@Jerry Lynch, It's very deep & touches your heart ♥️AND soul, just a beautiful song! I sincerely hope your doing well! Everytime I see Magnolia, I think it should have won BEST OSCAR for Picture of the Year & there IS SO MANY ACTORS that deserved an Oscar for their performances!! Such a tale-tell of LIFE, LOVE, LOSS & SUFFERING! A beautiful movie & I really love it too! ♥️😇♥️
20 years later, going through a really really hard time in my life, and hearing this waking up one morning had me sobbing into my pillow. And you know what? I feel much better. Because things have to get better from here. Thank you Aimee.
We have something incredibly long, very confusing, and a little homophobic. And really, really, specifically, surprisingly, and gratuitously critical of Israel.
I found some money lying around in a gutter in Manchester, UK, when i was very, very broke. I could have spent it on booze - and i was very tempted - but i had heard Aimee Mann was in town so i bought the tickets and took my long suffering wife. She loved the gig. When this song came up we were standing quietly at the back of the room. My wife was amazed at my outpouring...and frankly, so was i. But she helped. Very much. Nearly 25 years later. Thank you Aimee. x
Doesn't get much better. Beautiful song, even better voice. Aimee Mann is infinitely better than most people in the charts these day. Sigh. Never got the recognition she deserved.
Apertravel She's got a net worth of four million and a very loyal fan base. She's doing g just fine. Besides, the doped up masses don't deserve genius like this. Meanwhile we're looking into the face of the Goose Snow Cone!
Hey...I'm guessing since this comment, it's 18 years since your loss. I just hit 12 with my mother. I was 25 when she died and I'm 37 now. I hope you feel better. I still don't but I'm hoping one day I will
Whenever I feel like destroying myself I listen to this and immediately feel like continuing the game of life. God, I wish I could create beauty like this. Thanks Aimee.
I traveled to Brooklyn to stay with some friends and go to NYC for the first time in October of last year... shortly before that I discovered this song. I listened to this song on the flight across the country. I remember, somehow, I met this beautiful woman at a party, convinced her to a date the next day. I made her a CD, this song was on it for sure. We made it back to her place... we put my "autumn 2009 mix" on... memories forever. Especially this song. Will always remind me. Amazing time.
I sat on my kitchen floor in January, sobbing and sobbing with this on repeat. I don't know how to make things better exactly but I can try. So I try to look after myself better. I try to make sure I connect with people and if they don't return well it was down to them and not me, I tried. I seem to be in a better way now so I'll keep at it.
Rehab, counseling, weights, yoga, jogging, volunteer work, church, meditation ect. ect. Do ANYTHING positive that you know you should be doing and don't effing stop doing positive things till you figure it out and you're happy.
It's taken me 49 years to figure out that the best self care, for me, was to stop trying so hard all the time. I put on my favourite films, eat delicious food, do what I want when I want (which turns out isn't much). I was exhausted! Do what you truly want to do, not what all the books tell you to do xx
Currently i watch Community and hear this music in this series for the first time. Yesterday, I watched Magnolia for the first time, not knowing that played here too. Coincidence? I think not.
just give up, in my opinion is not referring to quitting, its about surrendering, choosing life, when to continue with status quo, both mentally and physically, would mean certain death.
People don't want to hear this but I really think she means just "give up" because it's hopeless to fight whatever you're fighting. But she really means, I think, is rationalizing the sequence of events, so whatever is happening is going to continue happening, until you understand that you can't fight it and just give up. It's not at all clear what in the song is being "given up." The conflicts in the film are a series of unhappy coincidences, but the rain of frogs is literally outside of logic. That's why I think it's juxtaposed with the sequence of the police officer falling in love after all the terrible, unhappy things are revealed. The characters in the story don't seem at all involved but they are all intertwined and there is a love story at the center of it, but nobody watching the film could see the movie being that. I suspect that's kind of what the director was going for. You don't really know where the story is going, so stop trying to know, or, "give up."
Yes. This is exactly right. Give up and Wise Up. Give up trying to find ground. In the search for ground, we are running away from the discomfort and dis-ease, which seems like the right thing to do, but when we look for ease or comfort, it is usually in temporal and short-lived things, people, and events. There is a kind of self-loathing in this. When we Give Up, we are actually allowing our vulnerability to be cracked open like a cave shrouded in darkness for millennia that suddenly is filled with yellow noise, sunlight. Where did the darkness go? Dark-filled for millenia and out of nowhere the black and dank cavernous hole is enveloped by light. Awareness clears away confusion making us fresh and clean again wich was our birthright. Like the addict who meets their bottom, rusted and worn, they are empty vessels, ready for the light of wisdom to fill them. Ready to wise up. To rise-up. To know that there is wisdom in groundlessness. To know that escaping is temporary, but leaning in is long-term. The Stoics are great examples of living a life of meaning instead of a life of happiness. This happiness ambition we have culturally been indoctrinated into is misguided and may very well be partly why we turn to dopamine delivery systems, instead of placing value on being free from all passions because intrinsically not being temperate in our response to things we are only harming ourselves.
