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Side Effects of Respect | Small Doses Podcast

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  • This week I examine what it really means to respect and be respected.
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  • @tiffanymayeseholor9001
    @tiffanymayeseholor9001 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Speak with out being offensive
    Listen without being defensive
    Always leave your opponent with dignity

    • @OGK-1414
      @OGK-1414 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely 100% true
      Though, I must add that if my attempt to speak without offense causes someone to become defensive, which turns into them being offensive and treating me without dignity, I will leave with zero dignity.

  • @dwight9012
    @dwight9012 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dope perspective Amanda. One thing that resonates with me is when you said respect at its core is to treat someone as human. That for me is why I prefer respect over love. So often black people are disregarded in life and for myself as a man love is a currency that I can’t really do much with. I’m fully aware of gravity of my statement. It is what is. Now for me I do not desire to be above anyone as a hierarchy but respect respect feels like love or a close second. It assures (an ideal comfort not always guaranteed) me that I’m safe moving in this world.

  • @ShawneeseUniverse
    @ShawneeseUniverse ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Phew!!!! 🔥 It’s humble to call this podcast small doses, because this was a LARGE dose. I loved every second ❤ it really has me analyzing myself and the people around me.

  • @jeromyrichardson319
    @jeromyrichardson319 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This was so informative, definitely needs a part 2!

  • @Lishahomespace
    @Lishahomespace ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Journal in hand, I’m ready ❤

  • @jaydellecelestine3504
    @jaydellecelestine3504 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Wow! This particular episode got me a bit emotional and was very timely for me. It has helped me in having to make what I thought would be some very difficult decisions. Thank you for sharing, I know at the beginning you mentioned being emotionally drained and dealing with some personal things, but thank you for still taking the time to make another impactful episode. I hope you're in a much better space now emotionally 🙏🏾. As for the end of the episode, if you did decide to do a part 2 I would be here for it! Thank you, again!

    • @TheRetroWoman80
      @TheRetroWoman80 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ikr, me too!! I could listen to what comes out of her brain for hours.

    • @OGK-1414
      @OGK-1414 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too.. I think a lot of us are in similar boats that this video could help us through.
      Good luck with everything.

  • @TheRetroWoman80
    @TheRetroWoman80 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Those who question things end up answering things too. Amanda, the real world does not want us to get to this point because then they would have to revere us, even if reluctantly. BUT, at the very least, they would respect (fear) us because of the knowledge. No matter what "they" do or don't do, keep doing what you're doing lady while encouraging others ❤

  • @Tarrns
    @Tarrns ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love it here.

  • @Daily_Peptalks
    @Daily_Peptalks 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Amanda. I always feel smarter after watching you. Truth bombs and expansion of my vocabulary. ❤

  • @baldheadronbhr76
    @baldheadronbhr76 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m here for a part two, this was very eye opening! 💯💯💯💯

  • @lorigarner8849
    @lorigarner8849 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are soo amazing! You are preaching to me. I'm known as a nice person. But now I'm learning to keep certain people out of my space.

  • @DoctorJoanieTool
    @DoctorJoanieTool ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just love ‘Small Doses’ Amanda. Thank you very much for posting these podcasts on TH-cam. I love to watch the video - I enjoy podcasts best in visual form. I love your topics and your guests and your thoughts. *Re: tossing ‘respect’ around as society tends to do with words goes hand a
    In hand with ‘boundaries’. Both used in similar settings and are ubiquitous - need some more detailed analysis and usage in everyday life. So we all can interact with each other in the healthiest way possible. Thank you for everything that you do. I know what a hard worker you are - how many irons you have in the fire at any given time. I - NOT TO BE FLIPPANT - respect you so very much. Thank you. ☮️

  • @Mr.LloydMarksHoodoo45
    @Mr.LloydMarksHoodoo45 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Respect your self ma. Buz you deserve it ❤

  • @DelilahArmenta-qr8ie
    @DelilahArmenta-qr8ie ปีที่แล้ว

    Respect vs. Revere. Hmmmmm... love that

  • @NewBeginnings2.0
    @NewBeginnings2.0 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Part 2 please!! Love from 🇰🇪

  • @workedfriday
    @workedfriday ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Amanda! Long time podcast fan and listened to this episode the other day and wanted to listen to it again because 12/10 stars! 1) Loved how you sang the welcome to another episode... 2) Sending you a big hug for the human feels. It's been hella gloomy here in LA and I felt my mood plummet. 3) All of the topics were spot on. Especially appreciated the points on authority figures demanding respect w/o demonstrating it themselves, and the respect of animal life. Loved that you stood against animal torture. Would listen to part 2 if it's on the agenda. Thank you for showing up consistently for us - you challenge, educate, and elevate my thinking. Also give me the giggles. love ya!

