Hey Friends! Thanks for watching!! If this resonated with you, you'll want to sign up for the FREE WEBCLASS I'm offering on how to heal and recover from codependency and narcissistic abuse so you NEVER fall prey to emotional manipulation and psychological abuse ever again! HERE'S THE LINK: www.tamiem.info/freeclass
I began with detachment and moved to low contact & am now no contact. It was a process. The more I connected the dots, the more I awakened & moved to these measures.
@@sanjeevbains690 so glad to hear. How are new connections going? I had to realize I was accepting bread crumbs for so long, I began to think it was a fact of life + thus attracted only soul suckers! I still attract them but I spot them now in weeks not decades 🎈 how to not attract them? To love myself enough. That's the work for me currently. Best wishes on your journey. It's good to know we're not alone 🤸
I fill a 4x6 notecard with your exact words. In order. Then I practice saying them first to myself and then to others. Been doing this for months and the positive effect is staggering. I am deeply grateful for your gift.
@@tamiemjoyce, for the past 2 years I learned so much about narcissistic manipulations and strategies to deal with them and live a healthier life all thanks to you. I am grateful!❤❤❤
Ironically, the narcissist/bipolar/BPD I cut off contact with over a decade ago and have ignored all her attempta to get back into my life just sent this video to me today to let me know this video helped her diagnose me with narcissism 😂 For what it's worth, I've inadvertently followed all of your advice in freeing myself of her. Great video!
Hi Tamie, my absence of your channel is actually proof that your teachings work. I am out there living my best life and I don't feel the need to try to make sense out of it all. I noticed that your videos are getting more and more professional. Your hair looks great. Just popping in to say hi and thank you. ❤
keep narcissists in line: how to make THEM walk on eggshells 1-keep your distance. 2-maintain detachment. 3-boundaries. set and maintain, on repeat as necessary. 4-do not reward bad behavior with your attention 5-refuse to take them seriously. they are at their core, evil people 6-personal sovereignty and autonomy. rely on and need them for nothing. 7-just don't go. opt out of any activities with the narc, intermittently. say yes randomly, no, often. 8-leverage. if you have the ability to expose the narc, document everything and be ready to use such info when necessary. excellent video tamie. it's great when people can plot twist and use information against the narcissist. cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁
@tamiemjoyce thanks for your acknowledgement. i wasn't able to catch the video right away when it came out. #3, #6 and especially #8 have been important for me in managing my narcissist neighbor. am very grateful for all that you and your people behind the scenes do! -cheers, steven
I do believe it is worth it. I can see the good in people even when they can’t and I know what I’m dealing with. I also believe people can change and change big. I know, I’ve been the one who needs changing too…
These are all really solid. No. 7 at 8:28 is pure gold. No 8. is the key to the doorway out of these relationships. Staying two steps ahead was how I ultimately cut the cord to a covert narcissist but it took time because there was business dealings. This person ended up burying themselves because I stayed two steps ahead and the rest is history. My year anniversary of cutting all contact is this week and life is so much better. Listen to Tamie! I still want to take her course but need to save up for it.
@@tamiemjoyce thank you so much! I have learned so much from you. I use this non-used anon account to hide my name but I can't wait to take your course.
I called out my recent ex on her bad behavior and terrible history before she met me. Her hatred of me was obvious especially at the end. Narcissists despise the truth above anything else.
Another insightful and helpful video! You have helped me so much, more than anyone, with my healing journey and recovery from the two destructive narcissists in my life. You 'get it'! Thank you so much Tamie!
@tamiemjoyce I've always said "listen to the airlines when they say put your O2 mask on first so you're able to help others" but I didn't usu take my own advice, esp w narc family members who I allowed to guilt me into all sorts of things that took far more away from me while they gained the supply they so desperately needed. I finally learned I had / have the upper hand. They need my supply WAY more than I need / want / put up with/ their abuse (which is never) -it was lopsided for decades then they had a 6 year long smear campaign behind my back while I was their caretaker DAILY for 6 whole years. I caught on + they're not in my life anymore Codependent behavior, for sure
I am tremendously stressed and confused. My mother-In-Law is a narcissist (and alcoholic). We live across the country. She ended mine and her relationship as far as text & phone when I shared two extremely hurtful encounters, at her prodding. I will see her w/out my husband present for a wedding in 2 weeks. I have listened to your videos as to totally disengaging and returned rage. Now I am thinking the recommendation is to avoid conflict but not the same way? Please help me. I have been too naive for 33 years of marriage to know what was going on. I need to know what to do before I step on the plane Oct. 17th. She WILL speak to me. I can’t let her take any more of me. I have a disease with no cure. I can’t give any more to her, and I can’t take any more from her. How do I get an answer to this????
