Dean was far too young for marriage (Lindsay also - she had no plans after high school!). Dean should’ve left Stars Hollow for a bigger town for study or work, and got away from the same old people… spread his wings a bit and moved on from Rory. Gotten some life experience & developed some independence.
It wasn't that they were too young. it was that Dean was hung up on Rory, they hadn't planned their marriage out, and they had been dating for less than a year.
To everyone saying never bring an ex to a wedding: the idea is having an ex there will bring up unresolved feelings (e.g. in himym, Stella running away with her ex). IMO (been single all my life) what better test is there than to have an ex at the wedding. If you’re so weak as to run away with your ex then good riddance, saved yourself a lifetime of pain.
Yeah the problem here wasn't having an ex at the wedding it was that Dean never moved on from Rory. Lindsay was just the rebound, I called the cheating the minute he said he was engaged. It also doesn't help that Lindsay and Dean were still teenagers when they got married, that's a recipe for disaster, they were already having problems long before he slept with Rory. It's why places like the south and Midwest have the highest divorce rates, religious pressure to marry young. The D+L marriage was doomed from the start. It would have fallen apart even without Rory there.
Who says that’s the idea? I don’t have unresolved feelings, I wouldn’t be marrying someone else if I did. I just believe that you shouldn’t have a bunch of ppl you’ve slept with all together. One of my best mates found out that his last two ex-GFs were now working on the same floor in the same department with desks next to each other (they all graduated the same degree) and were becoming buds, hanging out, and as he said to me, swapping notes! He was really disturbed by it. I’m all for staying friends and I have but I really draw the line at having them witness your new relationship. Also, I hate my stepdaughter’s mum, she’s a complete idiot and my stepdaughter deserves better. So I wasn’t having her at the wedding.
i mean it was definitely rorys fault she really ruined him , i never got the reason why ppl hated dean he was such a good boyfriend and when she started messing with his feelings and liked jess even when she was dating dean he really had all the rights to be possessive and mad
@@kimyunaa6676 i hope we watched the same show 😭 bruh Dean was potentially aggressive: He always yelled at Rory, he never took into account her dreams to Harvard all because he wanted to settle for something much less, he was very jealous and possessive even before Rory met Jess. He even hit things in front of Rory and Lindsay. Rory is no better person than him, but she didn't ruin him. He was already a loser misogynist from the start, and it's Lorelai's fault that people see him as the best boyfriend Rory ever had.
@@kimyunaa6676 Watching the show as an adult, Dean really sets off some pretty significant red flags. He's jealous, possessive, and has really extreme emotional reactions to things. He immediately breaks up with Rory just because she needed a minute to collect her thoughts (totally reasonable) after he told her he loved her. Watching the show as an adult, I feel like Dean is really immature and has a lot of issues with trust, self-worth, and emotional regulation. By the time they break up for good in season 3, I was ready for Rory to move on. She deserved better, and while I don't condone her behavior regarding Jess, Dean is definitely no saint. I think it's sad that he was never able to really move on, but his relationship with Lindsey proves that he also wasn't up to doing the work of moving on. He took the literal first girl who came along after Rory and spent his entire marriage being bitter and emotionally violent. Honestly, I think the guy needs a good therapist.
OMG Just went to the Stars Hallow tour yesterday for the holidays. it was amazing and so cool. I can't believe WB studios has kept the town alive. It was a great experience for any fan!
I had an ex at my wedding and not just any ex, my first true love ex. He wasn't the reason why we got divorced. The groom turned out to be an abusive piece of shit, and that's why we divorced.
