Communication Professor Reacts to Dolly Parton Barbara Walters Interview
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I agree with you on this
You ignored that Barbara Walters gave Dolly the opportunity to respond to the ugly jokes that were being made about her. That was the purpose of this interview. I suspect that you are attracted to Trump and fascism and this is your mini campaign against journalism.
@@MalteseKat how did Trump get into this mix?
What a shameful display of callousness by Walters. 😳
Walters was so rude. I love Dolly- forever an optimist, smart, funny, talented beyond measure and a giver. Where is the original clip of this interview you said would be posted, please?
Dolly is the epitome of "killing them with kindness." She absolutely eviscerated Walters and never once had to speak an ill word of her.
That “hillbilly” outclassed Barbara Walters at every turn! Gotta love Dolly!
Not to mention, Walters was even uglier when she was younger.
Barbara's jealousy was showing
@@alexb7641 no need to bring physical appearances into it. That isn't classy.
@@WouldntULikeToKnow. idk it sounded like thats all this interview was. I didn't make her ugly.
@@alexb7641 no but your words and actions are reflections of YOU. Be careful not to become what you despise.
I love watching Barbra Walters’ face when she realizes she has been schooled and exposed as inferior by a ‘hillbilly’. ‘Yeah, I thought that’s what ya meant’ was my favorite line from Dolly. She’s pointing out how she wouldn’t be surprised at Walters’ low minded questions
That is what happens to educated snobs !!!
Exactly 👏🏾👏🏾
Yep, she's talked about how businessmen underestimate her, and she's got something on all of them (not sure if it's this interview or 60 Minutes Australia I've just watched, one of the two. And Barbara fell into that trap...she's a very smart lady, and the image is misleading. Not malicious, but I think she enjoys how she looks but alos uses the fact that people think 'dumb blonde' when she very much is not.
Exactly! Dolly is still alive and thriving 🥰 and this is what Barbara will be remembered for😂 the joke really was on her 🤡
Dolly and Barbra are almost wearing the same, Walter's is actually showing more skin...😂
When Dolly said on a talk show, "Do you know you much it costs to look this cheap?" I instantly fell in love with her, and I still am. What a woman.
My favorite quote! 💅
The strong eye contact when she says “i like myself, I like who I am” was the kill shot in this interview. It exudes honesty and begs the question: do you like who you are?
It’s amazing also because how many times do we hear that from anyone, let alone someone in entertainment? Never! “Low self esteem” is the thing now.
“I like who I am” “I’m sure of my talent” “I’m good where it counts, inside”. Spoken without a speck of haughtiness. Wow. What a well rounded person she is.
Yep yep. Don’t fk w Dolly. Patriarchs we’re dismissive. She quietly earned millions, and then helped charities. Queen
Ooh. didn't see it that way but now I do
@@skippy9659 helped charities is an understatement. Around 2016 we had wildfires here in East Tennessee and Western North Carolina that devastated the area. Dolly stepped up and donated $1,000/month for six months to 900 displaced families, regardless of their income. So much money had been donated to her foundation during that time that they paid $5,000 the final month. On top of that, they went case by case and kicked in extra where needed based on the financial hardships various individuals were faced with and helped with cleanup of some of the properties. In all, I believe they said she donated $12.5 million.
Perhaps the most touching, and to me telling detail about what type of a person she is, is when she made an official statement about the donations she stated that her managers of her businesses and theme parks were the ones making these donations, not her. She gave them credit for it even though it was her money. She’s an amazing person to say the least.
@@rihamy2nd Wonderful and talented lady.💛
“They weren’t very educated but they were very intelligent” I teared up when she said that. What a beautiful quote and something that more people need to understand.
Yea, they had Common Sense which many people, Educated or not , don't have. It's not really Common.
I live on the other side of the world as an engineer, but when I visit my family back in the US coal mining country, their pragmatic intelligence often astounds me.
Dolly Parton donated and still donated to a charity project to bring more books to low income disadvantaged families.....
School is just to obtain most of the time, a better job. A diploma can mean nothing, if a person does not learn from other people.
@@bobbywren123 me and my co worker always say “sense ain’t common and you can’t buy it at the store”
I think body language was a huge part of this interview as well. Dolly exuded confidence, leaning in to the interview, holding eye contact, a non-stop smile, and never once having to think about her answers. Baba Wawa just seemed like a petty, jealous, old hag who just had her ass handed to her in the prettiest, sweetest Southern accent.
Bless her heart!!!😂
"Hag?" How about we not demean women by using slurs? There is no time in a woman's life where society doesn't express extreme hatred for them. Do better.
Excellent!
Her responses were so considerate and full of class. Never stooping to Walters level, but remaining kind and respectful while staying true to herself.
Amazing how Dolly handled such disrespectful and manipulative questions with unshakable poise and charm. She is a ninja in this interview. What an incredible human.
Agreed!
Barbara couldn't get out of her East Coast snob mode. She clearly didn't understand Dolly and consequently asked a lot of aggressively condescending questions. If it were me, I'd have walked away from the interview, but Dolly had the poise and dignity to rise above the cheap shots.
I agree! Barbara Walters warped spirit lives on in her show "The View."
