Oh this is so true! I have Venus trine Pluto with someone I know in our composite. I just feel there is a deep soulful kind of meaning to this connection. Hahaha.... But the whole chart is pretty challenging, so this relationship projects out so many shadows of my own to work on! Thanks Tan
Wow! I have venus square pluto with my ex bf, and it plays just like you said! 🤯 And yeah.. it was tough for both sides. It was a short relationship though cuz it was exhausting! But the feeling of intensity remains the same… power struggles… and yes, I always think: one day he will realize I was way too good 🤣
I have the trine with a friend and definitely felt the emotional closeness very early on. Maybe because it's the most exact aspect I feel it very strongly. Love it
I’m Pluto in the Opposition, I always feel like he thinks i’m after his money 😂! But he’s generous with me at the same time, I actually feel uncomfortable about him possibly spoiling me (he’s a Leo Venus) because I’m always the giver (Pisces Venus)…
I have this conjunction in Scorpio with a man, he's Venus, i'm Pluto, and it's definetely about obsession!He's a Scorpio, i'm Pisces 😜 we have this in our synastry and composite. I think your reading of the aspect it's extremely accurate and useful on how to manage it. When you love genuinely love yourself and have a full life you don't need to play mindgames, and the conjunction works really well because it creates a strong bond between the two people involved. I read that you can easily find this aspect in married couples... my parents have this too in their synastry.
Hello again, Tan! You're so pleasant to watch and listen to! And, we get to learn about astrology! Lucky us! 😁 My husband and I have Pluto conjunct Venus in 2H Libra! -with both of them strongly aspecting many other planets. The negatives I saw were an inconjunct to the MC, and a semisextile to the Sun and Mercury. (There is also a square to the Vertex, but I'm not sure if that counts in a composite chart.) The positives are a trine to Jupiter, and sextiles to the Moon, Mars, Saturn, and Neptune! The Moon, Mars, and Saturn (and the Part of Fortune) are also all conjunct the AC in Leo!
I have venus conjunct Pluto in Scorpio in my natal 10th house. I’ve learned through a bunch of Pluto catastrophic moments that I have to maintain a degree of obsessive love for myself and positive activities or else I get obsessed over a person and completely lose my sense of self 😭 Typically an Aries or Leo where my Sun sign in Libra is opposed or debilitated. These relationships aren’t healthy for me and now with wisdom I have chosen to build healthy relationships bc I don’t have time to be consumed by selfish relationships. Tough lesson nevertheless I feel much more empowered now that I’m aware of this subconscious deal I’ve had going on. Thanks Tan ❤
"I have to maintain a degree of obsessive love for myself and positive activities or else I get obsessed over a person and completely lose my sense of self." You can't know how profound this was. I have the exact same placement as you and yes this is the core of the problem - trying to find reconnection to self through another. It is bound to fail. I am at a pivotal moment in my life where I am finally starting to turn the tide and stop abandoning myself in order to "save" or "love" or "control" or "fix" or "fixate" on another. Blessings to you.
@@Akenya It’s hard bc it’s so instinctive. What behavior patterns have you changed and have positive effects? I’m separated from a narc and I don’t want to repeat the same pattern of behavior.
oh god. I have venus opposite pluto with my boyfriend and YES. It isn't money with us that i am trying to take from him but time. He has venus square uranus natally and altho he followed me everywhere at first (pisces venus), he absolutely has to choose what he does and i am seeing this after a few years. I am aware that i have to let him have time to do his own thing without resentment now. Its v v hard I am a venus trine pluto and it makes me insecure that he doesnt love me because he doesn't want to be with me all the time but i know that this isn't what he is doing it is my trauma of feeling unloved.
I have this composite aspect with my boyfriend he is Pluto in Scorpio and I am venus in Scorpio (his venus is also in Scorpio and I am Pluto in libra) We are hanging on by a thread. It is very exhausting and draining but I think there are other aspects that are not good in our synastry chart. I have a lot of resentment for him and sometimes I HATE him.
