In this episode, we discuss: 0:00:00 - Intro 0:00:08 - Insights from Arthur’s career as a professional French horn player 0:11:17 - A radical shift away from music to a Ph.D. in quantitative policy 0:16:32 - Personal experience with shifting intelligence: fluid vs. crystallized intelligence 0:22:19 - An epiphany from a chance encounter on an airplane that shaped Arthur’s thinking 0:25:45 - The three main “macronutrients” of happiness 0:29:29 - Exploring the “purpose” component of happiness 0:33:43 - The importance of having a partner and true friendships 0:38:55 - The makeup of a true friendship, and why men tend to struggle with making real friends 0:45:10 - The “satisfaction” component of happiness and the importance of “wants management” 0:51:16 - The tyranny of social comparison 0:55:56 - Insights into happiness through Chinese art, and the concept of a “reverse bucket list” 1:00:02 - An exercise demonstrating the importance of relationships with others and the need to work on them 1:06:23 - The four main idols that drive us: money, fame, power, and pleasure 1:09:35 - Success addiction, workaholism, and their detriment to happiness 1:20:45 - A radical approach to overcome fear-the antithesis to love and happiness 1:35:03 - Ancient Hindu advice for the perfect life 1:40:57 - The end result of getting caught in the four idols 1:43:05 - The complexity of happiness
Just when you think this podcast can’t get any better, here comes another one. I approach topics in the “happiness” realm with fairly low expectations, but decided hey, if this guy is vetted by Peter I’ll give it maybe 20 minutes. This was outstanding. Possibly life changing. Thank you Peter and Arthur.
I’m 40 minutes into this podcast and I just bought the book Strength To Strength. One of my favourite podcasts I’ve listened to from you Peter. Thank you. I’m 50 years old and this book could be a life changer for me. Great interview. On a side note, I played French Horn for 6 years and it is one hard instrument! Now.. on with the show!
Phenomenal content as always; the discussion regarding killing the ego and still being happy and successful is missed by 99.9% of people. It's a great point and one that needs wider discussion.
Wow!!! I’m already a huge fan of Peter and this podcast, and this episode was mind blowing. I can’t say enough about this one, definitely life changing if you care to take the advice. Thank you Peter and Arthur.
I am a huge fan of Peter, who I discovered about 18 to 24 months ago, but I have been an Arthur Brooks fan for years! AEI is a brilliant organization. I always had a feeling Peter was libertarian and this seals the deal!
so happy I found you Dr. Attia. I have been studying health, wealth and happiness for the past thirty years. For a short time I went strictly vegan, after my Dad died from heart disease and I had watched Forks over Knives. I got tremendous results. I have since switched to more of a plant based diet. I started playing tennis at age 59. I think tennis is one of the best activities for health, metal and physical. Since going plant based, and changing my exercise routine to be more cardio, I have felt 30 years younger than I am. I feel so blessed when I play tennis with people, and many my age are getting knee and hip replacements. I have hardly any aches and pains. Keep creating great content. I am starting my own podcast centering around health, success and wealth. Bravo Doctor.
Wow this is such an important and timely conversation in this age of ‘pursuit of happiness through ego and materialism’.. and so needed at this time in my life. Thank you for this
This incredible podcast made me send a message for my therapist and feel way better about my fears. Can't wait for my first Death Medidation. It should be a great way for me to reconnect me with my stoic roots! Best, and thank you, guys. You are amazing and have the true power to help individuals like me to flourish.
Peter, your say that in your case you can't think of any purpose except your kids. Your devotion and all the work you do is a great service to humanity. How about that? ; )
Anybody who uses kids as their purpose are always massive copers who can't deal with their own reality so they need kids to distract them. Common problem in the middle aged wealthy upper class that Peter is apart of. That's why they build these huge walled in fenced in neighborhoods which Karen helicopter moms etc.
Peter thank you for keeping it real. I can see it on your face. I can see and agree with Arthur in some aspects but not all of his points. Don't let this dude school you!
Finding happiness for some people many NOT come from maximizing productivity and chasing it’s fruits BUT by actually simplifying your life and take the pressure of the productivity treadmill off yourself.
