@@adamm3611 your comment, it has a translation tab, it translated to “YOU”. I didn’t know what language you were using, so I guess I’m wondering why you yelled, “YOU!” At the above comment… I don’t know that word, sorry 😢
@@maryvandeusen5554 I immediately agreed. I would have snapped, but we don’t know mom’s situation. As I’m having more birthdays I can’t keep up with little ones. Maybe she isn’t physically able to watch kids and pick up their mess. I’d rather she say she can watch the kids and give this dear man a break from the chaos.
For the people complaining….try doing this guy’s routine for one day. I’ve seen nothing but good things from you. You work, clean, and most importantly make time for your kiddos! Keep it up brother!
Yeah, because nobody else on earth has ever figured out how to raise their kids, work and keep up with their home. This guy is just showing us all how it’s done for the first time 🙄
@@aimeedouglas1584 their not saying no one else has done it before, their saying it’s impressive that he manages to do all that. I’m assuming you’ve never been praised before?
It's not hard to pick up after yourself. That's laziness at its finest. The kids definitely slept at some point. She should have been cleaning. Overwhelmed or not, you get it done. It's called being a responsible adult.
I can tell you're not in your sixties. I agree with you about the cleanliness. But I can say that priorities sometimes have to change when you get older or injured or both.
@@mariaharthartmar5415 I tried that with my kids to no avail. Some kids won't pick up no matter what you do--until they get their own place, then it's neat and clean.
@@mariaharthartmar5415 firstly his kids are literally toddlers and preschool. Secondly their were with grandma and any parent will tell you grandparents don't discipline their grandkids. Not the way they did their kids. Thirdly. I was a nursery teacher for 10 years. Yes they can tidy up. But you have to make it fun for them. In the nursery we played a song from Barney. It's called the clean up song and us nursery teachers would sing it as we helped the children pick up the toys. Fourthly. They never ever put stuff away in the right place. And there will be kids that don't want to but for my son at home he was put on a time out because I was asking him to do something that was somewhat his responsibility (when you want independent children start early) he was only ever put on time out for 2 minutes and he started cleaning up. Simply telling them to do something will not work until they are able to process and follow instructions
Pushing everything in to a pile has helped me with cleaning. It takes me a whole week to wash and fold and put away clothes. Great organization. Love seeing the little ones. Keep on trucking.
Why does it take so long? Idk if it's because folding laundry is relaxing for me but I can do a few loads including towels and sheets in under 30 minutes. But I also hate disorganized spaces so idk 😬
@@shereebreshears I said a few loads including towels and sheets and I personally don't know many people who can fold a fitted sheet correctly in less than 30 seconds but yeah go off. Clothes are much easier in my personal experience and opinion 🤷🏾♀️
I would never let you babysit. best grandmas know every second spent cleaning is a waste. every second spent playing is a second you will treasure forever.
@@jmdenisonyeah but would the PARENTS appreciate if the mess was left? I’d say probably not, and who said the kids don’t get playtime AND there’s cleaning time? The kids can nap or play together or whatever while the babysitter (even if they’re family) cleans up
We don’t know her capabilities. I have grandchildren too and different grandchildren from different parents have taught me that some are harder than others to watch. Actually, just my own children taught me that.
@Mehitabel18 my grandies range from 6 months to 9 years. My physical abilities weren't great when the 1st one was born, but now? Now I'm far more physically disabled & couldn't do what I used to.
Right? She just trashed his house and left. Hon she just left a pee diaper in the hallway?! Did she let the kids pee on the floor? She couldn't clean off the counter?!
Gonna be so for real, not anyone’s job to clean someone else’s house unless they’re getting paid for it and it’s ACTUALLY their job. Might it have been really kind? Yes. Should it be expected? No
Thank you for being real. That house is lived in, those toys are used, that kitchen is used. This is what having a family looks like and yea… it’s overwhelming! You’re killing it dad.
He is killing it, but that is NOT a home that was 'just lived in'..... I'm a terrible housekeeper, but that was ridiculous. Was grandma sick or something? Because it looked like there was no attempt to pick up a thing. There was a dishwasher. Dirty diapers? Even little kids can pick up toys! The house was totaled!
