wait so that isnt normal anymore ? i know a couple in their age who got married 7 months ago, they are my 2 best friends. when we talk, like taaaaaalk and talk and talk about deep stuff he looks the exact same as matt does while listening to all of us, including his wife. isnt that normal ? i think if that is not in the norm, i cant really call it a friendship.
@@red_infinitystone i think its still normal. I see it more often than I dont. And I think people listen more and better when theyre at home and comfy. Rather when out, surrounded by distractions and other people to listen to
I’ve literally never in my entire life seen a man be so attentive to his wife. That is so sweet. I’m really thankful that I subscribed to you guys. I think watching your content could rub off on people in a really positive way.
You guys are so genuine and real. It is good to see people on social media that show their true colors. Matt, you are an incredible dude, and I can tell that you respect and cherish Abby more than anything. Abby, you are a great role model for everyone, and you put smiles on some many people’s faces. Keep up the great work DUDES, the world needs more people like you two!!!!!!!!
wow I’m impressed because I’ve never seen a healthier relationship in my life or even on TH-cam! Wishing you guys lots of love and happiness together forever ❤️✨
@@MrAllen1994 Im positive they have fights, everyone who is comfortable with eachother have. Because you trust them not to walk away even if you kinda lose your shit for a second. But they document so much of their lives its hard to believe this isnt a healthy relationship. And sure, perhaps they put on a little fancy filter the second the camera turns on. But since they are so healthy on camera, chances are they are healthy of camera too, I think its a bit more real of camera, but still healthy. But its hard to fake a healthy relationship when so much is documented. Did that make sense?
Your channel should be required watching for all young engaged couples! Your communication skills as a married couple are such an example to other young couples. So much can be learned by the example you set and the way you share with each other. Such an inspiration.
I really wish you guys were around when I got married at 19 (now 32). I was the first of everyone I knew who had a kid and was married super young (had 3 kids by 24), i really appreciate your content even as a 32 year old because you are teaching so many younger married couples how to communicate and make your marriage work ♥️ I even learn from you still now. So thank you for everything you do for us!! Love y’all!
I can't get over the "gosh your taste is so good" when talking about which friend is attractive. I love love that you guys are able to talk about these kind of things and still be cool and have trust! My wife and I talk about things like this and we act just like you guys do and i think it is so awesome and healthy! It all comes down to trust and communication.
Love how you feel comfortable being real with us. Being able to show us the good and the bad. We need more of that in this world. Helps show that life doesn't always have to be perfect to be ok.
The way he looks at her.. 😩😭❤ I love watching you guys. It does make me sad sometimes though if I'm being completely honest. I wish my marriage was even half as loving, caring, considering, supportive, and so much more, as yours is. I look forward to watching you guys, it always brings a smile, and sometimes a tear or two to my face. Thank you for your content. ♡
I’m sorry your marriage isn’t like this, I hope you guys can work together and make it more how you listed. Relationships are tough, for sure 😭 Prayers for you.
I liked how you would ask a question and then immediately put your arm around Abby in a protective gesture. I'm sure you didn't even realize you were trying to protect her from the questions.
I love how honest you are with one another and how attentive you are with one another. Asking all these questions about why someone does something in a relationship is not very common. It's really great to see how both of you communicate so well with eachother. I think everyone has a lot to learn from you two. Sending love❤
I think the makeup industry is partly to blame with a lot of women's low self confidence. How can you believe you're pretty when you're constantly being told your natural face isn't good enough even though it is
That''s not how supply and demand works buddy. The supply exist because of the demand, not the other way around. If makeup did not make girls prettier than they are, then nobody would use makeup.
@@Erikshan Makeup gives off an unnatural beauty. To achieve a truly beautiful natural face takes alot of effort, work, time patience etc. Which is why its easier to just learn to put foundation on to hide all the impurities and get the same outcome (beauty). But, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and so, some people prefer a more natural beauty, while others like a more unnatural beauty.
