Venus&Pluto 0bsession
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This live stream is about hard Venus Pluto aspects in synastry. How these hard aspects play out in a relationship, who holds the power, who decides about who and of course who is more obsessive :) Q&A involved! Join me next time and ask me about your relationship.
If you live this experience on a higher level, you can understand that this can be the access to a healing process. I've experienced both side. I first was the venus person. The pluto person's behaviour was ok, but he's energetic presence made all my fears and wounds came up to the surface. No place to hide anymore. I had no orher choice than taking each fear and wound one by one and heal them. The pluto person pushed me to get in touch with my depht, my subconcious, my darkness, my inner conflicts in order to realise that I didn't love myself and didn't feel worthy. It was an invitation to find rhis love for myself by healing all my traumas from childhood and past lives. A real gift even if it was the hardest rhing I had to do in my life. Today, I'm rhe pluto person, he is the venus, and he's experinecing what I've experienced a few years ago: obsession, fears, wounds.. a real tsunami.. The pluto person has to be very kind and benevolent with the venus person's insecurities. It's a real alchimical process fot both.
Did u have the easy aspect or the hard aspect?
@@megan-knees , in the first relationship it was a conjunction (I was Venus, he was Pluto). With the second one, an opposition (I'm Pluto, he is Venus).
Wow this explains what's happening to him right now I think and I am aware of this too and I am letting him heal. Thank you for your experience beautiful 🙏💛
I just have to comment on this video. My husband and I have Pluto square Venus. We are both highly Plutonian people. We have a extremely deep bond. We have many other positive aspects in our chart. This aspects is not a deal breaker or is as bad as you are indicating. Depends on entire chart and the people.
Who Venus?
My husband and I also. We dont lie to eachother, harm the other to benefit the self, or behave disloyal in any way. That behavior would utterly destroy us. Trust allows us to be vulnerable enough for real connection. Without trust, you get cold armor and a stinger. Other than encountering needs conflicts, 90% of issues can be resolved when you both know how to act right.
My parents are Venus square Pluto and they were together for over 30 years but Jesus their relationship was so volatile. But I like passion I don’t want a boring relationship so I don’t think it was so terrible. All depends on people’s childhoods and they both had unusual childhoods.
This is really an honest interpretation. I really find your directness refreshing.
I'm Venus and he's Pluto. Very difficult exhausting affair as he keeps himself hidden which triggers my fears. It's like getting blood out of a stone trying to get him to open up. The power they hold over u is definitely subtly but firm. You can easily lose yourself in the sand they kick up. You are looking for love and a haven which at the beginning is bliss but there idea of love seems to be on a foundation of insecurities which plays out in controlling you.
Your always having to prove u love them. Really tough on the heart strings.
Hello, may I ask, is ur Venus - pluto synastry Square or Opposition..??..
My husband and I have been together for almost 13 years and we have this aspect. I am the Pluto person, he is the Venus. He is the one with Pluto opposition Venus in his chart. In the beginning I was definitely possessive and controlling. I almost lost him because of it, so I did have to confront my behavior and tone it down. As I’ve gotten older I’ve noticed I have tendencies to be controlling and possessive, I’ve had to work on that, I’m still obsessive.
Hearing about this aspect I think this might be One thing that’s kept us so interested in each other for all these years 🤔
Yes, I think it works well if people really care about each other's feelings and can correct their negative behavior. Not all doom and gloom at all imo.
@@5050TM yep especially with other good aspects present in synastry or compisite too.
I would think pluto is insecure and possessive so venus would have the power to most likely walk away. Also in opposition I heard pluto believes he can walk away unscathed but is shocked because venus has just as much control over pluto in the end that she can drop him to his knees too.
Not true I’m pluto and I left both relationships
@@themoonbleu627different strokes for different folks!
@themoonblue627 you left physically but here you are!
@@forwhat-gg3sn 😂👏
I had a friend whose pluto was sitting in my 12th house conjunct my ac. She definitely tried to control me ("it's better for you to do this, do that"), but with a venus trine on pluto she was always nice. I ended the friendship bc of her unhealthy and destructive attitude towards people, esp men. It was very hard for me to cut me free but I was firm and convinced that I didn't want that bad influence anymore. So, with a conscious mind you can master it, I would not call it dangerous, but a lesson to learn. Life is all about lessons. You can learn a lot about yourself.
The only thing I'm obsessed with is your eyes girl! How is anyone this beautiful?
OMG! :)
Her eyes and her accent! 💖
His Pluto is opposite my Venus, and my Pluto is square his Venus...I'm a Scorpio rising and love this, so far lol
I believe ya!
He (Pluto) can absolutely possess me (venus). Sign me up!
