Men Struggle To Express Their EMOTIONS, Until You Do This!
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Men Struggle To Express Their EMOTIONS, Until You Do This...As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray you find this video helpful, and that you will receive the man who is truly best for you.
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You are right Stephan, as women we need to create a peaceful environment where the man will feel comfortable to open up. Thank you for your videos!
I feel like I have been very understanding with some guys and then became resentful because I wasn’t getting basic necessities met. Also I was abandoning myself when they would beg you to stay when you no longer felt like you belong there. Don’t abandon yourself because you’ll just become resentful
I can attest to this... I gave the safe space and all I got was sitting on patio every night for the past 2 years . Felt unseen and unheard... 😢 just started numbing myself with other things
I've come to realize that you can do whatever to try to get and keep somebody, and it won't work unless they want to be gotten and kept! Be your best, do you, and live your life! Peace!
I’ve been through it All! I’m a women in my 40’s & I know what it means to throw something in ur face constantly! Cuz I don’t want u to throw nothing in my face constantly! So I emphasize with this message 💯💯
Men throw things back just as much.. We have to hold back too, even when we really like someone and want to grow beyond friendship.
I have a problem with this notion somewhat. My ex would say that I was throwing up what I helped him with in his face when I tried to discuss it with him. Example: My ex was ok with me paying his phone bill but when I tried to help him find employment (which is what I do for a living) he had a problem with that b/c that was somehow offending his manhood. So I would ask him how he is ok with me paying his phone bill but not ok with me helping him look for employment. When I would ask him this, he would get upset saying I was throwing up the fact that I was paying his phone bill in his face and we would argue. I do not feel like me asking him about this hypocrisy was me throwing up in his face the fact I was paying his phone bill. As a man, please help me understand how this is me throwing how I help him in his face….. ANYONE!!!! (Preferably Stephan) But I would love someone else’s opinion as well.
I have two questions- 1. Why are YOU paying HIS phone bill? Let him pay it. It’s his responsibility. Don’t you want a man who can take care of himself first?
2. Why are you helping him look for employment? Let him figure it out. Be his cheerleader. Did you ask him if he would be open to you offering some suggestions or helping with the job search or did you just start telling him what he should be doing or what he should be thinking about? Just be an encourager to him. This is on you, not him. I wish you all the best (sincerely).
Sounds like he’s not stable, which means he’s not ready to focus on a relationship with you. He’s using mental capacity with you when he should be focused on providing for himself. Glad he’s an ex, just not ready.
He doesn't mind taking money from You, BUT has an issue with you trying to help him find work. Sounds like he just doesn't want to work/is looking for the 'perfect' job and is content with you funding (at least part of) his lifestyle. And that Ego! Your question is perfectly legitimate. Glad to hear that he is an EX.
I need to work on being more open and allowing myself to be more vulnerable to the man, I love. It’s so much harder to do than it is to say.
@Stephanspeaks... One thing some woman can also be aware of, is that some men (manipulators), bring their past relationship and throw it in the woman's face who was only having pure intentions. Then, they might say things like, "you throw my feelings into my face". But then its not you, it was their previous or current toxic girlfriend who did that. This happened to me, so many times, with my child's dad...and mind you, we are not even together. But yet he feels like, it's me throwing his feelings into his face. I know fr a fact I don't do that...because I love psychology. I practice psychology on all humans. Because I Believe human beings should feel, like their feelings are important. And they should let their negative feelings come out, otherwise it will toxicate them inside. Especially when I did soul researching, I realized, he always comes and dump his toxic girlfriend's issues on me... probably because he cannot confront them, otherwise they will threaten him again...etc.
You are a wonderful coach for we women. Thank you so much for your insight. We need help understanding men.
Wow 😯🙌🏼 look at God using you to speak to me today 🙏🏼 thank you for this video it really did what it was supposed to do. Ladies make sure you seek God’s kingdom and you will know if that man is the one God has for you 💯 Stop making the devil/enemy deceive you!
You are doing so phenomenal I didn't even know about the clips page so so proud of you and all of your discipline towards your predestined life from the Lord
Stephen, how can a woman remind a man of something that he told her to use it as an example of something that he’s repeating without the man saying she’s bringing it back up? He will swear he’s never said it or done it before.
Good video, Stephan. Thank you!❤
I have a question. You've explained how a rich man will marry a broke woman. Will a rich man marry a who is working on her weight? Would he support her weight loss journey? Do men support their women's weight journey?
