American Man finds love, marriage and betrayal with a Filipina
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- UGNAYAN 03-27-2017
A story of love by an American man who was married and betrayed by a Filipina.
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Im a Filipina engage to an American, and Im so sorry about what happened to you, all i can say is that not all filipina are the same as your ex-wife, there's lot of good, nice, kind and faithful filipina also.
Not all Filipinas but way too many of them for anyone to feel comfortable bringing them here
32 years and not cheated on yet.
@@bobnewhart4318let be together I love you free of charge, come let stay here in Tanzania - kenya
Ive been married to a filipina for nearly 25 years and have been going back and forth for the same amount of time we even have property there. I've learnt that the Philippines is a fools paradise and be very wary of all those smiling welcoming faces.
#facts
You’re exactly right. Great observation.
I’m a Filipina and married to my American husband for 25 years too with 12 years difference in age and still happy and very much in love, we have one child, a son who is 21 years old now; you are right about smiling faces in pinas, I have lots of those faces mostly relatives that only remember me when they want something; their usual greetings for hello or how are you is “give me money” or “send me money”it annoys my husband to no end and I just laugh and learned to ignore them when they say this to me, I can’t change them so I just learn to deal with it my way.Have a blessed day sir.
@ywryyu Why you hating on them someone broke your heart Why waste your time making comments if you gonna be negative towards Just stay away from the story
Peter Brown is
Thank you for not judging us Filipina .Thre are still Filipinas who honor marriage and relationships.God bless you !
I am so sorry for this gentleman. I was very impressed with how he responded to this! I love that he refused to take that experience to bitterness and racism. He is a hero for how he handled it. I am excited to see the follow up story. Also, I lived in the Philippines. I speak Tagalog fluently. And these people who are saying terrible things about Filipinas being scammers; there are plenty of scammers in any country. Please do not overgeneralize! There waaaaay more wonderful Filipina women than there are scammers. Please learn from this man and learn from his love and forgiveness!
He's a man with honor and decency
I have a Filipina wife we are living here together in Europe all I can say I'm the luckiest man in the world. She is the best gift I've ever had in my life I really love her!
Nice! I am also in love with a Filipina.Nice to hear after reading all the racist idiots commenting here.Why do I read them.lol.Cheers
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This guy is geniune..i really feel sorry for this guy and shamed on her ex wife..u derserve someone else and pray for you to heal the pain and move on
You have to move on and look a woman closer to your age because you know younger womans only want luxury and in moments of intimacy she will not be satisfied with old man so yiu must be careful when you fall in love again praying for you to heal the pain🙏🙏🙏
Syeolli Maeg ..are you looking for a husband? I am available..I will be there soon..
Syeolli Maeg hello
Great man, open heart (again)
@@janpierzchala2004 hello
on an ldr with a dutch guy. he’s 5 years older than me and we’re planning to meet each other for the first time this year. i work as a nurse here in japan and he is a policeman. he mentioned to me that he had a three year relatioship with a filipina before and it really broke his heart when the woman left her because he was not her ideal partner. the guy gave her his time, love, and even cared for her child because she’s a single parent. when i first met him online, he looked really shabby and depressed. now, he is going to the gym, spending more time with his family and taking good care of himself.
I am so sorry to hear this. As a filipina this is so frustrating to know. I'm glad that you don't judge us all because of what she did.... It's also good to hear that you found a new one. God bless you.
I can feel his heart broken into pieces and deep pain with sorrow on his face. I am filipina and i am ashamed to those doing like they are evil in disguise. He fell victim to that evil. I feel sorry for him. I can see he is such a good hearted and a good person.
My husband and I married almost 8yrs now.. And is very happy and content with each other. He doesn't have much financially, but have much to offer when it comes to loving me as his wife. I am very grateful feeling loved and be loved. Love your husband with all your heart, soul and respect..🌹🌼🌸🌺 💝
I am so sorry that this happened to you. My brother married a Filipino lady and has had at least 22 years of a happy marriage and still going strong. I love my sister-in-law. She is a sweetheart, beautiful, and hard working. There are a lot of good women out here. Keep your heart open. Best of luck to you.
My advice to the older guys from the US is do not marry a young Filipina, marry an older one closer to your age. If you are 60 marry one that is 40 or older. Young women will always look for young men as their partner. Maybe not all young women will do that, but you'll never know. Sorry to say that you've a victim of a family affair. FAMILY AFFAIR
That's a "White Man" fantasy.
Expect the unexpected from filipina
Dan Sibayo oh really? I am 23 when I met my husband and he was 54. Guess what we are happily married now 3 years of being married and many years to come. Don’t generalize! I love my husband to death. They just met the wrong womens.
Mae Spurs yes you are right.. I meet my fiancée and I love him so much too and we expecting a baby soon.. young or old are not thesame ..
not all but almost filipina are good hearted ,but we are not perfect ,everyone got mistakes,but we must know well the person were going to love before giving our trust...
A few men had already approached me to help them find a filipina wife. I gave them advice but that was how far it went. There are many good hearted Filipina women but there are also thousands who are scammers as well. Men, like women, should use their intuition, too. Observe the way women dress, how they behave with others especially men, how they handle money, if they have common sense, how they treat their parents, what they talk about most often etc. Talk about their dreams, their willingness to learn another language and culture , how many children they wish to have, their future plans, her expectations from you etc. Looks are superficial. Many who like to wear tight fitting clothes love attention. Jealous men should avoid them like a plague. If they lie, no matter how trivial, expect that they will lie again. From experience, a person will find it difficult to hide her true character after six months. So, be patient. It is supposedly a life long commitment. It should never be rushed. By the way, not all filipina women can cook or enjoy doing housework :)
One of the main problems is too much age gap, the guy is too damn controlling or too mean. The guy needs to get real and get off that fantasy somebody still on the baby bottle & bubble gum wants a husband she has to push around in a wheelchair unless he is Hugh Hefner with bags and bags of money.