I wish I had never met him because it was intense and the best sex I ever had and after he broke up with me (the Venus person) I was never the same. I never really got over him. He recently commited suicide due to severe depression. He was only 30. I was crushed when I found out through a mutual friend and I still am although we were no longer part of each others life. It was unforgetable though unsustainable 💔
Yep. Intense and best sex I ever had.
His pluto conjunct my venus in scorpio 2nd house this resonates a lot .. i take care of my physical appearance and it triggers his insecurities he got me pregnant on purpose knowing id gain a lot of weight gets mad when i start to lose weight . Worse part, i catch him mimicking my physical appearance he really does want my beauty been together ten years been trying to leave for the past 5. It’s draining feels like dracula
Her Pluto is in Scorpio in 2nd house and I work in her fertilizer factory, I haven't had a holiday in 3years, I'd love to see outside of my suburb someday but she's put a tracking device on my wheelchair
🤦🏽♀️💀😂
It's interesting that I have this opposition with my wife, and we've been together for over 8 years. I wouldn't say we have an "obsessive" energy between us, but we never want to leave each other. It's not an unpleasant energy for us.
I had this with my ex husband I’m the Pluto person.. he was Venus he brought out the worst in me with all of his baggage and drama… I didn’t bring anything negative to the relationship other than trying to create boundaries and I thought that was necessary.. he became a better person while this relationship was killing me from the inside out… I say this because it’s like Pluto this and Pluto that… Pluto is not always the bad guy or toxic.. in my cause Venus was very toxic from the start I ignored the red flags. His family was toxic as well… but my family loved and embraced him with open arms.. the toxicity was always on his side… not saying I’m perfect as no human is.. but I had to work to be in this marriage when he didn’t because I did my best to make him comfortable I tipped toe around his insecurities I didn’t nothing to cause him pain I was always honest and expressed myself.. he provided financial but that was it… I could go on and on but I will stop there I got 8 years of stories to tell… I have cancer mercury I don’t forget anything that has an emotional impact on me.. it’s like it happened yesterday
Im the venus in scorpio person hes pluto in scorpio..but sounds about the same I ignored the red flags n my family lights up when he comes around im tired n drained ,financial control is no joke ;it’s blinding n leaves you stuck,they know what they’re doing when they “provide “.
When you’re the Ascendant in Synastry yet behaving like Pluto watching hours on this Synastry 🤔. So he reallyyyy must be obsessed in secret if I’m usually called the “distant cold” person by everyone I’ve ever dated 😂.
I have 2 choices in dating people within a 10 year age range, my mercury squares their neptune or for a slightly larger age gap my venus/asc hard aspects thier pluto but nice neptune aspects. I feel that I much prefer the venus/pluto over hard neptune aspects. The hard neptune aspects made me feel awful. Thank you for the video!!
22:17 facts.... I have Pluto conjunct mars and ascendant AND Pluto square my moon 🌙 and Venus 😒.... my husband is a Scorpio sun with mars in the 8th house his Pluto conjuncts my mars and ascendant and astrologers say oh that’s a dangerous combination well...we are just fine it has been challenging just like any couple but we are more than ok.
My crush has pluto opp my venus and the day we met i was so shy when he spoke to me. I am obsessed with him even before meeting him. Now he never speaks to me, only stares. I caught his friend spying once but they never spoke again. Also my pluto is in bis 8th house!
Wtf 😂
My crush's pluto squares my venus and he barely talks to me too just stares 👁👄👁🤣🤣
My mums a Scorpio and she’s in her 70s but she never forgot or got over a brief love affair she had with another Scorpio in her 20s. She said he was the love of her life only he got killed in a car crash. She said after they broke up they couldn’t let go of each others pride, neither one would backdown.. how scorpios just won’t speak to each other if one doesn’t make the first move.
😂 and it's been two years, how are THINGS going now?
Exhausting and rewarding if you do the work
Hi, I'd like to know if this aspect also play out the same way in sesquiquadrates, as it is a minor hard aspect
So what if you and the other person have Venus/Pluto in opposition, but also have Venus/Pluto trine on the other side? There are lots of trines and some inner planet conjunctions, too. And there is also a Jupiter/Sun double whammy: A's Sun conjuncts B's Jupiter and B's Sun conjuncts A's Jupiter. A's Sun is in B's 7th house, along with B's Mars and Jupiter. All of this is in the respective natal charts. A's Ascendant is Pluto in Scorpio.
Do I understand correctly that you have in synastry Venus/Pluto opposition as well as trine? Who is Venus experiencing trine to Pluto here?
@@modernastrology4521 I have both in synastry ??
