@@phonseng-hs6tpThat’s why I never trust any couples that are into the whole Open Marriage Poly thing. 9/10 it’s normally the woman bringing it up as an excuse to cheat while still getting perks of a relationship
I guess he felt like he didn’t shoot her so he had nothing to worry about, but that’s one thing people need to understand once you go into interview rooms you get your lawyer whether you’re innocent or not
@@TheBroknPezDispenserwell, he was only shooting because she was cheating, so really, her choice to hurt him, caused him to hurt her. Emotional abuse is very harmful, debatably more than physical, because of the long term ripples it has. I feel like abused spouse syndrome could be a viable defense if his lawyer knows what they are doing. Or is that defense just not for female victims of abuse? You reap what you sow, and all that.
The lover is not an innocent party in all this!! What a POS to sleep with a man’s wife for 9 years and then have a pregnant “fiancée” on the side!!! Just gross!!
dude, the dead wife is the side chick, not the pregnant woman he is living with. it wasn't some passionate affair, she was a booty call for 9 years. he would hit her up every few months or so.
@@barbrothers2so its ok to have a side chick while you have a fiance with children and currently pregnant with your current baby?😂 then act like you dont know whats going on when the side chick pulls up to the house saying you dont know them? Nah bro regardless of who was the main and the side. The dude is still a huge pos
Amen brother...something I instill in my 9 and 10 year old sons everyday...i let them know about woman..and teach them thay controlling your emotions is what makes you a man.
Was that Twain though? Maybe. I think traditional marriage vows are no longer relevant in today's society, and set us up for failure almost from the start. Cheating is nothing new. It has been well studied and is most often a symptom of something wrong within the marriage that was either purposefully or inadvertently, left unresolved and allowed to become unstable enough that one or both partners are likely to seek comfort in some other way. Sometimes that's cheating. Sometimes it gambling or working long hours to avoid the home. We all know what that looks like. But it's not a crime. It's the breaking point of a relationship. The time of reckoning. It's up to both to decide to end the relationship or not, to participate in the repairing of whatever caused the betrayal in the first place or not (knowing both of them hold some responsibility), to understand that it still might not work out, to not hold the cheating partner hostage under some 'trust earning' rule. That approach has never worked. You either fully forgive, fully move forward, or not. Holding a grudge won't fix anything, even if you do break up. You have to let it go. Because, cheater or not, you don't own that person and you cannot stop that person from whatever they want to do. People need to understand that a partners vows to you are just hopeful promises made under the most perfect conditions. You still don't own each other. You are still two people, both with free will, who know that life does change. Circumstances change, people change, stuff happens, and nobody is perfect. I think it would be useful that at the same time two people decide to be life partners, they also have to be able to say, out loud to each other, that they are both willing and capable of leaving that relationship if certain conditions arise. Like abuse, like those unexpected life changes that might involve a career move that won't work for the other, like children and parenting, like falling out of love with each other or falling in love with someone else, or a myriad of other possibilities. That is love and respect for the individuality of another and oneself, and the understanding that we cannot predict the future nor rely on some unrealistic promise that a couple will stay together forever no matter what, or even love each other forever. Clearly, that idea has rarely proven to be true in reality. And it shouldn't be. We could avoid a whole lot of conflict, and all this DV going on, if we just decided that each and every one of us, whether in a committed relationship or not, has the right to make changes in our own lives, independent of any influence from anyone else, including ending a relationship, and that right has to be acknowledged and respected from day one of any relationship. There are responsibilities to children, shared finances, etc. that need to be settled maturely and legally. But if we truly respect each other, love each other, we MUST, from day one, accept the other person's future decisions, even if they are hurtful (as in cheating), and plan ahead for how that will be handled as much as is possible. We own nobody. Even our partners. And if you truly love and respect yourself and your partner, then be willing to walk away from them, be willing to let them walk away from you. So much pain and destruction could be avoided if we just lived by this rule.
Found out most women cheat, 70% of divorces is started by women. They get bored feel like spark is gone and a coworker flirts with her and she spreads it open.
@@meetdamakaRIp? If she wasn't being a shady POS none of them would be in this situation. She destroyed multiple lives including her own. We reap what we sow. Sad situation but she isn't who I feel for. Hopefully there's no children involved.
As soon as you find out your wife is cheating on you it's time to cut your losses and get her away from you. Going after whatever strange she was shacking up with is the worst possible idea.
He’s on like three different mind altering substances and JUST got in a shootout with the guy banging his wife. His mind palace is a little disorderly right now.
I don’t condone anybody being shot and killed, but this lady created this whole situation situation out of selfishness and no care for her own husband or her affairs partner
@@TheEvilQueenHasSpoken It's cheaper and he gets to stay in the house. Mi is a no-fault divorce state like many, assets will get divided equally if amicable.
Well rightfully so 😂😂, he initiated a shootout, reason his Wife is dead. If he never started shooting out of the car his wife would've never gotten shot
Because it was self defense, the husband was the aggressor and the way it is supposed to work is that the aggressor gets charged and is held accountable for the crimes.
He found out 3 years in and she told him she was done cheating and wanted to be with him. He found out a month ago that she lied and was still seeing the other guy.
@Anonymouslytired Ah ok, I thought he knew for the entire 9 years and was waiting for her to suddenly change and be faithful. Either way, he should have left the first time he found out. Once a cheater always a cheater!
Even the Bible warns about this. Proverbs 6:34 says, "For jealousy makes a man furious, and he will not spare when he takes revenge” these situations never end well
People have been ruining their lives for a cheating spouse for forever. They're still doing it and they will keep doing it. It's like they never learn from other people's mistakes.
Was in a long term relationship for many years, now I'm single. When I see stuff like this, single life doesn't seem so bad. There are so many crazy people out there. The dating pool when you get older is not great. Think I'll just be content with my life and if something comes along, something comes along.
Wife could have ended this with a phone call. Instead , she drives there with gun carrying husband and with her lover’s pregnant fiancé there. What could go wrong?!!
It's monogamy they do not grasp or want to grasp. As a species I don't think we were meant to be with only one person, but we evolved into that because of religion and politics.
@@shawn6986 No, he went to his property with a gun, looking for trouble. Daniel was defending himself and his family. He may be a scumbag, but he has every right to defend his home.
