"We might feel like we've met our other half, but actually we've met someone whose going to really piss us off a lot." I have Venus square Pluto with my entire generation. 😂😂😂
Never felt obsessive, jealous or crazy about anyone, but had this twice. As Pluto, I was a bit used & strung along. Recently, as ♀️, I'm a teensie bit jealous & posessive. Like the reverse of what everyone says.
I think it also depends on your own natal chart and whether you have a tendency for obsessive thoughts/feelings. I have, being a moon sq Pluto and Pluto square ascendant natal
@@HoopsKevinski-2 I have Pluto conj NN with my father. Believe me, you don't want that. Although I think it might have a different effect in a romantic setting than in a parent/child one.
Your the absolute sweetest! Thanks for this video. I’m really going through it as the Venus person, but I’ve been so curious how the Pluto player feels. You mentioned you were Pluto in one of them, would you mind sharing how this affected you? 😊
Well Ive met very fantastic couple, they are together since high school now they are 40 and 3 kids, so loving couple, i spend with them weeks so there is no facade, they tell me they like love of their life, feel save and understood by eche other like with no one else, she told me they fight only once a year but the fight is very big and stromy and they calm loving water. her venus is squared exactly by his pluto
They probably have a lot of other trines maybe venus trine mars moon/venus sun/venus I had venus square pluto with the love of my life but we had Venus conjunct mars and his saturn was conjunct my venus and we had venus conjunct venus. We LOVED each other unconditionally…but he died suddenly so that pluto square venus never played out in our relationship. So here I am almost 2 years later and met a new guy and we have pluto square venus but no trines im terrified lbvs 😂
I had this with three exes, sometimes I was playing the venus and at times the pluto. I have this aspect in my natal chart, it was so transformative, alot of shadow work to integrate this aspect... My ex has pluto retrograte in his first house, with his moon square mars so sometimes he would get too emotionnal. He was so intense I could feel his love but he was enable to express it, I remember one time he tried to call me baby he couldnt say it lol so he repressed his feelings and started to control me and we broke up because of that!
my partner just has this intensity to them, like they can be completely silent but I could feel they were upset and I'd be panicked about that. it was often 'too much.' even though nothing bad happened. just very overwhelming. I went through a big healing road to get to a point where i was not so triggered by it, probably cause i married my mother in a way. like the same patterns. but after working through things it has just smoothed out cause i just don't feel effected the way I used to. Oh and absolutely about the annoying. I get very annoyed by this a lot as well.
Also I like that you start by saying this can be okay. Like obv this is a hard placement but I do think probably every placement can be worked through.
Lol this is funny because this is the dynamic between me and my child’s father. I’m Venus he’s Pluto he has some healing to do im an astrologer and understand the dynamics at hand. Plus natally I’m plutonian and so is he but fortunately I’ve resolved my issues, healed and transformed. But there’s always room for growth right? 9:479:49 He attempted to be manipulative and controlling and it back fired 😂 i’m sure he’ll be ok. We have moon conjunct Pluto, mars sextile pluto and the list goes on. But genuinely we are compatible. He’s a sun gemini/cancer cusper, Scorpio moon, taurus rising, venus cancer. Me Aquarius/pisces cusp sun, taurus moon, leo rising, Venus Pisces. Moon 4th synastry and moon 12th synastry. I’ll always love him no matter the outcome.
Hello, I am Pluto Libra and Venus Capricorn and he has that square as his natal too, so the intense one is him, I don't know whether to continue because I feel very emotionally involved with him
If Pluto-Venus square is a 10..is Pluto semi square Venus like a 5? as far as intensity scale? Or is it like a 1 or 2? I have this with a recent ex…who feels it more? Venus or Pluto?
@@britsoulcoach I’m sorry I was confusing …I was saying 10 as in a scale of 1-10.. not 10 degrees ..the semi square I have with an ex is exact to the degree
@@kimsmith1750 oh I think all of this would probably still apply but maybe slightly differently. I have not studied the semi square much yet! Would love to hear your thoughts!
