Distant & Disrespectful Girlfriend

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ก.พ. 2016
  • What you should do if your once loving, kind and affectionate girlfriend has become cold, distant, and disrespectful and often jerks you around.
    In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a thirty-five year old viewer who provides an update to a previous success story I discussed in a video coaching newsletter titled, “Her Curiosity & Interest Soared.” He is a recovering nice guy who said that before he found my work, he would always turn into a spineless jellyfish when he started dating women he liked. He says he did everything right with his current girlfriend. He says he has read my book twenty times. After five weeks of dating she asked him to be exclusive and after seven weeks she said that she was in love with him. Things were great for several months, but he says that ever since she moved back in with her parents when her lease expired, she started backing away. She even blew him off when she was supposed to pick him up at the airport, and left him hanging. He told her this was unacceptable, he stood up for himself and she completely changed her behavior afterwards. She apologized and initiated sex. Things seem to be back to normal, but he is concerned as to why she seemed to lose interest when he thought he was doing everything right.
    “If a woman does not respect you or she loses respect for you, she will treat you in ways that show she does not value what you have to offer, won’t appreciate you and won’t feel love for you. Men who are spineless and don’t stand up for themselves unknowingly invite women to treat them like doormats and with small instances of disrespect. The more a man allows a woman to disrespect & jerk him around without standing up for himself, the greater her acts of disrespect will become until she starts ignoring him and blowing him off. In healthy relationships, both men and women must set boundaries of acceptable behavior and respect. The only way a woman will love a man fully and completely, is if she knows that if she pushes him too far, he will walk and never look back.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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  • @masterjunior7415
    @masterjunior7415 8 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    She left him hanging at a fucken airport. That's no prize and isn't worth the effort. Hopefully the dude moved on for good.

    • @drac464
      @drac464 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Forgive my typos.. Damn iPhone

  • @kaseychannler1799
    @kaseychannler1799 7 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    I'm sorry but if any woman ever leaves me hanging at the airport after salty behavior previously, we're done.

  • @JG16riffin
    @JG16riffin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    One thing I'll add, is if he has to have a "technique" for keeping a woman interested, then the woman isn't worth it and he's going to get more stressed as the relationship goes on.

    • @tgm1379-kh5pj
      @tgm1379-kh5pj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      TRUE!! She is totally fucked up and not being constructive. For me, this is pshyco case.

    • @raisedsuperempath371
      @raisedsuperempath371 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@tgm1379-kh5pj definitely a psyco narcicist playing fucking , mind games who tha fuck has time for that

    • @DS-br1wn
      @DS-br1wn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Preach

    • @warddewaele4678
      @warddewaele4678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@raisedsuperempath371 PREACH LOOOOOL

    • @iamthestorm1004
      @iamthestorm1004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true
      We shouldn't have to put out such effort..jump thru countless hoops, magical, strategic tactics to get a woman to love us already good quality men of good character and integrity.
      Sorry...
      But I'm just not that needy nor weak

  • @fionbarraomuiri1458
    @fionbarraomuiri1458 8 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    As Corey mentions alot , the woman has to be a great communicator to begin with . When you hear things like , i don't feel like talking and she gets grumpy when you try to communicate , its a major red flag. If you call women out on their bitchy attitude and she still does not care and refuse's to talk and communicate in a loving caring manner , its not good. It take 2 people to make an effort for a relationship to blossom and grow into something great .

    • @KingDrudge
      @KingDrudge 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +barry murray I found this out the hard way 4 months ago. Lesson learned!!!

    • @going0ut
      @going0ut 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +barry murray Barry Murray I couldn't have said it better. I know someone who's been through a relationship exactly like you discussed, where the guy was top-notch honorable and the woman was a selfish ice queen who had the respect of a rock.

    • @drac464
      @drac464 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The most important part of communicating is not the talking, it's the listening. Most people with ears can hear, but most people with eats don't know how to listen. Most people stop communication if they feel the person is just listening to respond,
      Not listening to understand

    • @fionbarraomuiri1458
      @fionbarraomuiri1458 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +drac464 you have to listen and open a woman up and be her source of strenght. if she is unwilling to communicate in an adult manner and be truthful and honest it's a waste of time. It takes 2 people being honest to each other for a great connection to unfold into something great and amazing. A real alpha male man who understands women is not going to waste his valuable time on women who will not give a potential great romance time to grow into a effortless great bond together. Eerything happens for a reason . The universe will give you opportunities to grow and have a great life. It's up to you to embrace these opportunities or continue living the same crap life . You will always have choices the more you participate in life.