@@shawn6986 I don’t know what was going through his mind at the time, I’m sure he was in a heightened state. He had been shot twice. I agree that shooting at the retreating car is not textbook self defense, but the husband started the whole confrontation. As far as I know Daniel wasn’t charged, but yes he definitely could have. People with guns need to know the law and rehearse the law in their head. The little things matter.
If you listen to video, as they were backing up, the husband was shotting out the window. They were still on his property when he was shooting out the window. He had a right to shoot back.
Justified homicide , Michigan is stand your ground , his fault , you can’t go on someone’s property and fire rounds, unfortunately regardless the the deal
Break up with someone if you're going to cheat on them. Doing it repeatedly for 9 years, I have little sympathy for the wife or her toy. You get what you give.
Totally agree.....you want to betray your spouse like that after making vows and oaths like it's nothing but want to stay in the marriage for the financial stability, self-image or whatever other selfish reason whilst repeatedly satisfying your lust with someone else.......she brought it on herself.
As the disgusting slime that had been unfaithful to someone IN THE PAST, I completely agree. There is little sympathy when you simply have to lay in the bed of your own making. I saw the damage I caused back then and could not fathom doing it to anyone else.
"Stay away from my wife"? Nah should have told him to keep her the first time. What a joke. now look at the crap you're in. And the wife f**ked around and finally found out.
@@BirgerJarl-it5lz please do explain your reasoning for saying okay Boomer we really want to understand your stupidity level please break it down for us
She cheated for 9 years and then brought her husband there to fight for her? She’s such trash. Makes me sick he just lost his freedom now too. Just sickening . Cheating should be a mandatory jail sentence. It ruins lives
That cop interviewing Matthew is the reason why I'll never talk to cops without a lawyer. this guy said he wasn't mad before he drove to the house, and yet the cop is coursing him to say he was.
I did an interrogation after I was falsely accused of a crime because the Detective said that he wanted to get my side of the story. Started by asking me about the college I was going to and what I like to do for fun and while we were talking he randomly asked "then at what point did did you climb up 4 floors of the apartment before you broke in and why there is no evidence of it?". I couldn't believe it. I got really mad and told them to get tf out of my condo and hired an attorney and all of the charges they had against me were dropped when we showed THE SAME EVIDENCE to the DA that I had printed out and given to the cops. THEY TRIED TO BEND MY STORY TO MAKE IT LOOK LIKE I DID THE CRIME WHEN I HAD PROOF THAT IT CLEARLY WASNT ME. F THE POLICE.
Well he gets out of the car yelling, so yes he was mad before he drove to the house. Also, he's chasing after the guy, shooting at him, and fires while he's pulling away. He was the aggressor the entire way
Cheating guy lucked tf out. His affair died and the husband went to jail for it even though he literally killed her. Maybe got to keep his current marriage but I hopefully doubt it. He's fostering his old folks and his sister lives next door. Dude lives in a bubble where his ego is probably stroked every single day. The wife probably is ignorant enough to stay. What a story.
@@ryantantalo4233no he didn’t, the lover and wife precipitated the circumstances causing all of this to transpire in the first place. He should be charged.
@@ryantantalo4233 How was the husband the aggressor?? He knew about this for 9 years and didn't do anything. He lying garbage wife did this and the lover was just as gulity. As far as I am concerend the cheating wife got what she deserves and the Lover should be charged. The husband is the victim here all the way around!!
@@lesliesmith719 As the husband was backing up in the car he shot again. When the lover returned fire he hit the wife through a passenger side windshield and killed her.
@@fumblingdetective Thank u for responding. But again the lover shot down a driveway into a windshield killing her. He had to know that it was reckless and the outcome was high for killing one or both of them. And the car was retreating. They we're leaving the scene. Charge both but the lover only KILLED THE woman not the husband.
@@lesliesmith719 After the husband went to lover's home on his property he pulled a gun and started shooting first. When he was backing up and trying to flee he shot again. Fire was returned and wife killed. Self defense for the lover and assault with intent to murder for the husband...
@@lesliesmith719yeah I don’t get it either and completely agree with you they have to charge the person that actually killed her! The police must know the boyfriend honestly. It doesn’t matter what the husband did to the boyfriend it’s who did what to the person that was killed and that was the wife and the person that shot her weather by accident or in purpose was the boyfriend so he should be charged with manslaughter and the husband also charged but could be attempted murder on the boyfriend but to get charged for killing the wife is ridiculous!
@@larrysmith2655women still do it. It's so easy for women to cheat now due to social media and dating apps. It was more difficult to get away with it before the internet started booming.
My grandpa walked in on his wife (not my grandma, but the woman after her) and his best friend when he came home early from work. He unloaded his entire revolver on her, and while he was reloading his friend jumped out the 2nd story window. My grandpa made it downstairs and out the front door and was shooting at his friend who was running down the street naked but he never hit him. He did 9 years.
@@xgtwb6473 wait what? Being cheated on doesn't make u a beta. And going berserk on both of them definitely isn't beta. What are they teaching you young men
@@rustyshackelford5892 Or before… but I think you misunderstood my comment. Also the husband found out 3 years in but for whatever reason chose to stay. 🤷
Adults who cheat don't realize the lifelong mental health consequences for their children! If your marriage isn't working out, just cut your losses and leave. smdh
@@addorsubtract650they came over to his home with violence. He was defending himself from the husband. Pretty simple. The guy is a scumbag of course but leave your feelings out of it, the husband and wife were in the wrong.
@@cynicalmushroommurder is okay in some cases and I would say it’s justified in this case because that woman ruined his life. It takes a complete degenerate demon narcissist psychopath to cheat on someone. Why do you people always try to defend the cheater?
It was the other guy coming out like a gi Joe army soldier after, all. It must have SERIOUSLY been his nightmare to deal with an enraged husband. But who comes out SHOOTING???? Sick man. He should have been apologizing.
She could’ve had a clear conversation with her husband about it. You don’t need permission from your partner to break up. This ended the way it did based on all of their decisions.
The person getting with a married person should also be charged for it. There needs to be more consequences. Marriage is supposed to be one of life’s greatest gifts but is used as a stepping stone.
Was in a relationship for most of my 20's and half of my 30's. Mid 40's now and single. It's not bad at all, and to be honest with you, the dating pool for someone my age is not great. I've resigned myself to being single, and if something comes along, great, but I'm not actively seeking it out either. Some real strange people out there.
