My femininity has boundaries. I am warm, patient, and nurturing to my husband when he is warm, compromising, and understanding. I will not let my husband abuse or mistreat me in the name of staying "sweet." I only tap into my masculine when I feel my feminine is at risk of being abused or taken advantage of. Being feminine does NOT mean being a fool. Thank you sis for the video
I agree that high society doesn’t mean femininity, however I feel when we are on our feminine journey, learning from all different types of women and sources is important. I am middle class (financially) and will never be a part of high society, however I recently learned I’ve been holding a wine glass incorrectly for years, I’m 41. I didn’t know the stem was meant to be held, not the bowl of the glass. Confidence is key to our femininity and if we learn how to present ourselves with proper manners, self care, dining etiquette, slowing down, softening our voice, our apparel, our words, our smile and learning to dissolve arguments with emotional intelligence, we will arrive in our femininity full circle. Google, read, TH-cam, watch, listen and learn from every classy feminine woman you can find. You are on the top of my list, I don’t believe there’s a video of yours I haven’t watched. Thank you for sharing your wisdom!
I will never be soft spoken. However, I want to implement some of the key aspects of femininity in my life. Not all of them. I still want to be myself because some people view femininity as a personality.
I still struggle with my womanhood and femininity because when I was little, I was taught that I can not be “fast” like other girls. However, the other girls were decorating their rooms with girly items (I had posters of musicians on my walls). My niece was reading romantic novels at the age of 15 and when I was her age, I was forbidden to read that stuff. I am still very intimidated by women that are feminine and growing in their womanhood and I wish I was more like that. I have been on this feminine journey for 2 years…and I just turn 40. I still feel like that hurt little girl that is hiding from the world. I do dress femininely and I did as little girl/teenager. I still feel so immature in comparison to other women. I just want to flourish and grow in my femininity and womanhood. Thank you Dr Michelle for this video I needed this❤️
I think not arguing or butting heads with your husband is a great way to exercise femininity❤️ compassion and understanding are some of the most delicate, feminine things in the world💕
Some emotionally abusive or emotionally unintelligent men strip women of femininity. Their intuition, which is a huge part of divine feminity, is diminished by gaslighting far too often. Many men, raised with misogynistic and patriarchal beliefs do not want us to have the wisdom and strength we have as feminine women. If you don’t have a respectful loving husband, it will be hard not to argue. He must love you and that’s his responsibility
I just realized how I lost some my feminine energy. As a teenager, I was so feminine and sexy. Men would gawk at me. I hated it. It pushed me to walk out of my femininity and into my masculinity to be seen as one of the guys. This is one reason i do not smile at men. I feel "fast" and traumatized, they will see my smile as a reason to approach me inappropriately. Then add on being the oldest child to a single mother. I was the protector and savior. Now I am struggling to walking in my natural femininity again.
You and I sound like we've had similar journeys. I developed early and got a lot of attention from boys and men. This made me uncomfortable. I deliberately gained weight and dressed sloppily as a way to "hide" and it worked. I was the middle child of a single mother, but I too was the protector and savior. Now I'm in my 40's and I'm just learning how to allow myself to be soft and vulnerable again. I also dress more feminine now and take more effort with my hair. It's a process, but I'm getting there.
Ohh queen, you are not alone in this! I (like many I'm sure in this over-sexualizing society where our kids aren't even safe from wandering eyes) witnessed this uncomfortability even with my own family members so I completely resonate. I'm raising a daughter now at 24 and I'm so scared tbh as well as excited because I know ultimately, you can't walk the wrong way when walking with God. But connecting as women to teach each other and learn from each other is pivotal I think in healing this type of discomfort and I hope we can connect if you'd like! Please send me a message on instagram if you'd like! Trying to build a circle of inspiring females in my life. IG- GodAcquaintance
Good morning! I told my husband this morning that my mission today was not to argue with him and to myself, I said I needed to work on my femininity and your video pops up. :) I love listening to your videos, it’s so empowering. Thank you!
Does your husband support and nurture your feminine with a healthy masculinity?? If his masculinity is toxic, will power won’t be enough. He has to cultivate this environment where you can lean into being feminine
@@kyaunam it’s interesting you brought this up because I have felt uninspired to be feminine when I’m with him. Although he tells me that he would like to see me be more feminine, it just does not come out of me. Something that is a big factor is the way I dress. I used to dress really feminine but my husband started to have an issue with what I wore and how other men looked at me. So I had to change the way I dress for him and that makes me feel like I can’t be me.
@@imperfection3295 This means your husband is insecure and not grounded in his masculinity. He is lacking masculine confidence and that’s why he tried to change your wardrobe. A true masculine man wouldn’t care if other men are looking at you because he is confident in himself. Your previous comment about arguing makes more sense now. Your husband is not inspiring you to be feminine and his lack of masculinity can slowly turn into resentment and bickering. If he doesn’t tap into his masculinity you will slowly lose respect for him and that can cause more and more arguing. It won’t matter how feminine you are being if your husband is not playing the masculine role. Two feminine energies in a relationship/marriage will eventually cause a lot of disagreements and butting heads. Best of luck through your marriage.
@@FM-zg5hz This is exactly it. I felt so much resentment because of this. It’s such a turn off seeing that he is insecure when he is bothered by other men. I felt like I was going crazy at one point. It’s refreshing when someone else can also see my point of view. Thank you so much
Before I fell in love I was unbelievably messy. It shook me and I purged and cleaned everything. I’m curious what caused me to be messy my whole life and what is happening in the mind when we are messy.
Dr.Michelle you are truly guided by the Holy Spirit. Whenever I’m feeling stressed or sad I literally just throw on one of your videos that I’ve already seen in the background and it soothes me. Your energy radiates 💕
I struggle with being warm. I really want to bring this energy into my life and I pray to God that one day I can. ❤ Can you please elaborate more on the topic?