Hey Brit! We have this in a double whammy at about 7.39 & 7.44 degree orbs. Does this still count or Would the double whammy make it stronger even though the orbs are wide.
@@Jennie-yolan hi thank you so much beautiful! 🥰 I do think because it’s a double whammy I would count this and it would probably be a theme of the relationship especially if it’s showing up in the composite chart also. If it was just a one way aspect I would not give it as much weight though and even though it is I would still look to the closer orb aspects for bigger themes. Hope that helps 🙏
I love your videos ❤ I want to say more but yes I completely agree it’s very intense! Yes, as the Venus person his energy is so intense even the eye contact! But that’s too other parents of our chart we even have my north node conjuct his moon < we have these too So fascinating! I see him as my husband and I’ve never had that thought before with anyone What is important is to just keep working on yourself. 🥹💖
only felt indifference with venus square pluto. but venus sextile/trine pluto is when i felt something if in close orb and the rest of synastry was positive
Probably bc of your natal chart you probably have no natal contacts with pluto im guessing and also you probably had other strong aspects with that person that caused indifference.
"We might feel like we've met our other half, but actually we've met someone whose going to really piss us off a lot."
I have Venus square Pluto with my entire generation. 😂😂😂
I have the trine 😄(And the obssession from them that goes with it)
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Never felt obsessive, jealous or crazy about anyone, but had this twice. As Pluto, I was a bit used & strung along. Recently, as ♀️, I'm a teensie bit jealous & posessive.
Like the reverse of what everyone says.
I think it also depends on your own natal chart and whether you have a tendency for obsessive thoughts/feelings. I have, being a moon sq Pluto and Pluto square ascendant natal
@kani9284 I have Pluto sextile my asc/Nep conjunction. #SoFrickinHarmonious ehh?
... Oh, and my NN is also at 1° ♐️!
(Heads straight for Pluto Conjunct NN Synastry vid)...
@@HoopsKevinski-2 a sextile is a harmonious aspect and it wouldn't make you necessarily obsessive. Do you have any 8th house or Scorpio placements?
@@HoopsKevinski-2 I have Pluto conj NN with my father. Believe me, you don't want that. Although I think it might have a different effect in a romantic setting than in a parent/child one.
IT'S ABSOLUTELY EXHAUSTING. PERIOD.
Your Synastry videos are amazing 💛
Such a fantastic video. Great information, and extremely accurate interpretations!!!
Your the absolute sweetest! Thanks for this video. I’m really going through it as the Venus person, but I’ve been so curious how the Pluto player feels. You mentioned you were Pluto in one of them, would you mind sharing how this affected you?
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Well Ive met very fantastic couple, they are together since high school now they are 40 and 3 kids, so loving couple, i spend with them weeks so there is no facade, they tell me they like love of their life, feel save and understood by eche other like with no one else, she told me they fight only once a year but the fight is very big and stromy and they calm loving water. her venus is squared exactly by his pluto
They probably have a lot of other trines maybe venus trine mars moon/venus sun/venus
I had venus square pluto with the love of my life but we had Venus conjunct mars and his saturn was conjunct my venus and we had venus conjunct venus. We LOVED each other unconditionally…but he died suddenly so that pluto square venus never played out in our relationship.
So here I am almost 2 years later and met a new guy and we have pluto square venus but no trines im terrified lbvs 😂
Excellent information you share, I love it
Why does the Venus person make the Pluto person feel insecure?