With one of my ex girlfriends I got to the point where i decided I would need hidden mics or cameras. That's when I knew it was time to say Bye Bye. i can't live that way.
Agreed. If you can’t trust your partner, time to move on. With my last ex, everytime I don’t see him for more than 24 hours, deep down I believed he was talking to other girls. It was because he did some shady stuff before. With my current bf, I trust him completely and do not feel insecure at all.
She went over there because she was jealous of the pregnant girlfriend. She wanted her husband to start some mess with him to ruin his relationship. The husband was as a pawn.
Turning what would have been at worst a fistfight, into a firefight, while there are kids and elderly people close by... Too many people think guns are the solution to every problem.
Kids when you grow up, please don't go with your wife to the crib of her boyfriend, to tell him she breaks up with him 😂😂😂 But go to the nearest divorce lawyer and end it and move on with your life.
@@freespeech.7254 lmao 🤣 EVERYONE CHEATS? Sure maybe ones like you considering how upset you’re being about it, like I said get some HELP! I’m not your therapist & neither is anyone else here too.
The husband had all of those years of frustration built up inside of him and should have known better than to go to the other guys house. No way was that not going to end badly.
@@nacho_ncam - I watched the video. The husband was the victim here and instead of Daniel agreeing to stay away from his wife or trying to deescalate the situation Daniel chooses to immediately fire a gun in the air. The angry and hurt husband of course then grabbed his gun and while they were leaving Daniel again chose to fire more shots instead of staying hidden behind cover which further escalated the situation and also killed the woman he was having an affair with. Daniel should be the one charged and the wife should've been too for instigating all this and being an awful person but she received the ultimate punishment in the end.
Let me get this straight. The husband rolls up, has a gun drawn and pointed at him. He pulls a gun defending himself and a gun fight ensues. Then when he's trying to leave, by backing out of the driveway, Daniel, the "lover", starts shooting at him, misses, shoots and kills the driver and the HUSBAND is charged?! I've completely lost all faith in our justice system.
This guy humiliated himself twice. Once by letting his wife cheat on him for 9 years and another time by attempting to murder the guy his wife is cheating with
@ski11lzdatki11z I don't really think he went there to kill him. Because when he had him on the side of the house, he had him dead to rights. That was a easy shot but he let him go.
Continuing a deadly encounter is crazy to me. The husband’s wife is terrible for having an affair but what’s even more terrible is that the husband could not just leave. He continued this encounter…
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This service should be provided by the government for free. Also this is totally not abusable at all.
@@AnimeShinigami13absolutely right.
Staying with a cheater is like reusing toilet paper.
Get a Japanese toilet, no need for toilet.paper and no hemeroids!
😂😂 reusing toilet paper
The things you forgive today, are the things you're giving permission for tomorrow. ☝🏻
Kind of a nasty analogy, but, a very accurate way to say it!
@@-Zer0Dark-well said! Never heard this
If i found out that my spouse had been having an affair for 91/2 years, i would be out the door and wouldn't look back!!!!!!
Tru dat
Because you are probably normal. Normal thinking didn’t apply here.
I agree ☝️
Average comment from somebody who has never been in a relationship
I wouldn't let on I knew. I would just stop supporting her and become the other guy until she figured it out.
After nine and a half years I wouldn't call that an affair anymore, that's more of a throuple.
That’s crazy!
Crazy when I heard 9 and 1/2 years ! Ain’t no way I’m staying through that man or woman .
9 years I missed that part, yeah that ain’t no affair or hook up that’s a relationship unbelievable 😮
“Involuntary” Idk…he was well aware his wife was loose and stuck around for years
The usual tiraler trash suspects at it again
9.5 years? Call me a doormat.
he probably allow it and then had change of heart and called it cheating
@@phonseng-hs6tpThat’s why I never trust any couples that are into the whole Open Marriage Poly thing. 9/10 it’s normally the woman bringing it up as an excuse to cheat while still getting perks of a relationship
You are a doormat.
If your “wife” has an affair for 9 years, she’s not your wife
exactly 😂
@@Cherokee2A. exactly
One day she's not your Wife 😊
Muhammed is the only thing that's keeps Women loyal 😊
She's a stray catcher an belongs to the streets 😂
He needs to just be quiet and hire a lawyer immediately.
Absolutely
To late
Definitely
I guess he felt like he didn’t shoot her so he had nothing to worry about, but that’s one thing people need to understand once you go into interview rooms you get your lawyer whether you’re innocent or not
Too late bro.
Not me!! No way would I get in a gunfight over someone who cheated on me, and for nearly a decade!!
She wasn't even worth a fist fight.
All of this over a FIFTY yo woman lol!!!
But he BOINKED her lol
She Ain't worth prison, none of em are
@@1972mrkleen I guess it was a matter of pride for them LMAO.
It wasn't for her. It was for him.
A 50 year old woman still walking around cheating like a high schooler is crazy... Do yall ever grow up and learn from your mistakes?
I thought she was 42
Lol u think cheating and lust is an age thing? Once a cheater always a cheater
@@JustErik92 Does that make it a difference?
@@JustErik92like that’s any better lmao
Haha learning from ones mistakes would require taking accountability...
Modern Western Women + accountability = Oil + Water
Bro 9 and 1/2 years ain't an affair that's a relationship that has lasted far longer than most marriages.
yeah but theres no loyalty or true partnership in something like that
Welp at least we now know how women stay in marriages that long😂😂if she wasn’t cheating it probably wouldn’t have lasted even 3 years.
@@KnicknackCottonWolf in this case there's no true partnership or loyalty in any of her relationships.
Thats longer than all three of my marriages put together
Dude lost his marriage, his wife, and now his freedom. Wild.
@@warrengosling and none of it was his fault, wild
@Johnny.Natural well, wouldn't say none lol He didn't need to shoot while they were leaving
Yup. Cheating never pays
@@Johnny.NaturalIt WAS his fault, he’s the one who started shooting.
@@TheBroknPezDispenserwell, he was only shooting because she was cheating, so really, her choice to hurt him, caused him to hurt her.
Emotional abuse is very harmful, debatably more than physical, because of the long term ripples it has. I feel like abused spouse syndrome could be a viable defense if his lawyer knows what they are doing. Or is that defense just not for female victims of abuse?
You reap what you sow, and all that.
