This is true, but it's easier said than done. When a child becomes a teenager. They tend to be consumed with what people in their age group is doing. Maybe it's because they are trying to find themselves, or maybe it's because people can sometimes say hurtful things to someone, and it can take a toll on their self esteem/image.
motivator812 I'll hold up a rotten apple and an okay apple. Hold a poll and see who will find the rotten apple okay. Point is what majority of people find attractive nine times out of ten it is. Leave out the insecurities and all. People like what they see. It's not the media, or Instagram that's to blame. It's already embedded in the brains of human beings to like beauty and most of the times everyone can recognize it
I’m only a “bully” if someone else is being a bully. I witness a bully, I fight back. I don’t care if it had nothing to do with me, I’m not going to let someone hurt someone else
@Guacamole Nigga Penis No but Indian perspective consistently stay hidden from mainstream attention. That creates a feeling of otherness which leads to speculation and stereotypes. I mean why you need stereotype when you have a good idea? The reason this content exists is to see if the stereotype of young girls is related to reality? This question exists because what we know about teen girls comes through social media, interpretations and impression and not from direct account of girls themselves. How many times have you seen Indian people given opportunity to express themselves and clarify the stereotypes based on their ethnicity? Have you ever came across an Indian character which is well researched or written by an Indian herself? That's why we need to give chance to real people to express themselves. I am replying on your comment because here in India, our majority too thinks that secularism and inclusiveness is overrated and representation of minorities is considered not so important which is creating rampant stereotyping and misinformation which is harming lot of communities. Ironically the same harmless Indian minority in US becomes a racist community in their own country when in majority.
My 11 year old daughter said "Just get off social media ". She's 11 and gets it, if social media is causing anxiety and stress, why even bother. Its not a necessity. ... When I was their age, I only wore lip smackers lip gloss! Sheesh they are growing up too fast. AND Kylie Jenner is NOT natural!
@@silmarillion666 makeup is a way of self expression! there’s no need to stop using it, as long as it’s more of a matter of figuring out yourself instead of hiding your insecurities (:
I'm 16 and when she said the 80's era it touched me because I wish the same 💗 But to all the older people you think our generation is bad... wait until 10 years from now that's all I gotta say. Things will be different!
Hi my name is breanna and i was looking through this video cause im trying to figure out as a parent what i can do to help girls that go through this. I have a daughter that is 13 now and bulling is going on in her school .
@@Breezyone01 hi, i'm a 15 year old boy, but my answer is better than nothing. Teenagers on that age are very often depressed and stressed (naturally). As long they have friend to talk with then it's ok.
Dads don’t really matter. I know girls who have great relationships with their dad but he doesn’t know the internet life her daughter lives, nor the problems she faces
no, stop. Stop putting them down for being beautiful. Please. It’s unfair to expect them to change their bodies for you. Please stop projecting your insecurities on others. I understand you have it hard, but it’s rude and disrespectful to expect that these girls have a perfect life when people like you are telling them that they are ungrateful or not strong because you think they are beautiful.
@@silmarillion666 mental illness doesn't have a singular cause. It's usually a number of things piled on top of each other. In my case school was the biggest reason. Sure it wasn't the only reason but it definitely was the biggest. The pressure of constantly having to balance hours and hours worth of homework, assignments, staying on top of your lessons, sports, extracurricular activities and not to mention scoring straight A’s in exams is just too much.
As these girls are watching the 1990 film say anything I want them to notice some things besides what they mentioned. Ione Skye in this film like any other girl in 1990 , is not speaking with the tone of a question and using the word like every 10 seconds. They should also make it a point to watch old interviews of someone such as Winona Ryder 1987 through 1995. They will hear someone in their age group especially 1987 - 1990 with a tremendous level of maturity and very articulate. It will further open their eyes to what an era of impersonal communication amongst people they are living in. And they will be left scratching their heads as to why they ever for a moment considered Ariana Grande to be any role model for them.
Everyone has image issue's. These girls need to learn that social media is fake and you cant be bullied online if you dont go online. Be proud to be who you are!
I completely understand what you are saying, good message but social media is like a spiders web - once on it you can never get out... And the image put on there is not good. Help. Please.
I love how they bring in the probability most popular girls on school to talk about problems with social media. They are the problem because these people are usually the ones bullying people!
Not all girls there age think like that I'm their age and I think that if you find social media toxic than why have it? It literally just takes two clicks to delete it. But even without social media I still feel horrible about my body.