@julieschroeder2448 At the very least use the Grey Rock Method. You can learn more about that here: th-cam.com/video/Op-9DCA1RfE/w-d-xo.htmlsi=z-6PqW22gaxPROl9 If you want to learn more about how to work with me directly, you can apply for a consultation call here: www.TamieM.com/strategycall
Hey Friends! Thanks for watching!! If this resonated with you, you'll want to sign up for the FREE WEBCLASS I'm offering on how to heal and recover from codependency and narcissistic abuse so you NEVER fall prey to emotional manipulation and psychological abuse ever again! HERE'S THE LINK: www.tamiem.info/freeclass
I began with detachment and moved to low contact & am now no contact. It was a process. The more I connected the dots, the more I awakened & moved to these measures.
Good job!!
@@sanjeevbains690 so glad to hear. How are new connections going? I had to realize I was accepting bread crumbs for so long, I began to think it was a fact of life + thus attracted only soul suckers! I still attract them but I spot them now in weeks not decades 🎈 how to not attract them? To love myself enough. That's the work for me currently.
Best wishes on your journey. It's good to know we're not alone 🤸
Everything the evil toxic people did will backfire to themselves. Thank you for sharing
We do this while we didn't even knew we did, i can't be the only one.
I fill a 4x6 notecard with your exact words. In order. Then I practice saying them first to myself and then to others. Been doing this for months and the positive effect is staggering.
I am deeply grateful for your gift.
@stevejackson8625 You're so welcome! I'm so glad!! 🙂
Setting boundaries is the key. It works.
The universe works in mysterious ways your messages came into my life right on time, gratitude and appreciation, for your wisdom ❤🌟🔑💜🌍
lol 😂- they look ridiculous funny when they walk on eggshells in front of a sigma super empath
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Thank you for all you’ve done in my personal life. You’ve helped me so much.
@djevidoissa You're welcome! Thanks for tuning in!!
@@tamiemjoyce, for the past 2 years I learned so much about narcissistic manipulations and strategies to deal with them and live a healthier life all thanks to you. I am grateful!❤❤❤
Ironically, the narcissist/bipolar/BPD I cut off contact with over a decade ago and have ignored all her attempta to get back into my life just sent this video to me today to let me know this video helped her diagnose me with narcissism 😂 For what it's worth, I've inadvertently followed all of your advice in freeing myself of her. Great video!
oh wow!
Hi Tamie, my absence of your channel is actually proof that your teachings work. I am out there living my best life and I don't feel the need to try to make sense out of it all. I noticed that your videos are getting more and more professional. Your hair looks great. Just popping in to say hi and thank you. ❤
@annamaegold Hi, Anna Mae! I'm so happy to know you're doing well! Thank you for the positive feedback!! xx
keep narcissists in line: how to make THEM walk on eggshells
1-keep your distance.
2-maintain detachment.
3-boundaries. set and maintain, on repeat as necessary.
4-do not reward bad behavior with your attention
5-refuse to take them seriously. they are at their core, evil people
6-personal sovereignty and autonomy. rely on and need them for nothing.
7-just don't go. opt out of any activities with the narc, intermittently. say yes randomly, no, often.
8-leverage. if you have the ability to expose the narc, document everything and be ready to use such info when necessary.
excellent video tamie. it's great when people can plot twist and use information against the narcissist.
cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁
Hi @carpanthero! Thank you for watching!
@tamiemjoyce thanks for your acknowledgement. i wasn't able to catch the video right away when it came out.
#3, #6 and especially #8 have been important for me in managing my narcissist neighbor.
am very grateful for all that you and your people behind the scenes do!
-cheers, steven
And I would add: Keep busy with things and people you enjoy. Don't create a vacuum which the narcissist can slither back into.
ALL SPOT ON, but soooo difficult to gain leverage. You give us such useful videos. Thank you so much! ⭐️❤️
@judysangregorio2787 You're welcome! Thanks for watching!!