    • @rellisrelentless6805
      @rellisrelentless6805 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fionbarra omuiri

  • @inevitableevolution1
    @inevitableevolution1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This is ABSOLUTELY true and I wish I saw this a few months ago. I was dating a woman who tested me and was increasingly disrespectful. we are no longer talking. I called her out on somethings slide but I let alot of crap slide. She's constantly watching my social media story and like post. I think she'll try to reach out in the future but until then I've walked away. I'm not letting the lil disrespectful crap happen ever again!

  • @trudeaumustgo1920
    @trudeaumustgo1920 6 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I literally can't believe how good this guy is. It's unreal. Been using your videos for years now and recommend you. You were born to do this. You nail it on the head every God dam time. I feel so much better about myself when I hear you confirm everything I go through and deal with. Sometimes you just need someone to tell you your not wrong. Keep it up man.

    • @Blodia1990
      @Blodia1990 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Read the fucking book 10--15 times there aren't any substitutes

    • @croatiancroissant28776
      @croatiancroissant28776 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And sometimes you need somebody to tell you that you ARE wrong. It’s the only way to learn.

  • @chriswilson6903
    @chriswilson6903 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    37 never married, no kids, body is in shape and still single? No baggage and still single at 37 means more problems than you could possibly imagine. And if someone left me at the airport that is an automatic breakup man

    • @AndyGinny1
      @AndyGinny1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What about a man who is the same?

    • @TechieBaby
      @TechieBaby 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AndyGinny1 same. should be red pill players. avoid'em if you want a long term relationship.

    • @XoXo475
      @XoXo475 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maybe he looks like Mr Bean …

  • @thomasj7269
    @thomasj7269 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Seems like she was just going to be using him. Once she wasn't moving in with him, she knew she wasn't going to be able to use him.

  • @Champ1988
    @Champ1988 8 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    For 'intermediates,' poor communication often accounts for much of where they tend to go wrong. Not only in understanding their women; but in helping her to understand him and his needs. The other side of the coin is that the man is usually just as unhappy; just more willing to settle. Know yourself, get to know your woman; and let all that is known be understood. Wonderful video.

  • @robmorin9862
    @robmorin9862 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    it's called bye

    • @iamthestorm1004
      @iamthestorm1004 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn Skippy....
      Bye bye...
      bye bye bye bye bye ! 🙋‍♂️

  • @JoshuaAdrianjones
    @JoshuaAdrianjones 8 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    so many deal breakers

  • @gnnaal
    @gnnaal 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I freaking needed this video today. Keep brushing off broken promises/favors, it will exponentially get worse.

  • @rockn1677
    @rockn1677 8 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This woman was a good stock gone bad and the guy ignores red flags along the way cause of his attachment to her. Been there and done that and now when I start to see the red flags, I go into high caution alert and go no further cause when I did before, it got me burned badly.

    • @mulapare2593
      @mulapare2593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here, incredibly costly and with long term consequences.

  • @DrWolfenstein313
    @DrWolfenstein313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I had a girlfriend like that. Very cute girl, but impossible to live with. Really mean and would pick up fights over stuff she had no business getting into. But when she started disappearing for one, two days at a time, that's when I cut her loose. Fuck that.

  • @sameto559
    @sameto559 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally, someone who explains in detail and give concrete examples!

  • @drummerjeroensimons
    @drummerjeroensimons 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great stuff Corey!! People are to often conditioned into box thinking, while there are other role models (mirrors) for us all to become our greatest version. Thank you for be that role model!! Cheers from The Netherlands, Jeroen Simons (studio/sessiondrummer with passion and succes and also a bad youth, but strength to break those patterns..)

  • @cybercity1984
    @cybercity1984 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish I had time to watch all of Coach Corey's videos .

  • @yahreejames8526
    @yahreejames8526 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Coach C.Wayne, I finally got your book and can't wait to read it. I have been watching you videos for some time now and ready to get started. 10 to 15 time right?Thanks

  • @joshuascott3521
    @joshuascott3521 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i ruined a great relationship once i met this new girl.. but then she turned out to be a judgemental, stupid bitch later. Now im on my own. The hard lesson i learned is thst if you find a girl that truly makes u happy and accepts you for you no question, keep her. Shes a gem.

  • @DS-br1wn
    @DS-br1wn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Coach.... at 23:05, FINALLY, I hear you say it. Your stuff is great advice, and helps us understand women better, "NORMAL" women. But not all women can be reasoned with, especially the Borderlines, Narcissistics. It's not always the man's fault. Some of them are straight up IMPOSSIBLE and will NEVER be happy, no matter WHAT you do for them (or don't do😁)

  • @JG16riffin
    @JG16riffin 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is perfect!!

