The middle ground is almost impossible with an avoidant. It’s always push pull. They want you to lead but they want their independence. My Ex gf always wanted me to lead- which I did but then she would take it away. She thought I was trying to control her. Always eggshells. I wish it was easier but it’s just exhausting.
You broke down the masculine feminine concept so well! Also thanks for the advice with my situation. Things are still going slow but very steady. I appreciate you!
This actually works! It’s all a balancing act, be nice but don’t be too nice, be mean but don’t be too mean. And above all treat them like your best friends meaning NO special treatment
Just be a jerk; don’t care about her, see multiple women. Don’t be nice; if she says, honey can you do such and such. Nope.. go find a guy that’s nice, I don’t care. Actually men just need to stop actually dating; or try to date. Just be a jerk; don’t try to be a jerk.
Hmm, women like guys with strong opinions. I don't know about that one. In Norway I was a libertarian and outspoken about it, but it just caused me to be labeled as a bad guy and frozen out of good company.
@@KrampusDerWilde Of course I do not consider libertarianism particularly radical. But in Norway, even a small deviation from the norm is considered weird and can cause you to become a social outcast.
Be the attractive level of controlling, stubborn, and unfiltered? So I can make up a list of several barely reasonable demands to enforce, and that's considered hot as long as i don't budge on them?
This has so much to do with the partner, you pick to one girl who grew up around really rough men. You may be a jerk to most women, but she finds you too easy. Another woman is more sophisticated, grew up very healthy might find that behavior that the other one thought I was almost simple like as a jerk so it's not a universal across-the-board. It's the chemistry between a man and a woman and her prior perspective and experiences you get a woman that grew up around gangbangers or Ruffman, and to a dentist doctor or nurse etc. you're kind of a Louvre in a jerk to her you were like the nicest guy she ever met so you have to know your target market so to speak.
I think it's because women are always after the bad guys and the good ones end up being a backup plan, gets cheated on or taken advantage of. A lot of men are single and even miserable because they seek serious relationships and all they get is a broken shell of a woman who was head over heels for the bad and toxic one. So now men have to adapt thos traits in order to continue the bloodline.
Treat ‘em like dirt, they stick to you like mud.
All these silly games. Good luck out there gentlemen
learn how chickz operate.
The middle ground is almost impossible with an avoidant. It’s always push pull. They want you to lead but they want their independence. My Ex gf always wanted me to lead- which I did but then she would take it away. She thought I was trying to control her. Always eggshells. I wish it was easier but it’s just exhausting.
Same man
Agreed. The woman that likes me most right now is the one I dont find attractive physically
You broke down the masculine feminine concept so well!
Also thanks for the advice with my situation. Things are still going slow but very steady. I appreciate you!
Trying to hit on a girl in 2024 is a joke
some of these influencers are too.
humanz have been about the zame for 100,000 yearz.
This actually works! It’s all a balancing act, be nice but don’t be too nice, be mean but don’t be too mean. And above all treat them like your best friends meaning NO special treatment
In which category do classic rockers fall?
Party rockers in the house tonight
Women dont know whats they want
courze they do. learn how they operate.
Just be a jerk; don’t care about her, see multiple women. Don’t be nice; if she says, honey can you do such and such. Nope.. go find a guy that’s nice, I don’t care.
Actually men just need to stop actually dating; or try to date.
Just be a jerk; don’t try to be a jerk.
I agree 1000 %
Perfect
A lesbian giving out men advice ... that's rich.
😂😂😂😂
mizzed the point mate. lizten to her knowledge & intelligence.
Zo many optionz! Get battin' on my team baby! I'll chooze the clothez and pack the bag quicker than you! (Haha ; zide quezt!)❤
The fastest way to drive a woman away is to be the boring nice guy. Cancel some dates. Don’t be quick with compliments.
So the 50-50 thing never worked I’ve been saying this for 30 years
thank you 🙏 so much for your hard work. stuart from manchester uk 🇬🇧
Be yourself. If that's not good enough for her then she's not a good fit for you.
Wow. That sums it up finally!
Your vidz are fuckin' Great bye the way!❤🔥
Your wife?
Yep ; wife.
Hmm, women like guys with strong opinions. I don't know about that one. In Norway I was a libertarian and outspoken about it, but it just caused me to be labeled as a bad guy and frozen out of good company.
Probably "taboo" or "radical" opinions such as doubling down attitude.
You consider libertarian to be something strong? 😂😂😂 Fascist is actually strong. You learned something today. Thank me later.
@@KrampusDerWilde Of course I do not consider libertarianism particularly radical. But in Norway, even a small deviation from the norm is considered weird and can cause you to become a social outcast.
@@thomashilmersen711 Just ignore that, allow yourself to meet the right people
That's because you're a libertarian, and those Norwegians were 100% right and based to protect themselves from you.
Be the attractive level of controlling, stubborn, and unfiltered?
So I can make up a list of several barely reasonable demands to enforce, and that's considered hot as long as i don't budge on them?
Makes sense..
This has so much to do with the partner, you pick to one girl who grew up around really rough men. You may be a jerk to most women, but she finds you too easy. Another woman is more sophisticated, grew up very healthy might find that behavior that the other one thought I was almost simple like as a jerk so it's not a universal across-the-board. It's the chemistry between a man and a woman and her prior perspective and experiences you get a woman that grew up around gangbangers or Ruffman, and to a dentist doctor or nurse etc. you're kind of a Louvre in a jerk to her you were like the nicest guy she ever met so you have to know your target market so to speak.
You feel like a jerk when you ask her if she has a boyfriend,and,tells you not really.
And, your relationship experience is…..???
Watch more of her vidz. Plenty of knowledge & experience.
5 days
Jerk guys are more likely to cheat
Can you do a video on limerance?
What is limerance? I've seen that word once before
Read book " love and limerance " by Dorothy tennov
@@EriPages more like an illusion of emptiness created by an obsession.
Think "twin flames"
Liberace? I love that guy! Why the Catholic Church hasn't made him their patron saint of gay, I'll never understand.
Your Gay...
that zhe iz.
Stop making men more power , y ar woman too , why do y help them!! 🤦♀️
Cause she can and does that's why! You do you, she'll do her!!
I think it's because women are always after the bad guys and the good ones end up being a backup plan, gets cheated on or taken advantage of. A lot of men are single and even miserable because they seek serious relationships and all they get is a broken shell of a woman who was head over heels for the bad and toxic one. So now men have to adapt thos traits in order to continue the bloodline.
Is it a war ?
mizzin the point , knowledge, education, & experience lady.
Your racist views on skin colour , never watching your videos again
bro are u ok
Carefully watch the video again
Nobody cares... 🤷♂️