INFJ's are MADE from TRAUMA. The gifts that trauma gives the infj.

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  • @shumailaarshadkhan8060
    @shumailaarshadkhan8060 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    INFJ - A here and yeah low blood pressure is right on point ! 😅

  • @INFJCHECKMATE
    @INFJCHECKMATE  7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    If you haven't looked at it from this angle before then here you go!! ❤

    • @safethamzagic7226
      @safethamzagic7226 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The resilience amazes me. Where many have fallen I was in easy mode. I used to tell people that my words carry weight. Now I know it because I was reading them like a book and I would hit them where it hurts, aka the door slam.

    • @ericb2871
      @ericb2871 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      This isn't a facts about INFJs video. This is a facts about "THIS" INFJ video. 🤣😂 And I absolutely love it. My favorite video yet. I love the energy and frequency you emit in the video. It physically gives me joy. 🥰 I now have the image of chess snug as a bug in ER for something trivial and it makes me snicker to myself.
      As a forged in fire INFJ myself this resonates for me. I know exactly what your talking about. That's why I believe I can do anything. I've already came out the otherside of impossible, adulthood is in a sense childsplay now.
      I think I have the low heartrate too. But I do jog so maybe I'm cheating. When I jog I listen to music and audiobooks. Sometimes these videos. And sometimes along the beach as well. 😊

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @ericb2871 Well I'm here thinking to myself, damn Chess, you made it too personal. Maybe these aren't broad INFJ thoughts/mindsets. BUT I'm happy that the video made you happy!! Even if it's because you can now visualize me being neurotic about my health 🤣. But seriously, I was in a good mood when filming this video and it's interesting that that can be felt by someone, I mean not just my tone of voice but also my energy. Goes to show we are always giving out vibes (even when we don't want to lol)
      In any case, thanks for the compliment, hope that gave you your hit 😁😉

    • @ericb2871
      @ericb2871 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@INFJCHECKMATE I can't resist a good atmosphere. It just bubbles up and spills out of me. 😅 Like watching kids open up presents on Christmas morning. Speaking of which, the holidays are closing in. I hope your atmosphere remains unchanged in the hustle and bustle.
      You know what I like about Christmas Chess? Christmas is the only time of year you can sit in front of a dead tree eating candy out of socks and no one questions it...

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ericb2871 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Omg that's hilarious!! I never thought of that! 😂 My goal is always to be relaxed and happy around the holidays, here's hoping I succeed. I still have to watch Home Alone, that is mandatory lol. And hopefully you stay stress free too, although to be honest for some reason I can't imagine you being stressed. I mean I know of course you must have your moments but I can't see it lasting long.

  • @professorBoulevard
    @professorBoulevard 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your channel reminds me of The Pimp god channel. It has the pimp god energy.

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@professorBoulevard I had to look this up...you really think so? How would you describe his energy??

    • @professorBoulevard
      @professorBoulevard 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @INFJCHECKMATE Quiet around people he doesn't know unless someone says something to him. You know the," don't spoke unless spoken to". Always happy in general; if you ask him what he's thinking; he'll say, " nothing". Seems to know whatever someone asks him. I think the reason he seems to know everything is because he's always into stuff. He once as a teen, asked his mom;" why do I act like this"? Oh yeah, he's to himself and overly goal oriented. Done with the friends thing.

    • @professorBoulevard
      @professorBoulevard 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @INFJCHECKMATE He once defined Deities and Gods on a job interview; I tell you sometimes he has no chill.😅

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@professorBoulevard Hmmm, interesting. So that is how you see me? Or maybe it's just the happy part?

    • @professorBoulevard
      @professorBoulevard 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@INFJCHECKMATE Is this you thinking out loud?

  • @muemmel20
    @muemmel20 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You should become a voice actor if you aren't already. Effing amazing voice.
    Edited for creepiness. :D

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@muemmel20 I'm beaming over here!! Blushing and a big grin 😁😁...thank you!!
      Btw, the curious cat in me wants to know what the unedited version said 😂

    • @ericb2871
      @ericb2871 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@INFJCHECKMATE Muemmel is right. You have a talent. I'm not sure if it would interest you, but I think you should consider watching this video.
      Essential Terminology Every Audiobook Narrator Should Know! (2025) by VoiceOverAngela

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ericb2871 Eric, I have so much to say!! First of all, thank you for that! Is this something you have researched before? Have you thought of doing narration? Who knows, maybe you already do?? I just watched the video, it was really informative! Hmmm.....maybe one day, who knows? This might be an odd question but do you think I sound like her? I'm not getting specific with that question because I wanna see what your uninfluenced opinion is.

