The 3 Pillars of a Successful D&D Game

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    Most dungeon masters and players want the same thing in D&D: to have fun. To enjoy themselves while they play Dungeons & Dragons. Most of us have heard of the three pillars of play (or the three pillars of adventuring): social interaction, combat, and exploration. These 3 pillars form the essence of roleplaying and gameplay in D&D and many other roleplaying games. But do we really know what they mean? And do we know how to implement them at our game tables? In this video, we discuss the three pillars to running a successful D&D game that keeps you and your players having fun week after week.
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  • @andrewhalmo656
    @andrewhalmo656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    3 pillars of DND. Talkie talkie, walkie walkie, and stabbie stabbie! This makes players happy happy 😊

    • @OtocinclusAffinis
      @OtocinclusAffinis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes, that’s exactly what I expect from a DnD game. All I expect.

    • @leatherguru8904
      @leatherguru8904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Preach the Gospel!

    • @jltheking3
      @jltheking3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I’d probably call Exploration thinky thinky instead, as it’s more of a mental exercise considering that it governs puzzles, mysteries and discovery. Travel doesn’t necessarily need to come into it.
      So yeah! Talky Talky, Thinky Thinky and Stabby Stabby!

    • @OtocinclusAffinis
      @OtocinclusAffinis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jltheking3 yes, but remember to name everything with infantile terms. That’s the most important rule of DnD.

    • @TotoMacFrame
      @TotoMacFrame 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This made my day :-D

  • @vileluca
    @vileluca 2 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    Pro tip for DMs out there:
    Your friends/players appreciate the effort you put in!
    Don't be so hard on yourself!
    Just relax

    • @Medraut98
      @Medraut98 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      No they don't

    • @CptLande
      @CptLande 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      As a chronic overthinker and with anxiety that everybody hates me no matter what I do, it's not that easy. I love DMing, but almost every session I feel that my players are just saying they had fun so I won't feel bad.

    • @Harbinger99
      @Harbinger99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@CptLande i have the same problems so you are not alone

    • @dynestis2875
      @dynestis2875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hard facts and if your players don't then either they ain't the group for you or you are completely misreading their interests!

    • @MonkeyJedi99
      @MonkeyJedi99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You gotta be cool, relax, get hip, get on your tracks.

  • @chocolate4017
    @chocolate4017 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Thank you for using English subtitles in your videos.
    I'm Brazilian and I use your videos to practice mastering English and of course learn about a subject I like.
    Greetings.

    • @DM_Bluddworth
      @DM_Bluddworth 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh my, don’t use this delivery to learn how to speak any language. No real person speaks this way, unless they are the host on Blues Clues and speaking to 5 year olds.

    • @cp1cupcake
      @cp1cupcake 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@DM_Bluddworth I game with a guy where we don't speak any language very well (I don't know Russian, his English is broken, and our knowledge of the language we are using doesn't include uncommon works.....like ones needed while gaming).
      Depending on someone's level of proficiency, learning to be as good as the host on Blues Clues and speaking to 5 year olds may be a vast improvement. It will also give more specialized words you will not learn in more academic/structured settings.

  • @MJ-jd7rs
    @MJ-jd7rs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    06:20 Thank you for calling this out.
    Most "DnD shows" tend to emphasize Social over literally everything else. And, honestly, to me, it's just as boring as sessions that ONLY have combat. The three pillars are EQUAL and should have EQUAL time.

    • @vincent-antoinesoucy1872
      @vincent-antoinesoucy1872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I guess all pillars being equal should be the default, then crank up a little the pillar that players love most in your group. I could get why a group play on a pillar most of the times, but using all the styles of play is a god way to enjoy the game the most.

    • @cp1cupcake
      @cp1cupcake 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think the issue with the D&D shows is they are made to entertain the audience, not the players.

    • @SerifSansSerif
      @SerifSansSerif 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I get it, and yet I fall into the social category.
      I still like what he points out and I get more out of his videos for reminding me of things.
      Anyhow, I feel like social and combat getting all the attention is because, actually, combat is the biggest issue in 5e.
      It's simplified dramatically and been powered up over earlier editions for more social emphasis, but there's so many players and content creators that focus on combat and builds.
      The funny thing is, exploration is the most forgotten and hardest since the survival elements are often unfun and errata'ed out and the greater focus on maps and minis (easier to access than any other time) seems to make big dungeons harder to keep things hidden or secret.

