The real problem is not where they ended up getting the procedure. The real problem is why they felt the need to have it done. We need to learn to love ourselves as we are.
The reason for this is Probably not even to seek the attention of men like many think but to compete with other women alike. “Who looks the hottest contest?” 🤨
@@spectacularrichbeautybrilli as a women I agree many ladies lost self love🥺 you can grow your body if you workout and eat healthy no need to risk it and die
My sister in law had a tummy tuck/lipo and bbl in Mexico in June 2022. Just a few hrs after, she almost died from blood loss. The "clinic" couldn't even get blood for a transfusion for hours because the place was "closed." Then once home in Texas a few days later, she almost died again from going into sepsis and almost septic shock. The image of her standing outside her shower with 2 deep open wounds and bleeding still haunts me to this day, and I have been in the medical field for over 16 yrs. Superficial beauty should not be worth risking losing your life and leaving your kids motherless. 😔😓
@@Roda45Crossfit So true, and it’s their children left behind that have to suffer for the rest of their lives the result of their mother’s poor decision making.
@@Real_Talk_TV_Media I think it’s more than social media, I know women who have had the surgery but never use social media. We can blame social media for everything, women especially are called ugly and masculine so they get these procedures with hopes of looking and feeling better about themselves. They’re trying to enhance what most black men deem as beautiful!
@@ataurusqueenofzion916 Right but what's sad is that they don't get talked about. I've never heard any stories about men but they are definitely doing it too
My heart goes out to the children and their families. So sad that these mothers prioritized their looks over their loved ones. They were beautiful just the way they were.
I am a black American who now lives in Germany. I recently visited my family in Houston and I could not believe the amount of women who chose this route. There are several problems here and one of them is the amount of importance placed on how people LOOK. This is not the same worldwide. America is atop the list when it comes to plastic surgery. Men and women alike are overly concerned with their appearance and almost no one cares about being authentic and real; fake has become the new norm in America. Women need to understand that no man is going to stay with them or marry them because they have a nice rear end. On the contrary, what attracts and keeps a man is a confident woman, who knows that she has more to offer than a nice body.
Majority of these women statistically don't have husbands...or fiances. This proves your point. They get a man to have children, but that man isn't quality to stay.....because his character only wanted her cookies.
When you try to tell them that they argue and swear up and down that it has nothing to do with self esteem, the way they look, etc. they just say “stop hating”, “mind your business”, etc.
I am a black woman from Belgium who recently moved to US. I see that American worship the Kartrashians, they have made them become multi millionaires and they have become the role models to their children. In Europe teachers, nurses, firefighters and other regular folks are the role model, people with regular salaries, lifestyles whom the majority of people can relate to. America is in a very sad state indeed. Looks is one of the major criteria one gets picked for a job, a relationship so ppl are desperate to be seen.
@@fatou1975 you are spot on in your assessment. As you know, here in Europe it is worsening, but it is not nearly as bad as America. I´d like to say that I`m hopeful that this will change, but I cannot.
there you go girl this girl said she love her body flowers and all God gave it to you and that's okay if you want to do a few things some exercise go on a special diet and y'all want to lose 10 lb quick lift weights you don't know how to do that go get your personal trainer it's going to cost you but it's going to be worth it and take Hydroxycut it works I told my niece about it one of my nieces it's it's a diet it's a diet pill but it's gummies you can get them in Walmart it's all natural they got the drinks the energy bar and Hydroxycut the gummy bears that taste great you probably lose about 10 pounds and maybe a month and a half if you work out you got to love yourself but if you don't love yourself ladies do it naturally work it out work it off
Perioddddd sis agreed. After being diagnosed with cancer, undergoing treatments, and giving birth to a warrior baby I have learned to embrace my body and my impeccable strength even more.
Thank you for talking about these dangerous procedures! People need to keep hearing about how families are losing loved ones over the trending “ BBL”. It needs to be reiterated that there are HEALTHY & SAFER ALTERNATIVES. God bless 🙏🏽💜
Or better yet. Why don’t they just go to the gym and use the machines with weights on them to tighten and lift their butts? It’s cheaper and you’ll feel even better for your hard work once you see the results. I know!
@@CitygirlRayA effort is taboo to entitled women.. not going to happen.. youll be seeing more dead women that die for attention literally.. this is not going to end.. women cannot be reasoned with
I paid $10k for my breast reduction. There were cheaper surgeons, but I chose my surgeon because he explained to me that Dr. Kim, his anesthesiologist, was a little pricey, but he trusted him with his patients. I wrote that check so fast, after had consulted with at least 10 other surgeons. I wanted to wake up on time and safely. I was out and about the day after, needed no pain medication, and was driving in 3 days. You cant cut cost when it comes to your body. Anesthesia is a huge factor when it comes to surgery, and the best ones cost. A huge red flag is if a surgeon wants to perform the procedure at his local office, but you need to be put under. That's what this doctor meant when he spoke about facilities not being licensed for anesthesia, and that's exactly what happened to Joan Rivers!
I've been considering a breast reduction. I'm a H cup, and though they don't bother my back, they're an inconvenience at times. How long was your recovery?
The problem with BBLs is the embolisms that even happen with very skilled doctors. The death rate is 1 in 20000. One wrong move and you're injecting fat into the bloodstream.
You had to pay for a breast reduction? Mine was covered under my insurance, and it was due to my back condition. I guess insurance doesn't cover things like it used to.
Going to overseas to an unauthorized specialist is equivalent to running through caution tape to enter an unstable building that could potentially collapse. All the warning signs are there but people will go the extra mile to bypass them into their own demise.
One of these lady's was in Miami where the doctor was not a licensed anesthesiologist not in some foreign land. Miami has the highest plastic surgery death rates due to doctors who should not be performing these major surgeries are doing them.
I am getting to the point to where I’m done feeling sorry for these women. They hear about all of these stories ending in death and they still go. WHY!
There is alot of ignorance in the human race . We are meant to learn from our mistakes, if we make it out of them alive .. we take our lives for granted way to much
I happened to read the comments on a page where this was the topic. A young lady was like...yeah, I know the risks, I would rather die with breasts than live flat chested. She claimed to have done ALL THE RESEARCH.Sadly, she died a few weeks after her surgery. And she was flat chested when she did because they had to cut out the implants because they realized that sepsis was setting in. They made a last ditch effort to save her life. I just don't get it.
I have so many people in my family that have gotten this done. One of my cousins lost her mother . She feels the depression and mental anguish that that brings but she still went ahead and put her own life in jeopardy and she has several children. This is so ridiculous
She's doing what she was taught regardless of the risk. Crazy. She needs therapy or an intervention. Maybe make her look at morgue photos of these people.
Even after a BBL it doesn't stop there. You have to maintain. Massage/ Sculpting also Diet /exercises or removal and or corrective surgery. Lots of U/Tube videos on REGRETING a BBL. Those are the lucky ones. Condolences to the family ✨💫
And I’m so shocked, because these were 2 beautiful BW who already had nice bombs. It reminds me of those women who are skinny, but believe they’re fat. I would be happy to trade in my body for there’s, but sometimes women loose prospective! So sad for the innocent kids also! 😢
Social media is brainwashing minds by praying upon insecurities, triggering emotions and promoting a buy this mentality. Unfortunately, cosmetic surgery has become mainstream and socially acceptable despite every surgery being risky. Its wise to consider all aspects of procedures before, during and after to minimize the risks. Learning to accept that we're all imperfectly perfect is the only way to avoid these risks 100%. Cheers
We need to love ourselves more and know we are beautiful no matter shape, color,race, job, status, religion, none of it matters. I could not imagine leaving my three beautiful children to chase vanity. 😢Praying for these children and their families.
We can compliment ourselves all day long but if our peers & society don't view them as attractive or beautiful, this will create a void within a person & they'll go through great & oftentimes dangerous lengths to fill the void of social acceptance. The problem is that people don't value people, they value the aesthetics of certain people & this creates alot of issues. People become jaded, envious, hateful & violent because of features they were born with are not socially accepted.
This. This is what's causing the degeneracy of our society. It's now easier than ever to judge yourself relative to some stranger's manufactured pictures on social media. We have several generations coming up that base their own worth on what they see in a handheld 10"x4" box as they go along with how they're told to act and speak. Social media needs to be banned and phone usage curtailed, if only for our own sanity
Yes we must learn to love ourselves, but until society learns to love, accept and not judge others, we will never fully love ourselves because we are being subjected to societal standards constantly & that’s getting worse, not better, with the advent of social media.
Both of these women are gorgeous just the way they were. It is unfortunate they didn't believe it themselves. Praying the families and especially the little ones left motherless.