I kinda wish I didn't listen to the composite venus square Pluto lol. Sounds like it will never be smooth in any way. It's weird bc we have venus trine venus and venus trine mars and venus conjunct mars in synastry. His Saturn conjuncts my venus too. Wonder if that helps out at all. It really has been just a bunch of power plays, yet neither one of us can cut it off. Is it just a waste of time???
@@JA99 I guess it has been a lot of the same. It feels like we haven't made a lot of progress. But both still hanging on for some reason. Seems like Saturn has kept us hanging on, but not to what I was hoping for. Not yet anyway. Maybe check back in in another few months ha.
I hope you remain positive - yes this may be a challenging aspect but I also know people who had great composite charts are their relationship didn’t last. I believe in free will. Blessings to you and your SO ❤
I have seen composite venys conjunct mars both square pluto. At the same time neptune opposition sun , mercury conjuct saturn and venys trine jupiter (6p) with jupiter conjuct (6p) moon.... Well dear thats is diffucult i guess... cause their natal chart are so differend... yes money and intimacy is huge problems...
Dear Tan. Can somebody who has natal Venus/Pluto conjunction be satisfied if the relationship composite chart has just a Pluto/Venus sextile (not conjunction). What do you think based on your experience?
Actually my Pluto (Aries ex) person had his own money…if anything he provided for me and yes I say I identify more as the Venus person is cause he DID somehow manage to get me to cross a boundary by agreeing to be in a relationship with him.
@@TanAstrologyOkay. i have seen a pattern similar to yod. It constructed with 72 degree and 144 degree aspects. Merely curious about how to utilize the energy of this pattern but stuck in the Cradle with the mercury opposite to Saturn meanwhile the mercury conjunction to north node. Pretty hard to learn and express knowledge properly in real-life.
Do you have any videos on Sun opposite Saturn/Pluto out of sign conjunct? Or Moon/north node/nadir out of sign conjunction opposite neptune, south node, MC out of sign conjunction (neptune/s node same sign) Learning more about my 3 opposition mystic triangle
I don't know, but I think the synatry (in my case) is more real than the composite chart, I had a 2-year relationship that didn't work out at all, and the composite was very good, but the synastry was not...
I don't know, but I think the synatry (in my case) is more real than the composite chart, I had a 2-year relationship that didn't work out at all, and the composite was very good, but the synastry was not...
Hi lovelies 💜 This video is for composite charts. Intro video to composites here: th-cam.com/video/bHPS8ssvx6Y/w-d-xo.html
Oh this is so true!
I have Venus trine Pluto with someone I know in our composite. I just feel there is a deep soulful kind of meaning to this connection. Hahaha....
But the whole chart is pretty challenging, so this relationship projects out so many shadows of my own to work on!
Thanks Tan
Wow! I have venus square pluto with my ex bf, and it plays just like you said! 🤯
And yeah.. it was tough for both sides. It was a short relationship though cuz it was exhausting! But the feeling of intensity remains the same… power struggles… and yes, I always think: one day he will realize I was way too good 🤣
I agree, it is very exhausting and draining.
I love quintiles! The best ones out there. Please keep positing about them 🥰
I wish you had more videos like these! I learned a lot from this video, Thank you!
Venus square Pluto is rough, couples with this are no strangers to confrontation, often involving 2x4's or golf clubs.
Lol! That's true 💯
@@TanAstrology Glad you got a kick out of that, that was the intention, Hahahahaha!!!
What is 2x4 and golf clubs mean?
Not always!! I had it with someone and that didn't happen (so far...thank God!!)
Also, we are not romantically involved
I have the trine with a friend and definitely felt the emotional closeness very early on. Maybe because it's the most exact aspect I feel it very strongly. Love it
Yes it's instant! 💜
I’m Pluto in the Opposition, I always feel like he thinks i’m after his money 😂! But he’s generous with me at the same time, I actually feel uncomfortable about him possibly spoiling me (he’s a Leo Venus) because I’m always the giver (Pisces Venus)…
Trine is magical as well.
