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- Living with Introversion: Frank's Story
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Franks word of the week seems like I'm being pushy. 😅
What could be more annoying when people ask you
1 )Why are you so quiet all the time?
2) Why are you always so sad .
I Wish people would UNDERSTAND us better .
There should be separate country or introverts just kidding.
"I'm not shut up in my house all the time... just most of the time."
The relatable content that keeps bringing me back to this channel.
ye, I haven't gone anywhere with friends in... processing... I don't remember actually. I think it was around february maybe. For a movie, since it's cold around then.
Yeah, I'm not shut up in my house all the time, I leave when/if my mom wants me to go grocery shopping with her and if I have to go to the dentist or something! 🙃
The way the camera cuts while he's still talking is hilarious.
Bruh
First thing that comes to mind
Now that’s all I notice. You can almost time when the cut will happen.
It's because as an introvert they had to cut all the huge gaps out to make it interesting.
@@nicholasjh1 That's how they managed to simulate that he could actually talk nonstop for 2.5 minutes. XD
-"I actually have enjoyed some parties that I've gone to"
-"Tell us about one"
-"👁👄👁"
Me AF🤣🤣🤣🤣
That one party when we were outside (but still under the roof, it was raining) and I spent all of the time with my best friend and the best thing was simply watching what other people were doing (at the end I kinda wished I could join them, but I was to anxious to do it).
Oh, and my birthday party, when I wanted to invite only my best friend and her sister, but my mom said that's not enough people, and because I couldn't choose who to invite, I simply invited the whole class. Such a disaster.
And that one dance we had in school, when I was too shy to dance and ended up embarrasing myself by sitting on the floor. Also, the music was way too loud.
Oh, how I wish I would have a book of all the comments I've ever written. So many memories in all of them...
I only realized now that it says 'I have ENJOYED some parties...'
I wonder what an introverts only party would be like.....
Probably like that one where all the invitees were time travelers from the future 🤭
Introverts wouldn't throw a party. They get guilt-shamed into going to someone else's party by their extrovert friends.
I don't think it would be much like a party people think of when they think "party". It'd probably be closer to a book club or being at the library.
Online MMO raid. 👍
We'd probably make small talk about similar interests for around 1/4 of the time to make it seem like we're actually hanging out and know each other, then the last 3/4 we'd watch TV or something in a not-uncomfortable silence because we'd understand that we don't feel like talking.
Someone asks “hi are you okay??”
Me: yes I’m having fun! *silently calculates if it is okay to leave the party yet*
yep, 100% relatable
I use the strict parents trick to go home early.
@@amusiclover7340 Problem is when you don't live with your parentes anymore
Can be me 😂😂
@@amusiclover7340My parents would laugh or cry if they knew how many times i used them to avoid social engagements throughout the course of my life. I no longer live with them so that excuse doesn't work anymore. So sad.
“Talking to people is highly overrated anyway”. Agreed...and I say the same thing about teamwork. 😂
Can't agree more, teamwork and group projects are straight out of hell 🙈
While there are some worthwhile conversations too (where real information is exchanged), most are really overrated, definitely 😂
Yeah, talking to people is overrated.
But teamwork could be a great way of doing things if people weren't incapable of working together.
It's a great idea executed almost everytime poorly.
@@hadrienlondon4990 My experience with teamwork so far is that I am the work(ing one) while the rest is the team 😅👍
So yes, the execution is lacking and probably needs proper supervision as well. Plus, teams should consist of members who can inspire and motivate each other... usually they drag each other down instead.
A good prof or manager probably can create a good team though, maybe.
Yes, I hate teamwork exercises. I'm usually at the back of the group, hiding as much as I can so no one calls on me for anything then when the exercise is over I can say "yes I was there, see I signed the paper." then they can't say I didn't participate.
You took the words out of my mouth!
"Most of my friends I haven't spoken to in over a year, but I'm sure they remember me." Woah that was too real! Yikes 😩😅🤯
I know I have like 3 “friends” like that
Yes!🥺😫
I can relate . And I'm sad because I want to stay with them but I have lots of things to do .
Yeah same haha
I can relate idk y but I just don't feel like talking to my friends I mean I always feel like they moved on with there life and me too soo there is no problem but they get angry at me for not contacting them😫 I just don't get y it's soo important to speak to them every now and then 😒😖
"Talking to people is highly over rated. I would know because I've done it a few times.....and I'm still recovering." Me too man, me too. Pure poetry.