These BBL surgeries cost thousands, you can simply follow TH-cam trainers on your phone at the gym for FREE and you pay only dollars monthly for a cheap gym membership ! Heck you can even avoid the gym and train at the park with TH-cam ! No excuse
They’re not interested in hard work. Instant gratification is most important. And these ladies were thin like me… some bulking and solid legs days fro a few months would have built some beautiful hams and glutes! Man it’s so sad!😢
You do realize that the gym doesn't guarantee you'll get the body you're looking for? There's plenty of people that work out at the gym and they don't get the butt they dreamed of. I'm NOT saying they should go overseas, however, the gym simply doesn't work for a lot of people. There's people that are heavier and have stubborn fat composites that REFUSE to shred even WITH diet and exercise. There's people that have PCOS. There's people that suffer eating disorders. There's people that are simply thin (*or thick*) due to genetic makeup. Sometimes surgery is NEEDED. Its not about "instant gratification" (*even though there's nothing wrong with that*) nor lack of self-love. A person can still love themselves but have insecurities they want to change or improve. I'm all for plastic surgery as long as it's done by a licensed professional in the USA who KNOWS WTF they're doing. They gym simply doesn't work for everyone.
@@marissa._ with all due respect *THOSE PEOPLE* with medical and psychological issues are not the ones we are talking about… and if they feel “it’s NEEDED” in the way you describe, they shouldn’t be getting major cosmetic surgery anyway and a licensed therapist and psychiatrist should be consulted first. Which is how it should be for legit procedures anyway. Dreaming of having a booty or anything you weren’t born with isn’t exactly normal. Plastics surgery IN MY OPINION should be for medical necessity or restoration only. Not to be made like what you want to look like. But they’ll take the $ either way…. They don’t care at all to feed into the madness. Plastic surgeons are playing God (and I’m not even religious) in a way that ppl can’t even see… by creating “the perfect bodies” I’m convinced they will eventually start allowing people to pick and choose what genes they want to create specific body features for their children to match… going completely against nature. But whatever… I’m writing my thesis on this subject matter and can’t wait to check back in 30yrs if I’m still here. We’ll see.
EXACTLY!🎯 Most women getting the BBLs are too lazy to do the workouts to naturally enhance their bodies, even if it's free. They all want instant gratification & surface beauty, despite the risk of death. 😥
whats sad about it. those women are grown and drs. have warned about the dangers of these unnecessary surgeries to satisfy rappers because thats why women especially black women get bbls because rappers are the only guys who like those ugly water balloon butts.
Death is the extreme adverse effect. My best friend got a BBL and she now suffers from extreme sciatica pain and there’s nothing that can be done. She has to live with this daily discomfort from now on.
I’m 24 & it makes no sense to me why young mothers keep risking it for a big bums, I’m getting a breast reduction of course I’m excited to look more normal but mostly excited to breathe properly, less back pain etc. But if the chances of dying was 1 in 3000 like bbls I would live in pain sad to say. So I think it’s crazy seeing ppl take that leap just for a bigger bum, r.I.p to these beautiful mommies they were perfectly fine before!
My sister went to Dominican Republic without our family knowing. She had the BBL and liposuction and only God knows what else. My mother got a call at 4am from someone who could barely speak English, told my mom the surgery was successful but she died. This was in 2019. The doctor was Australia Baze. My sister left behind her 3 daughters. She was seduced by social media Facebook groups that promote these surgeries. She was already beautiful. I don't know why she went there to have the surgery. My family are still hurting from the loss. People need to consider the risk and the loved ones they may leave behind before gambling with their lives.
The Facebook group didn't influence her. She made a conscious decision to go and do the procedure. Stop blaming social media and start taking responsibility for your actions.
@@beverlyglasgow4831Sure she made a conscious decision to have surgery, but research has already shown the affects of social media on people. If all you see are people with money and perfect bodies, it’s enviable that it will play on your psyche. “What you feed your mind becomes your reality"
I had cosmetic surgery performed by a Board Certified Surgeon, here in America. Yes, it costs more, but I did not experience any adverse effects. I thank God 🙏🏾
What people don't think about also is that any time you are cut for surgery, they are cutting nerve endings. There will be some numbness. I wonder if the drs. Even mention that. Anyway, a few days ago I didn't even know what a BBL was. Saw my first I regret video. Tonight saw another one from a year ago, went to check her progress and her children made an update video saying she had passed.😢. Now I see these beautiful ladies are also gone. I am sorry to all their friends and families who have suffered their loss. Ladies accept your body, you only have one, there is only one of you!
Sad all the way around. The cost of the surgery in foreign countries like DR or Mexico vs.. the cost of the funeral. the cost of your family losing their mom. Damn... it's just sad. As a mother my heart breaks for everyone involved. We gotta learn to love ourselves 🖤
Sorry, but you can’t make a blanket statement that healthcare in the DR or Mexico is bad. Here in Mexico we have excellent hospitals and surgeons and we also have clinics and small hospitals I would never go to, and “doctors” who don’t have a doctorate. It’s not the country, it’s the uninformed decision of to whom you should trust your health. A good friend had emergency brain surgery here in my town last February and I was incredibly impressed with the surgeon, the hospital and the care during recovery .
No surgical procedure is without risk! Finding the most qualified surgeon and clinic/hospital is vital but complications still can and do happen. It's particularly sad when the procedure is elective and cosmetic (i.e. unnecessary). I get it as both a nurse and a former patient, but I do my best to talk the people I love out of ever starting down that path.
Just came from Houston. The ENTIRE galleria was BBL central. It was so weird to see so many women in one space with BBLs. I'm all for plastic surgery, but it was a weird experience.
So sad and ironically they both looked absolutely beautiful without the surgery and didn't even need it like so many other beautiful young ladies walking around today unfortunately.😔
@@brittanyr1456 Is that really how you feel, if so then your case is even more of tragedy. Your perception of genuine beauty has been severely crippled.😩 It's no set of buttcheeks anywhere in the world that's worth potentially trading your life in for. Think about what I said for a while and hopefully it resonates.
@J.Squire The issue is in all honesty if these very women were somewhere publically showing their bodies, many would critique their lack of curves especially I'm the black community. It's only because the surgery went wrong that everyone is preaching so much "body positivity" I guarantee if their procedures had been tastefully done without complications men would have gone gaga over the results. Natural bodies with leas curves are not promoted or glorified in the black community. But ppl also condemn women for wanting to change it. We need to pick a struggle. I have no dog in the fight but want to bring awareness to some facts of the matter that are often overlooked
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. If you elect to have a BBL and have young children, you are irresponsible and extremely selfish. My condolences to her children
Those women were beautiful and I have nothing against surgery. A lot of people told me all I needed to make it was a BBL. I just didn’t believe that ❤ I lost so many friends because I wouldn’t do it and they said I’d never be a bad b without it. So now I’m okay with being “basic” 🙏🏽
But those women are stupid because you looks don't make you a bad b****. And now everyone looks alike it's better to look uniquely you, a real baddie is comfortable in the way she looks naturally if you got to do all the extra stuff then you're not comfortable in who you are naturally. How can you be a bad b**** when everything is fake on you and half the time it doesn't even look good if you look at it closely yes there are some people that do look good and some have the ones that look very natural I think the natural looking one is called a slim BBL it's supposed to make it look more natural but whatever.
They trying to look like someone else and you're basic? No you're the bad one bad enough to be you and love you something your ex friends will never have the privilege of understanding regardless of how many "enhancements" they pay for!
Not to be funny but I think that’s selfish too have plastic surgery if you are a mother.. you gotta think about your children if you have young kids. And husband if you have one you should be happy with your beautiful family even if u single love yourself.❤❤❤God bless
I don't think it's your place to shame a woman who wants to change something that bothers her about her body. How would you feel if someone looked at your picture and told you to pull your ass away from the table?
@@sonyadrake3428 ...or have plastic surgery. They just needed to consult real surgeons. Instead the went abroad and got fake doctors. There's nothing wrong with surgery.
Any elective surgery. I have to have a cesarean to safely deliver, I cried and prayed each time.... anytime you lay on a table and let them cut you IT IS A RISK. For this reason my 3rd time was the last time, I think they'd rather have me more than a new sibling. Choices. 😔
Exactly! I have to have a total hip replacement, and I am considering local anesthesia. People need to stop taking unnecessary risks with their lives. The risk of surgeries consists of bleeding and blood clots that can lead to death during anesthesia.