What Abby was saying about moving Hawaii I feel so deeply. We just moved to Missouri and having no friends here or family it’s been really rough. My husband is similar to Matt and the transition was seamless but Im a stay at home mom and making connections it so difficult. Im hoping soon I’ll be able to say the same thing that I knew it was going to be okay here
I’m so grateful for you guys. You’ve made me want to be a better, kinder, more loving wife six years and two babies into our marriage. Your videos are inspiring and it’s silly but they’ve really helped me so much! Lots of love!
You’re a great example to young married couples! Talking through hard and uncomfortable questions, handling it with grace, listening, and showing people how to communicate are helpful tools for marriage! God bless you guys!
I love how honest you are. It also really shows how much you trust each other that Abby feels comfortable being so honest and Matt is not bothered by it in the least.
I’m pretty new to this channel but absolutely love the honesty and realism you have with each other! It’s pretty awesome to watch. Keep doing what you’re doing because I don’t think you know the amount of lives you have touched through your videos!
Love you guys and your vulnerability and transparency!! My husband and I are about to move to Utah from NC (with our two littles) and what Abby said registered with me so hard. I love serving people and helping out however I can but I’m also more introverted! My husband is someone who says hey and talks to everyone so I feel like this helped me prepare mentally for that transition. So thank you Abby for being so raw. And thank you Matt for asking that question!! I think that will help a lot of people!! Love you dudes!
I really appreciate that She has answered with the truth: "yes, sometimes the mind could wonder 'what if', but that doesn't mean I am not in love with Matt, cause I am a very loyal person and I truly love him". She is like an opened book, She is thousand times more loyal than the "I'm perfect and never made a mistake in my life" type of person💖 I really believe that loyal people are the ones who answer exactly like She has answered: without hiding behind the same perfect golden and immaculate image. The more people try to show a perfect image of their relationship without arguments or misundersteandings, and the more I don't believe in that 'facade'. This video was pure and honest, and I enjoyed watching it 👏👍good job dudes 😁👍👏👏
I really can’t describe how I feel about you guys! I know you guys aren’t perfect, because no one is perfect, but you are pretty close in my eyes. I long and pray for a relationship like your guys! 🥺
I COMPLETELY agree with Abby's answer on why she reacts negatively when she is complimented!! I dont take compliments well bc I can't even FATHOM that what the compliment is is actually truth. I feel like it's just being said to be nice or to "just saying something" Abby, you ARE BEAUTIFUL with AND without makeup. I hope you always feel that way bout yourself!
It warms my heart how personable the two of you are🥰 You show the raw real you and it means more than I think you realize! It helps a ton with self reflection which I’m so grateful for. Love you guys!!
The way you listen to and love each other is admirable!!! Your relationship feels so healthy and balanced. And I love how present and attentive you are with Abby, Matt!!!! So awesome 👏🏽
My hubby and I have been married almost 19 years. We were young, I was 19 and he 23.... love him more each day... so refreshing to see a young couple fighting for love
You guys are so open and honest, Thank you for sharing! Love you guys! You asked a question Something that I never ask my wife. I always wondered why she would ask me to do so many little things for her like get her a glass of water or get things that are really close to her to the point sometimes I would get annoyed. Abby sharing that it makes her feel taken care of. Was eye-opener for me help me change my attitude thank you
As a girl I understand the feelings of wanting to look pretty and wear makeup when going out but sometimes it's important to not wear it just to build your self confidence and self esteem. Also Abby is so adorable with or without makeup
I’m kind of speechless. My husband and I have been married for 30 years and we have either forgotten or misplaced our sparks along the way or maybe it was the 15 children we had. Either way don’t lose your spark. You can see how much you love each other and you have soooo many more years together keep life fun. No matter what you are doing always help each other have FUN and laughter. You two are super sweet and I hope all the best for you. Looking forward to seeing the new videos
I love you guys!!! You guys are so genuine and you guys have such a healthy relationship. You guys are so verbal with each other which helps to have such a healthy relationship strive!!!🥰🥰😊
Feeling excitement about imagining being with someone else is a red flag even if you’ll never act on it. You must have no idea how good you have it!!! So many of us are alone for years & years & years. And the ones that have someone are distant from each other or bored or just take each other for granted. Please look around at other couples, single people & older people that have lost their spouses. Don’t lose the closeness you have with him. You are incredibly lucky as he is to have you but treat it as it is, nothing else could ever, ever, Ever compare. Facts.