(he has pluto opp Venus natal, I have it conjunct asc)
in synastry we have the opposition where he’s Venus, in the trine I’m Venus? We also have Him, Mars, me Venus, in a sq and his sun/moon in my 8th, I don’t know his b/time to know the full story but it’s already hot knowing half of it 🤣
Hi! Would the square behave the same as Venus inconjunct(quincunx) Pluto in synastry?
Square si more powerful
Modern Astrology thank you!
My Pluto is square his Venus and moon and mercury and his Pluto conjunct my mars and in composite we also have Venus square Pluto and north node conjunct Venus, Does this make the relationship work? I don’t want to follow my gut and get hurt again 😔🥺🥺
I met a guy his pluto is exactly opposite my venus. We also have chiron conjunct sun double whammy. Also his mercury is opposite my pluto. I miss him. My lilith is conjunct my sun and his chiron. My natal pluto is opposite my venus. Our karma asteroids are exactly opposite and moons are exactly opposite. We have other aspects as well. Is this a good match? I am totally obsessed.
well, if you have Venus opposition Pluto natally and you met a guy whose Pluto is opposing your Venus I believe you feel this guy as an atomic bomb :). I believe you are totally obsessed. You know, this guy is your ideal according your birth chart. But it is still just one aspect, to come any conclusion with you, I should see your whole chart.
I would love more positivity! I respect the honesty but I do know the entire chart plays into everything.
What if is a not so low degree? (4.3 degree)
His venus is conjunct my pluto, my venus squares his pluto. (6 years together) it is hard. We both have these in our natal chart as well (me: venus square pluto…and mars opposite pluto 😮)
The Pluto who exactly opposes my Venus swears I’m just srx lol bless his soul!
You mean he only sees you as seggsual object?
In my case, this person's Sun, Pluto, and Lilith exactly opposite my Ascendant. His Pluto is only minutes difference and his Lilith is 1 degree and Sun 2 degrees difference. Also his Saturn and Chiron conj. my Ascendant. It has been veey difficult for me.
Is it different if there is a Venus/Pluto opposition in the composite not the synastry?
Please what can you say regarding a Venus opp Pluto Double whammy. We both have Venus opp Pluto natally. I'll appreciate if my comment is regarded, thanks!
What is your experience about this one?
@@modernastrology4521 we haven't gone real deep to be honest but, I think we're both really manipulative by nature. But I'm more self aware so i can catch myself doing this unlike her. I'm sexually attracted to her and i've shown her in subtle ways i know she likes me too but i don't know if she finds me sexually attractive as well, she hides her feelings really well, we have a really fascinating synastry chat, I'm very certain you'll love to see it. We have a SUN OPP PLUTO, (I'm Pluto here) tight orbs. VENUS OPP PLUTO DOUBLE WHAMMY. When her Pluto opposes my Venus, its in tight orbs but when my Pluto opposes her Venus it isn't that tight. Its around 5 degrees. MARS CONJ VENUS.( I'm the Venus here) I'm male though. A VENUS CONJ SUN( I'm Venus here) plus a MERCURY TRINE PLUTO( I'm mercury here) and there's some others but i wouldn't want to waste your time.
Do you recommend a relationship that has Venus square Pluto in synastry, both ways. And also Venus conjunct Pluto in composite, and the Venus Pluto conjunction forms a grand tribe with moon and Jupiter in the composite chart?
I have my pluto square his venus, and his pluto square my moon, and his ascendent conjuct my pluto. Our mars is in eachother's 8th house overlay.. omg.
Great information. What if you have Venus trine Pluto in synastry, but a hard aspect in the composite chart? And if both people have Venus trine Pluto natally, does it help? Thank you.
Hello there :) good point here. I should talk about composite more often. You know, composite is a big game changer in a relationship. Synastry is your daily interaction, so you will experience a deep love, affection and connection with Venus trine Pluto .. but composite shows outcome of a relationship, its like one blended entiny, so what I would expect here is that you both will be very intense when it comes to your relatiosnhip you are having together. Possible fights, drama, intensity one sometimes cannot handle. Composite aspects are very potent when it comes break up-that is where you see the real drama with this one aspect. All the best!
@@modernastrology4521 Thank you for replying :)
Could you explain how venus/pluto opposition and square is seen as unrequited love ? Is it the pluto person that experiences the unrequited love or the venus person ?
Its not unrequited love actually. But if it happens, its the Pluto who backs away.
Is the passion any different with the opposition vs square? I had a square with my ex, and that reinforced the most intense passion ever.
@@TastyShepherdsPie The passion is very intense with the opposition as well. I have it in synastry in 0 degree orb with my girlfriend.