    • @ericb2871
      @ericb2871 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@INFJCHECKMATE hmmm, I don't know if you will believe me but I'll tell you anyways. Its going to be a wild turn though. 😅 My TH-cam algorithm is not natural. It's actually kinda experimental. I wiped my channel a long time ago and only fed it audio and visual appealing data (to me). Hundreds of videos of watch time I had preselected for years. I basically was looking for a way to find more art and expand out of my bubble. Then I fed it consice info dumps on psychology, science, literature. Now my feed kinda auto puts useful info in front of me. I don't really have to search for anything. I got that video fed to me beginning of December. By extension of my algorithm experiment your channel represents an aspect of audio or visual beauty. Your thumb nails+your audio most likely. So feel proud. 🤭 But no. I'm not into becoming a narrator or anything like that. 🤣😂 But I am into writing so anything in that category thats useful I get casually. I don't think you sound like her. I think you have more of an Eris from Sinbad vibe. It's the confidence. 😏

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ericb2871 Wow, I have never heard of anyone doing that with their TH-cam feed. You're right, I don't believe you 😂😂 just kidding! Why wouldn't I?? So do you watch every video that comes into your feed then? And do you subscribe to anything or just let whatever comes in come in? And yes, I'm honored that I made the cut 😁.
      So you're interested in writing....have you managed to do that? What do you want to write? Fiction, non fiction....? I have toyed with writing myself so I find that interesting.
      Now, as for my voice...I didn't know who eris was, I had to look her up......wow!!!! She's a vibe!!!! I think I might have a crush on her!!! 😂😂😂.

  • @AskAuntChina
    @AskAuntChina 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I like to keep my stress, cortisol and blood pressure low. I just told my friend I was too nosey to hate my childhood visits to the ER (asthma)
    You’re channel is 🔥🔥

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@AskAuntChina Thanks babe!! 🤍

    • @AskAuntChina
      @AskAuntChina 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      💕you’re welcome

  • @Akhezart
    @Akhezart 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So true, I am very sensitive and can feel everything but I am very resilient, like bamboo, bend but don’t break. One of my friend calls me Titanium😅

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Akhezart Sometimes it's tiring being titanium, no? But it's better than the alternative, right?

  • @flyingduck1589
    @flyingduck1589 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Haha, story of my life - beeing concerned about health. I can be really anoying to myself. Thx for sharing.

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@flyingduck1589 Yah, it is annoying isn't it!? But I figure at least if something does happen (God forbid). I won't have the regret of not checking in on my health.

  • @EpicWarDog
    @EpicWarDog 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Omg me too. My blood pressure runs high 40's to mid 50's.

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@EpicWarDog You're an athlete!!! Is that when sleeping or just chilling on the couch?

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@EpicWarDog My lowest while chilling out was 46! I remember seeing my smartwatch going 52...50...48...46....and I thought holy sh*t, I'm dying!!!! 😂😂. But generally I stick around 55-60.

    • @EpicWarDog
      @EpicWarDog 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@INFJCHECKMATE chilling ...

    • @EpicWarDog
      @EpicWarDog 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @INFJCHECKMATE I do stay very active though.

    • @EpicWarDog
      @EpicWarDog 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@INFJCHECKMATE I really enjoy your videos. You always seem to be on point. You are very intelligent. Thank you!

  • @rachelhudson4370
    @rachelhudson4370 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No, we don't all have low blood pressure. I actually have high blood pressure.

  • @Thisfuqinguyhere
    @Thisfuqinguyhere 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    88 beats a minute I can set a clock with it 😮

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Thisfuqinguyhere Wow, it sticks to 88 steady?? That's your resting heart rate? Have you ever worn a smart watch to bed to see what it is when you sleep? Sorry if that's too personal but I'm curious, I find this kind of stuff fascinating.

    • @Thisfuqinguyhere
      @Thisfuqinguyhere 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ I’m sure it fluctuates lol

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @Thisfuqinguyhere lol, so maybe don't set a clock to it 🤣🤣

    • @Thisfuqinguyhere
      @Thisfuqinguyhere 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ just an expression 😉

  • @AskAuntChina
    @AskAuntChina 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    😂😂❤❤
    My my my…

  • @cobusvanderbijl6378
    @cobusvanderbijl6378 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi😊 we can swap badges. I have no skin i have badges😊. Also a bit of a hypercondriac and also a germophobe. Dont mind dirt and paint or stuff like that. Like i never touch a public bathroom door. If i cant wangle it open somehow i will wait for someone. In winter i wash my hands until the become blistered. My mom says i will brush the enamel off my teeth. Covid was a nightmare😷😅 i would say the fear of symptoms of things that nearly killed me in the past. Like tick byte fever and spiders, things you cant see. Google all the side effects of stuff and whats in stuff. This coldrink i am having now just checked earlier D-pantothenic acid wich seems not to be bad. Its vitamin B. Pyridoxine Hydrochloride also vitamin B. Sounds hectic water is is by far the best. 2L a day keeps the doctor away. Also open air and sun light, a moan about the sun alot😅, no heaters no aircons. Havnt had flu in maybe 11 years.

    • @cobusvanderbijl6378
      @cobusvanderbijl6378 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      My blood preasure is fine had it tested the other day also blood sugar.

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@cobusvanderbijl6378 omg TICKS are one of my biggest fears!!!! As soon as I learnt about Lyme disease 🫣🙈!!!