Treating everything like an algorithm that needs to be optimized is a great way to become unhappy. Ironically, even happiness itself is not immune to such treatment. "We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them." - Albert Einstein
AWESOME podcast! When you have a deep meaningful relationship with God, the happiness "problem" is solved. Science is obviously necessary to human beings but the body is built to last a relatively short time...the soul last forever. My father taught me this at a very young age and reiterated it often if I focused too much on exercise and/or longevity. He always said the Bible says " And now abideth faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love". My father passed three years ago without fear...I will never forget the wise lessons he taught me. My prayer is that everyone who listened to this podcast will start a spiritual journey 🙏
What a great talk! It resonated so well with me in so many aspects. There where moments when my eyes watered because it brought thoughts so to the point. Thanks!
“Happiness comes when you are doing something because you really love to do it, and not because it gives you riches or makes you a prominent person.” - Jiddu Krishnamurti
With a nod towards Aristotle, Charles Murray (clutch your pearls children) defines happiness as lasting and justified satisfaction with life as a whole. He goes on to explain that this durable satisfaction is the product of success in at least 3/4 domains: vocation, religion, family, community. One would be wise to heed the advice of old Chuck; in doing so they might make Aristotle’s ghost, and their heart, smile. The comments suggest a civilization that has lost touch with the wisdom of the ages; on this matter, like so many others, it’s strange that what was old is new once again.
Love what your doing rather than do what you love.. also map out trajectory of skills and ability. Physical and cognitive function will decline. What will you be able to enjoy then. What will you be able to be gratefull for. Also need to consider addressing fears and uncomfortable things. Expand the scope of what you handle as your abilities dwindle.
Thank you for a great talk and pod cast. Arthur says that happiness is not a feeling. It consists of three macro nutrients, as he calls them. One I satisfaction. Is that not in itself a feeling? Happiness is not a feeling but is defined in part by a feeling. Perhaps it is explained at length in the book, but it seems somewhat circle to me. Please enlightening me on how to get around this. Thank you.
Did Peter ever do that vid he discussed detailing his specific techniques and neuromechanical concepts to avoid typical deadlift issues or imbalances inherent in regular practice of the standard deadlift?
Arthur Brooks/Peter - how does exposure/response work when the ultimate fear in death is of the permanent separation from those we love? It is exceedingly painful to contemplate permanent separation from all those we love. I almost feel that the only way to ‘live’ is to be on contemplation of our mortality/death almost continuously. It has to become something we accept as an imminent/urgently present possibility. I’ve been through the exposure therapy for death fear and found it only helped so much. It’s probably easier for a 30-something to “learn” not to fear death when it is conceivably many decades away. Not so for those of us over 50.
Regarding the 16m mark on how after your 30s, you lose fluid/raw intelligence, but then crystallized intelligence starts to dominate.. I wonder if this may partially explains the Peter principle, in that you age into the position you are no longer competent in? BTW, regarding the 34m mark on relationships, I'm reminded of what Alain de Botton talks about on the 'Life Examined' podcast.. he suggests that a partner should be open/curious about anything that goes thru your mind. It's acceptable to talk about anything, no matter how strange, or threatening it may seem to the relationship. Ultimately, the ideal partner is listening, open-mindedly with tender curiosity. The ultimate aphrodisiac would be to periodically ask questions like: What's been on your mind lately? How have I been frustrating you? What is it about our relationship that sometimes get you down, what could we do better? How can I change to make things go better for you?
BTW, regarding the 1h44m mark on the difference between complicated problems (where you know there is a solution, like a jigsaw puzzle) vs complex bust basic problems (where you don't know it's solvable, like emergence of consciousness).. it kinda reminds me of the age-old P vs NP computer-science problem. Daniel Kahneman describes how we don't know what form the answer would even look like!
Auatachmemt is very interesting concept, fundamental for yoga, Buddhism, and all Easter religions... My question is how you get unattached to people you love? How you get unatachemt to your students admaiering? How you get unatachemt to your lover if all the hormones there are made for you to become attached?
"the feeling of happiness is the evidence of happiness'? No that's the ideal of happiness, that's the cognitive representation of happiness. Enjoyment, Satisfaction and Purpose? Enjoyment and Satisfaction are more synonyms than requirements, Purpose is a requirement. Thee narrative you apply to a situation is very important in whether you find yourself happy or unhappy. what you would die for is more a measure of importance than purpose, a better word is meaning, people whose meaning in life centers around themselves are status seekers and need for social status is a thirst that is unquenchable, so it's important what kind of meaning you cultivate and not just meaning in general.
It was a good podcast but there were a few dumb comments. I’ll just mention the one about western art being additive and eastern art being subtractive. Michelangelo said he chipped away at a block of marble to reveal the angel inside. And all forms of painting, eastern and western, involve adding pigment to a surface. I wouldn’t think that someone of Brooks’ sophistication would get caught up in eastern fetishism, but then lots of these self improvement guys use art instrumentally. They are not art historians and so engage art in superficial ways. But all he had to do was think about what he said to realize it was not true.
