Why You Must Avoid the Comparison Trap

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  • @TheMAMAB123
    @TheMAMAB123 9 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    OK, whether you like it or not… You are officially my big sister in Christ! Thank you

    • @kimcashtate
      @kimcashtate  9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      TheMAMAB123 Aww, I LOVE it! I'm glad to be your big sister in Christ! That truly touches my heart. :) Blessings to you!

    • @TheMAMAB123
      @TheMAMAB123 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +kimcashtate I'm so glad!! I found you from your henna video, but I love that you allow God to use you on your channel!

    • @kimcashtate
      @kimcashtate  9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      TheMAMAB123 I love how God works....finding me through hair and now you're my little sis in Christ.

    • @as6340
      @as6340 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***** i shared privately

    • @TheMAMAB123
      @TheMAMAB123 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen!

  • @nicolehubbard925
    @nicolehubbard925 8 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Please I'm begging you keep making videos! God lead me here for a reason. I've been praying about self esteem and this honestly helped me!!!! ,God bless you!!!!!!

    • @kimcashtate
      @kimcashtate  8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Watch Nicole Shrink Aww, praise God! I'm so thankful He led you here and that this was helpful for you. And thank you so much for your sweet encouragement. You made my day. :) Blessings to you, sis!

    • @honeybunny1751
      @honeybunny1751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I 2nd that

  • @eileenmacdougall8945
    @eileenmacdougall8945 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm tempted to compare my life against you Kim, but instead I'll thank God for bringing me to hear your sound wisdom.

  • @kiathomas6892
    @kiathomas6892 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You just do not know how much I thank God for this. I'm sitting here at work on my lunch break crying because I needed this today. I have falling into the trap. Thank you for the revelation.

  • @sutitech2552
    @sutitech2552 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    your videos are making an impact in my life now. am learning to be quiet.

  • @debdenmark1
    @debdenmark1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    God is so good! He knew I needed to find this channel. I found it Monday of this week and have been like a kid in a candy store ever since. God's timing is perfect I had just had a devastating experience on Sunday and was in some real despair. Your channel is a wealth of good, basic Godly information. Thank you so much for being such an obedient servant!!!

    • @kimcashtate
      @kimcashtate  8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Deborah, I'm so sorry to hear that you had a devastating experience this week. To know that God led you to my channel and that it has been an encouragement to you is amazing to me. God is indeed good! Thank you for sharing this with me. I'm praying the Lord continues to minister and bring healing to your heart.

  • @MsEmpressneka
    @MsEmpressneka 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It is hard to resist comparing myself to others. But when I catch it, it feels so good to have to Holy Spirit ground me in the Word. I love your channel😊

  • @debdenmark1
    @debdenmark1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    ...also your hair is on point!!!

  • @wanubijohari1
    @wanubijohari1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    WHO are these 10 dislikes????? SMH. this is the advice some people pay hundreds to get while sitting on some couch, and it IS FREE!
    Father thank you for using this lady to bless us with your wisdom.

  • @homeschoollifeschool5157
    @homeschoollifeschool5157 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Praise the Lord for sister Kim Cash Tate! Beautiful, wise, real wit- it, and godly! I'm learning so much from you and gaining insight and growing more intimate with my God and King. Your ministry is a blessing and I look forward to finishing your book Cling. My 9 year old daughter is even blessed by your teaching. Maybe one day the Lord will move you to write a mother daughter devotional.

  • @tamelkerson1
    @tamelkerson1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wake up every morning looking forward to listening to your encouraging videos. You are Appreciated My Sister In Christ!!!❤

    • @kimcashtate
      @kimcashtate  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh, wow.....what sweet encouragement! Praising God! Thank you so much, my sister in Christ! xoxo

  • @anointed99able
    @anointed99able 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks so much Kim. I've slid into this trap for years and it made me feel awful and lowered my self esteem And prideful at the opposite end. It's a ridiculous trap I NEVER want to allow in my heart again.

  • @stephanielane1821
    @stephanielane1821 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, again inspiring. When listening to this video, I remembered the scripture when the worker's who came at the eleventh hour were paid the same as the worker's who started in the morning. He gives his gift's because of his goodness, to whom he wishes. We should just praise him for his great glory, and for the greatest gift of faith in him.

  • @hammy_at_heart4115
    @hammy_at_heart4115 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for making this video! I really needed it. I'm going back to school tommorow and last year I kept comparing myself to my friend. I ended up comparing myself to her all the time and feeling really jealous and bitter. You really helped me realise this and tommorow I will work on stopping comparing myself to her.