  • @talkingwithadam812
    @talkingwithadam812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    As a player i just wanna feel like i can impact the story. Via combat or social interactions. I like both. But i dont want to just kill things or get passed people. I want to make a difference in the world

  • @ZakkuTakku
    @ZakkuTakku 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Speaking as a (fairly new) player: while I certainly enjoy the role play aspect, I also like a good amount of combat as well! An even mix of both is definitely my personal preference. Too much of one, or the other, and I will start to get a little bit bored
    Edit: When I said "role play aspect" I guess what I actually meant was the parts of the game where I'm talking to NPC's and other PC's as my character. Sorry for any confusion lol

    • @kelvinl2214
      @kelvinl2214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      "I bring my axe down, crashing into the orc's skull. You hear the cracking of bone and sinew as I split him in twain. I push the dead body aside and charge forward to my next prey." Its not roleplay aspect, as the dmlair mentioned, its 'character interaction' that you love. You can roleplay combat and make it way more fun than 80% of people make it out to be.

    • @ZakkuTakku
      @ZakkuTakku 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kelvinl2214 good point, thanks!

    • @leatherguru8904
      @leatherguru8904 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Minotaur of Malice You forgot to add "roll play" like in strixhaven

    • @jtramelli5464
      @jtramelli5464 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Everything you do I the game is role-play. Im not saying that to be picky, but because people really don't understand this

    • @python27au
      @python27au 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You should be role playing your character ALL the time. Every decision your character makes should be made in accordance to your characters….umm.. character🤨
      If your character is a cowardly drunk but he’s the first one into the breach or refuses a drink because he needs to be alert then your not role playing your just playing. Role playing that character would have the half pissed fighter screaming for mercy while being kicked into the frontline by a stuck up paladin. Played that game, was fun😀

  • @TheSirlaughsalot12
    @TheSirlaughsalot12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    You're right. DnD combat IS more complex than Chess. The fault is if someone assumes that complexity = difficulty.

    • @leatherguru8904
      @leatherguru8904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hear a lot of whining about just that "someone assumes that complexity = difficulty". 5e has been watered down because of that and 5.5 or 6e will continue that trend just for sales and hasbros love of money. This will be the downfall of the game as we know it. This is also why people are starting to move to something else where social politics interfere with just playing that game and having a good time.

    • @loganmakesvideos8652
      @loganmakesvideos8652 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@leatherguru8904 ok, and

    • @leatherguru8904
      @leatherguru8904 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@loganmakesvideos8652 ...and...

  • @SteveBonario
    @SteveBonario 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Since the early 80's my groups have usually viewed the split as being between "roll" playing versus "role" playing. I like the idea of starting most encounters as social interactions. It gives players agency.

  • @sleepinggiant4062
    @sleepinggiant4062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    PIllar 0: interested players and DM (that are all respectful). Roleplaying is often differentiated from rollplaying in the D&D community. Rolling a d20 to persuade is playing a roleplaying game, but it is not roleplaying your character unless you talk as your character, saying what they would say. That is roleplaying (acting out your character). There is no difference from walking down a hallway in a dungeon and walking down a road in overland travel, both are exploration and can discover new things. Things that make a game fun for me as a player: consistent rules, challenging combats, players that pay attention (take notes if you have to), character advancement (new abilities, power, wealth, backstory growth, etc.), and a DM that describes things instead of saying 'you see a ghoul', and a DM open to suggestions.

  • @Irrevenant_
    @Irrevenant_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Idk why you think people would unsub for that. You made an excellent point

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      People are strange. 😀

  • @Zai-kyu
    @Zai-kyu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Really appreciate your content as a long time DM! Been DMing for about 27 years and still enjoy doing it! Your content is both a good refresher at times and still learn some things along the way. Will definitely be checking out the Lairs & Legends!

  • @artur2604
    @artur2604 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey Big Mouth Guy, you and Bugbear Colville are the best D&D teachers on youtube and yours videos affected my games a lot! Thanks for fun we have!

    • @jltheking3
      @jltheking3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Big Mouth Guy and Bugbear Colville are perfect nicknames 👏🏻

  • @usernameed
    @usernameed 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “Talky talky” is a good way to put it

  • @Alex-sf5uz
    @Alex-sf5uz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Exploration is just interacting with the imaginary environment through your pc in a immersive manner, as much as people like to go on about D&Ds wargaming roots exploration is the piller of play that early D&D focused most on, you didn't get much xp from killing monsters and combat was very deadly so finding treasure was your primary way of leveling up.