I felt that.
People don't tend to approach me at all. I blame the permanent scowl and perpetual annoyance in my voice.
I also love every second of being left the F**k alone.
Still laughing about that as I can relate soooo much 🤣🤣🤣
I felt this in my soul!
Mood
People: Are you okay? You look distraught,
Me: *Thinking about how carbonated milk would taste like*
I don't think you can find a way to make milk taste good on its own
Mood
🤢
ew
I laughed out loud in sheer disgust. Didn't know I could experience those two things at once but you've done it to me. Thanks
I am asked “Are you okay?” All the time during social events.
Nailed it again, FJ!
INTJ here and I just get quick glances and waves as people walk by, too nervous to speak to me. It’s wonderful.
@@equestrianrosie that's lucky, I'm intj too and people looked like they wanna ask if I'm okay in social events but too intimidated to do so, so they just follow me around everywhere as if I needed company
Some people ask if I'm angry 😂
next time someone asks me that I'm gonna ask it right back
@@TheSuperCoolMan122 Haha! If I didn’t panic and automatically say “What? No, I am fine. Thanks, though.” I would definitely do that.
"I've actually enjoyed some parties I've gone to." "Tell us about one." 🤨😂
one party i went to i single-handedly moved the crowd of 12+ people from standing in the kitchen into sitting in the hosts's bed.
i spied his Nintendo Entertainment System and fired up Dr.Mario, and the rest of the party just kinda followed my lead lol.
another party i went to i hid behind the couch and read the host's Calvin and Hobbes collection... And a gay guy crawled in after me and hit on me.
Uh. Good times lol. sigh
So relatable!!
Two parties where I fell asleep in plain sight.
Haha I thought it was only me who has a sad face as a neutral expression. It seems to be a particular thing about introverts.
INTJ here. Mine’s more the classic “resting bitch face” and I’m fine with that. 🤣
I usually get the "cold uncaring" face. it's like people just don't want to understand that there are introverts out there and it's hampering our ability to work or enjoy the work.
I get anxious around because people seem to act weird or scared around me, but I think it's because my normal face looks like it's staring into the depths of their souls or just hating everybody
Mine just looks like I'm uninterested and sleepy.
And every person I meet ask why I looks sad most of the time,
T_T
RSF- Resting Sad Face
At least we won‘t get laugh lines.
@@teenshii Valid point! Do introverts tend to look younger since they limit facial expressions?? 🤔😆 someone get a scientist!
@@ArcaneGinger Technically yes but it still depends on your genes and UV-A rays. Overall less facial expressions will lead to less expression lines. :D
@@teenshii Very true! 😁 I do have laugh and smile lines 😅 but that may be normal for an enfp?
@@ArcaneGinger I guess everyone will have some fine lines around the eyes or mouth no matter which personality type you are. I mean nobody has always a blank face, right? 😁
"I would know, I've done it a few times, and I'm still recovering" 😂😂😂 SAME
last year, two of my professors actually asked me, "is everything okay? if you have any problems you can come to me. " DURING lecture in front of the whole class. ig i might've been imagining a particularly sad scenario
I actually have a shirt that says "social battery running low" that I wear as my pajamas.
Where can I buy one ?
I want it!!!!!!!!!!
Doesn't it depend on your country. I can tell you the shop I got it from but I don't know if it is in your country. I got mine from Mr Price.
@@fairyblu6929 thank you
I WHANT IT!!!!!!
“I would hate every second of it and probably throw up beforehand”
The accuracy 👌🏽
Relatable! It's sooooo annoying when you're ACTUALLY having fun and your social energy is like: "Ha! Nope"
That is a real one. :D
omg yes, is like you can almost feel the energy leaving your body
"I can do what an extrovert can do" is a life motto of an introvert "it is just we don't wanna do it, or we don'tfeel doing it"
0:58. When ever I make a claim, and am then asked to give an example.
Fr like my memory fcking yeets itself out the damn window and leaves me abandoned, sweating nervously as I try to recall it the one time I actually need it.
@@birhb6372 IKR?
@@birhb6372 so true
Some scientists believe this phenomenon due to biological differences in the way introverts/extroverts store memories. Introverts store more things in their long term memory and it's harder to access on demand and the opposite is true for extroverts. #NotAlone #ItsScience
@@alexisb.8965 damnnn
"Yeah, I'm kinda sad."
