“Sometimes I wanna ask you how you are but I don’t because .. I just don’t. I just feel like it’ll draw me in, in a way”. I’ve never felt something more seriously, shit hurts like hell knowing you love a person to death & can’t be with them because your sanity comes first. 😪
He’s literally not indifferent. He said he misses her everyday and he even admitted he was about to cry at the end. He’s not indifferent at all. He was very open about his emotions and how difficult their break up has been for him. He simply just decided that they were on two different paths and that they could not be together. That is not indifference. Indifference would have been him pretending like he didn’t care.
@@876me7 indifference is acceptance in this case. Not that he doesnt care. If he didnt care he would not be their and it would hide suppressed feelings. He is balanced is his emotions. He is not all over the place, all the while remaining sensible.
Wow, this right here was raw emotion. It just oozed from the screen. Most people on here are giving this man accolades, which he deserves. However, this young lady was equally vulnerable, brave and I love that she showed accountability for her mistakes which shows a lot of growth. I just want the best for both of them!!!
I agree completely. She really was brutally honest when it came to herself and her own shortcomings and that shows SO much maturity. They're both beautiful people who deserve the best that life can give them.
Someone once told me “love isn’t enough”. Boy was that person right! My ex and I loved each other so much but we had a lot of issues. There was a point when we were fighting every single day. Like them, we had a mediator (well, a couple of mediators, different times). Our relationship was still not salvageable. I wish we had a chance to talk like this. Unfortunately, he passed away 3 years ago. I didn’t get the chance to tell him that I loved him. I eventually forgave him. I miss him so much, it hurts. Oh what I would do/give to be able to tell him I forgive in person and tell him how much I loved him?!
That won't be hard! I hope she's confident with what she's letting go. It looks like they could start again. But, she seems to love dancing more. Too bad there isn't a compromise. They are pretty young though. Maybe they'll find it later with each other or someone else :/
@@tamarayoung949 even if she wånted he wouldnt do it he cånt trust her coz she cheåted hes reål mån not lowering his ståndårds ånd tåking thåt disrespect å womån ålwåys wånts the relåtionship båck if it depends onn her she just is the one who got rejected first ånd tried to keep the respect for herself
This brought tears to my eyes. I could see the love in his eyes. I commend him as a man for being able to express his emotions, and not keep them bottled inside by playing tough. He allowed himself to be volunerable, which is soo attractive in a mature man. He even got his sister involved to mediate the situation, as a last resort to salvage their relationship. He is a stand up guy. I like him.
That’s a good mommy’s son , she’s a beautiful girl. Pray someday love will bring her right back into his arms. They both are still young and definitely love each other❤️❤️
I agree! It's pointless to have a seat down with an ex, if we had to break up, ill advise you to hold on to that because there's no coming bck for me, no matter how much I loved you, should we break up... I'm gone for good. I don't even bask in what we had or what it could have been.
the fact that you can hear one of their heartbeats by the placement of their mics, idk why but it added such an aesthetic to this entire video. It just shows how much emotion impacted this conversation..
She feels it- that feeling when u know you’ve lost a good thing but u can’t get it back. 🤦🏾♀️ love how they kept it private even tho this was public (we don’t know WHY they really broke up)
@@barracuda-s5r why was that your assumption? 😂 how did u get that from that? I honestly think she wasn’t in love with him as much as he was in love with her 🤷🏾♀️ it happens n when u go a find someone new u regret what u lost
It's interesting how people had an overall good relationship and one thing happens and it burned to the ground. Some find their way back, and some never talk let alone see each other ever again.
I love this. Real mature conversation. No one aired out anyone's dirty laundry. No one responded with shade. Just reflection and understanding. This is closure.
Ohhhhh my God ♥️♥️♥️who has an ex like this gentleman ? Most men act like a narcissist after a breakup . Whoever raised this gentleman did a marvelous job, he’s gonna be an amazing father and husband to a lucky lady one day .. I wish them both luck.
I wish I had the opportunity to have a open honest vulnerable conversation like this with my ex fiancé. Closure is something you must not take for granted.
Yes. I cut off communication after being lied to and cheated on. I didn't want closure because I expected more lies, but now I wish I had asked. She tried to continue as my friend, but the disrespect was too much too overlook.
My first thought was everyone needs to do this, but if you ever really loved someone it could be detrimental to your new growth. Imagine talking to someone you love 7 years later, it can take you back to the relationship and ruin any progress you have made. I am a person that wants to know “why”, I’m learning as I’m getting older I don’t need to know everything.
You can tell she is still kicking herself from whatever she did in the past. I know them tears sweetie. Although there are still emotions there, atleast they're able to sit down and have an amicable conversation about it.
Without her disclosing what she did.... I feel like all I'm hearing is Blah Blah Blah Blah... I need a little bit more context and detail for me to really feel this conversation.
It goes to show that love isn't always enough, and I respect her courage to explore and find what makes her tick. Too bad they couldn't find a way to stay together.
This video made me cry and wanna hold my man closer . It’s so bittersweet loving someone so much but not being able to be with them. Very mature and open convo I loved this so much
I meant my husband at 20yrs old. It was the 1st time I realized what love felt like and heart break 3 years later. I moved away didn't see him for 5 years and the day I saw him every emotion buried resurfaced. When we decided to give it another go I told him either he was all in or we were nothing at all. He said God told me you were the one. We have been together 13 years married 9 and 2 kids. But anyway looking at this I can tell you closure is very important because without it takes longer to heal emotionally.