The thought that Abby has those thoughts about her appearance makes me so sad! She’s so beautiful! (But I think we all have days where it’s harder to accept a compliment)
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The way Matt looks at Abby and really listens to her talk makes you see how much he really loves her. Such a genuine sweet couple!
wait so that isnt normal anymore ?
i know a couple in their age who got married 7 months ago, they are my 2 best friends. when we talk, like taaaaaalk and talk and talk about deep stuff he looks the exact same as matt does while listening to all of us, including his wife.
isnt that normal ? i think if that is not in the norm, i cant really call it a friendship.
@@red_infinitystone i think its still normal. I see it more often than I dont. And I think people listen more and better when theyre at home and comfy. Rather when out, surrounded by distractions and other people to listen to
❤ so much love❤ i Want a soul like him ...not exactly..he belongs to you...of course... I ask in my life Someone that loves me so much ❤
Absolutely 💯
I’ve literally never in my entire life seen a man be so attentive to his wife. That is so sweet. I’m really thankful that I subscribed to you guys. I think watching your content could rub off on people in a really positive way.
Totally agree! I think being that kind and attentive to your significant other needs to be more normalized bc now a days it's not really❤️
it can rub off but also comes with risk of over idealising romance and being sad when those unrealistic expectations aren't met
She said she doesn't like making out much...not a good sign there
yeah!
You guys are so genuine and real. It is good to see people on social media that show their true colors. Matt, you are an incredible dude, and I can tell that you respect and cherish Abby more than anything. Abby, you are a great role model for everyone, and you put smiles on some many people’s faces. Keep up the great work DUDES, the world needs more people like you two!!!!!!!!
Your kind words mean so much! Thank you!
wow I’m impressed because I’ve never seen a healthier relationship in my life or even on TH-cam! Wishing you guys lots of love and happiness together forever ❤️✨
definitely healthy relationship, I agree
Lol. How can you see a healthy relationship in youtube? nobody would act like they have a problem in their relationship!!!!
❤️❤️❤️
@@MrAllen1994 Im positive they have fights, everyone who is comfortable with eachother have. Because you trust them not to walk away even if you kinda lose your shit for a second.
But they document so much of their lives its hard to believe this isnt a healthy relationship. And sure, perhaps they put on a little fancy filter the second the camera turns on. But since they are so healthy on camera, chances are they are healthy of camera too, I think its a bit more real of camera, but still healthy. But its hard to fake a healthy relationship when so much is documented.
Did that make sense?
I love the way you guys look at each other with so genuine care and love that just can't be faked.
I love how Abby is so truthful while answering all the questions...
abby is just so wholesome and sweet. The way she words things are so perfectly said. Love you guys!!
I love how honest Abby is about things
When Abby said “I could go the rest of my life without hearing smash that like button” … I’m dying laughing! Her face was DONE 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
@@MattandAbby hello
Your channel should be required watching for all young engaged couples! Your communication skills as a married couple are such an example to other young couples. So much can be learned by the example you set and the way you share with each other. Such an inspiration.
I really wish you guys were around when I got married at 19 (now 32). I was the first of everyone I knew who had a kid and was married super young (had 3 kids by 24), i really appreciate your content even as a 32 year old because you are teaching so many younger married couples how to communicate and make your marriage work ♥️ I even learn from you still now. So thank you for everything you do for us!! Love y’all!
Still married?
I love how honest and genuine Abby is!! like its so rare on social media. RESPECT ❤️
I 100000% understand Abby in everything she said. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years and can relate so much. I love you guys!
love how honest and open they are with each other
I'm older than your parents, and I love watching your relationship grow...you both are genuine, kind and loving! Terrific.
