6 Reasons We Self Sabotage
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The reasons
1)Low self worth
2)instant gratification
3) being surrounded by similar people
4)rejection/failure
5)familiar (yet harmful) patterns
6)all
Try to be an assertive person and identify the above reasons as they come up.
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I've been trying to be more assertive since the start of 2021 and DAMN is it hard, especially when you've spent your whole life neglecting your own needs to keep others happy and avoid conflict
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Lack of understand one's true self leads to self sabotage🙏
Ouch, this got me.I'm on my way to finding my true self.
That’s so true
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"With a side of constant self sacrifice for others, to avoid working on myself" .. ouch! That one hit *deep!*
You can't even imagine just how well-timed this insight comes!!! I've been pushing off writing my thesis for two months now. I'm gonna come back to this from time to time to reflect on my behaviour and progress. Thanks, Anna & team!!
Same here, but for longer. Any progress?
Good luck you!
Omg same here... How are you guys doing? Anything in particular that helps pushing through? 😣
Coincidences again... Was talking about this subject AND in desperate need of new glasses last night... BOTH stopping self sabotage and getting new glasses are going to take a while.
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Self improvement can be exhausting...On the other hand, what choices are there? Universal Law: What doesn't grow, dies.
Everything that grows also dies at some point.
Maybe we need to think about cycles. The thing is that we self sabotage keeping the same cycles in our life that needs to die to some new things to come up
Your value does not decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth
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Speaking for a friend, self-sabotage is a bit of a vicious cycle because you _don't_ see yourself as deserving good things, but in order to see yourself more positively, you usually need to improve yourself in some way. Like, this "friend" of mine doesn't like the way they look, but instead of working out and eating better, they get this delicious fried chicken every Tuesday for dinner.
It is a vicious cycle. Society is toxic. When we realize our own self worth, it makes things like exercise and eating healthier easier (though NOT easy). Change takes work but people won't be happy unless they are doing it for the right reasons. Self hatred regarding looks/weight (or it being perpetuated by toxic people) is not going to motivate someone to live a healthier life. It usually ends up in an eating disorder that continues messing with the person's mind and well-being. Everyone deserves to be loved and valued regardless of what they have for dinner. Once a person loves themself, taking better care of themself will feel much more achievable.
how about this... your friend tries to eat healthy for 6 days of the week and eats fried chicken on tuesday. small changes overtime can yield big results :)
Ironically, I'm absolutely putting instant gratification over my long term goals by watching youtube right now...
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Self-sabotaged in relationships galore. It's my special move
It's also super effective.
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Fortunatly, this list also tells you exactly what to do to NOT change your behavior on Accident, and ensure you stay exactly where you are right now
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*Restaurant McSaboteur menu*
-> Stew of self-pity, with cilantro
| recommended for drowning |
->impulsive spending
| will lead to financial ruin |
->not standing up for myself
| very simple and elegant |
->procrastination
| voted most popular meal |
->Self medicating with drugs and alcohol
-> Performing below my abilities on purpose
->Not showing up
->Comfort eating
->Interpersonal conflict
| the large portion is especially tasteful |
*Popular side dish*
->Self-sacrifice for others to avoid working on myself
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COS OPEN RELATIONSHIPS ARE FOR PEOPLE WITH NO ETHICS AND MORALS. NOBODY IS PERFECT, BUT THAT LINE SHOULD NEVER BE CROSSED. THAT'S JUST MY OPINION.
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Self-sabotage,This is a very serious issue explained very well..The tough part identifying, accepting. It takes decades for some to identify and accept while for some people a month. Thanks for explaining the truth, reasons..Keep doing all these to increase awareness..
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This really couldn’t have come at a better time
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Even assertive people can self sabotage
oh never knew that
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