This is beautiful 🤩 your situation sounds like a good book reading this comment had me on the edge of my seat 🎉😂 I’m so happy that you made it work that’s so beautiful you rekindled ‼️
“If this was our last conversation…” and then he says it actually might be and then expresses everything he’s ever felt about her and that he’ll always love her… and then when he asks if she had anything to say she said “no… nothing”? As a man that is also very honest about how I feel with those I love, this infuriates me… I totally understand how they got here.
I love that you can TELL he got some good ass closure in this conversation. The way he did the labor of nudging her to answer questions more deeply, found space to share what he wanted to share, how his body language changes with certain realizations he's having.
She has eyes full of tears the whole interview. He still cares and will always love her, he’s still hurting, BUT she’s in PAIN. Don’t EVER think that you didn’t matter to someone. How people do you has NOTHING to do with you. People are battling themselves daily. Within the first 5 minutes, I knew all that I needed to know. I see so much growth and maturity in this King. I feel like he held back a little. He probably had so much more on his heart, but she probably hasn’t changed. So, I feel like he didn’t say everything that he wanted to. It’s like talking to a brick wall. No shade to the Queen, but she still has to grow and learn. She thought that she could do him any kind of way and that he would never leave, now, 2 years later, she’s suffering. A man will not love many women in his lifetime. When he does… it shouldn’t be played with. He proposed. He wanted a future with her. Moving forward, it may be difficult for him to be that vulnerable in another relationship. If you don’t want someone, let them know! Life will humble you and anything that you do in these relationships that you take for granted will ALWAYS find its way back to you. You can’t expect someone to give you the BEST of them while you are giving them the WORST of you. I wish them both well. I love this channel.
Well said!.. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I had the feeling he was holding back as well waiting to see where she’s really at in growth while talking especially the end when he said you have anything else to say , your sure.. you sure!.. she had a chance.. he’s probably officially done now!.. but still has love/care for her! Sad ..I wish all the ppl tht wants the same love & willingly to give it can find each other but it’s always your damn opposite!😞
@@ms.ladybug6186 Right! You are speaking facts Queen. I’m happy that I wasn’t the only one who peeped that. Love is so beautiful and just like you said, the good ones get matched with them not so good ones.
This seemed like such an impactful conversation for both of them. I'm proud of Jeron for giving himself the space to be honest and vulnerable. It seems like it took a lot for him to even speak to her after what happened between them. I'm proud of Annalisa for holding firm to her truth and acknowledging where she went wrong in the relationship and setting a boundary on what makes her happy. I pray that the two of them heal from this breakup and that it leads to more clarity and happiness in whatever they pursue.
It seems like she’s dealing with self-worth and self-esteem issues that cause her to sabotage good situations.But it seems like she’s learning and growing. I hope that she heals and moves forward in a positive way.
These videos are helpful. Even though my ex and I aren’t talking, I still find myself responding to these questions and I’m creating my own closure. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This was beautifully done. I dated my ex for 10 years and he cut me off as though I never existed. I love how they came together and had complete closer from one another.
LOL, i also when back with my ex also, the way this man treated me.no man would left there woman outside in the dark, after come in on a10hr flight on my birthday to spend with him.that man change the door lock on me.i knock on the door..had another woman in his house.this was wicked hearless...i cry every of how we end it this...will NEVER be a fool again😰😰😪
this story is similar to mine. BUT first before I share my story I want to say I admire so much that this BEAUTIFUL couple was able to sit and have a true conversation of reflection and love for each other despite their differences and past. Their mutual respect is amazing. I felt every emotion in this video that even brought tears to my eyes. I even heard their HEARTBEATS picked up from the microphone clipped on their shirts. God bless them and I hope they are both able to HEAL from the breakup because the pain is truly deep. Then I hope they Both are able to find love again in the future that doesn't bring them pain, and instead brings them happiness and marriage... My ex left me in April this year. our 3 year relationship wasn't bad at all. we were so in love. with so many plans to spend our lives together. But Nov. 2020 we got in a big argument for the first time while I was out of the state for a couple weeks visiting family, and it just went down hill after that. It wasn't anything serious but it led to many issues that made him give up on us and fall out of love with me. It was so difficult for me because not only did i miss him but his dog I love with all my heart. I would cry so much missing him and his dog. I never got to see him (the dog) again. Also during the first year of us dating I bought my ex a heart shaped pillow that he slept with every night.. I still wonder if he has it or threw out .. i'll never know because he broke up with me a couple days before my birthday in April this year and on my birthday we texted dry messages back and forth and i told him how hurt I was and he never responded to this day. He completely disappeared from my life. I am 26 years old and he has been my first and only person iv'e dated. This first breakup almost cost me my life from the depression this year. But im staying strong and I do sometimes still grieve the breakup but im a lot better. I hope I meet someone in the future that doesnt give up or fall out of love again. Its too painful to experience. i wonder if he ever thinks of me or misses me.. so heartbreaking to think about..
Thank you for sharing its brave to be vulnerable in that way. You will fully recover from this and have great love in the future. Keep your head up and allow the process of growthZ can tell by your post you’re doing that already.
The openness and honesty they are giving each other is just beautiful. It sucks that this is in separation or that they have to choose between the love of hobby/passion and the love of person. I wish them both the best even if it's not each other.
