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I'm so glad you gave your insight about this video! I actually came across it a few months ago, and as a Canadian, had some good laughs. 😄 Much of it is very charming, but the jealousy is a big red flag here. A bit is normal, of course, but a man not allowing you to do things like speaking to other men is incredibly controlling and often a sign of someone abusive. Not teaching your kids, either sons or daughters, to do chores, have responsibilities, etc, is seen as not preparing them well for adulthood. There does seem to be a certain charm to many Turkish men. I've been learning a lot about Turkey over the past year or so, and would love to visit some day!
Same here in the U.S. Just the phrase “let her” is a red flag, as an American woman, I do what I want and talk to who I want, I don’t need anyone to let me do anything. There are a few guys whose moms take care of everything for these, and many jokes are made about them being “ momma’s boys”.
Im pretty sure the women are equally jealous too. I think it goes to this whole idea of people actually believe in like my one true love etc. But that said a lot of Turkish men and probably women are just looking for something casual.
Crystal come to the UK, English women are the most controlling on planet earth, most English men have to run their social life plans past their female partners before they're allowed to do anything.
Honestly, the jealousy part is just extremely toxic. Another problem we have here is that that in some parts of Turkey it is EXPECTED to be like that. Women will think you are a coward and a weak person if you don't abuse them under the guise of "jealousy". I even had a friend tell me that she feels sad and unloved because her boyfriend doesn't verbally assault her when she wears a crop-top. Of course this is not a general rule or something like that. A lot of people here are sick of this "culture" and have healthy relationships. But running into the people in the former group does make you feel like they are in some weird fetish cult.
I love turkish men. I have dated them and I am marrying a turkish man with turkish wedding 💜👌🏼 there is no better really. Even if they can be jealous or anything. If you find a good turkish man he will love you and take care of you so good.
I am dating a Turkish man and I really like him. This is my experience dating a Turkish man. At first, I wasn’t sure what to expect since I am a Latina but this aside I am glad I accept him. He always tells me that he loves me and that he see a future with me. When he told me this at first I wasn’t sure how to take it but than I really like that he shows me this with actions as well as words 😊 He is perfect just the way is he and I wouldn’t change anything about him ☺️
Dating a Turkish man is awesome.. but let me just give you ladies a bit of insight. My mother-in-law surprise visited us from Turkey when we were first married. She wanted to make sure her boy was being treated well. :)
Thank you for making this. This is amazing. I’m currently learning Turkish and plan to stay in Turkey for many years once I’ve mastered it enough. Your videos are a life saver. You’re content is amazing, thank you. I hope you’re having a great summer!
Hilarious because I have a Turkish friend who’s not jealous whatsoever, he never takes initiative with girls, he doesn’t want to get married nor have children and he still talks to all his exes and wouldn’t care if his girlfriend did the same 😂 He’s also super open with his emotions and more carefree than manly haha
Lol, same here. My Turkish mate is also extremely vulnerable. Perhaps it is because he was brought up in the UK? idk but yeah, I feel a lot of these stereotypes are not true.
He sounds he has no respect for u thts why he doesn't mind u talking to other men and doesnt want to marry he's just passing time with thts another reason he doesn't mind😂😂😂
For me, my boyfriend/husband is my king, my Sultan. I do everything for him so my turkish boyfriend always happy with me to take care of him and he always work and provide the best for me. Any turkish man i have been with their mom is #1 to them always. They do get jealous but some are worse than others. They always ask about future, and i like that.
@@ДесиславаБалабанова-ь3ж who says im not a queen? If hes with me, he must be a king..because queens dont settle for peasants. And if he's with me, that means he treats me as a queen and therefore deserves all i do for him. This is what makes me happy, if it does not suit you then you can live your life in a manner that does :)
I am Chaldean and I am dating a Turkish man for 5 years, lol everything is very true but they are the best lover’s ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for sharing this video
I am a grandma but, I have three granddaughters 😃... so only God knows if there will be a Turkish gentleman in my family. Your videos are entertaining and very original. 👍I love them. Greetings to you and to your subscribers.
I would love to try that dessert...I love the Turkish food I have tried.. Biber Dolması is one of my favorites....Bulgur pilaf... Kofte . Ok I am making myself hungry.. 😂
Well I feel so much better now. This is pretty spot on. I also broke up with my BF because he would do all of this. To me, it sounded too good to be true, or not genuine. But I kept saying, let me not assume things, and just take it as it comes, but we are still strong 8 months later. I never thought I would find the one, but it might actually come true.
I just subscribed to your channel today and I have watched like three of your videos. I must say I looooooooooooove your content. Men!! You are real and your channel is interesting. You make me want to come to Turkey earlier than expected. Thanks for dropping such wonderful contents. Well-done!!
The macho man mentality is very common for the countries in the region. It is good that you still have traditional values. I also see that marriage is very important in your country. I have mixed feelings about it. A lot of people may rush in to marriage because they feel the pressure from society but latter on they receive even more disapproval, if they are divorced.
