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  • @queenalert5497
    @queenalert5497 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    I was shocked to hear about your boys ☹️ especially Lj ! You and Shan provided so much for them and was greatest parents . That was a weird move but like you said it’s definitely a learning experience 😭. I hope everything is all well with you guys ! And just know you and Shan are great parents! The vlogs is literal proof

  • @jenececonley1946
    @jenececonley1946 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, I ask that You to put a hedge of protection around LJ and Kari. Don't allow the devil to deceive them or harm them while they are going through this process.
    Father, show them that all this world has to offer is chaos and destruction. Lord, I am praying that they have a change of heart and submit to wisdom and knowledge of their parents. Put your angels around them in Jesus Christ name.
    Thank You Father for the outcome.
    I am praising You in advance.❤

  • @alicia8701
    @alicia8701 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Vatus, you and Shan have done your part. Yall did a great job. I am heartbroken but you gotta let these kids see for themselves. They think they know everything but life will show them different.

  • @PejuFierce
    @PejuFierce วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    As a parent of a young adult, i heard all the things you said and did not say. Parenting is not for the weak. You and Shan have done a fantastic job as parents, the sacrifices, hard work and commitment can never be over looked. Bravo.

  • @lethaross6862
    @lethaross6862 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Vot you and Shan are great parents, y’all raised them right so now life will teach them life lessons ❤

  • @shalabennett8030
    @shalabennett8030 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Glad you guys are back recording. I was smiling throughout the video until the end. I felt a sadness when you said the boys were gone. I feel like you're a tough dad, but in today's world we need more of that. You and Shan were great parents. They will realize one day the mistakes they are making. I felt like my parents were too mean, but they made me to be the great person that I am today. All y'all can do is pray and keep going.

  • @tolitap6756
    @tolitap6756 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Love your energy family! As far as LJ and Kari goes you've done your part the rest is up to them. Let go and let God 🙏🏽

  • @justchrista7630
    @justchrista7630 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I BEEN HERE with my niece I raised, just know continue to speak life over them and pray, when they little they on your lap, when they grown they on your heart ♥ ❤,

    • @rajaigaisogono9584
      @rajaigaisogono9584 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That's what my big mama always said,it ture.

  • @Loveeeeeeeeee11
    @Loveeeeeeeeee11 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I have been watching yall for yearssss! I enjoy yall family ! As a black woman in my early 30s you two inspire me so much !! Especially when it comes to relationships.POSITIVE ,HEALTHY ,BLACK relationships ❤ I’m a little upset with LJ and Kari because you and Shan busted yall asses with each of them to provide them a chance at a better life ! Unfortunately kids don’t realize that the grass isn’t always greener on the other side . But again they’ll learn ! We all had to learn at some point in life . I just pray that they are safe, protected, and make the right choices. They’ll soon learn that a lot of young men don’t have the same blessings that they have with you and Shan. Yes things may be a tad strict at yall house but it’s all within reason and for a reason. But again, they’ll learn. God bless yall, and God bless yall family. Love yall, keep up the great work !!!

  • @kialola3314
    @kialola3314 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’ve been watching yall from the beginning!!! I have always admired you and Shan hustle yall really got
    it out the mud and paved a way for yall fam !!! Keep up the good work and this too shall pass 🙏🏾💕💪🏾

  • @SweetNina
    @SweetNina 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    All you can do pray for those boys. I tell my stepdaughter all the time, I can teach all I want but sometimes they have to learn on they own!!!

  • @BritgirlTX
    @BritgirlTX 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Yup. When lights are completely off or flashing red … it’s a four-way stop!

  • @tinacarter6769
    @tinacarter6769 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Thank you for sharing 🙏🙏🙏

  • @JeffreyRay-tt5cz
    @JeffreyRay-tt5cz 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Shannon Done Went Through A Couple Of Them , Von You Wrong 4 That 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @janetjackson2136
    @janetjackson2136 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    TMH got LJ! He's a very handsome intelligent young man! I love him, he reminds me of my grandson! Vatus and Shannon you all raised him and as the scriptures say " Raise a child up in a good way and he shall never part! We're hear for LJ and if he ever needs anything, he surely got it! I'm in upstate NY. My daughter sent him his kettle and he loved it! He's such a blessing! I know TMH got him, because we're prayer warriors! Don't know Kari, but I pray he doesn't get LJ in any bullshxt! Peace, love and blessings to you all! APTTMH!❤❤❤

  • @wandadelaney2489
    @wandadelaney2489 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    WOW! Kids are on your lap but when they grow up their on your heart. Take care

  • @mariaaastarr3032
    @mariaaastarr3032 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I'm sorry to hear they left. I only remembered LJ. You and Shannon are great parents and take good care of your family. I know you are heartbroken. That your children. Prayers up for all of y'all because this is a new chapter in your life. I've seen this happen to other people. They want to go back to their mom's but then they start noticing why they were with the the one who fight for them, love them and took good care of them. Then they come running back and stay for good. They have to learn. Just be there with open arms and hearts when they want to come back...✌🏾🧡🙏🏾😊

  • @briannajohnson5185
    @briannajohnson5185 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Yall did yalls part! As long as you all are there to support along their journey and they have you to turn to is all.