When I was working at The Stampede there in Branson: you *always* knew when she was there. Didn’t happen often, & nobody got crappy like you sometimes hear about when the boss comes- because I will tell you, I am certain Dolly would never have that. I was so young at the time but, the thing that stuck with me was it’s not just how she speaks. When she walks into a room, you know. You would have thought she was 10 feet tall: but we were both the shortest people in the room. I decided then & there that’s how I was going to be, too- just so unapologetically yourself.
@@davemathews7890 Biden is a joke and an embarrassment. You should be ashamed if you voted for it.
Actually Dolly smacked the living sh*t out of Walters, she talked about class and intelligence, while looking Walters straight in the face. Dolly is a treasure.
Yes 😂. Dolly knew she was winning.
Yep. Totally implies that Walters has none. (In this interview.) Lol.
@@angelwings7930 Except she wasn't trying to win, rather she was communicating her true thoughts. That's what makes her different than you.
Walters' tone sounds remarkably snobbish and pretentious. Dolly handles her brilliantly.
I totally agree! Dolly is a class act, totally genuine (under the wigs and makeup), whereas Walters is a superficial phony right to the bone.
Dolly is clearly very secure and unshakable. A great example to always keep calm, smile and don't let others' rudeness affect your shine.
Dolly Parton was about 32 years old here in 1977. For someone with minimal education she gave the most impressive answers to Barbara Walters. Even if the top public relationship firm were given these questions in advance they could not have answered them more eloquently than Dolly. Wow!
I love how she says “ I am secure in myself” while looking straight at Barbra exposing Barbras obvious envy, insecurity and obvious projection.
Barbara did not like successful, beautiful women.
I don't know if Barbara was envious of Dolly. She was honest, they both were.
She terrorized her guests with misogyny, ableism, homophobia, and addiction stigma - especially her female guests.
@@LizaFan "terrorized"? Oh please.
@@LizaFan Stop with those dumb -isms. Nobody cares.
I'm 50+ yr old lady who met Dolly at a Woolworth in Mobile Alabama when I was a 5 yr old. I had saved up my allowance to buy her Jolene album, stand in line and get her to sign it. I was a very "hillbilly" little kid that cried and was petrified to stand in front of her to just ask for her signature. She treated me like a little princess and my parents had never been that kind to me. I have never forgotten it. She will always be the picture of "Class" to me. ❤️
I saw her in Greenville SC when I was 5 or 6 and I was mesmerized. She was larger than life. I shyly stood there with my mouth gaped open, and she came over, sat down on her heels and asked my name, and how I liked the show. All I could do was smile like a clown, couldnt even speak!! lol
@@csutton161 I understand. She was so pretty in person and so very sweet to me. I couldn't help but cry. She just held me close and said "it's alright honey". I don't think I said more than I bought your album with my allowance. She signed it with a big heart. It meant the world to me. I haven't ever asked for or wanted another autograph.
Such a nice story.
You guys have woolworths? I thought it was a British thing
@@thatsthat2612 oh No Woolworth's was a great five and dime w/ a wonderful lunch counter.
I’m embarrassed to say that, as a child, I bought into the “Dolly is a joke” mindset. Now I’m grown and realize what an icon she really is ❤
Well, she knew how to get attention. Thankfully, enough people over the years have hung around for a few extra minutes to learn that she has more substance than most people do beneath the flashy exterior.
Odd. I’ve NEVER seen the “Dolly is a joke” mindset.
Guess I’m thankful I wasn’t exposed to those dim witted people. Glad you have seen the truth.😊
Your humility says a lot about you.
Kids can't be faulted. They mirror the adults. Sorry, but maturity and age don't always walk hand in hand.
I love that Dolly never shy's away from looking Barbara in the eye as well as the camera. You can tell she's proud of what she's saying.
That interview is 45 years old, and Dolly Parton is STILL an American treasure! Brilliant responses!
It's one thing that folks from TN take Pride in and are proud of where she came from.
And she's still prettier than Walters @ 25.
And Walters is dead and forgotten
45 years later and she's shilling for the clotting agent.
@@josephwinder6878 No, she is still alive, but she is very old...she will be 93 years old next month.
“Your kinda people” that hurt me. Being Mexican I’ve heard this a lot. Dolly handled it with such grace. She is a good role model for all
"your kind of people" is just a terrible, ignorant phrase, I can't believe Walters could use phrases like this in a professional interview and not be ashamed of herself.
@@kab9706 Totally! Unfortunately, she was very disrespectful to many. I don't know why she lasted so long as an interviewer.
Racism like this would not be allowed to happen nowadays
@Lifeafter40 I'm so sorry to hear that you've been subjected to such rude and hurtful remarks. I am absolutely appalled that anyone thinks that way, much less speaks out. I've never been on the receiving end of a remark like that, but it infuriates me whenever I hear it directed at anyone. Dolly not only handled it with grace as you said, but she showed how much class she has. Very intelligent and classy lady!
This isn’t racism as much as it is a class distinction.
"I am very real where it counts... and that's inside." You go, Dolly!!!
It may be cliché to say, but Dolly really is a National Treasure. She's one of the most talented, savvy artists in the music industry, a humanitarian and philanthropist, and one of the smartest, witty, well-spoken celebrities I've ever seen. Well done.