Can, thanks to your help in another video, I was in Istanbul a month ago, alone, without any fear. It really smooths my fears. About this video, I already knew almost all of these things, and maybe that's why I lost all my interest in Portuguese men and have now a huge one in tukish men. Finally, I love your videos. 😍
I thinks most women's they still want to find the one(your prince charming ). And men's who want to feel feelings,who want to say I love you every day. And portuguese mens are not like that. I'm married to half chinese,half portuguese(mix). And is amazing too..
my boyfriend is turkish and he is everything in this video 😂 but he doesn't mind what I wear, I remember once we were out and i realized a group of guys were looking at me, my boyfriend hugh me tighter and said "men pls stop looking 😭 she's my woman" and he's so cute ❤
and also he is used to do house chores so he doesn't expect me to do everything for him, we do it together sometimes me more sometimes him more, it's so good for both 💗
When you will see groups like this next time dont eye contact with them bcz you made your bf very agressive protector mode in no time 😂, its not about you, men knows What man thinkings when they see a pretty girls
@@brownbrem1284 serving my husband is something I am proud to do. He serves me every day by making sure I have everything I need to make a very nice home and healthy meals. He protects our family and does a lot more for me outside the home. It is a pleasure for me to make sure his needs are met and he is happy. You may see me as his servant but he sees me as his partner. We both handle our halves of our life together to support the other. 😉
This comment was phenomenal, it is honestly incredibly rude to call someone a servant anyway I really liked your point of view and wish you all the best with your future.
I love Dating Beyond Borders, Marina the creator of the show doesn't do these kinds of skits anymore but she does have a podcast and it would interesting for her to interview someone from Turkey about dating there. But she has been spot on in different countries and their dating and life style. She has written about about Swedish life and their dating style.
I never saw my husband cry in ten years since that we know each other. He is more jealous than me, cause he wants control my clothes, make, and social midia. I got used to this. My anne, is like a second mom to me! ❤ They are from Mersin, i am Brazilian, now getting used to live in Ankara because his job.😉👍🏻. Nice video!
The word "Turkish" could be replaced by the word "Greek" without changing a single word. The macho mindset is common in both countries... but it is slowly changing.
Thank you very much for the nice video is it okay if I could ask questions privately? I need a realiable advice from a turkish man before going to Turkey. Hoping for your reply. Thanks!
Omg I wish to visit Turkey one day as I reallyyyy want to try Turkish food and sweets, I was in Dubai last week and there was a baklava store there and I was so happy after seeing it, it was my first time eating it and I LOVED IT, can't wait to eat lots of baklavas in Turkey. The man selling them was a Turkish and he was so sweet, he gave my a free try with my order and I had my first chat with a Turkish guy face to face in Turkish language (yes ik Turkish language) I was the happiest person in the world that day and I want to marry a Turkish guy so badlyyyyyyyy
Well as I am seeing the video there is not that much difference in my country (Iraq) and your country (Turkey) even my mom do all chores and sometimes when she is tired I do them myself 😁
fellas not everyone was born in big cities like izmir, istanbul, ankara. There are 60 million people living in Anatolia. Especially in Anatolia there are too many such dogmas and indeed what is described here is true for most. but in capital cities in areas with high levels of education most of these situations are not true. Especially the "turkish men are jealous" part. Everyone is jealous of their loved ones. But that doesn't mean you put your partner in cage. although the subject of circumcision is currently being discussed, but a man who is not circumcised cannot get married in anatolia its true :D The country is in such a bad situation that Turkish men are starting to see foreign women as Schengen visas specially europeans.If you hear a lot about marriage, i recommending you to be suspicious of this situation :D bu arada videoların çok çok iyi gerçekten türkleri çok güzel yansıtıyorsun emeği geçen herkesin eline sağlık :)
I dated a Turkish man years ago and he was not at all as described in this video. Except that he was over indulged by his mom and his place was a mess so clearly he was bad at chores. He was always weeping, sobbing and whining about trivial things. It was a huge turn off. Lasted less than 6 months. He was a sweet hearted person though, I am thinking he wasn't a typical Turkish man.
Loooveeeeee your channel mahn! I'm learning Türkish and will soon move to Istanbul inşallah. Your video are so interesting and helpful. Sending lots of love ❤️
For Christmas holidays I'm traveling to Istanbul, with my fresh new man.. I'm so afraid, because I'm officially still married.. He has 7 siblings, I grow up as the only child.. So much fear 😱
I'm agree with you İ was dating with a Turkish man and moste of thoose things he did them it was not that much exaggerating but most of things were like that and what i really appreciate in him was his respecting to women and his seriousness but sadly.... Anyway good video as always keep going 😉
The true test is what he/she is going to do when the person he/she loves is seriously ill. Can he/she find a cure even if the doctors say no? Can the person use his/her brains/money to help the person he/she loves? This does not even require marriage. What is possessiveness when a man/woman cannot even help the person he/she loves? Possessiveness and love are 2 different issues. Charles Dickens wrote A Tale of Two Cities. One man sacrifices himself for the woman he loves so she can be together with another man that she loves. Isn't it she chose the wrong man?
A Turkish mother sounds just like an Irish mother. I think the 2 cultures are very similiar.....except after marriage we are not so enmeshed with family of origin and most have boundaries around visiting especially unannounced. Greetings from Ireland 🇮🇪
I have been dating a Turkish man online for morethan a year we have alot of plan for the future like getting married having a children and already planning to meet this December, but things end when we have a fight that he started for the first time he keep pushing me away saying leave him Alon abandoned him I don't deserve an irresponsible person like him and more, I did still chatting him to fix our relationship but he just seen my messages and not responding at all. So weird he give up so easily like we don't have commitments to each other
It sounds like he is trying to get out of the relationship without manning up and saying that. He could also be cheating. I seriously hope not but it doesn't sound good because a man would be persistent and fight for his love and push you away if you didn't do anything. I also know that's the truth for Turkish culture generally.