This is a good conversation starting video. What we see is only a reflection of what is in us. If we see ugly, then we have embodied "ugly". I work with girls from different ethnic backgrounds on a daily basis. One question I start with is "Who determined that you are (ugly, fat, stupid, slow, etc...)?", and why did you give them that right to determine that about you? Why did you accept that? What was it about them that made you give them the right to determine who you are? NEVER GIVE UP YOUR RIGHT OF CONFIDENCE, HOPE, AND HAPPINESS TO ANYONE ELSE!
It’s hard to feel good about yourself when there’s so many people prettier than you, they post a picture of yourself, they get tons of guys loving it, you post a picture of yourself, only your mom loves it
It's not just the young girls it's women in general. Media, magazines, and TV has brainwashed many into a sterotypical idealized form of beauty. So women think that you need to be super light skinned,thin, and heavily made up. Growing up I was always told to embrace the curves, my chocolate skin, and to let makeup be to enhance the beauty that you already have. It's sad to me that so many young women are being trapped into thinking that they are not enough. We are all just fine. Hollyweird is just full of oddballs.
I am a teenage guy. I am more afraid of a girlfriend showing nudity on Instagram then I am afraid of them cheating. We all know which one is more likely....
The worst part Seeing your classmates stories and posts, especially in summer, and seeing how much better they look compared to you, and seeing them have so much more fun than you, You know your doing fun interesting stuff but it doesnt feel like it because what other people post
Bullying DOES still happen in person. I hate this myth that everything is cyber these days. I was bullied HORRIBLY by so many guys in middle school and high school, both inside school and outside of school, in person. It was horrible between the ages of 12 and 18 for me. Cyber bullying isnt the only bullying that happens (as bad as that is) Another thing that pisses me off is that its stereotyped that girls get bullied more than boys. I can challenge with my own personal experience. Girls weren't bullies in my high school for the most part, but the boys were awful. I never saw girls in MY SCHOOL get bullied. Please people end this 21st century myth that girls get bullied more than guys, because they usually dont as much as weak guys like me
Yes, you want teenage girls (and boys) to be resilient, but why should they be bullied online so much? This is where social media are at fault. No second chances. No anonymity.
So, we want them to open up and trust us but the first opportunity we have them open up to us, we hide their parents (whom they didn't want to say this to them). Wtf.
My friend: “OMG WHO DIS NEW GURL TRYING TO ADD YOU?! WOW...MAKING FRIENDS WITHOUT ME.” then she unfriended me. Me: “Meh idk who that girl is.” My friend: “oh yeah...we fought.” Me: “I like how you use ‘we’”
I don't envy young people. Back in the day destroying people took real effort. If you wanted a nasty photo of someone for example. 1st it was hard to take it with a camera. The film had to safety get developed. Wait for it to be developed and had to pay for each picture. Hide the negatives... shown the pictures to each person individually. Hope none of their friends did not grab them and tear them up real quick... ect ect
Diversity is important to represent the different types of people in this world. White people aren’t the only people that exist, sorry to break it to you.
Someone asked, "Why are teenagers involved in social media?" They already go through bad times in high school, adding social media is the last thing they can't do that will be a lot worse than high school. Teenagers shouldn't be on social media until they're done with high school.
These girls spend too much time on social media. The parents/moms should really have them learn a trade or help volunteer somewhere doing something they like or encourage them to start a small business.
People have to realize that social media isn’t going anywhere. Smartphones aren’t going anywhere. We’re going to have to learn how to use these things responsibly and teach our kids to use these tools responsibly too.
Yes I totally agree! It really is up to us to inform and educate people on how to properly use Social Media! I just posted a 1 minute poem on my channel and I'm curious to know what you think about it because I really do think you have a firm grasp on the topic
Lemme give you some advice my teacher coach Burnie told me, he said “why is there cyber bullying, if you can just click out and turn it off” well might be hard to click off from it, but it is for the best and yes people are mean online.
Relationships are hard online. My bf and I may have been literally 2 inches from each other but he had to ask me out on Snapchat because my niece is a little blabbermouth. We live in different towns and my parents don’t know about us (I’m not supposed to date but I do anyway, I know my limits and they know my view on teens that go too far but they don’t get it). It’s hard, it really is.
Everyone on every platform on the internet gets "cyber bullied." Social media, gaming, streaming whatever. If you care so much about other people's opinions that you let random people on the internet dictate how you feel and think, step away from the internet.