@@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 I just had a total left hip replacement. TRUST ME YOU WANNA BE ASLEEP. When you wake up, the PAIN IS UNREAL. I'm 8 weeks out from mine. Good luck, bit you definitely wanna be fully asleep. It's literally woodshop on your hip bones. They use HAMMERS and CHISELS. Lol
Wow wow wow I have several people I know who got this family and friends n I'm just so thankful. My prayers are truly up for these ladies families wow so sad. EXCELLENT POINT ABOUT ANESTHESIOLOGY
Wow! So sad. Any operations is risky. However, going an inexpensive route is a major risk and could be hazardous to your health or life plus some of the BBL I've seen in the grocery store look botched. Life is too precious. It's not worth it. Prayers to all the families.🙏🏽
@@kiaj.d.5855 that's right girl work it out women don't never need to stop working out never and me and lose weight quicker than we do cuz women have more body fat I think everybody is you know them and me because they want to know how I keep my body in shape I always have been skinny slim I lift weights three and four hundred pounds till I start looking like the rock somewhere else you got to be careful with that no my weight is in the house I live weights three or four hundred pounds but I have to kind of cut back on it and do all that little girly stuff like I got it where I can do sit ups up there I got that little equipment I lift weights lightly cuz all that more heavy weights that belongs to my brother what you got to lift weights women can lift weights but this is just my natural body I just I've always worked out and run track play basketball me and my granddaddy he was so skinny I'm telling you cuz that man could hula hoop with a Cheerio that ain't no joke so sometimes staying slim is in the jeans you know it's in your jeans not in your stop that babe I know you doing this not jeans ladies not your jeans not your Apple Bottom Jeans in your jeans your bloodline cuz I'm going to tell you my Grandmama was hilarious Marie Hamilton and my outer Hamilton and they were some good looking women they had all that Indian in them my outer Hamilton man that woman was so pretty she told me one time Cassandra you look a lot like me you're so beautiful and so slim and I want them boys to leave my grandbaby alone me and Tawana we sitting up there laughing my cousin so girl if he don't love you for who you are What Faith Evans said he's already gone let him go girl let him go he ain't the one I told you I want me about all that sleeping around see they call me and cassanovas when they do that yeah right they don't want me to tell them what I think about they cancel over old dude looking good go sit down there you go women baby if you want me to tell the truth and shame the devil you got to talk to Cassandra Fleming cuz she speaks truth of you afraid to get your feelings hurt a little bit you don't want to talk to me
Hellllooo say it again sis. Love on yourself and make health decision that will make you feel whole about yourself within. Queens the love starts in the inside first before it appears on the outside.
I was the same. I told my obstetrician unless it's life or death no c-section. It wasn't a judgemental thing - I genuinely was petrified of the surgery!!
There was nothing wrong with those two beautiful women. This BBL craze has to end, if your not born with it just forget it. There is so much more to life than a big @ss.
What happened to just working out? I can't relate to being so easily influenced or envious of a certain body type. Everything about myself I've come to love. This is just sad and imagine how the kids feel. This is why I can't stand vanity, the most beautiful person is someone whose happy, clean, healthy and loves themselves.
This is what I’m saying. I busted my tail in the gym.. no body couldn’t tell me that my gym bod didn’t look better (healthier/toned) than a stiff/jiggly fat bbl… I’m sorry not sorry.
@@calelastyles825 Yes 👏🏽 a gym body looks so much better. I don’t understand what’s wrong with these women thinking this is necessary. Plus, working out gives you a healthier mental.
That's how I stay in n shape bodybuilding... lifting weight... preparing now for bikini Novice competition... get a trainer they'll help you change body composition...
My Condolences to the families. Please learn to Love yourself getting plastic surgery can't fix what's broken inside. Both women were Beautiful a lot of women and Men have to really deal with the internal risking your life when each day is a blessing. All surgeries have risk. I had a knee injury being an athlete the first orthopedics suggested surgery right away. I said Physical Therapy he insisted on surgery. I went to a different Orthopedics and Rehabilitated my knee and torn Hamstring. Surgery should be an absolute last resort. I just can't Stress enough Love yourself
You are who you are don't change your looks for anyone your fine to change your environment, the way you live and your life style but to someone like me I judge the character and honesty I can give a da*n about your looks when I have no room to judge anyone when I am not without my own faults! Please be safe people! ✝️🙏🏾🛐
Most of the ppl getting these surgeries end up looking completely fake anyway. To each their own, but women really need to do extensive research on these doctors before deciding on these procedures.
The Dr. certainly tell the truth about the anesthesiologist being the second most important person. I’ve had several surgeries for health reasons and I always have to feel very comfortable with them because I know that they are the ones that are watching me and I always talk with them and ask them to please please take care of me.
I got your alternative ladies. Up your protein but avoid fried and sweet foods. Drink your water. And stair master. Or find a flight of stairs you can use. And skip every other stair go up and dwn um as much as u can and long as u can at least 5 days a week. Best part it's cheap or free and you don't die
What's really sad is that these women will invest thousands upon thousands into their physical appearance but not a penny into their children's education.
These women are already pretty, thin, obviously attractive to someone because they had children. Your butt is a muscle...exercise and build it. RIP ladies. My condolences to their family and friends.
Ringing the Alarm is sadly not enough. These women are determined to look like anyone but themselves. This deadly trend will unfortunately continue. God bless the children left behind and the relatives who are burdened with the task of raising them.
The media is saying more black women have these procedures more than any other race. We as black women need to love ourselves inside and out. God didn't make no mistakes on us! 🙏✝️💙🥺❤️
It's NOT How Little We Care about Each Other. They DON'T Even CARE about Themselves. MOST was WARNED and Still Thought WON'T Happened to Me. Some of them do this just to Impress some BUM. Even if You Care is this gonna bring them back from DEATH? It's Sad it happens but it's a Price to Pay When You Choose the Cheaper Route. Imagine putting the Money into a Private Trainer at the Gym instead
I can NOT imagine going to another country for surgery. I've seen a BBL and it is brutal. They had to know the risks even if done by a certified surgeon and facility. People just don't seem to be able to accept who they are anymore and I put a lot of blame on social media. Besides, the butt lifts I've seen, (like the Kardashians), are hideous. I wouldn't mind having a little something done to my aging face, but I don't like pain and would never spend that kind of money for something cosmetic. I just use good makeup and techniques. I don't think a perfect body will make anyone love you. That comes from the inside.
@@barbie6695 I'm with YOU. Have you seen liposuction done? It is sickening. Just seeing the BBL and lipo procedures is like maiming or torture of the body. It just doesn't make any sense to ruin what God gave us.
@@lindahandley5267 it looks absolutely painful and horrific how they take that rod and move it violently back & forth. Also, the Kardashians wear fake parts, instead of the surgery ppl think they've had. Seen Kim lately not wearing the hips, thighs, or butt. And to think, some women actually went through surgery to be shaped like the Kardashians, when all they had to do was buy fake parts. A good, lasting, form-fitting fake derriere goes for about $400 and up. Hell, Amazon sells them.
@@barbie6695 Yes, lipsuction is far worse than some people think. I've never heard of them wearing fake parts! Khloe's looked bad too. She and Kim's bodies were never fat. Khloe worked so hard to lose what little weight she thought she needed to and then when she and Kim turn to the side, there's that huge, saggy butt that ruins their look. H'wood is never satisfied.
So sad for both of them!!! I never understood why would someone go to another country besides the United States to have plastic surgery??? Why would someone want the cheapest amount for a procedure when dealing with your health!!! May they both rest peacefully!!!
I love my body, I love how I look, My husband loves it and I work hard at the gym to maintain it!!! I would never surgically alter myself for anything in this world! Love yourself, all of yourself and stop this!!!!! RIH to both of those lady's! ♥️
Sad women don’t think they are beautiful enough, and they go through these lengths. In my mind I’m the most beautiful woman alive, and I don’t wear makeup, don’t wear jewelry, I I don’t have a bbl but the Bible tells me that, I’m fearfully and wonderfully made.
Ladies! If you’re thin and built similar to these lovely ladies lost, I promise you building those glutes and hams in the gym doesn’t take long at all. And it looks much better on such a small frame… and if you’re doing it for a man, I promise they will prefer the muscles over displaced fat as strong glues and hams (and heart) will improve your sex life naturally. Your man will thank you.
Yes I'm preparing to compete in bikini Novice competition...my trainer is amazing how he transforming my body..all muscles all natural!!! Prep meals is way to go as well
It really doesn't. If they stuff themselves with food, yes they will get big butts and bbl bodies after lipo. Muscle butts are not and will never be the same. Stop lying to people.