That's a lazy grandmother being a slob. Not a lived in house. She had 0 excuse to leave her sons house like this. Guaranteed growing up she would have punished him if he ever left her house that way. It's called being a responsible adult.
I’m sorry but whoever was in charge while you were away should’ve never let you come home to that.!💯 house would have been nicely reset for you to come back too
@@jmdenison I mean it’s background checks and lot more you could do to insure that and people have done it billions of time and it’s gone perfectly safe so yea I’ve got a certificate for babysitting and child development and I’m CPR certified and I have my own child so I’d say I’m a pretty good candidate lol.
I clean like mad before I vacay. My husband had no idea why. It's because I don't want to come home to a dirty house! I can't be the only person who feels that way. Grandma, shape up! Get a maid if necessary.
@@betlun3172You can have fun without leaving dirty dippers on the floor. That is the minimum. Also you can have fun with kids while cleaning up. I have made it into a game while babysitting before. Turn on some music and see who can pick up the most in X area during a song or competition of if they can clean up one side of the room before me. Teaching kids to pick up is part of growing up. The earlier you make certain habits the better it is later.
Wow! I'm glad that I never left a relatives house looking like that after watching their kids. I'm that auntie that makes kids pick up their toys. They could be crying and whining about it but I'm still making them pickup the toys.
Totally agree with this. Last job before bathtime, story and sleep is pick up toys. Consistently! No matter where or time. Along with this is not having tons of toys.
When I babysit my grandkids , I clean the house and make the kids help out! Even little ones can put their toys in a toy box. They enjoy it ! Especially if they get a yummy treat after we’re done.❤️
I raised my three mostly by myself because my husband worked a lot of hours....but I learned to clean as you go and to make the kids help. The rule was you can't play a toy for a week if it's not put away when you're done with it, and never leave a room empty handed. My boys the two oldest were doing their own laundry at 11 years old.
Yes, but he has a full time job as well. That has longer than 8 hour shifts, so when he gets home instead of sleeping or recharging....he spends time with his kids, appointments, and cleans.🤷♀️
Sounds like a wonderful plan to keep your house neat. I can't understand why the house is a disaster as these kids shouldn't have that much "stuff" to leave out. I think he needs to take a week to just teach his kids they need to put stuff away. It won't be easy but he needs THEIR HELP!
The house is totally unacceptable! I am a grandma and care for two boys; 1st & 2nd grade, and a baby girl 14 months old and the house is never unkept like that! It's not fair to the children to have to live in that filth and it's not fair to you to come home from a trip and having to do everything!
I only sort out my whites. Everything else gets washed on cold. Towels are seperate cause no fabric softener for those..otherwise they dont absorb water as well. You are doing fine.
I’m sorry you had to deal with this the minute you got home at 1am. 😢 my family and my now in-laws always had a “make it cleaner than how you found it” policy, especially to surprise those leaving for awhile. You’re doing your best, man. These kids will remember you being there for them, not the mess made.
I highly suggest you get some big containers, like those round ones with rope handles and start teaching your kids to put their toys in that when they are done. It will help make clean up easier.
That’s a great idea. Even if they’re not sorted, they’re off the floor and visually less daunting. And a small responsibility for kiddos to learn taking care of their fun stuff!
Target has 4 dollar foldable or dollar store too. I use this method so helpful. Our space is small and we both have a disability so organizing every time takes energy so the bins are the go to. Gotta save energy and do it when we have it. When we get a house it will have more space and we don’t plan on buying anything really just keep reusing and seeing what will work to make smart purchases that will take the pressure off of high maintenance. I think he will benefit from those baskets that is a wonderful idea.
That’s an excellent idea. If children can pull out a toy. Their little hands can put it away. I watch my nieces with their young children. Even the 2yr old will put back into the toy bin. Make a game out of it. 😉
@@Journey.8226Yea it will also teach them empathy bc they realize it is not fair or kind to make someone else pick up after them, especially not this much mess.
Dude no matter what you do or don't do you can guarantee to get people telling you're bad, wrong or worse... forget them, they ain't in your shoes, just be a good person and an even better Dad and you're on the right track...