    • @kimcashtate
      @kimcashtate  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww, so thankful this was helpful. Always remember that you are hand-crafted by God, and God does all things well! As you keep your focus on Jesus, He will make your joy full. Blessings to you!

  • @AnthonyTurner-ll7dy
    @AnthonyTurner-ll7dy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so glad that you were obedient to God back in 1999 because the fruits are evident today. This video is a blessing from God! Continue to let God use you, Sis!

  • @christcathedralministriesi8256
    @christcathedralministriesi8256 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video has bless my soul. I admit I was guilty of some things you said in this video. I'm so glad I subscribed. A great Word woman of God. Glory be to the Father

  • @N.dial2007
    @N.dial2007 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is the second video I watched this morning and I am convinced to subscribe. You speak nothing but the truth. I am glad I found you and you are using your youtube platform to transform lives and minds. Thank you so much.

  • @RepentAndBelieve1437
    @RepentAndBelieve1437 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Knowing the truth makes me war better and not give in to deception and distraction. Thank you for sharing, amen powerful!💐

  • @alvaburnett6907
    @alvaburnett6907 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a blessing, so many people readjust their thoughts after listening to Your narrative including me Thank You Amen☺

  • @faithfilledfootsteps6810
    @faithfilledfootsteps6810 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love that Kim.. I don't know you but I must say I have adopted you as my big sister.. You are really helping me with my walk with Christ.. Thank you again. Malena

  • @oziomababe6165
    @oziomababe6165 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are such a blessing to me my sister! Praise God ! Keep up the good work! To God be the Glory!

  • @izabeau1953
    @izabeau1953 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow this is such a good teaching, I was just talking about this yesterday, how great a marriage my friend has... and this other friend of mine said , but you don’t know what is behind the scenes.... this is something I must stop doing is to compare my life with others, this hurts, and brings me down. And this is so true, what you said , then God disappears. And this is exactly what I feel since this happened.

  • @faithcharity9564
    @faithcharity9564 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen!
    I love your teachings!
    Praise the Lord Jesus Christ!
    God bless! ❤❤❤

  • @momscountrykids4622
    @momscountrykids4622 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this lesson! I'm always comparing myself to other mothers. I never compare my children because I think they are perfectly imperfect. All I see with myself, however, is imperfect. Thank you for showing me reasons to stop. I want God to use me as me and not someone else 💜

  • @dorotheadixon9294
    @dorotheadixon9294 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for this message, especially after hearing someone tell me that I need to copy someone else in order to be good enough. God bless you sister Kim!!

  • @mg73
    @mg73 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Praise the Lord!!! Thank you so much for making and sharing this video, this really is a great help and encouragement! So on point and I desperately needed to hear it!

    • @kimcashtate
      @kimcashtate  9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +mg73 Praising God! So thankful that it was timely and an encouragement to you. Blessings to you, sis!

  • @vangie623
    @vangie623 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen! Thank you for allowing God to use you. Comparison leads to jealousy and that is what got us in this mess (Lucifer and fallen angels).

  • @lindaree1987
    @lindaree1987 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are such a blessing... I found your Facebook page years ago when I was looking for black female writers/filmmakers... Now this time I believe the Lord led me to you (again) as I work on my walk with God.. Love you my sister. I'm truly being enriched & BLESSED by your videos. I hope you have a weekend and week full of all God's peace and blessings 💓

  • @corwright5111
    @corwright5111 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just was lead to your channel by the spirit thank you for allowing God to use you in my life

  • @drescorpio1114
    @drescorpio1114 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I used to have that problem but you are so right. Some people have things that I don't have but I've learned to be content and not covet. I've also come to the conclusion that as long as I could worship the Lord that's all I need for he has given everything I need.

  • @deee1776
    @deee1776 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love listening to your messages. They guide me and are just what I need. You definitely are my big sister in Christ too. This is exactly what I imagine a real big sister does. Sadly my own has never been a proper sister to me. I just pray for her xx

  • @genolalee4971
    @genolalee4971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kimcashtate I truly thank the Most High for this word it definitely is right on time to get a different perspective and to focus not on people but comparing my life to being transformed
    May our Yah continue to fill you with His divine wisdom and revelation knowledge also can you pray and agree with me for the fire and passion for the word to exceedingly abundantly restored and that I would be trust worthy in Yahusha Name

  • @Patricia-pq5zq
    @Patricia-pq5zq 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this message! 👏🏽 God is using you in such a great manner!