Same for men in Pakistan . We say here men don't cry 😂 .... they keep their pain and problems to themselves but sometimes I think that men also has a heart and emotions
Hi, can you explain why a Turkish man would ask me to take 1 grape from the bunch of grapes that I offered to him as a gift? He had already eaten one or two. I declined to take a grape since it is a gift for him, but he insisted. I asked "Why?" and he refused to say. He just kept asking me to take one. So I took a grape from the bunch but didn't eat it. He was satisfied with that. I think this is related to Turkish etiquette.
I met a turkish guy in the airplane, we talked a lot, were glad to meet each other but we were in different cities later, he would like to come to me but wanted to share my room with. Is it ok in Turkey?? 😁 For me it is not. I have never shared one room with a person, whom I met 3 days ago. 😃
its fun and interesting at the same time, makes me wonder how if its the other way, like a foreigner with Turkish women, how will it go? and how the Turkish community sees them? is it acceptable in the community?
Thank you for these videos. I am a Canadian. He became very interested in learning Turkish and about Turkey. After watching Turkish dramas. Namely ones so far with Çagatay Ulusoy. Who is a brilliant actor. Saw two of his movies. Watched him in My name is Fehria. Currently watching between The Protector Medcezir and Icerde. TH-cam has many great channels and links for this. Do you know by chance if there is a place to watch or a way to watch on TH-cam. With English subtitles includes. Thanks I just subscribed and became a contributor. Checking it out. I am also taking Turkish lessons through Turkish101.
Once a Afghan guy dated an American girl ,she had that believe that he is americanized how wrong she was .She went out with her friends to the clubs when she came home he beat her so bad that she ended up in the hospital with a broken jaw. You girls have to know what you get yourself into when dating a muslim.
was a great vid i jus started dating a turk guy and everything tht goes on in the vid is the same az hm lol im from new zealand n i was interested in watching this cos i wana no about turkish guys without havn to ask cos this all new to me havnt dated any1 from another country so thank u for this video
I dated a Turkish man for years best relationship ever,… until it wasn’t. His family was okay with him being gay at first as long as nobody knew. We bought a beautiful villa together, two cars, started a business together… a few years down the line and… they would not stop insisting that he get married or at least have a child… or as a last resort they offered to marry him to his third cousin (a woman) so people would not talk. It hurt me but I sold everything, gave him a modest settlement and left him. I understand the culture, but honestly… why care about what people think if we had such a good life together and lived in a private secluded setting?? 🧐
I'm like ready to pack my bags right now!!! Even with the "bad" things you confirmed essentially, this pretty much represents the perfect man for me. Together with how much you guys love and care for street animals, I think I will absolutely LOVE Turkey. Thank you for all the amazing videos showing us your culture 😊
Lots of very similar traits to Pakistani guys (not the exceptions). 1. I think saying anything to get them (pull them as we’d say in the U.K.) is probably quite typical & we also wouldn’t pursue em if they said they were already taken. 2. Pakistani guys normally get in to a relationship to marry & start a family as well. The same pressures from the friends & family. 3. We offer niyaz (sacrifice) on circumcision. It’s an Islamic tradition which all Muslims will do. 4. Pakistani men also don’t like to portray themselves as weak and emotional. We prefer the masculine macho image where nothing can phase us. We’re also raised in the same environment where portraying emotion such as crying is interpreted as being weak or feminine. 5. We also don’t want to know the past history and neither does she need to know ours (preferably she doesn’t have a past ;) ). The protective jealousy is a natural trait in masculine males (we refer to those that do not have this as dayooth - our religion says a man should have this protective jealousy). And be cause of this We don’t like our females going out and/or interacting with other males unnecessarily (same applies vice versa). 5. Pakistani guys don’t talk about their family outside of the home with their friends … the idea of chillin with the boys is that we don’t talk about anything family…. No stress and all good vibes. All family related stuff is pvt. 6. Pakistani boys are also mummy’s boys and given special treatment and treated like absolute kings compared to their sisters. 7. Family also comes first for us guys in the exact same way. That’s my take on it… obviously there’s exceptions to the above but that’s the general norm.
I think rather than most of those traits being a Pakistani, Turkish or Middle Eastern thing, they were and still are quite common characteristics that one can see in many parts of the world regardless of country, ethnicity, religion. Many Christian religious black men also share some of those characteristics or Greeks, even some traditional Chinese men(East Asian men being portrayed as "feminine, non-macho is really a recent thing. If one looked at traditional historical depictions of Chinese men, one would easily see that sexism, machoism, masculine characteristics are also common in Chinese tradition.). Same goes for other religious conservative cultures like traditional European Christians, Protestant Americans, many Mormons etc.
Sorry 🙏🙏...I know this is not connected with your subject but these days I have been watching Furkan andic's drama with Ezgi Senler. I don't why actress left the drama even though she was looking pretty and cute with furkan and she played her role very well. I missed her sooooooooooooooo much. I didn't continue the drama when I got to know she won't come back. Why did she leave the drama??????
Hi Can. I follow your videos and really like them. Thanks! One piece of advise, work on your "w" sound, it sounds a little strange when Turkish people pronounce it, not only you. It is very similar to the sound of "u"... Best regards from Argentina!🥰 Keep on with your channel!
@@veraladin I am learning Turkish, just beggining to. As far as I understand the vowel sound [u] sound like the "w" letter in English. I think the confusion comes from orthography, I mean how the words are written. If you stop thinking about "w" and how weird it is because it is noty in your Alphabet, etc. and you begin to think that letter sounds like [u] vowel in your language, I think you can solve it and pronounce correctly. It is not a strange sound for Turkish, it is only the letter "w" that is not familiar. Regards! Görüşürüz!