I think she made it very clear, that dancing was MORE than a "hobby" for her: Her happiness was centered around it, and the ex knew it. Just like they BOTH knew, it wouldn't work for him.
Awwww I love how they sat down and communicated together you can tell the love & passion they have for each other is still there. I hope they get back together and work things out. ❤️
This is one of my faves. I'm here tearing up, ugly crying cuz this is more common than we ever think and not everyone gets the opportunity to have these deep convos. I really hope they both heal and can move on with love and wisdom.
@@passwordismypassword7403 I was thinking this but it almost also made me feel she stepped out on him. Not in a sexual way but in allow men to hold my attention. I will definitely agree with you.
Are they wearing their mics against their chests? The heartbeat that I heard throughout made me realize how short life is. When you make mistakes in relationships like this you can only HOPE you learn and grow from it. Too many of us take our mistakes with us into our other relationships and we never truly learn and grow. I commend them both for being able to do this, we all think we want to see that person but so many of us ain't ready to hold space for what they truly have to say.
He's done and she's still hurt of what happened in the past. I don't see them getting back together. He received his closure even more from this situation and that's it.
I just cried like a baby 😭 the stuff tht he says is so heart felt like it’s really coming from his heart. We need more men like this in the world today his energy is unmatched she really had her a good one .
This is so sad. I can’t say what I want to say without sounding judgmental. So I will just say 1. She is absolutely gorgeous. 2. That is a good man. 3. He loves her. 4. It is rare to get a man to look at a woman the way he looks at her. I hope she doesn’t regret it.
Oftentimes self-sabotage is the detriment of true love. Seek help, you both love each other and it seems like those years growing old together will be beautiful.
Going through a breakup myself and seeing them (the way they spoke to each other, their bond, the still very obvious feelings, but the acceptance of their situation) was cathartic. Bawled and blubbered like a baby.
I was locked in on the screen for this one, this is sooooo real and raw. If only all exes can have a conversation like this to avoid bringing same issues to the new relationship.
I get so emotional when I watch these videos. I picture myself and my ex.. being vulnerable to each other. Receiving the closure we both needed, updating our lives to each other. Sometimes vulnerability can be so touching.
Completely agree and the other side of that is love isn’t necessary. I know plenty of successful couples who do not love each other but are healthy together and raised good children who turned out to be happy adults. I’m a product of a household like that. I’d rather have stability and healthy household than one filled with love and chaos. To be clear my parents did not love each other but they expressed plenty of love for me.
I'm SOBBING. It really does just go that way sometimes. Ya'll seemed emotionally mature enough now to maybe navigate a relationship together. Either way, I wish you both so much love and happiness for your futures.
I’m only 5 minutes in but I’m loving the questions and also how even if it hurts to say the truth it’s being said. When 1 speaks the other is actually listening not just listening to respond but listening to truly understand. This is a true healing conversation.
This was so sweet. I love how Jeron was open and expressed his feelings and Annalisa took accountability for their breakup. I was hoping these two would come together but I wouldn't want Annalisa to leave what she loves which is her dancing. Maybe in the future things may change. But I feel like this may have been their last conversation by the way Jeron giggled and said this might be our last. Their love is strong!!!!!!!
OMG I felt so many emotions 😭. He's correct you can love each other but doesn't mean it will always work. It was truly a beautiful sharing of each other. Best of luck you two 💗
@@PhoenixGoddess This comment right here is spot on in a whole lot situations. I love them both and it's truly sad seeing how much they love each other, and makes me question has he truly forgiven her, not that I am questioning him, but it's just so sad that moving on is better than finding a way to make it work...
@@hettygrant2040 and in this generation its even worst, they would rather call it quits. Than rectify the situation. everyone thinks people are some garbage disposal just to throw away and not work things out respectfully
@@dianalogan6185 because most men who dog women come from single mother households, it’s not the mothers fault, it’s the absence of a male figure to provide guidance. It’s the same for daughters raised by their fathers, they need a female counterpart to bounce ideas off of.
So much respect ✊ for this gentlemen’s communication style and intention. Blessings & peace sir! So much respect for this young ladies candor and willingness to do this project. May you both find healthy true love. Thank you both!
I’ve been delaying to watch for 2 months finally caved in. It was truly heart breaking to watch… to know that love isn’t enough to make a relationship work.
Goodness the straight line between is intense. So connected. I hope they pull closer to each other. Forgiveness can go such a long way. I hope I end up with somebody strong and gentle as him.
Shout out to her for the vulnerability and accountability.
I thought so to on both sides but she left him hang in the end for that last question! 🤷🏾♀️
She is a strong person.
@@itsmeeenatalie yea she was wrong for this smh
@@cerenthugger maybe she felt uncomfortable w it
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When He said “I miss you everyday” The tearsss the tearssss 😪
Righttt
That part!
Lol same
and the “ I wanna ask you how you’re doing but I just don’t “ 🥺🥺🥺🥲
Instant tears!
“Sometimes I wanna ask you how you are but I don’t because .. I just don’t. I just feel like it’ll draw me in, in a way”. I’ve never felt something more seriously, shit hurts like hell knowing you love a person to death & can’t be with them because your sanity comes first. 😪
This is powerful!!!
This!!!
..I hear this, .