It's so silent but exploding in your mind. Thank you Madame, thanks to your song I've written my credo poem. I've gave up and I've started sticking to really important things.
I feel like this should be in the House M.D. soundtrack haha, I came across the song in a hospital commercial and it's stuck with me ever since :) Great song.
This was the song for me to seek help for addiction. I plan to print off the lyrics and hang them on my wall for my first year of sobriety. “It’s not going to stop” kept echoing throughout this year, but I’m two days away from my one year.
I'm a huge fan of your work. The imagery was immensely powerful and I believe now more than ever more people need to see your presentation especially those that reside in Palestine and Israel. But also robotic aliens can benefit too. Your creativity really took my breath away.
because this song is an accurate description of life for many of us. Like Jack Nicholson said in as good as it gets "Some of us have great stories, pretty stories that take place at lakes with boats and friends and noodle salad. Just no one in this car. But, a lot of people, that's their story. Good times, noodle salad. What makes it so hard is not that you had it bad, but that you're that pissed that so many others had it good."
@@danhartwigPerch I was lost in my addiction for over 4 decades until I wised up to the fact that I wasn't hurting myself I was hurting a those who loves me. Today I'm 16 months clean and sober from alcohol and drugs. Hopefully I have finally wised up
This movie means so much to me.... so much more than even some people have. It's still and will always be my favorite movie of all time. And this song.... perfect to purge some crying if need be.
+Patricio Quiroga magnolia is not a bad movie: you can see the really tom kkkruise;) : superficial,stupid,like reality,like the member of scientology;)! Is not enought for you? The song is great! You dont like magnolia? Who cares! Stay well hombre! Che no pasà nada! Hasta la victoria!Siempre!
Congratulations : you're able to read in my Mind, just like approximately more than 9 Billions of people like you :-) Apart from that, Groundhog Day is indeed a Masterpiece according to me, a bit like "The Edge of Tomorrow" in a more funny way :-)
This song gives me the feels every single time I hear it. The emotions it evokes make me uncomfortable to say the least. I am a recovering addict who has left a wake of damage in my past. I finally wised up. Things are not perfect or even how I'd like them to be, but at least I'm not addicted to something that was going to kill me sooner than need be. If you are struggling with alcoholism/addiction, do yourself a favor-reach out for help-you can't beat them on your own. The heaviest thing in the world can be a cell phone-but pick it up anyway. Call someone and share what you're experiencing. and ask them if they can help you find the hep you need. No matter how bad you have made a mess of your life and hurt those around you-you deserve a chance to change. You deserve a chance to heal, you deserve a chance to love and to be loved. You deserve to live. Be well my friends...
March 2021, i had a few days with no alcohol or klonopin, & this thought came to me: "... if i don't drink, & do pills, that doesn't mean my life's gonna be all great or something, it's life, any weird thing can happen, who knows how it will go, but if i don't stop, & keep going like i have been, i've got a pretty good idea where that's going to go." & then i ran into an old neighbor who had a few years sober, & i told him about that thought i'd just had, & he said, "naw, you don't have a pretty good idea of how that goes, you know exactly ..." & he was right, & we're still here, dealing with whatever life has for us ... 🙏💜🕯️🌱🐾👣🌿🌎🕊️ Edit: have 2 other song/poems ... ◼️◼️◼️◼️◼️◼️◼️◼️◼️ 1. Kae Tempest, Peoples Faces. th-cam.com/video/gYBaNahELn8/w-d-xo.html ◼️◼️◼️◼️◼️◼️◼️◼️◼️ 2.poem by Chelan Harkin, The Worst Thing We Ever Did. th-cam.com/video/kJIcPdKwKas/w-d-xo.html ◼️◼️◼️◼️◼️◼️◼️◼️◼️
The backing vocals Michael Penn provided are just heavenly... just simple harmonizing Ahhhhs are beautifully done and so subtle but the song would not be the same without them building it up to the resolve of the chorus
All of the characters in Magnolia are holding on to their past identities. They all need to wise up. You need to give up who you are to be who you were meant to be.
The film Magnolia had a real effect on my life. It changed the way I saw other people and their struggles and just the shit everyone goes through in life, and that I need to be nice to everyone because everyone you meet is dealing with heavy things all the time in their life.
