TTPD and the reality of women's biological clocks
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- Acting like we are the same as men is only hurting us, let's face it.
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I agree 100%. I was ready to be a mom at around 21. I got told 'later, i'm not ready' by my ex for 7 years. My dad passed in january too, he wont ever see his grand children. I got older. I got less time and I ressent it dearly.
Wow, that’s tough that the choice was kinda made for you and you lost all this time. Truly hope you can make it work now. Thanks for commenting! 🙏
My mother knew she wanted children and had my brother at 24, and me at 29.
I am sorry sister ❤
Hey there, so I totally get the anxiety and frustration you're feeling for Taylor, and my heart and soul really go out to her. But I just wanted to say that she's not hopeless by any stretch. My mom had my older sister at 36 and had me at 38 and we both turned out fine. My sister is already married with a daughter and I'm actually getting married very soon and afterwards myself and my wife will start our family.
What I'm getting at is Taylor is only 34. I have a good friend who is also 34 and pregnant with her second child.. she's not completely at a loss. I mean yeah, clock's ticking but it's not like she's completely barren. She should have plenty of eggs to produce healthy children if that's what she wants
Thank you James, that’s a sweet comment. I too had my daughter later, at 34 and still hope to have another one. I hope I didn’t put out the vibe that I’m worried about Taylor herself, I’m sure she’s Ok and still have plenty of time and resources to have a family if she wants to. I was more talking about other women who get told that they will have time and that they are no different than men in that aspect. Age definitely affects fertility and I don’t see many people talking about that.
Thank you for this open and honest conversation! We need it! ❤🔥
Truly interesting video, I agree and disagree on many points which made it an engaging watch! The lighthearted bg music though felt kind of weird and out of place for a semi serious discussion though 😅
I really, really appreciate the feedback 🙏 I didn’t want it to sound too serious, hence the background music choice. But you made a really fair point 😂
Don't put it on the GUY to leave! The Woman could leave a relationship and should if it's not progressing to her liking.
Absolutely. You know when you just hang on to somebody knowing you don’t really want a whole future with that person, but you just stay because you like them and you don’t want to end things? Men and women can be in that situation. It’s probably fine if the other person feels exactly the same. But if you know they expect marriage and a family and you don’t, just leave, whether you’re a man or a woman. That’s the point I was making.
@@crldonato No- you said the Man should leave if he knows the woman wants to marry and have a family. Like you said Men have more time. That's why I recommend women marry a man 5 to 10 years OLDER than herself...It will work better.
Hiii! I felt compelled to leave a comment. Lol. I just wanted to say that I agree with you. Wasn't a fan of Midnights as much as the other swifties. TTPD has some good songs but most are not even it for me. The most that really moved me was So Long London and only because I felt Taylor's frustration and honesty in that song. AND YOU'RE RIGHT. There's this lesson that I carry with me that we have to date with intention. Especially true for women and it resonates well with me now. If marriage and motherhood are what you want, you'll need to date with intention as our time is precious and we need to be aware of that and filter out men who are just here to waste our time. Glad to have found your video!
Thank you for commenting 🫶 So long London was an instant like for me too. A few others grew on me, but not my fave album I have to say. And dating with intention is such great advice! It can save people a lot of time! Hoping that women who want those things never feel ashamed to be more intentional and honest with themselves and partners 💕
Hey I really appreciated this message. I'm a 21 year old girl and I'm still not sure how I feel about motherhood and when and if I want kids but it is so vital that women realize what you are trying to put out, which is that womens' time frame is much shorter than men to have a child. Good video!
Women should not have kids until the patriarchy is defeated.
Thank you, I appreciate your comment. I’m sure you’ll figure it out and hope more women your age start to think about it. I only started considering this seriously in my late 20s.
I trully don't care about Taylor Swift.
I totally agree with you on the biological clock part and you are right to speak up about that !
I had my first baby at 21, second at 26 and hope to have more in the future. If I started 10 years later I wouldn't have the szme options about how many children I want and what age gap I prefer
I truly admire people like yourself who are clear about what they want at an early age 🙏 all the best to your growing family! Thanks for commenting 💕
The absurdity of this video explains the 58 followers
I’ve almost doubled my subs since your comment so thanks for the engagement ❤️
@@crldonato 100, you’re really reaching the masses. Your useless and toxic rambling is exactly where it should be, buried within the TH-cam algorithm
You believe each individual should have the freedom to choose what they should do with their lives. aka feminism. You're a feminist and should be proud of it
Your comment was a flash back to my early 20s, I probably commented that exact same thing on a few blogs back then. But since the suffragettes, feminism has incorporated a bunch of other values that don’t necessarily align with mine. So, I’m not a feminist. I’m libertarian.
@crldonato your view is a flashback to my pick me days as a late teenager when I believed feminism was the downfall and fault of a lot of problems in the modern times and I renounced it everywhere I knew cause it was cool to hop on the bandwagon of being anti feminist.
You can disagree with how the extremists have interpreted it, but fundamentally feminism is at it's basic core the freedom to choose what to do with your lives. It took me to my 30s to finally understand this and be proud to be a feminist. It doesn't mean I can't disagree with values other feminists have. We're allowed to have differences on values, we're not all stepford robots of the 50s to have to believe everything. Even men in the manosphere differ on values.
@@flamer9783 I would have to know what you consider extremism in the movement. I could argue that what was considered extremism, say, 10 years ago, is basically mainstream feminism now. But again, what I think is extreme may not be for you. Bottom line, what I want to say is, feminism is not the only movement that fights for gender equality. Libertarians have been saying that men and women, gay and straight, and every race should have equal rights (but not equal outcomes, since enforcing equality of outcomes necessarily interferes with individual freedom) for centuries; they go even more in-depth and support freedom of speech (without restrictions), free markets, private property, and small government. All without being a collectivist movement. This is me, I’m a proud libertarian.
@crldonato then you are both a libertarian and a feminist. One does not negate the other. As long as you don't believe that women are lesser than men and believe women deserve equal rights you are a feminist. A progressive Muslim or Christian would still call themselves Muslims and Christians despite radical Muslims and Christians existing. They would still have different values but it doesn't mean they don't believe in the core values.
We need more feminist voices like yours who actually talks about issues like what you speak about this video to give some more balance. Too many people have a wrong image of feminism based on the small number of those who give it a bad name.
@@flamer9783 fair enough. I understand where you’re coming from.