Staying with a cheating wife is foolish in its own right but then going to the other guys house to confront him? Absolute stupidity.
Yep and cost him way more than just a divorce
Sometimes people are weak and vulnerable
@@rec.thecritiche as obviously weak if he stayed with her
... I know!... You'd hardly keep a Broken Pencil that'd Snapped in two after 20 years 😅 15:36
And the guy she was cheating with had a pregnant fiancee wonderful group of people
A woman like that is not worth fighting for....let her go, move on.
She doesn't exist anymore
Well, she’s dead now.
The lover is not an innocent party in all this!! What a POS to sleep with a man’s wife for 9 years and then have a pregnant “fiancée” on the side!!! Just gross!!
9 years is too far smh
dude, the dead wife is the side chick, not the pregnant woman he is living with. it wasn't some passionate affair, she was a booty call for 9 years. he would hit her up every few months or so.
Im glad no children were born with the cheating wife
STDs for everybody.
@@barbrothers2so its ok to have a side chick while you have a fiance with children and currently pregnant with your current baby?😂 then act like you dont know whats going on when the side chick pulls up to the house saying you dont know them? Nah bro regardless of who was the main and the side. The dude is still a huge pos
Don't be this dude. If she cheats she is for the street.
Amen brother...something I instill in my 9 and 10 year old sons everyday...i let them know about woman..and teach them thay controlling your emotions is what makes you a man.
I think men typically don't deal with cheating from their women. That is what baffles me the most about this story. Why would he stay?
stick to the code all these h*es for the streets - Future
@@hanaayr the same reason anyone in an unfaithful relationship stays. He was probably still completely in love with her.
Mark Twain said something like: Never make someone your priority if they consider you an option.
🎯
Facts.
Was that Twain though? Maybe. I think traditional marriage vows are no longer relevant in today's society, and set us up for failure almost from the start. Cheating is nothing new. It has been well studied and is most often a symptom of something wrong within the marriage that was either purposefully or inadvertently, left unresolved and allowed to become unstable enough that one or both partners are likely to seek comfort in some other way. Sometimes that's cheating. Sometimes it gambling or working long hours to avoid the home. We all know what that looks like. But it's not a crime. It's the breaking point of a relationship. The time of reckoning. It's up to both to decide to end the relationship or not, to participate in the repairing of whatever caused the betrayal in the first place or not (knowing both of them hold some responsibility), to understand that it still might not work out, to not hold the cheating partner hostage under some 'trust earning' rule. That approach has never worked. You either fully forgive, fully move forward, or not. Holding a grudge won't fix anything, even if you do break up. You have to let it go. Because, cheater or not, you don't own that person and you cannot stop that person from whatever they want to do.
People need to understand that a partners vows to you are just hopeful promises made under the most perfect conditions. You still don't own each other. You are still two people, both with free will, who know that life does change. Circumstances change, people change, stuff happens, and nobody is perfect. I think it would be useful that at the same time two people decide to be life partners, they also have to be able to say, out loud to each other, that they are both willing and capable of leaving that relationship if certain conditions arise. Like abuse, like those unexpected life changes that might involve a career move that won't work for the other, like children and parenting, like falling out of love with each other or falling in love with someone else, or a myriad of other possibilities. That is love and respect for the individuality of another and oneself, and the understanding that we cannot predict the future nor rely on some unrealistic promise that a couple will stay together forever no matter what, or even love each other forever. Clearly, that idea has rarely proven to be true in reality. And it shouldn't be. We could avoid a whole lot of conflict, and all this DV going on, if we just decided that each and every one of us, whether in a committed relationship or not, has the right to make changes in our own lives, independent of any influence from anyone else, including ending a relationship, and that right has to be acknowledged and respected from day one of any relationship. There are responsibilities to children, shared finances, etc. that need to be settled maturely and legally. But if we truly respect each other, love each other, we MUST, from day one, accept the other person's future decisions, even if they are hurtful (as in cheating), and plan ahead for how that will be handled as much as is possible. We own nobody. Even our partners. And if you truly love and respect yourself and your partner, then be willing to walk away from them, be willing to let them walk away from you. So much pain and destruction could be avoided if we just lived by this rule.
J cole said: don’t save her she doesn’t want to be saved. Practically the same teachings.
@@Beastmode73060 no, that's Donnie Chump's friend when he tried to save escort Melania
Fellas, as soon as your wife cheats. She no longer is in love with you, and doesn't respect you. Time for you to move on
Women, as soon as your husband cheats, he no longer is in love with you and doesn’t respect you.
Time for you to move on.
@@DorisPayne348 You do that even before husband cheats
Amen.
Right answer
Found out most women cheat, 70% of divorces is started by women. They get bored feel like spark is gone and a coworker flirts with her and she spreads it open.
This might sound harsh, but that woman brought all this upon herself and the rest of the men involved. Evil
It's not harsh. It's true. Plain selfishness. Nothing more complicated than that
I agree
Well everyone willingly stayed knowing all aspects of the situation... I blame everybody... Rip the woman
He's better off now without a doubt. Dude did him a solid, might not feel that way now. But as feelings fade and reason returns he'll understand.
@@meetdamakaRIp? If she wasn't being a shady POS none of them would be in this situation. She destroyed multiple lives including her own. We reap what we sow. Sad situation but she isn't who I feel for. Hopefully there's no children involved.
As soon as you find out your wife is cheating on you it's time to cut your losses and get her away from you. Going after whatever strange she was shacking up with is the worst possible idea.
Right? Like, why would someone continue to feel invested. The minute I find out you're messing around, your value to me is ZERO. Bye, go 👋
Huge problem is in the US she will be given over 50 % of what you own lol
@@shaabandaud1173 That's his fault for not getting a prenup
@@kaliblue
Judges often tosses up prenups leading to years of costly legal battles fam.
@@shaabandaud1173 Well , instead of whining about it help get the laws changed
How people sit there and never ask for a lawyer is beyond me.
He did ask for a lawyer. On the full interrogation he said twice he wanted to wait for a lawyer. But then he just started talking.
People believe they are in the right always and if they just explain that to LEO they will get to walk free. It’s a lack of self awareness.
He’s on like three different mind altering substances and JUST got in a shootout with the guy banging his wife. His mind palace is a little disorderly right now.
@@sntempExcited utterance…
Lawyers are liars. The "justice system" is responsible for producing liars, not justice
No cheating woman is worth going to jail for and definitely not worth dying for.