This goes beyond having a "bad" interview. This puts on full display of what Walter's true character was like.
Was like. 😝
Jealousy's a b*tch 😄
good point. which is also probably why her show the view is such a virus that wont die, lol
Oh, BS. She had a job to do, and she did it. That’s what she was paid to do. Dolly knew exactly what she was facing. No celeb went into a Barbara Walters interview unprepared. Dolly had people to coach her. And it tells you nothing about Walters’ character or personality off camera. Grow up.
I wouldn’t say true character, we don’t know that. She’s using interview techniques to try to get the juiciest interview possible. It’s an antagonistic style that was more popular at the time, not as much butt kissing back then. She clearly fell flat though and this is just an awful interview. She’s had shining moments but this was a low.
Crazy how Dolly Parton has transcended each generation and how each generation still appreciates her. Genius tier.
Well said! I didn't really know much about her until I moved to Nashville when I was 13, which was about 50 years ago. Was a tour guide at the Grand Ole Opry in college and met her a few times as well as some others and she was one of the very nicest people I've ever met in any walk of life. And interestingly, my great-niece who was only 23 and lives in New York City is a psychiatric nurse practitioner and a performance artist and she loved Dolly! And she loved Porter Wagoner as well! So yes, she transcends generations and regions of the country and appeals to many people from all areas.
I’m 33 and i started to see how special and real she was when i was 27
It’s that authentic, high vibrational energy she emits! She said it herself …she’s secure.
Bless Dolly!
Honestly I never knew of her but immediately become a fan because of how much I loved Hannah Montana
Jolene haunts me. That’s such a beautiful song. I’m really surprised no diva has come along and re recorded it.
I adore Dolly Parton. I'm moved to tears by her grace, kindness and strength. Growing up in the 70's, I remember Walters had a lot of respect as a female trail-blazing journalist. I'm scratching my head about this now. She is simply a "mean-girl" in this interview. She blew the opportunity to elevate another trail-blazing woman. There are many interesting inquiries about the challenges Dolly experienced instead of being demeaning. I wonder if Walters looked back at her approach with regret.
God bless Dolly. She has sent my children free books on a regular basis.
This was not an interview. It was an intended jealous attack and insult. Dolly handled this intelligently. Kudos to Dolly. She’s a real class act.
Dolly's body posture is incredible. She is at ease and leaning in with respect and interest. Without an ounce of meanness. She is a person who causes others expose their ugliness in her presence.
Jealousy ugliness shows their true colors what they are made of on the inside💩💩💩
Yes, interesting observation: I noticed that she had movement in her body, while Walters's body was a rigid as her thinking.
Can’t believe Walters is still alive. Thought she’d have died of the weight of her arrogance by now.
its that country class
Envy is an ugly thing and it shows extremely! Dolly is a knock out !
Class, talent, intelligence, inner strength, kindness, self actualization, even temperament, and a healthy sense of self. Those are all words to describe some of characteristics of Dolly Parton. Yes she’s physically beautiful. But it’s her internal beauty that really shines the brightest. She handled this interview with so much grace and class, it’s a masterclass in how to handle uncomfortable situations; she is clearly someone who does not allow the negative opinions of others form her own self worth. We could all learn a thing or two from the incomparable Dolly Parton.
She describes “her people” as being intelligent and having a lot of class and her answer and reaction to the insulting question exemplified that
Hahaha, Walters tried to depict Dolly as "cheap" and instead ended up proving how much class she has
I recorded Dolly back in 2004. She's the most down to earth and completely professional person you will ever meet.
She showed up an hour early for the 8:00am. session completely "Dolled up"and even apologized for being early and then offered to get me a cup of coffee. She is top class.
Such a sweet story. She is one of the sweetest stars.
Wow she is awesome!
Wow. As one who spent several decades on the fringes of show business, I can attest that the behavior you describe is EXTRAORDINARY.
And she’s BEAUTIFUL!
Saw an old pal t'other day. He worked for a company that did the load ins and outs for big concerts here in Liverpool /uk. A thankless task. At the Dolly date in 2011 he told me he and the lads were standing around on a break when suddenly they noticed this blond woman tottering over towards them. "Just want to thank you boys and let you know I appreciate the job you do" Dolly Parton ~ class act.
Barbara Walters was worth $170 million when she died. Dolly is worth $650 million. She knew how important it was to be kind to someone as disadvantaged as Barbara was. 😊
Dolly has also been married for over 60 years, Barbara got married and divorced over 4 times
And she would be a billionaire if she had not given so much away.
Money doesn't make the man or woman.
@@textrue9088 yes a billionaire several times
This is why I've always loved Dolly. Underneath her image which some people are quick to judge is an incredibly intelligent woman with a pure heart. Barbara was foolish for underestimating her and probably regretted it afterwards.
Dolly Parton has natural class, something Barbara Walters could only dream of.
Every single time I hear her sing coat of many colors I get choked up, nothing Barbara Walter's has ever said has moved me like that. Much less 40 years later.
Her hair may be fake but her character is real.
@@amberlinmchugh8115 omg me too. I can't get thru without bursting into tears.
True! Here Barbara looks like a malicious passive-aggressive older aunt, full of envy and stinging remarks. I admire Dolly's class, and I'd like to think I would have been equally poised if I was in her place, but I know I couldn't. I'd probably snap at Barbara.
