Jade - You are not dumb. Things happen, don't beat yourself up more than you have. Your true fans love and support the two of you no matter what happens. Chin up, eyes forward and move on. :)
Making this video and being VULNERABLE ON FILM was very “NOT DUMB”…. Most will ID with being “HARD” on themselves as you momentarily were and having your MATE support & encourage you! Well done, Family of Sailing Videos!
I totally agree with you. And if you guys want to call yourselves a family, just do it. I am a 68 year old single widower, and I call myself a family. I am planning to buy a sailboat when I retire from my current employer, so I like the "real life" episodes. Keep doing what you're doing. Safe travels.
Well…I just watched the end of your video and saw the “family” comment. My husband and I considered ourselves a family as soon as we got married. We were a family for 2 years before we ever had children. Having our kids didn’t make us a family, the two of us became a family as soon as we were married. You guys are the sweetest family right now!!
No one could ever accuse either of you of failing! You both did an incredible job of rebuilding your boat, especially Jade. Chin up, best foot forward, and you’ll get there. You have a lot to be proud of, keep the video’s coming, they’re awesome
Guys, we really appreciate you sharing both sides of your adventures …..we learn from your journey (successes and failures) and don’t think we think that everything on the water is 🌈 rainbows and 🐬 dolphins. Keeping your channel authentic is why we all watch and support you guys! Don’t change the honesty of your channel….taking accountability and not playing the victim is soooo refreshing! Thanks for keeping it real! Fair Winds from Boston!
You are a family. Anyone who says you are not is very jealous of who you have become together and how much you have accomplished together. Congratulations on the success of living your dream sailing around and seeing the world. Keep up the great work ands show all the people the world and all there is out there! great work! outstanding content! thanks you!
the behind the scenes is very very appreciated! as someone who struggles with perfectionism and having a hard time changing plans it’s reassuring to see that I’m not alone and that people i greatly admire struggle with the same stuff. You guys are doing amazing!
Don't let the missed paperwork take you down. I wouldn't consider this a fail. There is so much red tape for each country and unfortunately the best lessens I've found are by not doing something right and learning from it. Now, for the future, you'll know what is needed. Im happy you shared this video, even with the mistake, because we love seeing your adventures, good or bad. Thanks for sharing your life with us.
Thank you both for your Honesty,Vulnerability and transparency in regard to being denied entry into Guatemala. Much respect for allowing us into your humanness.... very refreshing
FAMILY!!!! Forget that random comment from a year ago! You are whatever you tell yourself!! I hope you charge rent to that commentator for allowing them to live in your head! YOU two are a beautiful family and we enjoy following along while you journey this life! You guys are an inspiration to me and my family. We are going to start sailing because of the inspiration you have inspired within us! Peace and Love to you both! P.s. Be kind to yourself. P.s.s There are no failures in life, just challenges!!
This is the first time in my life hearing “Zarpe”. First thank you for sharing, I can imagine having this learning opportunity is difficult. However, you sharing it is immensely helpful. After YEARS of boating and following sailing channels, never knew zarpe was a thing.
The Zarpe is a required document everywhere in the region. You might be stopped by coastguard and they will require it, failure to show that might get you in serious trouble. i'm in Costa Rica and we go to Panama and Nicaragua often.....Zarpe is the most importan piece of documentation needed, besides passport. Be careful not to go through Nicaragua without it. they are not as friendly as Guatemala.....just a piece of advice. If in need for help here....let me know ;-)
Two things with all I see on TH-cam yours couldn't be more innocent as a widowed 72 year old man living in Great Britain with a love of boats and boating your TH-cam video is refreshing two lovely young people enjoying life what could be better as for are you a family I would say you 2 plus 2 dogs and that lovely boat constitutes more of a family than most good luck to all four of you incidentally great filming keep safe keep happy Alan
Y'all are the Evans family, regardless of one viewer's comment. Happy to hear you found a work around for a simple mistake. One more lesson learned. Love your videos, thank you for your transparency.
What an emotional rollercoaster! Sharing the full story and giving us those moments is what makes your videos so watchable. There's so many ticks on lists to be done when setting off, to miss something is probably inevitable, one thing's for sure, you'll not do it again!
Yes. Guatemala, among other places, can deliberately make it difficult, hoping for bribes. So don't feel bad. I do not know much, but am not surprised and feel a little sad that you feel so bad. I would have reacted same way. You are amazing.
It sounds as though you have cruising experience as much as I don’t like the thought of bribing people or officials are we talking about handling the guy at $10 bill for his personal pocket if so is it does it become arguable but it’s worth it just to give them the $10 bill
I'm guessing that what they were waiting for was you to say was , "Is there some fine, or perhaps donation, that we could make that would allow us to get a visa and be allowed entry?"
Life is a constant learning process. Reality does NOT play by a certain set of rules. I work in a hospital, and I am constantly confronted by reality and its brutal sense of humor. Guatemala entrance is just another learning experience that will not be forgotten any time soon. Just another hurdle in life’s many adventures. Everything that you have accomplished so far in both of your life’s (medical issues, becoming a pilot, college, re-building a boat, etc.). Your crying is just a release of emotions all at once. Some yell, use profanity, hit a wall, etc. this is where your dogs can be an awesome emotional support. You will conquer Guatemala, and many others around both of your journeys.
Yeah it wrong but I’ve traveled the world backpacking and I can tell you there are many borders you will not cross without paying a little! If you have all your papers in order they hate it! Best thing to do is just ask “what is the fine”. I know people will say you shouldn’t because it makes it worse but sorry yeah sometimes you should! I even saw a girl arrested at a jungle border in Asia 100’s of miles from civilisation, because she wouldn’t pay $10. To this day I dread to think what happened to her! Also those guys are probably only being paid a couple of hundred bucks a month if there lucky. They see us in are expensive boats living a life they could not even dream and yeah to be honest I don’t blame them!
I'm just starting to dream about lifestyles that I would like to have when I'm able to retire and sailing/cruising has gotten to the top of the list. I watch a bunch of videos on youtube and have seen plenty of weather/passage videos - but it all seems like an adventure with a happy ending. Being ten minutes into the video and seeing the tears and feelings that you guys are putting out in the open is refreshing. You're telling the truth. None of us have an "S" on our chest, were not perfect or infallible. It sucks to miss something that can turn out to be as big as this, but it's still real and it's valuable to those of us who are watching from half a world away. 8 months have passed since you dropped this video, and I'll catch up to you guys' most recent stuff in a matter of hours - but I hope that you've continued to show the truth in the lifestyle that you're living and I'm thinking about getting into. Thank you for documenting your truth and your life and letting us all get a glimpse of what's out there for us all (good and bad) should we be able to tighten a sheet and find the right heading. Thanks for the last 8 months that you guys lived and that I'll watch in the next few days.
Mistakes are NOT failures, unless you give up and never try again. Mistakes are an inevitable part of bold adventures into the unknown. You two will shake this off and sail on :)
The only people who never make mistakes are those who never do anything. Don't let one mistake overshadow your hundreds of successes. You are an inspiration to those who dream.
I would never think badly of you guys for making a mistake. We ALL make mistakes and it is so brave of you to share that with us. I love watching everything you guys go through. The good, the bad and the mistakes! Love your channel.
Had this happen to the boat I crewed on for a summer back in my late 20's. I was just a deck hand so none of my responsibility, but it happens. As for the family bit. You are a couple, so you are a Family. Add in your fur kids and you are a thriving family.
