the most problem that no one can stop bullying is that no one supports the one that is being bullied. they're worried that they might get picked on next so they just keep their mouth shut. or either theyre misunderstood about the situation that is going on
I never had any serious issues with bullying...I was too crazy to let someone just beat me up everyday...but I had to deal with racism, which pissed me off and leaves me bitter to this day.
I get bullied as far ranged as having words and rumor said about me to reeses pieces thrown at my head to being pushed down the gym bleachers and beat up. It's terrible. I've been bullied for 9 years. It's emotional and physical scarring for life. It's gotten so bad that now when I hear people laugh when I'm around I have to turn around or keep an extra sensitive hearing on things to make sure that they aren't talkin bout me. It's just...........something you can't explain
the worst thing about being bullied is that you realize how unkind people is,and you try to dont care but you cant,you need affection but nobody is even giving you a chance,so it seems that people is so evil,and if people is not good then the universe doesnt have any sense,and then you turn evil
Almost nobody ever stood up for me when I was getting bullied especially in middle school. Talk about the bystander effect everybody was just a bunch of stones. Only 2 times someone stood up for me:One of my ex-bullies Paul stood up to my other bully Chris Braswell and a couple times a kid named Tommy Bearden stood up to a bully of mine named Mack Mosh. I wish more people stood up for me though and that the teachers were more caring and vigilante to bullying. ;'(
Aside from the computer-grammar which gave me a twitch each time I read a misspelled word, I loved this video! You did a wonderful job and the song and images you wove together really helped to make your point.
It is always best to confront bullies with violence. That is the only thing they understand. Single out the leader and fight him as hard as you can. I did this on three occasions and surprised myself by winning. Also, I got into a fight against someone I thought was a weak guy. He bopped me on the nose and bought tears to my eyes. That was a good lesson to me. If the bully does win, get determined and take combat lessons. You MUST get him back. The fight goes on. Hang tough!
By the way, the worst thing after all, is that the society puts the victims of bullying as criminal and mentally insane, the media show bullying victims as "the next to shoot everybody at school", that's why many victims are sometimes ashamed of admitting the situation which they're in. While the ones that practice the bullying is just a "bored" child.
In the United States, there's no federal law against cyber bullying -- yet. A bill introduced to the House of Representatives last year would make it against the law to intimidate, harass, or cause substantial emotional distress to a person, using electronic means to support severe, repeated, and hostile behavior. " Anyone found guilty of this crime could face a fine or a prison term of up to two years.
I was severly bullied all throughout school. It damages the spirit. I was very suicidal. Luckily I was never one of the ones who gave in. Now my life is SO much better! It's only for a season...Always remember that and never give up.
at school and college all the chavs used to harrass me i couldn't bring my basketball during break time because they always ran off with it and 1 time they threw it on the music block roof (i had to ask the caretaker to help me get it back) when i turned 17 i took up skateboarding as a hobby, chavs made videos of me falling off for the first time and sent it to people around my town and posted it on youtube they even showed it to new comers at college
You are very brave. I also was bullied but I can tell you many stories that the victims become legends and the bullies become a guttersnipe who have no life.
Bullies are weak, but the victims are weaker for giving into it. All these anti-bullying organizations and crap are just giving them a sense of power. One thing in this day and age: self defense.
i've tried to several times! im so tired of living. every where i look i am reminded of my past. and somtimes my past repeats itself. somtimes i just want it to end. somtimes i feel life is worse than deaf!
The only way we can stop bullying is to teach our children to be strong minded and not be intimidated easily. Teach them to be strong physically as well as metally & also get that boy or girl to learn some self defense so when they encounter a bully then know just how to deal with them if it comes down to using their fists.
When in the 4th vid, you asked are there any other reasons to follow to help diminish bullying? I thought, "Are you touching souls?" Sometimes the sweetest people is who we need to be on the interior to recognize what needs to be searched for yonder to order.
@albertescamilla Often it's those that have a lot of empathy and a kind heart. Bullies resent what they have, because they haven't got it, so they have to destroy what they are envious and jealous of. By bringing other's down it gives them more power, but they will always lack empathy, remorse and love.