Well stated 👏
I grew up in East Tennessee near where Dolly is from. She has done more for her community than any politician can possibly imagine- she has brought jobs and prosperity, but more important, shes given east Tennessee something to be very proud of. She is a queen to us, and reading these comments it makes me happy that the rest of the world sees it too. Dolly forever!
I’ve been to Tennessee and I must say, she truly is a queen to y’all 🥰. I said, Lawd, it’s like she’s JC out here 😂🥰. How wonderful for Dolly to be so loved by your hometown and at the same time, she loved that it’s where she came from.
I'm an East Tennessean too and very proud of Dolly too!
Agreed.
LOVE , the greatest thing on earth - the owners manual
In the movie “finding forester” “those that are not your blood , can become your blood” . Dolly’s love has often become part of the life-blood of SO many people that she has met and influenced along the way . “Above all Love one another “ -Jesus
What intelligence, class, and heart Ms. Dolly Parton has! She responded to Barbara Walters’ condescensions with grace, confidence, frankness, elegance, and humility. Huge Respect to you, Ms. Dolly Parton! You are an admirable human being and a model for all girls and women.
Dolly never drops her engaging smile the entire time. As long as she keeps smiling, not even a skilled interviewer like Walters can lay a glove on her.
“I’d never stoop so low as to be fashionable that’s the easiest thing in the world to do” was a very clever shot at Barbara Walker’s especially considering Barbara has always been very fashionable. I felt it was beautifully and intelligently executed.
💥👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🤙🏻
She had horrible fashion sense
Yes indeed i hadn't noticed that.A seemingly ususpicious but punctual answer.
Wow you people are really grasping at straws lol
It wasn't a "shot" at Walters. It was an honest statement about herself.
How she didn’t bite at the ‘joke’ bit is astounding.
It’s not just poise & class, Dolly is smart! She saw right through Walters.
It's easy to "see through" Walters. Walters is so obviously rude and condescending...easy to see through.
@@marjoriegarner5369 Seeing it is half the battle. How she handled it was better than how most people would.
I’d kill to be a fly on the wall in Dolly’s dressing room after this disgusting interrogation.
Hillbillies are smart. Smart enough not to underestimate their opponent. Walters is a smug elitist. She underestimated her opponent and was humbled.
How Walters became famous for being a journalist is beyond me. How Dolly became a Superstar has never came into question. God Bless you Dolly.
This interview has aged so incredibly well. I love Dolly!
The way Dolly handled the insults thrown at her made me want to cry. What a beautiful human being.
I’m from backwoods Georgia. My mom or grandma would not have been as gracious and pulled a knife for such a rude person.
So true. Dolly is so beautiful and so gracious.
It really is a gift to be able to dodge toxic people like she did here. I admire people with this natural skill. It takes much grace
Maybe I'm just not as soft as most. Walters asked questions, that "everybody" wanted to know about. I really don't see them as insults. And - just like with Jordan Peterson - it surprises me, when people are amazed, that they can answer polite and calmly - who cares? It's just some random "fool" asking - sometimes very stoopid - questions. Don't you teach your kids "Sticks and stones.. aso" any more? Grow the freak up.. "Would have pulled a knife"? Dang loonies..
I’m a 57 year old man, and it brought a tear to my eye. What a wonderful person she is.
I sort of met Dolly years ago while laying over at an airport in Tennessee. I saw her walking with her high-high heels on and two young teenage boys ran over to her to give her a hug and she was so sweet and kind and smiled at all of us and hugged those two boys! She was and IS a class act!!! She treats people with kindness and respect and I have a lot of respect for her!!
That's a great story, Sarah. Thanks for sharing.
I'd rather spend my time with "Dolly's People " than "Barbara's People " any day. Dolly has always been a LADY. She has compassion for others and obviously she's always been talented as a writer and singer. Definitely a class act!
@@michelledupras380 - Well, time will tell on all the famous "people " - details will shake out as to who they really are. We will be shocked.
Barbara Wa-Wa is a smug, rude, and throughly disgusting. A sharp slap might help her adjust her elitist attitude.
@@mariantreber8055 I don't think so. Dolly is a class act. However, Walters details are the ones that will shake out...and no one will be surprised. This interview exposed her true colors.
For a “hillbilly” she out smarted her on every level 😂
Dolly always has that down to earth class❤
I'm a black hillbilly and proud of it. Love me some Dolly Parton.
Plenty of us are out there
And I bet she’d love you because she loves humanity ❤️
I love you!!
I had the good fortune to see Dolly perform to a small, intimate group of about 30 people. It was just her sitting on a stool with her acoustic guitar sinIging, chatting and telling stories and jokes. It's one of my most cherished memories. Two of the funniest things she said I'll never forget. One was, "It costs a lot of money to look this cheap" and the other was "I can't believe how windy it was in Tampa today. When I got off of the plane the wind blew my hair all over the place. I had to chase it half way down the runway before I caught up with it!" And Barbara thought she would insult Dolly by asking if she worried that people think she's a joke. Underestimate Dolly at your own peril. She is the queen of the, "Well, bless your heart" technique.
You are very fortunate, Markus.
