What's the Process of Marrying a Divorced Woman | Waleed Basyouni | AlMaghrib Institute

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  • One question that might come up often may be on the subject of how do you go about marrying a divorced woman? Does she need a walee? Can she make her own decision?
    This series on divorce by Dr. Waleed Basyouni is brought to you by AlMaghrib Institute. See almaghrib.org/ for more info.

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  • @TheOrganics01
    @TheOrganics01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    A divorcee is far better than one who was never married . Far sweeter ,far wiser ,better in any way

    • @EsHaQ2024
      @EsHaQ2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes, the ones who are not married, expect too much. They're materialistic and probably have social media BF.. A good divorced woman is much better than the golddiger ones.....

    • @NafisaLondon
      @NafisaLondon 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😻

    • @saersmart6551
      @saersmart6551 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She is better only if she is pious..

    • @donzell1945
      @donzell1945 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I’m also married divorced women with 7 years old boy, and is the best decisions ever I make in my life,

    • @Niqabimuslimahhhhh
      @Niqabimuslimahhhhh 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@donzell1945how long did it take you before getting married again?

  • @CuteBamboo2012
    @CuteBamboo2012 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It was complicated to find a video that talks about this even with the keywords. May Allah grant you with was you desire if it is good for your Dunya and deen

  • @erikalulea3608
    @erikalulea3608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Divorce or not do not matter, It simply did not work out with a person and do not matter if the divorced person is a man or female. No one has less value or not no matter gender.

  • @k.a.930
    @k.a.930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My family strongly opposes my marriage to a divorced woman. They say that even if she is the daughter of a Prophet but divorced, we will not accept her. They accuse me of not having a sense of disgust. I fear that my family is munafiq.
    Please brothers and sisters. Please give me advices what to do. I really do need help.

    • @aazmiazz4475
      @aazmiazz4475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      K.A masha allah i really proud of u... may allah eaze for u may allah soften ua parents heart .... u vl b rewarded vth abondent for ua kind decision of marrying a divorcee.. i wish most boys of generation come farward for our prophets one of most beloved sunnah...

    • @ximenazuniga8618
      @ximenazuniga8618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i'm so sorry to hear that but hey you must be a new generation and start change the world, our religion must be love and only love, and to love correctly you don't have to follow family traditions to make them happy, love with no shame and fear, that's the real freedom.
      your life belongs to you so don't let other to decide for you.

  • @MassiveGravityForce
    @MassiveGravityForce 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    maShaAllah very helpful advice Gazak Allah khair sheikh

  • @sobeeya
    @sobeeya 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    divorce is never been that easy for some people rather its a men or women. both been judged bad

    • @EsHaQ2024
      @EsHaQ2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Only if the wife cheats, it's not a man's fault

  • @boudalina7574
    @boudalina7574 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As Salam Aleykum,
    And what about marrying a divorced man who does not have children?
    Can you please try to deal with parents that do not accept that their daughter who has never been married, get married to a divorced man?
    About excessive reactions of parents that can destroy their children rejecting them or threating them to kill themselves to stop them from marrying a divorced man. (Which is not islamic)
    How a children can overcome his parents legacy when it is not islamic ? I mean when the parents reason to refuse a marriage are not just and islamic.
    How to do it in a proper way as a daughter or a son? How to do it with respect and how to recover the pain caused by excessive behaviors and insults from the parents?
    I think they are serious questions these days.
    Thank you in advance.
    May Allah bless you and forgive each of the things that can be wrong and that only him knows.
    As Salam Aleykum.

  • @sandrapalmer7047
    @sandrapalmer7047 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have heard if a diovorce woman want to remarry again, she has to marry a new husband before she can remarry her first husband again! Is this true.

    • @zark1950
      @zark1950 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes , if she wants to remarry her husband who divorced her. She needs to marry some one else and that husband need to divorce her with his free will.

    • @ObaidahNaseer
      @ObaidahNaseer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Only if divorce has been given three times. If it is less than three then they can remarry without this condition.

