I Asked High-Value Men What They Instantly Notice About A Woman That Makes Her Attractive!

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  • @juliana_udegbulem
    @juliana_udegbulem ปีที่แล้ว +139

    High value men like a lady that can hold a conversation 🙂

  • @sparklesuk.7835
    @sparklesuk.7835 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +45

    High value men are attracted to a lady who has a soft composure 😊

    • @QUEENMJ29
      @QUEENMJ29 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Very true...

  • @--Purple--
    @--Purple-- หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    A high-value woman is a Proverbs 31 woman.

    • @urchicfashion1976
      @urchicfashion1976 หลายเดือนก่อน

      what does it means?

    • @prudencedantye9297
      @prudencedantye9297 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@Mimi24177she’s actually also rich hey, she’s business minded, she’s making that money too!! If you read the whole Proverbs 31…

    • @Coastalclassics677
      @Coastalclassics677 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      She is a woman with the capability to take care of every facet of her home, The help, her children and husband. She is also quite the business woman.Able to buy real estate and plant crops to sustain her family, She also is very good with her hands.Making beautiful clothes with imported fabrics. She is also a woman with great self respect and honors her husband . The Bible says she is of great worth, above rubies and jewels she is a woman of character.

  • @JemmaKay04
    @JemmaKay04 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    A woman that works out and eat right is another one

  • @CoachTroi
    @CoachTroi หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    As a former MAC girl I approve Ruby Woo as the Official Boss Lady Color

    • @IbukunBankole-vf2wb
      @IbukunBankole-vf2wb 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      exactly my first thought when I heard the red lipstick convo. Great on very dark skinned ladies too.

    • @jocelynjefferson1529
      @jocelynjefferson1529 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My favorite 💋

  • @londonwildflowerbae
    @londonwildflowerbae 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    Pilates and running are soooo good for posture.

  • @stacyhamlet6015
    @stacyhamlet6015 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I believe a friendly 😊 SMILE, attracts the men as well.. instead of serious or stone faced!

    • @Monbebe_me
      @Monbebe_me 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      AKA poker face 😅

    • @missjoy6685
      @missjoy6685 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes! Which is one reason why ALL of our profile pics s/b of us full smiling IMO. Whether it’s LinkedIn, Facebook, IG, TH-cam, work email etc.

  • @curlspoppington4200
    @curlspoppington4200 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    I get lots of compliments/unwanted attention when I wear red lips so I know that one drives men crazy for sure... Can't get behind the red nails though lol I'm a neutral or french tip girlie

  • @supermodeljaz6829
    @supermodeljaz6829 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Confidence and witty banter/flirting

  • @jre777
    @jre777 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    As a very traditional male, I've absolutely no idea how I found myself on this overtly ladies' channel! I suppose we can thank TH-cam's mysterious algorithm for this. Anyway...
    Beautiful channel. This creator is performing a great service to humanity by working to upgrade the calibre of ladies we men encounter. However...
    For any of those ladies who like to know the brutal truth, while these 5 criteria detailed in the video are absolutely true and correct, one wonders why there's an implication at the beginning of the video that women cannot control their body shape.
    It's the very first thing we, as men, notice, and if the sum of perfect marks on posture, comportment, skin quality, grooming, dress sense, etc. equalled, say, a maximum possible 20 points, then the self-discipline a lady exerts over maintaining her figure optimally (through a combination of moderate eating and exercise) are, alone, probably worth 80 points.
    Sorry to disappoint. But self-discipline in a lady (not the unattractive fake counterfeit of vanity / narcissism / materialism) is one of the most encouraging, inspiring and reassuring external evidences of a lady's a) respect for herself (and implicit value), b) respect for her man / prospective husband, c) reliability / integrity / consistency in action and values, d) ability to keep a growing future family vibrant, energetic, motivated, exercised, and generally healthy.
    The lady described in Proverbs 31 took great care of herself and in consequence, was able to help take great care of her husband's concerns and those of their staff. High value men today yearn for the very same characteristics. Nothing had changed.

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  ปีที่แล้ว +23

      The implication at the beginning is not about fitness but about individual “spec.”
      You could have all these four qualities but if you’re slender you may still not be attractive to a man who prefers curvy women. That’s where the “bra” & “pantie” size comment comes in because taking out cosmetic surgery, most women don’t have control over these.

    • @fredcled9647
      @fredcled9647 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ayanime_edemYour voice is beautiful, but I can’t hear. Turn the volume on high.. we will turn it to our best volume.