The alternative is stop trying to keep up with the trends if you supposed to love yourself and love the body guy gave you why is everybody changing nobody wants to be the person they are this is a crazy reason to die is sad about the deaths but it's a crazy reason to die because otherwise you might have had a better chance to live if people appreciate themselves more stop worrying about how Society views you and worry about how the people that really truly care about you view you a BBL is not going to keep a man a BBL is not going to keep a job a BBL is not going to cook your food it does nothing for you if you can't cash out leave that s*** alone women you all are fine the way you are if anything needs to get changed it's not the outward appearance it's definitely the inside traumas that most people never deal with just suppress
LOTS of cosmetic chop shops in Miami strip malls as well. The problem is not just with surgeries outside of the US. It's shopping for a bargain on MAJOR SURGERY!
Very sad! I'm sorry for your loss! My condolences and prayers for y'all! May they Rest in peace! I can't believe my cousin Janesha thought she needed that! She was beautiful! The other woman was beautiful and didn't need it!
I feel the same way, if I want a bigger butt I'll eat carbs and workout. I ain't playing with my life and even if there were no risk involved I just prefer being natural.
I'm not knocking anyone for a decision they made because I believe most of us have done something not so bright to others or even ourselves once we look back at that decision. I will say that if anyone is wanting to get a bbl, save your money and do leg stretches, squats, along with lifting weights with your legs. Trust me it works. I have a classmate whose bottom was dang near inexistent. After working out for about a yr or so she look as if she has had gotten a bbl. So as I always tell me gym mates; let that pain be your therapy and do not think about the time it takes to get there but to enjoy every moment of the journey.
Oh, boy! These stories will never end. Not learning lessons. These 'likes' and 'views' (whether in person or via networks just are not worth it. May the children of these 'mothers' be comforted in their times of need.
The BBL isn't the problem, the problem is people trying to get cheap surgery. Folks need to stop going to the Dominican Republic for cosmetic surgery. Those "people" in the DR do not care about you. They just see you as a Payday.
I am starting to think the BBL is the problem because even celebrities who have money are looking botched after surviving. I canceled my appointment because I am scared now.
Bbl’s are other races view of how black women look! Why would you want to look like a caricature of yourself? Also, God has blessed Black people tremendously- just exercise!
At this point they must want to die. To hear all these horror stories and still go along with it is stupid. I guess they have that "it won't happen to me" attitude.
Ladies just go to the gym , eat right and stay consistent. Yeah, I thought about having some work done too but after watching these videos I’m good never mind.
I'm so scared for any surgery... it's so dangerous to go under the knife ... don't do it unless you have to unless it's life or death yall.... ladies please stop taking this risk when you don't have to do it..
The real problem is not where they ended up getting the procedure. The real problem is why they felt the need to have it done. We need to learn to love ourselves as we are.
The reason for this is Probably not even to seek the attention of men like many think but to compete with other women alike. “Who looks the hottest contest?” 🤨
@@spectacularrichbeautybrilli as a women I agree many ladies lost self love🥺 you can grow your body if you workout and eat healthy no need to risk it and die
@@shalbec3232 Absolutely
As Beyoncé sang “it’s the soul that needs the surgery”…
Exactly
Both gorgeous mothers who didn't need to put their lives at risk.
Well they trying to look good for Instagram likes
Totally agree, beautiful women. Social media needs to be sued for promoting women into trying to meet society's beauty standards.
@@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 I know, their both have gorgeous faces. Somethings we will never understand.
Those ugly garbage is beautiful 🤢
@@Justice098 do the women realize what they will look like when they get older. No, they don't care. They are just trying to land a money wealthy man.
My sister in law had a tummy tuck/lipo and bbl in Mexico in June 2022. Just a few hrs after, she almost died from blood loss. The "clinic" couldn't even get blood for a transfusion for hours because the place was "closed." Then once home in Texas a few days later, she almost died again from going into sepsis and almost septic shock. The image of her standing outside her shower with 2 deep open wounds and bleeding still haunts me to this day, and I have been in the medical field for over 16 yrs. Superficial beauty should not be worth risking losing your life and leaving your kids motherless. 😔😓
not suppose to get that many procedures at once
So true.
You people need to embrace your Surf-Board Bodies and stay away from the Knife and Make Shift Doctors!
@msmj9102 mother nature designed fefails to be naturally dumb&stupid
@@cynthiamyles5437 how do you body shame people and then tell them to stay away from doctors??? like what is wrong with you
Sad part is they both look damn good in these photos. Smh. May their souls rest I pray their family find peace
its prolly photoshop and filters
I feel so sorry for the children that are now left behind.
I just don’t have the courage
@@peachygreene3551 or the trust in these poor nations. Its not courage some women have its naïveté, vanity and foolishness.
@@Roda45Crossfit So true, and it’s their children left behind that have to suffer for the rest of their lives the result of their mother’s poor decision making.
I don’t
The spirit of jezebel.
Willing to risk your life and leave your children motherless for BBL surgery?
Insane! Smh
Naw they risk they life for likes and views on Instagram
This is exactly what I said 🤦🏽♀️
Just selfish 😮
Now those beautiful babies are left here
w/o a mom 😢
Self hate is real
@@Real_Talk_TV_Media I think it’s more than social media, I know women who have had the surgery but never use social media. We can blame social media for everything, women especially are called ugly and masculine so they get these procedures with hopes of looking and feeling better about themselves. They’re trying to enhance what most black men deem as beautiful!
The self esteem issues of many women are very deeply rooted. Sigh
Sad but men are get BBLs too.
@@ataurusqueenofzion916 Right but what's sad is that they don't get talked about. I've never heard any stories about men but they are definitely doing it too
@@ataurusqueenofzion916gay men not actual men. Nice try keisha
@@YisraelPrince gay men are men, Tyrone.
@@SteveAyanami not in real men eyes !!!boom 💥
My heart goes out to the children and their families. So sad that these mothers prioritized their looks over their loved ones. They were beautiful just the way they were.
I am a black American who now lives in Germany. I recently visited my family in Houston and I could not believe the amount of women who chose this route. There are several problems here and one of them is the amount of importance placed on how people LOOK. This is not the same worldwide. America is atop the list when it comes to plastic surgery. Men and women alike are overly concerned with their appearance and almost no one cares about being authentic and real; fake has become the new norm in America. Women need to understand that no man is going to stay with them or marry them because they have a nice rear end. On the contrary, what attracts and keeps a man is a confident woman, who knows that she has more to offer than a nice body.
Majority of these women statistically don't have husbands...or fiances. This proves your point. They get a man to have children, but that man isn't quality to stay.....because his character only wanted her cookies.
Very well said.
When you try to tell them that they argue and swear up and down that it has nothing to do with self esteem, the way they look, etc. they just say “stop hating”, “mind your business”, etc.
I am a black woman from Belgium who recently moved to US. I see that American worship the Kartrashians, they have made them become multi millionaires and they have become the role models to their children. In Europe teachers, nurses, firefighters and other regular folks are the role model, people with regular salaries, lifestyles whom the majority of people can relate to. America is in a very sad state indeed. Looks is one of the major criteria one gets picked for a job, a relationship so ppl are desperate to be seen.
@@fatou1975 you are spot on in your assessment. As you know, here in Europe it is worsening, but it is not nearly as bad as America. I´d like to say that I`m hopeful that this will change, but I cannot.
I’m happy with my body even with its flaws…I have to learn to live with it.
Me too.
there you go girl this girl said she love her body flowers and all God gave it to you and that's okay if you want to do a few things some exercise go on a special diet and y'all want to lose 10 lb quick lift weights you don't know how to do that go get your personal trainer it's going to cost you but it's going to be worth it and take Hydroxycut it works I told my niece about it one of my nieces it's it's a diet it's a diet pill but it's gummies you can get them in Walmart it's all natural they got the drinks the energy bar and Hydroxycut the gummy bears that taste great you probably lose about 10 pounds and maybe a month and a half if you work out you got to love yourself but if you don't love yourself ladies do it naturally work it out work it off
Perioddddd sis agreed. After being diagnosed with cancer, undergoing treatments, and giving birth to a warrior baby I have learned to embrace my body and my impeccable strength even more.
Me too and my man love it.
Absolutely
I'll be glad when these trends are no longer trends.
Never
Nah..I say we need to take warning labels off of poisons and allow these types to weed themselves out of the gene pool.
@@Real_Talk_TV_Media never say never. It's possible for it to nolonger be a trend. It's just a matter of time
It's happening now, thee BBL queens Kardashians and losing weight like crazy now. Sad asl
Doctors need to stop doing them
Thank you for talking about these dangerous procedures! People need to keep hearing about how families are losing loved ones over the trending “ BBL”. It needs to be reiterated that there are HEALTHY & SAFER ALTERNATIVES. God bless 🙏🏽💜
Love your body and yourself no matter if you're skinny, big, small, short, or tall. It's not worth losing your life over. So sad.😔
Love yourself as well, I don't care how big and round your peach is if you are not happy with yourself that procedure means nothing
@@brandyyolidio4213 exactly!!
