It’s Not My Responsibility To Take Care Of My Parents, I Don’t Care If They Sleep In A Gutter -Borga
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In my opinion its a blessing to take care of our parents especially mothers, I was brought up by a single parents and now that i have the capacity to do everything for her, she is no more. Saddens my heart very much . Lets not forget our culture and where we come from. I have proveb which says no matter how a tree stays in water can never turn into crocodile. Lets not forget our identity
It's good to that but it should not be done in a way where it puts stress on you and you can't live your life. Financial literacy is a big problem in our country. If we educate many, they will set up their retirement well so that they wouldn't be a burden on their kids when they grow up. The cycle needs to change
It should not be a problem but that mindset has to change for Africans. Often times, some people do not work hard on their formative years and knowing that they will struggle in the future, they make an easy decision to have kids and pass on the burden of taking care of them in their old age. It’s bad for the kids because the kids become social insurance policy for the parents who didn’t work harder and didn’t plan.
Especially mothers?Now Father's are Devils 😂
Uncle Tom has spoken his mindset don't get him wrong. In fact, SVTV AFRICA is helping us learn and we are learning everyday.
The truth is, no rich parents in Africa expect to be catered for by the children. However, the majority of the responsible parents in Africa struggle and sacrifice their pleasure and future security by investing in their children. It is therefore reasonable, ethical and a blessing to take care of your parents in situations like that.
Bro u are wise person
God bless you
You're on point. What's the essence of my struggle if it's just for myself.
@@solomonabugri4892is for ur children
My brother you are completely missing the link. The life of parents in Europe is entirely different from the one our parents have in Ghana. In Europe, once you've children the government takes care of the children and the mother. There's a support system that if a mother decides to raise her children she'll still retire on social security benefits. In Ghana is entirely opposite. Our parents or mothers sacrifices their life, everything to take care of us. Unfortunately, majority of our mothers too are doing petty trading or self-employed and barely earn any money. So if they single handedly raise you up to be in a better position, it's reasonable to at least also support them especially when they're in need of food to eat.
For me, it's never a blessing to ignore the suffering of your parents when you are in a position to help them. Because their social security or retirement benefits might be the money used to pay your school fees or safe you from dying from sickness or hunger.........Most parents suffer hell to see us through life.....
@@chrisman432good morning, which part of Europe does the government take care of your kids?
One must not forget his future in the field of husiling but you don't have to completely forget your parents or guardians who stand behind in bringing you up
Even if you buy the whole world for your parents,you did not do anything for them
May God forgive for saying
If they sleep in gutters you don't care
Am sad mpo
This is one of the loose talk I have ever heard.no one knows the future if he should loose all that he's boosting in now and his very children say's same to him will be be happy..this sad..😢😢😢
@@ing.onipaone2235 taking care of parents should be done with free will not as some kinda burden 🤮
This is double a load. It's makes life more difficult.
Akoa no woy3 kwasia paaa the way am angry with no awww
Your parent caters for you, it’s only a blessing to look after them. Simple as that
So to clear this up. There’s no biblical principle for anyone to take care of their parents. It’s the responsibility of your parents to take care of you cuz they brought you to this world but not your responsibility to take care of them. It’s nice though if you have the power and are able to help them out. As African we’ve made it seem no matter what a person is going through they still have to take care of their parent which shouldn’t be the case. This is why so many people are broke from all the hard labor they go through
Read your Bible well. 1 Timothy 5:3-4, 8
The bible says those with money should take care of their parents. So will you look on when your parents are poor and you have abundant? Not all parents had opportunities to be rich. Some sacrificed all they had for your stake. This guy has poor advice. Today he has but he may loss all he has and we will see if he will expect his children to help him. Life is unpredictable so he should be careful. With all your savings things can go wrong. Honour your parents means taking care of them/
How much at all are u going to give your parents. 😢
3 million workers @ Volvo Factory in Ghent?
Masa,what's the population of the whole Belgium 🇧🇪?