*I have a question, obviously serious one, what if the person's parent or parents that are Turks does not want to do that to their son's thingy? Like, what would the opinions and reactions possibly be from the family members, maybe the parents want to let the kid decide himself when he is older? Possibly a Turk can answer? Does not matter if it is a female or a male, but has to be a Muslim turk, thanks in advance if you reply to this.*
Turkey is the country I feel the less desirable in the streets. Maybe because i'm walking with my husband but cars won't even stop for me. Honestly this is the first time it happens, it's like "not my girl, not worth my kindness" 😂
im still in my healing process for dating one of them, actually he was turkish kurdish,. worse experience ever ! narcissist at its finest .. first they love bomb you than they show their true colours, you'll end up in mental hospital just bcs of them. yes not everyone is the same but im based on my personal experience
I just watch this video and I feel like my boyfriend is not like that at all. I have turkish boyfriend, you know what the weird thing about him. He look like didn’t love me anymore. First meet he show that he really like me, taking care of me, text me, sending me a pict everyday but after 1 month left he just didn’t care about me. He text me one a week, never call also. And he never talking about future with me. Never talking about anything. I think that he just need me when he feel lonely. If you find my comment what do u think about that?
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I'm so glad you gave your insight about this video! I actually came across it a few months ago, and as a Canadian, had some good laughs. 😄 Much of it is very charming, but the jealousy is a big red flag here. A bit is normal, of course, but a man not allowing you to do things like speaking to other men is incredibly controlling and often a sign of someone abusive. Not teaching your kids, either sons or daughters, to do chores, have responsibilities, etc, is seen as not preparing them well for adulthood.
There does seem to be a certain charm to many Turkish men. I've been learning a lot about Turkey over the past year or so, and would love to visit some day!
Same here in the U.S.
Just the phrase “let her” is a red flag, as an American woman, I do what I want and talk to who I want, I don’t need anyone to let me do anything.
There are a few guys whose moms take care of everything for these, and many jokes are made about them being “ momma’s boys”.
Im pretty sure the women are equally jealous too. I think it goes to this whole idea of people actually believe in like my one true love etc. But that said a lot of Turkish men and probably women are just looking for something casual.
Crystal come to the UK, English women are the most controlling on planet earth, most English men have to run their social life plans past their female partners before they're allowed to do anything.
It is one of the most special and comfortable places in the world 🌍
Honestly, the jealousy part is just extremely toxic. Another problem we have here is that that in some parts of Turkey it is EXPECTED to be like that. Women will think you are a coward and a weak person if you don't abuse them under the guise of "jealousy". I even had a friend tell me that she feels sad and unloved because her boyfriend doesn't verbally assault her when she wears a crop-top. Of course this is not a general rule or something like that. A lot of people here are sick of this "culture" and have healthy relationships. But running into the people in the former group does make you feel like they are in some weird fetish cult.
I love turkish men. I have dated them and I am marrying a turkish man with turkish wedding 💜👌🏼 there is no better really.
Even if they can be jealous or anything. If you find a good turkish man he will love you and take care of you so good.
congrats Amanda! you're a family member now hahhaa ✨❤️
Suggest me please how can I date turkish men
Merhaba hangi ülkedensiniz.?@@SegensagaTedros
As always, your videos are a real learning tool to learn lots about your Turkish culture. Thanks so much! keep them coming!! :)
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It's nice to hear that our content has been helpful!
I am dating a Turkish man and I really like him. This is my experience dating a Turkish man. At first, I wasn’t sure what to expect since I am a Latina but this aside I am glad I accept him. He always tells me that he loves me and that he see a future with me. When he told me this at first I wasn’t sure how to take it but than I really like that he shows me this with actions as well as words 😊 He is perfect just the way is he and I wouldn’t change anything about him ☺️
Dating a Turkish man is awesome.. but let me just give you ladies a bit of insight. My mother-in-law surprise visited us from Turkey when we were first married. She wanted to make sure her boy was being treated well. :)
That is very common and expected in the Balkan region.
Thanks girl 👍
@@Dzanarika1I'm Balkan too 😁
thats so good❤
Maybe it is time that the younger generation start raising their children to do more chores 🤔
Thank you for making this. This is amazing. I’m currently learning Turkish and plan to stay in Turkey for many years once I’ve mastered it enough. Your videos are a life saver. You’re content is amazing, thank you. I hope you’re having a great summer!
Thank you so much!
Best of luck!
Hilarious because I have a Turkish friend who’s not jealous whatsoever, he never takes initiative with girls, he doesn’t want to get married nor have children and he still talks to all his exes and wouldn’t care if his girlfriend did the same 😂 He’s also super open with his emotions and more carefree than manly haha
Lol, same here. My Turkish mate is also extremely vulnerable. Perhaps it is because he was brought up in the UK? idk but yeah, I feel a lot of these stereotypes are not true.
He sounds he has no respect for u thts why he doesn't mind u talking to other men and doesnt want to marry he's just passing time with thts another reason he doesn't mind😂😂😂
Im glad my boyfriend's not like that💀
For me, my boyfriend/husband is my king, my Sultan. I do everything for him so my turkish boyfriend always happy with me to take care of him and he always work and provide the best for me. Any turkish man i have been with their mom is #1 to them always. They do get jealous but some are worse than others. They always ask about future, and i like that.