Or better yet. Why don’t they just go to the gym and use the machines with weights on them to tighten and lift their butts? It’s cheaper and you’ll feel even better for your hard work once you see the results. I know!
@@CitygirlRayA bc social media really makes ppl sick in the head.
@@CitygirlRayA effort is taboo to entitled women.. not going to happen.. youll be seeing more dead women that die for attention literally.. this is not going to end.. women cannot be reasoned with
I paid $10k for my breast reduction. There were cheaper surgeons, but I chose my surgeon because he explained to me that Dr. Kim, his anesthesiologist, was a little pricey, but he trusted him with his patients. I wrote that check so fast, after had consulted with at least 10 other surgeons. I wanted to wake up on time and safely. I was out and about the day after, needed no pain medication, and was driving in 3 days. You cant cut cost when it comes to your body. Anesthesia is a huge factor when it comes to surgery, and the best ones cost. A huge red flag is if a surgeon wants to perform the procedure at his local office, but you need to be put under. That's what this doctor meant when he spoke about facilities not being licensed for anesthesia, and that's exactly what happened to Joan Rivers!
I've been considering a breast reduction. I'm a H cup, and though they don't bother my back, they're an inconvenience at times. How long was your recovery?
I want to know too. I’m a DDD. I’m tired of these ‘jugs’ but I’m scared. I hear these type stories and get more discouraged.
The problem with BBLs is the embolisms that even happen with very skilled doctors. The death rate is 1 in 20000. One wrong move and you're injecting fat into the bloodstream.
So many insecure women wanting to look like ???????😢😢😢😢
You had to pay for a breast reduction? Mine was covered under my insurance, and it was due to my back condition. I guess insurance doesn't cover things like it used to.
Going to overseas to an unauthorized specialist is equivalent to running through caution tape to enter an unstable building that could potentially collapse. All the warning signs are there but people will go the extra mile to bypass them into their own demise.
Facts!
One of these lady's was in Miami where the doctor was not a licensed anesthesiologist not in some foreign land. Miami has the highest plastic surgery death rates due to doctors who should not be performing these major surgeries are doing them.
Mexico's not overseas just below Texas.
Sadly, they earned their Darwin prizes.
@@shirley9209 well this video says that 1 of the women travelled to the Dominicans to get her BBL.
My mother always said you are what you are ladies stay blessed with what you have.
I am getting to the point to where I’m done feeling sorry for these women. They hear about all of these stories ending in death and they still go. WHY!
There is alot of ignorance in the human race . We are meant to learn from our mistakes, if we make it out of them alive .. we take our lives for granted way to much
For the GRAM why else.
I had no idea this was even an issue with us??? This is new to me. But yet again, I am seasoned! 🤣🤣
My guess is, they want to die, that's why they are doing it 🤫🤫 SMDH
I happened to read the comments on a page where this was the topic. A young lady was like...yeah, I know the risks, I would rather die with breasts than live flat chested. She claimed to have done ALL THE RESEARCH.Sadly, she died a few weeks after her surgery. And she was flat chested when she did because they had to cut out the implants because they realized that sepsis was setting in. They made a last ditch effort to save her life. I just don't get it.
I have so many people in my family that have gotten this done. One of my cousins lost her mother . She feels the depression and mental anguish that that brings but she still went ahead and put her own life in jeopardy and she has several children. This is so ridiculous
She's doing what she was taught regardless of the risk. Crazy. She needs therapy or an intervention. Maybe make her look at morgue photos of these people.
An these r the people given custody over kids they care about, an don't anyone know who the Father's are.
@@logosomni5129 You sound so ignorant saying that. How would you know about who the fathers are? Troll. 👿
@@talk2flonow261 i don't know, u don't know, the kids don't know an she definitely don't know now😀
@@talk2flonow261 what is a troll
What an embarrassing way to die. They pretty much killed themselves by going under the knife. Do not ever mess with God's creation!
YESSSS✅
Made to be unique, yet they wanted to look like many others now they are aware many others lay 🙏🏽🕊️💟
I wish all women would love their own bodies
Yes Vantiy
Gods definitely trying to tell us something!
Very embarrassing
Even after a BBL it doesn't stop there.
You have to maintain. Massage/ Sculpting also Diet /exercises or removal and or corrective surgery.
Lots of U/Tube videos on REGRETING
a BBL.
Those are the lucky ones.
Condolences to the family ✨💫
They were both gorgeous women to bad they thought they needed this. Very sad for the kids they have.
And I’m so shocked, because these were 2 beautiful BW who already had nice bombs. It reminds me of those women who are skinny, but believe they’re fat. I would be happy to trade in my body for there’s, but sometimes women loose prospective! So sad for the innocent kids also! 😢
I cannot think of one person who NEEDS this procedure, it's definitely elective and dangerous
The mind said otherwise
Social media is brainwashing minds by praying upon insecurities, triggering emotions and promoting a buy this mentality. Unfortunately, cosmetic surgery has become mainstream and socially acceptable despite every surgery being risky. Its wise to consider all aspects of procedures before, during and after to minimize the risks. Learning to accept that we're all imperfectly perfect is the only way to avoid these risks 100%. Cheers
We need to love ourselves more and know we are beautiful no matter shape, color,race, job, status, religion, none of it matters. I could not imagine leaving my three beautiful children to chase vanity. 😢Praying for these children and their families.
We can compliment ourselves all day long but if our peers & society don't view them as attractive or beautiful, this will create a void within a person & they'll go through great & oftentimes dangerous lengths to fill the void of social acceptance.
The problem is that people don't value people, they value the aesthetics of certain people & this creates alot of issues. People become jaded, envious, hateful & violent because of features they were born with are not socially accepted.
Yes we have to love ourselves each of us body is different workout or make up your mind spend good $$$ yes things could go wrong too
This. This is what's causing the degeneracy of our society. It's now easier than ever to judge yourself relative to some stranger's manufactured pictures on social media. We have several generations coming up that base their own worth on what they see in a handheld 10"x4" box as they go along with how they're told to act and speak. Social media needs to be banned and phone usage curtailed, if only for our own sanity
The only way to God is through believing in the Lord Jesus Christ
Yes we must learn to love ourselves, but until society learns to love, accept and not judge others, we will never fully love ourselves because we are being subjected to societal standards constantly & that’s getting worse, not better, with the advent of social media.
RIP to the mothers, it's becoming all to common place lately, no one should die for aesthetics. I hope their family finds peace 🕊️
you hate to see it ✊🏻
Rest in piss
U missed the point
@Pur FBA would you feel that way, if it were your sister, aunty, friend, or loved one?
@@sheilae.9670 Because he is sick. That's a sick thing to say about someone who lost their life.
Both of these women are gorgeous just the way they were. It is unfortunate they didn't believe it themselves. Praying the families and especially the little ones left motherless.
These BBL surgeries cost thousands, you can simply follow TH-cam trainers on your phone at the gym for FREE and you pay only dollars monthly for a cheap gym membership ! Heck you can even avoid the gym and train at the park with TH-cam ! No excuse
They’re not interested in hard work. Instant gratification is most important. And these ladies were thin like me… some bulking and solid legs days fro a few months would have built some beautiful hams and glutes! Man it’s so sad!😢
You do realize that the gym doesn't guarantee you'll get the body you're looking for? There's plenty of people that work out at the gym and they don't get the butt they dreamed of. I'm NOT saying they should go overseas, however, the gym simply doesn't work for a lot of people. There's people that are heavier and have stubborn fat composites that REFUSE to shred even WITH diet and exercise. There's people that have PCOS. There's people that suffer eating disorders. There's people that are simply thin (*or thick*) due to genetic makeup.
Sometimes surgery is NEEDED.
Its not about "instant gratification" (*even though there's nothing wrong with that*) nor lack of self-love. A person can still love themselves but have insecurities they want to change or improve. I'm all for plastic surgery as long as it's done by a licensed professional in the USA who KNOWS WTF they're doing. They gym simply doesn't work for everyone.
@@marissa._ with all due respect *THOSE PEOPLE* with medical and psychological issues are not the ones we are talking about… and if they feel “it’s NEEDED” in the way you describe, they shouldn’t be getting major cosmetic surgery anyway and a licensed therapist and psychiatrist should be consulted first. Which is how it should be for legit procedures anyway. Dreaming of having a booty or anything you weren’t born with isn’t exactly normal.
Plastics surgery IN MY OPINION should be for medical necessity or restoration only. Not to be made like what you want to look like. But they’ll take the $ either way…. They don’t care at all to feed into the madness.