It’s funny. When I feel low, wisening up seems impossible and I bawl my eyes out to this song. When I’m feeling positive the song pushes me to try harder. I’m glad (to read in the comments) it works the other way round for those who are in a dark place. I hope every day to come is easier for you.
don't ever let anyone ever say to you you shouldn't regret anything. Don't do that. Don't! You regret what you fucking want! Use that. Use that. Use that regret for anything, any way you want
I don't know what's more beautiful... this, save me, her cover of one or Magnolia in which PTA managed to beautifully weave all three into a wonderful tale about the pursuit of happiness.
This is a really powerful song, what exactly that means, is different to everyone. I'm certain Aimee wasn't able to see the impact it would make on so many different people. Either way, a great song, by a great writer!
My name is Claudia. This song and the movie Magnolia mean a lot to me as well. Not because one of the characters shares my name but because of the experiences I share with her. My dxug of choice was never you know what she was doing but opiates. No better or worse of a choice of escape. This song and movie have helped me find pride in myself again and the courage to change me and my life. God bless everyone struggling out there as I still do but I'm still here kicking and if I can even help one other person out there to keep kicking too then maybe my life and theirs will be worth something. Happy 2022 to everyone!
Have you heard the news? Dan Harmon said that the Community movie isn't a matter of "if", but of "when"! #sixseasonsandamovie may really come true after all these years...
I know this post is ancient, but I was listening to this song and wanted to read other peoples opinions on it. I think this song can apply to so many people about so many things. Yes, a suggestion of alcoholism, and definitely using alcohol for escape, is mentioned in one line but that’s not the whole story at all. Many people work to get what they want whether it’s fame, marriage, a career, et cetera. They think that this will fill the hole in them but they find that they are just as miserable as they were before, maybe even more so because they don’t have something new to reach for. And so they are stuck in a marriage with an abusive, cruel partner. They have run away and joined the foreign legions and they find that it’s a living hell. Whatever the case, the point is that until they find love, peace and happiness within themselves and stop allowing themselves to be a victim; until they are able to look at themselves objectively and understand the mistakes they are making, address them and correct to them; the misery will never go away. They cannot expect someone or something to fix them. Decisions they make will often harm them until THEY TREAT THEMSELVES LIKE SOMEBODY THEY LOVE. All the bad experiences, all the bad feelings, all of The weaknesses and addictions and all the cruelty will not stop until you wise up….. IMHO
This has to be my favorite song on the soundtrack of this movie.. Aimee's Vocals haunt and move me when I here her. Thanks Aimee for the gift that you give your fans..
This is the definition of irony. When I first watched magnolia, it was on late at night and my wife had gone to bed. During this song she came downstairs and yelled at me to turn it down. 18 or so years later we are separated and she's in rehab.
If I'm not mistaken, the story is JT Anderson (Magnolia producer) heard this song and decided to create a movie around it, he was so moved. That's how Aimee got the whole soundtrack, and is the meaning of the whole movie
@@windh Oh, Christ! Sorry! P.T. Anderson, not "J.T.". What a fucking mistake! "By the time he started writing the script, Anderson was listening to the music of his friend Aimee Mann.[8] He used her first two solo albums and demo tracks for her upcoming third album, Bachelor No. 2 or, the Last Remains of the Dodo, as a basis and inspiration;[12] he said he "sat down to write an adaptation of Aimee Mann songs"." Take the links off the wiki page en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Magnolia_(film) You're an asshole
![Aimee Mann - Wise up [It's not going to stop]](/img/n.gif)
This song helped me go to rehab. Magnolia is very special to me
Força Amigo! You can! Abraço
@Jerry Lynch, It's very deep & touches your heart ♥️AND soul, just a beautiful song! I sincerely hope your doing well! Everytime I see Magnolia, I think it should have won BEST OSCAR for Picture of the Year & there IS SO MANY ACTORS that deserved an Oscar for their performances!! Such a tale-tell of LIFE, LOVE, LOSS & SUFFERING! A beautiful movie & I really love it too! ♥️😇♥️
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@James Morley I believe in it💝 All the best to you!
GOD BLESS you
20 years later, going through a really really hard time in my life, and hearing this waking up one morning had me sobbing into my pillow. And you know what? I feel much better. Because things have to get better from here. Thank you Aimee.
Hey, how are you? I hope you're okay buddy
When you hit rock bottom, the only way is up. I've had to learn that recently.
I hope a year on you're in a better place. Just keep heading in the right direction
This song helped me get sober. 11 clean years later and it still moves me to tears
You are my hero
What a beautifully moving song for you. Congratulations. I dont think I'll hear this song the same again ❤
LilyOfTheTower ❤️
No it did not. You helped yourself, if you are being at all truthful.