I don’t condone anybody being shot and killed, but this lady created this whole situation situation out of selfishness and no care for her own husband or her affairs partner
Everything could have been avoided
@@jordannewsom3606 yes, if the woman would just keep her legs closed.
What was she thinking!! Such an embarrassing name for a woman
Unfortunately 💯
Well she F.... around and found out as they say.
Cheating is so disrespectful the guy should have divorced the cheating wife she didn’t deserve him
But he chose to stay.
I don't think many people realize how much a man loses in divorce.
Amen!!!!
@@SrtRacerBoy you lose more by staying with a cheating spouse!!!!! 9 years is too long.
@@TheEvilQueenHasSpoken It's cheaper and he gets to stay in the house. Mi is a no-fault divorce state like many, assets will get divided equally if amicable.
Great example as to why you don’t talk to police without lawyer. Went in to discuss his side of the story ends up being charged with murder
Well rightfully so 😂😂, he initiated a shootout, reason his Wife is dead. If he never started shooting out of the car his wife would've never gotten shot
@@lucaboosie5863her having the affair had nothing to do with it so if she wasn’t would she be alive no excuses either side
@lucaboosie5863 the boyfriend shot first. I wouldn't expect a person of color to understand that logic.
He also shot that man who was pumping his wife. Thats attempted murder also
@@MackABD shot him twice, while chasing him down at his own house. Yep that's definitely attempted murder
Why was the husband charged and not the lover if the lover was the one that shot and killed the woman? I’m lost…
agreed
Because it was self defense, the husband was the aggressor and the way it is supposed to work is that the aggressor gets charged and is held accountable for the crimes.
Never bring a wife to a gunfight
Truth 😂😂😂
Funny
Exactly, she's only going to get in the way.
He won’t do that again.
😂😂
Wife also paid the lover $60,000 from the family business. That could induce homicidal ideation in the most mild mannered man.
Completely agree. The level of disrespect is insane. Only thing that boggles me is how long he stayed with her after finding out she was cheating.
Damnnn
Yup
She allowed this affair and ended up off earth as a result
Happens repeatedly
She lost her life because she chose to be a cheater.. sad
True. You reap what you sow
More than 9 years... Did she think he was going to be happy? I have found out my wife never loved me plus I got cancer.
Not sad at all.
All the beta incels women hate are here.
Her fault lol
She warned the side dude they were coming… why would he come out with a firearm; if not?
Did she set Mathew up??
@@x2asnice382I don’t think she set him up; I think she warned her man that her other man was coming…
Who voluntarily stays in a relationship where they’re aware their partner has been cheating for 9 YEARS?…
He found out 3 years in and she told him she was done cheating and wanted to be with him. He found out a month ago that she lied and was still seeing the other guy.
A cuckhold.
@Anonymouslytired
Ah ok, I thought he knew for the entire 9 years and was waiting for her to suddenly change and be faithful.
Either way, he should have left the first time he found out. Once a cheater always a cheater!
I think that happens a lot. Financial security might be one reason.
@@Anonymouslytiredhis mistake was trusting a cheater
Congratulations M'am, you played yourself
She’s six feet under now lol. Who wants to be remembered as a two timing wife?
She tried playing both men and karma said not today!!
Karma said: "We ain't making it 10yrs"
Lmao this whole thing is a tragic comedy 🤣🤦♂️
how was she playing the lover? after 9 years he is very well aware he is the mistress
@@natalied662
He doesn't know that.
Even the Bible warns about this. Proverbs 6:34 says, "For jealousy makes a man furious, and he will not spare when he takes revenge” these situations never end well
She got killed by the guy she was cheating with?!? LMAOOOOOOOOO 😂😂😂
It's literally the FIRST thing that happened when they pull up. Insane seeing it play out.
No it wasn't
Ruining your life for someone that’s not worth it, it’s crazy
I think you spelt "she ruined his life" wrong
@@fludashcamjage6159was not talking about any “she” I was talking in general..
People have been ruining their lives for a cheating spouse for forever. They're still doing it and they will keep doing it. It's like they never learn from other people's mistakes.
Was in a long term relationship for many years, now I'm single. When I see stuff like this, single life doesn't seem so bad. There are so many crazy people out there. The dating pool when you get older is not great. Think I'll just be content with my life and if something comes along, something comes along.
Wife could have ended this with a phone call. Instead , she drives there with gun carrying husband and with her lover’s pregnant fiancé there. What could go wrong?!!
Obviously she was never the brightest to begin with, just lot lizard vibes.
@@teddmented and the lover is in the garage pointing a gun as soon as they arrive. Strange.
Pregnant fiance at that 😒
Main character syndrome = for the love of drama
@@zaq1337 I had a girlfriend who loved that kind of drama, I totally get your point.
A lot of people don't seem to grasp the concept of marriage.
It's monogamy they do not grasp or want to grasp. As a species I don't think we were meant to be with only one person, but we evolved into that because of religion and politics.
She grasped it she just didn’t like it lol
In 2024 why are people still getting married?
@@mauricemaurice123because they want to...?
@@jimhalpert0Some people, at first. Then about half will get a divorce.
I don't think this guy should be charged with anything.
@@shawn6986 No, he went to his property with a gun, looking for trouble. Daniel was defending himself and his family. He may be a scumbag, but he has every right to defend his home.
@@shawn6986 I don’t know what was going through his mind at the time, I’m sure he was in a heightened state. He had been shot twice. I agree that shooting at the retreating car is not textbook self defense, but the husband started the whole confrontation. As far as I know Daniel wasn’t charged, but yes he definitely could have. People with guns need to know the law and rehearse the law in their head. The little things matter.
Agree they were leaving the bf assumed the husband was driving
If you listen to video, as they were backing up, the husband was shotting out the window. They were still on his property when he was shooting out the window. He had a right to shoot back.
Justified homicide , Michigan is stand your ground , his fault , you can’t go on someone’s property and fire rounds, unfortunately regardless the the deal
Break up with someone if you're going to cheat on them. Doing it repeatedly for 9 years, I have little sympathy for the wife or her toy. You get what you give.
they want it all
Totally agree.....you want to betray your spouse like that after making vows and oaths like it's nothing but want to stay in the marriage for the financial stability, self-image or whatever other selfish reason whilst repeatedly satisfying your lust with someone else.......she brought it on herself.