You have just demonstrated once again that you are an amazing couple! Taking responsibility for a mistake so quickly gets all of the garbage out of the way. It doesn’t matter if you are the only ones who could have made the mistake. You could have given uncountable reasons for the error. I/we still admire the both of you for your accomplishments and for sharing all the good and not so good moments with us. This is just a little hiccup in your adventure not a roadblock. You can start your day over any time you want to. As far as being a family, a married couple is considered a family. I have considered you two as a family and by the sharing of your life with me I feel like part of your family,as I’m sure the 315,000 subscribers do. Thanks again for your honesty, openness and love. Stay safe!
Honesty is the best. We follow y’all because we want to vicariously experience the journey. Thanks for being real. Life just sucks sometimes. All shall be well.
You guys bring so much integrity to your videos. The good, the bad, the ugly, you don't shy away from the realities of the sailing life. Thank you! And please keep making these videos, they are a joy to watch!
I’m sorry you guys had to go through that, your are NOT dumb, it’s hard to keep up with so much paperwork and about that guy that said your not a family he is ignorant, you are a family and your dogs are a part of your family 💯. Even if you weren’t married you still be a family… you guys share a life together. Love y’all! Wish y’all the best in your aventures and don’t let anyone’s saltiness ever affect your mental health 🥰 you both are doing great, is by making Mistakes that we learn the grates lessons. Like Thomas Edison once said “I did not failed, I just found 10,000 ways that won’t work”
Jade, don’t beat yourself up…everyone has problems and issues along the way-it’s how you deal with the negative things that make the difference. Great episode!
A mistake is never a failure! Mistakes are how we learn the hardest lessons. Kudos to the both of you for being human - perfection is never human... its obsession!
Thank you so so much for sharing the difficult times. I have been watching a couple other sailing/travel channels, and while I know that they have their struggles also, they often don't show them. This has led me to feel not so good about my own life as I also desire to live this kind of lifestyle. I've had to take a break from watching them because as they do make me happy, I feel that subconsciously they have also been making me unhappy ("why isn't my life so good?") Actually seeing the struggles you go through and not just knowing about them gives me a kind of balance when I watch your channel. It's not that I take any kind of joy in your despair, it's more about me knowing everyone struggles with certain things in life and I'm not alone in my struggles. So with that, I am sorry you've gone through some difficult experiences but thank you do very much for sharing and I hope you don't have to go through many of them. Cheers!
Sorry for the paperwork glitch. So you know, I follow you each week and I love the honesty you both showed in this episode on your content. The openness completes your filming of reality. I liked it!
The two of you are amazing. I think I speak for many of us in saying we feel as though we are on this journey with you. You’re open and honest and definitely not failures. We admire you both so much.
The real life footage is what makes sharing your experiences relatable and makes people feel better about their own lives. We all make mistakes, all the time, but we live in a world where we are led to think that everyone around us leads perfect lives. It's not only interesting and good to see the hiccups in life, it's critical as a creator to contribute to the world in a positive way. I love it. Please keep it up... Imperfect life is real life, and we want to share your journey - your real journeys, as though you are our friends, not as though you are fake presenters of a fake show.
Hugs!!! Accidents happen and we all forget things from time to time... Especially when it's your first time doing something!!! Celebrate your successes, you fricking made it there and survived a narly storm too! Much love from Kansas and stay strong.❤️💪❤️💪❤️💪❤️
Whenever I screw up due to lack of information I feel stooopid and cheated......but after a lifetime of stubbing my toe on things because I didn't know what I didn't know, I have come to the realization the name for what I was going through was "Tuition" just like paying for college classes. Life and Success requires payments along the way....TUITION.....So.... guys you're still in the game and are that much the wiser.......lessons learned like this are never forgotten. We all Luv Ya Both......so keep on plugging. And BTW .....thanks for sharing.
Failure is not a bad thing! Fail fast and learn from it. I lead a team of a few hundred people and I actively encourage failure, that’s how we learn. Fail at the same thing over and over, learn and build. Fail for the same reasons, that is not good. Fail and learn. Makes you stronger and wiser. Keep going kids! Best thing I have ever watched. Keep going!!
The behind the scenes footage is awesome. It adds to the story and made it feel so much more “ real”. The adventures are amazing but we follow you guys because you’re amazing people also and you’re inspiring.
Jade you are not dumb. This is new for you guys, and there's so much that you both have to do to get under way. You have both done so much to get the boat ready. This is just a hiccup and as you said it is something that happens all the time. What I do love about you guys is how you both support each other and don't throw the other undre the bus that shows real maturity.
From your very first video to this one, you have shown a true journey of adventure. I have adventured enough to know that mistakes are made and everything does not go smoothly. The are the learning experiences that make life interesting!
Jade, this is part of the adventure. You and Brett are really cool to watch. Making a minor administrative error doesn't change the fact that your channel is simply fantastic.
To answer your question: Yes, I do enjoy authentic videos like this one. Shit happens, that's part of life, and not showing it would be a lie about how the experience really feels.
I think the best advice anyone can give you at this point is a simple one. " Don't read the comments." Take advice from your most loved an trusted. But for your own mental health. Stop reading the comments. You can't live like that. Love the channel.You are great. Keep doing what you do.
Thank you so much for sharing that! It was a something that we can all learn from. When I finally cross international borders, I now know not to make that same mistake.
Alas, Long after the event. I red the top 100 of 1189 comments without reading one expressing the 'criticism" you expressed concern about. All comments I read effectively said "been there, dune that" and complimented you for your heroic sail without cussing out the officious ( probably bribe seeking ) bean counter.you encountered. I salute your chemistry togeather and pray for your continuing safe adventure. Cheers !!
One thing as an aspiring sailor and TH-cam consumer that I like to see is realism. So many of the once-good channels have gone so commercial that they’ve lost touch with their viewers. I’m all for success and kudos to them but the content isn’t real and relevant to many of us. You guys keep that in mind as you grow because sailing is why most of us watch and you guys are doing a good job. Sailing content, projects, procedures and how you guys handle it give us a real idea of how it all works. Show the real side and continue to be yourselves, don’t try and be someone else because you don’t need to. Oh by the way, you guys are a family!
I'm a new subscriber. I find the issue in this episode both interesting and a little exciting. But have faith! Nothing is insurmountable. You two made it to Guatemala and have learned a lesson that I'm sure will never be repeated. Good luck!
No one thinks you’re dumb, rest assured. And on one thinks what you’re doing is easy. We admire your positive spirit, and we’re all pulling for you. Everyone makes mistakes; only the foolish and careless make the same ones over and over. Press on, and expect our full support.
So far I've never sailed outside of the EU, and I can't even imagine the ordeals we have to go through when outside those borders. Thanks for giving us things to thin about ;)
Jade I hate seeing you cry and upset. You are such a sweetheart and have to try and find it in your heart to aim for perfection but leave room to forgive yourself when you miss the mark. Welcome to the human race. As you age i hope this will become easier for you. In the meantime know your true fans love you and without judgement. Try and adopt the mantra that you dont win or lose, you win or learn! Remember no one like someone who is never wrong. That fact that you both showed us your vulnerability is what’s so beautiful about your channel. In appreciation!
Definitely don't beat yourself up about missing that part of the paperwork, seems like a rookie mistake and one that's easy to make. Also, personally love the BTS stuff of you guys working things out together but definitely just do what you're comfortable with!