@@TheDragonMasterRyu Thats interesting. I’ve been doing research about the square, which seems way more volatile than the opposition. Apparently both partners can grow more with the opposition, while the square is almost more sinister.
Do you guys have any more passion indicators in the synastry? Any easy flowing aspects?
@@TastyShepherdsPie The Square is definitely more volatile than the opposition imo but both partner can still grow with the square as long as they are aware of the Dynamics that is going on between them.
The thing is with any venus/pluto synastry aspect is that both partners need to do alot of self reflection in other for the relationship to endure imo.
And to answer your question yes we have other passion aspect In our synastry: Sun opposite mars, Venus Opposite Mars, Mars sextile pluto exact, Mars trine Neptune double whammy exact, Moon sextile sun/pluto, Venus trine Saturn, Mars trine Saturn. My Mars is also in her 8th house and her Venus in my 7th.
Can this work in context of Scorpio moon (Pluto) conjunct Pluto in opposition to Taurus Moon (Venus) inconjunct Pluto Berta?😅😅
My partner is a Pluto and he is doing opposition to my Venus.
Is there a differences in Venus - Pluto and Pluto - Venus opposition??
What do you think when a square is made in synastry between Pluto and Venus but it becomes a sextile in the Composite?
I have this aspect but I have a lot of Pluto aspects in my own chart . So I wonder if that would make a difference .My venus /mars/sun/mercury is in my 8th house . Pluto is also in my first house . Maybe this would be better or just an explosion?
Also we are double aspected - my Pluto is opposite his Venus and his Pluto opposite my Venus !
Double whammy Pluto oppositte Venus and mercury..in natal both of us pluto opposite sun, and thats ok
I don’t know if you work with or use minor aspects? If so I have some of these with someone. I have my Venus quintile another person’s Pluto. I’m not sure if it forms a minor aspect? But his Venus is 33-34 degrees from my Pluto and his mars is novile my Pluto. My black moon Lilith/mars is 164 or 165 undecile his Pluto. But in the composite, we have Pluto sextile venus?? His sun conjunct my Pluto. In synastry, His Pluto is a looser square to my ascendant and my Pluto sextiles his ascendant.
Hi Beata, do you use Declinations? So lets say Venus Contra Parallel Pluto in synastry, can you apply the opposition interpretation? Are declination aspects less stronger than Geocentric aspects in your opinion?
Hi! I don´t use contra parallels in synastry or birth chart, only in primary directions (predictive techniques), so really cannot give you accurate advice on this.
I haven't seen much action from parallels or contra in synastry. Not much info out there about it either. If you find something let us know! 🙂
@@cavaleer These aspects are like Conjunction and Opposition! They are valid. Many astrologers look at these aspects even before the other aspects.
What if you have Venus/pluto opposition, but only as a 1 way aspect. 1 person is only venus and the other person is only pluto ? Also is there any difference if venus is the male and pluto is the female ?
Hi, when it comes to gender, I don´t see any difference (in this case). As it is only one way aspect, it will still be felt very much but mainly for a Venus person. Venus person will be the receiver of the energy and Pluto will be sort of provider.
@@modernastrology4521 Thank you for the response, Another question does it mean that the pluto person does not feel attraction towards the venus person in the case of the one way aspect even if the pluto person has venus trine pluto in the natal ? could I send you a picture of our synastry if possible ?
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@@TheDragonMasterRyu what do.u mean ?
How about Venus Conjunct Pluto in composite chart?
What if one person had opposite Pluto and someone else has Pluto conjunct in the same relationship?
So imagine this I’m Venus he’s Pluto with our opposition AND his Pluto is conjunct my North node 😭 AND my Venus is conjunct his north node smh so my Pluto is conjunct his south node 🥵etc what’s your opinion on this ??
I have Venus & Pluto in composite chart. Is this also valid for composite or only for synastry?
Yes
I don't see venus pluto conjunct on your channel..?
I thought in Venus sq Pluto thet it is the Venus that is obsessed
They both are, initially Venus feel out of control and Pluto loves it. Venus walks away from being exhausted, Pluto can never let go
@@luciantempest1291 gotcha. I was the Venus and I walked away lol
Don’t know how my Pluto friends feeling about it but he seems ok.
I have Pluto conjunct venusRX 4h leo he has Venus conjunct Pluto in 10 h leo. 😊
Does this apply to the composite too?
Yessss!
I checked my birth chart to see why I crave these kind of intense romantic plutonic love affairs and my natal Venus is in opposition to my Pluto in my first house. aswell as my Venus in my eighth house. 😂 Haha.
21:08 sqare
What does someone's Pluto in your 12th house?
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