Plastic surgeons are playing God (and I’m not even religious) in a way that ppl can’t even see… by creating “the perfect bodies” I’m convinced they will eventually start allowing people to pick and choose what genes they want to create specific body features for their children to match… going completely against nature. But whatever… I’m writing my thesis on this subject matter and can’t wait to check back in 30yrs if I’m still here. We’ll see.
And they’ll appreciate the workout it does on the body as they age!
EXACTLY!🎯 Most women getting the BBLs are too lazy to do the workouts to naturally enhance their bodies, even if it's free. They all want instant gratification & surface beauty, despite the risk of death. 😥
Sorry for the families losses. Such a sad way lose a loved one.
whats sad about it. those women are grown and drs. have warned about the dangers of these unnecessary surgeries to satisfy rappers because thats why women especially black women get bbls because rappers are the only guys who like those ugly water balloon butts.
They put their vanity before their families
Let the trash take themselves out
Why sorry they killed themselves
@@jermaineburgess3767 they paid for a surgery, they didint expect to die. people are getting bbl s everyday and they dont die
Death is the extreme adverse effect. My best friend got a BBL and she now suffers from extreme sciatica pain and there’s nothing that can be done. She has to live with this daily discomfort from now on.
Social media makes us feel like we must be perfect! God bless the young women !
plastic surgery does not make you perfect- it makes you imperfect.
😢I believe people need to stop comparing themselves to others
I dont think God is gonna bless them
Nothing has that much control over you.
Then get off social media. That’s the adult and mature thing to do.
No matter how many situations like this that is happening there is gonna be someone who still doesn’t care and will go
It's a mindset.
I’m 24 & it makes no sense to me why young mothers keep risking it for a big bums, I’m getting a breast reduction of course I’m excited to look more normal but mostly excited to breathe properly, less back pain etc. But if the chances of dying was 1 in 3000 like bbls I would live in pain sad to say. So I think it’s crazy seeing ppl take that leap just for a bigger bum, r.I.p to these beautiful mommies they were perfectly fine before!
@@roselove706 hope It goes well.
You need it❤❤💯💯💯
@@selaniesanchez29 thank you❤️ I pray everything goes well
So true unfortunately for no reason at all
My sister went to Dominican Republic without our family knowing. She had the BBL and liposuction and only God knows what else. My mother got a call at 4am from someone who could barely speak English, told my mom the surgery was successful but she died. This was in 2019. The doctor was Australia Baze. My sister left behind her 3 daughters. She was seduced by social media Facebook groups that promote these surgeries. She was already beautiful. I don't know why she went there to have the surgery. My family are still hurting from the loss. People need to consider the risk and the loved ones they may leave behind before gambling with their lives.
I’m sorry for your loss x
❤❤❤
The Facebook group didn't influence her. She made a conscious decision to go and do the procedure. Stop blaming social media and start taking responsibility for your actions.
How can they use the word successful if she died? Sorry for your loss.
@@beverlyglasgow4831Sure she made a conscious decision to have surgery, but research has already shown the affects of social media on people. If all you see are people with money and perfect bodies, it’s enviable that it will play on your psyche.
“What you feed your mind becomes your reality"
I had cosmetic surgery performed by a Board Certified Surgeon, here in America. Yes, it costs more, but I did not experience any adverse effects. I thank God 🙏🏾
No thank your surgeon. God would not have allowed you to get plastic surgery.
What did you get done & why?
Get your self esteem up. Elective surgery isn’t worth it.
Don’t be fooled, this can happen in America too. All surgeries are a risk.
It doesn't change the fact that you r plastic or your ass or boobs r fake whether it'd done by fake or real Dr
What people don't think about also is that any time you are cut for surgery, they are cutting nerve endings. There will be some numbness. I wonder if the drs. Even mention that.
Anyway, a few days ago I didn't even know what a BBL was. Saw my first I regret video. Tonight saw another one from a year ago, went to check her progress and her children made an update video saying she had passed.😢. Now I see these beautiful ladies are also gone. I am sorry to all their friends and families who have suffered their loss.
Ladies accept your body, you only have one, there is only one of you!
Sad all the way around. The cost of the surgery in foreign countries like DR or Mexico vs.. the cost of the funeral. the cost of your family losing their mom. Damn... it's just sad. As a mother my heart breaks for everyone involved. We gotta learn to love ourselves 🖤
Yes God made us beautiful💜
They have cheap bbl surgeries in the U.S. too, where many ppl have also died from it, especially in Miami.
I wish they freakn discontinue BBLs and percocets
Sorry, but you can’t make a blanket statement that healthcare in the DR or Mexico is bad. Here in Mexico we have excellent hospitals and surgeons and we also have clinics and small hospitals I would never go to, and “doctors” who don’t have a doctorate. It’s not the country, it’s the uninformed decision of to whom you should trust your health. A good friend had emergency brain surgery here in my town last February and I was incredibly impressed with the surgeon, the hospital and the care during recovery .
😓❤️❤️❤️
No surgical procedure is without risk! Finding the most qualified surgeon and clinic/hospital is vital but complications still can and do happen. It's particularly sad when the procedure is elective and cosmetic (i.e. unnecessary). I get it as both a nurse and a former patient, but I do my best to talk the people I love out of ever starting down that path.
Just came from Houston. The ENTIRE galleria was BBL central. It was so weird to see so many women in one space with BBLs. I'm all for plastic surgery, but it was a weird experience.
Girl I live amongst this mess
It’s like visiting Miami I could not believe it
My Whole Salon Team Went And I Was The Only One Left With My Baby Cakes 🤣 Let's Say It Became A Weird Environment And I'm No Longer There.
@@oluchiakuazaoku8913 girl bless your heart, don’t no real man want commit to no plastic booty.
@@Hooperd2023 Yes If Women Could Hear The Real Conversations We Have In Barbershop Where Men Really Speak They Truth You Are Absolutely Correct.
It’s so heartbreaking to see this keep happening over and over
So sad and ironically they both looked absolutely beautiful without the surgery and didn't even need it like so many other beautiful young ladies walking around today unfortunately.😔
exactly
They wanted booty not beauty
THEY didn’t feel beautiful. It’s not about what YOU think. Obviously
@@brittanyr1456 Is that really how you feel, if so then your case is even more of tragedy. Your perception of genuine beauty has been severely crippled.😩 It's no set of buttcheeks anywhere in the world that's worth potentially trading your life in for. Think about what I said for a while and hopefully it resonates.
@J.Squire The issue is in all honesty if these very women were somewhere publically showing their bodies, many would critique their lack of curves especially I'm the black community. It's only because the surgery went wrong that everyone is preaching so much "body positivity" I guarantee if their procedures had been tastefully done without complications men would have gone gaga over the results.
Natural bodies with leas curves are not promoted or glorified in the black community. But ppl also condemn women for wanting to change it. We need to pick a struggle.
I have no dog in the fight but want to bring awareness to some facts of the matter that are often overlooked
Been with hubby 26 years and we both flawed and love flaws an all. Sorry for their families
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. If you elect to have a BBL and have young children, you are irresponsible and extremely selfish. My condolences to her children
Probably trying to keep baby daddy around and keep him from cheating. People don't get painful surgery for funsies.
I agree very irresponsible if you don’t do the research in finding a doctors that aren’t BOARD CERTIFIED
True
I totally 💯 percent agree!
Pride killed those women.
This is the definition of dying for attention. Totally avoidable smh I feel bad for the families and friend who warned them not to get the surgery.
Those women were beautiful and I have nothing against surgery. A lot of people told me all I needed to make it was a BBL. I just didn’t believe that ❤ I lost so many friends because I wouldn’t do it and they said I’d never be a bad b without it. So now I’m okay with being “basic” 🙏🏽
But those women are stupid because you looks don't make you a bad b****. And now everyone looks alike it's better to look uniquely you, a real baddie is comfortable in the way she looks naturally if you got to do all the extra stuff then you're not comfortable in who you are naturally. How can you be a bad b**** when everything is fake on you and half the time it doesn't even look good if you look at it closely yes there are some people that do look good and some have the ones that look very natural I think the natural looking one is called a slim BBL it's supposed to make it look more natural but whatever.
Everyone tryna look the same be different it’s literally a trend
Consider yourself lucky! Those are not friends.
@@sherylsutherland1183 I hate that word baddie! I wish we would stop using that.
They trying to look like someone else and you're basic? No you're the bad one bad enough to be you and love you something your ex friends will never have the privilege of understanding regardless of how many "enhancements" they pay for!
If you can afford hair weaves, airline tickets, transportation and hotel costs, you can afford to pay a board certified doctor.