I love your videos. You teach in a very kind way. In a way that doesn't make me feel like I failed at being a woman. I am Autistic. So learning new skills and especially social skills is so hard. But your videos are helping me. I did want to ask. Can hobbies be feminine? I love art and drawing. Painting. Also sewing and making costumes. All of which seem very feminine and peaceful I'm also a martial artist and I'm learning to be strong/coordinated and also self defense for when I'm alone and my fiance deploys. It seems very masculine but the ability to stand strong and defend myself If someone tries to hurt me brings me comfort and peace because I can go anywhere and feel like I am safe and secure. Thank you again Dr.
Yes , creativity is a feminine trait so all the hobbies you listed are definitely feminine and can absolutely help you feel more in touch with your womanhood. Martial arts is great as well, it encompasses a masculine trait and women are supposed to have masculine traits as well (ambition, leadership, etc.). Especially since you’ve connected it to your womanhood and you’ve acknowledged that it allows you to feel safer as you embrace your femininity, I definitely encourage you to continue what you’re doing. I would recommend after the martial arts classes, try doing something more feminine related after , like coming home and taking a nice relaxing bath and lighting candles and journaling or something!
I’m autistic as well! These videos are a great start, but ultimately I always think “okay, so how can I do it in my own way?” I found that just being myself (I’m kinda childlike) really attracts people! I’m always giggling and smiling. I have certain stims that I do (I mask some of them tho) that people find charming and quirky. Being naturally curious and willing to learn is such a great trait we have! Especially if it comes to our special interests. I also draw, paint, play piano, writing, reading, fashion, baking, etc. All of my hobbies are creative and feminine, people love it and so do I :) And sometimes I have tics (maybe that’s the adhd in me as well) and my current boyfriend says he finds them adorable. He says I make him feel like a teenager again lol (even tho he’s only 23, but he has such a old soul and act like an old man. That’s actually one of my nicknames for him lol). Social cues are tricky, but I learned people are drawn to me because they think I am care-free and flowy (when in reality, idk what the heck is going on lol). It’s a breath of fresh air and certainly makes you stand out because our brain works so much differently than others. People are drawn to our uniqueness. I used to try to blend in when I was younger, and it backfired. So instead, I decided to standout as much as possible and embrace my autism. It’s okay that I do things differently than others, we bring something new to everyone’s routine (routine can be boring for most.) We’re intriguing and people want to learn more about us. While there are tons of downsides (like having to make eye contact while speaking with someone, for example), we can still take advantage of being autistic and use that to enhance our femininity :)
Oh I didn't think I was feminine enough until you mentioned baking and decorating😅..I bake for all the kids close to us and make sure their birthdays are lit😍🥰. I started like that and now it has become a side business for me🤩...always learning on this channel❤
I adore how diverse this channel is, honestly 🥺 seeing all sorts of women shown in your videos, and all sorts of women in the comment section is beautiful and amazing.
#1 Creativity - developing things they see, beautifying spaces, cooking, spice things up, trying different things, help make a mans vision become a reality, guiding #2 Inner radiance - inner joy, shine, positivity, and uplifting. Feminine woman find the joy in everything. What is your purpose, what are you here to do? #3 Overall cleanliness - tidy and clean hair, teeth, skin, nails, clothes, room, home, car. Be conscious about cleanliness and make it a priority. Looking put together. Cleanliness is godliness. #4 Warmth - peace and joy within, not cold and stuck up, no barriers blocking them from being seen, comfortable in their own skin regardless of circumstances, open and comfortable bringing people into your life. Inviting and approachable. #5 Feminine movement- flow with your body, take ballet classes, good posture, not stiff, hip and shoulder movement, loosen up #6 Desire to Nurture- how to nurture yourself and others, care for animals and plants, elderly. Be happy knowing it is natural to nurture #6 appearance - clothing, accessories, makeup, things that accentuate womanhood #7 Smiling - helps develop warmth & look inviting, nurturing, joyful, smiling makes you look radiant, and puts you in a friendly disposition. #8 Vulnerability- you don’t have a bunch of walls that stop you from being who you are or getting to know you, you are warm, friendly, and open.
I would add Pilates to the ballet part. Pilates also helps with core strength, have grace and overall it just great for feminine movement and not being stiff
💐🌺💐 You wouldn't believe how excited I get when I see a notification that you have produced a new video...ESPECIALLY ON FEMININITY! I am a consistent student on this topic even at age 60!!! It's been my hobby since I was in my late teens starting with the book "Fascinating Womanhood." Of course, as the world changed I tried to change but being in my masculine never worked. Anyway, I've seen many many benefits from being a feminine elegant lady and I will FOREVER walk in my divine femininity. Thank you for helping ladies of all ages walk in their femininity as well. Blessings 🌷💐🌷
That's fantastic love! I am so happy to hear that. I am so happy you returned to what your true nature is regardless of what the world has tried to do to us.
Beautifully said. As woman it’s okay to embrace our femininity. The world tells us to be tough, but we were already created to be tough when we give birth. I love this because through God we can do all things - even when we feel weak He is our strength and through that strength our femininity has so much power, when and only we use it in order, the right order by allowing God to amend the broken pieces and guide us. New follower here and on Spotify under Xoxo. God bless you.
Thank you so much. Learning more and more everyday. I grew up tomboy and played sports all my life, now that I am an adult in a relationship my goal is to become a feminine woman. You really have helped me greatly, I re listen to your videos everyday, including your podcast. Thank you!