I for one disapprove of anti bully campaigns, as a psychologist bullies are a big part of the reason my practice is booming, the victims let thier bullies tear down there self esteem, so the parents of the victims pay me $400 a week to rebuild there childs self esteem, and btw I don't charge $400 a session Icharge $200 a session but I set up the patients for 2 sessions a week
Not all people who are bullied can fight back and some just don't know how to. That's why many bullies prowl for them, to make themselves feel better when they harm the defense-less.
love it i used to get bullied everyday since i was 4 and its realy effected my life but now i get home educated and everyday im getting slightly more confident
In a lot of bullying, a punch is never thrown. It's just a bunch of people with the social power to ensure that you will have no friends (except for those who are extremely brave and willing to give it all up to make friends with one person.) Even if you fight back, you're still a pariah because most people don't want to put their necks on the line. You can yell at them, punch them, talk back - but it's the social pressure, not the physical violence, that does the damage.
I agree with you wholeheartedly I was bullied on the rare occasion I would fight back but I never liked hurting people because I was always taught :Violence achieves nothing and Don't be a doormat so I decided to let Karma deal with them and in my case Karma hit them in more ways then one and they were very sorry indeed
I have short hair, but I'm a girl. I dress like a boy, but I'm a girl. I like boy things like video games and transformers, but I'm a girl. People say I'm to boyish, they say I need to girl up. But you know what I say? I say I AM a girl, and proud of the girl I am. :)
When Id go to school I were bullyied and I had seriously thoughts of suicide. But then I was thinking, "I love my family and my friend so much so I will miss them and I dont want that the people who loves me and spend time to make me happy will think that it was worth nothing. And the Bully cant win". That stopped me from taking suicde, and im glad I didnt take my life, couse now Im happy and got ppl around me that love me. Sry for bad english :)
A group of punks were threatening to beat me up because I was so much taller than everyone else and I wear my hair long(still do). When I finally got pissed off and challenged them to a fair fight, funny, I got no response.lol
if they dont like the way they are, turn emo, or change... joke but seriously advice for people, get a few group of friends, and play it cool, like i never got bullied i think lol but just either stand up for yourself, or tell someone or just avoid them, and theyll get bored if not then just get help from one of those sites
This is still too tame. They still talk roundabouts: Bullies are CRIMINALS. If any adult did this, you would immediately go to police, they would be tried and jailed. Repeat offenders would be jailed for a long time!!
I was bullied as a kid in the school, up to 9th grade - well, I got even. I grew one summer 18 cm taller+ i did forestcutting, that gave the a tremendous amount of strenght. Sort of a way i did what those school-shooter kids did, exept, with fists, i beated the s**t out of everybody who had bulled me. Broke some noses and hands and ribs. Trust me, it felt good. Just plain good. I dont feel guilty at all, I had been kicked, spatted and tortured for 9 years. Everybody has a limit.
Calling bullies names will never get a bully to change. Find out why the bully does what he or she does and work with them to respect themselves and the bully can and will change.
(psp hacker"8" (Because American parents SUCK. Adults have lawyers, kids get "Ignore the bullies") The answer above has always been the problem to tackle systemic bullying. When the services that are supposed to protect our children fail, it is the children who suffer. Nop one deserves to be targeted because they are different, white or blck. What I now want to know is where the lawyers are to help these kids. Any out there come on ADVERTISE!
Chloe. Trust me. There are a lot of people out there that understand. Most people have self doubts, even if they are not bullied. Bullying just makes it worse.
Thank you for making this video. Im a victum of bullying also. I have been bullied for almost 10 years now. If you ever need some one to talk to, you can always write to me.
Going to just copy and past my opinion on what i need help with. Halfway through the hour-long assault, Julie's brother issued an ultimatum threatening to send Chris's sweetheart back to Europe unless he stuck his medallion up his asshole while shouting "Zap to the extreme!" Permitting him to cut it into four pieces first, the screaming boy demanded that Chris record the whole act on webcam.
This is the Truth about BULLYING.Show it even in Dutch they hav beaten me with a hammer in the dutch at work. Then 5 years bullying fysical en treaten me. When I see this clip I think good from you to show what bullying is because people are afraid about the thruth about bullying !!! Greetings from me
Chloe. Possibly right. But I think I can put up with the bullying in this case, as she thinks she is "trying to improve me", and is basically a good person. I love your analogy of "lifting 20 elephants at once". They are pathetic. The best way is for people (bullying victims especially) to confront the schools directly. It takes determination and resolve. But you can win against them. As I mentioned, to complain to authorities as a last resort is not "snitching". It takes courage.