carmendodgechic .zeetamil
Probably one of the best break down of advice I have read well done:). Look I met my wife online back in 2009, and we continued to chat, then chat exclusively until we met in real in 2011. Pretty much all your above principles we both implemented to learn each other and understand each other. My wife was the first lady from the Philippines I had ever met, and 2011 was my visit there to meet her and her family and friends. Naturally after taking time to learn each other, we really enjoyed each others company, later marrying in 2015. Now the bad, not in our relationship, but the ones like here on you tube. They meet and 6 months later married!!! In any country that is asking for trouble, and your are not living together, how would you know a person in that short time? How would you know her family? It is a receipt for disaster, its not a race. Stick within the realm of your age group too.
carmendodgechic I found love in laugna Philippines. I’m Egyptian happily married to a Filipina 😍
too bad u don't have a channel..all you said is true.me being a filipina..hope the foreigners will take heed to your advise
My husband and I met during those days that I was so depressed and badly wanted someone to talk to. He is 14 years older than I, he's 44 and I was 30 on that time. I am a faithful born-again Christian and didnt think of marrying a foreign man but I guess the Lord wanted me to find a mature man who would understand my attitude. I prayed for a mature man who knows how to handle a family not a young man who is childish.. My husband is so blessed because God removed all his filipina ex-girlfriends in his life - those women who just wanted to live in the US and wanted to have a good life.. I thought that I would grow old single because most filipino men are shy and I thank God that a man married me and pursued me despite of rejecting him. Now, my husband serves God with me and he's now a christian and was baptized last April. He will retire after 5 years and we will live here in the Philippines. Living in the US is not my dream.
A good gf/wife should be the fruit of your prayers. May God give you the desires of your heart. God bless you..
Unless you’re living in the right place it’s not the greatest in the US. Any big city isn’t nice. The Philippines is a tropical paradise in many areas. So either country can be great or terrible.
I do credit my Christian faith to the longevity of our relationship and the health of our family.
As a Christian American we know what we’ve been blessed with. The opportunity to change someone’s life for the better is a dream come true. I always hope that I complete that mission to the very end.
I have a lot of experience with Filipinas in the Philippines. First if you are even thinking of giving a Filipina any sig nificant amount of money you had better due some backround on her. They are famous for playing guys to get money out of them PERIOD. If you are stupid enough to give her money and don't do some research you GET EXACTLY WHAT YOU PAY FOR. You may as well go to Vegas or a horsetrack because your money will be gone. Now if you find out she is in fact an honest, good girl (very rare) never loan her or her family money because there is no such thing. Just give it and consider it gone with an open heart. Now if you are really an idiot and marry her DO NOT BRING HER TO THE US. If you do you will end up just like this guy. Do you really think some young, beautiful Filipina will honestly love some 50, 60 or older guy who is bald with a beer belly? She will love you long time as long as the cash keeps flowing.
What ALL Americano guys should do is go to the Philippines and enjoy the beautiful women, beaches, weather, food and drink. Don't give large amounts of money TO ANYONE. If you do hook up with a Filipina keep her on a short leash in terms of money & do some recon. Talk to her friends, neighbors and anyone who knows her. If things look good then proceed. If she is just looking to play you along with ten other guys just **** her and put her on a bus. It may sound mean but believe me if you do not follow this advice you will end up broke and bitter.
Maybe you just meeting a wrong person for you to love, to be honest nit all Filipina are like that, i say sorry of whst other's than, but not all.
Wow, if that your heart to play a filipina girls, were not all the sane as u think, we also have a dignity and name to protect, for our life and future, beside i have bad experience also in a English man, but i never tough thst its all same.
I totally agree with you. I am also a filipina. I already have a boyfriend as well. The first thing my boyfriend told me is he is poor, I replyed I am poor as well, I know how it feels to have nothing. When we see each other he offers me a lot of things but I keep on saying "keep that honey, save money, don't spend it." whenever he tries to buy some expensive meal I always told him "We can eat in a cheaper restaurant honey, its so expensive here". He always tell me I do deserve to be treated that way this way, I look at him and always say "You don't need to spend money for our dates honey, your presence is more than enough". I love him truly, I gave him the best gift that a woman can only gave to a man. He is my first and will be my last.
I love you honey Pete 😘
When i met my bf i told him already we never argue this 3 such things!
1.family
2.religion
3.money😂
Mark Davis this advise is true in any town, city, state or country!! I don’t know how older men get wrapped up with these obvious gold diggers! If you can’t find someone where you live, there’s nowhere on earth you’ll find it anywhere else!!
I met a gal over there and found out later that the brother was the bf and I was used for money and couldn't figure out why on the divoce certificate of the first said mental cruelty.
I met a colombian lady online, and we met in Panama City, Panama. We liked each other like right away and decided to spend sometime living together as friends. We married and have been together for more than 8 years with two kids, one that belongs to her previous marriage and our son. I think that colombian women tend to be more oriented to families and that they don't want you to be just the money provider. My wife works from home as a trader and so do I. So, life is simple: Don't go too far to find your soul mate.
I'm so sorry for this Filipina is not a good heart . You can find a good person someday she's shameful.
You cant trust most Filipino women in my experience they can be very deceitful I've been out with many Filipino women that lived in the Philippines and I have had bad experiences with all of them. And im not racist I think Filipino women are very beautiful but you have to make sure you find the right one. I was even engaged to one of these girls. And my advice to foreigners be very careful. Im speaking from experience. If you meet a Filipino girl get to know them. test them if she comes to your country watch how she talks to your friends and family you will find out if she loves you.
U just didn't find the right one....I'm also a filipina but i didn't think that way, as.they do.....
Not all...
Most of them.. just want money to support the family back home. Its very sad to hear this. Be careful a lot of them are gold diggers
Totally agree. Same as my experience there and many expats I've met while there. The solution is to not marry and be snipped and very careful as there are maraming serious scams played on foreigners. You know this by now. If there was a land of mythical NAWALT's, every man would be living there.