For me unloading my Catholic upbringing was one of the simplification things recommended to do in the second half of life. It was a ball and chain and once I didn't have to conform to its teachings, I was free to explore the truth of my own existence.
It’s a amazing how far off track people can get. This is the problem with developing non testable theories. Happiness is a state of mind. It’s intentional. It has nothing to do with pleasure or satisfaction.
I actually hate spending time with my son. i do not know why dr Attia assumes that all parents enjoy spending time with their kids.... I suspect less than 20% of adults enjoy spending time with kids.
why Dr Attia said that the only thing he could think of, is kids.... i thought if you are a doctor, then the purpose of is rather simple: to save lives. ... but apparently it did not go into his mind. very strange.
Love Attia's podcast, but I found this guest insufferable. Incredibly self-absorbed and its evident that he's barely stepped out of the ivory tower for more than an hour in his entire life.
He a bachelors in night school in Trenton NJ and has a son in the marines. Then a degree from Syracuse. I think he actually has a pretty balanced outlook.
😢😢, happy? Food insecure, can't afford housing, dental, medical, child care on 12.00$ an hour. Car breaks, too bad, can't afford gas, our planet is burning up due to fossil fuels, and corporations, medicine, unaffordable, vacations no, gifts for grandkids no, electricity outrageous, price of homes unaffordable. 😢😢 Hope you're enjoying yourselves. 😢😢
Ok .. this still has lots of traditional ideas of happiness. Family friends ect. It's baloney. We need to appreciate the outliers like monks or vagabons. People who are on the fringe of life with none of traditional markers of happiness.. these people can be extremely happy in how they conduct life and feelings that they can feel
Some people aren't aloud to be happy. , Then people say work hard towards ur dreams I worked hard all my life and learned u never work hard it was a mistake. No point of dreams or goals because some of us are controlled and not aloud to think for ourselves really life is nothing it means nothing and I can truly say I want nothing out of life I don't. Like or enjoy life . . I been made where I can't work fired non stop disabled now get threats with charges I say fuck life fuck it all people do whatever they want to me and get by with it I'm not even aloud to stand up for myself. I can't wait till life is over only thing I look forward to
In this episode, we discuss:
0:00:00 - Intro
0:00:08 - Insights from Arthur’s career as a professional French horn player
0:11:17 - A radical shift away from music to a Ph.D. in quantitative policy
0:16:32 - Personal experience with shifting intelligence: fluid vs. crystallized intelligence
0:22:19 - An epiphany from a chance encounter on an airplane that shaped Arthur’s thinking
0:25:45 - The three main “macronutrients” of happiness
0:29:29 - Exploring the “purpose” component of happiness
0:33:43 - The importance of having a partner and true friendships
0:38:55 - The makeup of a true friendship, and why men tend to struggle with making real friends
0:45:10 - The “satisfaction” component of happiness and the importance of “wants management”
0:51:16 - The tyranny of social comparison
0:55:56 - Insights into happiness through Chinese art, and the concept of a “reverse bucket list”
1:00:02 - An exercise demonstrating the importance of relationships with others and the need to work on them
1:06:23 - The four main idols that drive us: money, fame, power, and pleasure
1:09:35 - Success addiction, workaholism, and their detriment to happiness
1:20:45 - A radical approach to overcome fear-the antithesis to love and happiness
1:35:03 - Ancient Hindu advice for the perfect life
1:40:57 - The end result of getting caught in the four idols
1:43:05 - The complexity of happiness
Wow - Arthur is really thinking deeply about the things that matter most!
Just when you think this podcast can’t get any better, here comes another one. I approach topics in the “happiness” realm with fairly low expectations, but decided hey, if this guy is vetted by Peter I’ll give it maybe 20 minutes. This was outstanding. Possibly life changing. Thank you Peter and Arthur.
I totally agree
"People prefer be special rather than be happy." That's why many people are misery.
The best quote of the year.
I don't understand why being an alcoholic or an addict is being special?..
Their egos are destroying them.
I’m 40 minutes into this podcast and I just bought the book Strength To Strength. One of my favourite podcasts I’ve listened to from you Peter. Thank you. I’m 50 years old and this book could be a life changer for me. Great interview. On a side note, I played French Horn for 6 years and it is one hard instrument! Now.. on with the show!
lol, I did the same thing!