I remember defending a guy in High school who had asthma and in pe he got so much shit. He got a padlock thrown at his head and I beat the snot out of the little shit who hit him. Sliced the back of his head open it was a horrifying experience.
fighting back isnt hard you just do it my advice is that if ur getting bullied fight them. even if they beat the shit out of you every day for the rest of your school life you keep fighting. at least teachers might notice your bruises
i was bullyd to when i was little... to name one of the worst i was being hit by 8 other kids they punched hit and kicked me after that they puched me in the needle buches and after that they me chased down to the beach and even after one of my dad picked me up and he was driving down the street we live they where waiting for me... so it was time for a change i had 2 main charraters who where making all the other kids bully me. i gave the 1st one a push as hard as i could he dropped on the
every one says they are just unhappy. everyone has problems. thats no reason to take it out on somebody else. I have never been bullied badly. every kid in my vilige treated me like I didn't exist for 5 and a half years. Even though it may feel like nobody likes you in school thear are lots of people out here rooting for you. keep struggeling through and you WILL come out the other side!!
i luv the 'engrish' in this video... now on a more serious not: i'm a bully.... I bullied this red-haired nerd with glasses at my school (talk about bad luck: red hair, glasses, nerd)... I myself have red hair and i'm a nerd but i was born bigger and stronger than him and we bullied him... all of us... 26 kids in school forcing him an a swing cause we knew he was afraid of heights and going fast.... i dont regret it... he's a prick too and he hasn't done anything to change his way since he left
Even today, im 24, if i see some kid being bullied, i go and HURT, and i mean !HURT! those kids bullying him/her. Thats the only way you can make those f**ks to understand, as sad as it is. Pain is an exellent teacher.
i agree 100% with this i can't stand people who bully others just because someone is different or just because they(the bully) hate themselves. nobody has the right to make someone feel like dirt or garbage. people who bully are idiots and lowlifes.
Don't try to break peoples spirit. It's what's best in them and all the hope we have for a better future. Help out where you can,lead by example, and never write anyone off. We're all in this together.
You can't stop bullying... BUT you are not alone...alone you are weak...but in numbers...we CAN stop the bullies...WE CAN fight for freedom...only problem?...we are all in different schools...
has anyone got any tips for me. im 14 and get bullied just because im smaller than other people. I just dont know what to do, cos over here in Scotland standing up for urself just gets u beat up. any tips?
i agree with you. even though i can't fully relate, im only 20 years old. getting bullied sucked alot. really harsh. but i knew i had to face things like a man. cuz in the real world, in my opinion of saying this, your gonna get fucked in the ass. i had to be a man about andlearn how to deal with problems by facing it, instead of "taking it" and trying to forget about problems. you can't always run away
My school district told my son he couldn't go to my classes when I complained about racially targeted bullying. His friend fought back and got it worse. Both moved from the district because the district didn't do anything. Maybe the Columbine district didn't do anything either? I don't condone it but I understand the frustration.
don't leave school its not worth it so do this stand up for your self and if that does not help make more friends so that if you get bullyed she have to go through u and your mates it worked for me. :)
I wrote today an examination about this topic and i think you can just stop bullying if you publish it! In theNewspaper of my town we have every week a regular feature page where pupils publish there problem which they have at school. On this page were given answers to the letters by experts and by psychologists. What do you think ?
I agree that I once thought of killing the bastards who made a fool out of me but it takes great courage and wisdom to ask for help and let Karma deal with it. Revenge maybe the answer but the others are right. In my story Karma hit the bastards who hurt me in a dozen ways and were very sorry indeed.
Many of the ones who is being bullied are people with ADHD and cannot control their anger as much a person without. A boy in my class is being bullied by some of my friends. It might seem like he is the who encourages them to bully him but it is my friends who is. My roll in all that is that im not telling the teachers about it. And if i tell i will be in trouble :(
I wouldn't be suprised if the person who made this video isn't here anymore because he said in the video that he wishes he wasn't here anymore and he hasn't signed into youtube for ages
I somehow dont find that hard to beleive I got bullied in school for a while then I learnt to get violent and fight then all of a sudden made freinds with people and got into gangland feuds in school. between jumping people and doing gangfights we got around. Outside of the feud I took care of some other bullies for myself and helped out other people. After been a year out of school sometimes I miss it. Seriously some times I want to go back to school and beat up more bullies!
i remember being bullied! crying at the age of 14 and 15! even tho i had won boxing compettions from the age of 9! i didnt wanna hit a soul! untill i knew it was time to make a change around places! so the next time someone started off a situation! i started laughing at them and telling yo momma jokes haha and that really pissed them off! easier to piss off bullys ;) then him and 7 other mates came over, i smashed the shit out of them! best day of my life! now i dont have any problems off them!