  • @macioluko9484
    @macioluko9484 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is a huge topic. It should have North of 5 million views. I'm in a situation now where my girl (she's awesome) is testing me with these small things. Changing her mind on stuff, not doing some of the stuff she did in the beginning etc. I've called her out on two occasions and each time her response was submissive. In the latest example, I could tell she wasn't proud to admit what she did but told me anyways. I know she's testing what she can get away with. The setting of boundaries used to be so difficult for me. Now it actually feels good because in doing so I'm speaking my truth and I'm being congruent. A good woman will appreciate this and recognize how rare it is today. The take away here is to not let stuff build up. Even if you've recognized a boundary violation a day or two after it happens, it's not to late to raise the issue with love and communicate.

    • @mulapare2593
      @mulapare2593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You gotta be tight, she is looking for cracks

  • @0401412740
    @0401412740 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    just what i needed to hear.

  • @RobLavinci
    @RobLavinci 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It fucking sucks being with someone like that, especially when your the opposite, the cherry on top is when you have kids together too.

  • @earthisfat6184
    @earthisfat6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Pretty sure I'm losing my girl. Every single day it's something different. She'll say she wants to make a life with me then the next day if I mention anything about our life together she'll shrug it off. So tired of it.

    • @earthisfat6184
      @earthisfat6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lacedboxa still on the roller coaster unfortunately

    • @heyoungworld
      @heyoungworld 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@earthisfat6184 Roller coasters are meant to be fun and exciting.. This isn't either of those things. What's happening is you're being taken for a ride by some selfish, disrespectful woman who was probably a gem in the early days (before revealing her true character). Nowadays you're unhappy and completely exhausted by her bullshit but can't seem to get off the ride, why? Because the relationship you started in has become a trauma tie. How that came about is your business. But you can stay involved and continue to damage yourself indefinitely, or save your precious time and emotional health. Bottom line, you know what's gonna work best for you, if you're honest with yourself.
      Take care man

    • @earthisfat6184
      @earthisfat6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@heyoungworld yeah it's going to end today.. I really appreciate you taking the time to respond.

    • @heyoungworld
      @heyoungworld 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@earthisfat6184 no problem soldier.. Glad you're doing what's necessary, difficult as that may be. Excellent job

    • @thewanderingartists
      @thewanderingartists ปีที่แล้ว

      @@earthisfat6184 hope you're having a good time !

  • @jondough3339
    @jondough3339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She leaves me at the airport. I’m leaving her in the trash 🙋🏻‍♂️ bye bye

  • @ezbitcoinexchange6001
    @ezbitcoinexchange6001 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Corey..You are a GURU in did...Thanks for your influence in my life. I have an observation, when I have a first date with a girl your course so well that they immediately start blowing up my phone and though I immediately set another date and get off the phone they persist in contacting me between dates. Furthermore I try to keep it short and dont respond immediately. I mean girls blowing up your phone due to high attraction is a good thing but it is difficult to stay with the CODE of once a week contact and one even directly asked to be my girlfriend after just the first date. Any thoughts?

  • @robertsilva2870
    @robertsilva2870 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My ex-girlfriend left me at the hospital after having a heart attack and I had to pay the rent the following month now she’s $5000 in day and facing the eviction never bites the hand that feeds you especially someone with all gut no butt and a shitty attitude I could do better thanks for your advice

  • @drac464
    @drac464 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I tend to like darker skinned men physically but your are so cute. Love your straightforward attitude and appropriate use of the F word (meaning to exclaim a point) not just use it as a word of anger. You are so right about now is women get dressed and do all these things to prepare and would be really upset if someone bailed on us. Haven't finished the whole video yet, but I wonder if she was using him for financial reasons and wanted him to ask her to live with him. At 37 years old it's hard to accept going back to your parents, especially if you have a man. Maybe she didn't feel like that protective feeling from him when she fell on hard times and that made her rethink their future. Why did she not move in with him? Seems to be the natural move. Even your parents would question why they would have to step up at 37 when you have a man in your life. She probably needed a helping hand during her situation and he didn't rise to the occasion so she didn"t go to the airport as payback.

  • @EyeOvdaTiger
    @EyeOvdaTiger 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    It goes both ways!