If he likes you it shouldn’t be a problem it’s about the connection and him being intentional moving forward if his feeling you. Weight is an issue for some but there are some grown men who look at your character, your energy and how you will fit in his lifestyle. Best advice I can give you is keep working on yourself and the right one you shall attract 💯 regardless of how you look keep going sis.
Yes he will help you and encourage you if he cares about you because he will care about your health and he knows that it will benefit both of you to care for each other!
If your his type,yes.But you have to be Thier type when they meet you,men are very surface level when it comes to attraction.So work on getting fit, healthy.And when your the most satisfied with yourself,that's when you can let a man in your atmosphere.Many men like curvy,fat women.Depends mainly how you carry yourself.Remembet,both men and women. Nobody wants to get with a "loser".Sad truth because people want Thier partners to bring them 'value'.
@@AK03705, Thank you, very much for the advice! Blessings sent your way in JESUS' mighty name.❤️🙏🏽
What advice do you have for a relationship that isn’t going anywhere? Specifically what happens when you walk away and eventually he wants to work it out? Do men truly have a realization that they passed up a good thing? New subscriber here 😊
Yes if you go no contact and not react to their breadcrumbing until they make a direct serious effort to commit.
Move on. Forget them. You deserve better.
Whereas I stay quiet, and simply tell him, "you know for a fact I don't do that to you...and that is your girlfriend doing that to you. So maybe go and confront her about what she does to you." Although I know he won't.
I was always thinking mother and father prepares child for life journey.I was wrong...Man can't talk, parents did not teach him communication..
Stephan nice video thanks
Would you please do a video on what you mean by "throw it back in his face" -- including examples. I think it's a very ambiguous phrase, and many women might be shocked to hear what "throwing it back in his face" means to a man. What exactly does that look like? **EXAMPLES** Thanks
Bringing up past mistakes
@@basicinfo2022mistakes ? Or deliberate disrespect and disregard…
@gabrielamartiniuc6322 lol true, I agree but if you decide to stay with that man then it won't work if you keep bringing up past. Get a new man if you cant forgive him
@@basicinfo2022 he was left.
@gabrielamartiniuc6322 same girl lol never taking toxic men seriously. They never change, they just get worse and better at manipulating you. Men play dumb but they are actually very strategic and emotionally intelligent. They know exactly what theyre doing to you and why.
This really helped me and I like watching your videos 😊
Men do this a lot 👁️
I will talk to each other I don’t have a problem with talking about anything at all
Great video totally agree you always deliver thank you ❤
I really don’t even know what is going on when things were happening I truly just really want to know though 😢
Thank you!
Thank you
Shove in an advert and I'm gone!
True
Godly fever needs to share what's in his mind
U are amazing !! Could you make a video where you can explain us "how to tell a man to make our lives easier (e.g. have someone that help with kids or with house) in order to have MORE SEX For us?" I hope u got the topic :) I am not an English mothertongue
Stop giving until you receive more
@user-bv5f3tx3w I think that it might vary somewhat based on the man's personality. I am big on priority order. Not running around in vague generalized circles. I would want a woman to get to the bottom line and be specific about which tasks she needs help with and what order of importance they are to her. Also, I respond well when having sugary beverages such as raspberry tea when having those kinds of discussions.
Just saying....
You keep saying “throw it back in their face” but idk what that means… Trying to understand this video.
The opposite of being received with grace. If I express how I'm feeling and the reaction is to criticize me, insult me, or invalidate me. Also, "throw it back in your face" may manifest as emasculation at a later point using my emotionally weak moments or vulnerability as the ammunition.
Risky business ok
This was mostly directed to those MOTOR mouth ladies out there
Yes men are fed up
Claim up and change this annoying attitude once and for all
WOW. SEXIST!!
To me this sounds stuipd because yall act like men dont use what a woman says and. Do the same.... if u can talk to each other you simply dont date..
And go to therapy... but yall date crappy women and blame everyone else
Please cut your dreads and shorten your beard. Ugh. You are so amazing but I’m so tired of looking at it! Much love just my two cents
Girl, bye! The rest of us love it here!!! This is a handsome man and he gives amazing advice!
Keep your less than encouraging comments to yourself. If you don’t want to see it, listen to the vid with no visual or watch a different TH-camr.
You really think your opinion about his hair/ beard gonna make him cut it.... sounds like something is wrong with you... wonder what your appearances looks like....if you don't like what he looks like stop watching him... I'm sure you won't be missed.... much love and definitely will pray for you!!
@@BrendaDavis-bl6cm😂😂
Certainly out of pace
Who are u to dictate how he should keep his locks and beard ?
His beard and locks equally enhances his handsomeness
And we LOVE it
Tell this to your man next time