This is all bullshit just dont post pictures or just keep your profile private and only follow your friends and only let your friends follow you like all this stuff can be avoided so easy
When adults are in their 4th marriage and single mom is the glory of feminism, what can you expect ? Girl you can not expect 80's boy because you yourself do not behave and dress like 80's girls. Girls are taught that virginity has no vale and the more sex they have the more they will be better at it. If you are doing one thing and expecting different results then you are the one who should check your mental stability.
Yea, I live in Denver and everywhere I go, everyday, I see young women and even pre teen girls with their faces practically glued to the screens of their precious little smart phones. All around them are interesting things to see and hear, but they are oblivious. It is not complicated to understand why this is detrimental. Yea, and it is everywhere.....I can condemn this because I do not have a smart phone. I only have a desk top computer and a track phone.....
Teen girls grown women bully young man older men what is the difference there's a double standard what a woman gets bullied and when a teen girl gets bullied there's outraged and this is wrong but when it happens to a boy and a grown man it's okay when women do it it's okay when men do it it's wrong double standard in America
Yo this has been a problem for years. why're they making it look like it's only a serious problem now? and Jesus if you're not mature enough to say that I shouldn't give in to peer pressure when I can just turn the phone off or even take a break from social media and you give in by sending nudes or changing your personality or whatever, then you're not mature enough to have a phone at all
Spencer Maemura Well social media is being used by younger people more often now compared to the MySpace and early Facebook days, but yeah it’s been a thing for years, just a lot more common now.
I'm 49. The 80s weren't all sunshine. My elementary school of of the 1980s must seem like the Hunger Games to today's kids. Lord of the Flies like Darwinism ruled the school yard. Teachers aggressively coerced compliance; effeminate boys or butch girls were not empowered to embrace their uniqueness, but crushed under homophobic slurs; the few minority kids were called every racially-charged insulting name their classmates' parents passed onto them; allergic kids were teased with PBJ sandwiches chucked at them in the lunchroom; underperforming or disruptive kids weren't accommodated or diagnosed with ADHD or whatnot, but were labeled as r#tards and kicked into the hallway and then forced to repeat the grade; your only hope to stop bullies was your older brothers, your own fists or weaponry. Today's helicopter-parented kids have no concept of that teacher from Pink Floyd's The Wall, but those bastards really did exist.
Get what you can out of men before you hit 30. After your ride on the carousel, you'll end up with some beta dude who's a pushover. Then all your fun days are over.
These comments suck, why are y’all saying “oh but they aren’t ugly”...ya’ll they might not feel confident in their own skin. I’m a 13 year old that struggles with social media because all of my friends only care about followers and likes and that’s all they talk about. It reinforces an anxiety inside me and it’s all overwhelming, it’s as if we have to compete with each other for fame. Social media has everyone screwed.
You're an idiot. We are more often affected by mental illness and we constantly are pressured by beauty standards. Not to mention that we have to have painful and uncomfortable periods and that we are the ones that have to give birth. I swear you are why I'm a feminist.
@@silmarillion666 of course you're a feminist , and saying woman are more affected by mental illness and beauty standards are just wrong , men are always pressured by the stereotype that they have to be the strong , tall , and handsome kinda of guy. And the mental illness part , men suicide rates are far higher than women's suicide rates
SHUT UP....EVERYONE IS FALSE WHEN THEY ARE ONLINE....THE FACADE....BUT BEING YOUNG IS REAL A SHORT LIVED MOMMENT IN LIFE..YOUTH IS SO FLEETING...I USED TO BE YOUNG ,,,,YES INDEED I WAS YOUNG ONCE...AT LEAST I THINK I WAS
We shoudlnt go blame people like the kardashians for everything because truth be told we as consumers of these media are also responsible.I think instead of saying "(name) is a bad role model" or "this app promotes bad behaviour"we should focus on spreading the message of having the right mindset and guidance from peers or parental guardians and really educating the younger or older people on what is right and wrong.
oh come on! there is a huge one way mirror in that room. they all know who its behind the glass. if I go into a room and terse is a 4 ft by 7 foot mirror , I know what is going on.
You're an idiot. First of all, they are teenagers, not little babies or little kids. Second of all, we (the young people) are more affected by mental illness than your generation most likely was/is. This is real pressure, especially for mentally ill people such as myself.