Hiii Michelle, loveeeee your videos, its Farrah 👋 im Arabian living in Texas i love that you put variety of people pictures in your vedios , women from all over the world. 🌎🙌🏼
I believe True femininity is when we embrace who we are and take care of it as well....ie hair, nails etc...black women wear ur real hair.....with luv 💖 from a feminine woman
As someone who really didn't have this information present within their life, this is really helpful. I didn't really have a mom growing up, but I find that within you. Though I don't know you, you truly are where i go when I need support, and to feel okay with myself, and work on myself. Thank you so much for being that person for me
hooo what a lovely way of putting things into perspective, I enjoyed this video very much and I will recommend more of my friends to watch. maybe you are the last woman standing, most women these days think they are men.
I really love how you included black women with natural hair unlike those other black "femininity channels" who only include black women with a more Eurocentric look or or that are wearing a weave. I love the good representation!
After experiencing traumas I feel I have disconnected for my feminine energy. It has been hars reconnecting to it and trust after experiencing different type of abuse. I feel I have been masculine and repelling men. Thank you for these videos
You talk about creativity but one issue I have is after working all day I feel like I don’t have energy to be creative or give as much time as I want to my hobbies and passions. Even cleaning is hard. Spent all weekend cleaning up because I wanted it clean before I have baby lol.
I cannot thank you enough for making this video. I just subscribed to the podcast. I felt like I wasn’t feminine at all until you confirmed that I was. I do need some fine tunings in some areas but for the most part I definitely am!!! Keep doing the Lord’s work Sis!!!
Hi Dr. Michael, I am in my thirties but many times I feel people treat me like a child. I do look much younger than my age, but I know it is not the cause for the way they treat me like a child. I believe femininity is the solution to my problem, it can help me become a complete woman inside out. Could you please have a video about how femininity can help us grow up and move away from our childish attitudes, which sometimes referred to as boyish behaviours for a girl?
Thank you so much for being obedient. There's so much information out there by women who are walking in the wisdom of the world... Now, while some of what they say is relevant and applicable, I have to sift through their content to get the good out of it but in the process I get to consume some junk too which I don't like. What I want is the wisdom of God and not manipulation tactics... Jesus said be wise as serpents yet gentle as doves. So yes it's important to hear what those women have to say too but our motives must never be to harm anyone... Plus, God is the one who works things out in our favor. You're a light, Sis, a very bright light! God bless you! I appreciate what you do so so much. Thank you!!!
Wonderful video with very clear and informative explanations. I have been on my feminine journey for a little over a year now and rely on Dr. Michelle's knowledge as guidance on this journey. I am still messy in my environment and get frustrated with myself, so it's very encouraging to know that its ok to know that the phase of my life I'm in makes this more challenging and its ok. I do have such a full plate and that its so important for me to take that into consideration on my journey.
This video just taught me that I’m not feminine 😫 I’m not creative. I’m naturally logical and straight to the point and have a hard time thinking out of the box. I’m not warm. This is situational. I’m currently very busy and the first thing that goes when I’m overwhelmed is my warmth. The only one who gets my warmth is my husband. I’m clean-ish but only because I hire a cleaning service. I have a 1 year old so that’s not a priority. I don’t move in a feminine way. I am currently pregnant so I just waddle. Etc etc. There’s a lot to work on.
Hi Dr. Michelle. I appreciate the fact that that you enlightening our fellow women out here to be confident and embrace their femininity because many women don't realize their potential in expressing their femininity and be happy. And by the way you look smart and beautiful as always😀.
Warmth doest come naturally with me. People have called me cold, intimidating, and standoffish. Can you make a video on how to develop warmth? I love and play sports. I never done dance or even took interest in it. Are there other things that I can do to be more flowy?
Yes, I can. Dance is the best way to do this and there are a variety of dances throughout many cultures that you may fancy once you do research. Try doing fitness with hula hoop.
i had learned a lot by watching your videos every single day, had learned to lean back and be more feminine.Thank you Ms.Michelle💞watching from Bahrain🇧🇭
You are so right about guys mimicking us to be feminine. As I was walking in Walmart today, with my daughter my arm was swinging and I maybe had a little bounce. Some guy looked at me a did the exact same walk! he didn’t even care I was watching lol
i have thought of not leavening a comment as some may see me as sinful, (been on a downhill moment for a long time) just getting by, but thanks to the Getting ahead program getting things back on track, and it can not be from nowhere has to be that is was meant to happen this way things are just falling in to place well a little hitch here or there BUT mostly for the good and ALL good thing come from The Lord now do not know what or how i fit, just i was off , not a "off the shelf" woman but have been this way for as long as i can recall and trying to be the best me that i can be, why i look at videos like this one want to be a whole person in other words not just wanting to be, more of living as who i feel i am need to be and find someone to love me but want to do it it in the proper way so thank you so very much nicole
Thank you Dr. Michelle! I loved this! Also just a technical critique, I noticed with many of your recent videos that the music is waaaay louder than your voice. I find myself adjusting the volume throughout the video. I thought you'd like to know if you didn't already.