  • @leah3795
    @leah3795 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow this convicted me I needed this true message !

  • @seekinghim3067
    @seekinghim3067 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I thank God for your channel, I'm a babe in Christ and your video has been such an encouragement to me. I too will look to you as a big sister in Christ, thank you for your wisdom sis:)

    • @kimcashtate
      @kimcashtate  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Phenomenal Woman Rejoicing with you on your journey in Christ! This is so awesome. I'm praising God that He allowed our paths to cross and that this was an encouragement to you. It blesses me so much to have you as a little sister in Christ. Blessings to you, my sis!

  • @augiemems3117
    @augiemems3117 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is true sister so glad I found this and your channel it is very encouraging to me. Keep on keeping on until your Lord and my God says job well done!!

  • @ashobahiru9886
    @ashobahiru9886 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was trapped exactly on what you said, but not realizing what state I was.
    God bless you!

  • @genolalee4971
    @genolalee4971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And thank you for your obedience

  • @lgsecretes1292
    @lgsecretes1292 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nope never did never will always been a one of a kind leader...people don't like that sometimes thank God for freedom & wisdom

  • @laurietijerina1411
    @laurietijerina1411 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes ,you are right , we must always be grateful for God helping us everyday of our lives, it's impossible for me to do it alone.

  • @cocosaucier6296
    @cocosaucier6296 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you! Keep sending these powerful messages.

  • @vivianmasai7105
    @vivianmasai7105 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I watched your videos all day long n it blesses me .more grace!

  • @cynthianash3709
    @cynthianash3709 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thank God for this channel, it has been life changing to me, and I love this because you have scriptures to back what you're saying and I'm writing them down!

  • @t.c.o.g.773
    @t.c.o.g.773 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And this is a life lesson thanks

  • @uniquefitness625
    @uniquefitness625 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for your videos!! They have helped me so much 💕💞💕💞

  • @onicaales96
    @onicaales96 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my! this is so timely😢😢😢 I'm having this issue and for 2 days I've been thinking about this... consuming me. thank you for this my heart and mind are at peace. God bless you more sister Kate😙😙😙

  • @Miaconya
    @Miaconya 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos have become a part of my morning routine. I thank God that I found your channel.

    • @kimcashtate
      @kimcashtate  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow! That's such a blessing to hear....I'm praising God. Blessings to you, my sister.

  • @tewusustain1453
    @tewusustain1453 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank God for people like you who inspire my spirit with wise and blessed messages thanks

  • @PatrickFarrell_KJV
    @PatrickFarrell_KJV 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great teaching. Thank you. God bless you and keep serving your Savior.

  • @Shontise_Shonie
    @Shontise_Shonie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just found your channel...I LOVE IT!!!!

  • @mfigueroa2079
    @mfigueroa2079 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so great. I really needed this today and always. Thank u and god bless u.

  • @deonaransevia7413
    @deonaransevia7413 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're hair though 😍😍😍😍... If we're any more in tuned it's scary! Been praying this for a while now to "Guard my heart" and here you are helping me again. #ThankingGodforyou love you sis abs so happy to be on this journey with you😘... Need to visit the blog though seriously 🙈🙈

    • @kimcashtate
      @kimcashtate  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Deon Aransevia You're so sweet, thank you, sis!

  • @lilia4me
    @lilia4me 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I watched one of your videos each day.... so thank you💝

    • @kimcashtate
      @kimcashtate  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is such a blessing to hear. So thankful to God that the videos are a help to you. Blessings to you!

  • @queenjborbon
    @queenjborbon 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so happy that I found your channel. You are my new found sister in my head.

  • @TheLP07
    @TheLP07 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the wonderful insight today! I adore your videos and pray God blesses you with the ability to continue them.

  • @kristalrivers714
    @kristalrivers714 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing perspective!!! Your correct. Perspective is everything.

  • @MonicaDavis2006
    @MonicaDavis2006 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome teaching. Thank you for blessing my soul. Keep Allowing God to use you my sister God bless you

    • @kimcashtate
      @kimcashtate  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Monica Davis So appreciate your encouragement, Monica! Blessings to you!

  • @Jojo111
    @Jojo111 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bless you all your videos are excellent. Love you

  • @tabj.marshall574
    @tabj.marshall574 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    awesome video!