Good job.
Chang: It's not supposed to take--
Jeff: Your breath away?
@Not Your Usual Media Did you say S?
We have something incredibly long, very confusing, and a little homophobic. And really, really, specifically, surprisingly, and gratuitously critical of Israel.
Ahhhhh... Hemingway's Lemonade...
This and Just Like Anyone.
I found some money lying around in a gutter in Manchester, UK, when i was very, very broke. I could have spent it on booze - and i was very tempted - but i had heard Aimee Mann was in town so i bought the tickets and took my long suffering wife. She loved the gig. When this song came up we were standing quietly at the back of the room. My wife was amazed at my outpouring...and frankly, so was i. But she helped. Very much. Nearly 25 years later. Thank you Aimee. x
Beautiful..just beautiful
I'm trying not to cry every time I watch her videos. But..
The power of one single song.. bless you friend!
Doesn't get much better. Beautiful song, even better voice. Aimee Mann is infinitely better than most people in the charts these day. Sigh. Never got the recognition she deserved.
Apertravel She's got a net worth of four million and a very loyal fan base. She's doing g just fine. Besides, the doped up masses don't deserve genius like this. Meanwhile we're looking into the face of the Goose Snow Cone!
She did retry damn good. Plus she was o Portlandia. ;)
Best song on the Magnolia soundtrack. Interesting it was not initially released with the rest of the album
My mother died 15 years ago today. This was one of our all time favorite songs.
Sorry 😟💔 sending love....❤❤
Stay beautiful
24 years for me & still hurts ❤
Hey...I'm guessing since this comment, it's 18 years since your loss. I just hit 12 with my mother. I was 25 when she died and I'm 37 now. I hope you feel better. I still don't but I'm hoping one day I will
The book says: "We might be through with the past, but the past ain't through with us."
What book?
@@Dangerops69 probably that one book about the great big imaginary man in the sky
@@elscourou6654 @KarateNinjaDude must be paraphrasing, then.
@@elscourou6654 hahaha...it'd have to be! Can't recall seeing the word 'ain't' in that big fairy tale book that I was forced to read as a kid!
@@Dangerops69 its from a movie: magnolia :)
Whenever I feel like destroying myself I listen to this and immediately feel like continuing the game of life. God, I wish I could create beauty like this. Thanks Aimee.
I traveled to Brooklyn to stay with some friends and go to NYC for the first time in October of last year... shortly before that I discovered this song. I listened to this song on the flight across the country. I remember, somehow, I met this beautiful woman at a party, convinced her to a date the next day. I made her a CD, this song was on it for sure. We made it back to her place... we put my "autumn 2009 mix" on... memories forever. Especially this song. Will always remind me. Amazing time.
My mate recommended this song after I split up with a girl. I still haven't forgiven him. Lol
Adam Subtract just imagine the same thing happened...but in the '90s
He loved you.
I sat on my kitchen floor in January, sobbing and sobbing with this on repeat. I don't know how to make things better exactly but I can try. So I try to look after myself better. I try to make sure I connect with people and if they don't return well it was down to them and not me, I tried. I seem to be in a better way now so I'll keep at it.
Rehab, counseling, weights, yoga, jogging, volunteer work, church, meditation ect. ect. Do ANYTHING positive that you know you should be doing and don't effing stop doing positive things till you figure it out and you're happy.
It's taken me 49 years to figure out that the best self care, for me, was to stop trying so hard all the time. I put on my favourite films, eat delicious food, do what I want when I want (which turns out isn't much). I was exhausted! Do what you truly want to do, not what all the books tell you to do xx
@@frankie1525 Cool, you keep being you.
You have an abiding strength. I'm amazed at the changes people (including me) have made.
Love yourself like you're your own best friend.
Are you ready amigo?
Si.
I was looking for this comment. Glad I found it.
Perfecto comentario en español dentro de mucho inglés... Está canción es hermosa al igual que tu comentario bro,
Saludos desde Puebla Mx.
F, F minus
@@djcobrismo Huh... wha... did you say S? (ah it's not the same through text, half the funny is in the face Mr Chase makes when he asks that)
@@djcobrismo Did you say S?
One of the best actors: Phillip Seymour Hofmann .... I miss him!
(a tribute to him!)
amen
Omg Yes! I watched Boogie nights last night and i said to myself " omg such a talented actor. Just brilliant & i miss him."
So ironic that Phillip Seymour Hoffman could have benefited from this song’s message.
Currently i watch Community and hear this music in this series for the first time. Yesterday, I watched Magnolia for the first time, not knowing that played here too. Coincidence? I think not.