So you are the servant of your king? Why don't you instead, call yourself a Queen? Let's break this patriarchal toxic cycle.
@@ДесиславаБалабанова-ь3ж who says im not a queen? If hes with me, he must be a king..because queens dont settle for peasants. And if he's with me, that means he treats me as a queen and therefore deserves all i do for him. This is what makes me happy, if it does not suit you then you can live your life in a manner that does :)
@@Amanda.0317 nobody has to be king or queen. Just be normal human who loves, trusts, respects and shares.
@@ДесиславаБалабанова-ь3ж I wonder how many Turkish men she has tried, and perhaps still trying :)
I am Chaldean and I am dating a Turkish man for 5 years, lol everything is very true but they are the best lover’s ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for sharing this video
You lost me when you say dating 5 years 😂girl come up and where is your ring
Are you still dating
I'd put the Tuscanmen in that last category also ; )
I am a grandma but, I have three granddaughters 😃... so only God knows if there will be a Turkish gentleman in my family.
Your videos are entertaining and very original. 👍I love them.
Greetings to you and to your subscribers.
Does the gentleman have to be Turkish? 😆
Merhabalar! Happy to hear that! Thank you!
@@samerk.6899 😂😂😂😂 You made my day!! Thank you.
@@samerk.6899 🤣🤣🤣 Thanks for making laugh! God bless you.
I would love to try that dessert...I love the Turkish food I have tried.. Biber Dolması is one of my favorites....Bulgur pilaf... Kofte . Ok I am making myself hungry.. 😂
I don't know what you're saying but I'm 🤤 anyway
I live in turkey and would like to date a Turkish man but the part of him being a mom's boy doesn't sit right with me and it scares me to the core.
Stay away from them, that’s what I suggest
@ManLyS lan mi??
Noluyor lan burada 😂😂😂..
Sıktır lan kezban
Well I feel so much better now. This is pretty spot on. I also broke up with my BF because he would do all of this. To me, it sounded too good to be true, or not genuine. But I kept saying, let me not assume things, and just take it as it comes, but we are still strong 8 months later. I never thought I would find the one, but it might actually come true.
I just subscribed to your channel today and I have watched like three of your videos. I must say I looooooooooooove your content. Men!! You are real and your channel is interesting. You make me want to come to Turkey earlier than expected. Thanks for dropping such wonderful contents. Well-done!!
Thank you so much!! Glad you enjoyed!
The macho man mentality is very common for the countries in the region. It is good that you still have traditional values. I also see that marriage is very important in your country. I have mixed feelings about it. A lot of people may rush in to marriage because they feel the pressure from society but latter on they receive even more disapproval, if they are divorced.
Your channel deserves so many more subscribers. I love your content❤️
Thank you so much!
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ANALYSING OUR VIDEO! YOU DID A GREAT JOB
Any time!🥳️🥳️
Can, thanks to your help in another video, I was in Istanbul a month ago, alone, without any fear. It really smooths my fears. About this video, I already knew almost all of these things, and maybe that's why I lost all my interest in Portuguese men and have now a huge one in tukish men. Finally, I love your videos. 😍
@yahayadagwala ?
@yahayadagwala why should I?
Just don't go to Taksim Square at 3am in the morning.
I thinks most women's they still want to find the one(your prince charming ).
And men's who want to feel feelings,who want to say I love you every day.
And portuguese mens are not like that.
I'm married to half chinese,half portuguese(mix).
And is amazing too..
@@carlarosarioguerreiro1473 exacto. Eu pelo menos revejo-me no que disse. E não está fácil entre os portugueses.
my boyfriend is turkish and he is everything in this video 😂 but he doesn't mind what I wear, I remember once we were out and i realized a group of guys were looking at me, my boyfriend hugh me tighter and said "men pls stop looking 😭 she's my woman" and he's so cute ❤
and also he is used to do house chores so he doesn't expect me to do everything for him, we do it together sometimes me more sometimes him more, it's so good for both 💗
When you will see groups like this next time dont eye contact with them bcz you made your bf very agressive protector mode in no time 😂, its not about you, men knows What man thinkings when they see a pretty girls
I am engaged to a man from Ankara. It's all VERY true with him 😂🤣😂
Congratulations 🎊 May God bless you!
welcome to the servant world
@@brownbrem1284 serving my husband is something I am proud to do. He serves me every day by making sure I have everything I need to make a very nice home and healthy meals. He protects our family and does a lot more for me outside the home. It is a pleasure for me to make sure his needs are met and he is happy. You may see me as his servant but he sees me as his partner. We both handle our halves of our life together to support the other. 😉
From Ankara ? Good luck honey . People who came from Ankara are great but they are too strict if you compare with west side of Turkey
This comment was phenomenal, it is honestly incredibly rude to call someone a servant anyway I really liked your point of view and wish you all the best with your future.
I love your reactions.
Bring them more, lütfen 🙏
We will 😊
😂😂😂😂 this was good. This type of video is awesome 👍🏻🎉
Glad you liked it!!
😂🤣🤣wonderful! This was hilarious. I totally get it this scenario. My family is like this, our mums do everything for the boys in the family
I really enjoyed this video 😍😍 Thank you so much 😊
Glad you enjoyed it!
So good, a fun video in the good way 😁 I love the video and turkish people 😀 Intresting culture... I ❤️ 🇹🇷❤️😍
Anatolian not Turkish people
@Mehmet Aslan Mehmet, Anatolians are Anatolians not Turkic
I love Dating Beyond Borders, Marina the creator of the show doesn't do these kinds of skits anymore but she does have a podcast and it would interesting for her to interview someone from Turkey about dating there. But she has been spot on in different countries and their dating and life style. She has written about about Swedish life and their dating style.