    • @TheElephantInTheRoom12
      @TheElephantInTheRoom12 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ayanime_edem I am just now watching this (2024) but thank you so much for your response to him. You nailed it exactly with my thoughts if I were going to answer him which I planned to if you had not. I am so tired of not being considered valuable or worth a man's time because I'm not curvy, busty, or naturally shapely. God made each one of us different according to his unique design and my small size does not cheapen my value, diminish my high character or make me less likely to be a good wife.

    • @aryaphoenix954
      @aryaphoenix954 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please. We’re supposed to be in perfect shape while you’re sitting there looking 36 weeks pregnant. Boy, bye!

    • @twinningtwins4721
      @twinningtwins4721 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      As a woman myself, I totally agree with you and appreciate your comment. I also agree with everything else in the video. I don't know why some women seem to think that staying in shape is only about appearance. It shows you value your health and the health of your children/family and the self-discipline says alot about a person's overall character. You can't abuse your body by overeating, eating junk, taking harmful substances, being a couch potato and expect any normal healthy person to see you as "high-value".

  • @harrietgloria8792
    @harrietgloria8792 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Charm, grace, poise, courtesy ❤

    • @heartlogo2023
      @heartlogo2023 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes, no ratchella/ sexy redness... CLASS and modesty...

  • @ANB44
    @ANB44 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I am a red nail woman. Definitely a positive eye catcher. It’s very classy and chic. ❤️💅🏾

  • @SherletteNichola
    @SherletteNichola หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Great tips! I just started getting into red nails and I love it! Ladies as a dark skin woman I agree, Ruby Woo is that girl. If you find it too bright, you can line her with chestnut from Mac or your fav nude lip liner to tone it down ❤

  • @odamiss
    @odamiss 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    High value men really love feminine women . Soft , clean, elegant, well spoken women . I love red lipstick, been using rubywoo for aa decade or more now . I also love red nail polish. But I think I’m currently in my nude Era

  • @nikkiep3731
    @nikkiep3731 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Brown-skinned lady. My perfect go-to red lip is Bawse Lady or Rich Auntie by the Lip Bar 💄💋

  • @dyaas9930
    @dyaas9930 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Girl, you humbled me…thank you for that. I‘m learning a lot from you. Keep going!

  • @Girliefinancee
    @Girliefinancee 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Red nails are so gooodddd
    Thanks for this

  • @MsP0624
    @MsP0624 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Bright, genuine smile and pretty teeth.

  • @lindakalu271
    @lindakalu271 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I saw the name of your channel and subscribed right away without knowing you nor your content. I haven't started listening yet but i went to the comments and lo i wasn't disappointed. You're supernatural ❤

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Oh thank you beautiful, I’m glad to have you here! 🤍🎉

  • @anndiestephen7671
    @anndiestephen7671 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love the video. I've heard men say they prefer minimal make-up rather than an overly made-up face. Please where are the skin care expert recommendations? Thank you.

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      The Aesthetic Clinic

    • @anndiestephen7671
      @anndiestephen7671 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ayanime_edem Thank you! 😊

  • @ms.ednapost
    @ms.ednapost 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Ruby Woo by MAC…just bought my first tube and don’t forget the lip liner🌹

  • @astoutoure8701
    @astoutoure8701 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Ability to listen and subtile smiles and how you look at them ( your sight)
    I recommand every lady here to check Marylin Monroe and Audrey Hepburn and have old money accessories bags shoes watch and invest in good fabric use neutral colors for clothes a lot kisses from an auntie from Canada

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think Marilyn was too sexualized but I did think she had a soft vibe.

  • @ifeomaaaaaaaa
    @ifeomaaaaaaaa ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Ahh ayanime, you look so good. Your weight gain ✓ Your skin ✓.

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Awww 🥰, thank you beautiful 🤍

    • @ms.sylvia__
      @ms.sylvia__ 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ⁠@@ayanime_edem Please can you share how you gained weight

  • @obiomaokeke785
    @obiomaokeke785 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Everything red is the ultimate. High class men are attracted to a clean composed and hard working ladies/women.

  • @precious14stones
    @precious14stones ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Sending love and light 💕

  • @SuaveUC
    @SuaveUC ปีที่แล้ว +16

    When a lady opens her mouth and speak...it’s a confirmation of all the physical elegant attributes...or not.
    But then she has to firstly, tick most of all these physically alluring attributes as you rightly mentioned.
    Thanks AY.

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re welcome and thank you for watching

  • @Bukkyofbukkyslay
    @Bukkyofbukkyslay ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Red nails for me too❤

  • @agnessmwachiyaba6088
    @agnessmwachiyaba6088 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I will right away look for a dermatologist to help my skin

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wonderful!