Phil Powell can't blame you coz you had burned by your experience:), some Filipinas i know married to caucasians have successful relationship. Dunno the formula but maybe they r equally successful in their own rights! And they just don't jump on the relationship. Know each other well is one factor tho:)
As sad as his story is, his wife is the exception and not the rule. I met my wife online and we’re celebrating 9 wonderful years together. Of course we socialize with other Pinay/American couples and without question 100% are successful. I don’t think that it is a filipina problem but a human problem. Users come in all shapes and nationalities. My advice to him would be to get back on the horse and ride. He simply met the wrong one. Try the online route this time. Also Filipinos are great at gossiping, if you have any worries just ask one of her friends, they’ll tell you.
Married 30 years myself.
I met a Filipina online; visited her and her family a few times. I then sold my lake front house in the USA and moved to Manila. I bought a new house in Laguna Bel Air III and lived with her entire family in the new house. I invested in many businesses for the family (3 jeepneys, sari-sari store, internet cafe and a loan business). I lived in Sta Rosa for 18 Months and then I needed to go back to the USA to file personal income taxes and other personal business. While I was gone my wife went to the bank and emptied the account. Joy went on 'vacation' with all of the money I had left in our CitiBank account. My wife had a good time with her boyfriend in the Philippines while I was in the USA. I forgave my wife and worked on her immigration papers to live in the USA. My wife came to the USA with a green card and six Months later she left me one final time wanting a divorce. While I was in the away from our bedroom, my now ex-wife wrote down all of the credit card information and tried to use my credit cards while she was in the Philippines visiting family. My ex-wife admits to three different extramarital affairs (only because I saw pictures of her with these men). Joy’s bff, told me it was more like 12 different guys over the six year marriage. My ex-wife had a heart murmur and could not breathe well; thanks to me and my money, she had surgery and is healthy now and living in the USA. I wasted well over $200,000 USD on her. The house in Laguna Bel Air III is now for sale….
That's ridiculous,i hope you find your one true love who will love you truly,im so sorry for your sad story
R K so sorry to heard that , life not end yet
Province girls only... And good background.. no kids.. being first man is important
@@guambroker Not all province girls won't cheat.However you are right about getting a girl with no kids and not working in a bar or places where prostitution is rampant like Angeles,Pampanga or Subic.
@@sofievilla7253 of course not all, but vast majority I see as better for me than a city girl. I prefer conservative values, old-fashioned, somewhat religious.. and a GOOD FAMILY.
gold diggers Are Everwere in the world
Joey Hasbell yes you are right much better to careful
Especially in pH
He got "Pinay'd!"
I have met (through friends in a non-romantic way) several Filipinas that have done this same thing. One of them even has 2 children that she left behind in the Philippines and the German man has no idea that she has children back in the Philippines. The 2nd child was conceived and born WHILE SHE COURTING the German man she is married to right now!
I wish I can meet a man like this!
Very nice and serious guy in relationship!
Aww... that baby pic looks so cuddly to hug! I love babies
Let say an old man gets married to a young woman and have some children with that wife, if that man dies , which is a reality that would be a tremendous amount of responsibility for the woman to raise a fatherless kid. You have to consider the culture shock for the young wife , if she has to work the old husband would have to take good care of baby . If you have money and already retired just stay as you are , enjoy your single life, there are so many things in life that an old man can enjoy especially here in America. If you want to travel do it but don't get hitched for trouble is lurking around the bend. Avoid pain in your pocket book and pain in your heart.
Cynthia Castillo Men can’t live without women. Simple.
Not true!!!!I dont want to be an "A.T.M" machine,very happy to be alone for over 20 years now.
If he’s like me he’s still struggling, I too had a pinay do something very similar, I was made to believe she loved me and we were meant to be.
I’m only 41 she was 30 with 2 kids. I even went to their family church and met everyone, until I found out the terrible truth about her other relationship wich ripped my hart out. Not being any use anymore she called me and told me she didn’t love me and she has never loved me, she said iv only pretend to love you because I needed to money. She just cut off all communication and never spoke to me again. No one ever deserves to be treated like that. I loved her more then life it self. Never once lied or cheated, I only had eyes for her. She was all I needed.
If I could go back to the day we met in sm mall. I’d of never went to Starbucks.
I felt sorry to hear about it..so bad experience ...I know the feeling.of being betray ..i hope you can still find one for you...God Bless you.
What surprises me is that this woman seems to ask her questions like a robot with no emotion. No empathy to be seen at all. While this man breaks in front of her telling his story..
I am so heart broken for what this lady did this to you... And Ive been betrayed by my filipino man who i was married too
My heart goes out to this man and i hope he's doing better today.
So Sad and painful what has happened to this Gentlemen. Obviously he picked the wrong one.
Lots of blessings stay strong, move on and be happy.
Not all Filipino ladies are the same. My late British husband had nearly similar experience as this gentleman. However, he didn't give up coz he thought and hopeful that he could find a good Filipina. And yes, he did! He found me and we're happily married with children. Unfortunately though, he passed on due to cancer 20 yrs ago. There's a lot of good ladies out there so don't lose hope. ..good luck!!!
I feel bad what happen to you. This makes me mad to some of my fellow filipina become a gold digger I try my best to give a good reputation as Filipina. I hope you found the right wife for you.
Fe Reimer *gold digger
Gold digger how to be you po. Lol Im not one of them. I strived hard by my own in order for me to accomplish my goal's in life. Does it means that marrying a foreigner is the only way to be successful wow ha.
Just saying✌
Im a Filipina married to a British man for 7 yrs now and he was a 64 yrs that time we met and i was 38yrs old. But i have seen how honest he is and the way he care about me made me love him more. And trying to give him back the love his giving me. He got four grown up children fr his first marraige and we 1 son now. Happy being together as family. Age gap its not important for everybody.
sad to hear your story of betrayal.. Hope you can find your happiness
I'm feel so sorry for that...