"She is the queen of the, "Well, bless your heart" technique." I never even knew what that was for the longest time - but if I ever needed a definition, this interview would be that :) Thanks for the chuckle, Markus.
If you watch Walters' interviews through the years, you'll notice that she often used a soft focus on herself, and had flowers in the picture frame next to her. And how she treated the interviewee depended upon whether she liked the person or not --- you'll see this with her female interviewees, some got soft focus and flowers too, while others didn't.
Dolly definitely put her ‘security’ out front and didn’t hesitate to be very blunt, but yet in her humble and sweet way - put Barbara in her place. Dolly is a treasure 🌸💗
You stopped short of one of dolly’s most iconic quotes where Walters asks her about people calling her a dumb blonde, and dolly says she doesn’t mind because she’s not dumb and isn’t blonde either
Lol
😮
👑 A+++
@@missmerbella 👍
It was this interview that made me a fan of Dolly as a person. Such self respect and dignity.
She's a class act all the way, Kath. Agreed.
Indeed! I bought her book after I saw it (my life and other unfinished business) it's very well written and honest.
Same!
@@iangorton3375 I also bought and read her book after seeing this interview 😆
She’s a real 👸🏽
From the first time I heard her when I was a little girl, I've loved Dolly. I was around 7 years old, and I really believed that she was singing just for me. I have followed her as she moved forward in her career, but mostly, I am in awe of her charitable work. I love love love Dolly.
I love Dolly so much. She’s always so fun and intelligent in interviews. She’s done so much charity as well. I live in West Virginia and my kids received free books from her for years.
One thing that I’ve always noticed about Dolly is that she has this Aw-shucks grin on her face, but there’s enough power, intelligence, beauty and confidence behind it that throws people off. She seems to enjoy herself when she dodges these questions, she has a quick wit and it appears that she’s really having fun.
Dolly is beautiful, intelligent and graceful.
Dolly is really, really, really smart!
Dolly has always known her aim EXACTLY... She knows her move 😉
Checkmate, Barbara!
I was never a fan of Barbara Walters but I'm not into country music either. Dolly's choices of dress and hairstyles are very different from mine, but I admire her tremendously as a person and a songwriter. She is a stellar human being, warm, strong, kind, intelligent, honest, humorous and immensely talented. The kind of person it would be a pleasure to relax and spend an afternoon with. Class is not in how you dress . . . it's in who you are. She outclasses Barbara by a country mile.
Great comment!
Beautifully stated! She really is leagues above Barbara.
Yeah I have to say, I love this comment too
If anyone listens to Jolene and can't give this woman respect for her song writing.... They're just lying to themselves
Corny clothes were just a technique. Clearly worked well for an artist
“ iIt was country class but a great deal of class.” One of the best responses ever. Barbara had no idea who she was talking to ;Dolly, or that southern women can read more than words when people speak and aren’t intimidated by others no matter who they are or where they are from.We don’t try to hurt others or insult them, however we aren’t going to put up with any mess from anyone trying to put us down or play us as superficial. We are sure of ourselves while staying humble. I don’t want to be like anyone else but who I was created to be. I take inspiration from Dolly and many people but know I’m the only me and live accordingly. Being real where it counts is everything. I never minded telling a joke or letting others think whatever they want about me and not taking false opinions or liars to heart.
Dolly said it in her book something like “It takes a lots of money to look this cheap.” Very honest statement…… it gave me LOL moment.
This interview is proof that lack of education does not equate to stupidity, nor does a great education automatically bestow true class. Dolly outclassed Walters all the way!
It takes guts and steel spine to stand up for yourself without falling into the trap of getting mad. She handle's this "mean girl" moment with poise and grace.
True AND after the interview, Barbara probably left there thinking they were on great terms. And because of how amazing Dolly is, they probably were. What a unique woman.
Dolly was ready for it. She was the butt of endless (stupid) jokes by every half-assed comedian, talk show host, reporter Etc. Dolly was used to everyone having an opinion on her breast’s for decades.
I'm not from the USA. I'm not into country music. But every time that I've seen bits of interviews or videos of Dolly Parton speaking I've always admired her courtesy, class, wittiness and not showing any kind of shock. She is a tought cookie with a smile. Beware, she has been doing good in so many ways and she will continue if you like it or not. Hat off to her.
Dolly really grew up a kind of poor most Americans will never experience. She isn't one of those stars who had wealthy parents and connections. Read about her someday. I cried and developed a profound respect for her. She really does love the community she grew up in. When she began to earn money she made sure to go back home and create opportunity for people in her community to live better too. She didn't just donate money, she intenttionally created jobs for them. That's a big part of the reason she created Dollywood. She really is an intelligent and compassionate woman. I love her!
Master class in Southern charm. Her first answer about having Country class was a sweet but direct contrast to Barbara's utter classlessness. Her comment about how creating her own look takes a lot more thought than simply following fashion was a knock on fashionable people. Finally, emphasizing how much she likes who she is seemed to say, do you like who you are, Barbara? Bravo Miss Dolly!
Beautifully said. You nailed it.
Absolutely Southern Charm. My New Orleans Grandma would have loved this.