Thank you for this amazing video! I struggle with smiling/looking kind and approachable in public, because I’ve had older men approach me with sleazy comments, and now I just shut down.. any advice please?❤️
I was never excited to be a woman .a girl anything feminine meant weakness and stupidity in the house I grew UP IN.( TOXIC) we were female but being left alone or avoiding being mocked meant behaving like a man....I want this to be over with 😭😭😭MY VOICE is so deep 🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆😭😭😭😭 😩😩am scared I might sound like lil Wayne in 10 more years 🙅🙅🙅🙅...I HAVE alot of work to DO 😩
Thank you so much for this content which is so helpful to so many women around the world. To God be the glory for what he’s done, is doing, and will do! 💖💕💖💕💖💕
You look great Dr. DAF... THANK YOU FOR YOUR CONSISTENCY AND UNDERSTANDING. YOUNHAVE HELPED ME SO MUCH AND I CANT WAIT TO LOOK BACK AND SAY TOU WERE A MAJOR PART OF MY TRANSFORMATION.💗💗
@13:55 here's a different perspective that is actually a true fact; not everyone with "clean" skin has clean skin. Here's what I mean and no offense in how I am gonna explain it, some people never ever wash their face, or just once in a while, some even put on make up. They get no acne, no blemishes, so uou say they have good hygiene and clean skin. Whereas, some go through vigorous face care regimens daily, and some even twice a day. These people wash, tone, moisturize, some even drink a lot of water, but still get acne and/or blemishes. This can be based on hormones, family genetics, severe stress, etc. So when people deem and categorize people by clean skin, then it's like they are putting the others in a dirty skin or poor hygiene bracket which is usually fully deceptive, aka looks are deceiving. Lotsa people have "clean" skin cause they have tough skin, it's not sensitive, it's always keeping its form no matter what germs are on it. The best word would be clear skin, or perfect complexion cause then it is a true reflection of reality, and not basing it on cleanliness. P.s. I have been enjoying your channel, I just found it, I use it as a Netflix series aka binge watching you cause you are elegant, feminine, intelligent, informative, etc. 😊😊❤️❤️
This video is so helpful. I just found your channel. New subbie! Can you delve into shifting into the feminine during marriage? How to do it, how the dynamic of the relationship may change, problems & benefits that may come up, etc? I have trouble resting into my feminine because I have played to my masculine side a lot in our marriage and I believe he is comfortable with that. But I am tired. I am not sure that he will rise to the occasion as leader but I like to hope that if I shift, so will he.
That part about helping men is what I would love more info about. I’m unfortunately masculine in that regard, feeling lost not knowing my dreams. I was recently in love with a wonderful man and it woke me up to how much more feminine I wanted to be. I no longer care about being boss mode, but I realize I have a long way to go to help a man like that in his success and being his supporter. Makes me sad I wasted years trying to live like what I now see as manly. Dance also helped me see this. Being a follower is an art unto itself. I’d love a video on if it’s possible to work and be feminine because my job makes me feel manly.
Everything was good, except for the generalizations about men and women. It is not necessary to see women as not as physically strong as men, but instead our physical strength is distributed differently. The pelvic floor muscles, for example, are incredibly strong.
Yes, but overall, we generally aren't as physically strong as men though. If the average man were to grab the average woman's arm intently, she isn't going anywhere. That's all that she was getting at. There's nothing wrong with that either. A hand can't do what an eye can because they have different purposes, but both are equally important.
My femininity has boundaries. I am warm, patient, and nurturing to my husband when he is warm, compromising, and understanding. I will not let my husband abuse or mistreat me in the name of staying "sweet." I only tap into my masculine when I feel my feminine is at risk of being abused or taken advantage of. Being feminine does NOT mean being a fool. Thank you sis for the video
This is how I strive to be. Feminine, balanced, and emotionally healthy.
Setting and maintaining healthy boundaries never requires having to step out of our femininity. My perspective..
@@ggsexquisitedesserts9446 thank you for your perspective. Boundaries require adjustments sometimes
Beautifully said
I agree with your perspective.
I love the way you always include God even in ur videos.
Always. Without God everything is meaningless. Thank you for watching love
I agree that high society doesn’t mean femininity, however I feel when we are on our feminine journey, learning from all different types of women and sources is important. I am middle class (financially) and will never be a part of high society, however I recently learned I’ve been holding a wine glass incorrectly for years, I’m 41. I didn’t know the stem was meant to be held, not the bowl of the glass. Confidence is key to our femininity and if we learn how to present ourselves with proper manners, self care, dining etiquette, slowing down, softening our voice, our apparel, our words, our smile and learning to dissolve arguments with emotional intelligence, we will arrive in our femininity full circle. Google, read, TH-cam, watch, listen and learn from every classy feminine woman you can find. You are on the top of my list, I don’t believe there’s a video of yours I haven’t watched. Thank you for sharing your wisdom!
This is so beautiful and a all rounder of femininity. I recently started my journey and this came in handy ❤
I will never be soft spoken. However, I want to implement some of the key aspects of femininity in my life. Not all of them. I still want to be myself because some people view femininity as a personality.
I still struggle with my womanhood and femininity because when I was little, I was taught that I can not be “fast” like other girls. However, the other girls were decorating their rooms with girly items (I had posters of musicians on my walls). My niece was reading romantic novels at the age of 15 and when I was her age, I was forbidden to read that stuff. I am still very intimidated by women that are feminine and growing in their womanhood and I wish I was more like that. I have been on this feminine journey for 2 years…and I just turn 40. I still feel like that hurt little girl that is hiding from the world. I do dress femininely and I did as little girl/teenager. I still feel so immature in comparison to other women. I just want to flourish and grow in my femininity and womanhood. Thank you Dr Michelle for this video I needed this❤️
Wishing you the best in your journey🥺 I hope that little girl inside of you flourishes as you grow and find your self definition of femininity❤️
Best of luck, Kreez! Like she said in the video, do not be ashamed of where you are, especially if you are working towards your goal.
@@pikakoo8253 Thank you so much for the words of encouragement. I truly appreciate it. Also I love that you said my own definition of femininity❤️❤️
@@OoDeLallyB Thank you so much. I have to learn how to have tunnel vision on certain things and this is one of them. I appreciate your kind words.❤️❤️
You can do this. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
You got this. ⭐⭐⭐
I think not arguing or butting heads with your husband is a great way to exercise femininity❤️ compassion and understanding are some of the most delicate, feminine things in the world💕
Yes! I’m working on this.
Some emotionally abusive or emotionally unintelligent men strip women of femininity. Their intuition, which is a huge part of divine feminity, is diminished by gaslighting far too often. Many men, raised with misogynistic and patriarchal beliefs do not want us to have the wisdom and strength we have as feminine women. If you don’t have a respectful loving husband, it will be hard not to argue. He must love you and that’s his responsibility
I'm a man with a lot of feminine energy and I think masculine women are very good in bed.