So sad
Sad story im very sorry for ur experience...but not all filipina are the same😅
Bakit List you are right 100 %....unfortunately plenty are just gold diggers....you know how a real honest and caring lady maybe...but for us foreigners its hard to find....even one....filipinas should first thinking all foreigners are rich or can get them to their own country first....They should also think that all me are bad boys looking only for sex.... FB or dating sites are definitely not the place to find the pefect wife or hubby ....greetings from France.... Smile :)
loic buchet you are write about that .all site are only for s3x coz guy only wants pleasure
yes they are
No not all Filipinas are that way, but the more beautiful she is the more skills she has at her game.
Filipinas are TRAINED to use men. Its a life skill passed down from grandmother to mother to daughters. Filipinas young and old, beautiful and ugly, fat and skinny are ALL taught to swindle money from men. White, western men are the easiest marks because thet tend to buy into the "submissive" Asian woman stereotype. I am not Asian but one of my childhood friends is Filipina and her mother would lecture us about boys/men all of the time. According to my friend's mom, she had a very specific hierarchy of which men to target and why.
I am a Filipino-American (Both my parents entered the U.S. as immigrants, and they were hard working Americans). I often wonder why American and other foreign men have to resort to looking for a wife in a foreign country where there's so much poverty. I know someone who was communicating with a Filipina online, and he went to the Phillippines to meet her. She never showed up (We all think that she did and thought that he wasn't her type, so she decided to stop communicating with him). If you're going to marry a Filipina, make sure she's on the same intellectual and maturity level as you are. Make it a long engagement. Find out where she went to school, and where she has worked. Ask around regarding her reputation. You're basically doing your homework, and a background check. Also, make sure you have a pre-nuptial agreement.
As for these older men from other countries seeking an Asian wife, really? Often I find these guys wait so long to settle down, that by the time that they do, they're looking for a young wife to take care of them in their old age. Let's be serious here. Why would a considerably younger woman want to spend her time caring for some older guy when, for the first time in her life, she's being introduced to all the luxuries she's never had before? Also, some of these guys are wanting kids for the first time in their lives, and expect younger wives to literally deliver. How are you going to coach Little League baseball, or pee wee football when you're too busy at work with a career preparing for retirement and or when you can't even chase after a toddler?
Oh, and another thing. If you find yourself spending money on her/her family before she becomes your wife, chances are you're their bank account and that's all you are.
I found love in laugna Philippines. I’m Egyptian happily married to a Filipina 😍
I've been to Santa Rosa. really nice place there.
I really feel the pain of this guy!! I'm also from Philippines
i wait in the right time find my soulmate
Very touching story make me cry.
In Behalf of all Filipina we sorry for that. May u find your true love. dont lose hope. Gbu Sir. Give some pic of a girl who fooled we post it on Fb shes so bad.! Nggigigil c aq.
maria balasbas not all filipina are bad...some are really nice in all aspects...I was scammed....but maybe I missplaced my trust....still I hope....I really love the phils.....
SERIOUSLY??? What's with the apology? You do not owe him an apology and neither do I and the rest of the Filipino people. There are two sides of a coin. I do not believe everything this man is saying. In regard to posting pictures on facebook, you should never post anybody's picture just because you feel bad about them. You have no right to post other people's picture just because she did something good or bad. Many lives have been ruined because of this idiotic irresponsible posting online.Think before you click! Yan hirap sa inyong mga pinay medyo eng eng din kyo eh🤣🤣🤣,
In behalf?stupid
maria balasbas sorry but i think not all filipina girls are like that ..😐😐.
@@loicbuchet6446 thanks sir...many western negative comment here now..
Really sorry
Awwwee this man us broken hearted. I feel for him. I wish you better days in your life.
i feel you.. 😔 i felt so bad.. 😢 pls move on.. godbless u always.. take care..
Yes, and please stop crying. What woman wants a crybaby.
He's such an honest nice person. Shame on any woman that would use him. I've dated several filipina online but I can see the dishonesty in most. Be careful. Remember guys, we pay for everything and if you don't have at least 10,000 in the bank to take a chance on, don't do it. Honesty is very hard to come by these days with technology. Cell phones and all. I've sent roses and little money, not alot so some of the girls can at least have a meal and feed their child. Just be careful. Thank you for sharing.
omg... that Filipina is a mess... what a shame.. I'm really sorry you got a wrong lady but I hope you giving up finding a good Filipina. I'm watching this coz I'm curious of what happened. Thanks for sharing your story.
ruena omictin why? You want to fool him too?
@ywryyu assuming!!
FYI,he marriage again to filipina!!
And he so happy again 🙄
u bitter hole!!😜
A family of scammers! This man should know that the vast majority of Filipinas are not like this at all. He can find a good Filipina, for sure!!! God bless him.
Majority like that 20 yrs married 60 yrs old for MONEY
Warning signs:
#1 You met her online. Already, this proves she's not a traditional Filipina. Furthermore, the odds increase dramatically that she's looking to snag a big fish.
#2 Age/Looks mismatch. Attractive young Filipina says she's attracted to much older unattractive foreigner. Even if both were Filipino, or both were American, this is NOT likely. Regardless of race or culture, successful marriages tend to be between people who are closer in age and physical attractiveness. If you are not attracting hot young American women with your looks, chances are you're NOT attractive to hot young Filipina either. If she's smoking hot and 25, and your 50 with a 50 inch waste - don't kid yourself. She's NOT attracted to you! She might stay with you, BUT she's taking one for the team! She wants to help her family via her marriage to you.
#3 Income Mismatch. American man has much higher income and assets, while Filipina has low income/no assets. All around the world, regardless of race or culture, women practice hypergamy. Men marry for youth and beauty. Marriages between couples of similar economic class fare better than rich with poor marriages.
#4 Filipina Anxious to Immigrate. Think about it. Filipinos are very family oriented and loyal to their Filipino family. Why would she be in a big hurry to immigrate to the U.S.?
#5 Length of Courtship. Courting a Filipina in the Filipino tradition is normally a slow subtle indirect lengthy process. In Filipino culture, women are expected to be demur, shy, and reserved. Any Filipina who eagerly accepts or pursues an American would be considered easy. Because of the vast cultural differences, courtship between Filipinas and Americans should take much longer... probably years! Unless you've spend years in the Philippines and understand it's culture and language, jumping in any sooner is rolling the dice.