@@subst4nce973 I agree
Adultery used to be punishable by death in ancient times
As the disgusting slime that had been unfaithful to someone IN THE PAST, I completely agree. There is little sympathy when you simply have to lay in the bed of your own making. I saw the damage I caused back then and could not fathom doing it to anyone else.
It’s gross behavior but without the gun no one would have had to die.
"Stay away from my wife"? Nah should have told him to keep her the first time. What a joke. now look at the crap you're in. And the wife f**ked around and finally found out.
she got her karma fs😂
She was probably going to leave him anyway lol. No idea why people ruin themselves for loose women
@theandroids what did she finally find out?
@@grottybt5006 She probably more men than these two. And that guy is a complete sap.
It’s hard, and even harder for some, to rationalize or think straight in extreme states of emotional distress and trauma, which is what this was.
Cheating is so gross.
Ok boomer
💯
@@BirgerJarl-it5lz corny 😂
murder is worse
@@BirgerJarl-it5lz please do explain your reasoning for saying okay Boomer we really want to understand your stupidity level please break it down for us
9 and a half years bro….. YOU need to stay away from your wife not him….
She cheated for 9 years and then brought her husband there to fight for her? She’s such trash. Makes me sick he just lost his freedom now too. Just sickening . Cheating should be a mandatory jail sentence. It ruins lives
Watching the whole thing it's a comedy of errors by everyone involved
The husband continued to co-sign her nonsense
Yeah, she's a loser, but so is he. He should have gotten on with his life years ago instead of having a gunfight with her boyfriend.
It is in the Philippines. I found that out the hard way.
based
That cop interviewing Matthew is the reason why I'll never talk to cops without a lawyer. this guy said he wasn't mad before he drove to the house, and yet the cop is coursing him to say he was.
I did an interrogation after I was falsely accused of a crime because the Detective said that he wanted to get my side of the story. Started by asking me about the college I was going to and what I like to do for fun and while we were talking he randomly asked "then at what point did did you climb up 4 floors of the apartment before you broke in and why there is no evidence of it?". I couldn't believe it. I got really mad and told them to get tf out of my condo and hired an attorney and all of the charges they had against me were dropped when we showed THE SAME EVIDENCE to the DA that I had printed out and given to the cops.
THEY TRIED TO BEND MY STORY TO MAKE IT LOOK LIKE I DID THE CRIME WHEN I HAD PROOF THAT IT CLEARLY WASNT ME. F THE POLICE.
NEVER talk to the police unless you wanna get accused of a crime you didn't do.
That’s Macomb County for ya!!!
@@xxmvviBE careful in Michigan
Well he gets out of the car yelling, so yes he was mad before he drove to the house. Also, he's chasing after the guy, shooting at him, and fires while he's pulling away. He was the aggressor the entire way
Dude.. she hasn’t been your wife if 9 years man
Lmaooo sharing is caring
@@Gnarawrr that’s terrifying
@@shaneomack5018 9 1/2 years
@@shaneomack5018 haha I know … sarcasm doesn’t translate well to others over the internet. But yes I was joking if that eases your mind
Cheating guy lucked tf out. His affair died and the husband went to jail for it even though he literally killed her. Maybe got to keep his current marriage but I hopefully doubt it. He's fostering his old folks and his sister lives next door. Dude lives in a bubble where his ego is probably stroked every single day. The wife probably is ignorant enough to stay. What a story.
Imagine catching your wife sleeping with another man, and your first thought is to be mad at the dude and not the cheating wife
Exactly
Yeah I’ve never understood that. Id probably sympathize with the male more than my cheating wife.
Your spouse is the one who owes you loyalty so while i’d be mad at both…my husband getting it first
@@notsorryyouretriggered imagine if your statement was flipped and I said my wife was getting it first....
@@fstapYou literally just said your anger would lie with your wife over the man…but sure debate for no reason i guess
if they are going to charge the husband then the lover should also get the same charge
Well the husband was the aggressor. He caused this entire situation
Why should the lover get charged? He was merely defending himself
@@ryantantalo4233no he didn’t, the lover and wife precipitated the circumstances causing all of this to transpire in the first place. He should be charged.
@@ryantantalo4233 How was the husband the aggressor?? He knew about this for 9 years and didn't do anything. He lying garbage wife did this and the lover was just as gulity. As far as I am concerend the cheating wife got what she deserves and the Lover should be charged. The husband is the victim here all the way around!!
Agree 100%.
The boyfriend shot through a retreating windshield causing her death. So how was the husband charged? I am stunned. Please help me understand.
I don't get it either.
@@lesliesmith719 As the husband was backing up in the car he shot again. When the lover returned fire he hit the wife through a passenger side windshield and killed her.
@@fumblingdetective Thank u for responding. But again the lover shot down a driveway into a windshield killing her. He had to know that it was reckless and the outcome was high for killing one or both of them. And the car was retreating. They we're leaving the scene. Charge both but the lover only KILLED THE woman not the husband.
@@lesliesmith719 After the husband went to lover's home on his property he pulled a gun and started shooting first. When he was backing up and trying to flee he shot again. Fire was returned and wife killed. Self defense for the lover and assault with intent to murder for the husband...
@@lesliesmith719yeah I don’t get it either and completely agree with you they have to charge the person that actually killed her! The police must know the boyfriend honestly. It doesn’t matter what the husband did to the boyfriend it’s who did what to the person that was killed and that was the wife and the person that shot her weather by accident or in purpose was the boyfriend so he should be charged with manslaughter and the husband also charged but could be attempted murder on the boyfriend but to get charged for killing the wife is ridiculous!
Husband shouldn’t spend a minute in jail. Dude had it coming too.
You never know how someone is going to react. He was blind with rage, it’s so sad all around.
WTF. One infidelity, and I'm out. This guy stuck around like it's part of the deal for your wife to have a lover. What kind of people are these?
Exactly I would not tolerate cheating it’s disrespectful
The court made it so hard for men to get out of marriage ...
It's pathetic
Surprised people are actually supporting infidelity considering the hate I’m getting on my comment section. WOW 😮
@@deescott8312 have a look at my comment section, apparently it’s fine 🙄
@@thatgirl9532it's only bad when it's a man doing it
Why is he talking, get a lawyer. He could get you out of jail time.