Every time someone thinks my neutral face means I'm a stuck up B.
With all my introverted enthusiasm I liked this video. 😊
Me either, and I used to hear that 😑
I have the worst rbf ever lol
When I do my neutral face only teacher ask me if I'm fine other and stranger just look at me like I'm an alien, it's hilarious sometimes
"Talking to people is highly overrated anyway. I would know -- I've done it a few times.
*And I'm still recovering"*
That made my day XD
I wouldn't mind talking to you for the purpose of teaching you calculus. It's small talk I'm not keen on.
"Why are you so fricking angry?"
Dude, this is my dammed face
I hear that a lot and that's when I actually start getting angry, then they say: see, I told you!
Has anyone else ever had what I can only describe as a "social headache"? I call it a headache but it's more like a dull foggy feeling. I've only experienced it when I was working a front-of-house job with a lot of through put. After so many people I become distracted and my memory goes completely out the window.
I have, and it's the worst! Even when I thought I was having a good time it's like my social battery ran out all of a sudden and you start feeling out of place, like no matter how hard you try you can't be fully there because your body doesn't let you. It's like a migraine with that feeling of dizziness and foggyness you describe, and yes you can't focus on all the people around, it becomes too much to process. I used to think I might be related to my anxiety issues or maybe I got stressed out (I tend to have migraines and similar symptoms because of anxiety and stress). It makes sense because being introverted and feeling anxious/stressed in social situations go hand in hand, but I can't tell you much about that since I couldn't bring it up in therapy xD
OMG I've been looking for thiss
I relate and i am extroverted. I get headaches and become tired when people try to "small talk" for too long because i have to maintain a discussion when i clearly don't want to and it gets on my nerves. Also, I am ENTJ.
@@phuongcaothanh2010 It's so relieving to know you're not the only one that goes through this, it might be hard trying to explain it to someone who doesn't know what it's like. @PaleGhost69 I appreciate this comment so muchh haha
@@lanyp.4381 Yeah it's happened to me too, I guess it has to do with the draining of our "social battery"? Or the energy we have to socialise at that moment
"Why are you so sad?"
Me: "Why are you so happy??! Enlighten me!"
💯
Actually my resting face makes me look like I am about to rip someone's head off. According to everyone I see at work.
Then again when you are fixing everyone's mistakes at work , that face does just become a reflex.
My confused face looks like my angry face 😦
Gosh, same
Are you an INTJ?
INTP IT?
INTJs look like they are up to some machiavelic plan (maybe killing someone idk)
INTPs look like they don't give a f**k and at the same time like they are annoyed by your very existence
The part where you said, “I actually enjoyed parties I’ve gone”
Tell us about one. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
as an INFJ, can we just take a moment to appreciate bathroom stalls?
they're just so perfect for hiding.
just... so perfect.
No thanks. I'm outside or on the dance floor
I always hide in the bathroom stalls in school and listen to music, the infp life
Can't relate. Too much stress because someone ALWAYS wants in.
Yup. It's a refuge.
@Leemabari Beage man I always hated my mom for pulling that crap on me.
People think it's kind of rude if I don't get exited for something.
One gave me a birthday gift, and she waited for a hug from me, I am not the person that hugs others often, so i was like (thank you, I like it ) this how my face expression looked like.🙂
😂😂😂😂
Some introverts might understand this😂😂
Oh my gosh me and Christmas and birthdays! My brother growing up was so over the top excited about gifts and I’d be so quiet opening mine and people would just sit back like “ does she not like it?” Lol. I hate when it’s my turn to open gifts for this reason. Can never look excited enough!
It just takes a lot of energy to be as excited as they want you to be.
It’s exhausting honestly...it doesn’t mean I don’t like the gift though...
@@mitchelleegeonu6312 Exactly!
omg I LOVE when people come up to my friend and I and only talk to my friend. My go to move is slowly inch away and hope no one notices that I am leaving the conversation LOOOL
I like to think of introversion and extroversion as qualities that everyone possesses instead of as types of people. It's only that people have a different balance of those qualities where some tend to go more towards one or the other. You can very often see the 'introvert' suddenly very outgoing and open once surrounded by the right people and when they comfortable in their environment and vice versa.