The movie was based around themes and insights from her lyrics. She was dating PT Anderson when he made the movie.
This song in magnolia is a thing. I'm surprised more people didn't copy it as they usually do.
that movie is stunning, man.
You lyin
Sounds like
A
Good
Time
Magnolia brought me here. Because I cannot get this scene out of my head.
Don't let it.
I came here for a beautiful song and ended up being equally as moved by all these heartfelt comments. I wish you all the very best
just give up, in my opinion is not referring to quitting, its about surrendering, choosing life, when to continue with status quo, both mentally and physically, would mean certain death.
Steve George Perfecto
Steve George thank you
People don't want to hear this but I really think she means just "give up" because it's hopeless to fight whatever you're fighting. But she really means, I think, is rationalizing the sequence of events, so whatever is happening is going to continue happening, until you understand that you can't fight it and just give up. It's not at all clear what in the song is being "given up."
The conflicts in the film are a series of unhappy coincidences, but the rain of frogs is literally outside of logic. That's why I think it's juxtaposed with the sequence of the police officer falling in love after all the terrible, unhappy things are revealed. The characters in the story don't seem at all involved but they are all intertwined and there is a love story at the center of it, but nobody watching the film could see the movie being that. I suspect that's kind of what the director was going for. You don't really know where the story is going, so stop trying to know, or, "give up."
Yes. This is exactly right. Give up and Wise Up. Give up trying to find ground. In the search for ground, we are running away from the discomfort and dis-ease, which seems like the right thing to do, but when we look for ease or comfort, it is usually in temporal and short-lived things, people, and events. There is a kind of self-loathing in this. When we Give Up, we are actually allowing our vulnerability to be cracked open like a cave shrouded in darkness for millennia that suddenly is filled with yellow noise, sunlight. Where did the darkness go? Dark-filled for millenia and out of nowhere the black and dank cavernous hole is enveloped by light. Awareness clears away confusion making us fresh and clean again wich was our birthright. Like the addict who meets their bottom, rusted and worn, they are empty vessels, ready for the light of wisdom to fill them. Ready to wise up. To rise-up. To know that there is wisdom in groundlessness. To know that escaping is temporary, but leaning in is long-term. The Stoics are great examples of living a life of meaning instead of a life of happiness. This happiness ambition we have culturally been indoctrinated into is misguided and may very well be partly why we turn to dopamine delivery systems, instead of placing value on being free from all passions because intrinsically not being temperate in our response to things we are only harming ourselves.
FWIW, I found it extremely helpful to accept that death _is_ certain, regardless of my choices.
It's so silent but exploding in your mind. Thank you Madame, thanks to your song I've written my credo poem. I've gave up and I've started sticking to really important things.
I feel like this should be in the House M.D. soundtrack haha, I came across the song in a hospital commercial and it's stuck with me ever since :) Great song.
This was the song for me to seek help for addiction. I plan to print off the lyrics and hang them on my wall for my first year of sobriety. “It’s not going to stop” kept echoing throughout this year, but I’m two days away from my one year.
here’s your song th-cam.com/video/VOj-USZaz4Q/w-d-xo.html
Congrats
I pray you’ve made it to year 2.
@@UrbanLegend526 happy to say I’m 2.5 years sober next month. ❤️
So happy for you. One day at a time...
I recently gave a Spanish presentation at my Community College and used this song. The teacher was so impressed they gave me an S! Huge thanks, Aimee!
I'm a huge fan of your work. The imagery was immensely powerful and I believe now more than ever more people need to see your presentation especially those that reside in Palestine and Israel. But also robotic aliens can benefit too. Your creativity really took my breath away.
S as in streets ahead? That must've been a barnburner of a presentation.
"I'll get the costumes"
"Costumes? These are short conversations. It's not supposed to take-"
"Your breath away?"
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Pierce Hawthorne wipes
Man that presentation was streets ahead!! Especially in todays geopolitical climate and yes.. It took my breath away
This song helped me leave a bad relationship. 🙌🏻🙏🏻❤️ now I’m married, 11 years with 3 kids. Got my happy ending.
Dog. Bless. You. And. Yours
@@christopherwallace3660 Amen. Habelubjia.
This song is so powerful on so many levels. I'm a huge Aimee Mann fan
Did you say "S"?
Life changing film Magnolia 1999 and reinforced my undying love for songstress Aimee Mann ❤
That was the first time I heard it. The movie used it powerfully.
What a poignant, powerful, singular piece. Top pedestal, from the ground up.
"F, F minus"
"did he say S ?"
SilentBOOM The show, The Community. Season 1 Episode 2
Ready Amigo?
Si!