I think this is one of my most favorite videos. People always talk about how perfect everything goes and so rarely post their failures which as we all know is not the way that real life works. To show that everything doesn't go perfectly the way that you did was so real, And quite frankly beautiful. Some of these shows will kind of fake drama for the sake of drama, but this was just real life and it was very appreciated. ❤
Jade, I'm like you. I beat myself up pretty bad when I make a bigger mistake like that. Then I back myself down off the ledge and hit the problem with a good dose of rational thought and learning from my mistake. No real damage done. Mistakes are inevitable and a part of life. You both handled it very well. I did want to say though you cried harder than I've every seen anyone cry. I've never seen tears actually drip off someone's face before! Not making fun of you all, I just found that interesting to see!
Behind the scenes is greatly appreciated, because real life isn’t edited. Sorry it happened. Feels like a trip to the DMV and being turned away, but on a much much bigger scale!
There is no way any normal person thinks you are dumb. We love you guys. Thanks for sharing your adventures with the rest of us who are too cowardly to try it for ourselves. You guys are AMAZING people. Please don't ever let things like this get you down. Remember life if about the journey not the destination. Enjoy your time on this rock.
Like other commenters, this doesn't sail like any kind of failure to me. The paperwork is my personal nightmare in cruising. So easy to get something wrong, and so much hinges on it. Sorry for your troubles, but you guys have achieved great things, so much more to come. I love your videos. Keep on keeping on! And of course if you are married you are family!
You both are the most beautiful family both inside and out.Dont beat yourself up for such a small error because at the end of the day, it all worked out. Worrying doesn't solve anything, it just releases unwanted chemicals into body that you don't need and deprives you of sleep. Love n hugs to you all. Myk
Loved your honesty but the reason why it’s called experience is because you go though the hard knocks of learning. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Have fun. You are alive and young with a loving partner and two great fur babies! The door to this closed for a reason and it’s a gift to you. It was once said everything is an act of love. You don’t know what this delay gave you vs took from you…it’s all good and you receive what you need. Trust that. Hugs.
The only people who never make mistakes are people who never do anything! Everyone else is human. So, take a deep breath, learn from the mistakes & get on with life! Y’all are amazing people!
I’ve been binge watching you guys from the beginning for the last week. There’s so much I could tell you right now about why I’m not there myself but I do have the boat. It’s a cute little older Catalina 30 that’s perfect for just me. Maybe a +1 if I meet the right woman but for now, it’s my project and it’s perfect for me! At 48 years old, I’m still learning that what other people think about me is none of my business and I wish those people felt the same way at times. But here I go with what I think! I’m impressed with the way you’ve taken this journey and made it yours 100%. You’ve listened to what people have had to say, accepted what fits and let go of what wouldn’t work quite as well for your path. Something I’m also still working on. I’ve seen a ton of channels like yours but not many have shown raw emotion and it’s release, only highlighting the beautiful side of sailing. This was important for me to see because it shows the reality of sailing. I’m learning a lot from your reality as I work a bit more every day to hopefully cross winds with you. You guys inspire me and when I watch your videos, I think, why not me? I have no good answer for that. So thank you for being here and not letting the nay sayers discourage you from your dreams and hearts. Side note, the logic that you’re not a family without children doesn’t make sense to me. Do you cease to be a family when the kids are grown and gone? Are you only a family again when they come to visit and no more a family when they go home? I’d like to ask that person who said you weren’t a family those questions. The way I see it, I’m still a father even though my daughter (26) grew up and now lives 2,000 miles away. I started telling people to write their opinions of me on toilet paper, it’s the only way their opinions will be useful in my life. I know, I know, it’s just my opinion but I think you guys are a family. A very beautiful and inspiring family at that. Until I see you on the water, I’ll keep you on the screen! Much love to you both!
Thanks for sharing guys. Its late where I am, so will be brief. As others have said. The gamble that you took with the boat. The incredible amount of hard work that you both put in, to make her better than 'factory' if my memory isn't playing tricks, was something I'm unlikely to forget. Mistakes are brilliant learning opportunities. You know that. So, learn the lessons and move on. Like, don't let your food stocks get so low. Or maybe, always have an emergency 'stash' of non perishables that you don't touch, unless its a genuine emergency. Crossing borders since 9/11 is one of the most bureaucratic obstacles that we have to face in our world. Most people only do this once or twice a year, for vacations. Or, not at all. So, there will be hiccups. There will be dramas. But courtesy and a smile will often open doors that previously were closed. I'm ex-UK military and while the military can be very dysfunctional compared to civilian life. It does have a lot to teach you. Like, debriefing after a 'situation', passage or whatever. It should never be a shaming session. That's not the object. Just a run through of what happened, what went well. What could've gone better. What you'd do differently next time. How you might prepare differently. Do this until it becomes a habit and you'll find yourselves doing it in a chilled conversation, naturally. Then mentally filing it away. Or putting it in your log book for future reference. I love the term satisficing. Things don't have to be done perfectly. As long as you accomplish your goals or some of them. You don't expend more time and energy achieving them than you want to and you achieve them safely etc etc It often doesn't matter that you don't hit 100% of a goal. Nobody is watching over your shoulder. Nobody is scoring you. Armchair admirals may criticise. But, they'd likely do much worse themselves. There's a saying in some branches of the military, that 'every day above ground, is a good day'. That's a low bar, you might think. But, in the military, it can be a very high bar. With what you're doing, its lowish, so basically keeping yourselves afloat in all senses every day is something to celebrate and be thankful for. Everything else on top is a bonus. As to the 'person' who corrected your definition of your family. I understand that often in life, what people say can be thought provoking and it seems to me that like me, your relish being challenged. If its done to aid growth. But what the guy said isn't fact, so far as I know. Its just his opinion. He's welcome to it. But that doesn't mean he gets to dictate what labels you or anyone else use to describe, whatever. His opinion is no more valid than any random person. In fact, he's way behind the times and needs to educate himself. The old definition of what constitutes a family has been consigned to the history books. We have all sorts of families now. Almost a kaleidoscope of possibilities. I suspect that this journey that you're on. Both physically and metaphorically. Will help you grow as people and as partners, in ways that you can't even imagine yet. You've stepped outside of your comfort zones since the start of this journey and as I'm sure you know, at least as well as I, that's where the growth is. We only get to pass here once. You've got to make your life count for something. I almost forgot. I'm really liking the new raw style. Very 'front line journalistic' ;) Hopefully it takes a lot less time to edit etc Apologies for stating the obvious. Happy trails :)
This was great footage. To let your fans see you at breaking point, however temporary, was pure genius. We loved you anyway and now we feel closer to you than ever. All that you put up with to get there, showing how tough you can be, and then you become our little girl once again, for just a moment, but you shone like a star. A saw a thousand arms go round your shoulders, including mine. You Rock, Sweetpea. We love you so much 💝.
Seeing Jade cry was rough as I knew that I couldn't do anything to help. Though I do enjoy watching all of your content. Be you (both of you)... that is what I enjoy.
This is an OUTSTANDING vlog on many, many levels by an outstanding FAMILY. Thank you for sharing your emotions and tribulations during a very trying event. You deserve so much credit for airing this vlog!