@MagicWaterx helping people is the second most important thing to me, the 1st is feeding my children and putting a roof on there heads, I on ly support bullying because feeds my family
ITS THAT EASY!! i couldn't believe it!! i'd spent nearly my whole school life being bullied with NO ONE to turn to!! dont be a victim stand up for your self show that you ARE NOT scared/intimmerdated by them any more and you will come away as supprised as i did. also you really need to change the bit where it says i "prosied myself i "wldnd" cry. im sure your not a prosie and its wouldn't t not d :0)
Hello I am The one who have been being bullied. It's isn't fun and everytime I tell them to stop they won't listen. They Keep throwiing things at the back of my head and the back of my neck and those things are very hard. This is happening on my bus I even told the bus driver and the counscler
i did try fighting back but alls i got was a bloody nose and everyone laughing at me they all call me names and now im im being bullied by 3 lads but i cant tell anyone of course theyd find out am i alone and is there any confidential help i can get...
bullying will never stop no matter how much we try. people are afraid of what they don't understand or see sometimes its jealousy what ever it maybe. I don't know about anyone else here but I feel bullying if any thing has gotten worse a lot of children in the UK have been killed by bullies. This scares me more as I'm scared to send my own child to school.Seeing as it seems to be the norm for children to carry knifes/guns around with them.
Bullying is all about someone's hurting you physically? But bullying make us strong sometimes, beacause it teaches us to be more socialize. If someone bully you, just don't mind him at all, instead pray for him that God will change his life.
You should be proud of yourself because you are making someone else's life great. What your doing will save her life. I know what its like to be bullied only very few people would hang around with me. Now you have 2 alternatives: give up your popularity or your good heart.
at that point she did the usual bully stuff & started threaatening me saying you wait ima kick the fck outa u - and i interrupted her again, i said, yeah well come on then do it now i i'll fight ya n kick the fck outa U now (at this point my brain was screaming at me to shut the hell up), to my shock she backed doen saying she couldnt fight at school so i told her to come and knock for me after school n do it then... cut along argument short bout 2wks later she came up to me & asked to make up!!
Dont' worry, there are ways to stop it. If we could at leat be nice to everyone, even the bullies, the rate of bullying & bullycide would gradually decrease. My challenge to you all would be to not bully... at all. You would make friends, and even save lives! That's the best part of all.
i do bullyings but only to ppl who start width me first or try to bully me or my friends then they are bullied severly and i dont care what size they are
the most problem that no one can stop bullying is that no one supports the one that is being bullied. they're worried that they might get picked on next so they just keep their mouth shut. or either theyre misunderstood about the situation that is going on
If I could I would reach out to all the bully victims, and give them all a hug.
"there is no such thing as someone better than you" that is what i kept telling myself when i was bullied
I never had any serious issues with bullying...I was too crazy to let someone just beat me up everyday...but I had to deal with racism, which pissed me off and leaves me bitter to this day.
I get bullied as far ranged as having words and rumor said about me to reeses pieces thrown at my head to being pushed down the gym bleachers and beat up. It's terrible. I've been bullied for 9 years. It's emotional and physical scarring for life. It's gotten so bad that now when I hear people laugh when I'm around I have to turn around or keep an extra sensitive hearing on things to make sure that they aren't talkin bout me. It's just...........something you can't explain
As adults we NEED to protect children. Teachers, parents and government officials. WE need to stop BULLYING!!!
the worst thing about being bullied is that you realize how unkind people is,and you try to dont care but you cant,you need affection but nobody is even giving you a chance,so it seems that people is so evil,and if people is not good then the universe doesnt have any sense,and then you turn evil
Almost nobody ever stood up for me when I was getting bullied especially in middle school. Talk about the bystander effect everybody was just a bunch of stones. Only 2 times someone stood up for me:One of my ex-bullies Paul stood up to my other bully Chris Braswell and a couple times a kid named Tommy Bearden stood up to a bully of mine named Mack Mosh. I wish more people stood up for me though and that the teachers were more caring and vigilante to bullying. ;'(
Aside from the computer-grammar which gave me a twitch each time I read a misspelled word, I loved this video! You did a wonderful job and the song and images you wove together really helped to make your point.