Phenomenal content as always; the discussion regarding killing the ego and still being happy and successful is missed by 99.9% of people. It's a great point and one that needs wider discussion.
I honestly walk through life thinking I’m smarter/more accomplished/have more common sense than just about anyone. Boy was this interview humbling.
Wow!!! I’m already a huge fan of Peter and this podcast, and this episode was mind blowing. I can’t say enough about this one, definitely life changing if you care to take the advice. Thank you Peter and Arthur.
Amazing. I need to listen to this one a few more times and take notes.
Thanks for this podcast and thank you for doing the work, Dr. Brooks!
Peter’s question about purpose is spot on. Grounded.
I am a huge fan of Peter, who I discovered about 18 to 24 months ago, but I have been an Arthur Brooks fan for years! AEI is a brilliant organization. I always had a feeling Peter was libertarian and this seals the deal!
so happy I found you Dr. Attia. I have been studying health, wealth and happiness for the past thirty years. For a short time I went strictly vegan, after my Dad died from heart disease and I had watched Forks over Knives. I got tremendous results. I have since switched to more of a plant based diet. I started playing tennis at age 59. I think tennis is one of the best activities for health, metal and physical. Since going plant based, and changing my exercise routine to be more cardio, I have felt 30 years younger than I am. I feel so blessed when I play tennis with people, and many my age are getting knee and hip replacements. I have hardly any aches and pains. Keep creating great content. I am starting my own podcast centering around health, success and wealth. Bravo Doctor.
@Richard Breeze yes please. Thank You
This is guy is priceless! "Why do you wanna be happy? You are already Peter Attia!
Wow this is such an important and timely conversation in this age of ‘pursuit of happiness through ego and materialism’.. and so needed at this time in my life. Thank you for this
This incredible podcast made me send a message for my therapist and feel way better about my fears. Can't wait for my first Death Medidation. It should be a great way for me to reconnect me with my stoic roots! Best, and thank you, guys. You are amazing and have the true power to help individuals like me to flourish.
This is pure gold. Incredibly grateful for this!
Peter your work is improving my life massively.
Thanks
A quiet house is wonderful and pure bliss.
Arthur Brooks 0:40 I was laughing on the Apple podcast. Had to look for you again to share across platform. You guys are great! Thank You :)
Always interesting, especially the parts with Peter talking about himself.
Fantastic interview. One of my favorites so far.
Extraordinary discussion between two brilliant and deep thinking people. Philosophical insights that we can all learn from.
Brilliant interview. Lot's of profound thought and wisdom about aging. Thank you.
Peter, your say that in your case you can't think of any purpose except your kids. Your devotion and all the work you do is a great service to humanity. How about that? ; )
No kids here....guess I've lived a useless existence. 🤷♀️
Anybody who uses kids as their purpose are always massive copers who can't deal with their own reality so they need kids to distract them. Common problem in the middle aged wealthy upper class that Peter is apart of. That's why they build these huge walled in fenced in neighborhoods which Karen helicopter moms etc.
@@jellybeanvinkler4878 Thats not what peter was trying to say at all...
Thank you so much. So much knowledge shared with us for free without buying books or attending classes.
Peter thank you for keeping it real. I can see it on your face. I can see and agree with Arthur in some aspects but not all of his points. Don't let this dude school you!
Finding happiness for some people many NOT come from maximizing productivity and chasing it’s fruits BUT by actually simplifying your life and take the pressure of the productivity treadmill off yourself.
Treating everything like an algorithm that needs to be optimized is a great way to become unhappy. Ironically, even happiness itself is not immune to such treatment. "We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them." - Albert Einstein
We procreate out of "fear" and our children are the ultimate expression of our "selfishness"
AWESOME podcast! When you have a deep meaningful relationship with God, the happiness "problem" is solved. Science is obviously necessary to human beings but the body is built to last a relatively short time...the soul last forever. My father taught me this at a very young age and reiterated it often if I focused too much on exercise and/or longevity. He always said the Bible says " And now abideth faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love". My father passed three years ago without fear...I will never forget the wise lessons he taught me. My prayer is that everyone who listened to this podcast will start a spiritual journey 🙏
Very wise. God bless you and May your beloved father Rest In Peace.
Great, great interview! Cheers to most simple and most complicated feeling all over the 🌎, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE! 🥂
What a great talk!
It resonated so well with me in so many aspects. There where moments when my eyes watered because it brought thoughts so to the point.
Thanks!