  • @trevorhansen5817
    @trevorhansen5817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Bacon fat is worth saving after you fry or bake your bacon; it can be stored for a long time in the fridge, and is a delicious option when frying hash browns and eggs, or when searing green vegetables like Brussels sprouts.
    Also, your pronunciation of “thesbean” had me in stitches. There’s a P in there Luke, not a B.

    • @CaseyWilkesmusic
      @CaseyWilkesmusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes! Save that bacon fat folks! Use it for gravies!

    • @Mad_Mulligan
      @Mad_Mulligan 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@CaseyWilkesmusic I use mine for stovetop popcorn.

  • @agsilverradio2225
    @agsilverradio2225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    6:45 I find the opposite is true. Running combat in a prewritten module is much easier that giving all the monsters personalitys.

    • @Passafist333
      @Passafist333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not to mention saves on a shit ton of prep time better spent elsewhere

    • @jltheking3
      @jltheking3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s not that difficult. Use a Reaction Roll table (look it up) to determine how a monster will react. If they’re not hostile, then just figure out what exactly that monster is doing in this location and just role-play it out.
      A monster’s personality will naturally arise during role-play. You don’t need to ascribe one to every monster. You just need a motivation.

  • @the_average_canadian
    @the_average_canadian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The thing that causes me the most difficulty as a DM is figuring out if my players had fun and if I was able to establish the right mood. I DM online so I can't use my players' body language and etc to see how they're feeling.

    • @Passafist333
      @Passafist333 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, that's why I've been trying to format in person local groups. So much better

    • @sleepinggiant4062
      @sleepinggiant4062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can tell they had fun if the aren't complaining to you and they return for the next session. You can always reach out to them and ask for feedback. Ask questions that ask for a description, not yes or no. Playing online is rough, but it's better than no D&D.

  • @melkiorwiseman5234
    @melkiorwiseman5234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love exploration. Finding stuff is fun, especially if it's stuff which is useful for something.
    I play and "build" with Neverwinter Nights which is pretty much an electronic version of D&D 3.0+ with a few tweaks. Using it, I modified an existing multi-player module to add an area which was a hack&slash through a zig-zag to reach and defeat a particular foe, but along the way you could find items and get things done with those items which ended up with you being able to get some bonus loot if you did these things. The amount of loot you got depended on how many of the things you did along the way. (It was a side-quest to feed some hungry children who were hiding from the enemy in a temple around 3/4ths of the way through the area and the children would reward you with loot from the temple).
    In case anyone is curious, the things you could obtain to feed the children with were:
    A meat pie, obtained by taking meat from a particular animal and having it baked into a pie.
    Milk, from milking a cow (duh).
    Bread, from wheat (harvested with any slashing weapon) and yeast from a mushroom, and visiting a baker.
    Cheese, obtained from a tavern where you get it in exchange for a bag of malt (so they can make beer) found in an out-building at a farm where the dying owner urges you to take food to the children in the temple.
    The premise for the area was: A child who was being trained in magical arts has gone quite insane (it's intended to be both ridiculous and sad at the same time) and has magically prompted farm animals into attacking people because he's against animals being killed for food or otherwise "used" by people. He's also stolen dangerous magical items to help him. Sadly, the only solution is for the player(s) to kill him since he's now incurably insane. He's tough to kill because of the magical items.

  • @CountAdolfo
    @CountAdolfo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is an excellent analysis of the game and its current dynamics.
    Back in 1e, etc. - the Social was barely there at all and the game was largely just exploration and combat, often in a single Dungeon that didn't even have to make any narrative sense.
    The game has come a long way and you have done a great job illustrating it, here.

  • @joshuastephens8569
    @joshuastephens8569 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My favorite feeling is ending a session and having the players leave with more questions than they got answered.

  • @geraldkatz7986
    @geraldkatz7986 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been in campaigns where one session is all talkie talkie. It's a downtime session usually just after a climactic battle of the previous session. We're dealing with the aftermath, catching up on personal characters arcs, just having fun at a festival. Maybe it's part of the exploration. We're learning about the people and problems of the issue at hand of why we're there. We're investigating info about the BBEG. We're establishing reputations. As long as it's only for that one session and next session we're 'doing the adventure' that includes exploration and combat it's all good. After all, there are also game sessions where it's all combat, a series of epic battles leading up to the BBEG. Roll dice, Hulk smash, go nova with your class abilities, having a blast.