I love you as a couple. You are more mature, honest, and loving to each other than most people who have married for decades ❤
I can't get over the "gosh your taste is so good" when talking about which friend is attractive. I love love that you guys are able to talk about these kind of things and still be cool and have trust! My wife and I talk about things like this and we act just like you guys do and i think it is so awesome and healthy! It all comes down to trust and communication.
Love how you feel comfortable being real with us. Being able to show us the good and the bad. We need more of that in this world. Helps show that life doesn't always have to be perfect to be ok.
Let’s just. Wow. Abby, you are so honest and open, thank you for your well rounded answers. Let’s also applaud Matt for being so receptive ✨🥰👏🏼👏🏼
I honestly i wish i could have this level of understanding with someone.
"Are you okay?"
Calmly: "Yeah"
"Are you choking?"
Calmly again: "Yeah"
lol
Lol I laughed so hard at that part too watching it back
"With water?"
Calmly again: "Yeah"
I love how Matt listens so well and uses this to become a better husband for Abby
The amount of HOW MUCH I relate to Abby in every part of this video.
Wow. I was crying, too.
Matt really loves you Abby ! The way he holds you and looks at you is incredible… and Abby you are such a genuine and real person, love it !
The way he looks at her.. 😩😭❤
I love watching you guys. It does make me sad sometimes though if I'm being completely honest. I wish my marriage was even half as loving, caring, considering, supportive, and so much more, as yours is.
I look forward to watching you guys, it always brings a smile, and sometimes a tear or two to my face. Thank you for your content. ♡
Love and prayers for you hun 💖
I’m sorry your marriage isn’t like this, I hope you guys can work together and make it more how you listed. Relationships are tough, for sure 😭 Prayers for you.
@@deepthinker4125 thank you ♡
@@heatherlynsey3092 thank you ♡♡♡
It is so nice to see Matt praising Abby.
U can see his love and appreciation for her.
That's so sweet..
I love how engaged they both look when either one of them are talking that explains true friendship and love
I liked how you would ask a question and then immediately put your arm around Abby in a protective gesture. I'm sure you didn't even realize you were trying to protect her from the questions.
All her answers are so thoughtful and considerate. She really has a way of expressing herself!!!
I love how honest you are with one another and how attentive you are with one another. Asking all these questions about why someone does something in a relationship is not very common. It's really great to see how both of you communicate so well with eachother. I think everyone has a lot to learn from you two. Sending love❤
I think the makeup industry is partly to blame with a lot of women's low self confidence. How can you believe you're pretty when you're constantly being told your natural face isn't good enough even though it is
That''s not how supply and demand works buddy. The supply exist because of the demand, not the other way around. If makeup did not make girls prettier than they are, then nobody would use makeup.
So true!!
@@Erikshan I don’t think you realise what your saying.
@@anniethings8332 That's ok. You can think what you want and I can think what I want but it does not change what i said.
@@Erikshan Makeup gives off an unnatural beauty. To achieve a truly beautiful natural face takes alot of effort, work, time patience etc. Which is why its easier to just learn to put foundation on to hide all the impurities and get the same outcome (beauty). But, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and so, some people prefer a more natural beauty, while others like a more unnatural beauty.
I love how you guys are honest and don’t try to act perfect
I LOVE how honest you are with one another ❤
Love how honest they are abt everything, it makes there videos so enjoyable
Been here since you guys didn’t even hit 100K soo happy to see you all grow❤️❤️
What Abby was saying about moving Hawaii I feel so deeply. We just moved to Missouri and having no friends here or family it’s been really rough. My husband is similar to Matt and the transition was seamless but Im a stay at home mom and making connections it so difficult. Im hoping soon I’ll be able to say the same thing that I knew it was going to be okay here
I’m so grateful for you guys. You’ve made me want to be a better, kinder, more loving wife six years and two babies into our marriage. Your videos are inspiring and it’s silly but they’ve really helped me so much! Lots of love!