1. Looks like the kids had a great time and were well cared for. 2. I love the functional way you handled cleaning including the timer 3. Yes I do separate but not by color. Most clothes don’t have heavy dyes in them anymore and so I only separate delicates, stuff that needs sanitizing, and everything else. They have separate hampers so I don’t have to sort before washing 4. Teaching kids responsible tablet use is a skill building activity . It’s not something to be ashamed of. 😁
I babysit for my kids and when they come home, the house is spotless because I raised for kids. I know how to clean and you would not have come home to a dirty house.
You are doing a FANTASTIC JOB! Keep it up! Is tiring for sure, butnis worth it. Just remember, kids can stary learning to clean up after themselves before after age 1. Don't wait until they are 5 6 or cause the tantrums are real headaches!
I watch my grandkids . My job is to make sure they’re alive at the end of parents vacation. The are fed clean and happy! Best case scenario! Give em lots of love!❤️❤️
Its hard to find good help when it comes to childcare these days. I got 4 with one on the way and its almost impossible to find someone responsible enough. I dont care how my house looks afterwards as long as my kids are taken care of.
You have no idea whether or not this woman is able to do that kind of cleaning. Be quiet. He has free babysitting while he went on vacation. He’s fine.
@@jmdenison i realize some people might not be as close with their family as i am and grandparents think that spending time with their grandchildren and caring for them as if they are their own children’s is foreign to some people but its not just their babysitter, its their grandma
I’m a 24 yr old dad with 2 kids, and I don’t know how you do it. Swallow your stress? I always do a sigh when I’m exhausted and about to clean a part of the house lol. One of those fml type of sighs 😆 if you know, you know lol
Some kids are contained chaos and others are just tornados! You seem to have 3 tornados! I got lucky and had contained chaos mostly. I usually made them put their toys away before being allowed to start new fun, because I wasn't cleaning up after them when they are old enough to clean up. Your 2 oldest kids are almost at that age when they get to clean up after themselves. After a while, they'll start containing their own messes since they don't like to clean up the huge mess. Love the content! You are a good dude and good dad.
Stay at home moms be doing this with a husband in the "background" for hundreds of years. AND getting in trouble when the clothes aren't sorted. Vacation? Whats that?
I have a magnet from my 2nd son's baby shower. "Cleaning the house when the kids are growing is like shoveling snow when it's still snowing." You are doing a GREAT job!! They'll start helping eventually but I still come home to a mess 😂 Hang in there - you are doing an INCREDIBLE job!! 👏
It’s harder when the kids are young but the easiest way that’s worked in my life is separating dirty cloths. Aka everyone gets their own hamper I bought the cheaper cloth $30 split doubles hampers that have velcro to hold up mesh bags for easy transportation but it’s helped a lot only a few of our cloths get mixed now and again but majority it stays separated doing laundry separately pre hand. And also it’s hard at first but becomes a lovely routine to always change by your hamper so dirty cloths have no where to go but the hamper or the floor in front of the hamper making it easier to rally up cloths as wel.😊 I do stinking love your videos gives me more faith in some of the hard mundane stuff
With laundry, I separate lightweight, denim, and then flannel/sweatshirts. Wash on cold. Also, net bag for sox. Saves dad's mind I had 3 in less than 3 years. I feel you.
Whew, I am overwhelmed for you.
MAGA!
@@adamm3611what? Why did this translate to “YOU”? That’s so weird…
@@i_hateithere lol what
@@adamm3611 your comment, it has a translation tab, it translated to “YOU”. I didn’t know what language you were using, so I guess I’m wondering why you yelled, “YOU!” At the above comment… I don’t know that word, sorry 😢
@@i_hateitherethey probably just meant “MEGA” lol
No judgment on anyone. Just quiet support. You are an amazing father. 🙏🙏🙏
Heck yeah, judgment!! No one should have to come home to such a mess.
Jesus loves ya!
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@@maryvandeusen5554 I immediately agreed. I would have snapped, but we don’t know mom’s situation. As I’m having more birthdays I can’t keep up with little ones. Maybe she isn’t physically able to watch kids and pick up their mess. I’d rather she say she can watch the kids and give this dear man a break from the chaos.
@@lisayum800 no
For the people complaining….try doing this guy’s routine for one day.