  • @krizzay95
    @krizzay95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Read the book, guys... Get the audiobook and listen a buttload of times... This shit works

  • @siulong1394
    @siulong1394 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What if every time you ask questions to the woman you are talking to, she always gives you "Yes" and "No" answer and she very rarely said anything about herself? What if you tell her that it is hard to have a conversation when she has this kind of attitude but she does nothing to change it?
    How was I supposed to change this?

  • @44enko
    @44enko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    37, never married... There's a reason for that.

    • @dkabanobicomedy4078
      @dkabanobicomedy4078 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      For real, I wouldn’t even waste my time on her

    • @TVinmyEye
      @TVinmyEye 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I just ended a 5 month relationship with this beautiful crazy girl. She’s 35, no kids never been married and clearly never been seen by a Psychiatrist. The sex was amazing! But damn putting up with her volatile behavior proved to be too much. So yeah, if you’re dating or interested in a Women who’s never been Married or hasn’t had a long relationship by her mid to late 30’s, theres a good chance She’s has some sort of Narcissistic or Borderline personality disorder

  • @whatismyname8483
    @whatismyname8483 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can't believe the part about the legs open and closed lol that caught me off guard

    • @carpe996
      @carpe996 ปีที่แล้ว

      In the words of Corey, " It's obvious that you haven't read the book 10 to 15 times." 😎

  • @joelp77440
    @joelp77440 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    37 attractive, single, never married and no kids. That’s code for “HUGE RED FLAG!”

    • @iamthestorm1004
      @iamthestorm1004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

  • @timcook7649
    @timcook7649 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think it's about time us men begin testing women a whole lot more....
    What do you think fellas

  • @staceykersting461
    @staceykersting461 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just what I needed! I don't understand the calling only once a week. The man in my life have always called me 2-3x a day. I wd not feel comfortable initiating most contacts. I was so surprised Corey said the airport thing wasn't a deal-breaker, too.

  • @mattmobbs2205
    @mattmobbs2205 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you wish she put shoe on other foot instead of Alway passing the blame why do they never see when they do wrong

  • @anthonyhulin1286
    @anthonyhulin1286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My girls is pregnant and starting to disrespect me and acting like everything has to go her way and not trying to make decision as a couple anymore will do things just to try to make me mad and I don't kw what to do I say stuff about it and try to talk to her but she doesn't want to listen she throughs a fit and gets mad and calls up her mom and then threaten the relationship but then when I try to walk away she will cry and say are you really leaving and bet me not to go and I'll stay then the cycle repeat and I tell her just becouseshes Prego doesn't mean she can disrespect me

  • @mattmobbs2205
    @mattmobbs2205 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm not good at reading is your book on you tube to listen to please

  • @purplepurposee
    @purplepurposee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coreys face at 20:39 😂 "ok"

  • @Marshmallow983
    @Marshmallow983 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was wondering if you had time to talk about double standards and how that will make a woman lose respect for her man too. Or the situation where the guy is misbehaving, the in law acts as if they're helping when they're really enabling. These are too good areas to make a woman or man lose respect for the other. I do like everything that you share. I hope to learn more.

  • @Fret01
    @Fret01 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I let my ex slide right out the door!

  • @DR4SH3R
    @DR4SH3R 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is there an update to this guy's story did Jessica moved in with him?

  • @NethervvoidBuilds
    @NethervvoidBuilds 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    17:25 I think that's giving her way too much leeway. If a girl is promising things and not delivering, just move on. If it's a few times in a few months... that's a pattern. She'll do that the whole relationship. There are PLENTY of other women out there, and if you have high value you don't need to waste your time on the average to below average ones.

  • @mcryan07
    @mcryan07 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Corey have your done any vids on meeting a girl's parents? I done it before but interested in your perception of how to make a great first impression

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      +mcryan07 If you have read my book then you know that you create rapport by asking questions and being sincerely interested in other people.

    • @fionbarraomuiri1458
      @fionbarraomuiri1458 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +mcryan07 Always speak your truth , be genuine , natural , and have a good time.

    • @blackjag121
      @blackjag121 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Coach Corey Wayne
      Hi Coach,
      Love ur videos and I would love for u to do a video on why men lie unnecessarily??? My daughter's father lied about being at work when he was on vacation ( I called his job when I couldn't get a hold of him and they told me his was on vacation) while I was at the hospital with our sick daughter. He lies all the time unnecessarily. Why does he do this??