That being said I could relate to everything he said in this video lmao
Agreed. For example, I can't just randomly speak to people or throw an event or join some busker in the street, only because it never even crosses my mind. Like, why would i? But my extroverted friends really like that kind of stuff.
I suppose we all just think differently and view the world from different perspectives, it doesn't really have much to do with being outgoing or shy. Although, introverts do tend to be quieter and sit at home more, but it's just because we don't feel the need to be loud or really do anything outside.
@@blank_line Yeah well said
The concept of introversion/extroversion can be defined in several ways. The Meyers Briggs concept can be determined by how a person recharges when they are depleted. While certain introverts may seem very energized in certain social settings, they will become depleted after a while & they will need time alone to refuel. Extroverts are the opposite: time alone depletes them & they need people to recharge them. You’re either one way or the other.
I am an INFJ so I’m an introvert. However, I love interacting w/ people. I wish I could do it for longer amounts of time, but it just depletes me.
@@AnnaMayKremer ohh...interesting
@@AnnaMayKremer Omg, me tooo. I just can't last long. 😂 I wish tho.
Literally one of my friends said that I would nail being a secret agent because of my emotionless face. I took that as a compliment.
Me: gets invited to a party
Me: I'll do it but I'll whine the whole time
I'd look for any excuse not to. My cat...turned into Darth Vader
For me I get offended for not getting an invite to a party I didn't want to go to anyway.
@@fairyblu6929 Same 🤣
@@lightsab4675 I've got a big family so my go to excuse is that it's someone's birthday
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*When a friend says a break up song sounds relatable.*
Me: Ha, jokes on you, I never had a girlfriend. Double jokes on you, I don't even have a friend to say this to.
People ask me sometimes how I deal with breakups, and I'm like "bold of you to assume I've ever had a girlfriend" (I haven't)
Lol the “I’m still recovering” from talking to other people part 😹
why can’t introverts find each other and are always surrounded by extraverts 😭
I feel like we attract extrovert people because I have quite a few extrovert friends (I love them but I can’t be that social)
I remember this one time when I was a kid where I was just chilling and a guy walked up to me and asked "Are you okay?" I say "Yes" He asks "Are you sure?" I say "Yes" Then he goes on this long speech about how people bottle up their emotions and will say they're fine when they're not fine and I didn't know what he was going on about. It was only when he was done he gave me this look and I knew he was talking about me.
This is the crap we have to deal with.
Yeah When I was a little girl I was just walking around dining to myself when a friend of mine saw me and ran over to check if I was ok Not after that since I realized people could hear me singing lol!
I hear ya, Frank. I'm so much like you...99% I used to take a book and sit in the restroom during receptions...hid in my bedroom as a kid...but I had friends.......I love your TH-cams. I'm 69 and you are helping me find myself! Thanks, Young Man!
I always hid in my room as a kid, and was obsessed with just reading book after book. It was my happy place, and still is. ☺️
Kay, this makes me feel very fuzzy. All too many resign themselves to certitude.
A question for extroverts: Do you get terrified when forced to call someone or order food or is that an introvert thing?
Not an extrovert, but I was curious too and once asked one of my extroverted friends. She just told me: You get scared when making phone calls? It doesn't sound too normal, maybe you should talk to a psychologist. 😂
She was seriously worried though 😅
Not an extrovert but i don't think so
I frequently type as an ENFP and I absolutely have this. Sometimes it takes me weeks to make a phone call. I even pick my doctor's for their offer to make appointments online instead of having to call.
It's really hard for me to order foods. I always need to prepare beforehand to order. And I'm an introvert so it might be an introvert thing.
Introvert here. I have to write a list of the entire order or I will forget someone's food and they won't be getting it because I'm not going through the line again because the person taking my order will recognize me and will think I'm a moron.
"I have a lot of friends. I haven't spoken with most of them for over a year, but I'm sure they remember me."
You know... thank you for this. Thank you so, so much for this. There are some things I am trying to sort out at the moment, one of them being whether I have friends or not. Because introverts do get lonely, and when we do, it is very hard to reach out and ask for help... and since we, or at least I, don't talk to people so much, nobody really notices... nobody is there to talk to us on their own. So sometimes it is really hard to realize what it means to have friends. So thank you for this one sentence that has just helped me overcome something very, very big.
“Are you ok?”