I am watching him sayinh tht ight now
That part
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This guy's wall of indifference is top tier, he realized you can not change anyone no matter how you feel about them and he left her peacefully.
Well said! I agree!
very powerful loved it
Facts 💯
She don't wanna be changed
He’s literally not indifferent. He said he misses her everyday and he even admitted he was about to cry at the end. He’s not indifferent at all. He was very open about his emotions and how difficult their break up has been for him. He simply just decided that they were on two different paths and that they could not be together. That is not indifference. Indifference would have been him pretending like he didn’t care.
@@876me7 indifference is acceptance in this case. Not that he doesnt care. If he didnt care he would not be their and it would hide suppressed feelings. He is balanced is his emotions. He is not all over the place, all the while remaining sensible.
Wow, this right here was raw emotion. It just oozed from the screen. Most people on here are giving this man accolades, which he deserves. However, this young lady was equally vulnerable, brave and I love that she showed accountability for her mistakes which shows a lot of growth. I just want the best for both of them!!!
It's the mutual respect for me..
Mutual respect is something most folks can’t have bcos of childishness..
I agree completely. She really was brutally honest when it came to herself and her own shortcomings and that shows SO much maturity. They're both beautiful people who deserve the best that life can give them.
I just started watching and i low key hope they could've fixed it.
She is VERY rare, she was actually accountable 👍🏾🔥🔥🔥
“I miss you everyday. Most days. All days.”
Wow, that broke my heart 🥺
She broke his heart cheating and doing OF
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
Mine too
@@Mikoexoh but y'all don't care that she's stripping and doing OF
@@bawsnitti what lol
Although he has forgiven her, she hasn’t forgiven herself. This was so real and raw. Thank you the skin deep!
What did she do?
you have to get to accountability first
@@luvhyroosje1155Exact my curiosity because I've listened from start to the end but I'm not comprehending.
Was there another episode before this?😊
Basically she cheated
Oh. My. Gosh. He is so so so sweet and respectful to her, while maintaining his boundaries.
A real man😭😭😭
You can't go based off a video though
@@yupdest7129 you know they can put on a show
When Love was genuine...
I’m TELLING you 💜STILL HOPE
Someone once told me “love isn’t enough”. Boy was that person right! My ex and I loved each other so much but we had a lot of issues. There was a point when we were fighting every single day. Like them, we had a mediator (well, a couple of mediators, different times). Our relationship was still not salvageable. I wish we had a chance to talk like this. Unfortunately, he passed away 3 years ago. I didn’t get the chance to tell him that I loved him. I eventually forgave him. I miss him so much, it hurts. Oh what I would do/give to be able to tell him I forgive in person and tell him how much I loved him?!
😔 My Condolences
I'm so sorry. Take comfort in the fact that you truly loved and had forgiven him.
My heart is so sorry for you
So sorry for your loss 🥺
Love is truly not enough 🤷
He is so handsome and gentle. I hope he finds someone that will love him beyond he could ever imagine
That won't be hard! I hope she's confident with what she's letting go. It looks like they could start again. But, she seems to love dancing more. Too bad there isn't a compromise. They are pretty young though. Maybe they'll find it later with each other or someone else :/
Forsure !
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@@tamarayoung949 even if she wånted he wouldnt do it he cånt trust her coz she cheåted hes reål mån not lowering his ståndårds ånd tåking thåt disrespect å womån ålwåys wånts the relåtionship båck if it depends onn her she just is the one who got rejected first ånd tried to keep the respect for herself
Can this man marry my sister abeg
This brought tears to my eyes. I could see the love in his eyes. I commend him as a man for being able to express his emotions, and not keep them bottled inside by playing tough. He allowed himself to be volunerable, which is soo attractive in a mature man. He even got his sister involved to mediate the situation, as a last resort to salvage their relationship. He is a stand up guy. I like him.
That’s a good mommy’s son , she’s a beautiful girl. Pray someday love will bring her right back into his arms. They both are still young and definitely love each other❤️❤️
@@mpalmer7800I agree w/you. I believe with this couple together and with their love the whole world can be a better place❤️
Link up with him
Me too I drop a tear
I commend them both. She showed great maturity. I wish them both the best.
You couldn’t PAY ME to do one of these interviews with my ex!!!!
I’m impressed how these people get together and do this. 😵💫
I have some ex's. I believe I need to hear the truth.
My god YES!
@@Izzymeyokee1you think you do but you don’t. Trust
I was thinking I could never but at the same time my session would go viral. It was so bad
I agree! It's pointless to have a seat down with an ex, if we had to break up, ill advise you to hold on to that because there's no coming bck for me, no matter how much I loved you, should we break up... I'm gone for good. I don't even bask in what we had or what it could have been.
It sucks when u wanna love someone but u can't trust them bc they showed you they can't be trusted 💔 😔 😪 🤧 😕 😞 💔
100
Gurlll tell me bout it... 😬It hurts...
Took the words right out my mouth.
Man this was deep 😭
Yes ma'am..thats sum hurtful stuff
the fact that you can hear one of their heartbeats by the placement of their mics, idk why but it added such an aesthetic to this entire video. It just shows how much emotion impacted this conversation..
Not even gonna lie. I didn't even know that the mic caught that until you said that. Good catch fr 💯
@rachel.shakira now that you mentioned it, I can’t unhear it
Where?
It’s his smile, his confidence, his tone, his LIPS and his maturity for me!