Everyone keeps saying Rory chose Jess over Dean, but here’s the thing. She actually didn’t. Dean broke up with her and then she immediately got together with Jess. It’s obvious that Dean loved Rory more than she loved him, but still, just because she had feelings for Jess while with Dean doesn’t mean she no longer felt anything for him. If it’s even possible, I think Rory was in love with both of them at the same time. Then once Jess was out of the picture, her feelings for Dean were solely concentrated. It was irresponsible for him to marry Lindsey when he was still harboring feelings for Rory and what they ultimately did was despicable. I would never try to justify adultery. I’m just simply pointing out that regardless of how messy things got, Rory and Dean never really stopped loving each other, not even when Jess and Lindsey were involved. From A Year in the Life, I’m glad Dean has a happy, successful second marriage and is long over Rory because he deserves that. The two of them were once great together. They just weren’t meant to last. But hey, Dean will be literally all of Rory’s firsts (first kiss, first boyfriend, first love, and first time).
I think you're on point with how Rory and Dean always genuinely cared for one another. I think perso they should have stayed together longer, break off while at Uni and meet others, but cone together as adults.
@@Bekka_boo13It doesn't matter how nice Lindsay was . man should not marry a woman when he's in love with a different one. Dean was not over Rory at that time
Beside the fact that the people in this series are attractive, I don't get why people watch this. Don't you think that all conversation are just fking annoying??? Its like conversation between 10 year olds. Damn.
@@MsSonnencreme unfortunately it’s quite rare when egos get in the way but liking or loving someone as a human no matter the label of the connection is beautiful. I think the world would be a much better place if people were able to live meaningful relationships with maturity and care for each other without a preoccupation with fitting into acceptable categories
What a sweet comment thread this is, thanks for the positivity. I am just excited to see two beautiful humans getting married and I, alongside my partner, get to help them 🥰
Dean in the words of Ted Mosby from HIMYM "Never bring an ex to your Wedding"
dean hard time with jess about Rory very bady
It is so true.
Better yet, if you're still hung up on your ex, don't have a wedding.
is he the father of her baby
He was right.
Their small talk at the beginning is so relatable🙈
Rory caused Dean a mental break down... so bad he took on another personality Sam. Who hunts demons and hangs with angels. Like wow.
Dean was far too young for marriage (Lindsay also - she had no plans after high school!). Dean should’ve left Stars Hollow for a bigger town for study or work, and got away from the same old people… spread his wings a bit and moved on from Rory. Gotten some life experience & developed some independence.
Doesn't that normally happen in smalltown folks?
They moved around the corner from their parents and Dean was then working 2 jobs to support them
Totally agree
It wasn't that they were too young. it was that Dean was hung up on Rory, they hadn't planned their marriage out, and they had been dating for less than a year.
Bring a house wife and mom is a plan… it’s good enough. Period
Poor Lindsey 😔
The scene in the end is very good, Alexis preformed it very well
Dean and Luke are on the same place. Lorelai and Rory want them, only if theyre not interested...
To everyone saying never bring an ex to a wedding: the idea is having an ex there will bring up unresolved feelings (e.g. in himym, Stella running away with her ex). IMO (been single all my life) what better test is there than to have an ex at the wedding. If you’re so weak as to run away with your ex then good riddance, saved yourself a lifetime of pain.
It's just not appropriate. I mean I'm sure there are exceptions but for the most part it's just not a good idea
@@melanie7068 No, it would still bring up doubts from the person you're gonna marry, it would never be a good idea
@@FollowTheBible2 this comment makes zero sense to what I said. 🤣
Yeah the problem here wasn't having an ex at the wedding it was that Dean never moved on from Rory. Lindsay was just the rebound, I called the cheating the minute he said he was engaged. It also doesn't help that Lindsay and Dean were still teenagers when they got married, that's a recipe for disaster, they were already having problems long before he slept with Rory. It's why places like the south and Midwest have the highest divorce rates, religious pressure to marry young. The D+L marriage was doomed from the start. It would have fallen apart even without Rory there.
Who says that’s the idea? I don’t have unresolved feelings, I wouldn’t be marrying someone else if I did. I just believe that you shouldn’t have a bunch of ppl you’ve slept with all together. One of my best mates found out that his last two ex-GFs were now working on the same floor in the same department with desks next to each other (they all graduated the same degree) and were becoming buds, hanging out, and as he said to me, swapping notes! He was really disturbed by it. I’m all for staying friends and I have but I really draw the line at having them witness your new relationship. Also, I hate my stepdaughter’s mum, she’s a complete idiot and my stepdaughter deserves better. So I wasn’t having her at the wedding.