  • @virginiablair7812
    @virginiablair7812 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen! I agree with everything you said. Everytime I watch one of your videos, you teach me things that really hits home with me and my walk with God. May God bless you and yours!🌷🌸🌹🌺🌻🌼

  • @dianaleigh4987
    @dianaleigh4987 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    God Bless you, Such an Inspirational vessel you are😊 I took so much knowledge from this. Please continue to do Gods work!

  • @catherinestrong4470
    @catherinestrong4470 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is great study. It is so true and i liked it, when you said that we don't have the all picture of someone else's life. Words of wisdom to remember when we try to compare ourselves to others. The i wish i may, and i wish i might, displeases God. Because we are saying that what He's doing or what He's giving us is not good enough.

  • @nashaed3614
    @nashaed3614 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this, I realized this about myself a couple weeks ago.

  • @angelinaleon869
    @angelinaleon869 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank u ms kashte i went thru a trial: but now that im out of it started to get pride. Daniel 9: it is so true.

  • @ireneenangue458
    @ireneenangue458 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @abeyshe1021
    @abeyshe1021 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this. So relatable.

  • @TonyaA7
    @TonyaA7 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks foe sharing your videos are encouraging and full of truth, they are a blessing. .

  • @nenetmakoba7925
    @nenetmakoba7925 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you big.sister!!

  • @Latosha_C
    @Latosha_C 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, so much for sharing this encouraging message. I got a lot out of it, Amen!

    • @kimcashtate
      @kimcashtate  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Latosha C So thankful, Latosha! Such a blessing to hear. :)

  • @georgiacombsiix1073
    @georgiacombsiix1073 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much. May God use u more to be a blessing to us all

  • @mrspeanutbuttercup91
    @mrspeanutbuttercup91 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im glad found this video!💙

  • @susangrogan3458
    @susangrogan3458 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this video teaching. It is so helpful.

  • @rebirthed1274
    @rebirthed1274 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aren't you just a blessing? ♡♡♡ God increase you more in wisdom

  • @anyangthiep8802
    @anyangthiep8802 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It all been said comparison is thief of all joy. Right?

  • @mkamichacha9646
    @mkamichacha9646 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    They do say everything has a reason to happen I do believe that iven I to hear Your lessons is the only thing God gave me an opportunity chance to hear him not that am good that much no it's his will for me to learn from you my dear I would like to say thanks Lord And be blessed my dear

  • @lollouder4433
    @lollouder4433 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great info! Thanks!

  • @NinaMartina_YDK
    @NinaMartina_YDK 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    PERFECT!

  • @andredavy1806
    @andredavy1806 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a beautiful woman omg.

  • @julietshehnyuuy1146
    @julietshehnyuuy1146 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sister thanks so much

  • @mianolan9960
    @mianolan9960 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love u so much...thank you I needed to hear this!

  • @kristennurse6543
    @kristennurse6543 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen

  • @martinacarey5563
    @martinacarey5563 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Up at 2:00am with all issues u discussed jealousy, comparison

  • @rlokuyi7014
    @rlokuyi7014 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, God bless you

  • @tafadzwachigodora7612
    @tafadzwachigodora7612 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow ur message completely change my thoughts thanks hey

  • @lYirahmarie
    @lYirahmarie 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen 🙏 thank you my sis:)

  • @naturallysexy
    @naturallysexy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Facts!

  • @--zozo--
    @--zozo-- 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Remarkable! Muchas Gracias!

    • @kimcashtate
      @kimcashtate  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Zoe Rose Thank you, Zoe!

  • @t.c.o.g.773
    @t.c.o.g.773 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Powerful exortation

  • @sherrivonpryor7486
    @sherrivonpryor7486 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You

  • @sofiarama9758
    @sofiarama9758 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you God bless you

  • @as6340
    @as6340 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank u so much for this

  • @martinacarey5563
    @martinacarey5563 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And talking too much, please pray for me this battle is internal and it's very real

  • @norandaanderson6716
    @norandaanderson6716 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok, so that was pretty powerful!

  • @stephanieeason9983
    @stephanieeason9983 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you.

  • @daughtersofgod2004
    @daughtersofgod2004 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wisdom!!

  • @seramoyomsana6045
    @seramoyomsana6045 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen ,am blessed

  • @journeytonewbeginnings2368
    @journeytonewbeginnings2368 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen sis! New subbie 😄

  • @rosawilliams1728
    @rosawilliams1728 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you .you are talking to me.

  • @Dearest_Kenyetta
    @Dearest_Kenyetta 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ouch...ouch....OUCH!!!!! Help me Lord!

  • @handfulloflove
    @handfulloflove 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen so true