🚨You are right it’s not your responsibility, but in our African culture it’s a blessing and a crown on your head to take care of your parents , especially those who sacrificed everything for your upbringing against all odds
Who gives u the blessing and the crown?
Some African parents are too demanding!!! Meanwhile most of the parents didn’t give their wards good life all they did was have sex and give birth and let their children to suffer!!!
What African culture?
This why people are still poor in this country . Parents should be the once to saved for their future use and not your children. If he should take care of you, what about his own children too who will take care of them ?
@@hassankanneh7941 i respect your comment, but disagree with your opinion , if you think sending your parents in Africa $50 in that economy will make you poor then you are already poor !!!! Giving is a Devine principle
@@donarsenaltv4168 What ever your Believe is , giving a global principle !!
I see this man is not of himself , to ignore ur parent , aaahhh I’m short of words
Very true bro ,you are on points, it is ethnically and blessings to take of them , however is not always financially, but your time and relationships
Well, if only you can live an exuberant life while your parents have to beg in the street before they eat, then it's up to you. I can never sleep as a child if my parents are in that situation.
I love your truthfulness bra,
Keep the blessings.
You get your blessings when you honor your parents.
A word to the wise.
Experience is the best teacher
It may not be your ur responsibility to take care of your parents but have u also thought of if they had decided not to take care of u in ur formative years, where would u may have ended. I think we should all make responsible parents proud by reciprocating their kindness.
let him talk. I pray that God gives him long life and children.
Simple
My Brother you have said the truths, that's all
Guys do understand that
What our parents
Wish for us is
To do well, and I believe strongly that looking back to support the youth of the family is their heart desires
Bless you bra.
I don’t think is every parent wish for their children to do well.
Sometimes, it's just best to be quiet.
But We should all know Maturity is not really about age, and Wisdom is not found only with the aged.
When we understand this life better, it would reflect in our speech and deeds.
This man is full of it! The money your parents would have used to secure their future is what they spent on you and your siblings' education and well being!
@@sweetbadd9852 Thank you!!! We don't like talking about responsible reproduction. All we want to hear is "children are a gift from God"....conveniently forgetting the human willful part/the biology.
Whiteman spends alot on their kids,but don't need anything from them...Black man would not build a solide foundation for their kids,but would be demanding every day...
Is their responsibility to do that,U will never understand this guy
Who asks you to born .....that's the question
Kasa y3 mframa ampa 😢woaka no traa saa kwa but after the old age he’ll be calling his children’s for help😂.you think having money solve all issues right 😅😅
He will not rely on his kids for money. That's his point
Big ups nyame 👍
He's spitting fact but most won't understand
This is not our culture fact 👎
@@samuelboamah9429 cultures change. We can change that mentality
Spitting trash 🗑
@@samuelboamah9429 whose culture, idiot. Your culture tells you to give your money away to relatives who failed to plan for their own culture?
@@samuelboamah9429 what has Ghana's culture fone for us. Culture my ass
Such are the people that sometimes u see someone suffering in life to survive while they have a blood brother who is rich and enjoying life
Lost for words. If I proceed with what I really want to say about his comments regarding taking care of parents, the comments will be deleted.
Lol 😂
Dio Mio, this man paa!! Can someone ask him, if he have biological parent?
One day, your baby mother will send you to court. There is no paperwork to show you are taking care of your child. When when you leave her.
It's not food or drinks determine caring for your parents. It's your duty and responsibility as such. They will say this to incite people yet they do pretty much behind doors. Kumasi etc, you know the kind of country we are from, not even your parents but extend to communities to cater for the aged too.
People will insult him but he's spitting fact
Which fact
This is white man culture
Which facts?
@@thelmacole178 I don't wat is wrong but with this generation self
Where the fact is????