The way I try to look at mistakes is “ok, this is a problem I now know how to deal with. I wouldn’t have known how to fix this before, now I do.” Looking for how a bad situation adds to me and my experience, as opposed to how it takes away has really helped with my anxiety and perfectionism. I hope you’re both feeling much better! ❤
Ohhhh Jade. Don't beat yourself up. You are truly THE BEST. You are sooo talented! Everyone makes a mistake every now and then. You're out there learning all this stuff as you go! I think yall have been sooo successful and will continue to travel the world and go far
Wow! That was nail-biting stressfull. I can honestly say that your channel is better than Netflix!!! I am so glad things worked out (or so I hope - looking forward to the next vlog). As for “behind the scenes” parts, I am ALLLLLL for it. Keeps it real and makes us the viewers just more “part” of your journey. As for the “family” part - with all due respect to the one that commented, I personally think it is bull. My husband and I do not have kids, but we have four rescue dogs. We ARE a family, fullstop. I just honestly want to thank you for your channel. I know nuuuuuffin about sailing, and I am going with you through this adventure. I lock myself in a quiet room when I get notified of a video drop from you. I do not want to be disturbed. You are genuinely one of the most respectful channels on TH-cam. Will keep on supporting. Love and well wishes from South Africa
Shoot, the way you two are with each other, how supportive and cohesive you are, it doesn’t matter if you’re married without kiddos…you’re a family. Even if you weren’t married, you two would still be a family. Let the haters hate, live your life, enjoy everyday you have.
You two are a family. Beating yourself up for making a mistake is a mistake itself. The best learning comes from mistakes. Recognizing when you make one is the key thing. Admitting it is even better. Progressing in spite of it adds to you wisdom and judgment. Looking back on my long life, the mistakes I made often became the best of times.
Jade, you are not dumb. You are an incredible human being. I binge watched through you both rebuilding your boat and you, Jade, did incredible. Take it from a much older perfectionist, this was a minor mistake in the the grand scheme of things. Hershey’s was the right way to address the problem.
Don't feel bad. You hit the nail on the head when you said you don't know what to don't know. You've now learned and I'm sure neither of you will make that mistake again. Your subscribers are behind you and I know I appreciate how real you're being!
You are genuine , you are authentic and YOU ARE A FAMILY. Keep doing what you doing , and how much we appreciate you living lives that we would all dream about. Mistakes are made , mistakes are shared and you move on. " Mistakes have the power to turn you into something better than you were before " Love the content you share with us.
You are a couple that have become part of a family. You both with your dogs are a family. YES DOGS ARE OUR KIDS! How dare anyone call them otherwise. ❤ your adventure.
Your best video yet, showing the emotional toll sleep deprivation has on long-distance sailors, collectively fatigue is every cruisers greatest enemy, because you make mistakes when you are tired. Professional videographers: The Adventure Locker are in Rio Dulce, thinking you have a lot in common, expanding both your channels.
The only way we learn is by making mistakes. You're human. To err is human, to forgive, divine. Did you fail ? Yes. Did you learn from your failure? Yes Then you are a successful failure! SUCCESS comes in all sorts of forms some of which are more painful than others. And, you have a new experience to draw from which you have now been able to pass that knowledge on to others. We appreciate your forthrightness in admitting to your mistake(s) in front of us and we are impressed by your bravery in putting it out there for the world to see. This was not an easy thing to do and a heartbreaking thing to see. "Chin up, Buttercup." Things will improve. You've got this! 🙂 - - Chaz - VA, US
This is why I watch you guys. The transparency of what you do, good and bad, makes this one of the best channels on sailing out there. Thank you for sharing! Unknown unknowns suck, but your character shines through with how you handle it and bounce back. Cheers you two.
You guys are doing a great job, don't be so hard on yourself. Out of the many sailing channels I watch yours is now my favorite due to the realness and rawness.
Anyone can make a mistake, I do it all the time. Sometimes things work out then other times it is more complicated. The main thing is your in. Raw video is best and you do a great job of showing us your life. Thank you for that. You are a family if you say you are a family and not one can say that you are not. I cannot wait for the next installment. Enjoy the sun while here in Canada we enjoy or not, the snow.
Chins up Evans. Anybody can judge, and nothing ever goes perfectly. You are living the dream for so many of us. Do what you need to do, give yourselves grace, and move forward. Thank you for being real.
This might be my favorite episode of yours that I've seen. This shows people like me that you really are human. Normally I 2 young, very attractive people on this amazing boat that I don't think I could probably never afford making all of the right decisions and never making mistakes. (Admittedly, I haven't seen all of your videos.) That doesn't feel real. This feels real to me. This makes you seem like people that I can relate to. I was not subscribed to your channel before watching this episode. After this episode I am. Thank you for sharing this vulnerable side to people like me. I know that it was difficult for you, but it really helps me appreciate you and the difficulties that you have to overcome even more.
You asked so I’m telling you , For my part ,I don’t like the raw footage so much . I feel like I have left a negative comment so let me add - I believe you two have accomplished an amazing goal , fixing your boat , learning to sail and then you did make it there !!!!!!! You may have failed in the one small but important detail but compared to all you have accomplished you two are AMAZINGLY SUCCESSFUL!!!! And have been a joy to watch your journey !!! 😊
I don't quite know what or where to start but .... Jade...you are not dumb, stupid, nor did you fail!!!! You made a mistake. That happens in the game of life. You are both so amazing!! Jade, you are such a beautiful person...not only your outward looks, but your heart and inner beauty as well. Both your spirits are so beautiful!! Don't be down on yourselves!! If anyone criticizes either of you, they obviously have never been in the ocean and know nothing on what it takes to have the lifestyle that you both share! It's easy to criticize from the comfort of their recliner. I'm so envious of what you both have done and learned, and you must be so proud too! I'm sending you both love and hugs and and you know as well as I do, that everything will be alright. Also..love your videos and you showing your real emotions! Hope your ribs heal fast and you ARE a family!! Relax and enjoy! ❤ Myk 💕 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 💕
Wow I feel so badly for you, Jade! Anyone could make that mistake, but the energy I could feel coming from Brett is palpable! I understand frustration, but I also understand “stonewalling” and someone being twice as hard on you than you already are of yourself can be miserable. I understand the why you hate making a mistake when you only have each other. I’m happy to see these really real videos no matter how hard it must be to share. It helps a lot of people for sure. Thanks for the upload, I look forward to the next!
As a few people have stated you aren't dumb, it is just a learning experience. I didn't even know what it was or that type of paper work even existed! Learning something new, thank you. 100% family! Your furbaby's are family! Dude needs to get a grip
I really enjoy the real "takes" and the everyday life you guys share. It makes it seem more....more....there with you than other channels. Keep this stuff coming!!
Jade - You are not dumb. Things happen, don't beat yourself up more than you have. Your true fans love and support the two of you no matter what happens. Chin up, eyes forward and move on. :)
Making this video and being VULNERABLE ON FILM was very “NOT DUMB”…. Most will ID with being “HARD” on themselves as you momentarily were and having your MATE support & encourage you! Well done, Family of Sailing Videos!
I totally agree with you. And if you guys want to call yourselves a family, just do it. I am a 68 year old single widower, and I call myself a family.
I am planning to buy a sailboat when I retire from my current employer, so I like the "real life" episodes. Keep doing what you're doing. Safe travels.
Well said.
I fully agree things happen and I believe in you and Bret to figure this out and over come this new hurdle
Yeah what Wolf said
Well…I just watched the end of your video and saw the “family” comment. My husband and I considered ourselves a family as soon as we got married. We were a family for 2 years before we ever had children. Having our kids didn’t make us a family, the two of us became a family as soon as we were married. You guys are the sweetest family right now!!
No one could ever accuse either of you of failing! You both did an incredible job of rebuilding your boat, especially Jade. Chin up, best foot forward, and you’ll get there. You have a lot to be proud of, keep the video’s coming, they’re awesome
Yes....but....cruising may just NOT be your cup of tea???
