This. That's why we have women in their 40s, 50s and 60s still believing if they wait a bit longer there will be a peak Brad Pitt appearing for them. They always talk about not wanting to "settle" for an "average" guy. Obviously they have no idea what average means and a demented self worth. So women have priced themselves out of the market. Chick maths cant compute why the top 5% of men arent committing to 100% of women. This is why all previous societies put limits on women's freedom; the alternative is population collapse.
@@tsukmakur2696 Yeah, dating in London post divorce, eastern European women weren't a lot better than British women, except in looks. I ended up focusing on non-Western women who are much higher quality IME. I dated quite a few east-Asians - several Filipinas, a Siberian, a Chinese etc, but my gf now is Indian from South Africa. Amazing food & bedroom action. 😆
@@tsukmakur2696 In general the West implies any place where the majority is European descent civilization. What makes us alike is our genetics, history, and culture similarity. It's a historical contrast for Europeans when considering other civilizations such as the Islamic World.
@@tsukmakur2696 yes it is. The mentality in Eastern Europe is different beceause they are not so wealthy. You dont have to be Chad to succeed in the eastern of Europe. The biggest difference is that in Eastern Europe women still need a man to provide a family. In the west its a different story we are to wealthy so everyone can basically take care of themselves. I have better experience with women of eastern Europe. I think you did something wrong.
Yeah you basically need to get yourself to 6/10. Which means you need to be blessed with at least 4/10 looks to start with, since it's nearly impossible to boost more than +2.
Have you seen the tier list video of some BP TH-camr? He aggregated all Tinder experiments and found out that a female dating profile with only one picture of the inside of their fridge scored higher on Tinder than a male model profile.
@@orvos1459 If you finance her lifestyle and give a stress free life, maybe some would join to escape wageslavery. But if you expect her to share hard work with you to live a "boring" life away from everything, i think you are screwed.
@@Krelian4400We've already collapsed? Lol no hardly. Things are still running. We are in the matured stages of a long decline sure. But not even remotely a collapse
Having worked around a lot of women at my jobs and overhearing their gossip - I can confirm that most of them truly do not like men. The misandry is pretty blatant. Chad is an exception of course. But it seems the desire for Chad is mostly about scoring with him and obtaining his genes and resources, not genuinely liking him as a person. The women who aren't like this are the one's that entered a happy marriage long ago.
True .. true. Who knows why they barely like men it's weird. Many of them can thank men for most of the fun and cool things they do in thier lives like parties events and vacations. Yet they still whine. I posit we've raised a culture of women who behaved like spoiled rich kids who are never satisfied and nic pick everything
I've worked in extremely f-dominated workspaces and can confirm what you wrote. The problem is: 99.999% of men refuse to accept this. It's been this way since recorded history began.
you nailed it, its not about looks, most women hate men, they have been brainwashed to believe that men are the problem and shouldnt exist. the workplace is prime example of why most women cant stand men. they only tolerate a handsome man not because they love him, but because it makes them feel better about themselves
Why? Because men don't like women. I'm not even one that dislikes men, but I am sick of the way women are treated on a daily basis. It's not even hard to see why.
Speaking from my own circle of people I know, those women who want relationships are in one. Those who are single don't want relationships. But are still on the dating apps. The single men I know of do want relationships. In terms of the dating apps, it's grim. There was a recent experiment on a TH-cam video where they did profiles for an above average man and an AI generated woman who they deliberately made unattractive and obnoxious. It took the man 39 days to get the same amount of likes that the woman got in THREE MINUTES.
@@somerandomdudeOG and @Cineraria99 - it's a video by tmol called "ATTRACTIVE Man Finds Out What It’s Like To Be An “AVERAGE” Woman on Tinder". Can't directly link to it as TH-cam deletes comments with links that are not from the video creator.
I made a tinder profile using a 4/10 woman just as an experiment, and every single guy I swiped right on was a match and I got bombarded with messages. So yeah, even extremely average women have unlimited options, which is why women are super picky. No one wants to say it, but men themselves are a big reason why dating is so hard. Men act entirely too desperate and it ruins it for everybody, I seen it firsthand with my tinder experiment.
Yeah but WHY are the men so desperate? HINT, ITS BECAUSE WOMEN ARE AS STRINGENT AS THEY ARE WITH THEIR DATING PATTERNS. You wouldn't have men who are this desperate if the average man had any options to begin with dude.
Because guys swipe on almost everyone, we don't take matches seriously and they are practically worthless. Until you guys get standards, we can't respect the "compliment" of being liked. Maybe 1/100 are actually a) interested in actually dating and not just hooking up b) non creepy and overly sexual and c) will even have the confidence to move from chatting for 5 mins then ghosting to actually taking you on a date. The choice we have is an illusion, the only real choice we have is for a hookup. Something most women don't want.
