Speaking Truth to the Narcissist’s Stupidity

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  • Are you tired of being caught in the narcissist's web of lies and manipulation? In this powerful video, Dr. David Clarke shows you how to speak truth and expose the games narcissists play.
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  • @LR-yu3mx
    @LR-yu3mx 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    One major aspect I have learnt as the time went by. Narcs are possesed by demons. The wolf in sheepsclothing.

    • @Mary-lk8eq
      @Mary-lk8eq 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I've come to that conclusions as well,after watching hundreds of narc video,embracing,experimenting etc. but one little big peice of this element was missing.They operate in the flesh & the spirit. So lately,I've been learning about monitoring spirits,
      soul ties, bible verses,prayers, etc. I feel that it's helping me,& highly recommend it,re: Narcissist,even if you don't go to church.I feel like some of the pressure has been lifted off of me.

    • @jenbodhi1133
      @jenbodhi1133 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I’ve also come to this conclusion

  • @jodycasey6936
    @jodycasey6936 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    Holy moly
    Thank you Sir
    Thank you Google / TH-cam
    WOW!!!!!!
    This video needs to be celebrated. So excuse me while I dance around my room a little bit .
    I am not used to this vein of advice. My relationship with narcissism is on its last legs. But as I’m transitioning into a healthier life that I create for myself I’m gonna take your advice which I’ve already started to do for the last however long and I’m going to enjoy the advice/examples/help you offered here.
    thank you so much for this!!!!!

  • @LeslieBell-ds3en
    @LeslieBell-ds3en 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    “Goodbye trauma bond, goodbye narcissist!!”
    I’m narc-freeeee !!! Yahoooo!!! 🎉🎉🎉
    thank you Dr. Clarke!!!

  • @michelleburstrom2548
    @michelleburstrom2548 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    I have watched many you tube narcissist experts but this video is very unique. You not only explain the characteristics of a narcissist but also how to respond.
    I classically respond by defending myself to the two narcissists in my life and it does continue the argument. It doesn’t take long to realize they are always two steps ahead of me in any conversation where they are trying to pin me to the wall.
    This video really helped me understand how programmed I am to be defensive when I’m under attack. I guess I have an ouch in my heart that needs to be healed before I ever engage with either of them again so I don’t become so reactive to their techniques.
    Thanks for this video……it was so helpful and you are so wonderfully funny. 😊

  • @stephanniekotalik9339
    @stephanniekotalik9339 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Thanks for this information. My narc husband said all those things to me. I endured 27 years of hell. All 4 children we had are adults now. I stopped letting him touch me 3 years ago. He has been viewing porn and is a closet bisexual. I could go on but I think I said enough. The exit plan is underway.

    • @LeslieBell-ds3en
      @LeslieBell-ds3en 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Nice going, Stephanie. God bless you! ❤

  • @lisatagliabue6395
    @lisatagliabue6395 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    I thank God for you Dr. Clarke!!

  • @LeslieBell-ds3en
    @LeslieBell-ds3en 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Thank you Dr. Clarke for helping escape codependency!!! I have been a regular viewer if your podcasts.
    I had been dating the narcissist for 6 years and we had broken up several times (soooo many times) but I couldn’t make it stick. I purchased your book and after reading it (I was glued to it and read it all in one night), with that and a LOT of prayer I was FINALLY able to break my codependent trauma bond for good!! I went from completely addicted to him and not knowing if I could ever leave him permanently to the point where I don’t even feel remotely the same about this person anymore. It’s like the blinders fell right off my eyes. Thank you so very much for your help! ❤❤❤

    • @Mary-lk8eq
      @Mary-lk8eq 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Awesome ❤ Knowledge is king!!& It's empowering.Who needs something that has no human traits?

  • @carolnahigian9518
    @carolnahigian9518 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    All THEY DO; is Lie....

  • @brendarewan7441
    @brendarewan7441 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    “Satan controls the Narc”.

  • @amybluevelvet1984
    @amybluevelvet1984 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I left my narc ex in March, everything Dr Clarke has said about narcs is how my ex is and continues to be

  • @rosieE121
    @rosieE121 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    How true about sarcasm. They have it and no one else allowed.

  • @gingerzelidon3573
    @gingerzelidon3573 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you, Dr. Clarke.

  • @NarcInjury-y1x
    @NarcInjury-y1x 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Never do all of these if the narc is aggressive.

    • @sojournerPs.3740
      @sojournerPs.3740 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      very true, the malignant types can heap quite a bit of hell on their targets, and they cowards so they run ruin behind the scenes.

  • @rosieE121
    @rosieE121 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    With those comebacks you best have an escape hatch ready!

  • @stacielivinthedream8510
    @stacielivinthedream8510 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    OMG, I love you!!! 😂 ❤

  • @carollee6963
    @carollee6963 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Great video!!

  • @nicoledemartino2635
    @nicoledemartino2635 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Can you address adult narc adult child that uses grandchild as a pawn

  • @rosieE121
    @rosieE121 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Absolutely, go live alone if narc says you should.

  • @gate7551
    @gate7551 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Getting in the boxing ring with these fools usu backfires….and they love the attention good or bad….best to Gray Rock or go No Contact

    • @rosieE121
      @rosieE121 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes, but until then you need to have integrity and stand up for truth. You need to be a good example to children and others.