I have this conjunction in Scorpio with a man, he's Venus, i'm Pluto, and it's definetely about obsession!He's a Scorpio, i'm Pisces 😜 we have this in our synastry and composite. I think your reading of the aspect it's extremely accurate and useful on how to manage it. When you love genuinely love yourself and have a full life you don't need to play mindgames, and the conjunction works really well because it creates a strong bond between the two people involved. I read that you can easily find this aspect in married couples... my parents have this too in their synastry.
Hello again, Tan! You're so pleasant to watch and listen to! And, we get to learn about astrology! Lucky us! 😁
My husband and I have Pluto conjunct Venus in 2H Libra! -with both of them strongly aspecting many other planets. The negatives I saw were an inconjunct to the MC, and a semisextile to the Sun and Mercury. (There is also a square to the Vertex, but I'm not sure if that counts in a composite chart.) The positives are a trine to Jupiter, and sextiles to the Moon, Mars, Saturn, and Neptune!
The Moon, Mars, and Saturn (and the Part of Fortune) are also all conjunct the AC in Leo!
Wow thanks for sharing! 💜💜 Those negatives don't sound so negative though! But those conjunctions to the ascendant seems suspicious🤤
@@TanAstrology Our relationship is definitely challenging!
I have venus conjunct Pluto in Scorpio in my natal 10th house. I’ve learned through a bunch of Pluto catastrophic moments that I have to maintain a degree of obsessive love for myself and positive activities or else I get obsessed over a person and completely lose my sense of self 😭 Typically an Aries or Leo where my Sun sign in Libra is opposed or debilitated. These relationships aren’t healthy for me and now with wisdom I have chosen to build healthy relationships bc I don’t have time to be consumed by selfish relationships. Tough lesson nevertheless I feel much more empowered now that I’m aware of this subconscious deal I’ve had going on. Thanks Tan ❤
"I have to maintain a degree of obsessive love for myself and positive activities or else I get obsessed over a person and completely lose my sense of self." You can't know how profound this was. I have the exact same placement as you and yes this is the core of the problem - trying to find reconnection to self through another. It is bound to fail. I am at a pivotal moment in my life where I am finally starting to turn the tide and stop abandoning myself in order to "save" or "love" or "control" or "fix" or "fixate" on another. Blessings to you.
@@Akenya It’s hard bc it’s so instinctive. What behavior patterns have you changed and have positive effects? I’m separated from a narc and I don’t want to repeat the same pattern of behavior.
Best explanations of Venus/pluto!
you’ve explained it so vivid and eloquent thank you dear Tan 🤍
Hello, how about quincunx between these two aspect?
I feel it's like the square + the trine if it's close.
People commenting about their personal birth charts lmao Read the title, it's about composite not birth charts. Anything to talk about yourselves!
Calm down bro 😂
oh god. I have venus opposite pluto with my boyfriend and YES. It isn't money with us that i am trying to take from him but time. He has venus square uranus natally and altho he followed me everywhere at first (pisces venus), he absolutely has to choose what he does and i am seeing this after a few years.
I am aware that i have to let him have time to do his own thing without resentment now.
Its v v hard I am a venus trine pluto and it makes me insecure that he doesnt love me because he doesn't want to be with me all the time but i know that this isn't what he is doing it is my trauma of feeling unloved.
I have this composite aspect with my boyfriend he is Pluto in Scorpio and I am venus in Scorpio (his venus is also in Scorpio and I am Pluto in libra)
We are hanging on by a thread. It is very exhausting and draining but I think there are other aspects that are not good in our synastry chart. I have a lot of resentment for him and sometimes I HATE him.
What makes it so hard?
I kinda wish I didn't listen to the composite venus square Pluto lol. Sounds like it will never be smooth in any way. It's weird bc we have venus trine venus and venus trine mars and venus conjunct mars in synastry. His Saturn conjuncts my venus too. Wonder if that helps out at all. It really has been just a bunch of power plays, yet neither one of us can cut it off. Is it just a waste of time???