It is always best to confront bullies with violence. That is the only thing they understand. Single out the leader and fight him as hard as you can. I did this on three occasions and surprised myself by winning. Also, I got into a fight against someone I thought was a weak guy. He bopped me on the nose and bought tears to my eyes. That was a good lesson to me.
If the bully does win, get determined and take combat lessons. You MUST get him back. The fight goes on. Hang tough!
By the way, the worst thing after all, is that the society puts the victims of bullying as criminal and mentally insane, the media show bullying victims as "the next to shoot everybody at school", that's why many victims are sometimes ashamed of admitting the situation which they're in. While the ones that practice the bullying is just a "bored" child.
In the United States, there's no federal law against cyber bullying -- yet. A bill introduced to the House of Representatives last year would make it against the law to
intimidate, harass, or cause substantial emotional distress to a person, using electronic means to support severe, repeated, and hostile behavior.
" Anyone found guilty of this crime could face a fine or a prison term of up to two years.
I was severly bullied all throughout school. It damages the spirit. I was very suicidal. Luckily I was never one of the ones who gave in. Now my life is SO much better! It's only for a season...Always remember that and never give up.
when I went to school either people hated me or didn't give a care. The ones that seemed to hurt more was the ones that didn't care at all.
at school and college all the chavs used to harrass me
i couldn't bring my basketball during break time because they always ran off with it and 1 time they threw it on the music block roof (i had to ask the caretaker to help me get it back)
when i turned 17 i took up skateboarding as a hobby, chavs made videos of me falling off for the first time and sent it to people around my town and posted it on youtube they even showed it to new comers at college
You are very brave. I also was bullied but I can tell you many stories that the victims become legends and the bullies become a guttersnipe who have no life.
Bullies are weak, but the victims are weaker for giving into it. All these anti-bullying organizations and crap are just giving them a sense of power. One thing in this day and age: self defense.
i've tried to several times! im so tired of living. every where i look i am reminded of my past. and somtimes my past repeats itself. somtimes i just want it to end. somtimes i feel life is worse than deaf!
The only way we can stop bullying is to teach our children to be strong minded and not be intimidated easily. Teach them to be strong physically as well as metally & also get that boy or girl to learn some self defense so when they encounter a bully then know just how to deal with them if it comes down to using their fists.
When in the 4th vid, you asked are there any other reasons to follow to help diminish bullying? I thought, "Are you touching souls?" Sometimes the sweetest people is who we need to be on the interior to recognize what needs to be searched for yonder to order.
fight fire with fire. bully back. years and years of bullying turned me into quite an aggressive person who doesn't take shit from anybody nowadays.
@albertescamilla Often it's those that have a lot of empathy and a kind heart. Bullies resent what they have, because they haven't got it, so they have to destroy what they are envious and jealous of. By bringing other's down it gives them more power, but they will always lack empathy, remorse and love.
I for one disapprove of anti bully campaigns, as a psychologist bullies are a big part of the reason my practice is booming, the victims let thier bullies tear down there self esteem, so the parents of the victims pay me $400 a week to rebuild there childs self esteem, and btw I don't charge $400 a session Icharge $200 a session but I set up the patients for 2 sessions a week
Not all people who are bullied can fight back and some just don't know how to. That's why many bullies prowl for them, to make themselves feel better when they harm the defense-less.
love it i used to get bullied everyday since i was 4 and its realy effected my life but now i get home educated and everyday im getting slightly more confident
It's funny how people always say how big of wimps bullies are but they never do stand up to them.
In a lot of bullying, a punch is never thrown. It's just a bunch of people with the social power to ensure that you will have no friends (except for those who are extremely brave and willing to give it all up to make friends with one person.) Even if you fight back, you're still a pariah because most people don't want to put their necks on the line.
You can yell at them, punch them, talk back - but it's the social pressure, not the physical violence, that does the damage.