    • @drac464
      @drac464 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +blackjag121 I'll save Corey time. Men lie for several reasons
      1) they don't want to hear us bitch or see us cry, which is usually what happens when they tell us the truth
      2) women fall in love with their ears, men fall in love with their eyes. They are trying to protect our ears which is a direct route to our heart. The truth is rarely what we want to hear.Think of a politician, if they told the truth they would never get elected. To quote the movie A Few Good Men", "you can't handle the truth"
      1)he knows you still have feelings for him and a great vacation to a man is spending lots of money on whatever his heart desires and having sex. So one of two things happens when a man goes on vacation 1)he went there with someone he has feelings for who probably gives him amazing sex
      #2)he went there to be a player and meet girls that will give him sex
      #3)he has financial obligations to his child & you would bitch about his choice to spend money on things outside of being a dad. The END

    • @blackjag121
      @blackjag121 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +drac464
      He didn't go away. He said he had better things to do and eventually broke down and took her after I threatened to take him to court because I was missing lots of days taking care of an ailing child

  • @Prometheus203
    @Prometheus203 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The short answer I've learned from my few experience and the great teachings of Coach Corey is: Never be afraid to dump the bitch.

  • @fallenfreak828
    @fallenfreak828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What do you do about communication when all she says in return is "I dont want to talk about it"

    • @fallenfreak828
      @fallenfreak828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@garyf_4702 good to go, man. Thanks for the perspective

    • @davidbarth80
      @davidbarth80 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Keep trying to open her up. Ask more in a funny way to make her feel at ease.

    • @daveh9803
      @daveh9803 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If it persists, walk away & never look back.

  • @russellhart6891
    @russellhart6891 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    how do u make it known that u will walk and never look back without sounding threatening?

  • @auomauom
    @auomauom 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I stand up for myself when my gf disrespects me. She thinks what I have to say is a joke. She doesn't say anything and keeps her distance. Why the fuck is she so immature? How can I get her to open up to me?

  • @clarencekeller7684
    @clarencekeller7684 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    third one is the charmer ;)

  • @bklyneliteelite6887
    @bklyneliteelite6887 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was in operations in the army for 6 years now I got out of shape single need to get back on the ball here!!!!

  • @NethervvoidBuilds
    @NethervvoidBuilds 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah someone leaves me at the airport? I would never talk to them again. Why the hell would you? Obviously not a quality person.

  • @princesspink5531
    @princesspink5531 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach please answer. I dated a guy for almost 7 months and now he left me because I was too nice to him, I was cleaning, cooking and.....buying for him :-( I actually was giving him money also and everything was fine until last month when he started to be different to me. I was unhappy during that time and he just left me. He is used that I beg and cry, but right now I do not contact him since we broke up which was almost 2 weeks ago. He is also younger than me 7 years. I'm living my life, I even went to Dubai and we were sopoused to go together but now I went alone and I will put new pictures and updates on fb. Do you think this will work to get him back? Like I said he is used me to beg and cry for him but now I don't do that. Please answer and thank you.

    • @kaptinfish
      @kaptinfish 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sounds like he found someone else

  • @Normanb15
    @Normanb15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She may have asked to move in with him because she was having financial issues she didnt talk about

  • @flavirostris1972
    @flavirostris1972 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Would somebody not turning up for a second date be a sign of disrespect?

    • @enderjh-2560
      @enderjh-2560 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      John Gallagher DUH.

  • @TheDaz19831
    @TheDaz19831 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hope someone can with this issue girl as ignore me on Facebook for about a week now what best way to handle this???

    • @kingfargo9578
      @kingfargo9578 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Daz19831 stop talking to bitches you don’t know over Facebook

  • @Troyster94806
    @Troyster94806 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh gosh, this isn't a dating problem to even ponder. She knew she was in trouble regarding her living situation and most probably was looking for a gullible gump to take advantage of. Once she got in with her parents, she no longer needed him anymore. Even if I'm wrong about that, I know she's not very nice and has serious issues. Standing someone up is not acceptable and there's no excuse for it. And stuff happens to all of us, but I suspect her being irresponsible is what got her to lose her place. She's way too old to be returning to mommy and daddy. Good looking and available at 27 is in itself a red flag, but if guys thought like that, they'd never meet anyone available.

  • @sidneychrystal7929
    @sidneychrystal7929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Vanpire weomen Sorry but sometimes weomen fall in love at first bite 🎈🎈🎈 not 7 weeks always

  • @kevinbushey1879
    @kevinbushey1879 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My girlfriend is really mean to everyone and to me to and Disrespectful to me, it's always crazy and b******* about everything I do I just totally ignored or tell it to leave if she doesn't like it and it's been 10 years and she's still with me and still wasn't leaving all the time.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @andrebaxter4023
    @andrebaxter4023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How does he read the book 20 times and miss out on the part about keeping her in her feminine energy by opening her up? 🤔 I don't think that he read it 20 times.