The little girl saying "I saw blood :(" and "Officer!" was heartbreaking
'stay away from my wife' like she doesn't have agency, guys there's no reason for staying with a cheating wife.
Going over to the house was a bad idea.
Exactly I agree 💯
Her idea of course. Never listen to a woman. Every time you listen to a woman you will suffer.
100%
captain obvious over here
The worst.
That’ll teach her to never cheat again 😂
Hahah
She’s gone bro and no one else is going to learn the lesson because people forget news story by the next week
@larrysmith2655 There will be plenty of people learn the lesson still. You think this is the only time this situation will ever happen? Be real 😂
@@larrysmith2655the kids r the ones traumatized
@@larrysmith2655women still do it. It's so easy for women to cheat now due to social media and dating apps. It was more difficult to get away with it before the internet started booming.
How is the husband charge and not the one who shot her. The judicial system has become a joke.
There’s not a redeemable person anywhere in this situation.
Maybe the husband to be real
I was gonna say he genuinely tried and snapped @@imnugget8085
Also detectives hairline
@imnugget8085 he shouldn't had gone to someone's house and with a gun
@@Bailemos888Better than to go without a gun.
My grandpa walked in on his wife (not my grandma, but the woman after her) and his best friend when he came home early from work. He unloaded his entire revolver on her, and while he was reloading his friend jumped out the 2nd story window. My grandpa made it downstairs and out the front door and was shooting at his friend who was running down the street naked but he never hit him. He did 9 years.
Yeah, never step foot in another man’s house without his consent, especially not to touch his female
Your grandad is a beta
@@xgtwb6473 wait what? Being cheated on doesn't make u a beta. And going berserk on both of them definitely isn't beta.
What are they teaching you young men
@@LetsTalkAboutPrepping gunning unarmed down is beta
@@arintheseatsesh6242 lol 😂 no it isn't. You wouldn't gun down an unarmed pdfile?
There’s nothing wrong with telling someone at any point in a relationship that you’ve fallen out of love and wish to move on.
After cheating for 9 years wtf
She wanted both worlds she wanted the lifestyle from the husband and the pipe from the boyfriend this is her fault I don't feel bad for her
@@rustyshackelford5892 Or before… but I think you misunderstood my comment. Also the husband found out 3 years in but for whatever reason chose to stay. 🤷
@@rickybobby7276that’s the whole point of my comment…
she was a gold digger lol
I get he wasn't upset. 9 years of being a fool but taking the extra mag then shooting as you're leaving. That's what lost him the case.
He was chasing & firing at the injured guy in his own property, oh yes, he was enraged just by the tone when he yelled-- 'stay away from my wife!'.
Adults who cheat don't realize the lifelong mental health consequences for their children! If your marriage isn't working out, just cut your losses and leave. smdh
Facts
Lived it as a child, you’re 100% correct.
Husband was charged yet it was the lover's bullet that killed her?
Yep makes no sense how the cheating scumbag isnt charged
How is it that the husband got charged? This is confusing
Lover is most likely well connected with the cops and politicians from that town
@@addorsubtract650 he actually got a 40k settlement for being injured on top of not being charged lmao. he was REWARDED.
@@addorsubtract650they came over to his home with violence. He was defending himself from the husband. Pretty simple. The guy is a scumbag of course but leave your feelings out of it, the husband and wife were in the wrong.
Need a reason to STOP cheating?
would you actually put a bullet in someone's head for cheating? all these comments condoning murder speak to the psychopathy of the people posting
@@cynicalmushroommurder is okay in some cases and I would say it’s justified in this case because that woman ruined his life. It takes a complete degenerate demon narcissist psychopath to cheat on someone. Why do you people always try to defend the cheater?
@@edwarddeere4925Violence is almost never ok. But, it is almost always understandable. There is a difference.
@cynicalmushroom
Wait though…wasn’t Daniel the one who ended up putting a bullet in her neck, killing her?
@@eugenewood721 And that’s why the wife’s boyfriend isn’t going to jail…
That Jezebel started it and look at what happened. I wonder where she is now.
Why would anyone in their right mind stay with someone who cheated on them.
@@sweetiepie3359 divorce costs money and assets
ask Rev. Falwell
Low self-esteem.
At his age it’s going homeless if he leaves her he chose what all men in his situation chose HMT
Denial. My predator’s wife stayed with him and had his baby because she was delusional.
This guy staying with her after the first time she cheated is ridiculous.
First time? He knew she was cheating for 6+ years 😮
She died to the man she chose over her own husband 😂
Street Justice ⚖️
He was just protecting his home, husband basically killed her with his actions
@@chipdiesel9788 He Caused all of this by his Own lust.☺️🤙
Poetry.
@@chipdiesel9788WRONG she did it to herself. He didn’t make her cheat for 9 years. She could’ve avoided all of this
He wasn’t mad, he just wanted to chat.
It was the other guy coming out like a gi Joe army soldier after, all. It must have SERIOUSLY been his nightmare to deal with an enraged husband. But who comes out SHOOTING???? Sick man. He should have been apologizing.
Cheating has consequences.
🤷
Yeah three consecutive prison sentences. All he had to do was just walk away...
@@fumblingdetective Staying with cheaters also has consequences.
🤷♂️
@fumblingdetective he's still better off than her.
@@TheOrlobo No thanks! Walking away from any woman is a 10 out of 10 situation for me when faced with at least a decade in prison!
@fumblingdetective I 100% agree. Just saying he somehow got out this better with a lifelong prison sentence.
She could’ve had a clear conversation with her husband about it. You don’t need permission from your partner to break up. This ended the way it did based on all of their decisions.
Cheating is always dangerous. Smh. People will never learn.
Women are dangerous
children
I despise cheaters. Almost 10 years of this? Disgusting.
All I took away from this was that cheating on your spouse should be a criminal offense
Wow. True.
It’s actually illegal in some states.
The person getting with a married person should also be charged for it. There needs to be more consequences. Marriage is supposed to be one of life’s greatest gifts but is used as a stepping stone.
I disagree 💯 %
That’s ridiculous
It was until men got tired of paying alimony, so they came up with no fault divorces.
I like the sounds of the chickens in the background. They're asking, "what does it take to get some sleep around here? These humans are crazy."
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is why I remain single and stress free.
Exactly, who needs anything like this
I hate to be negative, but I’ve been married and now I’m not. Marriage is wildly overrated.
