The man should be very happy that he has a very hardworking and supportive woman by his side. If they are to split the bills, then they should also split the chores; else he should take full responsibility of the bills while the woman take care of the kids and the house chores.
This is a tough one and not sure how anyone can advice on such a complex issue because to be candid, the guy sounds like he has a lack of regard for his wife. He should be able to understand that she will be tired after a nightshift and should be able to support by taking the kids to school and she do the afternoon run. Back home, people also get aid, so it's not even the same because when people come here, they dont always have that extended family assistance. They possibly need a mediator who is objective to both parties eg like their pastor who may be able to counsel them on this matter.
If he wants her to keep doing those things she shouldn’t even work, because she can’t be awake all night and come back in the morning and do all those. Firstly the husband should help out as well because she’s working and will also help out with her finances so it should be shared responsibility among them. It’s very simple 😊. Lastly: if the husband needs her to do all those he should be a 100% provider 😁.
You spilt bills and expect her to be 💯 % traditional African woman 😂. She shouldn’t come back to Nigeria id advice she meets their church pastor or anyone her husbands listens to, they should be a third party in this case. The man needs to be talked to,
The man should be very happy that he has a very hardworking and supportive woman by his side.
If they are to split the bills, then they should also split the chores; else he should take full responsibility of the bills while the woman take care of the kids and the house chores.
That’s what she said to him but the man is not even ready to talk 😢
This is a tough one and not sure how anyone can advice on such a complex issue because to be candid, the guy sounds like he has a lack of regard for his wife. He should be able to understand that she will be tired after a nightshift and should be able to support by taking the kids to school and she do the afternoon run. Back home, people also get aid, so it's not even the same because when people come here, they dont always have that extended family assistance. They possibly need a mediator who is objective to both parties eg like their pastor who may be able to counsel them on this matter.
Thank you so much,she’s reading the comments.i feel for her….
If he wants her to keep doing those things she shouldn’t even work, because she can’t be awake all night and come back in the morning and do all those. Firstly the husband should help out as well because she’s working and will also help out with her finances so it should be shared responsibility among them. It’s very simple 😊. Lastly: if the husband needs her to do all those he should be a 100% provider 😁.
Am telling you my dear,some men are something else 🥹🥹🥹
Take the children back home if possible so they both can work since he wants a working woman. She shouldn’t leave the house
She doesn’t want to leave without her kids 😢
You spilt bills and expect her to be 💯 % traditional African woman 😂. She shouldn’t come back to Nigeria id advice she meets their church pastor or anyone her husbands listens to, they should be a third party in this case. The man needs to be talked to,
Thank you so much dear for sharing your thoughts,I appreciate 🙏🏽🙏🏽