You’re a great example to young married couples! Talking through hard and uncomfortable questions, handling it with grace, listening, and showing people how to communicate are helpful tools for marriage! God bless you guys!
I love how honest she is.. and how're they're just able to talk this out❤️🥺 not something I saw growing up. You guys are role models
4:35 Matt finally takes a bite of the muffin. I was starting to wonder if it was just there for decoration.
lol same 😂I was gonna say the same thing
Felt
The honesty in this video is so raw... I love how comfortable and real you are with each other ❤️
Abby is a beautiful person inside and out 👍🏼
I love how honest you are. It also really shows how much you trust each other that Abby feels comfortable being so honest and Matt is not bothered by it in the least.
Abby is so, so wise. It truly blows me away!
I love how you both are so open and honest with each other! You both are so real! 🌸😀
“Are you going to show them these for free?!” HAHAHHA I love you guys
Ayyyye another Samantha!
heyyyy
I’m pretty new to this channel but absolutely love the honesty and realism you have with each other! It’s pretty awesome to watch. Keep doing what you’re doing because I don’t think you know the amount of lives you have touched through your videos!
Love you guys and your vulnerability and transparency!! My husband and I are about to move to Utah from NC (with our two littles) and what Abby said registered with me so hard. I love serving people and helping out however I can but I’m also more introverted! My husband is someone who says hey and talks to everyone so I feel like this helped me prepare mentally for that transition. So thank you Abby for being so raw. And thank you Matt for asking that question!! I think that will help a lot of people!! Love you dudes!
I really appreciate that She has answered with the truth: "yes, sometimes the mind could wonder 'what if', but that doesn't mean I am not in love with Matt, cause I am a very loyal person and I truly love him". She is like an opened book, She is thousand times more loyal than the "I'm perfect and never made a mistake in my life" type of person💖 I really believe that loyal people are the ones who answer exactly like She has answered: without hiding behind the same perfect golden and immaculate image. The more people try to show a perfect image of their relationship without arguments or misundersteandings, and the more I don't believe in that 'facade'. This video was pure and honest, and I enjoyed watching it 👏👍good job dudes 😁👍👏👏
I enjoy your videos so much. I’m a 50 year old mama.. and your videos truly bring sunshine to my day. They just make me happy! ♥️
Beautiful couple 🤍. I love how Matt is always assuring her that he loves her 🤍
Genuinely Abby, thank you for being so authentic!!! 💜
I really can’t describe how I feel about you guys! I know you guys aren’t perfect, because no one is perfect, but you are pretty close in my eyes. I long and pray for a relationship like your guys! 🥺
I love the way they reacted when telling each other which friends they found attractive 😂❤️
Anyone else think Abbie should write a book? I just feel if she wrote a book it would be a great book.
I COMPLETELY agree with Abby's answer on why she reacts negatively when she is complimented!! I dont take compliments well bc I can't even FATHOM that what the compliment is is actually truth. I feel like it's just being said to be nice or to "just saying something"
Abby, you ARE BEAUTIFUL with AND without makeup. I hope you always feel that way bout yourself!
Matt is such a good listener..everyone should have someone who listen to you and know you so well!! Abby is soo cutee..lovee uu guyzz
i can’t wait to find someone who looks at me like Matt looks at Abby
Trust me girl you will. You look very beautiful so you will find a good bf quickly 👍
You will find someone soon 😊
@@fireiron369 love is not about looks!
abby is so beautiful without makeup!!!! i’m so happy that you have become so confident in your own beautiful skin! you look great girl! ❤️❤️
abby is so humble! she is so beautiful!
YALL ARE SO CUTE AND SUPPORTIVE OF EACH OTHER IT MAKES ME SO HAPPY 🥰
It warms my heart how personable the two of you are🥰 You show the raw real you and it means more than I think you realize! It helps a ton with self reflection which I’m so grateful for. Love you guys!!