I agree with you wholeheartedly I was bullied on the rare occasion I would fight back but I never liked hurting people because I was always taught :Violence achieves nothing and Don't be a doormat so I decided to let Karma deal with them and in my case Karma hit them in more ways then one and they were very sorry indeed
the subject of bulling is one that i am very passionate about , i hate it in all forms
silvex:
Well, there is a happy medium.
God bless you and all those who feel bullied at school. ( :
Being bullied teach one how to handle adversity. Do away with bullying and you raise a generation of wimps.
I have short hair, but I'm a girl. I dress like a boy, but I'm a girl. I like boy things like video games and transformers, but I'm a girl. People say I'm to boyish, they say I need to girl up. But you know what I say? I say I AM a girl, and proud of the girl I am. :)
When Id go to school I were bullyied and I had seriously thoughts of suicide. But then I was thinking, "I love my family and my friend so much so I will miss them and I dont want that the people who loves me and spend time to make me happy will think that it was worth nothing. And the Bully cant win". That stopped me from taking suicde, and im glad I didnt take my life, couse now Im happy and got ppl around me that love me.
Sry for bad english :)
A group of punks were threatening to beat me up because I was so much taller than everyone else and I wear my hair long(still do). When I finally got pissed off and challenged them to a fair fight, funny, I got no response.lol
I saw this on a news clip. This is going to make a huge difference in the world. Children are cruel
if they dont like the way they are, turn emo, or change...
joke but seriously advice for people, get a few group of friends, and play it cool, like i never got bullied i think lol but just either stand up for yourself, or tell someone or just avoid them, and theyll get bored if not then just get help from one of those sites
This is still too tame. They still talk roundabouts:
Bullies are CRIMINALS.
If any adult did this, you would immediately go to police, they would be tried and jailed. Repeat offenders would be jailed for a long time!!
I was bullied as a kid in the school, up to 9th grade - well, I got even. I grew one summer 18 cm taller+ i did forestcutting, that gave the a tremendous amount of strenght.
Sort of a way i did what those school-shooter kids did, exept, with fists, i beated the s**t out of everybody who had bulled me. Broke some noses and hands and ribs. Trust me, it felt good. Just plain good. I dont feel guilty at all, I had been kicked, spatted and tortured for 9 years. Everybody has a limit.
Calling bullies names will never get a bully to change. Find out why the bully does what he or she does and work with them to respect themselves and the bully can and will change.
(psp hacker"8"
(Because American parents SUCK. Adults have lawyers, kids get "Ignore the bullies")
The answer above has always been the problem to tackle systemic bullying. When the services that are supposed to protect our children fail, it is the children who suffer.
Nop one deserves to be targeted because they are different, white or blck. What I now want to know is where the lawyers are to help these kids.
Any out there come on ADVERTISE!
It's not always quite as simple as that for some people. If you become an outcast you can't hurt everyone in your class, or year.
Chloe. Trust me. There are a lot of people out there that understand. Most people have self doubts, even if they are not bullied. Bullying just makes it worse.
Can't stop asking yourself... "Why Me?" vs "Everything happen for a reason" But for what reason?!.
Thank you for making this video. Im a victum of bullying also. I have been bullied for almost 10 years now. If you ever need some one to talk to, you can always write to me.
Going to just copy and past my opinion on what i need help with.
Halfway through the hour-long assault, Julie's brother issued an ultimatum threatening to send Chris's sweetheart back to Europe unless he stuck his medallion up his asshole
while shouting "Zap to the extreme!"
Permitting him to cut it into four pieces first, the screaming boy demanded that Chris record the whole act on webcam.
This is why I do not want my younger sister going to middle school :/
This is the Truth about BULLYING.Show it even in Dutch they hav beaten me with a hammer in the dutch at work.
Then 5 years bullying fysical en treaten me.
When I see this clip I think good from you to show what bullying is because people are afraid about the thruth about bullying !!!
Greetings from me
Tell someone mate, it sounds like a cliche but it honestly works
i get bullied everyday but i dont know what i do wrong sometimes i wish i was dead :-(
Chloe. Possibly right. But I think I can put up with the bullying in this case, as she thinks she is "trying to improve me", and is basically a good person.
I love your analogy of "lifting 20 elephants at once". They are pathetic. The best way is for people (bullying victims especially) to confront the schools directly. It takes determination and resolve. But you can win against them. As I mentioned, to complain to authorities as a last resort is not "snitching". It takes courage.