He for sure sexy
@@daghettogandhi8746 Thank you for saying it!!! I’ve tried so hard to be respectful to their process ... however my Lordddd!!!!
HIS LIPS...!!!!!
@@Dvinecreations7 kmsl!!!!!
@@Dvinecreations7 LMBO!!
She feels it- that feeling when u know you’ve lost a good thing but u can’t get it back. 🤦🏾♀️ love how they kept it private even tho this was public (we don’t know WHY they really broke up)
Right!!
She cheated with someone close with him
@@barracuda-s5r I don’t think that’s it
@@barracuda-s5r why was that your assumption? 😂 how did u get that from that? I honestly think she wasn’t in love with him as much as he was in love with her 🤷🏾♀️ it happens n when u go a find someone new u regret what u lost
It sounds like a stripper. She said she loves dancing..
She is so beautiful. Her smile is infectious and his vulnerability is admirable.
It's interesting how people had an overall good relationship and one thing happens and it burned to the ground. Some find their way back, and some never talk let alone see each other ever again.
So sad
This comment, especially the end gave me chills.
THIS COMMENT!!! I know it oh to well
@@laysolei3341 Same!
It’s crazy! I think we all have to realize that good chemistry doesn’t equate to a strong foundation.
"I miss you every day"🥺
That shit hit me hard brooo 🥺🧡
My ex told me that too in person 4 months after our breakup… it crushed me..
I cried , I miss my x bf 😭😭😭😭
Wow! the honesty....
Drakes next album title
I love this. Real mature conversation. No one aired out anyone's dirty laundry. No one responded with shade. Just reflection and understanding. This is closure.
Dummy
Ohhhhh my God ♥️♥️♥️who has an ex like this gentleman ? Most men act like a narcissist after a breakup . Whoever raised this gentleman did a marvelous job, he’s gonna be an amazing father and husband to a lucky lady one day .. I wish them both luck.
Very true
Not me because if I had a guy like him we wouldn't be exes (based on this interaction because we have zip else to go on)
Also being recorded so why act like you're true self on cam🤔
I just said this; lord knows my ex is a narcissist.
I feel like this is the first time I've ever seen a girl admit fault in a relationship so if disagree about who the narcissists are.
Wow, he is a grown man!! They’re both beautiful people.
They still truly love and respect each other and i love how soft spoken they are
I wish I had the opportunity to have a open honest vulnerable conversation like this with my ex fiancé. Closure is something you must not take for granted.
Yes. I cut off communication after being lied to and cheated on. I didn't want closure because I expected more lies, but now I wish I had asked. She tried to continue as my friend, but the disrespect was too much too overlook.
People just don’t understand how important that is.
My first thought was everyone needs to do this, but if you ever really loved someone it could be detrimental to your new growth. Imagine talking to someone you love 7 years later, it can take you back to the relationship and ruin any progress you have made. I am a person that wants to know “why”, I’m learning as I’m getting older I don’t need to know everything.
In some situations, it's best to walk away with no closure.. Some people use that as another way to "get back in" and manipulate.
@@blackpants24 you are sooo correct, dead on comment
You can tell she is still kicking herself from whatever she did in the past. I know them tears sweetie. Although there are still emotions there, atleast they're able to sit down and have an amicable conversation about it.
Right! I loved how mature the two of them were for having a convo like this.
Without her disclosing what she did.... I feel like all I'm hearing is Blah Blah Blah Blah... I need a little bit more context and detail for me to really feel this conversation.
Jesus loves you!😊❤ take the time to get to know Him and watch HIM fill you with such love and strength.
She cheated
@@jazzeezj4649 that’s what I assumed.
“But while I was crying, I was dancing.” Mannn, that statement was sooo powerful & deep... literally brought chills to me.
It goes to show that love isn't always enough, and I respect her courage to explore and find what makes her tick. Too bad they couldn't find a way to stay together.
@@hettygrant2040 being on that pole made her tick#nastybird
Lmbo
@@eltonjohn4239 she's not a pole dancer but okay
@@christabellatoao based on what? It's pretty obvious that she is a stripper.
“Sometimes I wanna ask you how you’re doing but I don’t bcoz I just don’t . I feel it can draw me back in a way.....” .
This hit home🤦♀️.
This video made me cry and wanna hold my man closer . It’s so bittersweet loving someone so much but not being able to be with them. Very mature and open convo I loved this so much
Ikr....that's how I feel about my soon to be ex. I love him dearly but I am NOT happy at all in our relationship of 12 years.
I know the feeling all too well 😩
Yeah it is bittersweet that’s what hurts the most tbh, when u still love them but have to let go
@@nateshajohn1896 If you don't mind me asking, why aren't you happy
@@nateshajohn1896 I'd like to know tooa
I feel like he's going to be an amazing husband one day!
Sometimes we tend to forget men are hurt too.. mislead , treated horribly, and let down. I loved this
I meant my husband at 20yrs old. It was the 1st time I realized what love felt like and heart break 3 years later. I moved away didn't see him for 5 years and the day I saw him every emotion buried resurfaced. When we decided to give it another go I told him either he was all in or we were nothing at all. He said God told me you were the one. We have been together 13 years married 9 and 2 kids. But anyway looking at this I can tell you closure is very important because without it takes longer to heal emotionally.