@@kyaunam I meant within a healthy, loving relationship. It is easy to get caught up in our own wants and needs we forget to care for the other :)
I just realized how I lost some my feminine energy. As a teenager, I was so feminine and sexy. Men would gawk at me. I hated it. It pushed me to walk out of my femininity and into my masculinity to be seen as one of the guys. This is one reason i do not smile at men. I feel "fast" and traumatized, they will see my smile as a reason to approach me inappropriately. Then add on being the oldest child to a single mother. I was the protector and savior. Now I am struggling to walking in my natural femininity again.
You and I sound like we've had similar journeys. I developed early and got a lot of attention from boys and men. This made me uncomfortable. I deliberately gained weight and dressed sloppily as a way to "hide" and it worked. I was the middle child of a single mother, but I too was the protector and savior. Now I'm in my 40's and I'm just learning how to allow myself to be soft and vulnerable again. I also dress more feminine now and take more effort with my hair. It's a process, but I'm getting there.
@@misspriss2482 shameful we had to hide and not be able to feel comfortable within out own skin.
You and I had the same issue! I've healed though so can you:)if you need advice,I'm here
Ohh queen, you are not alone in this! I (like many I'm sure in this over-sexualizing society where our kids aren't even safe from wandering eyes) witnessed this uncomfortability even with my own family members so I completely resonate. I'm raising a daughter now at 24 and I'm so scared tbh as well as excited because I know ultimately, you can't walk the wrong way when walking with God. But connecting as women to teach each other and learn from each other is pivotal I think in healing this type of discomfort and I hope we can connect if you'd like! Please send me a message on instagram if you'd like! Trying to build a circle of inspiring females in my life. IG- GodAcquaintance
Good morning! I told my husband this morning that my mission today was not to argue with him and to myself, I said I needed to work on my femininity and your video pops up. :) I love listening to your videos, it’s so empowering. Thank you!
Does your husband support and nurture your feminine with a healthy masculinity?? If his masculinity is toxic, will power won’t be enough. He has to cultivate this environment where you can lean into being feminine
@@kyaunam it’s interesting you brought this up because I have felt uninspired to be feminine when I’m with him. Although he tells me that he would like to see me be more feminine, it just does not come out of me. Something that is a big factor is the way I dress. I used to dress really feminine but my husband started to have an issue with what I wore and how other men looked at me. So I had to change the way I dress for him and that makes me feel like I can’t be me.
@@imperfection3295 This means your husband is insecure and not grounded in his masculinity. He is lacking masculine confidence and that’s why he tried to change your wardrobe. A true masculine man wouldn’t care if other men are looking at you because he is confident in himself. Your previous comment about arguing makes more sense now. Your husband is not inspiring you to be feminine and his lack of masculinity can slowly turn into resentment and bickering. If he doesn’t tap into his masculinity you will slowly lose respect for him and that can cause more and more arguing. It won’t matter how feminine you are being if your husband is not playing the masculine role. Two feminine energies in a relationship/marriage will eventually cause a lot of disagreements and butting heads. Best of luck through your marriage.
@@FM-zg5hz This is exactly it. I felt so much resentment because of this. It’s such a turn off seeing that he is insecure when he is bothered by other men. I felt like I was going crazy at one point. It’s refreshing when someone else can also see my point of view. Thank you so much
Thank you for this community. The Bible has helped me to relax too. This is a journey, for sure.
Reading the Bible is very relaxing and I am thankful you are here.
Before I fell in love I was unbelievably messy. It shook me and I purged and cleaned everything. I’m curious what caused me to be messy my whole life and what is happening in the mind when we are messy.
💠 “Acknowledging the good that you already have in your life is the foundation for all abundance”
-Eckart Tolle
Love from Level Up Your Life Channel 💖
Dr.Michelle you are truly guided by the Holy Spirit. Whenever I’m feeling stressed or sad I literally just throw on one of your videos that I’ve already seen in the background and it soothes me. Your energy radiates 💕
That is so sweet and touching. I thank God you experience this. Thank you for sharing that love!
I struggle with being warm. I really want to bring this energy into my life and I pray to God that one day I can. ❤ Can you please elaborate more on the topic?
Yes, I can love
@@drmichelledaf Thank you so much. And thank you for your beautiful content.❤
I love your videos. You teach in a very kind way. In a way that doesn't make me feel like I failed at being a woman. I am Autistic. So learning new skills and especially social skills is so hard. But your videos are helping me.
I did want to ask. Can hobbies be feminine? I love art and drawing. Painting. Also sewing and making costumes. All of which seem very feminine and peaceful
I'm also a martial artist and I'm learning to be strong/coordinated and also self defense for when I'm alone and my fiance deploys. It seems very masculine but the ability to stand strong and defend myself If someone tries to hurt me brings me comfort and peace because I can go anywhere and feel like I am safe and secure.
Thank you again Dr.
Yes , creativity is a feminine trait so all the hobbies you listed are definitely feminine and can absolutely help you feel more in touch with your womanhood. Martial arts is great as well, it encompasses a masculine trait and women are supposed to have masculine traits as well (ambition, leadership, etc.). Especially since you’ve connected it to your womanhood and you’ve acknowledged that it allows you to feel safer as you embrace your femininity, I definitely encourage you to continue what you’re doing. I would recommend after the martial arts classes, try doing something more feminine related after , like coming home and taking a nice relaxing bath and lighting candles and journaling or something!