So feminist ideology pretty much owns education. My world has become infinitely more feminized since I was a teenager. But there is a dark lie to all this "progress." I grew up learning how to become pretty much the opposite to a misogynist. And now I wonder if many of these changes have actually helped me more than females? Modern devices, such as I use them - have done me no harm in any way. Yet the millions of teen girls out there who struggle to attain physical perfection - would probably find that their mothers, aunts, grandmothers and great aunts especially - lived a more relaxed life. Why? Because there was no technology to put them under the microscope. There were no magic hand held mirror mirrors constantly reminding them of how imperfect they are (or think they are.) So the great game - is like a hamster wheel. Going round and round and never getting anywhere - at least never getting to the point where enough is enough. It is never enough. And this is progress? When I was in high school, we celebrated the idea that any schoolgirl, just like any schoolboy, could attain a positive and respected identity based on what she knew and what she could do - academically, athletically, artistically, socially.....based on something that went far beyond anything that had to do with the way she looked. They speak of the disconnect, these girls - between a virtual reality and the real thing. Of course they would crave the real thing - because it's real. There is no true replacement for it. So when you can't just go and hang in real time and space...........doesn't that make you feel disconnected from experiencing the world in a way that used to be normal? My era still had the coffee shops, the burger joints, the drop-in centers....and a dozen other places around the neighborhood - a hundred other places around the community, that were used to participate in the public realm. Only the most chronically shy hid away. The rest of us saw each other constantly outside of school. Of course - we all had our pop silly psychology too. But the pressures back then? Today is like going from a grade 4 math class to college physics - in one jump.' As gradual as the change has been - I can see it now. A society that puts that much pressure and importance on looks - is a skin deep shallow one. There's no getting around that.
someone please educate the girl that said kendall jenner is natural
wednesday adams she’s not? 👀
Lolollolol
Milani Inalim
Not really. It is possible to be fit, flat chested, and skinny, however Victoria secret models do very risky diets.
@@parisin45 Fillers in your face, a rhinoplasty and a brow lift is not natural.
Tyrion Lannister
Yes, although I was talking about Victoria secret models in general.
Don't take social media too personally.
Amy Howcroft-sims lol bcz its thst easy. Different ppl different struggles.
Yep. We gotta have tough skin so to speak.
katkom hmmm
Toxicity
That's easy to say if you aren't severely mentally ill.
This is why parenting is so important, as a parent you should be the bigger influence on your child.
Amy Howcroft-sims Very true, some children just do what they want and make bad decisions.
This is true, but it's easier said than done. When a child becomes a teenager. They tend to be consumed with what people in their age group is doing. Maybe it's because they are trying to find themselves, or maybe it's because people can sometimes say hurtful things to someone, and it can take a toll on their self esteem/image.
FAH You are absolutely right!! Parenting plays a big part
YEAH that is so true
Ok but all of these girls are pretty... it's hard when you are objectively unattractive.
Hello Everyone exactly my thought
Hello Everyone I understand you as well. I'm an ugly girl, and it's worser being ugly
What exactly is an "Ugly Girl", and who is the determiner of that?@@ChideraStephen
The perception of UGLY comes from....???? a million dollar question.
motivator812 I'll hold up a rotten apple and an okay apple. Hold a poll and see who will find the rotten apple okay. Point is what majority of people find attractive nine times out of ten it is. Leave out the insecurities and all. People like what they see. It's not the media, or Instagram that's to blame. It's already embedded in the brains of human beings to like beauty and most of the times everyone can recognize it
I’m only a “bully” if someone else is being a bully. I witness a bully, I fight back. I don’t care if it had nothing to do with me, I’m not going to let someone hurt someone else
restoration: 100
Period
Amy Howcroft-Sims waht
Waste of time bro.show them more than that
Finally an Indian girl represented in these conversations!!!
It's good that you appreciate the effort. I'm sure they were very careful to get the ethnic mix just right.
@Guacamole Nigga Penis No but Indian perspective consistently stay hidden from mainstream attention. That creates a feeling of otherness which leads to speculation and stereotypes. I mean why you need stereotype when you have a good idea? The reason this content exists is to see if the stereotype of young girls is related to reality? This question exists because what we know about teen girls comes through social media, interpretations and impression and not from direct account of girls themselves. How many times have you seen Indian people given opportunity to express themselves and clarify the stereotypes based on their ethnicity? Have you ever came across an Indian character which is well researched or written by an Indian herself? That's why we need to give chance to real people to express themselves. I am replying on your comment because here in India, our majority too thinks that secularism and inclusiveness is overrated and representation of minorities is considered not so important which is creating rampant stereotyping and misinformation which is harming lot of communities. Ironically the same harmless Indian minority in US becomes a racist community in their own country when in majority.
My 11 year old daughter said "Just get off social media ". She's 11 and gets it, if social media is causing anxiety and stress, why even bother. Its not a necessity. ... When I was their age, I only wore lip smackers lip gloss! Sheesh they are growing up too fast.