  • @redcolerealty9245
    @redcolerealty9245 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    The Color of your teeth and overall hygiene

  • @okonkwonkechi5602
    @okonkwonkechi5602 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you so much ❤ I love red lipstick 💄 you are amazing 😍 I love your composure 😊

  • @milcahdiesob3799
    @milcahdiesob3799 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    There's something that has been making me feel like I'm perhaps in the wrong location on TH-cam, I'm a 22 year old single mom from Ghana and Truth be told I think your videos are for women or ladies who have the luxury of money, time and are doing well for themselves because I work from morning till evening, and the salary can't even cater for my son alone to talk of myself.
    I don't remember the last time I bought a new pair of sandals and I can't boast of having any proper clothes.
    I'm only surviving at this point, don't get me wrong I do like your videos just that I don't think they are truly meant for me
    Perhaps not yet.
    The only thing I think I can relate to is the content on speech because people always say I sound soo elegantly and some say I sound so mature as well.

    • @onevenus6040
      @onevenus6040 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      This channel and others like it are preparing you for your future. Keep watching, your day is coming ❤

    • @milcahdiesob3799
      @milcahdiesob3799 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@onevenus6040 I pray so amen 🙏😊

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      It's all in how you carry yourself & your heart for God. I pray He bring you a Great brother to marry!

    • @milcahdiesob3799
      @milcahdiesob3799 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@danilaroche1156 thanks so much 🙏

    • @fatoumatakijera3264
      @fatoumatakijera3264 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      My dear having standards and values does nothing to do it money, it’s d way you carry yourself, how you speak to others and how beautiful you relate. Value yourself and high value men will see what they are looking for in a woman in you.

  • @tamarashavon575
    @tamarashavon575 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I used to where that ruby woo mac lipstick color for years..but noooow and for the past few years… whatd even better and stays is fenty red its a red red in the glass tube and it even has a diff type of brush you will love..and the nail color to match perfectly is DND 430 Ferrari red..thank me later..

  • @naturallybecca4360
    @naturallybecca4360 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    These videos Crack me up so much. Are there men making videos like this?? There's aoo much work in being a woman. Yoh

  • @therealnessa6858
    @therealnessa6858 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I agree with all of what was stated!!!

  • @QueenXty23
    @QueenXty23 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I use Oriflame red 🍒♥️ lipstick 💄💋

  • @Grace-ez5ti
    @Grace-ez5ti ปีที่แล้ว +3

    OMG!finally we missed you🤗

  • @missjos8985
    @missjos8985 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am so glad I found your channel ❤

  • @YaaChoco
    @YaaChoco 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Red lipstick: Fenty Beauty - MVP😍…

  • @mercyukoha2701
    @mercyukoha2701 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This is really amazing ma

  • @Alicia_Joe
    @Alicia_Joe 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I believe a woman who stands for something and is all about it is attractive. Eg, one’s faith, since I took a stand with Christ and became loud about His love, I’ve attracted better type of men… although as friends but I see the difference.

  • @chiamakaanthonate6982
    @chiamakaanthonate6982 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice one ayanime, you are really glowing

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Now I’m blushing 😊 thank you beautiful 🤍

  • @blessynafoyou5214
    @blessynafoyou5214 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sooo glad I found this your channel seriously I'm learning alot ❤❤

  • @emmanuellabako3667
    @emmanuellabako3667 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    very good i love red anyway.

  • @QUEENMJ29
    @QUEENMJ29 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    True.

  • @dianezielinski6664
    @dianezielinski6664 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤ your channel and elegant style and approach 🎉 New subscriber!
    Agree with all 5 mentioned !

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Welcome aboard! 🎉

  • @agnessmwachiyaba6088
    @agnessmwachiyaba6088 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Aya you really look attractive ❤

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you beautiful 🤍

  • @gloriaonyebuchi4561
    @gloriaonyebuchi4561 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you ma you always motivates me

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww, I’m glad. I love you too 🤍

  • @MAXIMITAS
    @MAXIMITAS หลายเดือนก่อน

    I use a nice burgundy and I love it Kat von D has an amazing color as well❤

  • @osaserenaturelle8555
    @osaserenaturelle8555 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As a lover of red lipsticks, i totally agree

  • @sarasirdab2449
    @sarasirdab2449 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks.

  • @tapinwithtiffany538
    @tapinwithtiffany538 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Skin- & Drink lots of water

  • @abigailachu4845
    @abigailachu4845 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    At anime I’m so shy and self conscious that sometimes I’m unsure of myself.I’ve tried overcoming that but I don’t know how far I’ve gone.