I heard that, as well. Dolly had been looking at BW the whole time, no doubt reading her like a book. She was sweetly contrasting her self esteem with BW’s lack thereof very pointedly. Finest girl-fight ever. Most wholesome use of passive aggression ever. Brilliant woman.
It is now decades later, and Walters is probably still applying dressings to all the burns Dolly landed on her in this interview without her even knowing it.
The View that Barbara Walters started like 25 years ago, Those women on there now, need to watch this interview. They could learn a lesson in how to behave like a LADY, from Dolly!
Dolly is the best. I’ve never seen her be negative or rude. She has true class and grace.
"You don't have to look like this" don't I wish I was so lovely inside and out
She is lovely. Dolly for president 💕
I don’t think Dolly could ever receive a “check-minus” on ANY interview or ANY response she’s ever given! Obviously, no one is perfect. But Dolly is just about the damn nearest thing to perfection. Not only musically, or from our perspective on the “outside-looking in,” but as a centered, real individual-Perfection is an illusion, and a mere word, at that, I’m aware; but honestly, you’d be hard pressed to know of or discover anything senseless or clueless ever uttered by Dolly Parton. Ever, in her life. Maybe as an ignorant child she could’ve said something off the wall or immature, as we all have. Some more than others! Some learn quickly from their childhood mishaps, errors and dramas, and it’s called growth.
I bet you that if Dolly ever “acted-up” as a child-which I am tempted to doubt-she would’ve been reprimanded fast enough (and it likely occurred early in life) to know that she needs to grow UP fast, as well!
Not to mention, when you’re living in the Smoky Mountain wilderness, do you have m time to act out? No! They had fun of course. The music her family made growing up was their time to let loose, their entertainment and their individual expression “moment”. The rest of the days and nights, Lord!! You better believe that it’s all about survival y’all! There’s animals to tend to, food to prepare, canning, preserving, plants to sow, eggs to gather, chicken coop to clean out, trees to pick and prune, produce to sell maybe, animals to possibly hunt or butcher-that’s not counting all the children’s needs and the domestic duties!! The kitchen. The outhouse. The floors and windows. The roof might need fixing up or any leaks addressed. Might need to bear proof the animals and food stores as well. Kids in those settings grow up with class and pride. And Dolly exemplifies this with humor and talent.
Classy people have classy children regardless of income or “perceived class” status, level of society, etc. Classy children know to not speak unless spoken to, and don’t get too showy and hyper when you are engaged by adults!
Dolly is one of the classiest people in the entertainment world. The young “stars” of today really need to take a chapter out of her book in how to dress for attention, the one thing is Dolly’s makeup has been on point for over 50 years, trendy for the times but not over the top ever, and her clothing may be over the top, but almost everything is actually covered and her hair is really her signature after her voice.
"...because I am secure." The eyebrow raise there speaks VOLUMES. Really, her body language throughout the interview could be its own video. Dolly knew exactly what she was doing/saying, and I love her all the more for it.
What an amazing example of how classy Dolly Parton is, and highly intelligent too because she had Walters number from the start and effortlessly dealt with her ridiculous questioning. I’ve loved Dolly since I was a little girl, partly because I always felt she was so true to herself and despite such talent seemed down to earth and honest, and decent. She hasn’t changed from that, still the same gifted and beautiful soul.
She's such a fabulous role model.
@@theprousteffect9717 Be like Dolly.👍
Dolly is literally the most beloved Feminist. Never let men or women break her
I like the kind of person you are...TOO! DOLLY, actually I ADORE the kind of person you are!
She's about as good as it gets
Dolly is a true class act. She has spent her whole life taking the high road. Someone to admire and celebrate.
I aspire to this. It's such a great way to be ❤
There's an inherent misogyny in Walters' questions that is all the more upsetting coming from a woman talking to another woman. It would be easy to call this a product of the times, but Walters clearly knows what she's doing. Blaming her assistant, for example, expresses a consciousness of guilt. Sadly, there are no questions of art, or talent or inspiration. And while Parton did indeed take the high road, I do wish she had held Walters more accountable.
I've often thought the same about Walter's. It's a shame to be so catty. 😕
Dolly is and always has been a very intelligent woman and she always handles herself perfectly in interviews. *It's a common attitude to underestimate people who are born in the south and/or born into poor families. We are stereotyped...just as Walters tried to do here with Dolly.* But instead, Walters came off as rude and insulting. *Great job Dolly!*
Any person that try to underestimate
Another person,is a soulless creature
Or bad seed.
As a southern woman, I totally agree. Southerners are often viewed by non-southerners as ignorant and classless people and that simply isn't true. Sure, there are some who are ignorant and classless. But there are ignorant and classless people all over the world. Not just in the south. Most southerners aren't though. Dolly is a prime example of that.
Dolly is a bloody great artist - fantastic individual
@@MarcyTrivette do not say that! I love southern accent & southern mentality 🤗
I think Dolly was wearing what she was wearing to play around with the stereotypes. She was ironic and hipster before those words and ideas even existed.
Clearly Dolly is the most intelligent of the two and a class act with Southern manners and charm.
Dolly Parton has always been very much of a lady. Her kindness, generosity and caring are legendary.
Mad respect for Dolly. I wouldn't have handled this anywhere near as well as she has. Some of my biggest regrets are conflicts in which I "took the bait" when someone took the low road.