I'm not reflecting on my life and past decisions while crying. You are.
guilty as charged
That is, in fact, what I'm doing right now - sobbing.
Opposite!
Thinking of all the moments at night, in the early years of Hospital life. At night, and the day of the living, third floor routines.
"You ready, amigo?"
"Si."
0:04
F, F-.
- Did he say "S"?
soundtrack of Magnolia, one of the best movies, I´ve ever seen in my life.....
"F, F minus"
"did he say S ?"
Nothing in life hits me quite like this song.
because this song is an accurate description of life for many of us. Like Jack Nicholson said in as good as it gets "Some of us have great stories, pretty stories that take place at lakes with boats and friends and noodle salad. Just no one in this car. But, a lot of people, that's their story. Good times, noodle salad. What makes it so hard is not that you had it bad, but that you're that pissed that so many others had it good."
Tony Contini me too
That's very nice. Thanks.
0wonderful and in the film Magnolia, beautiful enough to cry 👍💋
Gosse snow cone is another one that gets me like this one.....
Rewatching Community again
6 years and a movie
Same
*seasons
Daniel Winter Abed called the years seasons, so it still works lol
@@dwoski its six seasons and a movie , still waiting for the movie harmon lol
The song that made quit drugs
gracefull mess I’m on coke right now listening,I respect u
@@danhartwigPerch I was lost in my addiction for over 4 decades until I wised up to the fact that I wasn't hurting myself I was hurting a those who loves me. Today I'm 16 months clean and sober from alcohol and drugs. Hopefully I have finally wised up
Really? This song makes me start drinking again
@@danhartwigPerch checking in on you. You OK?
Sarah Reinbolt I’m Good🦄
Favorite characters in the movie were Officer Jim, Claudia and Phil. Such a powerful movie. Had an impact on me. Love Aimee Mann.
PTA is a legend.
i will never forget you.
rest in peace, my dear.
Who else thinks this is a great song for this pandemic right now?
Tal cual !
Everyone here fell in love with this song for different reasons, this comment section has so much love and sorrow.💖
This is probably my all-time favorite Aimee Mann song, and she has a lot of great ones. It never fails to make me emotional.
This song isn’t supposed to take-
Your breath away? Well tough.
F. F-.
This could be America's national anthem. It's a fucked up place that doesn't realize it.
Yeah i rather live in russia or germany than us
i’m an (unfortunately still active) alcoholic & this song hits so hard.
The best thing I ever did for myself was to give up. Much love from a huge fan in Canada Aimee. You saved me from myself. Thank you.
🇨🇦❤️🙏🍻
WAY TO GO! so happy for you! Sending hugs!
Give up what exactly if you don’t mind me asking
This song makes me what to perform a spanish presentation consisting of 5 phrases in spanish
This movie means so much to me.... so much more than even some people have. It's still and will always be my favorite movie of all time. And this song.... perfect to purge some crying if need be.
I feel you
Magnolia : th-cam.com/video/aNmKghTvj0E/w-d-xo.html
that movie changed my life too
A movie that stays with u
My favourite movie too
This is one of my favorite songs. It's from my favorite movie.
One of my favorite movie too.
All the soundtrack album is nice
My favorite Film in the World...Paul Thomas Anderson is amazing...
Cruise got paid scale...and , I swear , it's his best performance imo
hocuspocusfocusable Cruise's best performance was in Born on the fourth of July.
Try the song "In The Deep" by Bird York. (and if you haven't seen the film "Crash" you should take the time to watch it too).
Beautiful song, timeless just like the movie; and Tom Cruise’s finest acting performance to date.
He really should have won the Oscar that year.
this song is so beautiful I can’t sing one word of it without my voice cracking
i love you then and now Aimee, thank you..
This song makes me at peace with what my body is doing to me. I have fought so long.
Hope you're still with us.
Watched Magnolia when I was a new dad. Years later I showed this movie to my adult kids. They were astounded.
Jeff and Pierce
Suckitandsee 17 glad to see I'm not the only one who thought that! 😀
hahahahahahha
Xros Wars uhgjvuvihhrghbn.plm
Is that a gun club reference?
Who's Jeff and pierce?
Magnolia amazing movie
que les gusta tanto de esa pelicula? yo la he visto 3 veces y no la encuentro maravillosa
Sorry dude have no idea what you are saying :(
That they like so much of this movie? I her have seen 3 times and do not find her wonderful?
+Patricio Quiroga magnolia is not a bad movie: you can see the really tom kkkruise;) : superficial,stupid,like reality,like the member of scientology;)! Is not enought for you? The song is great!
You dont like magnolia? Who cares! Stay well hombre! Che no pasà nada!
