently and most don't take this into consideration. It's time to refigure "Dating." So that the number of people who marry wrong/settle down with may become less. Appreciate your perspective. Love. Peace and light to all!
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The guy I was talking too when we do something he would pay my way without asking, but for my birthday that I invited him he didn't buy me anything on my birthday or my birthday dinner food.. so that made me like, hmmm... at the time I didn't trip. It's like when guys pay your way when you two by yourself it's like he does that to get something in return.
Sounds like he is disingenuous
Love you. Thank you for the insight and encouragement 🥲
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Girllll!!!
you said that very correctly growing up in Liberia in my community,
the men were provider PERIOD
That was the norm!!!
I was with my husband from 18 to 41 before losing him to cancer a few years ago.
Even though we both live in the USA,
He was still 💯 % the provider.
Thanks for this great information ❤❤
You’re welcome ❤️
Great content! Very helpful.
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This is amazing advice. I have learned a lot. Thank you Chengi!
You’re welcome ☺️
Very important topic
Thanks for shedding light on this 👍🏽
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I don’t know why anyone cheap wanna date me 😂 I will be a big bitch if you keep dropping the ball
I love your advice youre so pleasant, classy and at ease with your advice
Thank you 🙏🏾
This was an insightful video. I have a question though. If you are a woman who is of high character, high values and standards for herself, and not behaving in ways that devalues herself, would this alone attract a higher earning masculine male? Or does that woman need to wear designer or expensive clothing to signal to that man that she is high value? Or is it more the type of clothing you're wearing? What if that woman wears decent and modest clothing, would that attract the male? Any insights would help! Thank you.
It’s about how that woman FEELS about herself and what she feels she deserves. You can wear designer all day but if you have low self esteem you will attract low value men.
@@blackswanrelationshipacademy thank you Chengi 🩷
What is your advice to women that have men that never select a venue. They rely on you to select a restaurant or date idea?
You have to figure out what works for you and what doesn’t x
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What if you are in relationship with him and spend 80% of your time with him and he still doesn't really spend on you?
If it were me, I’d find a new one…
Why would you be in such a relationship?
He's using you and you are not benefiting anything positive.
@@blackswanrelationshipacademy He takes me to work and fetches me from work almost every day since I don't drive yet and ubering to his place everyday is a bit expensive. He buys the groceries in the house, I haven't bought anything since I started almost living with him, we go out maybe once a week to eat out but this is when he sort of complains but he still pays for the bill, the only thing he does not do is give me money, so I would like to know when exactly is it considered "a man not spending on a woman"?
@@londiwenene3412 It seems he is spending money on you and is giving way more than you sense it seems you claim you're only giving your time when he is giving his time and money to you. He is even driving you to work and back which is his time plus extra effort.
Just face it im unattractive
That’s right we all have free will and Black Swans 🖤 🦢 are not trying to force a man to pay 💰. It should be his pleasure to do so and if it is an issue then it is time to move on due to lack of compatibility.