Interesting to see Peter sincerely trying to learn from someone else
Been waiting for this ☝️ Thank you Peter and Arthur for doing this!!!
Very thought provoking and inspiring. Thank you both for such intelligent discussions.
“Happiness comes when you are doing something because you really love to do it, and not because it gives you riches or makes you a prominent person.”
- Jiddu Krishnamurti
Wow, another great conversation. Thank you.
With a nod towards Aristotle, Charles Murray (clutch your pearls children) defines happiness as lasting and justified satisfaction with life as a whole. He goes on to explain that this durable satisfaction is the product of success in at least 3/4 domains: vocation, religion, family, community. One would be wise to heed the advice of old Chuck; in doing so they might make Aristotle’s ghost, and their heart, smile.
The comments suggest a civilization that has lost touch with the wisdom of the ages; on this matter, like so many others, it’s strange that what was old is new once again.
@peter attia md amazing video👏thanks for bringing @arthur brooks. Congratulations 💪😊
Wonderful podcast! Thank you Peter
Goodness, what a giant tangle of concepts.
Always cool. Always informative. Always educational. Thanks Peter. Keep up the great work, and great guests.
OMG I never thought I would here Vedic philosophy on this show. Awesome!
What a gem !🙂
Love what your doing rather than do what you love.. also map out trajectory of skills and ability. Physical and cognitive function will decline. What will you be able to enjoy then. What will you be able to be gratefull for. Also need to consider addressing fears and uncomfortable things. Expand the scope of what you handle as your abilities dwindle.
Thank you for a great talk and pod cast. Arthur says that happiness is not a feeling. It consists of three macro nutrients, as he calls them. One I satisfaction. Is that not in itself a feeling? Happiness is not a feeling but is defined in part by a feeling. Perhaps it is explained at length in the book, but it seems somewhat circle to me. Please enlightening me on how to get around this. Thank you.
Don't love people. Love life. Love just being alive.. marvel at the opportunity to just be alive.
Loved! Fantastic! ❤
My 2 favorite bald guys 👦
Did Peter ever do that vid he discussed detailing his specific techniques and neuromechanical concepts to avoid typical deadlift issues or imbalances inherent in regular practice of the standard deadlift?
Arthur Brooks/Peter - how does exposure/response work when the ultimate fear in death is of the permanent separation from those we love? It is exceedingly painful to contemplate permanent separation from all those we love. I almost feel that the only way to ‘live’ is to be on contemplation of our mortality/death almost continuously. It has to become something we accept as an imminent/urgently present possibility. I’ve been through the exposure therapy for death fear and found it only helped so much. It’s probably easier for a 30-something to “learn” not to fear death when it is conceivably many decades away. Not so for those of us over 50.
Epic - Arthur's answers are clear and concise
Well done. Really helpful!
1:15:20 This one on MOOD DISORDERS having MORE creativity stopped me in my tracks! Yes! That makes a lot of sense.
1:06:00
What was the drink Peter was sipping on?? Ghia? The non-alcoholic cocktail?
For purpose John Vervake has two good questions: What do you want to continue after you die? What is your connection to this?
great podcast!
I really liked it , but please try to let him answer "full-length" before jumping into another question
This podcast felt like I should've paid fo0 itr. Buying Arthur's book then I guess. Thanks for this content!
Success, or failure…which is more destructive?
Brilliant. Thank you
Regarding the 16m mark on how after your 30s, you lose fluid/raw intelligence, but then crystallized intelligence starts to dominate..
I wonder if this may partially explains the Peter principle, in that you age into the position you are no longer competent in?
BTW, regarding the 34m mark on relationships, I'm reminded of what Alain de Botton talks about on the 'Life Examined' podcast.. he suggests that a partner should be open/curious about anything that goes thru your mind. It's acceptable to talk about anything, no matter how strange, or threatening it may seem to the relationship. Ultimately, the ideal partner is listening, open-mindedly with tender curiosity. The ultimate aphrodisiac would be to periodically ask questions like: What's been on your mind lately? How have I been frustrating you? What is it about our relationship that sometimes get you down, what could we do better? How can I change to make things go better for you?
BTW, regarding the 1h44m mark on the difference between complicated problems (where you know there is a solution, like a jigsaw puzzle) vs complex bust basic problems (where you don't know it's solvable, like emergence of consciousness).. it kinda reminds me of the age-old P vs NP computer-science problem. Daniel Kahneman describes how we don't know what form the answer would even look like!
Just what I thought, "Happiness IS a warm puppy".