  • @toxicfighter5282
    @toxicfighter5282 ปีที่แล้ว

    So fuckin important video here guys

  • @fearfactz1
    @fearfactz1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ive been on a date with a girl 3 times and all 3 date shes always texted me beforehand that she will be late (around 20 minutes late). We usually meet up in the parking lot of a mall. Should you call her out on her behavior?
    What I usually do is do is text her something like " Hey no problem, I'm going to shop at X or Y, text me when you're there".
    I don't want to look like an impatient insecure jackass either that cannot wait for like 20 minutes..

    • @going0ut
      @going0ut 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +fearfactz1 It highly depends. For instance, are you willing to put up with this down the road, if you're in it for something serious? Imagine her showing up to other things in your life, around 20 minutes late. Would that be acceptable, would that be something you'd expect? Though she lets you know, subtle things like these can signal bigger problems later.
      A person like me in your shoes, who has a life of purpose and doesn't wish to waste my time waiting for someone who's 20 minutes late in a row - I would confront her on this.
      Think about it this way - if she was head over heels for you , she would be showing up on time or earlier.

    • @spiderjump
      @spiderjump 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      she is kinda disrespectful. but that does not mean she is doing on purpose or that is not all that into you. she could be really interested and it is bad habit of hers. maybe she is really busy? i think you should chill and see how it goes.

    • @mulapare2593
      @mulapare2593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Let's put it this way: when she's having a job interview or an exam, would she be late?
      Yeah, that's what I thought!
      You are not that important for her, truth!

  • @lawrencejones7500
    @lawrencejones7500 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What if she says she would call back and doesn't

    • @19daniboy91
      @19daniboy91 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lawrence Jones then probably its just a test, don't call her. If she doesn't call, who cares, it's her loss ;)

    • @tgm1379-kh5pj
      @tgm1379-kh5pj 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      For me, this isn't test anymore. This is pshyco bitching.

  • @widebodyv6221
    @widebodyv6221 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I almost Relapse 🤦🏿‍♂️

  • @gerardocastro9048
    @gerardocastro9048 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a great fucking video

  • @faysmith7248
    @faysmith7248 ปีที่แล้ว

    He's calling her once a week. I'd be already seing someone else

  • @YoungMexicanPlayas
    @YoungMexicanPlayas 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if u tell her about the little things that bother you and she starts calling u controlling

  • @dRippppa
    @dRippppa 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coming from experience. She sounds like she's abusing drugs.

  • @kvs7876
    @kvs7876 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Corey is genius! My girlfriend was bitchy and disrespectful to me this morning. I kissed her and said see ya later, and left. I did not contact her the rest of the day. She called me and apologized for being a bitch and didn’t mean to take her problems out on me. This is the way!

  • @xlnu
    @xlnu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My gf is literally ignoring me today and I have no idea why
    Edit: she broke up with me...

  • @briancisneros4161
    @briancisneros4161 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When ur girlfriend hugs a another man cuz she says that's his supervisor and she wasn't supposed to be in a store bullshit

  • @itsjustnopinionok
    @itsjustnopinionok 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When she wanted to move in with him. He didn't act on it. So later when her lease was up she already knew her relationship with him was going nowhere. Left you hanging at the airport? Dude, come on. Wake the F up.

  • @Caesar-nx9uv
    @Caesar-nx9uv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️

  • @mrmarcusdmorgan
    @mrmarcusdmorgan 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does this go for gf's only or can I use these tactics on fuck buddy's and people that I'm close with??

  • @claudiozumarraga6597
    @claudiozumarraga6597 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to buy your book,.. how i can do ? i am from Argentina , very good videos.. I want to come my ex back..

    • @Ohenry0828
      @Ohenry0828 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      amazon.com

    • @claudiozumarraga6597
      @claudiozumarraga6597 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      dont care if i live in Argentina ?

    • @Ohenry0828
      @Ohenry0828 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      just download the Kindle version. if you have access to Internet you'll be able to read it. not sure if you be able to get the book cover but I do know for sure you'll get the internet version if you have internet access

    • @claudiozumarraga6597
      @claudiozumarraga6597 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Henry P . Okey man.. thanks.. And what do you think about my situation? i am so confused and i know corey is so busy..