  • @blakewalker84120
    @blakewalker84120 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm a professional chess coach. Today was our K-6 Elementary State Championship. My students won 1st place in every grade, and a whole lot of 2nd, 3rd, and 4th places too. I'm so freaking proud of them! That said, I can argue that chess is far more complex than you give it credit. But nah, you're right, D&D combat is much more complex.

  • @Virrow
    @Virrow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man the algorithm was really unkind to this video! This is a great video!

  • @Mad_Mulligan
    @Mad_Mulligan 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I, too, love bacon. As for what foods pair well with it, a friend of mine shared his philosophy on the matter with me years ago, when we were discussing the novelty that is chocolate-covered bacon from our state fair. I have found it to be mostly accurate:
    When you look at the food pyramid, you see a thick line that separates the individual food groups, but unites the pyramid as a whole. That line is bacon, because it goes well with everything.

  • @prestonp.1867
    @prestonp.1867 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Unhealthy Bacon Snack:
    "Floppy" Bacon wrapped around large marshmallow and topped with crunchy peanut butter.
    Great video. I needed this for the tips to be sure. I have an upcoming game starting and I want to make sure it starts out on the right foot. Thank you.

  • @coreyeatsdetroit9733
    @coreyeatsdetroit9733 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Luke, your videos have been very helpful and informative. I'm glad I started watching your videos. On thing I like is that you don't make overly long videos while still covering all the information needed to understand what your trying to share with us. Thanks and keep up the great content.

  • @dontlookatmychannelidontpo4534
    @dontlookatmychannelidontpo4534 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a great bacon recipe that comes from my grandma.
    You need hot dogs, bacon, cheese, and toothpicks.
    Just cut a slit down the hot dog, pack it with cheese, and wrap a strip or two of bacon around it using the toothpicks to hold the bacon wraps in place.
    Bake at about 375 for about 10 minutes on a pan or until the cheese is melted and gooey.
    Super good for DND night honestly

  • @gregcolley4596
    @gregcolley4596 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The 3 tears need to be there. Exploration is the hardest for me to run honestly.
    Bacon is always AWSOME. Roll for BACON!

  • @mookiewilson4166
    @mookiewilson4166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There is no shortage of videos which tell new DMs general advise about what to think about or how to run your first adventure without actually giving you a direct answer for their personal opinion. He’s mine;
    1. Exploration. This will be the place you need to be most compelling. Make your environment interesting and distinctive. Enough specificity that they will have to actually interact with it in game and therefore increases immersion. Is it dark? (Light source). Narrow? (Marching order). Noisy/echoes? (Surprise/ambush), Slick, unstable ground, etc? (Combat modifiers), Multiple paths/Forest/Caverns (player choices, getting lost). These are going to be the things which make your adventure come alive best.
    2. Combat. Keep it moving, make it dynamic and chaotic. Have the opponents changing tactics, teaming up, retreating to attack from a place of advantage if available. But keep it moving and throw in a quick descriptor with each strike or miss. “Your broadsword skewers the giant spider, creamy goo squirts from the wound as it seizes and crumples over....”, “The charging orc ducks beneath the deadly arc of your slashing axe and prepares to counter attack...”
    3. Role Playing. You’ll likely need to do more keeping the players on point and keeping the scenes moving than you will need to facilitate talking or slowing things down. Just encourage them to share the spotlight and not talk over one another until it’s more natural. I would keep RP encounters to a minimum in beginning games and keep it more just communication between players. You’ll develop this pillar more slowly.
    Enjoy!

  • @DramaKing1
    @DramaKing1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    BBQ Bacon Chicken Bites
    - Preheat oven to 400°. Cut bacon crosswise into thirds. Place bacon on a microwave-safe plate lined with paper towels. Cover with additional paper towels; microwave on high 3-4 minutes or until partially cooked but not crisp.
    - Place chicken in a small bowl; sprinkle with steak seasoning and toss to coat. Wrap a bacon piece around each chicken cube; secure with a toothpick. Place on a parchment-lined baking sheet.
    - Bake 10 minutes. If desired, add horseradish to barbecue sauce; brush over wrapped chicken. Bake until chicken is no longer pink and bacon is crisp, 5-10 minutes longer.