I’ve seen nothing but good things from you. You work, clean, and most importantly make time for your kiddos!
Keep it up brother!
❤❤❤❤❤❤
A lot of people do the same thing that he does
Exactly 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
Yeah, because nobody else on earth has ever figured out how to raise their kids, work and keep up with their home. This guy is just showing us all how it’s done for the first time 🙄
@@aimeedouglas1584 their not saying no one else has done it before, their saying it’s impressive that he manages to do all that. I’m assuming you’ve never been praised before?
Grandma was overwhelmed. I like that he has no judgment. That's because he knows how hard it is to be there for little children and keep house. 👏 👏 👏
It's not hard to pick up after yourself. That's laziness at its finest. The kids definitely slept at some point. She should have been cleaning. Overwhelmed or not, you get it done. It's called being a responsible adult.
I can tell you're not in your sixties. I agree with you about the cleanliness. But I can say that priorities sometimes have to change when you get older or injured or both.
@@annette2326 my grandmother is in her 80s and keeps a cleaner house than most people
Don't use age an an excuse
@@shesakillerqueeeennot everyone is physically able at that age and not everyone’s even lucky enough to live to that age 🤦🏽♀️ but ok be ignorant af
@beccaboo147 age still isn't an excuse. Not saying she should be able to do it but age has nothing to do with ability.
props to you man. Traveling all day and then come home at one in the morning and clean your house. that’s a true father
Props to him for traveling all day from VACATION?!?
Everybody else can have vacations why can’t he?
@@marcialynn7232go be miserable by yourself Marcia.
@@marcialynn7232yeah MARCIA 🙄
Fake
“Cuz this is gonna take me another week to put away, I’ll just leave it here with the suitcases” I FELT THAT!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Oh My Gosh! Grandma! Come on!
not her job. she just gets to enjoy the kids!!!
Kids need to start learning to pick up after themselves. Dad needs help. I watch my grandkids but I also teach them to pick after themselves.
@@mariaharthartmar5415 I tried that with my kids to no avail. Some kids won't pick up no matter what you do--until they get their own place, then it's neat and clean.
@@mariaharthartmar5415 firstly his kids are literally toddlers and preschool. Secondly their were with grandma and any parent will tell you grandparents don't discipline their grandkids. Not the way they did their kids. Thirdly. I was a nursery teacher for 10 years. Yes they can tidy up. But you have to make it fun for them. In the nursery we played a song from Barney. It's called the clean up song and us nursery teachers would sing it as we helped the children pick up the toys. Fourthly. They never ever put stuff away in the right place. And there will be kids that don't want to but for my son at home he was put on a time out because I was asking him to do something that was somewhat his responsibility (when you want independent children start early) he was only ever put on time out for 2 minutes and he started cleaning up. Simply telling them to do something will not work until they are able to process and follow instructions
Grandma should know better than to leave her son’s home a wreck like that. There’s zero excuse for the house to look like that.
Pushing everything in to a pile has helped me with cleaning. It takes me a whole week to wash and fold and put away clothes. Great organization.
Love seeing the little ones. Keep on trucking.
Why does it take so long? Idk if it's because folding laundry is relaxing for me but I can do a few loads including towels and sheets in under 30 minutes. But I also hate disorganized spaces so idk 😬
@@TheodoreBakes towels and sheets ain't nothing
@@shereebreshears I said a few loads including towels and sheets and I personally don't know many people who can fold a fitted sheet correctly in less than 30 seconds but yeah go off. Clothes are much easier in my personal experience and opinion 🤷🏾♀️
As grandma, I would NEVER leave the house trashed for you to come back to that mess!
I would never let you babysit. best grandmas know every second spent cleaning is a waste. every second spent playing is a second you will treasure forever.
@@jmdenisonyeah but would the PARENTS appreciate if the mess was left? I’d say probably not, and who said the kids don’t get playtime AND there’s cleaning time? The kids can nap or play together or whatever while the babysitter (even if they’re family) cleans up
@@SketchUT just play time. Stop the cleaning it's wasted time. Teach the parents
@@jmdenison teach the parents what??
@@SketchUT so many many things. Haven't you noticed on Earth. This is a learning experience and you learn so many things everyday
Wow ! I’m a grandmother of 6 & when I watched them all we never would have left a mess like this . Wow!