Bro u said u were on the street so u don't know mother achievement but some of us we knew what mother done for us we will take care of them till their death
Yes in the western world but no in our African world bro
Is not your responsibility to take care of your parents then who's responsibility is that? See how you are so confident talking if they sleep in gutter you don't care masa why? because you travel to aboard so you forget where you are coming from 🤦🏼♀️
Hmm don't mine this so called man
Its not any child's responsibility to take care of their parents. The child did not ask to be born. Don't give birth if you cannot take care of the child and yourself. A lof of Ghanaians are struggling because they're having to take care of everyone with their small salary. Everyone shouldbe responsible for their own retirement, stop leaching off the next generation.
Next time make sure you come out with your diapers, clothen school fees, and bank account the very day you are born.😅😅😅😅
@@kojoboateng6755 you're extremely wise
@@agoogo5026 kwasiaa read the comment above you and learn some common sense
For me, I live in Uk 🇬🇧, and I told the person that am using his nkratah as due to the contract signed, if you make the authorities deport me without giving me my money, then count yourself and your family dead anytime you arrived in Gh. Because my whole life job will be just monitoring you anytime you arrive in Gh.
🤔🤔🤔 😲😲😲........I'm shocked!!!
Don't worry, his children will tell him the same thing....
It's not true ,, the man is spitting facts,,, it's not your responsibility to take care of your parents but it's their responsibility to take care of you
The guy is a deep thinker and makes sense. After all, he was not
asked to be born
And who says he isn't planning for his future
@@sherrygate3666lots of people making the comments here have the African mindset pumped into their heads over the years that one is responsible for taking care of their family. The White folks have a different mentality. The African culture, economy and financial systems do not allow for majority of Africans to prosper, hence they have the hope of being taken care of by their family members.
Never because he's building his pension in abroad 😅😅😅u think Belgium 🇧🇪 is ghana 🇬🇭
I guess you will be proud to see your parents beging in the street for their lives, the same people who sacrifice their lives for you. Mr wiseman😂
Asem ooo
Belgiym is a very small country so making 20000 euro within six months implies their income tax rate must be very low, especially with 5 children.
This man has the same mentality as mine.
DJ will contact you at the right time to share my story.
Am in ITALY(ALTO ADIGE)
Look o😢
He thinks he’s making a point, but he is making senseless comment, if his uncle hadn’t help him in a way, will he get the chance to be where he is today? But his uncle took his responsibility but he here don’t want to take his parent responsibilities.
Exactly my point this guy's story is really not impactful, who ever follows his way at his own risk!
Because they did not sell family property for you to Travel that's why you saying this..... if they had like ur story will be different....The Guy that sold his late brother's Land to travel he can't spit this like the family gods will even bring him back...Let's respect our Parents no matter how Rich we are....
How can you say that
Listening to him,I can deduce that he didn't benefit from the care of his parents hence his utterances
Hmmm. Subhanallah Subhanallah may Allah forgive us
I could hear some Nigerian accent. Anyways great interview as always
What he is saying but because of Africa poor here that why how parents is expecting to take care of them as for me I always make my mind to make more money so one day wonts let my children to think of them to come and take care of me
No matter how rich your parents are you should send something to them
Send something for what? What’s the purpose of the money in their accounts or those stacked home. Y’all are just incredible beings. Only greedy folks take from others what they already have.
What he says is nonsense in Africa even if you are 40 years you can’t cater yourself your burden is still on your Parents in Africa but in Abroad is the Government who take care of the children from the day they were born,that’s why majority of them don’t care about the parents the government will take care of the parents in their old age.
Let me tell you something you don't know my dear friend. You're responsible for your parents, you're not responsible for your siblings and other family members, so get your stories straight and read your bible, bible speak about how to treat your parents.
Such a stupid comment. Backward thinking.