I’m autistic as well! These videos are a great start, but ultimately I always think “okay, so how can I do it in my own way?” I found that just being myself (I’m kinda childlike) really attracts people! I’m always giggling and smiling. I have certain stims that I do (I mask some of them tho) that people find charming and quirky. Being naturally curious and willing to learn is such a great trait we have! Especially if it comes to our special interests. I also draw, paint, play piano, writing, reading, fashion, baking, etc. All of my hobbies are creative and feminine, people love it and so do I :) And sometimes I have tics (maybe that’s the adhd in me as well) and my current boyfriend says he finds them adorable. He says I make him feel like a teenager again lol (even tho he’s only 23, but he has such a old soul and act like an old man. That’s actually one of my nicknames for him lol).
Social cues are tricky, but I learned people are drawn to me because they think I am care-free and flowy (when in reality, idk what the heck is going on lol). It’s a breath of fresh air and certainly makes you stand out because our brain works so much differently than others. People are drawn to our uniqueness. I used to try to blend in when I was younger, and it backfired. So instead, I decided to standout as much as possible and embrace my autism. It’s okay that I do things differently than others, we bring something new to everyone’s routine (routine can be boring for most.) We’re intriguing and people want to learn more about us.
While there are tons of downsides (like having to make eye contact while speaking with someone, for example), we can still take advantage of being autistic and use that to enhance our femininity :)
Oh I didn't think I was feminine enough until you mentioned baking and decorating😅..I bake for all the kids close to us and make sure their birthdays are lit😍🥰. I started like that and now it has become a side business for me🤩...always learning on this channel❤
Good morning! I literally just told myself that my focus is being a high value and powerful woman and your video pops up 😄
Good morning love 🤍 God is on your side
I adore how diverse this channel is, honestly 🥺 seeing all sorts of women shown in your videos, and all sorts of women in the comment section is beautiful and amazing.
#1 Creativity - developing things they see, beautifying spaces, cooking, spice things up, trying different things, help make a mans vision become a reality, guiding
#2 Inner radiance - inner joy, shine, positivity, and uplifting. Feminine woman find the joy in everything. What is your purpose, what are you here to do?
#3 Overall cleanliness - tidy and clean hair, teeth, skin, nails, clothes, room, home, car. Be conscious about cleanliness and make it a priority. Looking put together. Cleanliness is godliness.
#4 Warmth - peace and joy within, not cold and stuck up, no barriers blocking them from being seen, comfortable in their own skin regardless of circumstances, open and comfortable bringing people into your life. Inviting and approachable.
#5 Feminine movement- flow with your body, take ballet classes, good posture, not stiff, hip and shoulder movement, loosen up
#6 Desire to Nurture- how to nurture yourself and others, care for animals and plants, elderly. Be happy knowing it is natural to nurture
#6 appearance - clothing, accessories, makeup, things that accentuate womanhood
#7 Smiling - helps develop warmth & look inviting, nurturing, joyful, smiling makes you look radiant, and puts you in a friendly disposition.
#8 Vulnerability- you don’t have a bunch of walls that stop you from being who you are or getting to know you, you are warm, friendly, and open.
I would add Pilates to the ballet part. Pilates also helps with core strength, have grace and overall it just great for feminine movement and not being stiff
💐🌺💐 You wouldn't believe how excited I get when I see a notification that you have produced a new video...ESPECIALLY ON FEMININITY! I am a consistent student on this topic even at age 60!!! It's been my hobby since I was in my late teens starting with the book "Fascinating Womanhood." Of course, as the world changed I tried to change but being in my masculine never worked.
Anyway, I've seen many many benefits from being a feminine elegant lady and I will FOREVER walk in my divine femininity.
Thank you for helping ladies of all ages walk in their femininity as well.
Blessings 🌷💐🌷
That's fantastic love! I am so happy to hear that. I am so happy you returned to what your true nature is regardless of what the world has tried to do to us.
Fascinating womanhood is an amazing book.I wish every woman could read it
Beautifully said. As woman it’s okay to embrace our femininity. The world tells us to be tough, but we were already created to be tough when we give birth. I love this because through God we can do all things - even when we feel weak He is our strength and through that strength our femininity has so much power, when and only we use it in order, the right order by allowing God to amend the broken pieces and guide us. New follower here and on Spotify under Xoxo. God bless you.
The prayer at the endddd🥺🥺🥰🥰 Thank you for existing!!💖💕
Thank you so much. Learning more and more everyday. I grew up tomboy and played sports all my life, now that I am an adult in a relationship my goal is to become a feminine woman. You really have helped me greatly, I re listen to your videos everyday, including your podcast. Thank you!
Hiii Michelle, loveeeee your videos, its Farrah 👋 im Arabian living in Texas i love that you put variety of people pictures in your vedios , women from all over the world. 🌎🙌🏼
Thank you Farrah! Yes, we are one. Much love to you
Much more love to you too ❤️❤️ you made my day yaaaay 💃🏻💃🏻
I believe True femininity is when we embrace who we are and take care of it as well....ie hair, nails etc...black women wear ur real hair.....with luv 💖 from a feminine woman
Always such a breath of fresh air. Love you. Your words are helping me grow. I am going to be smiling a lot more😊😊😊😊😍😍😍😍
I am so happy to hear that love. Thank you and keep shining!
You always give the best advice. You have changed me for the better. Its soooo rare to find modern feminine women.
Thank you sweetie! I'm hoping there will be many more
As someone who really didn't have this information present within their life, this is really helpful. I didn't really have a mom growing up, but I find that within you. Though I don't know you, you truly are where i go when I need support, and to feel okay with myself, and work on myself. Thank you so much for being that person for me
hooo what a lovely way of putting things into perspective, I enjoyed this video very much and I will recommend more of my friends to watch. maybe you are the last woman standing, most women these days think they are men.
Good afternoon Dr Michelle🌹
May you please make a video on channeling anger as a feminine woman. Ways to deal with it gentlest and more pleasant.
I really love how you included black women with natural hair unlike those other black "femininity channels" who only include black women with a more Eurocentric look or or that are wearing a weave. I love the good representation!