I remember defending a guy in High school who had asthma and in pe he got so much shit. He got a padlock thrown at his head and I beat the snot out of the little shit who hit him. Sliced the back of his head open it was a horrifying experience.
i love ur powerful way of delivering this message. 5 stars ^-^. =)
bullying can never be stopped because humans are pack animals and we have a picking order.
fighting back isnt hard you just do it my advice is that if ur getting bullied fight them. even if they beat the shit out of you every day for the rest of your school life you keep fighting. at least teachers might notice your bruises
i was bullyd to when i was little... to name one of the worst i was being hit by 8 other kids they punched hit and kicked me after that they puched me in the needle buches and after that they me chased down to the beach and even after one of my dad picked me up and he was driving down the street we live they where waiting for me...
so it was time for a change i had 2 main charraters who where making all the other kids bully me. i gave the 1st one a push as hard as i could he dropped on the
I am a victim of bullying.. this needs to end NOW.
every one says they are just unhappy. everyone has problems. thats no reason to take it out on somebody else. I have never been bullied badly. every kid in my vilige treated me like I didn't exist for 5 and a half years. Even though it may feel like nobody likes you in school thear are lots of people out here rooting for you. keep struggeling through and you WILL come out the other side!!
yeah lol I realized that it's 'Hero' once the song got further in but thanks anyways!
i luv the 'engrish' in this video...
now on a more serious not: i'm a bully.... I bullied this red-haired nerd with glasses at my school (talk about bad luck: red hair, glasses, nerd)... I myself have red hair and i'm a nerd but i was born bigger and stronger than him and we bullied him... all of us... 26 kids in school forcing him an a swing cause we knew he was afraid of heights and going fast.... i dont regret it... he's a prick too and he hasn't done anything to change his way since he left
Even today, im 24, if i see some kid being bullied, i go and HURT, and i mean !HURT! those kids bullying him/her. Thats the only way you can make those f**ks to understand, as sad as it is. Pain is an exellent teacher.
I agree the author of this video needs one. Thanks for agreeing with me.
i agree 100% with this i can't stand people who bully others just because someone is different or just because they(the bully) hate themselves. nobody has the right to make someone feel like dirt or garbage. people who bully are idiots and lowlifes.
nvm! once i heard the chorus i realized it's hero by Enrique Eglasias
Don't try to break peoples spirit. It's what's best in them and all the hope we have for a better future. Help out where you can,lead by example, and never write anyone off. We're all in this together.
this video made me cry poor kid that have to go thorugh that every day.
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You can't stop bullying... BUT you are not alone...alone you are weak...but in numbers...we CAN stop the bullies...WE CAN fight for freedom...only problem?...we are all in different schools...
has anyone got any tips for me. im 14 and get bullied just because im smaller than other people. I just dont know what to do, cos over here in Scotland standing up for urself just gets u beat up. any tips?
i agree with you. even though i can't fully relate, im only 20 years old. getting bullied sucked alot. really harsh. but i knew i had to face things like a man. cuz in the real world, in my opinion of saying this, your gonna get fucked in the ass. i had to be a man about andlearn how to deal with problems by facing it, instead of "taking it" and trying to forget about problems. you can't always run away
My school district told my son he couldn't go to my classes when I complained about racially targeted bullying. His friend fought back and got it worse. Both moved from the district because the district didn't do anything. Maybe the Columbine district didn't do anything either? I don't condone it but I understand the frustration.
thank you so much. i get bullied every day. at school. online and even at church. to me it seems like the only safe place is my room most of the time
don't leave school its not worth it so do this stand up for your self and if that does not help make more friends so that if you get bullyed she have to go through u and your mates it worked for me. :)
Great video! This'll help bullying victims! Good work!
this is the best anti bullying video on youtube great job whats the name of the song
...power given by the ones who dont do anything to defend themselves
I wrote today an examination about this topic and i think you can just stop bullying if you publish it! In theNewspaper of my town we have every week a regular feature page where pupils publish there problem which they have at school. On this page were given answers to the letters by experts and by psychologists.
What do you think ?
one thing I must know why the hell dont parents just remove their kids from this situation?.
Damn it.
I agree that I once thought of killing the bastards who made a fool out of me but it takes great courage and wisdom to ask for help and let Karma deal with it. Revenge maybe the answer but the others are right. In my story Karma hit the bastards who hurt me in a dozen ways and were very sorry indeed.
gostei muitooo!!!!