#6 Education/Intellectual Differences. Smart people get along well with other smart people, and dumb with dumb. Smart and dumb together makes it hard on both.
#7 She has a Filipino child. Although marriages can be annulled in the Philippines via a lengthy and expensive process, there is no divorce. The odds are good there may be a husband looming out there somewhere. Even if they were never married, a Filipino father will have some rights (visitation at least). You'll have to investigate this FIRST if you plan on bringing this child to the states.
#8 She has an American child. Good from a legal perspective as an American father will have no rights in the Philippine courts. BAD from a relationship perspective. It proves she's fishing for an American husband. One already got away, or, who knows! He could be a convicted felon waiting for her in the states - once YOU get her there!
#9 She doesn't want you to meet her family until after you're married. RUN LIKE HELL! No self-respecting Filipina would do this. Family is everything, and any real Filipina will surely seek the blessing of her parents before marrying you. Also, be advised that when you marry a Filipina you are also marrying her family! Be aware of the burden you are assuming and know that you will likely be shelling out serious dollars EVERY month to help family.
#10 Her Family Is Crazy About You From The Start. Filipinos are naturally polite and friendly. However, they SHOULD be viewing you with great skepticism at first! They should be warming up to you cautiously and slowly while they examine your character - even if they are dirt poor. If you feel them encouraging/pushing toward marriage after only a short courtship, that's a sure sign you're going to be the cash cow! A hot young Filipina may stay with your obese old ass long term, BUT realize she is taking one for the team. She is marrying you primarily for your ability to provide and to help her family. Not for love, and certainly NOT for your good looks or your wonderful caring personality! If you can wrap your mind around this reality, you may well enjoy a marriage to a hot young, but poor, Filipina. A good Filipina will be open with you about your expectation to help her family. Ask her outright if you will be expected to help her family. If you get the typical, "It's up to you", that's code for "We're going to strip you clean!"
They did not meet online, they met in person in Singapore
+ Jason James: Excellent analysis. Thank you!
Jason James Well explained with humor. 👍 Enjoyed reading it.
Jason James bullshit! Meeting online means not traditional filipina! U kidding me
Good points made here. The solution, retire in the phils, buy a nice condo in your name, play their game and never ever marry :-) Can I get a hell yeah?
Older American guys have a fantasy of getting married to some young women, thinking that young women could make them feel young again . Young women loves to get married to older guys because older guys have stable job , and can meet their financial dreams. You see both of their goals were different. 100% these relationships won't work at all. If older guys wants to get married again get one who is in the middle age like 40 or more , especially if you are a man over 65 years of age. Young women just barely started life while the older guy is almost at the end stage of life. It doesn't work, it doesn't work and it doesn't work.
They Figure with a big suppy of *AskAlice they're able to get er done. Ha!
I am deeply so sorry for you for your bad experience of finding love in your life. In life in terms of finding a relationship, you encountered someone who is not meant to be, or the wrong person, or someone who is only using you, but don’t get me wrong, not all women’s, or Filipinos are the same. As for me, i married a person of what i think that it is not meant to be, because my partner and I got separated and divorced me. After the divorced he got married again for the third times, as myself, i raise my three children own my own and never re- married again.
I wish to find a good man and real love in life myself, but it is hard and not easy to find someone who really cares about you, or really loves you. What i means is, it is really hard to find your soulmates.
What a girl.. who's that girl.. don't worry she get a lot of karma ... You are good man
uno cinco karma is real
just use your brain it's easy,no young girl is in love with the older man it's the money full stop,it gets them and there family out of poverty full stop
Terry Mcgreevy nooo thats nottrue
Terry Mcgreevy zeetamiland
Not all the lady don't like a old men sir...tnx God bless
Terry Mcgreevy still have filipina.who wants to love man older than them like me...i want more older than me cause they are more matured enough to understand me whenever i got crazy🤗
I am also a filipina who married an italian guy who is older than me 20 years.. but thanks god we are already 2 years now being together living happily and we love each other very much not about the money....otherwise my husband is not having a plenty of money but he has a plenty of hearts to love me... im feel sorry for this guy if his ex filipina cheated him but not all filipina is a gold digger....he just got married in a wrong time with a wrong woman.... next time!!! He must be careful to choose a woman from our country... because not all filipina having a true love.... recognize well......
Never send money, plain and simple. If they leave, then it was never meant to be.
She is a user.. sorry for him... i hope he can find the right woman, wishing u the best
cecilia basilio zeetamiĺ
Scammer
Sorry to hear about that, but not all filipina are all the same. I am a filipina and married to an american for more than 2 decades and my husband betrayed me. Now I'm divorced living in the U.S. and happy being single.
Not all Pilipina are like that. I have bad experiences with American men also. I lived here in the US for 46 yrs. I’ve been married a couple of times with American men, and of course not all of them are bad also. But I talked to some of them and noticed that most older man here in the US likes younger Pilipina woman from the Philippines? They go out of their way to search in the Websites for Pilipina, of course you can’t blame them, us Pilipina are pretty, slim and gorgeous. I’ve talked to a couple of them and asked, why look for one and go to the Philippines when there’s plenty of nice Pilipina here in the US? The responds is, Pilipina in the US are Americanice? Duh! Of course we have to adopt and keep up with the American ways. If we want to live here in the US, I don’t think some of us wants to be stupid. So if older foreigners retiree wants that kind of mentality so be it? Now, “foreigners should think about this”? Their young and your old how long do you think they will stay??? If your thinking of somebody to take care of you when you get too old hire a caregiver or a nurse? I don’t think some of them wants s-x only from and old man? You know they are going to find a younger and good looking man? So this is where the problem start, we’re only human beings. I’m not saying here that all Pilipinas are no good, I’ll bet you that they have also experienced about how men treated them. Soo older retiree foreigners don’t point fingers you know what your getting into. Relationships has no guarantee, but if you insist for guarantees go to JC Penny’s or SEARS. My TWO CENTS ADVICE, get to know that person first but have trust just keep your eyes and ears open? Good Luck for foreigners who wants to retire in the Philippines.👀👍💁🙏👁👁👁
yes they are all that but also they have a tight pussy. that is why this filipino women are in demand.