Dr. Michelle! Your videos bring me so much joy! I get so excited when I get a notification for a new video! God bless you🤍🤍
Thank you so much honey! I am happy to hear that. God bless you too!
After experiencing traumas I feel I have disconnected for my feminine energy. It has been hars reconnecting to it and trust after experiencing different type of abuse. I feel I have been masculine and repelling men. Thank you for these videos
That last point really hit me so much going on right now but I need to trust God in this season!
He will never let you down
I absolutely loved the prayer at the end of the video! Thank you so much 💜💜
You are so welcome sweetheart 🌸🤍🌸
You talk about creativity but one issue I have is after working all day I feel like I don’t have energy to be creative or give as much time as I want to my hobbies and passions. Even cleaning is hard. Spent all weekend cleaning up because I wanted it clean before I have baby lol.
I cannot thank you enough for making this video. I just subscribed to the podcast. I felt like I wasn’t feminine at all until you confirmed that I was. I do need some fine tunings in some areas but for the most part I definitely am!!! Keep doing the Lord’s work Sis!!!
This came to me at the best timing. Truly a blessing! Thank you ❤️
I follow you from Italy and I love your videos. You always tell me what I need. Thank you so much!!
Thank you for so much for continuing your God given mission to help women. Thank you for clarifying all of the confusion.
Good Morning Queens
I am so thankful for this beautiful Lady
Oh my!! Her videos are so empowering ❤️💪
Hi Dr. Michael, I am in my thirties but many times I feel people treat me like a child. I do look much younger than my age, but I know it is not the cause for the way they treat me like a child. I believe femininity is the solution to my problem, it can help me become a complete woman inside out. Could you please have a video about how femininity can help us grow up and move away from our childish attitudes, which sometimes referred to as boyish behaviours for a girl?
Thank you!! This was exactly what I needed to hear. I AM READY!
Let's do it this!
Love this video. The prayer at the end made me cry. Thank you ❤️
Thank you so much for being obedient. There's so much information out there by women who are walking in the wisdom of the world... Now, while some of what they say is relevant and applicable, I have to sift through their content to get the good out of it but in the process I get to consume some junk too which I don't like.
What I want is the wisdom of God and not manipulation tactics...
Jesus said be wise as serpents yet gentle as doves. So yes it's important to hear what those women have to say too but our motives must never be to harm anyone... Plus, God is the one who works things out in our favor.
You're a light, Sis, a very bright light!
God bless you!
I appreciate what you do so so much.
Thank you!!!
Wonderful video with very clear and informative explanations. I have been on my feminine journey for a little over a year now and rely on Dr. Michelle's knowledge as guidance on this journey. I am still messy in my environment and get frustrated with myself, so it's very encouraging to know that its ok to know that the phase of my life I'm in makes this more challenging and its ok. I do have such a full plate and that its so important for me to take that into consideration on my journey.
Once again Thank you sweetheart for that wonderful delivery....God Bless You....your voice is so soft and comforting 💖💗
This was SUCH an empowering talk! Thank you for sharing sis! Bless!
Man this video is amazing 🤩 Bless u Woman of God!!!!
I absolutely love listening to you. Your voice is very calming and soothing! Also thank you for all the advice❤
This video just taught me that I’m not feminine 😫
I’m not creative. I’m naturally logical and straight to the point and have a hard time thinking out of the box.
I’m not warm. This is situational. I’m currently very busy and the first thing that goes when I’m overwhelmed is my warmth. The only one who gets my warmth is my husband.
I’m clean-ish but only because I hire a cleaning service. I have a 1 year old so that’s not a priority.
I don’t move in a feminine way. I am currently pregnant so I just waddle.
Etc etc. There’s a lot to work on.
#5 Love your videos. I literally hear your voice when I try to take short cuts on self-care, lol. We love you lady 💕
Hi Dr. Michelle. I appreciate the fact that that you enlightening our fellow women out here to be confident and embrace their femininity because many women don't realize their potential in expressing their femininity and be happy. And by the way you look smart and beautiful as always😀.
Thank you!
What a lovely prayer 🥰
Thank you honey!
Warmth doest come naturally with me. People have called me cold, intimidating, and standoffish. Can you make a video on how to develop warmth?
I love and play sports. I never done dance or even took interest in it. Are there other things that I can do to be more flowy?
Yes, I can. Dance is the best way to do this and there are a variety of dances throughout many cultures that you may fancy once you do research. Try doing fitness with hula hoop.
i had learned a lot by watching your videos every single day, had learned to lean back and be more feminine.Thank you Ms.Michelle💞watching from Bahrain🇧🇭
I absolutely love your teachings. Also the music in your videos is so beautiful and relaxing. Peace and love.🙏🏾🌼
You are so right about guys mimicking us to be feminine. As I was walking in Walmart today, with my daughter my arm was swinging and I maybe had a little bounce. Some guy looked at me a did the exact same walk! he didn’t even care I was watching lol
LOL!!!!
Fantastic video! Especially smiling more! Thank you!
You are welcome sweetie
i have thought of not leavening a comment as some may see me as sinful, (been on a downhill moment for a long time)
just getting by, but thanks to the Getting ahead program getting things back on track, and it can not be from nowhere
has to be that is was meant to happen this way things are just falling in to place well a little hitch here or there
BUT mostly for the good and ALL good thing come from The Lord
now do not know what or how i fit, just i was off , not a "off the shelf" woman but have been this way for as long as i can recall
and trying to be the best me that i can be, why i look at videos like this one want to be a whole person
in other words not just wanting to be, more of living as who i feel i am need to be and find someone to love me but want to do it it in the proper way so thank you so very much
nicole
Thank you Dr. Michelle! I loved this!
Also just a technical critique, I noticed with many of your recent videos that the music is waaaay louder than your voice. I find myself adjusting the volume throughout the video. I thought you'd like to know if you didn't already.