    • @claudiozumarraga6597
      @claudiozumarraga6597 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      me.. Me and my ex were one year together ( sorry for my english ). Then a friend of her said her that i was talking with another woman , that i was being infiel to her, and she trusted more in what they hace said to her . She didn´t know who to trust to. ( she is 18, i am 21) I have never been infiel to her.
      So she "decided" to break up , because she didn´t know who to trust. It sounds crazy, i thought it was a excuse , but she said me thousands of times that is was not an excuse . blah blah. The next days i have insisted her that she was wrong , that i didn´t lie to her . Well , she said me that still love me and missing me.. The last day i have seen her , we kissed , have sexual relations , etc. But she always repeated me that she made the decition and i have to respect her. Well , i miss her a lot . And don´t understand so much the situation , because she doesn´t want to talk about that anymore.. But she still talk me , send me messages , and when i question her if she misses me , she says yes. And said , so then let´s come back , but she says that No, that she made her decition blah blah.
      Well , i invited her to the cinema next saturday , and she said that maybe yes. But , that she doesnt want i tell her " my love " and that things or getting confused and became sad.
      I said her i will never acept to be friends with her , and she says ok , that she doesnt want to be friends with me . That we are only "ex´s" and she thinks that in the future we will together again.. But now she doesnt want to be with me.. and she doesnt have to give me any explanations about anything.. ( i invited her to the cinema for remembering the good moments that we have passed togetter , and may be rethink about her decition, maybe it is ridiculous.. ) What should i do ?

  • @diningroomfish5470
    @diningroomfish5470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Her doing that, just means you don't do anything for her in anyway, woman who are into you show it every day of the week, so let her go, don't waste anymore time, women are not what they used to be, it's over, 20/20 it's over today's life is different

    • @mulapare2593
      @mulapare2593 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Women are not what they used to be...point on!

  • @claudiozumarraga6597
    @claudiozumarraga6597 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need opinions please :( i now corey i so busy.. hope can help me.. I am from Argentina and like so much your videos :)
    Me and my ex were one year together ( sorry for my english ). Then a friend of her said her that i was talking with another woman , that i was being infiel to her, and she trusted more in what they hace said to her . She didn´t know who to trust to. ( she is 18, i am 21) I have never been infiel to her.
    So she "decided" to break up , because she didn´t know who to trust. It sounds crazy, i thought it was a excuse , but she said me thousands of times that is was not an excuse . blah blah. The next days i have insisted her that she was wrong , that i didn´t lie to her . Well , she said me that still love me and missing me.. The last day i have seen her , we kissed , have sexual relations , etc. But she always repeated me that she made the decition and i have to respect her. Well , i miss her a lot . And don´t understand so much the situation , because she doesn´t want to talk about that anymore.. But she still talk me , send me messages , and when i question her if she misses me , she says yes. And said , so then let´s come back , but she says that No, that she made her decition blah blah.
    Well , i invited her to the cinema next saturday , and she said that maybe yes. But , that she doesnt want i tell her " my love " and that things or getting confused and became sad.
    I said her i will never acept to be friends with her , and she says ok , that she doesnt want to be friends with me . That we are only "ex´s" and she thinks that in the future we will together again.. But now she doesnt want to be with me.. and she doesnt have to give me any explanations about anything.. ( i invited her to the cinema for remembering the good moments that we have passed togetter , and may be rethink about her decition, maybe it is ridiculous.. ) What should i do ?

    • @spiderjump
      @spiderjump 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you should go no contact.

    • @iamthestorm1004
      @iamthestorm1004 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@spiderjump
      Exactly
      Run away...
      Not just walk away...
      ZERO contact...
      Block...
      Move on..
      Work on making yourself the best version of yourself an your purpose

  • @harounben342
    @harounben342 ปีที่แล้ว

    My problem is she signaled me and sent me somebody months ago to approach her because she wants a nice guy to marry, a month ago I met her, she tried to impress me and I didn't know what she wanted to fuck or marry, I didn't, and she seems like she just wants a fuck body, and as one rich guy lured her, my theory that she when disappears at night she goes with him, we just met once because she was eager to, my mistake is she came before one day before my date because she had to go to my city to see a doctor and didn't come to the date I set nor the one she set the day after mine, I asked her if she is ready to commit and she said we didn't meet face to face yet.

  • @theartofmichaelpape
    @theartofmichaelpape 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I called my girl on her bullshit on not following through on promises. I think perhaps I let her get away with too much before calling her on her bullshit. She turned it around on me, that I was the problem, that she is now walking on egg shells, that I was not letting her be free and dumped me. And said never do that on the next woman I meet. Crazy chick or I am crazy for staying with her too long?