No I was daydreaming and you cut me off at the good part.
At this point the party sucks and the characters are all flawed. No conversation stimulates me from that point on.
Finally something us introverts can relate to. :)))
*enters to a party*
Me: great. There’s only 2h59 minutes left till we can finally leave.
This is so me-
@@SimplyTypicalMe at a party I only come for food not to interact
@@red-headedabigail5794 same here lol
"Talking to people is highly overrated anyway. I would know, I've done it a few times. And I'm still recovering" LMAO I laughed so hard at this because I feel like when extraverts ask why I avoid humanity, I think it's so obvious that it's terrible for everyone even though it's not for them.😂
The way I hate it when people come up to me like ArE yOu SaD? ArE yOu LonElY? ArE yOu OkAy?
Like bro I just don't like people get away from me
"I am capable of experiencing positive emotions"
yeah, the only thing i'm incapable of is acting overjoyed with matching sqealing and giggling 😔
Always locate the exits , that's my moto.
The expression thing is 100% true. "are you okay? you look kinda sad"
Noooo its just me not showing emotion on my face! leave me alone!
1:13 Me at NF Connect, then be like "Oops how to introduce myself!" haha 😂
Introvert: Yeah, I love parties!
Also Introvert: *hides in the bathroom 75% of the time, only coming out to grab snacks*
exactly. I would only go for free food.
0:39 yeah, that's right, when someone ask to me "are you ok?" I simply say yes, thinking "I'm always ok, and even if I'm not I will say yes anyway"
"I wasn't sad but knowing that I look pitiful without even trying makes me kinda sad..."
I frown when I think or concentrate 🧐. So I’ve heard ‘ no need to be angry’ a million times. Here I am minding my own business and I’m dragged into a conflict! The very thing I avoid like the plague 🙄
I also frown when I try to concentrate! I feel you 100%
“I actually have enjoyed some parties that I’ve gone to”
“Tell us about one”
**mind freezes, attempts to reboot with Windows 98 dial up noises**
I enjoy parties if there is a specific focus / theme to them. "Come hang out" = no, "We are recreating Bilbo's birthday and handing out scripts, you are playing Proudfeet, please come in costume" = Yes
As an introvert im always 100 percent emotionless
I feel like I'm suppose to donate money now...when does the Sarah McLaughlin start "For 10 dollars a month you can make sure an introvert near you never has to make their own phone calls or leave their house to go grocery shopping again."
Discovering this channel has sent me even further down the introvert hole because half of my social interaction consisted of explaining my lack of social interaction and now I don’t have to explain to my friends why I don’t answer my phone or see them more than once every 10 years cause I can just link them to these videos 😂
"....and I'm still recovering."
*fj making me feel understood again and that's why i love him*
The "and I am still recovering" is so true... I need that on a T-shirt. So people can see it and leave me alone.
"I've done it a few times. . . And I'm still recovering. . ."
*Been there buddy*
"talking to people is hardly overrated anyway, I know and I'm still recovering"
That made my day so much 😂
I don't know why it's funny, it's just funny to me
"No, I am not sad this is my neutral look."
"Talking to people is highly overrated anyway"
Can we make a gold plate with these words??
“Yeah I’ve actually enjoyed some of the parties I’ve been to”
“Tell us about one”
*insert crickets*
😂😂😂😂😂😂
... Networking 🤮
This was such an inspiring video, thank you 🙏🏻
0:22 FRANK. NOT LONG AGO SOMEONE THOUGHT I WAS SAD and i told him it was my neutral facial expression😹😹
that sad one hit hard, the other week I was at a friends birthday and I was asked around 7 times if I was ok or upset because I have the natural "'glazed over, no expression" face
When I was 13 and 14 I was an extreme introvert, many people thought that I was always sad and never happy so when they asked I just said it's how my face is.
Next do the extrovert inspirational video
Talking to other people is over-rated. I mean show me a war that didn’t start with a conversation going bad. No introvert could ever start a war! 😎
"I'm just like you ... if you never left the house." Belly laughing before watching video.
INFP here. I used to go to clubs and party untill dawn at least once a month during college. Really, dancing from 10 pm untill 7 am nonstop, in crowded, dark and sometimes smelly clubs. Sometimes poles were involved. It was awesome.