That quiet "I thought that was what you meant." was such a good thing to do, because it made it clear that Dolly DID understand Barbara was being rude, while also:
A) showing the shot didn't hurt her
B) lampshading that the question was rude while smiling politely
C) leaving no room for false interpretation
D) offering a chance for her interviewer to take back the weird question about how big her breasts were at 11 y.o. without sounding unwarrantedly aggressive or meek.
Yes, agreed on all points!
Great breakdown!
Yes! Dolly should definitely teach a class on communication. I would definitely benefit from it. ❤
D = 🥇🏆
Dolly more than held her own. Lovely and smart
Walters froths at the mouth with jealousy and Dolly’s class shines through.
I couldn't argue against that view!
yup
Exactly! when she told Dolly "you don't have to look like this" and then tried to soften the blow with "you're very beautiful", i was like "that's right, that's why you're envious of her and need to attack her appearance".
Yea. Walters’ motives seemed bad.
This is such a great example of toxic feminism.
I don’t think I’ve ever seen someone that exudes a mix of total self-confidence, class, intelligence, and humility like Dolly. A true original.
Dolly Parton is one of my favorite humans because she is secure, authentic, kind, and smart AF! Barbara Walters on the hand is one of my least favorite humans because she had to insult others to make herself feel better about herself and it all played out in this interview! Love ya Dolly!! 💗
Man she was completely correct about "her people"! Highly intelligent, and full of class :)
Yes! She was a living example of what she was saying. Amazing.
Absolutely
@@alexanderlyon Was ? She still is !
I think that could also be taken as a full of class, un-like yours”
@@TheBeanHome she definitely showed better raising.
This is why Dolly is so loved! She is a beautiful human being!
Absolutely ❤️❤️❤️
Loved by everybody, too. I was so moved when the Highwomen called her out on stage with them at the Newport Folk Festival and the audience welcomed her with delerious happiness. She's a class act and top of the line singer/songwriter as well.
She is❤
She just oozes southern charm! The only thing Dolly didn't do was, she didn't say, "Well, bless your heart!" to Barbara with the sweet smile still on her face.
Barbara Walters asking, "Where I come from...?" Her father ran a nightclub, it isn't as though she grew up on Park Avenue (not that it should even matter). I "met" Dolly Parton at the Minneapolis Airport in 1982, I was coming home from college. She was sitting with the "regular people", not in the VIP Lounge, and could not have been nicer when I asked her for an autograph. Great memory of a Great Lady.
I've also met Dolly in the late 70's when I was a hotel clerk. She is a very sweet and gracious lady. Has more class than most people, especially Barbara Walters. Loved Dolly then, love her now!
I love love love her too!
Barbara sets the bar pretty low for respect... and ever so high for arrogance. How she made such a successful career speaks volumes about the American public.
What Dolly did in this interview is the traditional southern way women used to be taught to react. You meet aggression/rudeness with being sickenly sweet. My grandma said "you know what really gets at people, when you don't let butter melt in your mouth". When a southern woman says "well bless your heart" or calls you honey or darlin it isn't them being sweet lol. She also used the other old hillbilly adage "they can't bother you if they don't know where your goats tied" which basically means that if they don't know what bothers you then they have no power over you.
Spoken by a true southerner! Some of us was raised right! N we have our own language! God bless ya!
So very true. My mother grew up in the Kentucky hollars & there's never been a person who could one up her or make her answer something in discomfort. People who grow up dirt poor financially are the most intelligent, thoughtful but definitely strong & with the warmest heart. Your answer was right on. Thanks!
My dad would always say "don't let them get your goat!" And I knew what he meant through context, and I never even asked if I had a goat. It was just normal like "duh dad they won't get my goat." But hearing it again like that highlights the weirdness of that phrase in my head
Well, love your heart, honey.
Straight up truth!
Coach Lyon, you are educating people to fill a real gap, specially for non native English speakers, immigrants from various respectful backgrounds and life styles, heritage of ancient values. These people get rubbed, robbed, ridicule, sent red herrings and lur into "Walter's" level even at high positions. What you do here Mr, is legit education. Could you do more on school, university, workplace kind of daily scenario videos for the benefit of teens, young adults and community in general.
I’m 68 and we’ll educated. My father grew up in the Cumberland Gap. He enlisted after his high school graduation and enlisted to go off for WWII. He stayed behind after the end of the war to assist in the liberation of the camps. That’s the caliber of thes “hilbillys”. He went to night school for 11 years, received his bachelor degree when I’m in first grade. He started in the military as private in the Army Air Corp and retired as a full Colonel in the Air Force. He couldn’t stand Barb, or Dan rather. For good reason. He was very real and proud of his heritage as am I. Great analysis of the interview. Dolly is a quite the lady.
"I am sure of myself as a person and I am sure of my talent". I got cold chills when she said this, even after being bombarded with those ridiculous questions. We can ALL learn a few things from Dolly Parton.
Dolly has always been masterful at deflecting rudeness and asinine questions. A master class in class!
🥲And this is why Dolly is a living legend, and WE will always love HER. Such a great example for us all.
Dolly is such a class act. Amazing woman on and off stage.