Girls always crying omg with no tears also girl u literally have everything live your life she only wants the things she can’t have
ngl I never liked Dean but even I felt so bad when he said "Why she didn't love me?"
i mean it was definitely rorys fault she really ruined him , i never got the reason why ppl hated dean he was such a good boyfriend and when she started messing with his feelings and liked jess even when she was dating dean he really had all the rights to be possessive and mad
@@kimyunaa6676 i hope we watched the same show 😭 bruh Dean was potentially aggressive: He always yelled at Rory, he never took into account her dreams to Harvard all because he wanted to settle for something much less, he was very jealous and possessive even before Rory met Jess. He even hit things in front of Rory and Lindsay.
Rory is no better person than him, but she didn't ruin him. He was already a loser misogynist from the start, and it's Lorelai's fault that people see him as the best boyfriend Rory ever had.
@@kimyunaa6676 Watching the show as an adult, Dean really sets off some pretty significant red flags. He's jealous, possessive, and has really extreme emotional reactions to things. He immediately breaks up with Rory just because she needed a minute to collect her thoughts (totally reasonable) after he told her he loved her. Watching the show as an adult, I feel like Dean is really immature and has a lot of issues with trust, self-worth, and emotional regulation. By the time they break up for good in season 3, I was ready for Rory to move on. She deserved better, and while I don't condone her behavior regarding Jess, Dean is definitely no saint. I think it's sad that he was never able to really move on, but his relationship with Lindsey proves that he also wasn't up to doing the work of moving on. He took the literal first girl who came along after Rory and spent his entire marriage being bitter and emotionally violent. Honestly, I think the guy needs a good therapist.
Shes gorgeous and omg feel the awkwardness
OMG Just went to the Stars Hallow tour yesterday for the holidays. it was amazing and so cool. I can't believe WB studios has kept the town alive. It was a great experience for any fan!
Is it just me or does anyone else find Lorelei and Rory really selfish while revisiting the show?
It’s not just you.
I find Rory incredibly selfish, but not Lorelai.
Yeah I can’t stand Rory lol
Ask Medina about😂
@@coloredpencils01a bit though. she blamed christofer for her inability to have stable relationships for 15 years.
EXCUSE ME WHEN WAS SCHMIDT ON THIS SHOW!?
he always pops up somehow. usually for weddings, ' Promising Young Woman"
I had an ex at my wedding and not just any ex, my first true love ex. He wasn't the reason why we got divorced. The groom turned out to be an abusive piece of shit, and that's why we divorced.
Everyone keeps saying Rory chose Jess over Dean, but here’s the thing. She actually didn’t. Dean broke up with her and then she immediately got together with Jess. It’s obvious that Dean loved Rory more than she loved him, but still, just because she had feelings for Jess while with Dean doesn’t mean she no longer felt anything for him. If it’s even possible, I think Rory was in love with both of them at the same time. Then once Jess was out of the picture, her feelings for Dean were solely concentrated. It was irresponsible for him to marry Lindsey when he was still harboring feelings for Rory and what they ultimately did was despicable. I would never try to justify adultery. I’m just simply pointing out that regardless of how messy things got, Rory and Dean never really stopped loving each other, not even when Jess and Lindsey were involved. From A Year in the Life, I’m glad Dean has a happy, successful second marriage and is long over Rory because he deserves that. The two of them were once great together. They just weren’t meant to last. But hey, Dean will be literally all of Rory’s firsts (first kiss, first boyfriend, first love, and first time).
You are way too invested in a tv show. Get a life.
Most of the people watching these videos are invested. It doesn't mean they don't have a life.
I think you're on point with how Rory and Dean always genuinely cared for one another. I think perso they should have stayed together longer, break off while at Uni and meet others, but cone together as adults.