  • @TheWritingsonthewalls
    @TheWritingsonthewalls 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're soo beautiful Amanda! Inside and out 💫✨️

  • @FemmeFatale-
    @FemmeFatale- ปีที่แล้ว

    “Gathered Caitlyn Jenner like a ponytail” heheeee chile ima 5eva ride for Amanda

  • @melissab8653
    @melissab8653 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always the real good stuff! Should I laugh or cry 👍

  • @shakesrear7850
    @shakesrear7850 ปีที่แล้ว

    I having to pause this so much? So much!

  • @ROA1988
    @ROA1988 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the solo episodes

  • @mskels6
    @mskels6 ปีที่แล้ว

    soooooo on point relationships and respect. Thank you! Have you considered academia? You are definitely professor Seales

  • @shakesrear7850
    @shakesrear7850 ปีที่แล้ว

    These distinctions; virtues and vices only evolve and only exist ONLY exist as measures of what life is worth.

  • @classactlady
    @classactlady ปีที่แล้ว

    🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️

  • @alanakemp7664
    @alanakemp7664 ปีที่แล้ว

    Respect is treating someone like your grandmother would expect you to . Grandma's born before 1969 of course.

  • @francine4651
    @francine4651 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Amanda ☺️♥️

  • @CJ-hn8kq
    @CJ-hn8kq ปีที่แล้ว +1

    14:13 How did these kind of cops pass their mental health evaluation? Smh

  • @folamimoon6395
    @folamimoon6395 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @prosperitywoman4life
    @prosperitywoman4life ปีที่แล้ว

    I admire people’s accomplishments/skill set and the way they focus. I definitely feel that a basic level of respect is implied and logical. But if I’m treated with less regard, the respect is out the window. Even though I can admire someone’s accomplishments, I can still lose respect for them. I think it’s messed up that race and complexion always plays a role in who is more worthy of respect than another. I was also thinking about the attire choice during the interaction with Kaitlen Jenner, and how darker skinned ppl bleach their skin for the same reason. They don’t want to be viewed automatically as a threat so they bleach it, to not only meet a beauty standard, but also to be given more of a certain level of respect. Sad frfr.

    • @the2ndcoming135
      @the2ndcoming135 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well, I’m not sure how the skin bleaching thing is any different from other types of cosmetic surgeries. Not to mention sex changes etc.

  • @trufnessism
    @trufnessism ปีที่แล้ว

    What do you think about Acknowledgement, as the basis for respect, reverence, deference, etc.? ...I would LOOVE to hear you break down 'Acknowledgement,' as you've done so well and beastily with these terms, yo! ...But for me, Acknowledgement, is supreme; as it is meant to come and go--like Attention. However, these other terms like respect and reverence, have this stereotype that because they should be 'earned,' they are the all-in-all beez kneez top tier feeling that one person can show another--even though it doesn't carry that same elasticity to be able to be lost and re-gained. Acknowledgement, to me, seems safer to seek in people, as it doesn't come with such unspoken, pre-arranged criteria of agreement...or pedestal-high-horsed-ness, in a sense. Acknowledgement also doesn't need to be 'earned' in those same regards. But idk, what's your take on 'Acknowledgement,' as a less-messy, super basic level of human interaction and connection?

  • @invaderzimii
    @invaderzimii ปีที่แล้ว

    I thought Jason Lee said he did an interview on your podcast ? Is it still coming out?

    • @TheAmandaSeales
      @TheAmandaSeales  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes. We only put out one episode a week

    • @invaderzimii
      @invaderzimii ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheAmandaSeales thanks!

  • @vaincobra726
    @vaincobra726 ปีที่แล้ว

    #8

  • @didierarteis
    @didierarteis 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lauryn Hill Nov 5th?❤

  • @didierarteis
    @didierarteis 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mario. Let Me Love You.

  • @CJ-hn8kq
    @CJ-hn8kq ปีที่แล้ว +1

    24:13 How did these people pass their mental health evaluation? Smh

  • @the2ndcoming135
    @the2ndcoming135 ปีที่แล้ว

    💆🏽‍♀️💆🏽‍♂️
    🛋

  • @rubynovel
    @rubynovel ปีที่แล้ว

    How many episodes for the side effects of woke ness?😮

  • @CJ-hn8kq
    @CJ-hn8kq ปีที่แล้ว

    5:30 that sounds like a mental illness

  • @YangaLytBear47
    @YangaLytBear47 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amanda when is the immortal technique episode coming out????!!!!!

  • @LetsBeClear87
    @LetsBeClear87 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ooooooo it’s about to get 🗣️🫵SO real 🎁🫣🍿

  • @rubynovel
    @rubynovel ปีที่แล้ว

    How many episodes for the side effects of woke ness?😮