Hasta la victoria!Siempre!
Stingodisanto. la encuentro muy sobrevaloradaaaaaaaa
Jeebus. I've loved Aimee for decades. She never fails to amaze me. Her music just grows to epic proportions.
THE GODDAMN REGRET
+AdonisJones If they approach, I Kick the Dogs :-)
"Groundhog Day" (1993) is a better movie! ;-)
Congratulations : you're able to read in my Mind, just like approximately more than 9 Billions of people like you :-) Apart from that, Groundhog Day is indeed a Masterpiece according to me, a bit like "The Edge of Tomorrow" in a more funny way :-)
Can you believe it...it's a Broadway Musical now...
@@Elkamika Population of Earth is 7.9 billion 🙄
Very beautiful very haunting. Magnolia was a special movie. Terribly underrated.
Superlative performances all around and an unyielding and relentless performance by Tom Cruise. One of his best.
For my husband, my son….please listen….😢
This song gives me the feels every single time I hear it. The emotions it evokes make me uncomfortable to say the least. I am a recovering addict who has left a wake of damage in my past. I finally wised up. Things are not perfect or even how I'd like them to be, but at least I'm not addicted to something that was going to kill me sooner than need be. If you are struggling with alcoholism/addiction, do yourself a favor-reach out for help-you can't beat them on your own. The heaviest thing in the world can be a cell phone-but pick it up anyway. Call someone and share what you're experiencing. and ask them if they can help you find the hep you need. No matter how bad you have made a mess of your life and hurt those around you-you deserve a chance to change. You deserve a chance to heal, you deserve a chance to love and to be loved. You deserve to live. Be well my friends...
March 2021, i had a few days with no alcohol or klonopin,
& this thought came to me:
"... if i don't drink, & do pills, that doesn't mean my life's gonna be all great or something, it's life, any weird thing can happen, who knows how it will go,
but if i don't stop, & keep going like i have been, i've got a pretty good idea where that's going to go."
& then i ran into an old neighbor who had a few years sober, & i told him about that thought i'd just had, & he said,
"naw, you don't have a pretty good idea of how that goes, you know exactly ..."
& he was right,
& we're still here,
dealing with whatever life has for us ...
🙏💜🕯️🌱🐾👣🌿🌎🕊️
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1. Kae Tempest, Peoples Faces.
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2.poem by Chelan Harkin, The Worst Thing We Ever Did.
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I'm here cause I like this song...💕💕💕💕 no troubles brought me here. But dang- rips your heart out kinda song!!💔💔💔😟😟
The backing vocals Michael Penn provided are just heavenly... just simple harmonizing Ahhhhs are beautifully done and so subtle but the song would not be the same without them building it up to the resolve of the chorus
All of the characters in Magnolia are holding on to their past identities. They all need to wise up. You need to give up who you are to be who you were meant to be.
Idk tom cruises character created a new character to put away the pain of his mother, and in reality become who he thought his father was,
The film Magnolia had a real effect on my life. It changed the way I saw other people and their struggles and just the shit everyone goes through in life, and that I need to be nice to everyone because everyone you meet is dealing with heavy things all the time in their life.
It’s funny.
When I feel low, wisening up seems impossible and I bawl my eyes out to this song. When I’m feeling positive the song pushes me to try harder.
I’m glad (to read in the comments) it works the other way round for those who are in a dark place. I hope every day to come is easier for you.
I love how everyone's sharing deeply sad personal experiences and I'm just here because of a community gag lol
Community and Magnolia…
The two greatest things ever created that used this song perfectly each in their own way.
Don't ever give up , Wise up and make good choices. I'ts all up to you in the end.
Yeah, that's it!
don't ever let anyone ever say to you you shouldn't regret anything. Don't do that. Don't! You regret what you fucking want! Use that. Use that. Use that regret for anything, any way you want
Nice
@@somchaokuhne9906 is that sarcasm I detect?
Don't give up on your life or your self but give up on hopeless situations before you go down with the ship
I quoted this song to my boss in a performance review, and they gave me a promotion.
What music should always be, encapsulated.
I heard this on the XFM Ricky Gervais Show and instantly loved it. what a lovely song!
Breno Renno Grilo
“Buy-on Ferry”
The Jamaican fella says hello to his mate. Aye Me Man
Best movie and best soundtracks ever
Every now and again I listen to this and I wonder if I have wised up yet. At 50, I think I am starting to get it.
I got it at 50. 4 years later and things are perfect. Really, perfect.
love this song.
I don't know what's more beautiful... this, save me, her cover of one or Magnolia in which PTA managed to beautifully weave all three into a wonderful tale about the pursuit of happiness.
Wow. That hit me x
What a great song!