AND Kylie Jenner is NOT natural!
I agree but some makeup for teens is fine.
She said Kendall
She shouldn’t even be on social media the only reason I be on it is to keep contact with people I don’t wanna give my phone number ro
Social media is addictive and hard to leave. It’s causing anxiety and stress, but it’s not like teens would do it if they had much of a choice.
@@silmarillion666 makeup is a way of self expression! there’s no need to stop using it, as long as it’s more of a matter of figuring out yourself instead of hiding your insecurities (:
I'm 16 and when she said the 80's era it touched me because I wish the same 💗 But to all the older people you think our generation is bad... wait until 10 years from now that's all I gotta say. Things will be different!
Me tooo😍😭
Hi my name is breanna and i was looking through this video cause im trying to figure out as a parent what i can do to help girls that go through this. I have a daughter that is 13 now and bulling is going on in her school .
@@Breezyone01 hi, i'm a 15 year old boy, but my answer is better than nothing. Teenagers on that age are very often depressed and stressed (naturally). As long they have friend to talk with then it's ok.
Well, it IS coming from the generation where segregation was a thing
Dads need to be actively involved in these discussions
Dads don’t really matter. I know girls who have great relationships with their dad but he doesn’t know the internet life her daughter lives, nor the problems she faces
The irony is.... They all have beautiful faces. Now try it with an "ugly face". I bet they won't even survive a day
Frrr
no, stop. Stop putting them down for being beautiful. Please. It’s unfair to expect them to change their bodies for you. Please stop projecting your insecurities on others. I understand you have it hard, but it’s rude and disrespectful to expect that these girls have a perfect life when people like you are telling them that they are ungrateful or not strong because you think they are beautiful.
@@miaa.p0v please stop.
@@MYSTERIOUSORBS THANK YOU
@@muirgirl ❤️
They are really beautiful girls.
Meh
Why do they look 23
makeup
New day and age
Make up layers
Bria Barrows they do look older than high school girls.
Bria Barrows makeup
I think that anxiety comes from school
School influences mental illness, it doesn't cause it.
@@silmarillion666 mental illness doesn't have a singular cause. It's usually a number of things piled on top of each other. In my case school was the biggest reason. Sure it wasn't the only reason but it definitely was the biggest. The pressure of constantly having to balance hours and hours worth of homework, assignments, staying on top of your lessons, sports, extracurricular activities and not to mention scoring straight A’s in exams is just too much.
Kendall Jenner... natural? Hahaha. Poor lovies.
As these girls are watching the 1990 film say anything I want them to notice some things besides what they mentioned. Ione Skye in this film like any other girl in 1990 , is not speaking with the tone of a question and using the word like every 10 seconds. They should also make it a point to watch old interviews of someone such as Winona Ryder 1987 through 1995. They will hear someone in their age group especially 1987 - 1990 with a tremendous level of maturity and very articulate. It will further open their eyes to what an era of impersonal communication amongst people they are living in. And they will be left scratching their heads as to why they ever for a moment considered Ariana Grande to be any role model for them.
Not cool to trick those kids into talking while lying about privacy
That was my first thought
Everyone has image issue's. These girls need to learn that social media is fake and you cant be bullied online if you dont go online. Be proud to be who you are!
The answer is simple. PUT THE PHONE DOWN AND GO OUTSIDE!!!
yesssss!
then do the same hypocrite
Jess yup
I completely understand what you are saying, good message but social media is like a spiders web - once on it you can never get out... And the image put on there is not good. Help. Please.
Jess deeeepppppp
I love how they bring in the probability most popular girls on school to talk about problems with social media. They are the problem because these people are usually the ones bullying people!
friendly trombonist all these girls look like bullies & ms populars
The kardashians and Ariana Grande..... really
Damn sad
This generation is really sad.
Loved the girl who looked right at the camera like she was on the office when the hostess said “What do you think about dating?” 😂
Dont have social media. Workout eat healthy.
U can workout and still be insecure
Not all girls there age think like that I'm their age and I think that if you find social media toxic than why have it? It literally just takes two clicks to delete it. But even without social media I still feel horrible about my body.
This is a good conversation starting video. What we see is only a reflection of what is in us. If we see ugly, then we have embodied "ugly". I work with girls from different ethnic backgrounds on a daily basis. One question I start with is "Who determined that you are (ugly, fat, stupid, slow, etc...)?", and why did you give them that right to determine that about you? Why did you accept that? What was it about them that made you give them the right to determine who you are? NEVER GIVE UP YOUR RIGHT OF CONFIDENCE, HOPE, AND HAPPINESS TO ANYONE ELSE!