This is the year that I stop being a simp. Please understand that this will be difficult. I have been a simp my whole life. Simping on women comes so naturally to me. When I am around other simps, that's when I really shine! I try to out-simp my fellow simps. Not being a simp will be a big change for me.
I still cave if the woman looks good. It is simping or just I feel better around good looking things that makes me interested. So I try not to simp too much to the point of frustration. I wish o knew this stuff long ago. Imagine a second chance to be born again with knowledge.
@@WheatWaffles And I have first hand experience they do. I know several female coworkers who have been perpetually single for years. Chad still gets access. Many of the girls go out drinking hoping to score a Chad for the night. I've overheard it all and even witnessed it straight up.
@@WheatWaffleswhat is first hand experience? How can you trust what they say when women try not to disclose information that makes them look bad, like sleeping around ?
@@WheatWaffles You're articulate and everything but the average person in a lot of countries is pushing mid 40's. Experience is not your forte just yet.
I saw a comment from some goof who said that his female friend told him years ago that there was nothing attractive about him. A few years later she told him that she had "fallen in love with him." He was even bragging about it.
A french youtuber made stats on Tinder, between 400 et 2600 profiles like, stats are here : Chad : 10% match ratio Normal guy : 0.19% match ratio Popular normal guy : 0.34% match ratio Rich guy : 0.54% Pretty girl : 80% match ratio Normal girl : 45% match ratio Rich pretty girl : 85% match ratio Info: It was hard for him to get data for girls as liking too much profiles as a girl is considered as "not a normal behavior, so probably a bot, and ban", while it's not for men. Also the banned account of the "normal girl" was a real girl that got banned for this test.
It is quite consistent with my experiments: average looking girl in more-less big city have 2x tinder "reciprocal" likes than a gigachad of the same age in the same city. Briefly speaking, any slightly overweight Jenny will have 300+ tinder likes within 48h and 80% of them respond instantly.
@@rasplata we don’t want to hear this, but it’s the truth we all needed. If I was a woman, I wouldn’t look positively at a lot of these attempts either, especially if I already wasn’t hot about some of these guys to begin with
100% right. That’s why I stopped following so many women on social media if they don’t follow me back. Why keep giving attention to those that give us none?
Sure to some degree. Most of it is due to the imbalance that comes with an egalitarian and gynocentric society. A lot of this does come down to laws and broader cultural foundations simply following their natural conclusions. When you have a society which constantly undermines men and our authority while giving women everything and more without any consequences then society will break down
It took you 500 cold approaches to get 2 relationships. Let's assume you're a 6. Now take a guy who's a 2 or 3. Maybe 2000 cold approaches to get one girlfriend? He spends tons of time, effort and money, and likely gets dumped. Now add heartache. Would that be worth it? I say he's better off learning to enjoy life alone.
Even those attractive guys get dumped. You are dreaming if you believe otherwise. They use them to show off or a rich guy for his money. Then they move on.
If you are a 2 or 3 you are more likely to get arrested than get a girlfriend with 2000 cold approaches. If you have any chance at all it will be by warm approach. If you are a 3 some girl out there sees you as a 5. If you have a great personality she might just want you.
The women get it. They're not as stupid as they make themselves out to be. They would rather look like an idiot than having to agree with a man. They hate us so much, that they would rather disagree with us and look dumb rather than agree with us and look smart.
It's weird cause you expect that women are the ones that want a relationship through the media and movies you watched when young. Now everything is upside down. It's hard to navigate, even though all the evidence is here.
@Krelian4400 Well based of my comment. I'm comparing women to men. Which by that comparison, men are the ones who want to be in a relationship more than women. Women will not settle down until they find what you describe most of the time, thus holding off from a relationship more.
Women are complete without a man, that's the difference. A man is an added bonus and unless he brings value, why bother? Most men cause women extra work, domestically and emotionally. That's on top of us going to work. When we find the men willing to be equal partners and put in as much mutual effort, that's when we want a relationship. We just find few of those types.
Men always preferred to be in a relationship over women. Why? Because dating women is expensive, tiring, and time consuming. It's a chore. The sooner dating is over and done with, by securing a relationship, the better things are for a man (at least until the woman gets bored). Dating for women on the other hand comes free and it's exciting. It's like experiencing an amusement park with no entry fees. There's no incentive for a woman to be in a relationship. She's having too much fun dating.
Reddit would explode from being so triggered by this video lol. They really hate facts and logic when it comes to dating and the differences between men and women.