  • @GwyndolinBingham42
    @GwyndolinBingham42 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just want to say I really appreciate your content, it brings joy into my life seeing someone else so enthralled with this common interest and passion that we share and the time and effort you put into sharing your wealth of knowledge with us in the form of these well put together videos has not gone unnoticed. Keep it up friend!

  • @Interrobang212
    @Interrobang212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    As a DM, I LOVE when players get wrapped up in talky-talky because it eats up time and I don't have to prep as much :)

  • @MrPtrlix
    @MrPtrlix 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I DM a group of 3 players, and we all are extremely fond of Divinity Original Sin games. So I just make up a plot that's believable enough to motivate the characters, and the rest is just exploration mixed with combat. The two are intricately linked because we use a lot of random encounters. The social pillar is mostly played out, not via questgiver/vendor interactions, but via interactions with villians. I typically have Strahd-like supervillians who love talky talkies.

  • @helotaxi
    @helotaxi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fry 5-6 strips of bacon in a non-stick wok. Fry sliced jalapenos in the bacon grease while you eat teh bacon. Then pop popcorn in the jalapeno infused bacon grease.

  • @UnseenSer
    @UnseenSer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    In my opinion, the three pillars come down to player agency-The choices and actions of the players have tangible cause and effect.
    If players feel as though their choices have meaning, then they will likely be more prone to flow through the different dimensions of the 3 pillars “organically”-with appropriate and helpful leading/adjudicating from the DM.
    I like the distinction between “social interaction” and “role playing”-I’m guilty of this conflation and I think the cause is simple; when we mix the two, what people may mean is their opinion of “good” role playing. I’ve been in too many games where the social encounters are so one dimensional and stale that I started emphasizing the term “role playing.”
    Ultimately, I prefer as immersive gameplay as is reasonable with fluid gameplay.

  • @nlacina1
    @nlacina1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Crock Chicken-
    Boneless chicken breast,
    1 block of cream cheese and 1 pack of ranch seasoning per pound of chicken,
    and bacon to preference.
    Pre-cook the bacon and chop it into bits (I typically use 3 thick strips per pound of chicken) Then combine the other ingredients in a crockpot and cook for 8 hours on low (4 hours on High) when the chicken is fully cooked use a fork to shred it while mixing in your bacon bits.
    Serves well on Kings Hawaiian rolls.
    (works without the bacon but why would you not want the bacon)

  • @SuperParkourio
    @SuperParkourio 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Exploration is the rogue using the Dodge action and stepping on ALL the glyphs of warding.

  • @grandarchon6969
    @grandarchon6969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Obligatory chess is more complicated than D&D combat. Also, role playing in combat is important. In my most recent campaign, our paladin always positioned herself between the bad guys and the other players. It just felt right for a protection paladin, and was a big part of how the character expressed themselves. Roleplay is part of every moment if you want it to be.

  • @gash666
    @gash666 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. I just got back into DM'ing and your videos help a lot. Thanks.

  • @mightyzeus1e
    @mightyzeus1e 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Exploration & combat is literally the name of the game.

  • @charlesbangs9663
    @charlesbangs9663 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just found your context and I like how you put the information across

  • @davidmc8478
    @davidmc8478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been playing D&D since 1981 and dming most of that time. If I had known before this video that bacon was one of the core pillars of the game it would all have been so much better

  • @billjaimez
    @billjaimez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I must be the weirdest DM I find social encounters and NPCs the hardest part of the game. Combat and exploration are a piece of cake. To be honest I find social encounters in real life taxing and frustrating as well.

    • @rosestar1324
      @rosestar1324 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm the same way. Much easier for me to pick the monsters and roll the die for them

  • @LionKimbro
    @LionKimbro 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Exploration: A lot of players' first exploration of D&D, is poking through the Player's Handbook, thinking about different classes, looking through the list of spells, learning about the game.

  • @jeebay5188
    @jeebay5188 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    As the Bacon ambassador of Baconovia, I hereby bequeath DM Luke with a pair of +5 bacon trouser’s of dire wolf attraction.

  • @DM_Curtis
    @DM_Curtis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The essence of a role-playing game is that you tell the judge what you want your character to do, and he tells you what happens. If you're doing that, you're role-playing.

  • @mattw6993
    @mattw6993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Never underestimate the combination of bacon and peanut butter. Griddled PB&J with bacon in it is sublime.