I never saw my husband cry in ten years since that we know each other. He is more jealous than me, cause he wants control my clothes, make, and social midia. I got used to this. My anne, is like a second mom to me! ❤
They are from Mersin, i am Brazilian, now getting used to live in Ankara because his job.😉👍🏻. Nice video!
The word "Turkish" could be replaced by the word "Greek" without changing a single word. The macho mindset is common in both countries... but it is slowly changing.
Interesting facts... in mostly Asian men behave like same when they dating
Hopefully, my daughter is a kid but after20-25 years I would readily accept Türkçe Damat
Thank you very much for the nice video is it okay if I could ask questions privately? I need a realiable advice from a turkish man before going to Turkey. Hoping for your reply. Thanks!
Omg I wish to visit Turkey one day as I reallyyyy want to try Turkish food and sweets, I was in Dubai last week and there was a baklava store there and I was so happy after seeing it, it was my first time eating it and I LOVED IT, can't wait to eat lots of baklavas in Turkey. The man selling them was a Turkish and he was so sweet, he gave my a free try with my order and I had my first chat with a Turkish guy face to face in Turkish language (yes ik Turkish language) I was the happiest person in the world that day and I want to marry a Turkish guy so badlyyyyyyyy
@Cici BeBe yok canim var ama ben istemem
how old are you?
Merhaba siz hangi ülkedensjniz.?
Well as I am seeing the video there is not that much difference in my country (Iraq) and your country (Turkey) even my mom do all chores and sometimes when she is tired I do them myself 😁
fellas not everyone was born in big cities like izmir, istanbul, ankara. There are 60 million people living in Anatolia. Especially in Anatolia there are too many such dogmas and indeed what is described here is true for most. but in capital cities in areas with high levels of education most of these situations are not true. Especially the "turkish men are jealous" part. Everyone is jealous of their loved ones. But that doesn't mean you put your partner in cage. although the subject of circumcision is currently being discussed, but a man who is not circumcised cannot get married in anatolia its true :D The country is in such a bad situation that Turkish men are starting to see foreign women as Schengen visas specially europeans.If you hear a lot about marriage, i recommending you to be suspicious of this situation :D
bu arada videoların çok çok iyi gerçekten türkleri çok güzel yansıtıyorsun emeği geçen herkesin eline sağlık :)
8:54 except Murat Sarsılmaz, he’s always crying 💀😂
I dated a Turkish man years ago and he was not at all as described in this video. Except that he was over indulged by his mom and his place was a mess so clearly he was bad at chores. He was always weeping, sobbing and whining about trivial things. It was a huge turn off. Lasted less than 6 months. He was a sweet hearted person though, I am thinking he wasn't a typical Turkish man.
Normaly
Loooveeeeee your channel mahn! I'm learning Türkish and will soon move to Istanbul inşallah. Your video are so interesting and helpful. Sending lots of love ❤️
For Christmas holidays I'm traveling to Istanbul, with my fresh new man.. I'm so afraid, because I'm officially still married.. He has 7 siblings, I grow up as the only child.. So much fear 😱
AND WE STAY AT HIS PARENTS HOUSE 😭
OOooooooffff... @@arijana9006 So, how did it go ??
There is another video about dating a turkish girl on that channel.
Nice to know. So very good approach towards their lady love
Love this channel 💖
Thank you so much!
very funny and similar to latin boys ;)
Efendim. You handle the hard questions with such ease
Subscribed to your channel! Love it. I'm married to an Arabic man and I see a lot of similarities.
Turkish Men not like Arab men .And Turks are not arab
@@Turcoman46 I've never said that.
That's called toxic masculinity.
Cry about it
@@Ahmet21322small dick energy
This was good 😂👍
I'm agree with you İ was dating with a Turkish man and moste of thoose things he did them it was not that much exaggerating but most of things were like that and what i really appreciate in him was his respecting to women and his seriousness but sadly.... Anyway good video as always keep going 😉
Çok hoş insansın Sen :) Senin filmlerin bayldım! Polonia'dan çok selamar
Ένας Έλληνας που μιλάει τουρκικά; ενδιαφέρον! 😁
@@urszulaa.5984 Polak czytający grecki koine, który unika prezentowania swojego nazwiska w niebanalny sposób ;P
@@jkbfl ale niespodzianka! Czyżby Kubuś? 😊😁 Języka koine nie znam niestety...
The true test is what he/she is going to do when the person he/she loves is seriously ill. Can he/she find a cure even if the doctors say no? Can the person use his/her brains/money to help the person he/she loves? This does not even require marriage. What is possessiveness when a man/woman cannot even help the person he/she loves? Possessiveness and love are 2 different issues. Charles Dickens wrote A Tale of Two Cities. One man sacrifices himself for the woman he loves so she can be together with another man that she loves. Isn't it she chose the wrong man?
A Turkish mother sounds just like an Irish mother. I think the 2 cultures are very similiar.....except after marriage we are not so enmeshed with family of origin and most have boundaries around visiting especially unannounced. Greetings from Ireland 🇮🇪
Loved it thanks for explaining to us,
You're welcome! Glad you enjoyed!
An emotional prison where after you're married he has girlfriends and the woman isn't allowed out with just friends.
What are you talking about?