I have this in my natal chart and therefore it feels like I've had this (as venus) with most of the people I've met in my life 🙃
Me and hubby have this 21 years married
I had this with three exes, sometimes I was playing the venus and at times the pluto. I have this aspect in my natal chart, it was so transformative, alot of shadow work to integrate this aspect... My ex has pluto retrograte in his first house, with his moon square mars so sometimes he would get too emotionnal. He was so intense I could feel his love but he was enable to express it, I remember one time he tried to call me baby he couldnt say it lol so he repressed his feelings and started to control me and we broke up because of that!
my partner just has this intensity to them, like they can be completely silent but I could feel they were upset and I'd be panicked about that. it was often 'too much.' even though nothing bad happened. just very overwhelming. I went through a big healing road to get to a point where i was not so triggered by it, probably cause i married my mother in a way. like the same patterns. but after working through things it has just smoothed out cause i just don't feel effected the way I used to.
Oh and absolutely about the annoying. I get very annoyed by this a lot as well.
Also I like that you start by saying this can be okay. Like obv this is a hard placement but I do think probably every placement can be worked through.
That expressing love and the Pluto shutting it down is very true. Why do you think it is?
Lol this is funny because this is the dynamic between me and my child’s father. I’m Venus he’s Pluto he has some healing to do im an astrologer and understand the dynamics at hand. Plus natally I’m plutonian and so is he but fortunately I’ve resolved my issues, healed and transformed. But there’s always room for growth right? 9:47 9:49 He attempted to be manipulative and controlling and it back fired 😂 i’m sure he’ll be ok. We have moon conjunct Pluto, mars sextile pluto and the list goes on. But genuinely we are compatible. He’s a sun gemini/cancer cusper, Scorpio moon, taurus rising, venus cancer. Me Aquarius/pisces cusp sun, taurus moon, leo rising, Venus Pisces. Moon 4th synastry and moon 12th synastry. I’ll always love him no matter the outcome.
Hello, I am Pluto Libra and Venus Capricorn and he has that square as his natal too, so the intense one is him, I don't know whether to continue because I feel very emotionally involved with him
Just curious, what if both planets are in the 5th house with this synastry apsect?
If Pluto-Venus square is a 10..is Pluto semi square Venus like a 5? as far as intensity scale? Or is it like a 1 or 2? I have this with a recent ex…who feels it more? Venus or Pluto?
Hi! Do you mean a 10 degree orb of the aspect??
@@britsoulcoachhi brit😊, I was wondering if you could do pluto sqaure ascendant in synastry please🤗?
@@britsoulcoach no a semi square is 45 degrees.. a square is 90 degrees
@@britsoulcoach I’m sorry I was confusing …I was saying 10 as in a scale of 1-10.. not 10 degrees ..the semi square I have with an ex is exact to the degree
@@kimsmith1750 oh I think all of this would probably still apply but maybe slightly differently. I have not studied the semi square much yet! Would love to hear your thoughts!
What if your Venus squares his Pluto but the Venus person has Venus square Pluto in natal
thanks for your insight! 💕what if his pluto conjuncts my chiron?
Hey Brit! We have this in a double whammy at about 7.39 & 7.44 degree orbs. Does this still count or Would the double whammy make it stronger even though the orbs are wide.
@@Jennie-yolan hi thank you so much beautiful! 🥰 I do think because it’s a double whammy I would count this and it would probably be a theme of the relationship especially if it’s showing up in the composite chart also. If it was just a one way aspect I would not give it as much weight though and even though it is I would still look to the closer orb aspects for bigger themes. Hope that helps 🙏
@@britsoulcoach Thanks Brit! yes its a conjunction in composite
does this apply to inconjunct?
@@APworldlit I have a separate video on the inconjunct💛
I love your videos ❤
I want to say more but yes I completely agree it’s very intense!
Yes, as the Venus person his energy is so intense even the eye contact! But that’s too other parents of our chart we even have my north node conjuct his moon < we have these too
So fascinating! I see him as my husband and I’ve never had that thought before with anyone
What is important is to just keep working on yourself. 🥹💖
only felt indifference with venus square pluto. but venus sextile/trine pluto is when i felt something if in close orb and the rest of synastry was positive
Probably bc of your natal chart you probably have no natal contacts with pluto im guessing and also you probably had other strong aspects with that person that caused indifference.