Facts
Was in a relationship for most of my 20's and half of my 30's. Mid 40's now and single. It's not bad at all, and to be honest with you, the dating pool for someone my age is not great. I've resigned myself to being single, and if something comes along, great, but I'm not actively seeking it out either. Some real strange people out there.
Well she won't be cheating anymore
@@ryanhodgson5979 seems like Daniel should be charged tf 🤨🤨
Those poor kids! Having to run around hands up at night like that! 😡
The police are worse than the cheaters and the gunmen
With one of my ex girlfriends I got to the point where i decided I would need hidden mics or cameras. That's when I knew it was time to say Bye Bye. i can't live that way.
Agreed. If you can’t trust your partner, time to move on. With my last ex, everytime I don’t see him for more than 24 hours, deep down I believed he was talking to other girls. It was because he did some shady stuff before.
With my current bf, I trust him completely and do not feel insecure at all.
i read a great comment yesterday... you dont have to pick up every piece of trash that lands at your feet
@@JimmyJapan unless they’re homeless?
Yeah, or would you rather live in a society filled with filth and trash? Can't take a step without stepping on some trash...
She went over there because she was jealous of the pregnant girlfriend. She wanted her husband to start some mess with him to ruin his relationship. The husband was as a pawn.
Turning what would have been at worst a fistfight, into a firefight, while there are kids and elderly people close by... Too many people think guns are the solution to every problem.
Too many AMERICANS. Not too many people.
@@mdcs1992 Yeah because the plethora of armed terrorist's organizations like the IRA and Taliban are all American
100% the wifes fault. she was a cheater and got karma.
Now ppl gotta suffer for her actions smh
He should have never gone to that Man House period. He hasn't contacted her since February. All she had to do was text him and say it over.
Kids when you grow up, please don't go with your wife to the crib of her boyfriend, to tell him she breaks up with him 😂😂😂 But go to the nearest divorce lawyer and end it and move on with your life.
And this is why people should never cheat, no matter WHAT!
🙄🙄🙄🙄 it's like telling women this why you dont have kids😂
Not quite @@freespeech.7254
@@freespeech.7254 so you think cheating is fine? You’d be okay to be cheated on RIGHT? If that’s a yes you’re obviously lying… grow up!
@@thatgirl9532 everyone cheats! What world do you live in? If you say noone has cheated on you, you lie!!🙄🙄
@@freespeech.7254 lmao 🤣
EVERYONE CHEATS? Sure maybe ones like you considering how upset you’re being about it, like I said get some HELP!
I’m not your therapist & neither is anyone else here too.
So the only one who got charged with a crime was the actual victim in this whole thing? Ridiculous.
This is heartbreaking. People have to stop playing games.
The difference between him and his wife's secret lover is that the secret lover had an AC Milan jersey 😂
🤣
Look at them Fools fighting over that ol Lady 😂
Nine and a half years?? Why did this fool stick around?
He seems to be a beta
Usually so they don't have a large amount of alimony as the courts usually favor the wife
Did you miss the part where she lied?
Break it off or this time I’m getting a divorce? Dude, I mean just, dude, it ain’t gonna stop. Been there.
Fool me once..... this guy never heard this saying
The husband had all of those years of frustration built up inside of him and should have known better than to go to the other guys house. No way was that not going to end badly.
Poor kids they didn’t deserve this. People don’t understand how decisions they make have a triple effect. Kids are probably traumatized.
If the guy she's having an affair with shot her,why was husband arrested
I'm gonna take a wild guess and assume you didn't watch the video before asking such a question 🙄
@@nacho_ncam To be fair to Joan, that presentation was, for the most part, clear as mud.
watch the video
@@nacho_ncam - I watched the video. The husband was the victim here and instead of Daniel agreeing to stay away from his wife or trying to deescalate the situation Daniel chooses to immediately fire a gun in the air. The angry and hurt husband of course then grabbed his gun and while they were leaving Daniel again chose to fire more shots instead of staying hidden behind cover which further escalated the situation and also killed the woman he was having an affair with. Daniel should be the one charged and the wife should've been too for instigating all this and being an awful person but she received the ultimate punishment in the end.
@@nkw1985 You didnt watch the video. Daniel's gun was in his car, parked in the garage.
16:41 the little boy coming out terrified saying "officer" actually broke me dude
@@JimmyJapanYou’re the beta!! Anyone who wouldn’t be moved by a terrified child is heartless!!
@@JimmyJapan what are you yapping about lol 😂😂😂
i thought that was a little girl? I thought they said "his sister and her two daughters"
So the lover gets nothing for shooting first?😮
The husband came to his property with a gun. It's called self-defense
The lover only got away bc the husband came to his house with a gun that’s self defense lol
@@liyahbondsyes but the fact is the lover shot first! Regardless if it’s on his property or not, the one that shoots first is the aggressor
@@theretrobot8629WRONG. if you’re going onto someone’s property, the property owner has a right to protect them selves and their property.
Did the husband show his firearm first?
Let me get this straight. The husband rolls up, has a gun drawn and pointed at him. He pulls a gun defending himself and a gun fight ensues.
Then when he's trying to leave, by backing out of the driveway, Daniel, the "lover", starts shooting at him, misses, shoots and kills the driver and the HUSBAND is charged?!
I've completely lost all faith in our justice system.
This guy humiliated himself twice. Once by letting his wife cheat on him for 9 years and another time by attempting to murder the guy his wife is cheating with
@ski11lzdatki11z I don't really think he went there to kill him. Because when he had him on the side of the house, he had him dead to rights. That was a easy shot but he let him go.
Continuing a deadly encounter is crazy to me. The husband’s wife is terrible for having an affair but what’s even more terrible is that the husband could not just leave. He continued this encounter…
You sound like the type of person to cheat on your partner for 12 years and then blame them for being too nosey finding out😅😅😅😅😅
@@TopNotch_Fishing That has nothing to do with the fact that the deadly encounter that left his wife dead was completely AVOIDABLE.
@@peezypeeze9140yes All she had to do was Not Cheat and she would still be alive.
@@ClarkKent-bi7oq she would be alive if they didn’t go over to a house they were NOT invited to. The cheating did not cause her death.
@@peezypeeze9140stop😂
Moral of the story: don’t cheat but don’t stay in a failing relationship either