Not really it still is cheaper but not worth the risk
Not to be funny but I think that’s selfish too have plastic surgery if you are a mother.. you gotta think about your children if you have young kids. And husband if you have one you should be happy with your beautiful family even if u single love yourself.❤❤❤God bless
I don't think it's your place to shame a woman who wants to change something that bothers her about her body. How would you feel if someone looked at your picture and told you to pull your ass away from the table?
They just wanted likes and views on Instagram
I agree, why subject yourself to Infections and becoming Permanently Disabled and for these 2 Moms ⚰️⚰️
Wear Body Shapers!
@@sonyadrake3428 ...or have plastic surgery. They just needed to consult real surgeons. Instead the went abroad and got fake doctors. There's nothing wrong with surgery.
Any elective surgery. I have to have a cesarean to safely deliver, I cried and prayed each time.... anytime you lay on a table and let them cut you IT IS A RISK. For this reason my 3rd time was the last time, I think they'd rather have me more than a new sibling. Choices. 😔
He’s a nice doctor, I’m always gonna say bluntly, discount(s) and plastic surgery don’t belong in the same sentence as far as BBL’s are concerned.
I would be scared to death to be put to sleep for surgery...n especially if it's not a medical emergency...
U must be young
Exactly! I have to have a total hip replacement, and I am considering local anesthesia. People need to stop taking unnecessary risks with their lives. The risk of surgeries consists of bleeding and blood clots that can lead to death during anesthesia.
Exactly
@@Real_Talk_TV_Media lol No, Im old, You must be Vain..
@@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 I just had a total left hip replacement. TRUST ME YOU WANNA BE ASLEEP. When you wake up, the PAIN IS UNREAL. I'm 8 weeks out from mine. Good luck, bit you definitely wanna be fully asleep. It's literally woodshop on your hip bones. They use HAMMERS and CHISELS. Lol
Wow wow wow I have several people I know who got this family and friends n I'm just so thankful. My prayers are truly up for these ladies families wow so sad. EXCELLENT POINT ABOUT ANESTHESIOLOGY
How many times have people said Do Not go to DR for these procedures?
@@dovelydivine773 they are so racist over there too. Would never trust them with my body
I know a few also, got it done and still jacked up mentally.
This is how sick our society has become.
Wow! So sad. Any operations is risky. However, going an inexpensive route is a major risk and could be hazardous to your health or life plus some of the BBL I've seen in the grocery store look botched. Life is too precious. It's not worth it. Prayers to all the families.🙏🏽
Condolences to the family. They were both beautiful women.
Wow 🤦🏽♂️
To think, people are willing to risk their lives for some little attention.
That's what it all boils down to. Attention & self-esteem.
That's not true,and just your butt being huge does not make you proportional.
Exactly smh
The Gym and Kitchen is where you build a beautiful body……. R.I.P to both these Ladies💔
Yep! I’m about to get up and workout myself!
They resting in H€££🔥 . Unless burning in a pit is what you call peace
@@kiaj.d.5855 that's right girl work it out women don't never need to stop working out never and me and lose weight quicker than we do cuz women have more body fat I think everybody is you know them and me because they want to know how I keep my body in shape I always have been skinny slim I lift weights three and four hundred pounds till I start looking like the rock somewhere else you got to be careful with that no my weight is in the house I live weights three or four hundred pounds but I have to kind of cut back on it and do all that little girly stuff like I got it where I can do sit ups up there I got that little equipment I lift weights lightly cuz all that more heavy weights that belongs to my brother what you got to lift weights women can lift weights but this is just my natural body I just I've always worked out and run track play basketball me and my granddaddy he was so skinny I'm telling you cuz that man could hula hoop with a Cheerio that ain't no joke so sometimes staying slim is in the jeans you know it's in your jeans not in your stop that babe I know you doing this not jeans ladies not your jeans not your Apple Bottom Jeans in your jeans your bloodline cuz I'm going to tell you my Grandmama was hilarious Marie Hamilton and my outer Hamilton and they were some good looking women they had all that Indian in them my outer Hamilton man that woman was so pretty she told me one time Cassandra you look a lot like me you're so beautiful and so slim and I want them boys to leave my grandbaby alone me and Tawana we sitting up there laughing my cousin so girl if he don't love you for who you are What Faith Evans said he's already gone let him go girl let him go he ain't the one I told you I want me about all that sleeping around see they call me and cassanovas when they do that yeah right they don't want me to tell them what I think about they cancel over old dude looking good go sit down there you go women baby if you want me to tell the truth and shame the devil you got to talk to Cassandra Fleming cuz she speaks truth of you afraid to get your feelings hurt a little bit you don't want to talk to me
Hellllooo say it again sis. Love on yourself and make health decision that will make you feel whole about yourself within. Queens the love starts in the inside first before it appears on the outside.
Wise words
The price you pay for vanity. Accept yourself for who you are. May they RIP.
2 mother’s y’all should be encouraging self love 💕 don’t mess with what God made
Amen to That!!!!
You can love yourself and still want improvements. Stop going to cheap doctors
you hate to see it ✊🏻
@@daniella8400 If you love yourself as you are, what is there to improve? Why insult God?
God didn't make anything!
Ive had c section surgery and i was scared getting it done at the top notch hospital in america, the dr. is right, dont put a price tag on your life.
I can understand necessary surgery like a c section but something unnecessary like a butt getting done?? Come on. Too dangerous
You did.
I was the same. I told my obstetrician unless it's life or death no c-section. It wasn't a judgemental thing - I genuinely was petrified of the surgery!!
Not a funny situation but when he said “this is just my ass, my ass is not going to kill me” it took me out😬😓. My condolences to the families
I know😭😭I was drinking and almost choked on it😂😂But.. my condolences to the family as well.
Lol 😂 right
I was looking for this comment 😂 I was thinking “can he say this on air “ ☠️☠️☠️
I had a shake and caught myself, barely.
😂😂😂😂 the doctor was a little stunned.
You are a mother of 3, your priorities are not your children but your looks. What a world we live in. RIP by the way.
There was nothing wrong with those two beautiful women. This BBL craze has to end, if your not born with it just forget it. There is so much more to life than a big @ss.
Sending love from DC. This guy is what the Culture needs!
Dying from unnatural vanity.
How sad and tragic. My heartfelt condolences to their families. 😥
What happened to just working out? I can't relate to being so easily influenced or envious of a certain body type. Everything about myself I've come to love. This is just sad and imagine how the kids feel. This is why I can't stand vanity, the most beautiful person is someone whose happy, clean, healthy and loves themselves.
Amen sista
This is what I’m saying. I busted my tail in the gym.. no body couldn’t tell me that my gym bod didn’t look better (healthier/toned) than a stiff/jiggly fat bbl… I’m sorry not sorry.
@@calelastyles825 Yes 👏🏽 a gym body looks so much better. I don’t understand what’s wrong with these women thinking this is necessary. Plus, working out gives you a healthier mental.
@@IndianG-Trini and to be honest, they already had a gym body. They had nice figures. Very sad.
That's how I stay in n shape bodybuilding... lifting weight... preparing now for bikini Novice competition... get a trainer they'll help you change body composition...
My Condolences to the families. Please learn to Love yourself getting plastic surgery can't fix what's broken inside. Both women were Beautiful a lot of women and Men have to really deal with the internal risking your life when each day is a blessing. All surgeries have risk. I had a knee injury being an athlete the first orthopedics suggested surgery right away. I said Physical Therapy he insisted on surgery. I went to a different Orthopedics and Rehabilitated my knee and torn Hamstring. Surgery should be an absolute last resort. I just can't Stress enough Love yourself
Amen.
Thank you for this message
You are who you are don't change your looks for anyone your fine to change your environment, the way you live and your life style but to someone like me I judge the character and honesty I can give a da*n about your looks when I have no room to judge anyone when I am not without my own faults! Please be safe people! ✝️🙏🏾🛐
Thank god I love myself n not insecure
Most of the ppl getting these surgeries end up looking completely fake anyway. To each their own, but women really need to do extensive research on these doctors before deciding on these procedures.
My Prayers and Condolences go out to The families....
The Dr. certainly tell the truth about the anesthesiologist being the second most important person. I’ve had several surgeries for health reasons and I always have to feel very comfortable with them because I know that they are the ones that are watching me and I always talk with them and ask them to please please take care of me.
I got your alternative ladies. Up your protein but avoid fried and sweet foods. Drink your water. And stair master. Or find a flight of stairs you can use. And skip every other stair go up and dwn um as much as u can and long as u can at least 5 days a week. Best part it's cheap or free and you don't die
Can you train me please.💓
Tell em Krissypoo!!
Ppl will sacrifice and budget to buy a new home or car but taking shortcuts on a surgery that's a potential risk to your life is truly mind-boggling
What's really sad is that these women will invest thousands upon thousands into their physical appearance but not a penny into their children's education.