Agreed
God bless you and your husband
This is beautiful 🤩 your situation sounds like a good book reading this comment had me on the edge of my seat 🎉😂 I’m so happy that you made it work that’s so beautiful you rekindled ‼️
“If this was our last conversation…” and then he says it actually might be and then expresses everything he’s ever felt about her and that he’ll always love her… and then when he asks if she had anything to say she said “no… nothing”? As a man that is also very honest about how I feel with those I love, this infuriates me… I totally understand how they got here.
I love that you can TELL he got some good ass closure in this conversation. The way he did the labor of nudging her to answer questions more deeply, found space to share what he wanted to share, how his body language changes with certain realizations he's having.
That was soo deep you can even feel the emotions through their conversation
She has eyes full of tears the whole interview. He still cares and will always love her, he’s still hurting, BUT she’s in PAIN. Don’t EVER think that you didn’t matter to someone. How people do you has NOTHING to do with you. People are battling themselves daily. Within the first 5 minutes, I knew all that I needed to know. I see so much growth and maturity in this King. I feel like he held back a little. He probably had so much more on his heart, but she probably hasn’t changed. So, I feel like he didn’t say everything that he wanted to. It’s like talking to a brick wall. No shade to the Queen, but she still has to grow and learn. She thought that she could do him any kind of way and that he would never leave, now, 2 years later, she’s suffering. A man will not love many women in his lifetime. When he does… it shouldn’t be played with. He proposed. He wanted a future with her. Moving forward, it may be difficult for him to be that vulnerable in another relationship. If you don’t want someone, let them know! Life will humble you and anything that you do in these relationships that you take for granted will ALWAYS find its way back to you. You can’t expect someone to give you the BEST of them while you are giving them the WORST of you. I wish them both well. I love this channel.
This was beautiful! Love the wisdom you have😊 God Bless🙏🏾
@@sweetcandigirl2751 Thank you so much! 🙏🏾
Well said!.. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I had the feeling he was holding back as well waiting to see where she’s really at in growth while talking especially the end when he said you have anything else to say , your sure.. you sure!.. she had a chance.. he’s probably officially done now!.. but still has love/care for her! Sad ..I wish all the ppl tht wants the same love & willingly to give it can find each other but it’s always your damn opposite!😞
@@ms.ladybug6186 Right! You are speaking facts Queen. I’m happy that I wasn’t the only one who peeped that. Love is so beautiful and just like you said, the good ones get matched with them not so good ones.
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This seemed like such an impactful conversation for both of them. I'm proud of Jeron for giving himself the space to be honest and vulnerable. It seems like it took a lot for him to even speak to her after what happened between them. I'm proud of Annalisa for holding firm to her truth and acknowledging where she went wrong in the relationship and setting a boundary on what makes her happy. I pray that the two of them heal from this breakup and that it leads to more clarity and happiness in whatever they pursue.
Same
Oh these two were impeccable! The vulnerability and level of love was so heartwarming. Hoping they heal fully.
It seems like she’s dealing with self-worth and self-esteem issues that cause her to sabotage good situations.But it seems like she’s learning and growing. I hope that she heals and moves forward in a positive way.
I love seeing two dark skin ppl together... Simply beautiful
Me too.
That's true..but black guy thay like more white women
@@mirsasarajlic840 that’s not true whatsoever
@@mirsasarajlic840 Women like you seriously need to stop putting that narrative on all us black men. It's not even statistically true either.
I have friend she is Black .she told me that before 70% black guy likes More white women but nothing is wrong with that
This has to be my favorite one they’ve ever done. You can tell they have so much love for each other :(
These videos are helpful. Even though my ex and I aren’t talking, I still find myself responding to these questions and I’m creating my own closure. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Hey Gugu, are you Thembi’s daughter?
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Doing the same thing at the moment. 😢
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 me too
Same
It’s amazing how people who can be so in love, just cannot be together. It’s truly heartbreaking.
Their relationship was more than a union. They were connected on another level
Like family
I knew when she said he texted the day after she deleted his number
I just love how soft spoken they both are.
This was beautifully done. I dated my ex for 10 years and he cut me off as though I never existed. I love how they came together and had complete closer from one another.
Wow. I know exactly how you feel unfortunately. Makes you feel like they never cared forreal
and?
LOL, i also when back with my ex also, the way this man treated me.no man would left there woman outside in the dark, after come in on a10hr flight on my birthday to spend with him.that man change the door lock on me.i knock on the door..had another woman in his house.this was wicked hearless...i cry every of how we end it this...will NEVER be a fool again😰😰😪
@@wsme8063 😢🙏
Sorry y' all
He is sooo attractive, and his demeanor just adds his attractiveness beyond level 10
Yesss he is absolutely beautiful
He fine as hell and definitely his aura is beautiful...
this story is similar to mine. BUT first before I share my story I want to say I admire so much that this BEAUTIFUL couple was able to sit and have a true conversation of reflection and love for each other despite their differences and past. Their mutual respect is amazing. I felt every emotion in this video that even brought tears to my eyes. I even heard their HEARTBEATS picked up from the microphone clipped on their shirts. God bless them and I hope they are both able to HEAL from the breakup because the pain is truly deep. Then I hope they Both are able to find love again in the future that doesn't bring them pain, and instead brings them happiness and marriage...