American parents but raised in Adana. I feel so called out lol😅
Great videos! Greetings from Bulgaria!
Glad you like them!
Some Spanish boys and men are very similar to Turkish ones.
I have been dating a Turkish man online for morethan a year we have alot of plan for the future like getting married having a children and already planning to meet this December, but things end when we have a fight that he started for the first time he keep pushing me away saying leave him Alon abandoned him I don't deserve an irresponsible person like him and more, I did still chatting him to fix our relationship but he just seen my messages and not responding at all. So weird he give up so easily like we don't have commitments to each other
It sounds like he is trying to get out of the relationship without manning up and saying that. He could also be cheating. I seriously hope not but it doesn't sound good because a man would be persistent and fight for his love and push you away if you didn't do anything. I also know that's the truth for Turkish culture generally.
Same for men in Pakistan . We say here men don't cry 😂 .... they keep their pain and problems to themselves but sometimes I think that men also has a heart and emotions
All this is true ❤️❤️🇹🇷🇹🇷 my Askim.
How did you learn to speak English so well? Greetings from Mexico
Can is so cute.
Agreed ! And sweet :)
I’ve seen many series where men cry !Kivanc! Cys a lot and that is great
manhood is important but they cut the tip off :) great informative video
Thanks for watching!
Hi, can you explain why a Turkish man would ask me to take 1 grape from the bunch of grapes that I offered to him as a gift? He had already eaten one or two. I declined to take a grape since it is a gift for him, but he insisted. I asked "Why?" and he refused to say. He just kept asking me to take one. So I took a grape from the bunch but didn't eat it. He was satisfied with that. I think this is related to Turkish etiquette.
Why am I watching this I'm a Turkish guy myself
I met a turkish guy in the airplane, we talked a lot, were glad to meet each other but we were in different cities later, he would like to come to me but wanted to share my room with. Is it ok in Turkey?? 😁 For me it is not. I have never shared one room with a person, whom I met 3 days ago. 😃
Lol yeah that sounds sketchy. I would feel the same way be like no dude! Smh
Ben Türküm ve sana tavsiyem o kişiden uzak dur ve iletişimini bağlantınızı kesin lütfen.
its fun and interesting at the same time, makes me wonder how if its the other way, like a foreigner with Turkish women, how will it go? and how the Turkish community sees them? is it acceptable in the community?
it is.
Yes there are a lot of marriage Turkish girls with African, Korean, German men.. Nowadays it is acceptable, families more tolarant..
I've watched this before, but thanks for confirming that it's very accurate. very Funny.
Thank you for these videos. I am a Canadian. He became very interested in learning Turkish and about Turkey. After watching Turkish dramas. Namely ones so far with Çagatay Ulusoy. Who is a brilliant actor. Saw two of his movies. Watched him in My name is Fehria. Currently watching between The Protector Medcezir and Icerde. TH-cam has many great channels and links for this. Do you know by chance if there is a place to watch or a way to watch on TH-cam. With English subtitles includes. Thanks I just subscribed and became a contributor. Checking it out. I am also taking Turkish lessons through Turkish101.
How’s the Turkish101 course though?
Feriha
You are amazing,thanks so much to help us ,and learn your ways.
Is very interesting.
I speak 4 language,I think is not difficult to learn turkis.❤
Once a Afghan guy dated an American girl ,she had that believe that he is americanized how wrong she was .She went out with her friends to the clubs when she came home he beat her so bad that she ended up in the hospital with a broken jaw. You girls have to know what you get yourself into when dating a muslim.
We türkish not afghans and we not arabic
We are turks not arabs and even if we are muslims we are not like them we are free!!!!there is christian turks too
Thanks for video. I've met some turkish guys lately and wow, they are really big on gestures 😂
You are very welcome! 😊
Hello Turkishle.Im an turkish person too
I went to turkey and fell in love with a Turkish policeman
They love foreigners sorry guys I am
Muslim too 💁🏻♀️
was a great vid i jus started dating a turk guy and everything tht goes on in the vid is the same az hm lol im from new zealand n i was interested in watching this cos i wana no about turkish guys without havn to ask cos this all new to me havnt dated any1 from another country so thank u for this video
Good video
Thank you!
I dated a Turkish man for years best relationship ever,… until it wasn’t.
His family was okay with him being gay at first as long as nobody knew.
We bought a beautiful villa together, two cars, started a business together… a few years down the line and… they would not stop insisting that he get married or at least have a child… or as a last resort they offered to marry him to his third cousin (a woman) so people would not talk.
It hurt me but I sold everything, gave him a modest settlement and left him.
I understand the culture, but honestly… why care about what people think if we had such a good life together and lived in a private secluded setting?? 🧐
I'm like ready to pack my bags right now!!! Even with the "bad" things you confirmed essentially, this pretty much represents the perfect man for me. Together with how much you guys love and care for street animals, I think I will absolutely LOVE Turkey. Thank you for all the amazing videos showing us your culture 😊
Lots of very similar traits to Pakistani guys (not the exceptions).
1. I think saying anything to get them (pull them as we’d say in the U.K.) is probably quite typical & we also wouldn’t pursue em if they said they were already taken.
2. Pakistani guys normally get in to a relationship to marry & start a family as well. The same pressures from the friends & family.
3. We offer niyaz (sacrifice) on circumcision. It’s an Islamic tradition which all Muslims will do.
4. Pakistani men also don’t like to portray themselves as weak and emotional. We prefer the masculine macho image where nothing can phase us. We’re also raised in the same environment where portraying emotion such as crying is interpreted as being weak or feminine.