We must teach our children to love themselves and that a life is precious and priceless
These women are already pretty, thin, obviously attractive to someone because they had children. Your butt is a muscle...exercise and build it. RIP ladies. My condolences to their family and friends.
It won't be soft, giggly and feminine.
Y'all have made fun of women who work out for decades, now we get the soft bodies does everyone complain. Smh
Ringing the Alarm is sadly not enough. These women are determined to look like anyone but themselves. This deadly trend will unfortunately continue. God bless the children left behind and the relatives who are burdened with the task of raising them.
The media is saying more black women have these procedures more than any other race. We as black women need to love ourselves inside and out. God didn't make no mistakes on us! 🙏✝️💙🥺❤️
Thanks Lord for bible study class ✌️
We need to fix our inside. 🤦🏾♀️. These women think they need to look better when we really need to act better
@@Geminicricketi#praisebreak 💃🏾💃🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 You said a word!!
I agree. Also, Black women are known to have big backsides. Why are we becoming a caricature of ourselves?
Black women have deep issues brah
You’re wonderful… be happy with yourself and thankful for what you have.😭
Respect,heartfelt condolences to both families/most high give all strength to stand through this difficult time
It’s scary how much some of these comments show how little we care about each other as human beings.
Praying for the families 💔
It's NOT How Little We Care about Each Other. They DON'T Even CARE about Themselves. MOST was WARNED and Still Thought WON'T Happened to Me. Some of them do this just to Impress some BUM. Even if You Care is this gonna bring them back from DEATH? It's Sad it happens but it's a Price to Pay When You Choose the Cheaper Route. Imagine putting the Money into a Private Trainer at the Gym instead
I can NOT imagine going to another country for surgery. I've seen a BBL and it is brutal. They had to know the risks even if done by a certified surgeon and facility. People just don't seem to be able to accept who they are anymore and I put a lot of blame on social media. Besides, the butt lifts I've seen, (like the Kardashians), are hideous. I wouldn't mind having a little something done to my aging face, but I don't like pain and would never spend that kind of money for something cosmetic. I just use good makeup and techniques. I don't think a perfect body will make anyone love you. That comes from the inside.
I wouldn't do it in this country either. Many people have died from it here in the U.S. too.
@@barbie6695 I'm with YOU. Have you seen liposuction done? It is sickening. Just seeing the BBL and lipo procedures is like maiming or torture of the body. It just doesn't make any sense to ruin what God gave us.
@@lindahandley5267 it looks absolutely painful and horrific how they take that rod and move it violently back & forth. Also, the Kardashians wear fake parts, instead of the surgery ppl think they've had. Seen Kim lately not wearing the hips, thighs, or butt. And to think, some women actually went through surgery to be shaped like the Kardashians, when all they had to do was buy fake parts. A good, lasting, form-fitting fake derriere goes for about $400 and up. Hell, Amazon sells them.
@@barbie6695 Yes, lipsuction is far worse than some people think. I've never heard of them wearing fake parts! Khloe's looked bad too. She and Kim's bodies were never fat. Khloe worked so hard to lose what little weight she thought she needed to and then when she and Kim turn to the side, there's that huge, saggy butt that ruins their look. H'wood is never satisfied.
So sad for both of them!!! I never understood why would someone go to another country besides the United States to have plastic surgery??? Why would someone want the cheapest amount for a procedure when dealing with your health!!! May they both rest peacefully!!!
I love my body, I love how I look, My husband loves it and I work hard at the gym to maintain it!!! I would never surgically alter myself for anything in this world! Love yourself, all of yourself and stop this!!!!! RIH to both of those lady's! ♥️
Sad women don’t think they are beautiful enough, and they go through these lengths. In my mind I’m the most beautiful woman alive, and I don’t wear makeup, don’t wear jewelry, I I don’t have a bbl but the Bible tells me that, I’m fearfully and wonderfully made.
Ladies! If you’re thin and built similar to these lovely ladies lost, I promise you building those glutes and hams in the gym doesn’t take long at all. And it looks much better on such a small frame… and if you’re doing it for a man, I promise they will prefer the muscles over displaced fat as strong glues and hams (and heart) will improve your sex life naturally. Your man will thank you.
Yepp.
Yes I'm preparing to compete in bikini Novice competition...my trainer is amazing how he transforming my body..all muscles all natural!!! Prep meals is way to go as well
@@wello5839 absolutely! It’s bulking season, good luck!!!
It really doesn't. If they stuff themselves with food, yes they will get big butts and bbl bodies after lipo.
Muscle butts are not and will never be the same. Stop lying to people.
Another black woman lost her life over clout.............this constant need for needing attention needs to come to an end it's not worth your life
The alternative is stop trying to keep up with the trends if you supposed to love yourself and love the body guy gave you why is everybody changing nobody wants to be the person they are this is a crazy reason to die is sad about the deaths but it's a crazy reason to die because otherwise you might have had a better chance to live if people appreciate themselves more stop worrying about how Society views you and worry about how the people that really truly care about you view you a BBL is not going to keep a man a BBL is not going to keep a job a BBL is not going to cook your food it does nothing for you if you can't cash out leave that s*** alone women you all are fine the way you are if anything needs to get changed it's not the outward appearance it's definitely the inside traumas that most people never deal with just suppress
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LOTS of cosmetic chop shops in Miami strip malls as well. The problem is not just with surgeries outside of the US. It's shopping for a bargain on MAJOR SURGERY!
“Dying to be beautiful.” 😢 Sad and true
Sad😢
Very sad! I'm sorry for your loss! My condolences and prayers for y'all! May they Rest in peace! I can't believe my cousin Janesha thought she needed that! She was beautiful! The other woman was beautiful and didn't need it!
So sad. I'm happy with my small buns. Yoga and pilates will tone and uplift the buttocks. Certain clothing can also help achieve the desired look.
I feel the same way, if I want a bigger butt I'll eat carbs and workout. I ain't playing with my life and even if there were no risk involved I just prefer being natural.
@@Ariel-ut8fp absolutely
Self love is at an all time low, smh.
80% of Black women are overweight though.
Cant really feel sorry for someone's stupidity to risk your life for a procedure that's purely cosmetic and not for a illness. Oh well
True that play stupid games win stupid prizes that's life
You have to love yourself that way that God created you. Cosmetic surgeries are not worth losing your life. Now these children are left without a mom.
It’s so sad. They were both beautiful and perfect as they were. 💔
They were alright, the pride took over, and there you go
"My ass is not going to kill me , but it could."' - 🤣
I'm not knocking anyone for a decision they made because I believe most of us have done something not so bright to others or even ourselves once we look back at that decision. I will say that if anyone is wanting to get a bbl, save your money and do leg stretches, squats, along with lifting weights with your legs. Trust me it works. I have a classmate whose bottom was dang near inexistent. After working out for about a yr or so she look as if she has had gotten a bbl. So as I always tell me gym mates; let that pain be your therapy and do not think about the time it takes to get there but to enjoy every moment of the journey.
Oh, boy! These stories will never end. Not learning lessons. These 'likes' and 'views' (whether in person or via networks just are not worth it. May the children of these 'mothers' be comforted in their times of need.
The BBL isn't the problem, the problem is people trying to get cheap surgery. Folks need to stop going to the Dominican Republic for cosmetic surgery. Those "people" in the DR do not care about you. They just see you as a Payday.
Exactly!
I am starting to think the BBL is the problem because even celebrities who have money are looking botched after surviving. I canceled my appointment because I am scared now.
Crazy thing is that those two ladies already had nice bodies. Why are women risking their lives just to look a certain way?!
Bbl’s are other races view of how black women look!
Why would you want to look like a caricature of yourself?
Also, God has blessed Black people tremendously- just exercise!
They'll never learn. 🤦🏽🙏🏽🌹
Ofcourse not. The sisterhood keeps telling them they need it. They always listen to the sisterhood.
@@rontang8092 Exactly!
At this point they must want to die. To hear all these horror stories and still go along with it is stupid. I guess they have that "it won't happen to me" attitude.
@@kathyrodriguez820 AGREED!
I’m a woman and I agree with you nothing wrong with being happy with God gave you and most of do it to keep up with other women
Ladies just go to the gym , eat right and stay consistent. Yeah, I thought about having some work done too but after watching these videos I’m good never mind.
Never forget that the Dominican Republic is a 3rd world country.
They don’t know that🤣
That is very modern believe it or not.
Third? Well, maybe Fourth. I don't understand it at all. It's abnormal looking and grotesque!
I'm so scared for any surgery... it's so dangerous to go under the knife ... don't do it unless you have to unless it's life or death yall.... ladies please stop taking this risk when you don't have to do it..