The thing is that I'd be unfit for human interactions for like 2 days and would need at least 2 weeks to get my energy back to do it all again. No outings the following week. Not even quiet ones. Nobody over at mine. Just classes and then home to my lovely personal space.
This is so spot on. I hate this:
"Why are you so mad? Life is beautiful!"
"This is my face. I was fine until you spoke to me."
"You don't look like you're having fun. Drink more!"
"Nah, I'm out."
*internal monologue* "LOUD NOISES!"
"Lauren, do you know you're eyes glaze over when you don't agree with someone? Maybe you're not aware of it."
"Yeah... Probably..."
I identify with all of what you said. ❤
@@audramartin5367 Unfortunately, throat punching is frowned upon so we smile to make the extroverts feel comfortable.
@@poeticengineer That is too damn funny and so true.
@@audramartin5367 A chatterbox will bring out my violent tendencies.
@@poeticengineer always... Lol
"Most of them I haven't spoken to in over a year, but I'm sure they will all remember me"
I felt that one, especially during these times.
My friend Ally thinks I'm an Introvert because I always say that I'm mentally drained after hanging out with her. (But its really because she shuts me down when I try to talk about deeper subjects.) #ENFP #NeedsDeepConversation
"And I'm still recovering"
Duuude you just killed me with this! Brilliant way to end!!
i actually have a mad face as a resting expression-
i’ll notice it sometimes and relax my eyebrows then i unconsciously go back to the same facial expression, and ppl will tell me i look mad 🕳🚶♀️
I share your videos on Twitter in hopes that my friends & followers will understand me a bit more. "Pay attention! I'm exactly like this!" 😄
I still remember one of my professors told me I reminded her of sadness from inside out because of the natural expression on my face
The one about people thinking ur sad is so true.
I am a really shy introvert.
I like talking to people. but as soon as i make a mistake i regret EVERYTHING and become more introvert. :(
“... and I’m still recovering.” Story of my life. 📖👈👏
The lemon at the end explains it all
my friend: are you ok!? you look sad!
me: im fine!
my friend: no! youre frowning!
me: *smiles until she looks away*
my default exception is just isnt smiling.. ok?
just because im frowning doesnt mean im sad!
i get in many awkward situations because of this..
just letting you know
There is a scene in the Sherlock series where he is smiling at people and the minute they look away he instantly goes back to his normal neutral expression, and I felt that in my bones.
0:53 Never thought of that, and now I notice that I only go to parties just to enjoy the food.
People will most likely forget the Introvert person, but the Introvert person can remember all other people he/she met even they rarely interacted face to face
I relate to all of this except the sad face. I always get told that I look mad and that I'm intimidating but it is just my neutral face.
Them: hey you wanna go to a party?
Me: do they have any animals?
Ikr?? I will totally go for the animals. 😂
Cats at houses where there is a party are life savers
I am 70 years old and have been to 2 weddings, 2 retirement celebrations, and 2 parties. I accepted the first invitations, thinking it will be OK. They were not. I was bullied into accepting the 2nd invitation. It was even worse. After that, I refused all invitations.
Strangely, having expected the invitations to stop, I still got them at work. My answer was always the same, "What? Thank you, but no. I have my reputation as staff misery to think of..."
Now that I'm retired, I stay home most of the time, going out every 6 weeks or so. I've even sold my car as I no longer used it. My life is now 24/7 as it was during the best time of my life, lockdown.
Thanks for the video.
I don’t understand why some introverts struggle with parties. I don’t like big events, I don’t attend them. Period.
When I was a kid I thought I had to be polite and make excuses to leave them earlier. It’s so easier to be an adult and just do whatever you decide to 😌
I'm so, sniff, INspIrEd!!!
idk how to explain but i feel kinda proud to be an introvert, like i genuinely think it's cool
does anyone else feel that way?
I thought I was weird until I came across your videos. My sister lives next door to me and don't see me for months and I love her and her family dearly and would do anything for them.
This is also the first time I commented on any video.
I, as an ISFJ restrained introvert, think that this is the best video I've ever seen.
Me relating to everything he says.... Should I be worried 😬
Is I'm the only person who is introvert and still laughing watching him
I thought that was the point of this video
To be an introvert and laugh
When I'm thinking near strangers they usually ask if I'm depressed or if I'm traumatized
OMG I get that so often everyone thinks I'm sad when this is just my neutral expression. I'm an ISTJ by the way.