Abba live
They have a tight pussy? Philippines here I come!!
Sansima De La Cruz
owww! verywell said
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Wow! You found a real hooker! It's a shame she is a Filipina. But don't give up and continue loving and this time know your feelings with her and vice-versa.
It's not all pilipinas are same. We need to know both sides of the story.Not only one side. We don't know how she is treated by her husband. There is an individual pilipina married to a foreigner,who's there husband is much way older than him and that pilipina is married with the old man for 20'years.
Yes that is true
Yes thsts true,
Thank you
my god I listened to the whole thing and it happened exactly the same for me except I didnt get to the marriage part, I think I dodged a bullet! it also lasted 4 months but we chatted before on and off for 2 years. Please dont judge the man its very hard when they play with your heart trust me..... There were so many red flags, she was on contract from Dubai and I met all her family, but always had a funny feeling it always felt fake, her reactions the way she always said what I wanted to hear... I will always have a little doubt but now i'm like 95% sure I would have regret it like this man... see my story in previous comment if youre interested lol
its normal for fellow Filipino men and foreign guys just some woman will betray you, and it is very normal here…it happen naturally to anyone and anywhere
they welcome you because you mean $$$ to them... sheesh
And the moral of this story is....if you're an older western man, don't marry a young woman that's economically disadvantaged and don't play the savior role. If you want a young woman from SEA, keep it in their country (don't bring her home), and don't buy land/home in the girl's name; if you insist on getting a property there, buy a condo and put it in YOUR name. If you don't plan on having kids, there's no reason to marry...you can still can be sincere and a good partner. If the woman can't accept that, move on as there are plenty that will.
Not all but most Filipina will marry any age as long as your foreigner they want you for to get a job to send money home your just a number they love very easy cause there very simple, if you die they don't moan your death, they already thinking next marrige when your dead your a means to an end they can switch there feelings off like a switch I've been there one girl I was with she was getting pregnant so she get money from the father's she now gets monthly payments live off there money I'm lucky one who dident fall for it she now 3 guys sending her money cause she brought them to court.
Are u saying some pinays are heartless cumbucket's willing to sell their bodies for financial gain ? Sounds like most females in any country. Love stops when there is finanical difficulties. Rarely would a marriage survive. Does not matter what country a person lives in.
This man is telling the truth. Imagine married to my Filipina for THIRTEEN years before her betrayal. How can a beautiful woman, 4'11", 105 lbs carry out a thing against a man who loved her is beyond my comprehension. They may have been the best years of my life. But I wouldn't do it again. Not with a Filipina. The pain is unimaginable. Except for someone who has gone through it. Like him. And me.
Pre nips required. Sad story I have to admit.
NEVER bring them to America/Europe, etc. NEVER.
raleighman3000 or AUSTRALIA
Or Japan.
raleighman3000 i dont think just bringing to other country if there is love why not and also u can stay in philippines if u want to know more about filipino
raleighman3000 :) but that's one goal a Filipina marrying a caucasian, to get in n their countries! Thing is must base marriage out of love not other purpose:)! Easy to say tho but i know hard to do:)
40idiots think like you.Go fuck your guitar racist goof.
He’s too good a person. How dare that woman hurt a guy this good?
I'm so sad to you..😢but for me based on my long term relationship of my foreigner fiancee he left me without no reason I don't know my life my world is only for him..its hard to move on but life must go on... I hope soon you can find the right girl for you I see you on your eyes that you love so much your filipina girl but the girl not contented on you...so sad...
Sorry to hear all that... you're so genuine to your wife! May God Blesses you more and find true heart to love you wholeheartedly!!
What is interesting in this vid, the entire family and friends were in on the scam. The family were happy that their daughter was being fooked by at least 5 guys and no shame. Why no shame ? cos the family were being provided cash. Its likely the parents and siblings dont work. The american did state, they met whilst in sg. She was an ofw. Probably a maid. That tells me that this female is the bread winner for the lazy parents and siblings. This is common in the phils. Often the daughter will go overseas and send every cent home to the family. What also is common, after yrs of being an ofw, the ofw has no savings. This is the culture of the filipino. Any guy thinking a pinay marries for love, is wrong. In this case, the pinay is happy to sell her hole to at least five guys for the sake of the family. This is not an isolated case.
YOU ARE UNLUCKY GUY,BUT NOT ALL FILIFIN ARE THE SAME BAD THERE ARE SOME GOOD ALSO
I am guessing you are a filipino. Why do i say this ? Only filipinos say " not all are bad " Obviously when ppl type, they are typing in general terms. Yet there is always a retarded filipino saying " not all " .
maid a domestic helper is a nice job. though salary is not that good but at least somewhat we have income to support family needs. Proud to be ofw domestic helper here 👍😃
But in here case maybe she has a big family and they were jobless that's why she did it. still isn't right thing to do. She should have stayed in SG and continue working while waiting her visa. In that way she still have extra income aside from the financial support of his husband.
Dude there are some 40 million female pinays in the Phils. Why would I or any educated guy think that all ppl are the same ? Although what is a common trait is that females ( daughters ) become ofw to support the family. Which is the case for your wife, spend nine 9 yrs of her life in hk. If you did not marry your wife, its likely she would be still an ofw, earning her 15-20k a month and sending the majority home. Regarding her degree in the phils, she would have had to complete a bridging course in au, as the educational standards are different. No need to explain to me the in's and out's of the bridging course. I have no idea why u told me your story. Is irrelevant to what i had said. The only relevant point i made that applies to your circumstance is that, your wife supported her family, which included her mother, father and 2 siblings. At least for nine yrs.
You got a point but please use the term "some " cause not all Filipina are same Mr.