    • @spiderjump
      @spiderjump 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      sounds like she did it on impulse.

    • @theartofmichaelpape
      @theartofmichaelpape 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +teetoo labalaba , I called her on her bullshit once I learned Corey Wayne. But I had one year in with out knowing this stuff. And over the next year every time she said she would do something, go to an event that she said initially yes to, then said she did not want to go to since she was tired from a hard week of work, and I called her on it, major problems. She said she was not free, walking on egg shells, I should not "should on her" and it just got onto a huge fight that eventually because I kept standing up for my self and calling on these broken promises, she dumped me.

    • @spiderjump
      @spiderjump 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Michael Pape repeatedly breaking promises is really disrespectful. Was she agreeing at.first to appease u when she really did not want to go those events? Was she always expecting you to do the things she wants ? Maybe you 2 are just not compatible.

    • @theartofmichaelpape
      @theartofmichaelpape 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +teetoo labalaba Yes perhaps your right and she was doing this to appease me, and when it came time to doing them, she really did not want to do them. In the beginning of the relation yes, later no. Even though in some cases I had made arrangements from her "yes". She lived 1 hour from me and the last year seemed to never have the energy she said to drive my way. And really had no interest in the activities my way. So I would travel her way most weekends. So it got tiring when the energies are not equal. And if I called her on that she would say I have her walking on egg shells, etc. and I am not considering she has a high stress job, and I was the problem for not considering her situation. And then she got tired of me calling her on her broken promises and dumped me. No win situation. So in total 4 years down the drain. As it was on and off again, because of these issues.

    • @spiderjump
      @spiderjump 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Michael Pape she does not drive to your place at all ?

  • @lylez00
    @lylez00 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Our ancestors confined a woman to one man. If she wasn't a virgin, nobody wanted her, and she couldn't survive on her own. She was deliberately prevented from being able to survive on her own. Furthermore, if the husband administered corporal punishment to his wife, people looked the other way.
    We imagine that we are so superior to our ancestors because of our technology. But what do we do with our technology? Analyze problems that our ancestors weren't dumb enough to subject themselves to.
    Maybe we aren't so superior to our ancestors afterall.

    • @Chris-fn6lf
      @Chris-fn6lf 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      religion restricted them for a reason

  • @tradingpsychologyacademy2025
    @tradingpsychologyacademy2025 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    3:20

  • @augustayarteh7524
    @augustayarteh7524 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach nice teaching. Even if you give men all the respect they wants They will find faults from women trust me. We have lied down on the floor begging men with all the buckets of water before them they dont care. They forget God is bigger than every thing.

  • @JuicyFruityify
    @JuicyFruityify 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sounds like this guy is handling a volatile chick with kidd gloves. I get it, the guys behavior should have been on point to sort her out. Having said that, trying to run holding a spirit level so that the bubble stays in the middle at all times....I'd just toss the spirit level and forget about that particular chick. I'd want to be focusing on saving money and polishing up monetizable skills, not chasing some daft older chick who'd do better around cats.

  • @rypendragon999
    @rypendragon999 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful man!

  • @ledzarulje
    @ledzarulje 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Imagine him reading 20books instead reading the same book 20 times. He could have learned a few new skills. What makes power of a woman to a mans brain.

  • @sujarhada3841
    @sujarhada3841 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man you look like thanos

  • @zetar87
    @zetar87 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Corey is amazing . my gut feeling is telling me that all he teaches is for a primitive perspective . I am no longer in to masculine energy only but Female and Masculine Fused .

    • @carletouk
      @carletouk 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      zetar87 good luck with that booster

  • @Harvey_Anderson17
    @Harvey_Anderson17 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    second

  • @ashleymarie6682
    @ashleymarie6682 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    SO false. The only time i love truly starts with knowing he unconditionally cares about me. If he leaves, it will hurt me, and I’ll probably try to get him to come back, but when he comes back, that abandonment will breed disrespect and distrust. Your videos have been suggested to me but all your stuff is just wrong... ive been in several relationships good and bad and married 10 years. This advice is like for players not for long term stable relationships. You understand males but you don’t understand females at all.

    • @dastemplar9681
      @dastemplar9681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why are you defending women behavior we find toxic? Men need their standards met too.

    • @polkacaty
      @polkacaty 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol! You sound bitchy and hurt 😂😂😂 read the book 10 - 15 times karen

    • @zevkay2286
      @zevkay2286 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Never take advice on women from women guys, never!