My ex left me in April this year. our 3 year relationship wasn't bad at all. we were so in love. with so many plans to spend our lives together. But Nov. 2020 we got in a big argument for the first time while I was out of the state for a couple weeks visiting family, and it just went down hill after that. It wasn't anything serious but it led to many issues that made him give up on us and fall out of love with me. It was so difficult for me because not only did i miss him but his dog I love with all my heart. I would cry so much missing him and his dog. I never got to see him (the dog) again. Also during the first year of us dating I bought my ex a heart shaped pillow that he slept with every night.. I still wonder if he has it or threw out .. i'll never know because he broke up with me a couple days before my birthday in April this year and on my birthday we texted dry messages back and forth and i told him how hurt I was and he never responded to this day. He completely disappeared from my life. I am 26 years old and he has been my first and only person iv'e dated. This first breakup almost cost me my life from the depression this year. But im staying strong and I do sometimes still grieve the breakup but im a lot better. I hope I meet someone in the future that doesnt give up or fall out of love again. Its too painful to experience. i wonder if he ever thinks of me or misses me.. so heartbreaking to think about..
Thank you for sharing its brave to be vulnerable in that way. You will fully recover from this and have great love in the future. Keep your head up and allow the process of growthZ can tell by your post you’re doing that already.
Are you feeling better now, a few months later?
Sorry love❤, Hope you find a good person
The openness and honesty they are giving each other is just beautiful. It sucks that this is in separation or that they have to choose between the love of hobby/passion and the love of person. I wish them both the best even if it's not each other.
I think she made it very clear, that dancing was MORE than a "hobby" for her: Her happiness was centered around it, and the ex knew it. Just like they BOTH knew, it wouldn't work for him.
Stripping ain't a hobby.. it's a gateway to whoring
It goes to show that sometimes it takes more than love for 2 people to be together. This was a very mature conversation.
The way they catch each other gaze, I know the love is definitely still strong.
Wow! To see a man express his feelings like this is so good to see.
You can hear one of their hearts beating fast. You can hear the nervousness but most importantly you can see the love 💗
Awwww I love how they sat down and communicated together you can tell the love & passion they have for each other is still there. I hope they get back together and work things out. ❤️
This is one of my faves. I'm here tearing up, ugly crying cuz this is more common than we ever think and not everyone gets the opportunity to have these deep convos. I really hope they both heal and can move on with love and wisdom.
The love is oozing through the screen. 🥺 Wishing them both all the best wherever life leads them.
I love how open this conversation is
Watched the entire 20 mins of this and still have no idea what happened between them lol, they did so well of keeping it private!
She started stripping and lied about it!
@@passwordismypassword7403 I was thinking this but it almost also made me feel she stepped out on him. Not in a sexual way but in allow men to hold my attention. I will definitely agree with you.
I thought it was meeeee I was lost as hell lol 🥴😂
Seems like she cheated and then started stripping...
@@passwordismypassword7403 I thought so too due to them saying they are living "different lifestyles" in the context that said it in
Sometimes we feel like we will always love an ex. Wait until you get loved Properly then you will quickly put them out of your mind.
Very True!!
Yes but everybody has that 1!! They will always hold a soft spot for alive or passed on!
I so believe that 🌝
@@ms.ladybug6186 exactly...
@@ms.ladybug6186 thank you
Her smile is beautiful and he has very beautiful energy. You can feel their Love for each-other through the screen
They're so New York! Love their accents, loved this conversation 😍
I thought i was the only one that knew they were from the city 🗽
She gives me Jamaican vibes
Def Jamaican new yorkers i called it immediately
Both sound like they from the Islands. Definitely from Brooklyn
@@suppn2tlkbout Nah I think Latina
Breakups are so hard ❤️ sending them love and resilience to give themselves the space they need and with time get through it to the other side
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Are they wearing their mics against their chests? The heartbeat that I heard throughout made me realize how short life is. When you make mistakes in relationships like this you can only HOPE you learn and grow from it. Too many of us take our mistakes with us into our other relationships and we never truly learn and grow. I commend them both for being able to do this, we all think we want to see that person but so many of us ain't ready to hold space for what they truly have to say.
Yes, they are all mic'd up!
I didn’t even realize the heartbeat til I read this comment. Now I can’t STOP hearing it 😴😂
It's the way you both looked at each other with all this raw emotion
He's done and she's still hurt of what happened in the past. I don't see them getting back together. He received his closure even more from this situation and that's it.
It’s prime example of when love overrides ego and pride I love it when the stage of relationship grows this way
I am listening to this with headphones and you can hear the heartbeat of one of them sooooo loudly on the mic, wow.
I just cried like a baby 😭 the stuff tht he says is so heart felt like it’s really coming from his heart. We need more men like this in the world today his energy is unmatched she really had her a good one .
I agree... he is truly a rarity. Unfortunately I don’t think she will ever find anyone like him again.🥺😢
Yea, she blew it
She’ll always regret not fighting harder for this relationship. Love is compromise and sacrifice something she wasn’t willing to do
Yes, she will forever miss the opportunity to compromise
This is so sad.
I can’t say what I want to say without sounding judgmental. So I will just say
1. She is absolutely gorgeous.
2. That is a good man.
3. He loves her.
4. It is rare to get a man to look at a woman the way he looks at her. I hope she doesn’t regret it.
I do feel like she might be missing her blessing with this one. They seemed like they were meant to be.