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Take it one day at a time. As you continue on your level up journey, it’ll get easier and better. Force and challenge yourself to break out of your comfort zone. I have a video on self-confidence. I’m sure it’ll help…

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How To Build/Improve Your Self-Confidence Immediately! - Short & Long-term Tips!
      th-cam.com/video/4nN1o8Ajt-k/w-d-xo.html

  • @OluebubeWrites
    @OluebubeWrites 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you. ❤

  • @apoorvag2788
    @apoorvag2788 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks sis

  • @chinwejoseph4334
    @chinwejoseph4334 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tank u so much

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re welcome and thank you for watching 🤍

    • @BlessingBenson-ul5fm
      @BlessingBenson-ul5fm 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Pls am a dark person like you,can you share your skin product for me,I will appreciate,and the the product for red lipstick,let me also try..thanks for your response

  • @niawilliams7599
    @niawilliams7599 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hello.
    I can't seem to find the link for the dermatologist you've used please.
    I'd need your help locating it please.

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The Aesthetic Clinic on IG

  • @lovelinchibuchi484
    @lovelinchibuchi484 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Pls just coming across this, can i get the link to the dermatologist

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      The Clinic Aesthetic

  • @ABBA-DELIGHTS-IN-ME
    @ABBA-DELIGHTS-IN-ME ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for this video.... I can't find the Instagram handle of the dermatologist... please share with me.

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh my apologies, I’ll leave the name here. You can copy and search;
      - Aiva wellness
      - The clinic aesthetic

  • @GiftOmoneleAluya-fv2qx
    @GiftOmoneleAluya-fv2qx 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Ayiname, what if I'm not a fan of nails? I don't know why I always keep my natural nails short and clean. I'll try it sometime.
    Great video❤

  • @anthonycynthia4980
    @anthonycynthia4980 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Please the link for the dermatologist

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The Aesthetic Clinic on IG

  • @lbda9426
    @lbda9426 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Define high value

  • @andrealopez7646
    @andrealopez7646 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have thin lips so red lipstick won't look good on me ):

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Oh, then you’ll have to stick with what flatters you. As much as these tips are great, you know yourself better 🤍

  • @joycelinedjangmah2889
    @joycelinedjangmah2889 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @wardahfadhel8171
    @wardahfadhel8171 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mac rubi woo 💯

  • @faithshimoomba7261
    @faithshimoomba7261 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love red nails too

  • @sherronsherman
    @sherronsherman 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I use NARS , Don't Stop matte lipstick❤

  • @Neema150
    @Neema150 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    And high-value, confident, and self-respecting black women do not bleach their skin and do not wear wigs.

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  29 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Yes to not bleaching your skin (mentioned in the video) but wigs? Um no… they are too practical and versatile to be ignored. As long as they are elegantly done

    • @Neema150
      @Neema150 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wearing wigs means you are lazy and unhygienic, lack self-esteem, don't want to make an effort to take care of yourself, and prefer to put on a fake persona. The most practical way and the number one thing that embodies everything said in this video starts with embracing your identity and natural beauty, not self-sabotage, by wearing sweaty, smelly, and toxic wigs that look like they belong on an Asian or white person's head. It’s time to shed the colonial brainwashed behavior of black momen and evolve and stop the self-hate and self-sabotage that the world sees in wig-wearing black women. Imagine seeing European women wearing African hair texture wigs; they would look ridiculous and bizarre because that is not their natural hair texture; it’s the same for black women who wear Western and Asian hair texture wigs; they look odd, and it screams a lack of self-esteem, and rejection of their identity, and natural beauty, and also screams laziness, and dirty, under sweaty, smelly wigs and that they are unauthentic. I and my friends will never hire or date a woman who wears wigs.

    • @heartlogo2023
      @heartlogo2023 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      It's okay to wear extensions/wigs as long as they look tasteful/real. If they have those trashy baby hair curtains, doesn't match his type of company/vibe, looks too long, and/ cheap nah...
      Also, if you can afford to maintain a look, are growing your hair out, and are consistent/classy...your overall class/ attitude/ways would out way that if it was a matter.

  • @OmogeAbbey
    @OmogeAbbey 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You just insult we in line of skincare expert. No don’t say what you don’t know. I am a professional skin therapist and I’ve helped so many women with effective skincare products.

  • @otimmo
    @otimmo หลายเดือนก่อน

    You don't have a true representation because you premise is faulty.

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Okay… thank you for watching all the same

  • @nareigberaese5770
    @nareigberaese5770 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching 🤍