  • @kpny8484
    @kpny8484 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So for my players, I cook bacon, orange rolls (like cinnamon rolls), have butter cookies (chessmen), sharp chedder, and smoked chedder cheese with ritz crackers and a summer sausage. Then, for drinks Mexican coke, dr pepper, birch beer (best soda ever, made by boylan bottling co, goes great with chessmen) and other varieties of soda.

  • @RIVERSRPGChannel
    @RIVERSRPGChannel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes the 3 pillars make the game fun
    We all want to have fun too

  • @joesgotmore
    @joesgotmore 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What are your thoughts about town guards? Basically how do you make the law in the town / city feel like a threat to discourage murderhobo's from killing everyone in a town / city?

  • @michaelguth4007
    @michaelguth4007 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Most social interaction is part of the exploration part. There is often a reason why players want to make talkie talkie with NPCs, not just having some chitchat with the random local bartender about his passion for craft beer.

  • @juancholo7502
    @juancholo7502 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Combat is a mere continuation of Player Character goals “with the addition of other means”.

  • @kronoase
    @kronoase ปีที่แล้ว

    Mayo and fresh sliced tomatoes.
    I like “talkie-talkie” as a term, too.

  • @dragonrider0079
    @dragonrider0079 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Talking about the bacon thing, looooove BBQ chicken wrapped in bacon, skewer them with toothpicks, some mixed veggies, COOKED veggies, none of that microwave and it be done (you can do that if you want, I just like actually taking the time personally), drink of choice, maybe stray away from dairy though as there are some clashing flavors and textures. Fun dinner/lunch choice!

  • @djjones2407
    @djjones2407 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ive been watching you vids for a while now and i just now noticed the wheel of time book collection on the shelf. and well read to

  • @fenixmeaney6170
    @fenixmeaney6170 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "it's not role playing, it's social encounters!"
    *Proceeds to describe role playing*
    Talky talky it is!

  • @MrClarissacain
    @MrClarissacain ปีที่แล้ว

    "Nobody's rubbing your belly" -suspicious video edit where Squeaky Cat totally gets belly rubs-

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  ปีที่แล้ว

      he totally got his belly rubbed! lol

  • @Marcus-ki1en
    @Marcus-ki1en 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For me, Exploration = Discovery. It is not just about Exploring in the traditional sense, it is about discovering the world the characters are living in.
    Goes with Bacon? Why more Bacon of course. Lacking that, Cheeseburgers go well with bacon.

  • @Romanus7867
    @Romanus7867 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another example of exploration that my group is going through right now is in Waterdeep: Dragon Heist. They are having to talk to contacts, get acquainted with neighbors, and find solutions to problems they are running up against. And we do a great deal of RP during these explorations ;)

  • @ahazgrant2336
    @ahazgrant2336 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Funny you mention social interaction during combat...I had a mimic taunting them while they fought 3 giant spiders and then insult them as they fought it right up until they killed it and it uttered curses at them as it died. They all got a huge kick out of this "hillbilly insulting mimic". It was a hilarious combat session for sure.

  • @DeKrischa
    @DeKrischa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Squeaky is a majestic cat!

  • @erinweatherly6539
    @erinweatherly6539 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thought I was hallucinating about bacon when you started the bacon talk because I am gonna be making BLTs for dinner and am hungry

  • @skeletonwithagun2119
    @skeletonwithagun2119 ปีที่แล้ว

    This has made me redesign parts of a dungeon I'm working on

  • @CritAcademy
    @CritAcademy ปีที่แล้ว

    Man...saw you at Grandcon..seems like one of those DMs game you were in should have watched this vid. I really hurt for you man. We've all been there.

  • @Ixnatifual
    @Ixnatifual 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A classic social dungeon encounter is the prisoner.

  • @mikedawe692
    @mikedawe692 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If I was one of your party I’d spend hours trying to get you say “prohibitive” again 😂

  • @PeakMax
    @PeakMax 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oven to 400. Roasting Pan. Lay all the bacon out flat. Mix a little brown sugar and either chili power or cayenne (to taste), sprinkle over the top.
    Enjoy!

  • @sylviebizadvisor
    @sylviebizadvisor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    spicy cubed potatoes goes well with bacon

  • @IgnoreMeImWrong
    @IgnoreMeImWrong 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Raging Barbarian misses with advantage"
    Bad guy: You suck.