We don’t know her capabilities. I have grandchildren too and different grandchildren from different parents have taught me that some are harder than others to watch. Actually, just my own children taught me that.
@Mehitabel18 my grandies range from 6 months to 9 years. My physical abilities weren't great when the 1st one was born, but now? Now I'm far more physically disabled & couldn't do what I used to.
Me neither..
Never ever ❤
@@cindygenogram5667 Well, I pray that you can still enjoy them and continue doing so for a good while.
If I was you me and grandma would be having conversation. You work way to hard to come home to this!
Right? She just trashed his house and left. Hon she just left a pee diaper in the hallway?! Did she let the kids pee on the floor? She couldn't clean off the counter?!
Gonna be so for real, not anyone’s job to clean someone else’s house unless they’re getting paid for it and it’s ACTUALLY their job. Might it have been really kind? Yes. Should it be expected? No
Grandma is probably too tired watching the kids... He probably also said don't worry about the mess.
Throwing a peed diaper in trash can is minimum effort.
Wtheck???
I have nothing but the utmost respect for you.
Thank you for being real. That house is lived in, those toys are used, that kitchen is used. This is what having a family looks like and yea… it’s overwhelming! You’re killing it dad.
He is killing it, but that is NOT a home that was 'just lived in'..... I'm a terrible housekeeper, but that was ridiculous. Was grandma sick or something? Because it looked like there was no attempt to pick up a thing.
There was a dishwasher. Dirty diapers? Even little kids can pick up toys! The house was totaled!
Kids need to learn to put toys away maybe. You play you put away…
That's a lazy grandmother being a slob. Not a lived in house. She had 0 excuse to leave her sons house like this. Guaranteed growing up she would have punished him if he ever left her house that way. It's called being a responsible adult.
@@maureenreynolds2083 seems like the grandma couldn't even follow that rule
@@shesakillerqueeeenprobably set up for views
Great Dad. 😊❤
I’m sorry but whoever was in charge while you were away should’ve never let you come home to that.!💯 house would have been nicely reset for you to come back too
good go volunteer for him for free, but how would he know you were as safe as grandma. he can't.
@@jmdenison I mean it’s background checks and lot more you could do to insure that and people have done it billions of time and it’s gone perfectly safe so yea I’ve got a certificate for babysitting and child development and I’m CPR certified and I have my own child so I’d say I’m a pretty good candidate lol.
@@ashantikirkwood9797 yes, but do you work for free like grandma, and plenty of creepos have no record --- yet.
I clean like mad before I vacay. My husband had no idea why. It's because I don't want to come home to a dirty house! I can't be the only person who feels that way. Grandma, shape up! Get a maid if necessary.
Not convinced grandma was safer looking at that place. Was she asleep on the job?
This is overwhelming! What happened to Grandma? Wow!!
She is overwhelmed! 😮
Grandma WAS ENJOYING AND MAKING GREAT FUN MEMORIES WITH HER GRANDCHILDREN! You go grandma! I bet she was e exhausted! A grandma and great grandmother
@@betlun3172 excuses excuses wtaf is wrong with you people lol
@@betlun3172You can have fun without leaving dirty dippers on the floor. That is the minimum. Also you can have fun with kids while cleaning up. I have made it into a game while babysitting before. Turn on some music and see who can pick up the most in X area during a song or competition of if they can clean up one side of the room before me. Teaching kids to pick up is part of growing up. The earlier you make certain habits the better it is later.
@@reginaflemming4390"lazy"
Wow! I'm glad that I never left a relatives house looking like that after watching their kids. I'm that auntie that makes kids pick up their toys. They could be crying and whining about it but I'm still making them pickup the toys.
If they are old enough to play with them they are old enough to put them away... just need to be shown & taught to do so.
@@vickidemarco2076cmon, a spoiled diaper on the floor? there's no excuse for leaving that regardless of whos it is.
Totally agree with this. Last job before bathtime, story and sleep is pick up toys. Consistently! No matter where or time. Along with this is not having tons of toys.
Definitely!! The children should be taught as soon as they're able to pick up toys. You can make a game of it.