Guys, we really appreciate you sharing both sides of your adventures …..we learn from your journey (successes and failures) and don’t think we think that everything on the water is 🌈 rainbows and 🐬 dolphins. Keeping your channel authentic is why we all watch and support you guys! Don’t change the honesty of your channel….taking accountability and not playing the victim is soooo refreshing! Thanks for keeping it real! Fair Winds from Boston!
You are a family. Anyone who says you are not is very jealous of who you have become together and how much you have accomplished together. Congratulations on the success of living your dream sailing around and seeing the world. Keep up the great work ands show all the people the world and all there is out there! great work! outstanding content! thanks you!
Your family is whatever you define it to be; it could include people not related to you in any way. Or animals😁😁😁
Wait they aren't married?
the behind the scenes is very very appreciated! as someone who struggles with perfectionism and having a hard time changing plans it’s reassuring to see that I’m not alone and that people i greatly admire struggle with the same stuff. You guys are doing amazing!
Don't let the missed paperwork take you down. I wouldn't consider this a fail. There is so much red tape for each country and unfortunately the best lessens I've found are by not doing something right and learning from it. Now, for the future, you'll know what is needed. Im happy you shared this video, even with the mistake, because we love seeing your adventures, good or bad. Thanks for sharing your life with us.
Thank you both for your Honesty,Vulnerability and transparency in regard to being denied entry into Guatemala. Much respect for allowing us into your humanness.... very refreshing
FAMILY!!!! Forget that random comment from a year ago! You are whatever you tell yourself!! I hope you charge rent to that commentator for allowing them to live in your head! YOU two are a beautiful family and we enjoy following along while you journey this life! You guys are an inspiration to me and my family. We are going to start sailing because of the inspiration you have inspired within us!
Peace and Love to you both!
P.s. Be kind to yourself.
P.s.s There are no failures in life, just challenges!!
This is the first time in my life hearing “Zarpe”. First thank you for sharing, I can imagine having this learning opportunity is difficult. However, you sharing it is immensely helpful. After YEARS of boating and following sailing channels, never knew zarpe was a thing.
The Zarpe is a required document everywhere in the region. You might be stopped by coastguard and they will require it, failure to show that might get you in serious trouble. i'm in Costa Rica and we go to Panama and Nicaragua often.....Zarpe is the most importan piece of documentation needed, besides passport. Be careful not to go through Nicaragua without it. they are not as friendly as Guatemala.....just a piece of advice. If in need for help here....let me know ;-)
Two things with all I see on TH-cam yours couldn't be more innocent as a widowed 72 year old man living in Great Britain with a love of boats and boating your TH-cam video is refreshing two lovely young people enjoying life what could be better as for are you a family I would say you 2 plus 2 dogs and that lovely boat constitutes more of a family than most good luck to all four of you incidentally great filming keep safe keep happy Alan
Y'all are the Evans family, regardless of one viewer's comment. Happy to hear you found a work around for a simple mistake. One more lesson learned. Love your videos, thank you for your transparency.
What an emotional rollercoaster! Sharing the full story and giving us those moments is what makes your videos so watchable. There's so many ticks on lists to be done when setting off, to miss something is probably inevitable, one thing's for sure, you'll not do it again!
Your behind the scenes videos and your honesty is so refreshing and great for other sailors, and us dreamers, to learn important lessons. ❤️
Yes. Guatemala, among other places, can deliberately make it difficult, hoping for bribes. So don't feel bad. I do not know much, but am not surprised and feel a little sad that you feel so bad. I would have reacted same way. You are amazing.
It sounds as though you have cruising experience as much as I don’t like the thought of bribing people or officials are we talking about handling the guy at $10 bill for his personal pocket if so is it does it become arguable but it’s worth it just to give them the $10 bill
I'm guessing that what they were waiting for was you to say was , "Is there some fine, or perhaps donation, that we could make that would allow us to get a visa and be allowed entry?"
@@ralphholiman7401 great script offered as how to start that conversation can be daunting
Life is a constant learning process. Reality does NOT play by a certain set of rules. I work in a hospital, and I am constantly confronted by reality and its brutal sense of humor. Guatemala entrance is just another learning experience that will not be forgotten any time soon. Just another hurdle in life’s many adventures. Everything that you have accomplished so far in both of your life’s (medical issues, becoming a pilot, college, re-building a boat, etc.). Your crying is just a release of emotions all at once. Some yell, use profanity, hit a wall, etc. this is where your dogs can be an awesome emotional support. You will conquer Guatemala, and many others around both of your journeys.
Yeah it wrong but I’ve traveled the world backpacking and I can tell you there are many borders you will not cross without paying a little! If you have all your papers in order they hate it! Best thing to do is just ask “what is the fine”. I know people will say you shouldn’t because it makes it worse but sorry yeah sometimes you should! I even saw a girl arrested at a jungle border in Asia 100’s of miles from civilisation, because she wouldn’t pay $10. To this day I dread to think what happened to her! Also those guys are probably only being paid a couple of hundred bucks a month if there lucky. They see us in are expensive boats living a life they could not even dream and yeah to be honest I don’t blame them!
I'm just starting to dream about lifestyles that I would like to have when I'm able to retire and sailing/cruising has gotten to the top of the list. I watch a bunch of videos on youtube and have seen plenty of weather/passage videos - but it all seems like an adventure with a happy ending. Being ten minutes into the video and seeing the tears and feelings that you guys are putting out in the open is refreshing. You're telling the truth. None of us have an "S" on our chest, were not perfect or infallible. It sucks to miss something that can turn out to be as big as this, but it's still real and it's valuable to those of us who are watching from half a world away. 8 months have passed since you dropped this video, and I'll catch up to you guys' most recent stuff in a matter of hours - but I hope that you've continued to show the truth in the lifestyle that you're living and I'm thinking about getting into. Thank you for documenting your truth and your life and letting us all get a glimpse of what's out there for us all (good and bad) should we be able to tighten a sheet and find the right heading. Thanks for the last 8 months that you guys lived and that I'll watch in the next few days.
Thank you.
Mistakes are NOT failures, unless you give up and never try again. Mistakes are an inevitable part of bold adventures into the unknown. You two will shake this off and sail on :)
Only if you repeat it is a mistake a failure.
beautifull said!
The only people who never make mistakes are those who never do anything. Don't let one mistake overshadow your hundreds of successes. You are an inspiration to those who dream.
I would never think badly of you guys for making a mistake. We ALL make mistakes and it is so brave of you to share that with us. I love watching everything you guys go through. The good, the bad and the mistakes! Love your channel.
Had this happen to the boat I crewed on for a summer back in my late 20's. I was just a deck hand so none of my responsibility, but it happens. As for the family bit. You are a couple, so you are a Family. Add in your fur kids and you are a thriving family.
You have just demonstrated once again that you are an amazing couple! Taking responsibility for a mistake so quickly gets all of the garbage out of the way. It doesn’t matter if you are the only ones who could have made the mistake. You could have given uncountable reasons for the error. I/we still admire the both of you for your accomplishments and for sharing all the good and not so good moments with us. This is just a little hiccup in your adventure not a roadblock. You can start your day over any time you want to.
As far as being a family, a married couple is considered a family. I have considered you two as a family and by the sharing of your life with me I feel like part of your family,as I’m sure the 315,000 subscribers do. Thanks again for your honesty, openness and love. Stay safe!