It’s hard to feel good about yourself when there’s so many people prettier than you, they post a picture of yourself, they get tons of guys loving it, you post a picture of yourself, only your mom loves it
Stop. Jesus saves.
1: get off social media or at the bar minimum don’t take it seriously
2: stop looking up to the kardashians and Ariana Grande
3: Go outside
It's not just the young girls it's women in general. Media, magazines, and TV has brainwashed many into a sterotypical idealized form of beauty. So women think that you need to be super light skinned,thin, and heavily made up. Growing up I was always told to embrace the curves, my chocolate skin, and to let makeup be to enhance the beauty that you already have. It's sad to me that so many young women are being trapped into thinking that they are not enough. We are all just fine. Hollyweird is just full of oddballs.
Funny how in the 30,40,and 50’s girls looked up to women like Eleanor Roosevelt.
I am a teenage guy. I am more afraid of a girlfriend showing nudity on Instagram then I am afraid of them cheating. We all know which one is more likely....
The worst part
Seeing your classmates stories and posts, especially in summer, and seeing how much better they look compared to you, and seeing them have so much more fun than you,
You know your doing fun interesting stuff but it doesnt feel like it because what other people post
Thank you for bringing this into the spotlight . My friends are so mean
Bullying DOES still happen in person. I hate this myth that everything is cyber these days. I was bullied HORRIBLY by so many guys in middle school and high school, both inside school and outside of school, in person. It was horrible between the ages of 12 and 18 for me. Cyber bullying isnt the only bullying that happens (as bad as that is)
Another thing that pisses me off is that its stereotyped that girls get bullied more than boys. I can challenge with my own personal experience. Girls weren't bullies in my high school for the most part, but the boys were awful. I never saw girls in MY SCHOOL get bullied. Please people end this 21st century myth that girls get bullied more than guys, because they usually dont as much as weak guys like me
Yes, you want teenage girls (and boys) to be resilient, but why should they be bullied online so much?
This is where social media are at fault. No second chances. No anonymity.
They’re all beautiful!!❤️❤️
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So, we want them to open up and trust us but the first opportunity we have them open up to us, we hide their parents (whom they didn't want to say this to them). Wtf.
My friend: “OMG WHO DIS NEW GURL TRYING TO ADD YOU?! WOW...MAKING FRIENDS WITHOUT ME.” then she unfriended me.
Me: “Meh idk who that girl is.”
My friend: “oh yeah...we fought.”
Me: “I like how you use ‘we’”
I mean it truly is crazy at how Social Media is shaping and forming us as a society.
They should have asked the girls if it were okay for their mothers to listen
3:13 They still exist. I know guys that are like this in 2021.
Social pressure is not an excuse.
If everyone would jump from the roof, would you do it too?
Girls need attention/validation more than the oxygen we breathe
All this equals the worst parents you could ever ask for.
I don't envy young people. Back in the day destroying people took real effort. If you wanted a nasty photo of someone for example. 1st it was hard to take it with a camera. The film had to safety get developed. Wait for it to be developed and had to pay for each picture. Hide the negatives... shown the pictures to each person individually. Hope none of their friends did not grab them and tear them up real quick... ect ect
Emma Watson is my role model
They are trying to be diversed as possible 😂
Diversity is important to represent the different types of people in this world. White people aren’t the only people that exist, sorry to break it to you.
@Chris Whitty ?
And what's so bad about that?
ALL of them ARE BEAUTIFUL.
There's no such thing as cyber bullying. You can literally close the computer or click over to a different website.
Exactly I did a comedy skit on my youtube channel on one way how social media can negatively affect us
Someone asked, "Why are teenagers involved in social media?" They already go through bad times in high school, adding social media is the last thing they can't do that will be a lot worse than high school. Teenagers shouldn't be on social media until they're done with high school.
These girls spend too much time on social media.
The parents/moms should really have them learn a trade or help volunteer somewhere doing something they like or encourage them to start a small business.
People have to realize that social media isn’t going anywhere. Smartphones aren’t going anywhere. We’re going to have to learn how to use these things responsibly and teach our kids to use these tools responsibly too.
Yes I totally agree! It really is up to us to inform and educate people on how to properly use Social Media! I just posted a 1 minute poem on my channel and I'm curious to know what you think about it because I really do think you have a firm grasp on the topic
All these girls are going to fall for "just the tip"
I'm surprised they didn't blame men as usual...
this just sounds fake
Lemme give you some advice my teacher coach Burnie told me, he said “why is there cyber bullying, if you can just click out and turn it off” well might be hard to click off from it, but it is for the best and yes people are mean online.