When I babysit my grandkids , I clean the house and make the kids help out! Even little ones can put their toys in a toy box. They enjoy it ! Especially if they get a yummy treat after we’re done.❤️
I raised my three mostly by myself because my husband worked a lot of hours....but I learned to clean as you go and to make the kids help. The rule was you can't play a toy for a week if it's not put away when you're done with it, and never leave a room empty handed. My boys the two oldest were doing their own laundry at 11 years old.
Yes, but he has a full time job as well. That has longer than 8 hour shifts, so when he gets home instead of sleeping or recharging....he spends time with his kids, appointments, and cleans.🤷♀️
Sounds like a wonderful plan to keep your house neat. I can't understand why the house is a disaster as these kids shouldn't have that much "stuff" to leave out. I think he needs to take a week to just teach his kids they need to put stuff away. It won't be easy but he needs THEIR HELP!
@@sallydavidson4471i agree. Thats crazy.
I did a real bad job then..... my son is almost 18 and I still do his laundry and make his food and put his clothes out..... the list goes on😂
His kids are too small to help. He needs to throw away 80% of the toys
I like how the cat was standing in the middle of the mess like "it was NOT me."
The house is totally unacceptable! I am a grandma and care for two boys; 1st & 2nd grade, and a baby girl 14 months old and the house is never unkept like that! It's not fair to the children to have to live in that filth and it's not fair to you to come home from a trip and having to do everything!
Whatcha mean by the kids don't deserve to be in a filthy place? They did it!!! 😮
@@reginaflemming4390 tell me you know nothing about caring for children without telling me you know nothing about caring for children
It’s not filth it’s disarray 😂
I wish my grandma would've played with me and that worried so much about the house. I have not one memory of my grandmother playing a game with me.
@@HustlinPicklethere was a pre diaper on the floor, that is FILTH not being unorganized y’all are whack.
You are probably one of the hardest working parents I’ve seen on this app and you post without exploiting your kids!
Wow! Is that for real! When I watch my grandkids, I actually help my kids!
OMG! 😮 I feel for you. I remember those days well.. piles all over the house. You got this 💜
I only sort out my whites. Everything else gets washed on cold. Towels are seperate cause no fabric softener for those..otherwise they dont absorb water as well. You are doing fine.
Sorry you came home to that. Wish I could tell you it gets better but as the kids grow so do their messes. Just take it in chunks. Hang in there!
Fabric softener is just more poison and it’s bad for your washer you do not need it.
I would have cried. You rock!
I’m sorry you had to deal with this the minute you got home at 1am. 😢 my family and my now in-laws always had a “make it cleaner than how you found it” policy, especially to surprise those leaving for awhile.
You’re doing your best, man. These kids will remember you being there for them, not the mess made.
Yes!
Was grandma sleeping through all that??
Calmer than I would be if I came home to that much mess ❤❤
Wow this man is doing the BEST HE CAN!!!!!! I wish I had someone to help me clean just a little bit!
I'm so sorry. I can't imagine coming home to that. You do amazing!
The upside down box on the counter. “I don’t know what this is but we don’t need it”. I feel those.
I highly suggest you get some big containers, like those round ones with rope handles and start teaching your kids to put their toys in that when they are done. It will help make clean up easier.
That’s a great idea. Even if they’re not sorted, they’re off the floor and visually less daunting. And a small responsibility for kiddos to learn taking care of their fun stuff!
Target has 4 dollar foldable or dollar store too. I use this method so helpful. Our space is small and we both have a disability so organizing every time takes energy so the bins are the go to. Gotta save energy and do it when we have it. When we get a house it will have more space and we don’t plan on buying anything really just keep reusing and seeing what will work to make smart purchases that will take the pressure off of high maintenance. I think he will benefit from those baskets that is a wonderful idea.
That’s an excellent idea. If children can pull out a toy. Their little hands can put it away. I watch my nieces with their young children. Even the 2yr old will put back into the toy bin. Make a game out of it. 😉
@@Journey.8226Yea it will also teach them empathy bc they realize it is not fair or kind to make someone else pick up after them, especially not this much mess.