I've been yachting in the US for 40 years and never heard of a Zarpe until today. Thank you. I am now wiser and can thank you guys for that!
Honesty is the best. We follow y’all because we want to vicariously experience the journey. Thanks for being real. Life just sucks sometimes. All shall be well.
You guys bring so much integrity to your videos. The good, the bad, the ugly, you don't shy away from the realities of the sailing life. Thank you! And please keep making these videos, they are a joy to watch!
I’m sorry you guys had to go through that, your are NOT dumb, it’s hard to keep up with so much paperwork and about that guy that said your not a family he is ignorant, you are a family and your dogs are a part of your family 💯. Even if you weren’t married you still be a family… you guys share a life together. Love y’all! Wish y’all the best in your aventures and don’t let anyone’s saltiness ever affect your mental health 🥰 you both are doing great, is by making Mistakes that we learn the grates lessons. Like Thomas Edison once said “I did not failed, I just found 10,000 ways that won’t work”
Jade, don’t beat yourself up…everyone has problems and issues along the way-it’s how you deal with the negative things that make the difference. Great episode!
A mistake is never a failure! Mistakes are how we learn the hardest lessons. Kudos to the both of you for being human - perfection is never human... its obsession!
Thank you so so much for sharing the difficult times. I have been watching a couple other sailing/travel channels, and while I know that they have their struggles also, they often don't show them. This has led me to feel not so good about my own life as I also desire to live this kind of lifestyle. I've had to take a break from watching them because as they do make me happy, I feel that subconsciously they have also been making me unhappy ("why isn't my life so good?") Actually seeing the struggles you go through and not just knowing about them gives me a kind of balance when I watch your channel. It's not that I take any kind of joy in your despair, it's more about me knowing everyone struggles with certain things in life and I'm not alone in my struggles. So with that, I am sorry you've gone through some difficult experiences but thank you do very much for sharing and I hope you don't have to go through many of them. Cheers!
Sorry for the paperwork glitch. So you know, I follow you each week and I love the honesty you both showed in this episode on your content. The openness completes your filming of reality. I liked it!
Take a deep breath you two.
Perfection is a fantasy. Relax, adapt, relax, improvise… relax
Mistakes happen. You two are doing a great job! You two are definitely a family. Children only grow the size of a family. All the best!
The two of you are amazing. I think I speak for many of us in saying we feel as though we are on this journey with you. You’re open and honest and definitely not failures. We admire you both so much.
Y'all are doing great remember "Plans are of little importance, but planning is essential.”
The real life footage is what makes sharing your experiences relatable and makes people feel better about their own lives. We all make mistakes, all the time, but we live in a world where we are led to think that everyone around us leads perfect lives. It's not only interesting and good to see the hiccups in life, it's critical as a creator to contribute to the world in a positive way. I love it. Please keep it up... Imperfect life is real life, and we want to share your journey - your real journeys, as though you are our friends, not as though you are fake presenters of a fake show.
Hugs!!! Accidents happen and we all forget things from time to time... Especially when it's your first time doing something!!! Celebrate your successes, you fricking made it there and survived a narly storm too! Much love from Kansas and stay strong.❤️💪❤️💪❤️💪❤️
Whenever I screw up due to lack of information I feel stooopid and cheated......but after a lifetime of stubbing my toe on things because I didn't know what I didn't know, I have come to the realization the name for what I was going through was "Tuition" just like paying for college classes. Life and Success requires payments along the way....TUITION.....So.... guys you're still in the game and are that much the wiser.......lessons learned like this are never forgotten. We all Luv Ya Both......so keep on plugging. And BTW .....thanks for sharing.
Certainly did not have Pirates on my bingo card…. Glad you got it sorted.
Failure is not a bad thing! Fail fast and learn from it. I lead a team of a few hundred people and I actively encourage failure, that’s how we learn. Fail at the same thing over and over, learn and build. Fail for the same reasons, that is not good. Fail and learn. Makes you stronger and wiser. Keep going kids! Best thing I have ever watched. Keep going!!
The behind the scenes footage is awesome. It adds to the story and made it feel so much more “ real”. The adventures are amazing but we follow you guys because you’re amazing people also and you’re inspiring.
Jade you are not dumb. This is new for you guys, and there's so much that you both have to do to get under way. You have both done so much to get the boat ready. This is just a hiccup and as you said it is something that happens all the time. What I do love about you guys is how you both support each other and don't throw the other undre the bus that shows real maturity.
From your very first video to this one, you have shown a true journey of adventure. I have adventured enough to know that mistakes are made and everything does not go smoothly. The are the learning experiences that make life interesting!
Jade, this is part of the adventure. You and Brett are really cool to watch. Making a minor administrative error doesn't change the fact that your channel is simply fantastic.
To answer your question: Yes, I do enjoy authentic videos like this one. Shit happens, that's part of life, and not showing it would be a lie about how the experience really feels.
I think the best advice anyone can give you at this point is a simple one. " Don't read the comments." Take advice from your most loved an trusted. But for your own mental health. Stop reading the comments. You can't live like that. Love the channel.You are great. Keep doing what you do.
Thank you so much for sharing that! It was a something that we can all learn from. When I finally cross international borders, I now know not to make that same mistake.
Alas, Long after the event. I red the top 100 of 1189 comments without reading one expressing the 'criticism" you expressed concern about. All comments I read effectively said "been there, dune that" and complimented you for your heroic sail without cussing out the officious ( probably bribe seeking ) bean counter.you encountered. I salute your chemistry togeather and pray for your continuing safe adventure. Cheers !!
Loving the behind the scenes. Keeping it authentic ❤️. Good luck guys
One thing as an aspiring sailor and TH-cam consumer that I like to see is realism. So many of the once-good channels have gone so commercial that they’ve lost touch with their viewers. I’m all for success and kudos to them but the content isn’t real and relevant to many of us. You guys keep that in mind as you grow because sailing is why most of us watch and you guys are doing a good job. Sailing content, projects, procedures and how you guys handle it give us a real idea of how it all works. Show the real side and continue to be yourselves, don’t try and be someone else because you don’t need to. Oh by the way, you guys are a family!
I'm a new subscriber. I find the issue in this episode both interesting and a little exciting. But have faith! Nothing is insurmountable. You two made it to Guatemala and have learned a lesson that I'm sure will never be repeated. Good luck!
No one thinks you’re dumb, rest assured. And on one thinks what you’re doing is easy. We admire your positive spirit, and we’re all pulling for you. Everyone makes mistakes; only the foolish and careless make the same ones over and over. Press on, and expect our full support.
So far I've never sailed outside of the EU, and I can't even imagine the ordeals we have to go through when outside those borders. Thanks for giving us things to thin about ;)
Jade I hate seeing you cry and upset. You are such a sweetheart and have to try and find it in your heart to aim for perfection but leave room to forgive yourself when you miss the mark. Welcome to the human race. As you age i hope this will become easier for you. In the meantime know your true fans love you and without judgement. Try and adopt the mantra that you dont win or lose, you win or learn! Remember no one like someone who is never wrong. That fact that you both showed us your vulnerability is what’s so beautiful about your channel. In appreciation!
After making mistakes for 75 years the hardest thing you need to learn is how to forgive yourself nobody’s perfect
I'm glad that you've been very honest on your vlog from beginning to present. Love you guys and it's going to be great.
Definitely don't beat yourself up about missing that part of the paperwork, seems like a rookie mistake and one that's easy to make.