Yeah we valued our family , friends but not all Filipina can fool and be a gold digger 😔 . On behalf of the Filipina I am deeply saying sorry about what you've guys experience 😔
So sad...such a shame...I'm a Filipina and I'm proud being one...it is not a matter of what your nationality, just the kind of person you let in your life. Kaya, kilalanin ng mabuti ang isang tao. Please don't mock me, just my opinion. Good morning world.
Marry her n keep her in philipines ...
Here I'm single from Philippines
No don't marry her
Follow your heart
Yes exactly the worst thing you can do is take your Filipina to the West hahaha
I disagree why marriage if you don't trust her in states
Sad, but that woman is a professional scammer!. She’s an embarrassment to decent Filipino women who are looking for serious lasting relationship. My advice to foreigners, don’t rush to commit, know the woman very well and don’t put your guard completely down, and be cautious of a woman who ask for money, while you’re still dating. That’s alarming! Don’t get outsmarted by those who play your emotions for money. There are still lots of compassionate, nice and decent Filipino women you can trust who don’t take advantage of your vulnerability.Chose wisely.
guys, trust me sometimes its not that obvious.... I fell crazy in love with a filipina who broke my heart, but its me who went for her, she didnt come here in Canada thank god I think it would have been worse, we talked for 2 years, she was flirting on multiple Facebook accounts and keeping other guys as options all the time, saying they are only "friends" ,she coulkd never flush them from her life and she pretended she didnt know they were flirting with her. She asked for a cell phone and money to exit the country for a Visa after 2 weeks of talking, she said she change every time but I discovered that she always kept other guys around and she was telling me I love you, I will never know if she was sincere but there were way too many red flags and it smelled really really bad, you have all your life and future to gamble if shes here and youre married you dont have the control anymore... some love stories can work but be careful, listen to the signs.. dont forget its a poor country and they dream of America, always tricky, maybe she was sincere but I believe you come second after the confort in these deals, you will always have a doubt if she chose you or the life you can provide... can you sleep with that ? if you only want a petite tan ass to fuck, go ahead, if you fall in love easily, she may throw your heart it in a blender.... and im not even talking about the paperwork to have her come here... Always follow your instinct guys
Im sure not all filipina are same
I brought my g/f over from the Philippines and things were great until she got her green card, then every time I had to be away for awhile she was out in the clubs and sleeping around. I found out about it and took her to counseling and while there right in front of the Priest she said "The only reason I came here and married you was so I could find a rich husband." End of relationship.
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I 'm sorry to hear that man
You married the wrong person dude. You should have choose the right one. How about the story of a lot of American who married Filipina and happily married now.
Scammer
True and I’m one of them, happy and still very much in love,25 years of marriage and counting
I’m sorry man! I feel your pain. So sorry.
thats not good we need to be loyal to our partner.in short be stick to one
How can you stay with a monster, mean & controlling? Sometimes guys are like that. They start out cunning & pretend nice. They know they are not good guys.
Scammer
I'm sorry to hear that, you will be better soon.
Yes I agree,,,to western man,if you want to marry Filipino,,,chose little bit older 30 above is OK for my own opinion,,,and separated woman,single mom
Do you ever really know someone? No matter where they are? Marriage is such a tragic legal trap for a man. What’s the advantage? No matter what, a man will lose everything once he goes in contract with a government entity. And everything is geared on the side of the woman! This lady and I say that lightly and her evil family, should go to jail. But I guarantee you, she’s wrecking havoc across the globe.
I FEEL YOUR PAIN MY FRIEND GOD BLESS YOU
Her parents are consenting her maybe she is the one supporting the family, that's why. Well, there is always a "bad" Karma to people who do no good. More blessings to you to those who do good! Just keep up the good work and God will bless you more and who knows He will give you a good loving wife till your lifetime. Just seek God and ask His guidance!
Dont use name of God bec in your opinion here i think you just pretending that your a good woman but your not and you are a great pretender who commented here. We all know that english is not the first language in Philippines so sometimes they cant spell the right words .Atleast we can understand what she talking about and what she commenting about. Dont ever blame his parents bec sometimes we all knows that even if you have good parents and your not around in your children sometimes there is bad temptation outside bec of there friends. A good woman never let people down bec they respect other people . A decent or a God believer woman wont say bad comments to others people bec if you believe in God you never and never allow people hurt bec you respect them.
That woman has probably seen it with her own eyes before like I have because even you know this happens in the Philippines, And she's wright and karma and doing good. Maybe the truth hurts that why your defensive. Anyonther person would have empathy for what this man has been through and your defending her? U may wanna take a look at yourself before you make anymore comments.
Darren Egan...thank you very much for your comment. I was about to reply this Nari G because of her being defensive. I was about to tell her why she defends the Filipina woman who has 5 boyfriends at the same time aside from being married to this guy in the video? The good thing of this man in the video was at least he didn't mention the name of his wife and where they exact lived...or else it will be a blatant truth how his wife was never faithful to him in the very beginning. (She was married to him and he was there in USA working on the process of his petition for his legally married wife aside from working and sending support to her.) At least the man has still some respect to the family. I am ashamed of my co-Filipino women like them who married foreigners and yet had the decency to became unfaithful. Sometimes, they, the foreigners think we are all the same as Filipino women who are not faithful to their husbands. I, for one as a Filipina were faithful to my Filipino husband for almost 24 years till he died. He was very sick for more than 2 years before he died and I never abandoned nor left him. We never separated and we forever faithful to one another. My 2 children knew us, their parents. So, what is wrong if I am judging to that woman of her being unfaithfulness to the husband? It is God who judge me not her as a defensive to that "playgirl" wife.There is always a Karma whether you are good or bad. Good karma to those who do good and Bad Karma to those who do bad unless he/she will repent and change his/her ways and do good. And why she is defensive? Is it because this Nari G is also the same like her? Shame to her (Nari G) telling to me that I am a great pretender and not a good woman and not to mention GOD! God is no respector of any man or woman more so to a sinner. GOD will never take sides to those who do bad and is not happy to those who do bad unless you repent and change your ways. Cleanse your heart, Nari G and know what is wrong and what is right!
Pearly Ramos very well said.