Most women have decided to not settle for what they actually qualify for. Instead they’ll remain single wait for the Chad to sweep them off their feet which will never happen.
My dating options (after numerous rejections and unrequited heartbreaks) are nonexistent despite learning as much as can about dating and growing as a man(burnt out)
Friendly reminder to all the guys to NOT clownmaxx with a girl they like, it doesn't build attraction and will most likely leave you humiliated... attraction on her end involves a facial analysis lasting a few milliseconds at best not "why did the chicken cross the road?"
Good thing I have been off the market since 18… MGTOW works out for me very well. I have known the truth of the dating market since then… by contrast, I’m 25 as of writing this comment.
I appreciate your videos dude. You're giving the most pragmatic advice out there to follow that works. You look at the data and reality of dating instead of what feels good and what's politically correct to say.
I will go even further and say the ones who think they want a relationship initially just want to feel that “honeymoon” phase of the relationship but when they realize that relationships are about they change their mind and start looking for that dopamine hit again.
I often say that resolutions are stupid, and that I won't take part in them for this new years, but... For this year, I'm gonna lock in and just forget about women. Pursue boxing, work hard, be on my own. The world and women don't give a dang about me. I don't encourage solitude for everyone else, but this is where life has led me personally. If you feel the same, and haven't had any sort of affection in your life, I implore you, don't give up. I don't wanna sound corny or 🟥 pilled but do not give up. You have to keep going, there is no other way. Be determined and stay focused, guys.
Exactly and with me I feel like they find me somewhat attractive and might secretly like me but are too intimidated to do anything. It s just ridiculous@@torrancemoore6152
This video doesn’t take into account the fact that females need a longer time for attraction to take place which can make women APPEAR less interested in the initial phases of dating, even if they actually are looking to find someone. Hence why cold approach has a much lower success rate with women than in warmer environments.
I genuinly believe we were not made to sleep around. It breaks women to the point that they kinda start hating the very gender they were supposed to fall in love with
Can I give you my 2 cents about the hand gestures? I think you should mix them up more and open the hands from time to to time. Atm it's just the same gesture over and over again from left to right and me personally I don't like this half open hand, I would rather use a full open hand.
Yee. Looks like I might consider myself lucky since I was a kid I knew that I just don't want any girlfriend. It's just really not worth putting any effort into it in these days.
Indian men in America prove the black pill is very real. These guys have high salaries from working in tech but still struggle to get women here in California. Its looks above everything for this dimension
Its looks above everything for this whole dimension. Look up the study by elaine walster - what is beautiful is good . She said it was all down to attractiveness and this study was done back in the 60’s
My favourite part is receiving notifications about comment threads from which my remarks have been removed. So awesome! Anyway, I feel your pain, dude.
@@GjVj Yes. The deleted comments are only one aspect of the social engineering campaign. I've been monitoring this for some time now, and they have made several very subtle changes that all worked toward making their speech controls more covert. At this point, there are multiple levels to how the system works: _comment removal_ and _comment silencing_ (AKA shadow banning). If you post a comment and then check back to confirm that it's still posted, that actually doesn't mean that it hasn't been silenced. The most nefarious aspect of the thought policing on this platform is that very often your comment will remain visible to you, but it won't be visible to anyone else, and there will be no notification or indication of any kind that this action has been taken against you. The only way to really know if your comment has been silenced or not is to open an incognito/private browser window (not logged in) and search through all the comments to see if yours is there. (Note: you used to be able to check quickly by changing the sorting of the comments to "most recent", but they changed it so that now the silenced comments are only removed from the "top comments" list, which is the default setting that nearly everyone sees. The bonus is that now anyone is able to see the silenced comments by switching to the "most recent" sorting). The reason for this is to make people who are engaging in wrongthink believe that their silenced comments are publicly visible but that no one liked or interacted with the comments so they feel as though their ideas have been socially rejected. In most cases, this causes the person to be less likely to share the same ideas again and effectively pushes them toward "acceptable" ideas. Even when the person is fully aware of the silencing, simply having knowledge of the existence of such a mechanism inevitably makes the person less likely to share controversial ideas because of the hassle associated with avoiding certain words/phrases and the extra effort required to ensure that the comment really is publicly visible, so it's a win-win from their perspective. I've seen videos where 65% (~4000 out of 6000+ total) of the comments had been silenced, and this doesn't even take into account all the comments that are outright removed.
Can you do a video on all the guys that'll drop out of working amd find other ways to get by once they realise at about age 40 that they never had a chance and what effect that will have on the economy/society? I think it's already happening with the over 50's as there is a known worklessness crisis with this demographic in the UK.