Surprisingly that would be big help 😅
I can't stop laughing about the garage brush 😂......Keep being awesome Chris! 💥💯🙌
Thank you ... i was wondering. Bless you and your babies
You are an awesome dad.
It's good therapy. To watch you deal with stuff on a grown up level.
I would break down and cry bro, if i were u! 😭😭😭😭
You are an amazing Dad! Simple as that, your babies know that they are loved, ❤❤❤❤
Sweet family of 3!!!
4 he’s married 🤣
Kitty’s like “see what I’ve been living in?” 😂
Cat: thank the cat gods you're home this wasn't me I swear, they haven't done the perfect feeding schedule either dad
Lol, yes Kitty greeting him at door says volumes!
I say You Are An AMAZING DAD!!!🎉 DO Not give a Rip what anyone else thinks You are doing a PHENOMENAL JOB!!! Kudos to YOU SUPER DAD🎉🎉🎉❤
The cat standing there like “I swear I had nothing to do with this mess🐱” lol
😂😂😂 so innocent!
You are doing great ❤
Your doing great. There alive, happy, fed and have a good roof . I raised 3 alone. I see you !
Dude no matter what you do or don't do you can guarantee to get people telling you're bad, wrong or worse... forget them, they ain't in your shoes, just be a good person and an even better Dad and you're on the right track...
1. Looks like the kids had a great time and were well cared for.
2. I love the functional way you handled cleaning including the timer
3. Yes I do separate but not by color. Most clothes don’t have heavy dyes in them anymore and so I only separate delicates, stuff that needs sanitizing, and everything else. They have separate hampers so I don’t have to sort before washing
4. Teaching kids responsible tablet use is a skill building activity . It’s not something to be ashamed of. 😁
I babysit for my kids and when they come home, the house is spotless because I raised for kids. I know how to clean and you would not have come home to a dirty house.
not only that but as their Nana I would be helping dad by teaching kids to clean up after themselves… his kids should already be doing that
Some Nana's don't even watch the kids. She evidently spent time with the kids, which is always a win.
@@heathershark8895 Most nanas do..... Thats the bare minimum...
@@heathershark8895both cleaning and playing can be done
I feel so bad for you 😂 I raised 4 on my own with 2 jobs! Just do what needs to be done and go from there as you can, it's ok 😊
Keep going Dad! Your doing amazing🎉
I love your videos! You got this.
Your a good father
I think you are doing great! I couldn't have gone to bed knowing I would be waking up to that! More power to you!
No kids happier life. You can come home and rest in peace and quiet and your home exactly the way you left it.
Well I declare !
Yes! I am alway’s hoping the dishes will be dirty. When they are it makes my whole day!🤣🤣
Such a great dad! ❤
You are doing a FANTASTIC JOB! Keep it up! Is tiring for sure, butnis worth it. Just remember, kids can stary learning to clean up after themselves before after age 1. Don't wait until they are 5 6 or cause the tantrums are real headaches!
Pushing things into a pile, helps out so much!
Having tile floors help so much for that. I have carpet that wouldn't work.
I watch my grandkids . My job is to make sure they’re alive at the end of parents vacation. The are fed clean and happy! Best case scenario! Give em lots of love!❤️❤️
Its hard to find good help when it comes to childcare these days. I got 4 with one on the way and its almost impossible to find someone responsible enough. I dont care how my house looks afterwards as long as my kids are taken care of.
Wow!! You are an amazing Dad!!
Just be glad he had someone he could trust watch his children! Its alot for a grandmother to take care of 3 kids.
She doesn’t seem able.
I love the out things on a pile ! It makes it easier to at least look at your house and be more organized. Kudos to dad!
That's completely disrespectful of her to let your house get like that
You have no idea whether or not this woman is able to do that kind of cleaning. Be quiet. He has free babysitting while he went on vacation. He’s fine.
welcome to the real world. babysitters are not obligated to clean. their job is childcare, not cleaning
It really is, but it seems he may have been raised that way. He allows his kids to do the same thing, be messy, and not pick up after themselves.