The young girl was right in the fact that we don't know the whole story. But from what the man explained is very Similar to what happened to me. And pearly your 100% right. She was married to that man and was involved with many others. She was married. She had been in the us only 3 months. That woman has been doing this type of thing for a long time. People rearly change. She will continue to do what she's doing because she is self-centred and isn't a good harted person. No one in this world deserves to be cheated on or used. There is no excuse... none. My hart goes out to him because I'm still a broken man myself.
Darren Egan...Again, thank you for agreeing all what I said. That means you are not biased and understand all. I do appreciate that. Many thanks.
Oh! I'm sorry to hear that you are still a broken heart ed man yourself. I hope she was not a Filipina who broke your heart. If that be the case, cheer up and learn from your past experienced. Try to move on and know more of her in the future so that you will not be broken heart ed again. Anyway, all wounds will be healed and you will know you will find someday a very faithful, truthful, loving, good woman of whom she will dedicate her heart to you and love you unconditionally. Find a woman with good moral character, and with good family backgrounds even though how poor they are. Also trust your heart if that is real love or just lust. Don't rush into a thing that both of you are not sure of. It is said at Proverbs 3:5-6 "Trust the Lord with all your heart and lean not into your own understanding. In all your ways, acknowledge Him and He shall direct your path." God bless!
omg......i am so sorry, God bless u
I know mostly attitude of some white causian.
I meet a lot but there are same us filipinos too they have good attitude and have bad attitude...
Filipina ladies never search other one unless you didnt treat her good.When you treat good to a filipina she will treat good too.
Yes your right all.of us we have attitudes it defends on how you will carry it
You are a scammer
You just really know a person until you live together for at least 6 months to a year or longer. Sad story!
How about the story of her ex wife did you get an interview with her
andy nowthisisme yes I agree did you try and interview his ex-wife and her family why they thought it was ok for there daughter to do though things to him and other guys I would love to see follow up on this story if she has no shame and her family they should do a story and she should be banded for the states cause she lie to him about there relationship and marriage it was on faults tense so she should be deported cause it was right away when she got to the states she cheated on him!! But she been talking to the other guys why he was staying there and after!!
OMG!!! I can't stop my tears falling down on my face. This story is so emotional and I really feel sad and sorry of what happened to this man. I admit that there are some Filipina who is gold digger and scammer but if you just believe and have faith to God then he will give you the right partner for you. Don't lose hope and just continue loving 'cause if you don't want to love again because you get hurt by someone you love then you never feel the true love yet.
so sad but not all filipina
Lol 😅👍
True
I'm so sorry for your pain...you obviously fell so much in love with your ex...being cheated on and betrayed is the worst feeling.... It takes many years before you can move on and forgive eventually.....
Common sense, a beautiful young person will not fall in love with a much older person except if the younger person has something to gain. Its extremely unlikely.
If she 22 your over 50 she doesn't want children nor does he she can change her mind she may not know that she may not be mature. All women want money at any age gap.
Sorry for what happened in your relationship with your ex. But not all Filipina are the same. I am a Filipina too and i have been in a relationship with a British guy for 7 years now. I am very proud to say that i am very much loyal and faithful with my partner even if we are in a long distance relationship up to now. I really love my partner and he is God's greatest gift to me and my kids... I wish you all the best and i know that God will help you to find the right one for you who will really love you as you are. God bless sir...
'the chemistry was good FOR ME'...... exactly. Mr ATM. For YOU
John 😂😂I remember my bf whenever we had a Holliday in phillipines seeing an old man with big belly’s with the young Filipino woman with heals on the sand😂😂 sorry man for pickin the wrong fruits looks yummy but it’s already rotten😔
I met a Filipina woman online and we were talking for about a month and she already saying she loves me. I went on site where we met to deactivate my account and saw that she was still going on there. So I made a fake account with a fake picture and messaged her. She returned message and gave me her number and said she hadn't met anyone. So I got rid of her before wasting any more time.
I been through same as your story...I was married foreigner and turn into nightmare..at first I thought just end up my life I can't face the pain...but my 2nd thought just leave him alone and file for devoted....pls don't waste your tear with that wrong person....
britney spears true
"You have to let that pain hurt, you have to feel it......."😢
You know what the craziest thing about this whole story that’s being commented on over and over again? Both people are wrong... Let me tell you why, I think this... Yes, he’s old and feels his power to attract a women younger or older here in America is his weakest point... Come on, let’s be real... If he felt it was strong enough, I think he would’ve chose to pick here... Nope... He chose to try for a foreign woman because, of what he may have heard from someone or somebody... He just got the bad end of the stick and it came back and hit his azz... Now, for her... She’s wrong because, she played him by not being honest to herself and then to him and anyone else for that part... Yeah, what was her ultimate goal? To get a husband, to get citizenship, or just to get off that island? I think all of the above... Did she have money to go see him to see if he was the right person for her? No... Did she tell him that she just want to be friends? No... She did everything wrong from the jump... So, don’t say it was all on him because, if he was just using her, he wouldn’t have went through all the trouble to marry her and bring her to America... Ok, maybe her feelings weren’t that strong for him... She should’ve made it perfectly clear and stuck with the person she really wanted to be with... Maybe that person didn’t have the money to go get her so she used this guy to get her to America so she could be with the other guy in the end... I don’t know but, that’s kinda fked up how she did him though... It goes both ways... Be straight up and honest to the point about what two real people want and leave all the bull sht to people that want to play around and do dumb sht... Because, all it takes is two to get married but, all it takes is one to fuk it up!!!! Sometimes both... Just saying... Thank you and have a blessed day...
In God’s Perfect Time🙏👼🏻🎚😇❤️The Right Person Will come your way... As long As we’re alive there is always hope🙏🙏🙏Lord help us all🎚🎚🎚
Amen Amen
😭 this is so sad.. sorry for what happened to you.. Prayers for you..
i think not all maybe in the population 50/50 honest and betrayal, not all good and not all bad Filipino people…make sure you pray and scan much that person, we cannot tell that