Planning on being one of those guys in the future. Got zero attention from females and honestly really don’t have any friends anymore so I have nothing to lose. Saving up for building a wooden cabin, decades worth of property tax, solar panels, food, utilities etc.
there has always been a workless crisis with a percentage of men. men from lower socio economic backgrounds ith low levels of education struggle to get the manual labor jobs they previously did as company realise they are an injury / insurance risk. In australia roughly half the people on unemployment benefits are over 45 some of which will never find work again
If you reach 40 and have not figured out that you need to use your passport options, your IQ is too low to find a mate anyway. If you want a wife, you work on yourself, avoid women, then when ready, don't sign up for dating apps, avoid western women, get a passport and find a foreign wife.
1. Someone SAYING that they’re looking or not looking to date in answer to a survey question is not necessarily indicative of whether they actually are or aren’t. It’s more likely to be reflective of how they felt at the time they were surveyed. This is not good evidence 2. If you went on 10 dates in 6 months, and none of them turned into a second date - at least part of the problem has to be you. Just because they told you they weren’t looking for a relationship, doesn’t mean that it’s true. That’s just another way of rejecting you. 3. Women don’t need to be on dating apps to get a date. They can easily draw male interest organically within their social circles, and they’ll be approached on instagram too. 4. Expecting women to ask guys out is like expecting a horse to breakdance - it’s not in their nature. Men chase, women choose. They don’t need to ask guys out because they’re already being pursued. When a woman complains that she can’t find a man, all she means is that she doesn’t believe that her best current options are representative of her full pulling potential. 5. This idea that most women aren’t interested in guys is ludicrous. It’s true that they’re highly selective, and that they’re only interested in a particular type of guy, but excluding women who have recently broken up, most women are interested in guys. Even old biddies beyond the menopause are. Attraction isn’t an intention, it’s an involuntary instinctive response. As long as women have the capacity to be attracted - they will be. Men just have to be attractive to get them.
I don't think that's the answer at all. I think they'll likely all flock to the same 20% of highly attractive men. Giving them easy access to sex, which the men don't respect. While rejecting men that are actually on their level. That's pretty much what's happening now. Just check the DMs of athletes, rappers, and playboys. I feel that women need to burst their own bubbles of delusion, find men on their own level attractive, appreciate good treatment and genuine affection, and stop the thoughts of demanding a princess lifestyle, which seems to keep them single and unhappy.
You have been saying? Lol. Why would a person in better position i.e. woman, give up her power and be like "Yeah, I could relax and get the benefits but NO, I would rather exchange that for hard work". Men like you are so delusional.
@@DrillEntertainmentNetwork True... but like.. where do you draw the line. One could only take rejection for so long and he's got a market most men don't got
Women don't really need to make "a move" but I do agree that ultimately they should put themselves out there and passively make this happen. It's like if you're a fast food worker just waiting for that dream +$100k/year job landing on your lap. That's not how it works. You will have to actively work and pursue it ... Otherwise you're just limiting your options. Sadly the concept of work-reward doesn't exist with women. It's just -reward for most of them.
Look at China 80% are single because of smartphones, O.F. and more have turned into lesbians. No woman or man talks face to face anymore and are all glued 24/7 on their cell phones which has destroyed the dating scene, end of the story. I've given up on women. No dating coach wants to really tell you the real truth. 15-20 years ago no one needed a dating coach, women would just approach men looking for a relationship. Now it's all about superficial hookups. Women today bring no value for men, so therefore no one wants to get married anymore. It's over. We will end up just like China sooner than you think.
Haven't seen the half naked women everywhere plus online?? Most men is just out of their budget bracket. Equality+ internet > delusional women who think a 0.01% guy is like 40% of men... for a young semi attractive girl , 90% of men are completely invisible
True. Also, I think that when they say they're not looking to date, that just means their rosters are already full. And Chad doesn't need to do 'dates' either. The whole song-and-dance of 'dating' is for Backup Beta Bob.
3:06 😂 But seriously istg I wasted an entire year chasing this 5/10 chinlet girl only for her to hangout with one specific guy. Not worth it anymore. I'd say normie girls are the most picky
Long story short. MONEY & Prenuptial & legacy. The gravitational curve of society is traditionalism. Thats why we have been fundamentally the same for thousands of years. Traditionalism in this respect is = Transactional based relationships.
@LooksMaximus-qx4tk 98% of men are not attractive. But guess what use to happen to the 2% before the 98% decided to create social norms. Let's just say counter to the Disney Narrative the 2% didn't make it back from the hunt. If society collapses, guess who takes the L first. So it behoove the 2% to also maintain the traditional social norms.