OMG! I never realized that the guy in the back in the red shirt asking “what’d he say” at the bachelor party is Schmidt from New Girl😃
4:32 alexis looks so innocent
That almost well it made me cry. Why didn’t she love me. Im a sap smh
It seemed like Rory was still into Dean because she looked like she was gonna cry when watching Dean's wedding.
He was stupid to marry Lindsay. He's looking hot though.😂
Lindsay was nice & sweet…Dean shouldn’t of invited Rory & Rory knew Dean was married & she only wanted Dean cause he was with someone else
@@Bekka_boo13It doesn't matter how nice Lindsay was . man should not marry a woman when he's in love with a different one. Dean was not over Rory at that time
she chose jess.. this was nonsense
Why is Rory rambling so much, you used to make out with this man. And she has this weird look on her face when she watching Dean getting married.
Because Rory is a brich girl she already has everything
Lol no she's not. The entire premise of the show is it's her and her single mom working hard.
Who did Dean ended up with? i have seen the AYITL show but i can't remember.
Her name is Jenny, he talks about her when he runs into Rory in Taylor's, they have 3 kids and expecting the 4th!
@@dorinadejonge5793 thank you for the info!
@@dorinadejonge5793I’m glad he finally got his happy ending
@@oooh19only we never got to see it, in the original show it didn’t end on good note with him
Beside the fact that the people in this series are attractive, I don't get why people watch this. Don't you think that all conversation are just fking annoying??? Its like conversation between 10 year olds. Damn.
omg yess
So why are you here?
The plot as a whole
Lol, Lorelei and Rory are the most annoying self-centered characters I've ever watched.
@@tobias9230I think you have to watch it through the lens of a musical (without the music)
Dean not supposed to get married too young, yeah right, common sense, Dean still in love with Rory, I don't think so, getting married absolutely not,
مين جاي من الفيديو هذاك يامن هواه🖤😴
Love Kirk!
Getting married and having 4 kids is not the right choice for ninety nine percent of people. Dean regretted this every day of his life
No peter is there forever
Schmidt’s in this episode!
Dean was so dumb. If he had second thoughts, he shouldn't have married Lindsey. That's not fair to her!
I still wish they were endgame
me too ❤
I am gonna be Maid Of Honour at the wedding of someone I used to date
The Best Man happens to be my boyfriend 😅 oopsie
I think it means you guys get on amazingly well after the Romantic stuff - and you care about each other still and I think that’s actually fantastic.
@@dinavienna that's such a sweet reply and certainly true. We just know that what liked about each other was platonic affection :)
Sounds like a tight knit group of friends that just resolved things maturely. It's certainly not for everyone, but you're the exception not the rule.
@@MsSonnencreme unfortunately it’s quite rare when egos get in the way but liking or loving someone as a human no matter the label of the connection is beautiful. I think the world would be a much better place if people were able to live meaningful relationships with maturity and care for each other without a preoccupation with fitting into acceptable categories
What a sweet comment thread this is, thanks for the positivity. I am just excited to see two beautiful humans getting married and I, alongside my partner, get to help them 🥰
No forget it
Why did Dean marry Lindsay so quickly and betray her?
Her face 💔
I hated that storyline
If she is sad why did they broke up?🤔
I always found the dialogue of this show to be excruciating! Ugh! Can’t even get through this few minute clip.
You missing out
Then why click on it?
Read a book
@@nadianurun6259 Nah
Same even in 5th grade I feel like they all talk the same…I couldn’t get thru it
Omg Schmidt
This show is SOOOOOO SAPPY!!!!UGH
It's my training
You never invite your Ex to your wedding that’s just weird and cringey
Peter doesn't do this shit
God no
These things are never wrong there little watermelon stains because I'm not suppose to get watermelon stairs im suppose to get real stairs
now this makes me stop watching gilmore girls😭😭😭🖐️🖐️
That lead me to watermelon
huh?
Bridget I can't even get over the first 🥇 date 🌹🌹📅 and In my experience throughout all these scenarios I've been told to say something