I do believe it is worth it. I can see the good in people even when they can’t and I know what I’m dealing with. I also believe people can change and change big. I know, I’ve been the one who needs changing too…
Too bad I can't post a photo of my car office in the parking lot with steering wheel lap desk. 😂 Got #1 nailed.
I LOVE my car office.
9:08 I did that, and my narcissist folks just go straight doubting the odds of my unavailability whenever they ask for something. XD
Let them doubt.
Your videos awakened me like crazy ! I see it all so clear now. You def know what you are talking about, your advices work !
Thanks ❤
I appreciate that and I'm so glad you found them helpful!
These are all really solid. No. 7 at 8:28 is pure gold. No 8. is the key to the doorway out of these relationships. Staying two steps ahead was how I ultimately cut the cord to a covert narcissist but it took time because there was business dealings. This person ended up burying themselves because I stayed two steps ahead and the rest is history. My year anniversary of cutting all contact is this week and life is so much better. Listen to Tamie! I still want to take her course but need to save up for it.
So proud of you!
@@tamiemjoyce thank you so much! I have learned so much from you. I use this non-used anon account to hide my name but I can't wait to take your course.
@@rtco769 You're so welcome! I'm here for you when you're ready.
This is excellent advice. And exactly what I need to hear now. Thank you.
Thank you for watching! ❤️❤️
I called out my recent ex on her bad behavior and terrible history before she met me. Her hatred of me was obvious especially at the end. Narcissists despise the truth above anything else.
Sadly true!
Another insightful and helpful video! You have helped me so much, more than anyone, with my healing journey and recovery from the two destructive narcissists in my life. You 'get it'! Thank you so much Tamie!
That makes my heart happy! Thank you for sharing that with me! 🥰
I appreciate your strategies. They are real gems. I am trying to apply them.
Thanks again, keep up the great work and I hope it never gets old for you cuz, You are needed!🙏👍🎈
Hi @brianmoser3947, Thank you so much. I appreciate that!!
Thank you for brilliant observations and excellent advice Tamie 😊
It's my pleasure! ❤️
First time here, you really know what you are talking about!!
Hi @TheCelestialhealer! So happy to have you here!
thank you so much
You are so welcome!! 🤗
I love your work Tamie!
You light up the dark so beautifully👌
Thank you💜
Wow! thank you so much ❤️❤️
Thank you for all you've done, you have helped me so much. Just starting no contact taking this a step at a time.
You got this!
Love the new background Tamie
Thanks, love! ❤️🤗
TAMIIIIIIIIIEEEE ! You are THE best.
awww that means so much!! Thank you! ❤️
#6 is hardest for me - my self esteem is rock bottom at the moment
It's so important to work on yourself first. Take care of you and unlock your worth! ❤️
@tamiemjoyce I've always said "listen to the airlines when they say put your O2 mask on first so you're able to help others" but I didn't usu take my own advice, esp w narc family members who I allowed to guilt me into all sorts of things that took far more away from me while they gained the supply they so desperately needed. I finally learned I had / have the upper hand. They need my supply WAY more than I need / want / put up with/ their abuse (which is never) -it was lopsided for decades then they had a 6 year long smear campaign behind my back while I was their caretaker DAILY for 6 whole years. I caught on + they're not in my life anymore
Codependent behavior, for sure
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I am tremendously stressed and confused. My mother-In-Law is a narcissist (and alcoholic). We live across the country. She ended mine and her relationship as far as text & phone when I shared two extremely hurtful encounters, at her prodding. I will see her w/out my husband present for a wedding in 2 weeks. I have listened to your videos as to totally disengaging and returned rage. Now I am thinking the recommendation is to avoid conflict but not the same way? Please help me. I have been too naive for 33 years of marriage to know what was going on. I need to know what to do before I step on the plane Oct. 17th. She WILL speak to me. I can’t let her take any more of me. I have a disease with no cure. I can’t give any more to her, and I can’t take any more from her.
How do I get an answer to this????
@julieschroeder2448 At the very least use the Grey Rock Method. You can learn more about that here: th-cam.com/video/Op-9DCA1RfE/w-d-xo.htmlsi=z-6PqW22gaxPROl9
If you want to learn more about how to work with me directly, you can apply for a consultation call here: www.TamieM.com/strategycall
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