Green Demon Mike then get bullied in school
As i read the comment you have adults that get on here and talk about these girls . virbal abuse is by far the worst thing you can do to someone
Just click out, god bless, I am 15 and I can’t believe I am telling other teens this. I guess I have parents that actually raise me right.
solution: dont use social media
oh poor little future victims. All you need to do, is put away your phone and do something that actually benefits you.
Relationships are hard online. My bf and I may have been literally 2 inches from each other but he had to ask me out on Snapchat because my niece is a little blabbermouth. We live in different towns and my parents don’t know about us (I’m not supposed to date but I do anyway, I know my limits and they know my view on teens that go too far but they don’t get it). It’s hard, it really is.
Why was this test done with just girls? Do they not realize the social pressure boys face as well?
I had to walk to the corner to use the phone box to ring my boyfriend. It was more romantic to have breathing space between contact lol
Minors should not have access to the Internet nor should they have cell phones.
Everyone on every platform on the internet gets "cyber bullied." Social media, gaming, streaming whatever. If you care so much about other people's opinions that you let random people on the internet dictate how you feel and think, step away from the internet.
This is all bullshit just dont post pictures or just keep your profile private and only follow your friends and only let your friends follow you like all this stuff can be avoided so easy
WHY DO YOU HAVE IT IN THE FIRST PLACE??
When adults are in their 4th marriage and single mom is the glory of feminism, what can you expect ? Girl you can not expect 80's boy because you yourself do not behave and dress like 80's girls. Girls are taught that virginity has no vale and the more sex they have the more they will be better at it. If you are doing one thing and expecting different results then you are the one who should check your mental stability.
One well known word among girls "jealous." That gossip stuff makes me laugh! 😅
Yea, I live in Denver and everywhere I go, everyday, I see young women and even pre teen girls with their faces
practically glued to the screens of their precious little smart phones. All around them are interesting things to
see and hear, but they are oblivious. It is not complicated to understand why this is detrimental. Yea, and it is
everywhere.....I can condemn this because I do not have a smart phone. I only have a desk top computer and
a track phone.....
and we re supposed to teach them good manners when adults don't have good manners 0:36
Teen girls grown women bully young man older men what is the difference there's a double standard what a woman gets bullied and when a teen girl gets bullied there's outraged and this is wrong but when it happens to a boy and a grown man it's okay when women do it it's okay when men do it it's wrong double standard in America
WHY IS THAT ADVOCATE WITH THE BLOND HAIR SHOUTING!
Yo this has been a problem for years. why're they making it look like it's only a serious problem now? and Jesus if you're not mature enough to say that I shouldn't give in to peer pressure when I can just turn the phone off or even take a break from social media and you give in by sending nudes or changing your personality or whatever, then you're not mature enough to have a phone at all
Spencer Maemura Well social media is being used by younger people more often now compared to the MySpace and early Facebook days, but yeah it’s been a thing for years, just a lot more common now.
I'm 49. The 80s weren't all sunshine. My elementary school of of the 1980s must seem like the Hunger Games to today's kids. Lord of the Flies like Darwinism ruled the school yard. Teachers aggressively coerced compliance; effeminate boys or butch girls were not empowered to embrace their uniqueness, but crushed under homophobic slurs; the few minority kids were called every racially-charged insulting name their classmates' parents passed onto them; allergic kids were teased with PBJ sandwiches chucked at them in the lunchroom; underperforming or disruptive kids weren't accommodated or diagnosed with ADHD or whatnot, but were labeled as r#tards and kicked into the hallway and then forced to repeat the grade; your only hope to stop bullies was your older brothers, your own fists or weaponry. Today's helicopter-parented kids have no concept of that teacher from Pink Floyd's The Wall, but those bastards really did exist.
All of them are so pretty
Where are the FATHERS? Is there no male role model for these young ladies? Or does that go against ABC's narrative?
The Father's are probably out spending quality time with their sons or went MGTOW.
How is online dating bad the only reason it can be is if the person is a adult and the kid doesn’t know
i get bullied every day but i don't give a damn about what they say lol
Get what you can out of men before you hit 30. After your ride on the carousel, you'll end up with some beta dude who's a pushover. Then all your fun days are over.
Jesus saves.