Many of the ones who is being bullied are people with ADHD and cannot control their anger as much a person without. A boy in my class is being bullied by some of my friends. It might seem like he is the who encourages them to bully him but it is my friends who is. My roll in all that is that im not telling the teachers about it. And if i tell i will be in trouble :(
I wouldn't be suprised if the person who made this video isn't here anymore because he said in the video that he wishes he wasn't here anymore and he hasn't signed into youtube for ages
I somehow dont find that hard to beleive I got bullied in school for a while then I learnt to get violent and fight then all of a sudden made freinds with people and got into gangland feuds in school. between jumping people and doing gangfights we got around. Outside of the feud I took care of some other bullies for myself and helped out other people. After been a year out of school sometimes I miss it. Seriously some times I want to go back to school and beat up more bullies!
i remember being bullied! crying at the age of 14 and 15! even tho i had won boxing compettions from the age of 9! i didnt wanna hit a soul! untill i knew it was time to make a change around places! so the next time someone started off a situation! i started laughing at them and telling yo momma jokes haha and that really pissed them off! easier to piss off bullys ;) then him and 7 other mates came over, i smashed the shit out of them! best day of my life! now i dont have any problems off them!
@MagicWaterx helping people is the second most important thing to me, the 1st is feeding my children and putting a roof on there heads, I on ly support bullying because feeds my family
ITS THAT EASY!! i couldn't believe it!! i'd spent nearly my whole school life being bullied with NO ONE to turn to!! dont be a victim stand up for your self show that you ARE NOT scared/intimmerdated by them any more and you will come away as supprised as i did.
also you really need to change the bit where it says i "prosied myself i "wldnd" cry. im sure your not a prosie and its wouldn't t not d :0)
rearly good video ive been bullied for about 7 years now but the teachers dont help but without my brother and friends it could be a lot worse
Hello I am The one who have been being bullied. It's isn't fun and everytime I tell them to stop they won't listen. They Keep throwiing things at the back of my head and the back of my neck and those things are very hard. This is happening on my bus I even told the bus driver and the counscler
lol. I can't take this vid seriously with Enrique Iglesias pumpin away in the background...
bullying sucks when a guy cpomes to the school u need to be his friend
i did try fighting back but alls i got was a bloody nose and everyone laughing at me they all call me names and now im im being bullied by 3 lads but i cant tell anyone of course theyd find out am i alone and is there any confidential help i can get...
@lancebasslover99 in my opinion the 'tough' ones are those who stick up for themselves/others, not someone who cowers around keeping to themselves.
bullying will never stop no matter how much we try. people are afraid of what they don't understand or see sometimes its jealousy what ever it maybe. I don't know about anyone else here but I feel bullying if any thing has gotten worse a lot of children in the UK have been killed by bullies. This scares me more as I'm scared to send my own child to school.Seeing as it seems to be the norm for children to carry knifes/guns around with them.
Bullies are pretty cool in my book.
Bullying is all about someone's hurting you physically?
But bullying make us strong sometimes, beacause it teaches us to be more socialize.
If someone bully you, just don't mind him at all, instead pray for him that God will change his life.
You should be proud of yourself because you are making someone else's life great. What your doing will save her life. I know what its like to be bullied only very few people would hang around with me. Now you have 2 alternatives: give up your popularity or your good heart.
at that point she did the usual bully stuff & started threaatening me saying you wait ima kick the fck outa u - and i interrupted her again, i said, yeah well come on then do it now i i'll fight ya n kick the fck outa U now (at this point my brain was screaming at me to shut the hell up), to my shock she backed doen saying she couldnt fight at school so i told her to come and knock for me after school n do it then... cut along argument short bout 2wks later she came up to me & asked to make up!!
Dont' worry, there are ways to stop it. If we could at leat be nice to everyone, even the bullies, the rate of bullying & bullycide would gradually decrease. My challenge to you all would be to not bully... at all. You would make friends, and even save lives! That's the best part of all.
Fools will always regard correction as negative.
i do bullyings but only to ppl who start width me first or try to bully me or my friends then they are bullied severly and i dont care what size they are
hero mega mix i can't spell the name of the person that sings it so sorry bullying scars heal on the out side but never go away on the inside
i like this sng...
whts it called?