@@thelockettlife some kids are clean and others will never clean. just like adults
@@jmdenison i realize some people might not be as close with their family as i am and grandparents think that spending time with their grandchildren and caring for them as if they are their own children’s is foreign to some people but its not just their babysitter, its their grandma
I love the way u start cleaning by just push brooming everything 😅🙌🏽
The “I don’t know what this is but we don’t need it” and chucking it in the trash are so real lol
Your kids are so lucky ❤
I like the way you get down to your cleaning.
Kids are a full time job and when you have a job and kids Alone. It gets overwhelming sometimes. Glad you got a little break. ❤❤❤
Don't understand why it's ok to leave the house in a cyclone state for you???
I’m a 24 yr old dad with 2 kids, and I don’t know how you do it. Swallow your stress? I always do a sigh when I’m exhausted and about to clean a part of the house lol. One of those fml type of sighs 😆 if you know, you know lol
You are doing great dad! We love you keep going! We support u ❤
Some kids are contained chaos and others are just tornados! You seem to have 3 tornados! I got lucky and had contained chaos mostly.
I usually made them put their toys away before being allowed to start new fun, because I wasn't cleaning up after them when they are old enough to clean up. Your 2 oldest kids are almost at that age when they get to clean up after themselves. After a while, they'll start containing their own messes since they don't like to clean up the huge mess.
Love the content! You are a good dude and good dad.
You’re a great dad!
I feel your pain brother!
Stay at home moms be doing this with a husband in the "background" for hundreds of years. AND getting in trouble when the clothes aren't sorted. Vacation? Whats that?
He’s married and she does just as much
The cat is like “whew chile”😅
I have a magnet from my 2nd son's baby shower. "Cleaning the house when the kids are growing is like shoveling snow when it's still snowing." You are doing a GREAT job!! They'll start helping eventually but I still come home to a mess 😂 Hang in there - you are doing an INCREDIBLE job!! 👏
Ur such a good dad ❤❤
You abd grandma need to have a long talk lol
Don't get too uppity. She is providing free childcare. Make sure to express appreciation for that and be respectful when you ask for more.
It’s harder when the kids are young but the easiest way that’s worked in my life is separating dirty cloths. Aka everyone gets their own hamper I bought the cheaper cloth $30 split doubles hampers that have velcro to hold up mesh bags for easy transportation but it’s helped a lot only a few of our cloths get mixed now and again but majority it stays separated doing laundry separately pre hand. And also it’s hard at first but becomes a lovely routine to always change by your hamper so dirty cloths have no where to go but the hamper or the floor in front of the hamper making it easier to rally up cloths as wel.😊 I do stinking love your videos gives me more faith in some of the hard mundane stuff
Pretty soon the kiddos will start helping you bc they see you cleaning up all the time! Parenting gets easier in certain ways w/ time
😂😂😂 the seperate cloths i dont have time for that 😂😂😂
I don’t have time to be separating clothes either, especially after 12hr shifts all week.
You're a great dad and human 😊
Pretty sure thats grandma's payback for her coming home to her house looking something like that. Thats why homie isnt even mad, lol.
The cat lookin at you when you came 8n like you caught it doin mischief is killin me😂😂😂❤
Thats like what i come home to every day after working while the husband plays his video games letting the kids run wild 😑
Why do you allowed?🤔
My kind of house cleaning,oh yah😂😂😂😂😂😂❤
With laundry, I separate lightweight, denim, and then flannel/sweatshirts. Wash on cold.
Also, net bag for sox. Saves dad's mind
I had 3 in less than 3 years. I feel you.
Dad, you are doing GREAT!!!!!!! ❤❤❤❤
You are the best father ever....😊
You're killing it, King. 👑
Love how real this is. Props to you dude.
You're a great dad, keep it up
I love that you say you will leave it for another day I need to get better at not tackling everything in one round and overwhelming myself ❤thank you
It takes a while to multitask. Great job dad ❤
I'm glad you got to have a vacation. I know you love your kids, but everyone needs a break now and then.
Lolololol .... You're hilarious I like how you get a broom and sweep everything in a pile That's actually really smart 😊
You rock!! I pray for you and your family every day!
"Don't hate me cause my kids use tablets"
I felt that 🤣
I watch my grandkids all the time. I'm 70 with severe arthritis. I would never leave my sons house this way!! I clean it all!
this is so real. take ur time ur doing great!!
You are an amazing soul.