Eiiiii guy yi kasa papa, 6 months to save 20,000 euro.masa, mento pressure for no one wai
He Dey struggle for that country so he go loose talk😂😂😂😂 if u get money u will love to even take care of them if you are broke you are broke
What he saying about the white is true
They don't take care of their parent what he or she earns is for her own self but it is a blessing to take care of your parents because without them you won't have become who you are today
It is bcs government take care of the children but we africans we take care of our children with our hard earned money
@@kaakyirekusiwaa2290 next time don't have children when you can't take care of them
@@Black-mz4wy wonnim nyansa koraa so why the White's don't say u are the one gave birth to your children so u must take care them
@@Black-mz4wyare you a human being?I v been reading all your comments to fathom out that you could be a different creature🙇. did you get father n mother
Have u ever seen a single parent who has been struggling in life to the point of not even getting food, and no accommodation but still risking her life to take care of their children? What would you get if you pay your parents with this inhumane attitude, Be edified
It's not true. White people in America really take care of their patients. Sometimes if the care needed is too much, they may put them in a long term facility to seek professional help!
Really time will tell, if your parents had not own up to their responsibilities l believe you won't have been were he is.
Bro your choice of words about your parents is a big mistake. i pity you waaaaaa but may God have mercy on you
This guy is very smart and intelligent too bad am letting you all
My comment is in my head
Ghc3000😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 even common container shop is more than ghc20,000
Eiiiii asem ooo
3000 cedis monthly in Ghana not enough bro
This guy is not serious, when was the last time he visited Ghana to advise people making 3000 Gh per month not to come to Europe, does he know how much rent costs and how much food items costs? He even contradicted himself by saying he makes 20000 euros in six months, DJ even if you make 10000 Gh per month cannot save 20000 Euros even in 10 years living in Ghana, so he should shut up! some of these stories are not inspirational but discouraging.
@@tofiknasir8836 he is talking to save 20000 in Europe not in Ghana
Ur uncle help you but u don't see the need to help ur parents, asem ooo
I am very angry but I just don’t wanna sound hash ,how can u say that you took over from your uncle as a start up in life but saying all these .This is bad influence to the youth.
To come to Europe with that money. First watch your age .20 to 28 year's is good for you
Do you have a dear mother and father? Kind, devoted and truth? Dear mother may all that they spare in life come to you right through the year. When I was a child you were by my side; you were a dear to me and always by my side. She's my mother, and I love her so more than any other. Mother I will take care of you and my father. You invested your time , and resources for me to be who I am today.
Tuwa
Don't be too sure about your stability today cos man can fall at any time irrespective of the height you've gotten to,and this same mother and father will be there for you.And again don't think investing money into your old age is all. But you will also need a helping hand when you are week. Money can't comfort or put pampers on you. Careful man!!
Well said
@@sherrygate3666 don't worry experience will explain it better to you. You did not understand.
Very true. Youthfulness is making him think he's got it all. He should make sure the money he generates for his old age is so much that it can buy people's time and resources to take good care of him else he'll be very miserable.
Am sure his parents didn’t take care of him
Is this guy a Ghanaian?Parents take care of their children past 18 years so why can't children do the same for their parents?
May God forgive Him for saying that! Your own parents who brought you on Earth and made you who you are now. To sit on a television show and say such a painful and sad thing like this 😭💔
If u know u don't understand this guy shout up only wise will understand what he's saying
Someone took care before you grew up. Foolish talk.😂
Eei, sich loose irresponsible talk. Am disappointed cuz ur parents made u so what’s wrong if u support them. Of course no one is forcing u but it’s a blessing for u urself wae
Why do the youth travel out - even to Gabon
REALITY - Failed country. No jobs. Families have to resort to poor farming. HELPING THEM = BLESSING - Never become vain.
A rich neighbor who sees your good could reward you if he / she sees your good work
GOOD NAME = BETTER THAN Riches.
This guy is not serious……. Do you know the blessings in take care of your parents?
It’s the responsibility of parents to take care of their children not vice versa. Of course if a child has the means as they have grown, though it’s not binding or biblical for the adult child to take care of their parents or those who raised them, adult children also have their obligations to take care of their young they brought forth to- that is biblical and the responsibility of the parent. So they have to prioritize. All the adult children need to come together to care for their parents. Some of these parents want to outsmart and keep their money when one child gives . They have to set a plan so that on a monthly basis every adult child contributes for the older parents
Hmmm quite true ooo. I preach to the youth to plan for their future. Not to be dependent on their children coz it's about time parents had sympathy for their future children. Otherwise the poverty cycle continues oo. Just plan for 2-3 children. Take care of them and take care of your own future dear parents. Parents pls be responsible.