  • @markgnepper5636
    @markgnepper5636 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great stuff friend 👏 👍

  • @jonathanschmitt5762
    @jonathanschmitt5762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    10:00 and more dice
    Edit: How to trigger Luke: "can someone tell me what combat is? I only run my games roleplaying and exploring from town to town. Also, what's a parking lot?"

  • @alexj1989
    @alexj1989 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    How times have changed, I remember GMs desperately trying to get their players to engage in social interaction. 😃

    • @jltheking3
      @jltheking3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Still happens. I’m still struggling to get my players to talky talky more, and all they want to do is to kill stuff. 🙁

  • @cofiecoffcoff4287
    @cofiecoffcoff4287 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Squeaky is a beautiful cat!!!

  • @purveyorofroast
    @purveyorofroast 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Makes sense, the shows are made to entertain an audience.

  • @krulcazey
    @krulcazey 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bacon recipe. Jasmin rice, canned sweet corn and bacon. Any proportion you like. I prefer about 200g bacon, 1 can of corn and about 2 cans worth of rice.

  • @billwhipple9039
    @billwhipple9039 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Role play - 2 syllables
    Social interaction - 6 syllables
    I'm good 😎

    • @Alresu
      @Alresu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed. I am open to use a separate term for it, but not that one. Also not "talky, talky", which is still longer.^^

  • @themightykabool
    @themightykabool 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks for tips!

  • @TheFinagle
    @TheFinagle 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I turned what was going to be a straight combat into a semi social to combat (due to failed persuade) on my DM last session. Some of us were disguised in varying degrees of convincing and When the guards noticed us I asked if we could try to talk our way through. It failed and we murdered them anyway, but an attempt was made.

  • @randallbaumgardt3424
    @randallbaumgardt3424 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Over the years I have found a nice starting ratio for a game is 50% stabby stabby (combat) 25% talky talky (social) and 25% looky looky (exploration) as a guideline then letting the players actions adjust the ratio to their preferred style. Makes planning those first few adventures so much easier.

  • @krimzonghost1987
    @krimzonghost1987 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "The Grosher (Grocer)"... Luke... Your Michigan is showing. :P Thanks for this video!

  • @blastomarz1117
    @blastomarz1117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Also, if any player says, "Curse of Strahd" is too easy. Run Ravenloft from 1983. But please stream it so We can all watch the players lose their shit like never before.

  • @Docsfortune
    @Docsfortune 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chess at its heart is one of the simplest and most complex games ever made, but chess today has been solved by computers and is now about who can memorize the most moves and prepare the best responses to their opponents openings.

  • @nathanides7584
    @nathanides7584 ปีที่แล้ว

    I personally added 2 more concepts as pillars when I explain the game, even if they aren't as prevalent. Namely: downtime activities (this is suggested in Acquisitions Incorporated and to me it seems to work in games with different styles as well), and inter-player roleplay (still need to work on the name) I mostly put that last one in to hopefully give myself some time when they are playing that 'pillar' of play.

  • @austibon
    @austibon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was really embarrassed to try and do voices for a long time, I actually can't even do voices well since my real voice is to deep. So instead, I started giving them all personalities that I can get into, the drunk king, the childish goddess, the hippy tiefling, or the energetic halfling priest. It is all in the same voice, just a different acting style, and my players LOVE it. Don't be afraid to try a voice, might be awkward at first, but players love it

  • @franksaffen
    @franksaffen 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    'Orc' Bacon recipe from the Heroes' Feast cookbook by Kyle Newman, et al.

  • @jackbellinger1216
    @jackbellinger1216 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Probably wrong about the Chess thing lol, good video

    • @jackbellinger1216
      @jackbellinger1216 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And before anyone tries to argue with me, by move 40 in a Chess game, there are more distinct positions possible than atoms in the universe

  • @cgabriel7311
    @cgabriel7311 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best bacon sandwich - streaky bacon on toast with black currant jam