Also, personally love the BTS stuff of you guys working things out together but definitely just do what you're comfortable with!
I think this is one of my most favorite videos. People always talk about how perfect everything goes and so rarely post their failures which as we all know is not the way that real life works. To show that everything doesn't go perfectly the way that you did was so real, And quite frankly beautiful. Some of these shows will kind of fake drama for the sake of drama, but this was just real life and it was very appreciated. ❤
You need to get some better chocolate if you are going to use it to cope. Hershey's is just above cardboard.
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Jade, I'm like you. I beat myself up pretty bad when I make a bigger mistake like that. Then I back myself down off the ledge and hit the problem with a good dose of rational thought and learning from my mistake. No real damage done. Mistakes are inevitable and a part of life. You both handled it very well. I did want to say though you cried harder than I've every seen anyone cry. I've never seen tears actually drip off someone's face before! Not making fun of you all, I just found that interesting to see!
Behind the scenes is greatly appreciated, because real life isn’t edited. Sorry it happened. Feels like a trip to the DMV and being turned away, but on a much much bigger scale!
There is no way any normal person thinks you are dumb. We love you guys. Thanks for sharing your adventures with the rest of us who are too cowardly to try it for ourselves. You guys are AMAZING people. Please don't ever let things like this get you down. Remember life if about the journey not the destination. Enjoy your time on this rock.
Like other commenters, this doesn't sail like any kind of failure to me. The paperwork is my personal nightmare in cruising. So easy to get something wrong, and so much hinges on it. Sorry for your troubles, but you guys have achieved great things, so much more to come. I love your videos. Keep on keeping on! And of course if you are married you are family!
You both are the most beautiful family both inside and out.Dont beat yourself up for such a small error because at the end of the day, it all worked out. Worrying doesn't solve anything, it just releases unwanted chemicals into body that you don't need and deprives you of sleep.
Love n hugs to you all. Myk
There are so many places around the globe where the locals are not only hostile, but actually dangerous ! I hope the two of remain safe !
Loved your honesty but the reason why it’s called experience is because you go though the hard knocks of learning. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Have fun. You are alive and young with a loving partner and two great fur babies! The door to this closed for a reason and it’s a gift to you. It was once said everything is an act of love. You don’t know what this delay gave you vs took from you…it’s all good and you receive what you need. Trust that. Hugs.
The only people who never make mistakes are people who never do anything! Everyone else is human. So, take a deep breath, learn from the mistakes & get on with life! Y’all are amazing people!
I’ve been binge watching you guys from the beginning for the last week. There’s so much I could tell you right now about why I’m not there myself but I do have the boat. It’s a cute little older Catalina 30 that’s perfect for just me. Maybe a +1 if I meet the right woman but for now, it’s my project and it’s perfect for me! At 48 years old, I’m still learning that what other people think about me is none of my business and I wish those people felt the same way at times. But here I go with what I think! I’m impressed with the way you’ve taken this journey and made it yours 100%. You’ve listened to what people have had to say, accepted what fits and let go of what wouldn’t work quite as well for your path. Something I’m also still working on. I’ve seen a ton of channels like yours but not many have shown raw emotion and it’s release, only highlighting the beautiful side of sailing. This was important for me to see because it shows the reality of sailing. I’m learning a lot from your reality as I work a bit more every day to hopefully cross winds with you. You guys inspire me and when I watch your videos, I think, why not me? I have no good answer for that. So thank you for being here and not letting the nay sayers discourage you from your dreams and hearts. Side note, the logic that you’re not a family without children doesn’t make sense to me. Do you cease to be a family when the kids are grown and gone? Are you only a family again when they come to visit and no more a family when they go home? I’d like to ask that person who said you weren’t a family those questions. The way I see it, I’m still a father even though my daughter (26) grew up and now lives 2,000 miles away. I started telling people to write their opinions of me on toilet paper, it’s the only way their opinions will be useful in my life. I know, I know, it’s just my opinion but I think you guys are a family. A very beautiful and inspiring family at that. Until I see you on the water, I’ll keep you on the screen! Much love to you both!
Thanks for sharing guys. Its late where I am, so will be brief. As others have said. The gamble that you took with the boat. The incredible amount of hard work that you both put in, to make her better than 'factory' if my memory isn't playing tricks, was something I'm unlikely to forget. Mistakes are brilliant learning opportunities. You know that. So, learn the lessons and move on. Like, don't let your food stocks get so low. Or maybe, always have an emergency 'stash' of non perishables that you don't touch, unless its a genuine emergency.
Crossing borders since 9/11 is one of the most bureaucratic obstacles that we have to face in our world. Most people only do this once or twice a year, for vacations. Or, not at all. So, there will be hiccups. There will be dramas. But courtesy and a smile will often open doors that previously were closed.
I'm ex-UK military and while the military can be very dysfunctional compared to civilian life. It does have a lot to teach you.
Like, debriefing after a 'situation', passage or whatever. It should never be a shaming session. That's not the object.
Just a run through of what happened, what went well. What could've gone better. What you'd do differently next time. How you might prepare differently. Do this until it becomes a habit and you'll find yourselves doing it in a chilled conversation, naturally. Then mentally filing it away. Or putting it in your log book for future reference.
I love the term satisficing. Things don't have to be done perfectly. As long as you accomplish your goals or some of them. You don't expend more time and energy achieving them than you want to and you achieve them safely etc etc It often doesn't matter that you don't hit 100% of a goal. Nobody is watching over your shoulder. Nobody is scoring you. Armchair admirals may criticise. But, they'd likely do much worse themselves. There's a saying in some branches of the military, that 'every day above ground, is a good day'. That's a low bar, you might think.
But, in the military, it can be a very high bar. With what you're doing, its lowish, so basically keeping yourselves afloat in all senses every day is something to celebrate and be thankful for. Everything else on top is a bonus.
As to the 'person' who corrected your definition of your family. I understand that often in life, what people say can be thought provoking and it seems to me that like me, your relish being challenged. If its done to aid growth. But what the guy said isn't fact, so far as I know. Its just his opinion. He's welcome to it. But that doesn't mean he gets to dictate what labels you or anyone else use to describe, whatever.
His opinion is no more valid than any random person. In fact, he's way behind the times and needs to educate himself. The old definition of what constitutes a family has been consigned to the history books. We have all sorts of families now. Almost a kaleidoscope of possibilities.
I suspect that this journey that you're on. Both physically and metaphorically. Will help you grow as people and as partners, in ways that you can't even imagine yet. You've stepped outside of your comfort zones since the start of this journey and as I'm sure you know, at least as well as I, that's where the growth is. We only get to pass here once. You've got to make your life count for something.
I almost forgot. I'm really liking the new raw style. Very 'front line journalistic' ;) Hopefully it takes a lot less time to edit etc
Apologies for stating the obvious.
Happy trails :)
This was great footage. To let your fans see you at breaking point, however temporary, was pure genius. We loved you anyway and now we feel closer to you than ever. All that you put up with to get there, showing how tough you can be, and then you become our little girl once again, for just a moment, but you shone like a star. A saw a thousand arms go round your shoulders, including mine. You Rock, Sweetpea. We love you so much 💝.
Seeing Jade cry was rough as I knew that I couldn't do anything to help. Though I do enjoy watching all of your content. Be you (both of you)... that is what I enjoy.
This is an OUTSTANDING vlog on many, many levels by an outstanding FAMILY. Thank you for sharing your emotions and tribulations during a very trying event. You deserve so much credit for airing this vlog!