  • @zaharadoss
    @zaharadoss วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Its sad to see the boys choose the hard route. Having two active parents and getting everything you ask and need is a blessing. They will come around! You guys are great parents that create what a child needs... which is structure. Being a young adult isn't fun, especially in this economy!!

  • @JeffreyRay-tt5cz
    @JeffreyRay-tt5cz 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm Watching This Again, I Love Watching This Family.

  • @JeffreyRay-tt5cz
    @JeffreyRay-tt5cz วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    ( Shannon Don't Know How To Window Shop , She Might Buy The Window And All ) 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @rajaigaisogono9584
    @rajaigaisogono9584 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Hay family l hate to hear that about the young men but they will find out what y'all been trying to tell them. In the meantime we will just keep them before God and pray for their safety and well being they'll be back and next time they will leave the right way. You guys are amazing parents. Everybody knows that don't worry God's got them .😊 Peace, and love 😘 and as always one love for life ❤

  • @sherieparis1
    @sherieparis1 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Sending you all love.❤ I am praying that L.J. and Kari will make the right decisions for their lives. You two did an amazingly great job raising both. I know you two miss them being in the home.😢

    • @06Joybells
      @06Joybells วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      AMEN to that

  • @OnlyInTW
    @OnlyInTW วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow that was open and honest!!! I started watching you guys when your son LJ was at the end of 11th grade. Best wishes to everyone, time really does help. Keeping you all uplifted. Peace

  • @keyahumblewithbigfaith
    @keyahumblewithbigfaith วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Everything you said was well said! 🙌🏽God will continue to comfort all of you during this time🙏🏽 You both are amazing parents and God will continue to give you the glory no matter what it looks like. I pray a hedge of protection over them and that the Lord guides their paths! You’ve done enough and you’ve given it to God🙏🏽🙌🏽. Glad to see y’all back with the vlogs and thankful you all were safe during the storm. 💖💕

  • @msmorgan326
    @msmorgan326 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I am so sorry to hear this! Watching you guys since the beginning🤍

  • @jenececonley1946
    @jenececonley1946 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I am so glad that y'all are safe. I been praying for you family non-stop. My heart goes out to you guys, you are great parents, influences are a beast especially when you are young. I will be praying for them. Sometimes life is our greatest teacher. But what you and Shann taught LJ will never leave him. The truth will always stand. LJ will return because he knows truth. Right now its desire over the truth, but when he sees the truth of what you said to him display he will come back home.
    Prayers are going up.
    Love you family dearly.❤❤❤❤

  • @DaFinestAngie
    @DaFinestAngie วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Good to see y’all made it safely through the hurricane. Sorry to hear about the boys, but you right, they think they grown and they have to go out and see. They don’t realize how great they had it, y’all are great parents. The world can be cruel for our young black men, pray for them and keep it moving

  • @ChinaPositiveNation
    @ChinaPositiveNation วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I was shocked to hear about Lj you have to wish them well they will come back when things get tough i been watching yall when LJ was young boy

  • @brendaskitchenhomemadeever4245
    @brendaskitchenhomemadeever4245 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    HI beautiful family love y'all 😘❤️ please be safe 💗 May God 🙏 bless you and your family 💖 hope everything is well 💕 wt a beautiful young lady as always 💞🌹 it's good seeing you guys again 💕 I really miss y'all there we the funny young man 😂😂 the kids are so adorable 💞 My prayers 🙏💗🙌 for y'all please don't stay away to long 😅

  • @fellylove
    @fellylove วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’m very heartbroken.. Gods willing they both come back home. Keep praying over both of them. I’m so sorry this happened because my niece decided to leave home at 16 from Orlando because she miss broward. Now she has yet to graduate living with a dude that kick her out every so often no job. 🤦🏾‍♀️ she was a straight A student never needed anything. 😢 y’all stay prayed up. This really hurts and just reminds me of her. How does MJ feel about her brothers not being home?