  • @ndowroccus4168
    @ndowroccus4168 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ll put in my two cents before watching:
    1. DM NOTEPAD. Keep a small notepad to keep notes on your players. Each player should get a few pages in the beginning of notepad. One for the entire party. Keep notes like AC, to hit, weapons, pets, background etc. This notepad is going to be your best friend. Go to it constantly.
    2. PREP NOTECARDS: Prep a bunch of things you will implement into your campaign. You will want a bunch of NPCs, a bunch of NPC groups, Encounters, Mobs, Armies, Towns, Stores (prepping an entire town of just the buildings, will help you create a town on the fly), REOCCURRING NPCs (these are a small group of NPCs that will run into the party but escape and return later and maybe multiple times almost becoming a second player(s).
    3. THE STORY: Let the Players create your story…that is have a story cliffnoted together, but be prepared to rewrite it. Give the players options, and let them choose which way they want to go, and just drop your prepped encounters, ruins, caves (caves are small dungeons), towers, buildings, lairs, huts, swamps, forests, caves etc…
    Basically, you will ad lib your story, based on what the players choose and like, and you will gain their love. It’s a simple trick, and don’t let the players know you are doing this, make it seem like they are falling into your planned encounters as if you were a genius.
    Example: your road ends at another road, split into following a rivers edge or going east…the players throw you a curve and decide to traverse the river…no problem…add an encounter when they get to the other side, and maybe a cave. You’ll see, eventually you will be saying things like “you have a feeling that this case you found in the secret chest, is very important to your quest…” now you get to make a small storyline after the game.

  • @joekrampus1154
    @joekrampus1154 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When you can balance a tack hammer on your head, you’ll be able to hammer your foes with a balanced attack.

  • @captainengland5809
    @captainengland5809 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    While the context of the video alone is worth a like. I liked for Bacon.
    Also, Bacon Recipe:
    Bacon (Cooked)... done

  • @gradyelliott7594
    @gradyelliott7594 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mmm... bacon.
    Mac & cheese goes with bacon bits, aka "pork sprinkles".
    Excellent video. My compliments on your ranting skills.

  • @leonallen5834
    @leonallen5834 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok seriously the best breakfast (bacon) recipe!
    1. Get Middle bacon and chessnut mushrooms. Fry.
    2. Slice big croissants MOST the way through BEFORE you put in oven.
    3. Fill croissants like a sandwich with the bacon and mushrooms.
    4. Fill face.

  • @l.ashleygarr6537
    @l.ashleygarr6537 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so excited. I’m writing a one shot and I hit all the Pillars. 🥳🤓🥳

  • @FrostSpike
    @FrostSpike 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In my view, Exploration can also include the sort of mystery solving aspects that might be thought of as "social interaction". Discovering the clue as to who is behind the the evil deeds in town, working out why the merchant keeps a gargoyle chained in their basement, etc. and how that new knowledge can be used in the game.

  • @oldmanvox3897
    @oldmanvox3897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey, that chess horse moves in an L shape, buddy! I'd like to see your wizard do that.

  • @jonniboye6399
    @jonniboye6399 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This might be a lot harder to pull off due to ability rolls and such, but I don't like when I get the option to talk or do other things when combat seems like the only possible outcome. Sometimes I get the feeling that my "agency" is a facade and the only true way to progress is by eventually walking up and stabbing somebody.

  • @htenerf137
    @htenerf137 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve found a major source of frustration with outdoor exploration comes from lack of sensory stimulation of the players. At a location sites there’s usually a map to look at. Maybe character/monster art. Dice rolls. Etc. Overland travel and exploration usually there’s nothing to look at. A series of rolls determines if you make it. And then you’re at a nebulous “place” for the random encounter (usually combat).
    I loved in Wild Beyond the Witchlight how exploring the feywild felt like it’s random encounter table was more open to other options besides combat (it even unlocked side quests). Every region had visceral travelling descriptions DMs should use. It improved my exploration DMing skills for sure.

    • @Alex-sf5uz
      @Alex-sf5uz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean its meant to be an abstraction, you calculate the distance roll encounters and go, it takes like two second. I think you over estimate how stimulating box text is too, it can be a real snore fest if your stopping every two seconds to describe the journey in exhaustive detail.

    • @htenerf137
      @htenerf137 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Alex-sf5uz totally fair critique! And I for sure try not to sound like box text. But even a good regional map helps be more engaged than three rolls and you’re there. I dunno. It all probably comes out in the wash and mileage may vary per table.

  • @Global337
    @Global337 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Luke Is that a heavy fighter SCA helm I have been seeing on the fighter?

  • @maatlock
    @maatlock 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Comment for the algorithm. Luke's videos don't suck, TH-cam!

  • @StanleyNunn
    @StanleyNunn ปีที่แล้ว

    You had me at bacon.