When Barbara said “you don’t have to look like this”, Dolly’s response actually brought a tear to my eye. She is so genuinely good natured, her personality shines. She is so inspiring, how she doesn’t let people bring her down and she remains true to herself. Dolly Parton will always be one of the greatest American icons of all time. 💗
Look at dollys eyes , they smile . She’s genuine
@@kapb4149 When Dolly responded " I know exactly what I'm doing". Spot on
@@deverekohler7717 Always hated Barbara Walters.
I would give anything to look like Dolly than BW. I think Barbara was jealous.
Would Blahbra say to Elvis or Liberace " you don't have to look like this"?
An interviewer once said, "Dolly, you are always so happy." Dolly replied, "No, I always act like I am happy because I have an image to uphold." Dolly likely wanted to snap at some people but she always maintained her composure. Dolly likely wanted to snap at Barbara but Dolly maintained her composure to uphold her positive image.
She acted more professional than Walters, IMO.
Much harder to not take the bait then to not realize you've been baited.
Yes exactly it just feels like talking to those annoying aunties. They are always gonna be toxic and manipulative openly but you just answer openly how u see ur life. Taking the high road is much calmed and helpful then one uping. Unless u are in a bad mood then it might happen.
I can see why Alexander Lyon is a communication coach. I immediately felt at ease watching him talk and his tone of voice is soothing; but engaging. It was like he was in front of me irl. He seems approachable, welcoming, kind, gentle, helpful. He helps children with this channel😭😭. Immediate subscribe.
And he responds to comments! Ha. Thank you so much for your kind words. And welcome aboard!
"I've always been pretty well blessed" I was impressed by all the conversation throughout the video, thank you once again!
I saw Dolly Parton in concert in my hometown, Glasgow, Scotland, a few years ago, and she was stunningly brilliant. She’s so charming, and you know the charm is not fake. This is a woman who has been in the celebrity business for many, many years now, yet you can tell that nothing has changed in her personality or outlook in life. Some people would say she comes from humble beginnings, but she came from rich beginnings. Not rich by monetary meaning, but rich in the aspect of respect, decency, and love. And she’s never allowed celebrity to affect her. She’s an absolute diamond of a person.
I love the way you phrased this! I wholeheartedly agree!
Well said! Dolly is top class!!☑️☑️☑️
"One is only poor, only if they choose to be" ~ Dolly's "Coat of Many Colors"
I’ve always been curious as to how Dolly learned to handle herself so well? She’s never been involved in any type of scandal, nobody’s had anything negative to say about her, and decades later she’s still always confident, funny, & poised!!
that is how most Appalachian people behave ...they have a humbleness and cool demeanor...but if pushed and pushed watch out...
She's just that classy a woman. Fun fact, when Dolly Parton goes out in public not for show she doesn't look or dress anything like that so she's not recognized. The "look" is just that, a look.
Correct! It's called being raised right. All parents should teach these lessons:
Be humble.
Be kind.
Be respectful.
Be generous.
Don't lie, cheat or steal.
Be the bigger person.
Stand up for the weak or voiceless.
Stand your ground & don't be taken advantage of.
Always thank God for your blessings because there's always someone who's struggle is worse.
When you can, give a hand up to those behind you who are trying - not a handout to those who refuse to work hard.
Love fully.
she's definitely been wrapped up in drama, it's just been a very long time since it's been brought up
I think it's because she's her authentic self, with everyone. She never pretends & she always has a kind generous heart. She's one of a kind in the entertainment world. *Much love & respect Dolly.*
Body language speaks tons to me in this interview. Despite the mean questions Dolly never leans back, on the contrary she stays were she is reaffirming with her posture that she really is confident with who she is. Doing so she doesn’t loose the human connection with the interviewer giving the audience a sense of calm intimacy rooted in her self consciousness. Just amazing
What an amazing personality: kind, content with herself, confident in her abilities and humorous -> sure of herself, her values and her abilities
I met Dolly Parton when I was very young, I believe I was 6.
My grandparents took me to see her perform and she talked to us afterward. I was only 6, but that conversation stuck in my mind all of my life because such a famous person was the nicest person to me and I was nobody just a little girl. She talked to me as if in the moment she would rather be talking to me than moving on to everyone else waiting. She told me I had beautiful brown eyes. I wish I could have met her again but I never did. I am 46 now
Amazing. I truly believe Dolly Parton is the best American. I wish more of us could handle ourselves with honor and kindness and strength the way that Dolly does.
This is a sweet story!
You don’t need to have a PhD to be gracious and welcoming. Dolly was that all by herself. We should all try to be more like her. Thanks for the video.
Then you are hanging around with the wrong crowd of PhDs.
AMEN!
@@redfishswimming
I bet you know TONS of PhD's
😂🤭
I live in Silicon Valley so PhDs are a dime a dozen. As a group they are like all people - some good and some bad. No absolutes.
@@chino3796 bet you no zero..
Dolly Parton shows so much grace and intelligence in this interview. She obviously knew what Walters was doing and easily chose not to get down in the gutter with her.
Yes Dolly, I can believe your people possess innate class and intelligence because you demonstrated these qualities repeatedly during this "interview."
Dolly has inspired me to take the high road in difficult situations because she modeled exactly how it is done with grace and a shining inner beauty.