Update?
@@JA99 I guess it has been a lot of the same. It feels like we haven't made a lot of progress. But both still hanging on for some reason. Seems like Saturn has kept us hanging on, but not to what I was hoping for. Not yet anyway. Maybe check back in in another few months ha.
@@rp3741 good luck to you, hope it works out!
hope everything is going well !!
I hope you remain positive - yes this may be a challenging aspect but I also know people who had great composite charts are their relationship didn’t last. I believe in free will. Blessings to you and your SO ❤
Venus conjunct Pluto in Scorpio
I have seen composite venys conjunct mars both square pluto. At the same time neptune opposition sun , mercury conjuct saturn and venys trine jupiter (6p) with jupiter conjuct (6p) moon....
Well dear thats is diffucult i guess... cause their natal chart are so differend... yes money and intimacy is huge problems...
Hey Tan,
do you count parallels as conjunctions?
Dear Tan. Can somebody who has natal Venus/Pluto conjunction be satisfied if the relationship composite chart has just a Pluto/Venus sextile (not conjunction). What do you think based on your experience?
How about Venus quincunx (Inconjunct) pluto composite? I have it at “0 in composite and this person has changed my life for better and for worse.
Actually my Pluto (Aries ex) person had his own money…if anything he provided for me and yes I say I identify more as the Venus person is cause he DID somehow manage to get me to cross a boundary by agreeing to be in a relationship with him.
Love love
😘😘😘
but opposites are also complementary, including the elements of the signs
My venus sextile his pluto in synastry and we also have venus sextile pluto in composite. How does this play out?
I’m in a fix! I have Mars, Venus, Pluto, Jupiter conjunction in Composite in Scorpio with an unworthy guy.
I had this conjunction in Scorpio with a guy in 2nd house, he just wanted s-x, not a relationship. And the bdsm type on top of it.
Does venus one control pluto emotionally or vice versa?
This is not emotional control. It's control of resources and self-worth.
@@TanAstrologyOkay. i have seen a pattern similar to yod. It constructed with 72 degree and 144 degree aspects. Merely curious about how to utilize the energy of this pattern but stuck in the Cradle with the mercury opposite to Saturn meanwhile the mercury conjunction to north node. Pretty hard to learn and express knowledge properly in real-life.
can we take this for davison chart as well ? in davison, we have venus conj pluto so im wondering if this is applicable to us as well ?
Yes. Even more so.
Do you have any videos on Sun opposite Saturn/Pluto out of sign conjunct?
Or Moon/north node/nadir out of sign conjunction opposite neptune, south node, MC out of sign conjunction (neptune/s node same sign)
Learning more about my 3 opposition mystic triangle
Sorry I meant rectangle not triangle 🙃
Which planetary conjunction represents true love?
Composite Sun conjunct Venus
@@j-bthomas no...
@@TanAstrology What is then? I was thinking Uranus conjunct Sun, or Uranus conjunct Venus.. but I may be wrong.
I dont think anyone aspect signifies true love but i believe the moons have to be compatible.
How wide of a orb for this in composite?
Great video Tan! Are you going to do a Synastry version or have you done one already?
Venus conjunct Pluto and venus conjunct moon
Can you talk about lilith in composite please?
Tan any significance with the quintile?
She talked about Quintiles and biquintiles. You can use the shortcut she has posted to go back to it. ☺
I have this conjunction with everyone my age. My Venus in libra vs everybody
This is in the composite chart.
So you’re talking about this aspect within a couple? I am Venus con Pluto myself. I don’t know what that means for me
In the composite chart.
I don't know, but I think the synatry (in my case) is more real than the composite chart, I had a 2-year relationship that didn't work out at all, and the composite was very good, but the synastry was not...
How did your composite look like ?
I don't know, but I think the synatry (in my case) is more real than the composite chart, I had a 2-year relationship that didn't work out at all, and the composite was very good, but the synastry was not...