You are a wonderful teacher! Thank you so much for your warmth and love!
Thank you for this amazing video! I struggle with smiling/looking kind and approachable in public, because I’ve had older men approach me with sleazy comments, and now I just shut down.. any advice please?❤️
You are so kind in the way you dispense your advice. Thank you so much ❤️
You are so wonderful Dr. Daf. Thank you for sharing. You always inspire me and I said the prayer at the end out loud with you. Amen.
I'm a Transgender woman and I love your videos they really help 😊
Thank you sis. You are wonderful. Thank you for sharing and edifying us this way. Much love and light to you xxx
I’ve been waiting for new content. Thank you dear
I'm terrible at beautifying my space, I don't enjoy cooking although I do it daily, and I am unfussed with my looks so I'm lost😢
Love your gentle and wise leadership. Thank you!💗💕
I was never excited to be a woman .a girl anything feminine meant weakness and stupidity in the house I grew UP IN.( TOXIC) we were female but being left alone or avoiding being mocked meant behaving like a man....I want this to be over with 😭😭😭MY VOICE is so deep 🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆😭😭😭😭 😩😩am scared I might sound like lil Wayne in 10 more years 🙅🙅🙅🙅...I HAVE alot of work to DO 😩
Loving the video content so far. The audio is a little hard to hear
Thank you so much for this content which is so helpful to so many women around the world. To God be the glory for what he’s done, is doing, and will do! 💖💕💖💕💖💕
Your words are so sweet .
Thank you Beautiful 🙏💖🌸
The prayer at the end of your video is beautiful!!!!🥰
Love love love your videos oh my goodness thank you!
You look great Dr. DAF... THANK YOU FOR YOUR CONSISTENCY AND UNDERSTANDING. YOUNHAVE HELPED ME SO MUCH AND I CANT WAIT TO LOOK BACK AND SAY TOU WERE A MAJOR PART OF MY TRANSFORMATION.💗💗
Thank you eternally for your sweetness and gentleness. It's just what the Doctor ordered! 🤗😎
i love you. You are changing my life. 😘
I love you too! All Glory goes to God
Yes she is doing agreat work in mine too .stay blessed Dr Michell😍💝
I sooooo love your channel! ❤
Thank you so much sweetheart!
I'm loving the music in this
I love this so much ❤❤❤ Thank you. And amen 🙏🏼❤️
I love this chanel a lot. Thank you for talk about femininity and so many beautiful and valuable things.🌸
@13:55 here's a different perspective that is actually a true fact; not everyone with "clean" skin has clean skin. Here's what I mean and no offense in how I am gonna explain it, some people never ever wash their face, or just once in a while, some even put on make up. They get no acne, no blemishes, so uou say they have good hygiene and clean skin.
Whereas, some go through vigorous face care regimens daily, and some even twice a day. These people wash, tone, moisturize, some even drink a lot of water, but still get acne and/or blemishes. This can be based on hormones, family genetics, severe stress, etc.
So when people deem and categorize people by clean skin, then it's like they are putting the others in a dirty skin or poor hygiene bracket which is usually fully deceptive, aka looks are deceiving. Lotsa people have "clean" skin cause they have tough skin, it's not sensitive, it's always keeping its form no matter what germs are on it. The best word would be clear skin, or perfect complexion cause then it is a true reflection of reality, and not basing it on cleanliness.
P.s. I have been enjoying your channel, I just found it, I use it as a Netflix series aka binge watching you cause you are elegant, feminine, intelligent, informative, etc. 😊😊❤️❤️
I absolutely loved this video.... thank you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You are so welcome honey
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE Do a feminine affirmations video! If you have already created one, what is the link?
This video is so helpful. I just found your channel. New subbie! Can you delve into shifting into the feminine during marriage? How to do it, how the dynamic of the relationship may change, problems & benefits that may come up, etc? I have trouble resting into my feminine because I have played to my masculine side a lot in our marriage and I believe he is comfortable with that. But I am tired. I am not sure that he will rise to the occasion as leader but I like to hope that if I shift, so will he.
Beautiful video!
Thank you for watching love
Good morning doll 😍
Thank you thank you thank you!❤️
You are so welcome my love
This video is amazing. Thank you!
Thanks Doctor, you have given me steps to move on in my life 💕🙏💓
Can you do video on making friends?
Yes
It’s the inner joy ❤️ 🤩 ❤️
I love your channel so much! I’ve learned so much on here, thank you 🙏 ⭐️
I'm so glad! You are most welcome love!
God bless you Dr Michelle ❤️❤️
That part about helping men is what I would love more info about. I’m unfortunately masculine in that regard, feeling lost not knowing my dreams. I was recently in love with a wonderful man and it woke me up to how much more feminine I wanted to be. I no longer care about being boss mode, but I realize I have a long way to go to help a man like that in his success and being his supporter. Makes me sad I wasted years trying to live like what I now see as manly. Dance also helped me see this. Being a follower is an art unto itself. I’d love a video on if it’s possible to work and be feminine because my job makes me feel manly.
Insofar as working intensely for many hours and high stress
@@fitwithbrittany2706 I'm a feminine man, and I love masculine women who romantically pursue me and pay the bills. Masculine ladies are awesome! ❤️
yes! thank you. glad you believe in God
I'm here for it!
Wow this outfit is so pretty!!!
Thank you honey, it's one of my favorite dresses!
Everything was good, except for the generalizations about men and women. It is not necessary to see women as not as physically strong as men, but instead our physical strength is distributed differently. The pelvic floor muscles, for example, are incredibly strong.
Yes, but overall, we generally aren't as physically strong as men though. If the average man were to grab the average woman's arm intently, she isn't going anywhere. That's all that she was getting at. There's nothing wrong with that either. A hand can't do what an eye can because they have different purposes, but both are equally important.