5. We also don’t want to know the past history and neither does she need to know ours (preferably she doesn’t have a past ;) ).
The protective jealousy is a natural trait in masculine males (we refer to those that do not have this as dayooth - our religion says a man should have this protective jealousy). And be cause of this We don’t like our females going out and/or interacting with other males unnecessarily (same applies vice versa).
5. Pakistani guys don’t talk about their family outside of the home with their friends … the idea of chillin with the boys is that we don’t talk about anything family…. No stress and all good vibes. All family related stuff is pvt.
6. Pakistani boys are also mummy’s boys and given special treatment and treated like absolute kings compared to their sisters.
7. Family also comes first for us guys in the exact same way.
That’s my take on it… obviously there’s exceptions to the above but that’s the general norm.
I think rather than most of those traits being a Pakistani, Turkish or Middle Eastern thing, they were and still are quite common characteristics that one can see in many parts of the world regardless of country, ethnicity, religion. Many Christian religious black men also share some of those characteristics or Greeks, even some traditional Chinese men(East Asian men being portrayed as "feminine, non-macho is really a recent thing. If one looked at traditional historical depictions of Chinese men, one would easily see that sexism, machoism, masculine characteristics are also common in Chinese tradition.). Same goes for other religious conservative cultures like traditional European Christians, Protestant Americans, many Mormons etc.
Sorry 🙏🙏...I know this is not connected with your subject but these days I have been watching Furkan andic's drama with Ezgi Senler. I don't why actress left the drama even though she was looking pretty and cute with furkan and she played her role very well. I missed her sooooooooooooooo much. I didn't continue the drama when I got to know she won't come back.
Why did she leave the drama??????
“Don’t be assertive.” Oh! Guess I’m out of the dating pool 🤣😂🤣😂 por eso no les gustan las latinas va 😂😂😂
I've been in Istanbul a month ago, and I will visit Istanbul again I hope I can meet you in real. You are a successful person
This is hilarious
Hi Can. I follow your videos and really like them. Thanks! One piece of advise, work on your "w" sound, it sounds a little strange when Turkish people pronounce it, not only you. It is very similar to the sound of "u"...
Best regards from Argentina!🥰 Keep on with your channel!
Türkçe'de "w" yoktur. Ben İngilizce öğreniyorum ve bir Türk olarak "w" ve "u" harflerinin telaffuzlarında zorlanıyorum. Çözümü var mıdır?
@@veraladin I am learning Turkish, just beggining to. As far as I understand the vowel sound [u] sound like the "w" letter in English. I think the confusion comes from orthography, I mean how the words are written. If you stop thinking about "w" and how weird it is because it is noty in your Alphabet, etc. and you begin to think that letter sounds like [u] vowel in your language, I think you can solve it and pronounce correctly. It is not a strange sound for Turkish, it is only the letter "w" that is not familiar.
Regards! Görüşürüz!
So nice vedio vlog your so cute to the way you explained I hoped I can find Turkey man ☺️☺️ ..Im just see your vedio and I loved it I subscribe nw.
I am.a English girl dating.a.turkish.guy.for23 years he is the love of my life
Lmao, that guy's acting is creepy. I'd ignore a guy if he talked to me like that.
Castimono🎉is it easy to visit n luve there or is it too extreme please?
My Boyfriend is from Bursa. He is the best!
OMG all of this applies to Iranian guys as well expect the circumcision party lol
*I have a question, obviously serious one, what if the person's parent or parents that are Turks does not want to do that to their son's thingy? Like, what would the opinions and reactions possibly be from the family members, maybe the parents want to let the kid decide himself when he is older? Possibly a Turk can answer? Does not matter if it is a female or a male, but has to be a Muslim turk, thanks in advance if you reply to this.*
Hello, I feel really bad about this. It's terrible that something like this is done to children without asking them.
I dont think that circumcision party is very expensive because usually guests bring a nice amount of gold and gift
Artık altın getirmiyorlar. Altın 2018'den beri oldukça pahalı. Düğünlerde takmak bile zor.
Turkey is the country I feel the less desirable in the streets. Maybe because i'm walking with my husband but cars won't even stop for me. Honestly this is the first time it happens, it's like "not my girl, not worth my kindness" 😂
im still in my healing process for dating one of them, actually he was turkish kurdish,. worse experience ever ! narcissist at its finest .. first they love bomb you than they show their true colours, you'll end up in mental hospital just bcs of them. yes not everyone is the same but im based on my personal experience
you mean he cheated
I just watch this video and I feel like my boyfriend is not like that at all. I have turkish boyfriend, you know what the weird thing about him. He look like didn’t love me anymore. First meet he show that he really like me, taking care of me, text me, sending me a pict everyday but after 1 month left he just didn’t care about me. He text me one a week, never call also. And he never talking about future with me. Never talking about anything. I think that he just need me when he feel lonely. If you find my comment what do u think about that?
Yeah it doesn’t sound like he was paying a lot of attention to you! I’m sorry about that! 😢
How’s it going one year later???
By the way I used this trick of Galata tower when I was dating a Turkish man 😅
I love all the videos regarding Pakistani songs and singers
love from Pakistan
Assalamulaikum
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@@imsagamer4671 assamalacuuum
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Much of this is so so true 😂
hahha yess 🤗
Bir ara internette Türk insanlara Arap diyorlarmış ben daha yeni öğrendim hem kendim de duydum, çok saçma olduğunu kabul ediyorum.