Wish you all a great future
These comments suck, why are y’all saying “oh but they aren’t ugly”...ya’ll they might not feel confident in their own skin. I’m a 13 year old that struggles with social media because all of my friends only care about followers and likes and that’s all they talk about. It reinforces an anxiety inside me and it’s all overwhelming, it’s as if we have to compete with each other for fame. Social media has everyone screwed.
so if you know social media is making you feel bad? why are you still using it!?
I was bullied on social media I now 24 of age
Don’t romanticise the 80s lol
women have it easy please women are strong I thought
You're an idiot. We are more often affected by mental illness and we constantly are pressured by beauty standards. Not to mention that we have to have painful and uncomfortable periods and that we are the ones that have to give birth. I swear you are why I'm a feminist.
@@silmarillion666 of course you're a feminist , and saying woman are more affected by mental illness and beauty standards are just wrong , men are always pressured by the stereotype that they have to be the strong , tall , and handsome kinda of guy. And the mental illness part , men suicide rates are far higher than women's suicide rates
I feel sorry for their future husbands!
Who says their straight 😐
“The Kardashians! Giggle giggle.” 🙄
SHUT UP....EVERYONE IS FALSE WHEN THEY ARE ONLINE....THE FACADE....BUT BEING YOUNG IS REAL A SHORT LIVED MOMMENT IN LIFE..YOUTH IS SO FLEETING...I USED TO BE YOUNG ,,,,YES INDEED I WAS YOUNG ONCE...AT LEAST I THINK I WAS
Get rid of social media. Problem solved.
Two solutions: 1. Off button 2. Get off social media
Yeah get the boys in and let them tell you how they see how these girls act at school
People wonder while you have trust issues you telk them it’s a private conversation and out there parents across the glass
Everyone isnt expecting
I am one of the girls in this video.
Intellect 100+
ɪ ᴊᴜsᴛ ʜᴏᴘᴇ my daughter doesn't have *trouble* when she is a TEEN!
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Shes still *young* now!
We shoudlnt go blame people like the kardashians for everything because truth be told we as consumers of these media are also responsible.I think instead of saying "(name) is a bad role model" or "this app promotes bad behaviour"we should focus on spreading the message of having the right mindset and guidance from peers or parental guardians and really educating the younger or older people on what is right and wrong.
oh come on! there is a huge one way mirror in that room. they all know who its behind the glass. if I go into a room and terse is a 4 ft by 7 foot mirror , I know what is going on.
This some real bullshit
They're children. They don't know the first thing about real pressure. It's not words on a screen that can be ignored.
You're an idiot. First of all, they are teenagers, not little babies or little kids. Second of all, we (the young people) are more affected by mental illness than your generation most likely was/is. This is real pressure, especially for mentally ill people such as myself.
So feminist ideology pretty much owns education. My world has become infinitely more feminized since I was a teenager.
But there is a dark lie to all this "progress."
I grew up learning how to become pretty much the opposite to a misogynist.
And now I wonder if many of these changes have actually helped me more than females?
Modern devices, such as I use them - have done me no harm in any way.
Yet the millions of teen girls out there who struggle to attain physical perfection - would probably find that their mothers, aunts, grandmothers and great aunts especially - lived a more relaxed life. Why?
Because there was no technology to put them under the microscope. There were no magic hand held mirror mirrors constantly reminding them of how imperfect they are (or think they are.)
So the great game - is like a hamster wheel. Going round and round and never getting anywhere - at least never getting to the point where enough is enough. It is never enough.
And this is progress?
When I was in high school, we celebrated the idea that any schoolgirl, just like any schoolboy, could attain a positive and respected identity based on what she knew and what she could do - academically, athletically, artistically, socially.....based on something that went far beyond anything that had to do with the way she looked.
They speak of the disconnect, these girls - between a virtual reality and the real thing. Of course they would crave the real thing - because it's real. There is no true replacement for it.
So when you can't just go and hang in real time and space...........doesn't that make you feel disconnected from experiencing the world in a way that used to be normal?
My era still had the coffee shops, the burger joints, the drop-in centers....and a dozen other places around the neighborhood - a hundred other places around the community, that were used to participate in the public realm. Only the most chronically shy hid away. The rest of us saw each other constantly outside of school.
Of course - we all had our pop silly psychology too. But the pressures back then?
Today is like going from a grade 4 math class to college physics - in one jump.'
As gradual as the change has been - I can see it now.
A society that puts that much pressure and importance on looks - is a skin deep shallow one. There's no getting around that.
The next big girl group lol 🤣
come off social media and live life
I don't like slender and dangerously thin girls. I like healthy girls.