The way I try to look at mistakes is “ok, this is a problem I now know how to deal with. I wouldn’t have known how to fix this before, now I do.” Looking for how a bad situation adds to me and my experience, as opposed to how it takes away has really helped with my anxiety and perfectionism. I hope you’re both feeling much better! ❤
Ohhhh Jade. Don't beat yourself up. You are truly THE BEST. You are sooo talented! Everyone makes a mistake every now and then. You're out there learning all this stuff as you go! I think yall have been sooo successful and will continue to travel the world and go far
I love seeing the "reality" and the raw emotion. It's good to see what yet expect as we hope to do that someday too! Hang in there!
Wow! That was nail-biting stressfull. I can honestly say that your channel is better than Netflix!!!
I am so glad things worked out (or so I hope - looking forward to the next vlog).
As for “behind the scenes” parts, I am ALLLLLL for it. Keeps it real and makes us the viewers just more “part” of your journey.
As for the “family” part - with all due respect to the one that commented, I personally think it is bull. My husband and I do not have kids, but we have four rescue dogs. We ARE a family, fullstop.
I just honestly want to thank you for your channel. I know nuuuuuffin about sailing, and I am going with you through this adventure. I lock myself in a quiet room when I get notified of a video drop from you. I do not want to be disturbed.
You are genuinely one of the most respectful channels on TH-cam. Will keep on supporting.
Love and well wishes from South Africa
SHAKEDAOWN.......
You are 100% a family! If I filled all my mistakes the critics could have a field day. No mistakes just learning adventures.
Shoot, the way you two are with each other, how supportive and cohesive you are, it doesn’t matter if you’re married without kiddos…you’re a family. Even if you weren’t married, you two would still be a family.
Let the haters hate, live your life, enjoy everyday you have.
You two are a family. Beating yourself up for making a mistake is a mistake itself. The best learning comes from mistakes. Recognizing when you make one is the key thing. Admitting it is even better. Progressing in spite of it adds to you wisdom and judgment. Looking back on my long life, the mistakes I made often became the best of times.
Jade, you are not dumb. You are an incredible human being. I binge watched through you both rebuilding your boat and you, Jade, did incredible. Take it from a much older perfectionist, this was a minor mistake in the the grand scheme of things. Hershey’s was the right way to address the problem.
Don't feel bad. You hit the nail on the head when you said you don't know what to don't know. You've now learned and I'm sure neither of you will make that mistake again. Your subscribers are behind you and I know I appreciate how real you're being!
You are genuine , you are authentic and YOU ARE A FAMILY. Keep doing what you doing , and how much we appreciate you living lives that we would all dream about. Mistakes are made , mistakes are shared and you move on. " Mistakes have the power to turn you into something better than you were before " Love the content you share with us.
You guys got this. Don't sweat that stuff. Love you guys and what you are doing. Stay strong.
You are a couple that have become part of a family. You both with your dogs are a family.
YES DOGS ARE OUR KIDS!
How dare anyone call them otherwise.
❤ your adventure.
Your best video yet, showing the emotional toll sleep deprivation has on long-distance sailors, collectively fatigue is every cruisers greatest enemy, because you make mistakes when you are tired. Professional videographers: The Adventure Locker are in Rio Dulce, thinking you have a lot in common, expanding both your channels.
The only way we learn is by making mistakes. You're human. To err is human, to forgive, divine.
Did you fail ? Yes.
Did you learn from your failure? Yes
Then you are a successful failure! SUCCESS comes in all sorts of forms some of which are more painful than others.
And, you have a new experience to draw from which you have now been able to pass that knowledge on to others.
We appreciate your forthrightness in admitting to your mistake(s) in front of us and we are impressed by your bravery in putting it out there for the world to see. This was not an easy thing to do and a heartbreaking thing to see. "Chin up, Buttercup." Things will improve. You've got this! 🙂
- - Chaz - VA, US
Behind the scenes shows the realism of what you live with and what we would feel even though we are not there. Keep it up!
Thanks!
This is why I watch you guys. The transparency of what you do, good and bad, makes this one of the best channels on sailing out there. Thank you for sharing! Unknown unknowns suck, but your character shines through with how you handle it and bounce back. Cheers you two.
You guys are doing a great job, don't be so hard on yourself. Out of the many sailing channels I watch yours is now my favorite due to the realness and rawness.
Anyone can make a mistake, I do it all the time. Sometimes things work out then other times it is more complicated. The main thing is your in. Raw video is best and you do a great job of showing us your life. Thank you for that. You are a family if you say you are a family and not one can say that you are not. I cannot wait for the next installment. Enjoy the sun while here in Canada we enjoy or not, the snow.
Chins up Evans. Anybody can judge, and nothing ever goes perfectly. You are living the dream for so many of us. Do what you need to do, give yourselves grace, and move forward. Thank you for being real.
This might be my favorite episode of yours that I've seen. This shows people like me that you really are human. Normally I 2 young, very attractive people on this amazing boat that I don't think I could probably never afford making all of the right decisions and never making mistakes. (Admittedly, I haven't seen all of your videos.) That doesn't feel real. This feels real to me. This makes you seem like people that I can relate to. I was not subscribed to your channel before watching this episode. After this episode I am. Thank you for sharing this vulnerable side to people like me. I know that it was difficult for you, but it really helps me appreciate you and the difficulties that you have to overcome even more.
I totally feel you on this and you are so brave to show your vulnerability. You are living the life I want, mistakes/lessons and all!
You asked so I’m telling you ,
For my part ,I don’t like the raw footage so much .
I feel like I have left a negative comment so let me add -
I believe you two have accomplished an amazing goal , fixing your boat , learning to sail and then you did make it there !!!!!!!
You may have failed in the one small but important detail but compared to all you have accomplished you two are AMAZINGLY SUCCESSFUL!!!!
And have been a joy to watch your journey !!! 😊
In my experience , the person who never made a mistake, never did anything. So, take heart You have done a lot more than a lot of people.
I don't quite know what or where to start but ....
Jade...you are not dumb, stupid, nor did you fail!!!! You made a mistake. That happens in the game of life. You are both so amazing!! Jade, you are such a beautiful person...not only your outward looks, but your heart and inner beauty as well. Both your spirits are so beautiful!! Don't be down on yourselves!! If anyone criticizes either of you, they obviously have never been in the ocean and know nothing on what it takes to have the lifestyle that you both share! It's easy to criticize from the comfort of their recliner. I'm so envious of what you both have done and learned, and you must be so proud too! I'm sending you both love and hugs and and you know as well as I do, that everything will be alright. Also..love your videos and you showing your real emotions! Hope your ribs heal fast and you ARE a family!! Relax and enjoy! ❤ Myk
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Wow I feel so badly for you, Jade! Anyone could make that mistake, but the energy I could feel coming from Brett is palpable! I understand frustration, but I also understand “stonewalling” and someone being twice as hard on you than you already are of yourself can be miserable. I understand the why you hate making a mistake when you only have each other.
I’m happy to see these really real videos no matter how hard it must be to share. It helps a lot of people for sure.
Thanks for the upload, I look forward to the next!
Penny's utter devotion...no question....you're certainly a part of your dogs family!
As a few people have stated you aren't dumb, it is just a learning experience. I didn't even know what it was or that type of paper work even existed! Learning something new, thank you. 100% family! Your furbaby's are family! Dude needs to get a grip
I really enjoy the real "takes" and the everyday life you guys share. It makes it seem more....more....there with you than other channels. Keep this stuff coming!!