  • @trina-h7p
    @trina-h7p 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Nooooooo!!!!!!! Jesus, “who’s gonna tell them” if they know what I know they need to take their butts back!!

  • @yolandaspencer1993
    @yolandaspencer1993 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I thought it was gonna be worse than what it looked like I’m Relieved it didn’t get that bad Thank God……. Shan was trying to Shop Shop LOL 😂🤣🤣😂😂 I know to well about these Chirennnn I have 4 Boyz and my oldest about to be 30 They will be ok u both did an Awesome Azzzz job and it comes time when you have to let them feel that real world air I love ❤️u all and Pray for much continued success for all of u 💪🏾💯🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 Family 4evaaaaaaa

  • @denisemanfre9542
    @denisemanfre9542 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I didn’t think L J would be like that, I’m sorry guys. You’re right he’s grown. I remember when he was only six on here. It’s all on him now you’ve don’t your part. Whose Kari?

    • @sssssssss111
      @sssssssss111 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Kari is LJ’s mothers child. But they took him in as their own and he used to visit before that as well.

  • @zakiyah2252
    @zakiyah2252 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Like you said vatus, all kids go thru that lil phase after they’re grown and think they know everything. I surely did & i definitely wished I would have listened to my mama 😂 life is not easy out here. I’m only 27 but i vividly remember being 18/19 thinking I knew everything. They’ll come back around. Just don’t make them feel bad once they realize.

  • @nylotisslaughter7385
    @nylotisslaughter7385 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love watching you guys video I can watch a video from you guys every single day because you have me laughing all the time you had me laughing about that window you had me laughing about whoever you was talking to talking about they going to go window shopping and probably shopping by the whole window me laughing boy if you don't act just like my brother thanks for sharing the video cuz I love watching y'all just saying. And by the way I am so glad you guys survived that storm and I hope you be all right on the next one that you guys say may be coming your way I'll be praying for you guys just saying.❤❤

  • @nekoyaparker1654
    @nekoyaparker1654 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hello family, if the light is blinking yellow you have the right a way and don’t have to stop 🛑 but if the light is blinking red you have to stop 🛑

  • @BritgirlTX
    @BritgirlTX 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Life lessons … yup … they need to learn it ain’t easy out there … they will learn though … hopefully not the hard way.

  • @SamanthaaHayes
    @SamanthaaHayes 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Good to see yall glad the fam is okay!

  • @JeffreyRay-tt5cz
    @JeffreyRay-tt5cz วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ( Pause No Diddy ) 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @dellanixon7657
    @dellanixon7657 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤️🙏🏾😇😇😇😇😇

  • @UhMuthaFkinVirgo
    @UhMuthaFkinVirgo 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Proceed on yellow with caution…..

  • @barbieyork
    @barbieyork วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hello Beautiful family

  • @Shawn27ful
    @Shawn27ful 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It’s good to see you family!

  • @jayt7474
    @jayt7474 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Good seeing you guys what's happening with the boys? You did your very best if they're acting up.

  • @alisawooten
    @alisawooten 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm sorry to hear about the boys, just know that ya'll did well in raising them. It's a learning season now for them and I pray that they find their best in their journey. Love you guys 💞

  • @AntoinetteMiles-n5t
    @AntoinetteMiles-n5t วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi there family its been to long I just wanted you guys to know❤that I send peace and blessings from philadelphia my sometimes as parents you have to get out of your childrens way so they can make mistakes that will hopful teach them to go in a different direction and of course it will hurt you to see but that is a part of the process but it will get better

  • @MiscellaneousMichelle
    @MiscellaneousMichelle 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

  • @kiagray
    @kiagray 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Glad you guys are good😊

  • @mocha383
    @mocha383 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My prayers to y'all

  • @megandeann8402
    @megandeann8402 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Hey yall..glad yall safe

  • @JeffreyRay-tt5cz
    @JeffreyRay-tt5cz วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thumbs Up

  • @tamaratruetoomyself8652
    @tamaratruetoomyself8652 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hello Family❤

  • @catherinesmith2082
    @catherinesmith2082 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So happy to see yall

  • @tylinrr
    @tylinrr 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hello family

  • @kiagray
    @kiagray 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    A second vlog🎉

  • @jerrymarshall1360
    @jerrymarshall1360 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Why you curse so much?

    • @LoundaFurBabiez
      @LoundaFurBabiez วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      #1 He’s a grown azzzz man😂that’s y.

    • @Shannonsfamilymatters
      @Shannonsfamilymatters  วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thanks fam for handling that 💪🏾💯

    • @LoundaFurBabiez
      @LoundaFurBabiez 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Shannonsfamilymatters no problem 💪🏽