What is geeha? I couldn’t find anything about the drink they talked about at the opening.
What is the gheeya (sp?) drink referred to?
My take home: other focused
What is the name of the drink in the beginning? Gaia? Trying to find but no luck
Auatachmemt is very interesting concept, fundamental for yoga, Buddhism, and all Easter religions... My question is how you get unattached to people you love? How you get unatachemt to your students admaiering? How you get unatachemt to your lover if all the hormones there are made for you to become attached?
Hindu/Zen/Kindergarten fusion: when you're happy and you know it do the one handed clap thing
"the feeling of happiness is the evidence of happiness'? No that's the ideal of happiness, that's the cognitive representation of happiness.
Enjoyment, Satisfaction and Purpose? Enjoyment and Satisfaction are more synonyms than requirements, Purpose is a requirement.
Thee narrative you apply to a situation is very important in whether you find yourself happy or unhappy. what you would die for is more a measure of importance than purpose, a better word is meaning, people whose meaning in life centers around themselves are status seekers and need for social status is a thirst that is unquenchable, so it's important what kind of meaning you cultivate and not just meaning in general.
I wonder if the person on the plane is Buzz Aldrin
Why is fear the opposite of love and not apathy?
It was a good podcast but there were a few dumb comments. I’ll just mention the one about western art being additive and eastern art being subtractive. Michelangelo said he chipped away at a block of marble to reveal the angel inside. And all forms of painting, eastern and western, involve adding pigment to a surface. I wouldn’t think that someone of Brooks’ sophistication would get caught up in eastern fetishism, but then lots of these self improvement guys use art instrumentally. They are not art historians and so engage art in superficial ways. But all he had to do was think about what he said to realize it was not true.
WOW!!👌👌👌
Hi from Israel, looks you got some gains.. what’s that drink?
Looks so much like Jake Gyllenhaal!
That's what I kept thinking lmao
How does one embrace a religion? Seems important, especially as we age. Such intellect and brilliance and capable of believing..
You don't need to embrace a religion to have a relationship with God.
For me unloading my Catholic upbringing was one of the simplification things recommended to do in the second half of life. It was a ball and chain and once I didn't have to conform to its teachings, I was free to explore the truth of my own existence.
What is Peter drinking? How do I spell it?
Gea? Ghea?
It’s a amazing how far off track people can get. This is the problem with developing non testable theories. Happiness is a state of mind. It’s intentional. It has nothing to do with pleasure or satisfaction.
What is Gia? Gea?
Had same question, checked the transcript-it’s Ghia.
Love is a cat not a toaster. My first tattoo. Well, maybe not.
I actually hate spending time with my son. i do not know why dr Attia assumes that all parents enjoy spending time with their kids.... I suspect less than 20% of adults enjoy spending time with kids.
why Dr Attia said that the only thing he could think of, is kids.... i thought if you are a doctor, then the purpose of is rather simple: to save lives. ... but apparently it did not go into his mind. very strange.
What's the drink? Ghee ah?
Love Attia's podcast, but I found this guest insufferable. Incredibly self-absorbed and its evident that he's barely stepped out of the ivory tower for more than an hour in his entire life.
He a bachelors in night school in Trenton NJ and has a son in the marines. Then a degree from Syracuse. I think he actually has a pretty balanced outlook.
😢😢, happy? Food insecure, can't afford housing, dental, medical, child care on 12.00$ an hour. Car breaks, too bad, can't afford gas, our planet is burning up due to fossil fuels, and corporations, medicine, unaffordable, vacations no, gifts for grandkids no, electricity outrageous, price of homes unaffordable. 😢😢
Hope you're enjoying yourselves. 😢😢
Ok .. this still has lots of traditional ideas of happiness. Family friends ect. It's baloney. We need to appreciate the outliers like monks or vagabons. People who are on the fringe of life with none of traditional markers of happiness.. these people can be extremely happy in how they conduct life and feelings that they can feel
The second religion comes up with these guys I tune out.
Some people aren't aloud to be happy. , Then people say work hard towards ur dreams I worked hard all my life and learned u never work hard it was a mistake. No point of dreams or goals because some of us are controlled and not aloud to think for ourselves really life is nothing it means nothing and I can truly say I want nothing out of life I don't. Like or enjoy life . . I been made where I can't work fired non stop disabled now get threats with charges I say fuck life fuck it all people do whatever they want to me and get by with it I'm not even aloud to stand up for myself. I can't wait till life is over only thing I look forward to