@@nekpenasiriuwa8627 I agree. She is giving up a good man for some foolery that amounts to nothing.
i love the maturity of this comment. internet, take note lol
@@gab19guerin72 facts, dancing...years down the road she will regret
Yep she’s not going to be young forever
Oftentimes self-sabotage is the detriment of true love. Seek help, you both love each other and it seems like those years growing old together will be beautiful.
Going through a breakup myself and seeing them (the way they spoke to each other, their bond, the still very obvious feelings, but the acceptance of their situation) was cathartic. Bawled and blubbered like a baby.
It's the "I miss you everyday" AHHHHHH I'M EFFING CRYING.
That was the real Tear Jerker man🥲
I was locked in on the screen for this one, this is sooooo real and raw. If only all exes can have a conversation like this to avoid bringing same issues to the new relationship.
This is what you call mature....I love this 😢❤
I can just feel the love they share 💗. I pray that they find their way back to each other’s hearts again.
I get so emotional when I watch these videos. I picture myself and my ex.. being vulnerable to each other. Receiving the closure we both needed, updating our lives to each other. Sometimes vulnerability can be so touching.
I love them and their transparency with one another!
Whew! The emotions were raw in this episode. I pray that he aligns with his soulmate cause he’s definitely one of the good ones! ❤️
The maturity in this video is amazing. I want them to work it out. This is step one, communication and they communicate very well.
Love isn’t enough is a hard lesson to accept 🥲
It is but the thing that sets you free
Completely agree and the other side of that is love isn’t necessary. I know plenty of successful couples who do not love each other but are healthy together and raised good children who turned out to be happy adults. I’m a product of a household like that. I’d rather have stability and healthy household than one filled with love and chaos. To be clear my parents did not love each other but they expressed plenty of love for me.
Totally!
yet love is the greatest commandment and yet you are right it is not enough so many other intangibles required. :~)
Girl, the hardest
I'm SOBBING. It really does just go that way sometimes. Ya'll seemed emotionally mature enough now to maybe navigate a relationship together. Either way, I wish you both so much love and happiness for your futures.
His energy is everything ✨
Hey twin.
I’m only 5 minutes in but I’m loving the questions and also how even if it hurts to say the truth it’s being said. When 1 speaks the other is actually listening not just listening to respond but listening to truly understand. This is a true healing conversation.
I can hear my heartbeat in this room
This was so sweet. I love how Jeron was open and expressed his feelings and Annalisa took accountability for their breakup. I was hoping these two would come together but I wouldn't want Annalisa to leave what she loves which is her dancing. Maybe in the future things may change. But I feel like this may have been their last conversation by the way Jeron giggled and said this might be our last. Their love is strong!!!!!!!
OMG I felt so many emotions 😭. He's correct you can love each other but doesn't mean it will always work. It was truly a beautiful sharing of each other. Best of luck you two 💗
It's sad to see ppl so in love but can't be together 😔..
But the real question is why can’t be together, whatever happen, that you still find love but can’t put everything aside and be together
@@sashnieify Some ppl don't wanna put their Pride aside. Not everyone find real Love but to just let it go like that.. smh
@@PhoenixGoddess This comment right here is spot on in a whole lot situations. I love them both and it's truly sad seeing how much they love each other, and makes me question has he truly forgiven her, not that I am questioning him, but it's just so sad that moving on is better than finding a way to make it work...
@@hettygrant2040 I totally agree with you. You can see they are both missing each other. It's sad....
@@hettygrant2040 and in this generation its even worst, they would rather call it quits. Than rectify the situation. everyone thinks people are some garbage disposal just to throw away and not work things out respectfully
👏🏿👏🏿 🥂to his mom or grandmother job well done so respectful well mannered. This’s how I inspired my sons to be.
@Blank Mane why cant women teaches a man to be a man ? There’s so many single mothers out here and they doing a great job 🥂
@@dianalogan6185 because most men who dog women come from single mother households, it’s not the mothers fault, it’s the absence of a male figure to provide guidance. It’s the same for daughters raised by their fathers, they need a female counterpart to bounce ideas off of.
@@dianalogan6185 a child is molded by both parents, but a father plays a major part to raise a good son, so as a mother to raise a good daughter
Both these individuals are so commendable. The maturity, vulnerability, and growth. Lawdhammurcy. So great that they could just sit and talk.
He is an amazing man. Carries himself well. I love to see that.
You can see there is a lot of love still there.
This is amazing! There are a few exes that I could not see in person because the feeling are so hard to deal with. My hats off to both of them.
So much respect ✊ for this gentlemen’s communication style and intention. Blessings & peace sir! So much respect for this young ladies candor and willingness to do this project. May you both find healthy true love. Thank you both!
whew, healing from a break up and watching these are so... not the best lmao.
Best wishes to you. 🙏🏽
lmao same.
Join the break up club lmao💔
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Factsssss
It’s so refreshing to see people knowing how to express themselves.
Jeron is so loving, vulnerable, honest and respectful. I hope you find love, because you truly deserve it. All the best.
It's the accountability for me. With that they will have a bright future, together or apart 🌠
I’ve been delaying to watch for 2 months finally caved in. It was truly heart breaking to watch… to know that love isn’t enough to make a relationship work.
Goodness the straight line between is intense. So connected. I hope they pull closer to each other. Forgiveness can go such a long way. I hope I end up with somebody strong and gentle as him.
her accent is beautiful