    • @Nikki_yl
      @Nikki_yl 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @gate7551
      He doesn't say that you must get in the boxing ring but that you have to give only one right answer. For example in public.
      Only one right answer and then move on. Don't care about him anymore.
      This is genius! 😊

  • @TRUTHSPEAKER-888
    @TRUTHSPEAKER-888 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    My Mother was a narc I was raised this way😢what do you do if the narc is your child and took you little grandkids? Will this help me?😢😢😢 Their Dad is fooled by my daughter. She is putting EVERYONE THROUGH HELL with the help of my own Mom.... Its crazy. I havent seen my grandsons for 2 years I used to take them every day ro appease thier Mom and help them the ONE TIME I said no to her she took them away and I called DCF. I havent seen them since🥺💔💔💔💔She launched a full on smear campaign against me and I am a real estate agent It has been TOTAL HELL. Please tell me what book will help me...if there are any. ❤ty

    • @seameology
      @seameology 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm in the same position. But since my daughter beat me up, I had to let her go. I have to put my grandchildren in God's hands. I understand your heartbreak.

    • @FaithfulandTrue777
      @FaithfulandTrue777 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Read the proverbs and cry out to God for help 😢❤

  • @Nikki_yl
    @Nikki_yl 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Genius! ♡😘

  • @RedRubyStones
    @RedRubyStones 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Narcs hate being avoided. I avoid my husband's brother at all costs. He hates it! lol My husband needs to hear these messages. He thinks he still needs to tolerate his nasty brother. I'm doing my best, but he doesn't like what I say.

  • @lynnb5196
    @lynnb5196 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This is great information, but how do you, or should you, respond to the narc's huffing and puffing?🥴

    • @k.s783
      @k.s783 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You pretend like you don’t notice. The narc tends to be grumpy to get a reaction from you. They are insistent so the best thing is to leave and avoid interacting with them.

    • @lynnb5196
      @lynnb5196 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      @k.s783 Thank you for that response❤️
      And yes, he is very grumpy😠

    • @gate7551
      @gate7551 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      Yawn or get on the phone with someone-take your attention off them

  • @CounterfeitChristianityCanada
    @CounterfeitChristianityCanada วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    WooHoo...I like your style. I wish I'd known this stuff back in 1998 when I fled for my life, but everything you say is true. I know because I lived it and now that I do finally know, I use my voice to help others. The voice that when I finally broke the trauma bond in the summer of 1998, I raised my leg, turned sideways to him, slapped my behind and told my narc to KISS MY AS*. That's when the power finally shifted. 😂

  • @AshleyKeener-u8o
    @AshleyKeener-u8o วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for the forecast! I need some advice: I have a SafePal wallet with USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (mistake turkey blossom warfare blade until bachelor fall squeeze today flee guitar). How should I go about transferring them to Binance?

  • @palmamingozzi5736
    @palmamingozzi5736 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You have the best answers 😅

  • @NoMoreRatRaceForMe
    @NoMoreRatRaceForMe 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    HE- HE-HE- When referring to the narc- how about He or She - if you are a Doctor of anything you shouldn’t still believe the trope - “ sugar spice and everything nice. “ Come on man- This is found in both men and women . But okay- still gonna listen.

  • @esthergoldberg6407
    @esthergoldberg6407 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Calling out my n d i laws lies only made her more vindictiveevil cruel and punitive cutting me off from my son and only toddler g daughter

  • @beatapogorzelska1241
    @beatapogorzelska1241 วันที่ผ่านมา

  • @lorrainem8234
    @lorrainem8234 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your resoinses are the best, Dr. Clarke 🤣🤗 Thank you for reminding us to not let them mess with our dignity 🙏💗🙏

  • @billdux3271
    @billdux3271 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    “HE?” There are also Narc. women, and yes, there are just as disgusting. Unsubscribed, unliked and moved on from this site.

    • @moname56
      @moname56 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Most are men and that’s why he focused on that. No one would ever deny that they come in both sexes. You seem pretty touchy to be honest. This information is for both sexes.

    • @markjayw666
      @markjayw666 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I have told him 5000 times.

    • @moname56
      @moname56 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ I just listened to his last video and he said he or she. Granted he doesn’t say it often.

    • @carollee6963
      @carollee6963 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      He uses he and has stated it can be a she as well. Do you need him to say he/she Everytime? Everyone knows it can be a He or a She narcissist.

    • @billdux3271
      @billdux3271 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Yes. 😀

  • @andymorgan5843
    @andymorgan5843 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This guys a fraud!!! He believes in non Christian stuff. Tells people a " naric will never change " his faith in God is not there. It's like saying God is not all powerful. He only is out here profiting $ off of people's misery and leading them away from God's path. I pray anyone who watching this will truly seek out God's truth. It's not coming from him .

    • @kimbrasier8411
      @kimbrasier8411 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

      Christ can change them if they fully submit to Him. 99.999999999999% will never fully submit.

    • @AndreaBuchanan-f5b
      @AndreaBuchanan-f5b 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      Jesus can change anyone who WANTS to be changed but I believe DOC is speaking in a Godly way. Jesus does not call us to live in any kind of abuse and narcs rarely change. !!!

    • @andymorgan5843
      @andymorgan5843 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I believe you'll find the true answer in 1 Corinthians. Chapter 7 all about marriage. But the whole book is good.
      On another note then how about Dr David telling you lie "hide money", " don't tell him your getting a divorce " (when you are) and be "snarky" some of those sayings might be in other videos of his. But I don't remember anything like that being in the Bible as God's way. Watch his video again and listen closely to his arrogant overly selling way. Watch a few others. It all about buying his crap. This man only has one Master and that is money and his using his knowledge with a mix of a few selected Bible versus to trick you.
      ​@@AndreaBuchanan-f5b