The way you listen to and love each other is admirable!!! Your relationship feels so healthy and balanced. And I love how present and attentive you are with Abby, Matt!!!! So awesome 👏🏽
Abby looks awesome without makeup on! :)
Abby is really honest and so sweet :)
when I'm anxious, you guys make me feel calm again
You both take care of each other and have each other’s back no matter what.
Abby you’re honesty is very much appreciated ❤️ So many things you discussed is so relatable to me and makes me feel better
My hubby and I have been married almost 19 years. We were young, I was 19 and he 23.... love him more each day... so refreshing to see a young couple fighting for love
I love how you guys are always so genuine
Love videos like this. Thank you for being so vulnerable with us❤️❤️
The way he looks at her.🥺🖤
You guys are so open and honest, Thank you for sharing! Love you guys! You asked a question Something that I never ask my wife. I always wondered why she would ask me to do so many little things for her like get her a glass of water or get things that are really close to her to the point sometimes I would get annoyed. Abby sharing that it makes her feel taken care of. Was eye-opener for me help me change my attitude thank you
As a girl I understand the feelings of wanting to look pretty and wear makeup when going out but sometimes it's important to not wear it just to build your self confidence and self esteem. Also Abby is so adorable with or without makeup
Abby is soooo honest! It's awesome as hell!
I love how real y’all are with each other. Wonderful communication!! 🤍🤍
By the end of this video, I think we all have a good idea of what marriage should look like.
6:57 aww they're so cute.also both of their laughs are so contiguous
I guess it’s true that the people who smile the most also have the deepest sadness
I just came across this video and your love towards one another is so pure and genuine it's hard for you guys not to be role models💕
Matt and Abby are so down to earth….the sweetest couple ever. ❤❤
My favourite videos are the ones where Abby is crying, only because I know Matt is close by ready to comfort her. ❤ that’s love right there
I’m kind of speechless. My husband and I have been married for 30 years and we have either forgotten or misplaced our sparks along the way or maybe it was the 15 children we had. Either way don’t lose your spark. You can see how much you love each other and you have soooo many more years together keep life fun. No matter what you are doing always help each other have FUN and laughter.
You two are super sweet and I hope all the best for you. Looking forward to seeing the new videos
Abby cracks me up! “Are you gonna show them this for free?” 🤣
She is sooo honest I love it!
Matt is so sweet, he’s a rare person
I’ve watched you guys so much that my Dads become a Dude!! He said it makes his day when he overhears you guys in the background :)
I love you guys!!! You guys are so genuine and you guys have such a healthy relationship. You guys are so verbal with each other which helps to have such a healthy relationship strive!!!🥰🥰😊
Feeling excitement about imagining being with someone else is a red flag even if you’ll never act on it. You must have no idea how good you have it!!! So many of us are alone for years & years & years. And the ones that have someone are distant from each other or bored or just take each other for granted. Please look around at other couples, single people & older people that have lost their spouses. Don’t lose the closeness you have with him. You are incredibly lucky as he is to have you but treat it as it is, nothing else could ever, ever, Ever compare. Facts.
So sweet and actually inspirational!
Abby and Matt are both BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE !!!
"Marriage: bursts the orb." 🤣🤣🤣 Sooo true, I feel the exact same way Abby. 😅
This is so wholesome. I really love these videos. Giving me a better perspective on stuff and how to treat my future wife.
Holding out for a husband that understands and knows me this well
That's so sad, when Abby said that when she is with Matt, she feels the safest, I have a boyfriend and don't ever feel that, quite the opposite.
😔❤️ you deserve to be with someone who makes you feel safe
Abbys love language seems like it is acts of service and Matt's seems like touch
Jeeze Abby you’re SO FREAKING GORGEOUS without and with makeup! You are just a beautiful beautiful girl! Love you guys so much! ❤
So glad I found your channel, your content is wholesome and your love is everything 🥰🥰🥰
I always enjoy these videos from you two! Thanks for being you!!
The thought that Abby has those thoughts about her appearance makes me so sad! She’s so beautiful! (But I think we all have days where it’s harder to accept a compliment)