I finally understand everything about this song.
I hate how I learned it.
The most emotionally intelligent song I think I’ve ever heard
This is a really powerful song, what exactly that means, is different to everyone. I'm certain Aimee wasn't able to see the impact it would make on so many different people. Either way, a great song, by a great writer!
One of my favourite film scenes ever, just so weird, and oddly powerful.
My name is Claudia. This song and the movie Magnolia mean a lot to me as well. Not because one of the characters shares my name but because of the experiences I share with her. My dxug of choice was never you know what she was doing but opiates. No better or worse of a choice of escape. This song and movie have helped me find pride in myself again and the courage to change me and my life. God bless everyone struggling out there as I still do but I'm still here kicking and if I can even help one other person out there to keep kicking too then maybe my life and theirs will be worth something. Happy 2022 to everyone!
claudia is a beautiful name
@@jamesd.salehi4752 thank you so very much James. ☺
I'm eternally grateful to Community for introducing me to such an awesome song.
#sixseasonsandamovie.
Have you heard the news? Dan Harmon said that the Community movie isn't a matter of "if", but of "when"! #sixseasonsandamovie may really come true after all these years...
@@treyn. this is glorious news indeed.
Life isn't short. It's long...
I dying of an autoimmune disease it helps me! My brother RIP passed from same illness even went to med school no cure
im sorry..... try the welcome home cd every song is great.....
What disease? Sorry honey
I know this post is ancient, but I was listening to this song and wanted to read other peoples opinions on it.
I think this song can apply to so many people about so many things. Yes, a suggestion of alcoholism, and definitely using alcohol for escape, is mentioned in one line but that’s not the whole story at all.
Many people work to get what they want whether it’s fame, marriage, a career, et cetera.
They think that this will fill the hole in them but they find that they are just as miserable as they were before, maybe even more so because they don’t have something new to reach for. And so they are stuck in a marriage with an abusive, cruel partner. They have run away and joined the foreign legions and they find that it’s a living hell. Whatever the case, the point is that until they find love, peace and happiness within themselves and stop allowing themselves to be a victim; until they are able to look at themselves objectively and understand the mistakes they are making, address them and correct to them; the misery will never go away.
They cannot expect someone or something to fix them. Decisions they make will often harm them until THEY TREAT THEMSELVES LIKE SOMEBODY THEY LOVE.
All the bad experiences, all the bad feelings, all of The weaknesses and addictions and all the cruelty will not stop until you wise up….. IMHO
Beautifully put.
This has to be my favorite song on the soundtrack of this movie.. Aimee's Vocals haunt and move me when I here her. Thanks Aimee for the gift that you give your fans..
I was bawling when I first watched that scene. Still one of my favorite scenes in movies.
Great movie. No regrets on my end!
Musical chairs
GET THE REFERENCE if you like Chris morris. You know jam
"wise up means" to stop catching "happiness" and surrender to the mixed emotions of life (that for some of us can be more sad than for others)
Beautiful 😊
The whole movie is about realization, so is this song.
One of the videos of Barn Owl Wedding Ring Delivery brought me here to this song.
This song is a priceless jewel! Thanks Aimee! ❤
This is the definition of irony.
When I first watched magnolia, it was on late at night and my wife had gone to bed.
During this song she came downstairs and yelled at me to turn it down. 18 or so years later we are separated and she's in rehab.
this song talks to me and yes, I am trying to wise up but do we really learn or just being prepped for the next one.
life keeps moving. sometimes we get hit with the end of a marriage. But that brings with it, new opportunities.
If I'm not mistaken, the story is JT Anderson (Magnolia producer) heard this song and decided to create a movie around it, he was so moved. That's how Aimee got the whole soundtrack, and is the meaning of the whole movie
Truth?
Any interviews, links to backup?
Oh boy. So many facts wrong here, don't know where to start.. "JT Anderson, the Producer...." Christ.
@@windh Oh, Christ! Sorry! P.T. Anderson, not "J.T.". What a fucking mistake!
"By the time he started writing the script, Anderson was listening to the music of his friend Aimee Mann.[8] He used her first two solo albums and demo tracks for her upcoming third album, Bachelor No. 2 or, the Last Remains of the Dodo, as a basis and inspiration;[12] he said he "sat down to write an adaptation of Aimee Mann songs"."
Take the links off the wiki page
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Magnolia_(film)
You're an asshole
Chris Morris' JAM made me aware of this song. What an unsettling but visually stunning TV show.
Im soo in love❤...Aimee
Everyone is talking about how this song has helped them in their lives
For me this song is just about Pierce and Jeff’s Spanish assignment
When I need a really, really good cry, this is the one.