    • @cobusvanderbijl6378
      @cobusvanderbijl6378 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @INFJCHECKMATE O wow man! let me tell you. I went for surgery and i nearly kicked the bucket from fever. Hhey thaught its related to infection or an allergic reaction to the anethesia. That hospital bed looked like that ghost plain in Aterix amd the 12 tasks dont know if you have seen it. They called it Valhala. Endless plain. I told them i know the feeling and i worked in a bush place they should check it. Mosquitos and malaria also. Tick bites is like it creeps on you, you just get more and more tired Boom! dead. Every time i feel a muscle twitch i think its spider neurotoxins. The worst. Never agaim God help me.😂 Anycase have a nice day.

  • @INFJCHECKMATE
    @INFJCHECKMATE  7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ah man, I meant to say heartrate! Low heartrate....but my blood pressure is on the low side too. So.....low heartrate anyone? 😁⭐

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @elsiemunoz199 There is no way to private message. 🤔.

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @elsiemunoz199 I'm not really comfy with that. Instagram isn't that private.
      Maybe try typing the comment again? Or was it really long?

  • @Thisfuqinguyhere
    @Thisfuqinguyhere 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    No u

  • @cacheknock
    @cacheknock 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    More an INFJ-A thing. I speak from a spiritual INFJ. But again, not to be negative or disrespectful, everyone goes through trauma. And depending on how people manage & learn in their life is what justifies resilience or strength. But most importantly, it's how you're wired astrologically (your mind), and learning what you're suppose to learn in this lifetime about yourself. And you being a Hypochondriac or having low blood pressure has nothing to do with being an INFJ. Your mind is what correlates your blood flow is.

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes, me worrying about health is obviously a "me thing". Hence why I said it was a sidebar comment, meaning not part of the content related to infj's in general. As for the lower heart rate/pressure, as I said my logic is this: INFJ experiences trauma = INFJ knows what real problems are = Infj doesn't sweat the small stuff so is generally more calm because of this, less stressed = blood pressure/heart rate might be lower (since emotions do effect those. Not to mention the parasympathetic system). But again, I asked out of spontaneous curiosity.

    • @cacheknock
      @cacheknock 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Again, not to sound negative. Lol Just saying. Being an INFJ is just in reference to your cognitive way of interpreting the world psychologically, on a theoretical framework. But everyone is different relative to how each individual perceives & his consciousnessly aware within their own mind. Every INFJ will not sweat the small stuff. Or there wouldn't be INFJ -Ts. Which are more stressed or worrisome. Your health just correlates to your state of being,mind set, & energy. Which another other type can also do. Another INFJ You Tuber just released a video titled "Why INFJ Aren't Influencers". Some people in the comments feel overwhelmed or lack self esteem to put themselves out there as influencers because they can't handle what the attention. So not every INFJ or any other type will be resilient or persevere through to triumph. There's another INFJ on You Tube that was really going through it in her videos. I'm just saying, regardless of type, people are going to go through trauma & challenges. But it's up to the individual to make it through their karma.

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@cacheknock Yes I get what you're saying. Everyone's experience in life is different. And surely not everyone will have the same mindset as me. That's guaranteed. But, if I'm being honest, I think that people should have those mindsets. I think it's good for people to see the cup as half full. I think it's good for people to see the positives of a crappy situation/experience. And as you said, literally everyone regardless of type will experience some sort of trauma in their life. But how someone USES it is another thing altogether. And I have to wonder if someones cognitive functions play a role in how they use it. I would guess yes. Sure, not a guarantee, but in general I think it's plausible.
      Then we could go into the idea of their own personal ideology and how that affects their mindset re: trauma, but......then we'll never end the discussion 😅. And I'm just a woman on TH-cam speaking my thoughts ultimately so......I suppose it's all just with a grain of salt.

    • @cacheknock
      @cacheknock 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@INFJCHECKMATE Well, again you cognitive functions is a man made theoretical concept, with a vague perception. Sure, there's some truth, but not much understanding on a individual level. People can grasp MBTI easier than astrology, because it's more surface level. But the problem is people over generalize & stereotype. No different than race or ethnicity. Astrology is the influence of your mind ("image of God")at the time of your birth, when you took your first breath. MBTI is really a stripped down version. Example: Senors is Earth, Feeling is Fire, Thinking is Air, & Intuition is Water. You have all 4 elements within, just like our function stack. But we also have all 12 energies from your head to feet. And also is associated with your health & life experiences. So, my point is things are deeper than MBTI that most people don't know or understand. So, yeah, how we deal with things as INFJs will be different than other types to extent. But each one of our alignments, placements, degrees, and how we spiritually observe things individually will be different. So it's good to incorporate both MBTI with knowing your natal chart. No one has to, because people will learn regardless, but it definitely helps make things easier to understand yourself deeper, BIG TIME. I'm just trying to enlighten, that's all. I do agree with you, for the most part. I just have a broad esoteric mind, sharing knowledge & perspective. Each one, teach one. 🙂

    • @INFJCHECKMATE
      @INFJCHECKMATE  7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @cacheknock 🤍