  • @APOVLDnFitness
    @APOVLDnFitness 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Asalaamu Alaikum.
    Please, Consider & Advise
    A Muslim woman (revert of one year, mature, divorced, American, only Muslim in her family, knows nothing about "schools of thoughts")finds out she needed a Wali ... after a marriage ceremony but before consummating (before any physical contact).
    The Muslim man (revert of 20 years, American, practices Hanifi Fiqh)
    The ceremony took place during his incarceration. He is still incarcerated.
    She will refuse the dowry in the written contract, refuse to live with and consummate the marriage,
    He insists the marriage is valid.

  • @paimei26
    @paimei26 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    what is the womans wali is oppressive and tries to force her into another marriage after she was forced into the first one and divorced without consumation ?

    • @Sylotizeecontact
      @Sylotizeecontact 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Then change the Wali,you can either contact an Islamic center or you can make any other relative as your Wali.

  • @ARmirzaful
    @ARmirzaful 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You can tell shaykh has really researched on divorce. It is true you settle for a person you wouldn't normally marry after a divorce. We do lower our standards. Allaah knows best.

  • @subaidamohamed774
    @subaidamohamed774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Assalamualaikum Varahmathullahi Vabarakathuhu

  • @ibrasyed6724
    @ibrasyed6724 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Asalamualaikum
    I got divorce from my husnabd I hv 2 son m with my parents ... my parents r not in very good condition they want me to marry from 6 years k with them ... as they r searching a guy for me But they r not ready to marry with my kids ... they want me to lev my kids with my parents but I can't stay with out them. . Nd my first husband has not given any alimony nor even took care of my kids expenses me nd my parents only taking care ....
    I want my kids to b with me if i get marry ...
    Please tell wat i must do

    • @sniperas15
      @sniperas15 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      join muslima.com and find someone who will marry you and accept your children. i'm not promoting any website. i'm telling you as a muslim brother.

    • @MissBehaving888
      @MissBehaving888 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Do not abandon your kids

    • @whoknows5130
      @whoknows5130 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My sister your children are a constant and permanent variable in your life. No man who holds your children against you is worthy of you. May Allah give you a worthy muslim companion who is both a loving and caring husband and a good father figure as well. Amen.

  • @fathimahussain434
    @fathimahussain434 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If a woman not happy in her married life can she ask divorce from her husband?

    • @jamaljan702
      @jamaljan702 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fathima Hussain please don't Ask be patient
      Love will come by the time

    • @foodsandfunsali2693
      @foodsandfunsali2693 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No only that's women know whose are suffering

    • @mareenaaj
      @mareenaaj 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Of course she can. she doesn't want to find reasons for it too. If she is not happy she can do what she like. But u have to return the mahar.. its a hadethees..

  • @amrenshahida1681
    @amrenshahida1681 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is true I don't work but I have a problem of getting along with her ...I have only one face ...

  • @abdulshukoork4476
    @abdulshukoork4476 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Assalamualaikum what you are saying it's good sir. A little bit educating. Allah Hafiz

  • @EsHaQ2024
    @EsHaQ2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm looking for a good Muslim woman, whether divorced or widow, as long as she's pious,honest and loyal. Must be US CITIZEN. I'm a US citizen.

  • @jamaljan702
    @jamaljan702 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Go and read the opinion of Ahnaf thn speak
    Don't be judgmental without knowledge

  • @AliIsmaeltyphoon
    @AliIsmaeltyphoon 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who was the wali of Aisha Siddiqa then ?

  • @geniuschemist4612
    @geniuschemist4612 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i m a divorcee ,not an option for any men out there .please pray for me

  • @sarahlouise5793
    @sarahlouise5793 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    how do you know who is wise and who isn't? lol

    • @Aliali-ff6xf
      @Aliali-ff6xf 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      You really don't know but gotta do your research about them and find out. Don't peoples word for it

    • @seanfred8339
      @seanfred8339 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      People who know their character can vouch lol

    • @waheedmalik4096
      @waheedmalik4096 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      No woman is wise lol

  • @semirayt9924
    @semirayt9924 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    , is it ok for me to marry him ? While the ex wife still having a hope of them getting back together because he gave her only one divorce ?

    • @صقرالصحراء-ب1ب
      @صقرالصحراء-ب1ب 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Semira Yt Egyptian young man, celibate, I want to marry a divorced woman and live together 00201029370466

  • @francesarroyo9929
    @francesarroyo9929 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Subhanallah... la illaha illah allah

  • @farahmukhtar184
    @farahmukhtar184 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's not nice at all