God's 5th of the 10 Commandments states to honor thy father and mother so that you will not only live long but all will be well with you (the only Commandment with a promise!) Taking care of your parents is a part of this Commandment. You will never go broke if you take care of your parents no matter what they did to you when you were growing up!
Not everyone shares your religion
I think he has been influenced by white man culture. Masa masa gyae saa. Our Africa culture if you are successful in life, you have to look after your parents. If I may ask you if you are married, is it your responsibility to look after your wife?
If you mingle mostly with white folks, you will learn from them. The women do not expect the men to take care of them. They mostly enter into relationships as partners not because the man will take care of them.
This guy hmmmmmm?????
Do a feasibility study and analysis before starting a business
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣✌DJN
How can you say that borga who brought you to this world
Not all parents are the same bro
Right
Another animal
This guy is just talking out thinking he knows my Frnd u know nothing all what u saying is absolutely baseless. When u buy a car u take care of the car not become old. But look at what u r saying of bounds
This is one of the most irresponsible statement from a person who's supposed to know better........ your parents in gutter U don't mind...when you are in a good position to help them? Shame on you. Don't you know that in Europe parents do not carry financial responsibilities of children. You even said rightly that whenever you like before you buy or give something to your kid and wife........that's why citizens of abroad pay soo much Tax to the State because over there the government do everything for children and its citizens.........
A billionaire who can't give his parents money, how much dem
Go chop, Ah😂This guy paa
150 dollars a month koraa my mum can't chop finish😂, for me to sit n eat comfortably while they might be starving, akoa nni tiri🙇
First
Because u come to Europe so u think that's all, so u want talk by heart
Look at him, no R ne L ,
DJ this guy has no parent so he can talk any how
I think so too, the way am boiling right now because my mum died as soon as things started working for me, and that always put me in tears knowing I haven't done enough for her before she died. Someone sits here and discredits attention given to parents?
@@tofiknasir8836I don’t know where you live but the guy has learned the white culture. They have inter generational wealth and the parents tend to pass on their wealth to their kids rather than expecting their kids to be the ones to take care of them. In some cases, white parents give their adult kids starting families seed money to buy homes and other things. Their culture and thinking is completely different from majority of blacks.
Please gentleman what you are saying is vague and senseless. Because you are in foriegn advance country doesn't means that their system is workable in third world countries. Mind you in a third world like Ghana for instance the system isn't advance to make your argument you putting across tenable. Anyway it is only a wicked person who will turn his back and not care for his or her parents in their old age.
If you dig deeper maybe his parents help him financially to travel but he’s not making any sense, dont mind him
@@user-ms6ml6jt6v Plus he didn't even tell about his travel process of how he entered.
This guy is not serious, when was the last time he visited Ghana to advise people making 3000 Gh per month not to come to Europe, does he know how much rent costs and how much food items costs? He even contradicted himself by saying he makes 20000 euros in six months, DJ even if you make 10000 Gh per month cannot save 20000 Euros even in 10 years living in Ghana, so he should shut up! some of these stories are not inspirational but discouraging.
Who is forcing you to speak English
Dj, this guy is very ignorant about business.
Don't entertain such people on your platform
I’ve been watching your videos……. This is the worst interview ever
This guy is not serious, when was the last time he visited Ghana to advise people making 3000 Gh per month not to come to Europe, does he know how much rent costs and how much food items costs? He even contradicted himself by saying he makes 20000 euros in six months, DJ even if you make 10000 Gh per month cannot save 20000 Euros even in 10 years living in Ghana, so he should shut up! some of these stories are not inspirational but discouraging.
Why are you taiklng like this I younot human my GOD
You are not serious
@@marryboakye852 You can come again when you learn how to spell your name correctly.
Karma will actually bring him to his senses.
Really time will tell, if your parents had not own up to their responsibilities l believe you won't have been were he is.