@@mrzackattack261 exactly, transforming to Chad makes you realize how much the same and basic they are and you are just the "fun" guy in their life. They want the bag and the status as well to show off to her girlfriends.
@@AdviceandAdventures Maybe I'm just in a dark place myself (and there's no maybe about it, lol) but, in this realm, what positive things are there? 100% serious question.
I think that most women with minimal effort put towards their looks can get into relationships with 90-95% of men, it's just that most women want HIM. So they would rather die alone with cats than not be able to lock HIM down.
Nope, they can get sex, not relationships. These women will struggle to get a relationship. If she were to drop her standards, like you also if you drop your standards you'd be in relationships easy.
@@aliendroid1 Most of us inkwells want an average looking woman (that is, a woman within our league since the majority of us are plain average looking). So you want us to drop our standards and date with repulsive looking women? You're a clown.
That is right and there is nothing wrong with that. I don't understand why men are content with whatever they can get. I guess women have much higher standards for whom we're willing to date and if he isn't our first option we can't even be bothered. We're just different.
It would be nice if the main stream news covered what is happening with relationships in the west right now to alleviate the confusion so many people have. But, I don't think that's going to happen anytime soon.
That's not the media's job. Their entire purpose is to invert reality and construct misleading, divisive, and confusing narratives, not to enlighten people. That would run completely counter to the owners' interests. As you say, it might be nice, but it ain't going to happen.
I don't see why. Men are independent by nature and can survive alone. Unlike females. There's a difference between being alone and loneliness though. Many humans do need company. Can be problematic though. I mean you can be alone in an unloving relationship, which most men seem to be. Be strong.
Yeah men don't NEED women so they have to WANT them to pursue them. Since the dawn of mammals, women had little to no choice but to be with a man so there was never a need for women to like men
If I had unlimited options I'd pick women who looked like 8s-9s and ignore the rest too. Only way this will be broken is abundance on the male side. That can only come from realistic robots. We are in the 21st century for most needs but the 18th century in terms of scarcity (of romantic options)
I wouldn't normally say this, but women should now take the initiative and start asking men out and doing all the things that women would say they require men to do, like approaching and flirting with them, considering their feelings and emotions, etc. Women should go through what men go through, like coming up to them, flirting, talking, and interacting, and then see how difficult it is for men to get a date, girlfriend, fiancee, or wife. But then again how many would be able to handle that task?
@@torrancemoore6152 Agree. I grew up with a Chad brother and cousin, I've seen exactly how women act towards men they like. All this effort is a lie, when she's attracted to you, you can even try to deliberately mess it up and still win. It's that easy. If you're wondering what to text her to keep it flowing, it's already over.
I've pondered this before. The "average" would just go up, and women would be attracted to rarer (positive traits). So let's say we did an experiment: There are 10 guys, 10 women. The guys are all 6-4, 200 pounds with a six pack. PP size the same. Full head of hair. Same money and clothes. Everyone is the same race (men and women). All guys are intelligent and articulate. If we leave things like hair and eye color to genetics, I suspect women would be attracted to the rarest positive trait they could find. So if two of the 10 guys have blond hair and blue eyes, those two would be chosen. If a third guy had black/brown hair, and gray/green eyes, he would be chosen as well. If hair and eye color are all the same (e.g., 10 blonde /blue eyed Chads) then the women would have to find some miniscule favorable trait that nobody would notice normally. Example, 2 guys have dimples and get chosen. If there are no discernable differences, then the women may not choose at all. My point is that there has to be some sort of hierarchy for the women to choose from. That's how they are wired.
نحن نعيش في مجتمع دارويني فالاخلاق و الكلام الذي يقال في التلفزيون و الميديا كله زائف البلاك بيل حقيقة لا ينكرها إلا الجاهلون انظر الى البطل في الافلام دائما يكون تشاد و البطلة ستايسي سوف تعرف أن الحبة السوداء حقيقة
I get extremely ‘simpy’ if I do or say something stupid (mostly drunk but not always). I find spending too much time around each other makes me less forgiving. Im working on that. My real problem is if the woman is a rare one, I try ‘simping’ harder.
In germany, in many rural areas (especially in east germany) there are significantly more young men than young women. (up to 40 %) Many young women left the rural areas (especially in east germany) for the big cities, where the universities are. I guess, there is an incel epidemic going on in this regions.
Minor correction: that might be where the universities are, but that's not why they go there. They go there to ride the C. Carousel, in an atomized, anonymous environment - which means they can avoid judgement (and therefore accountability) for their decisions and behaviour. That's the appeal. In a rural area, where everyone knows everyone, and what they're up to, they'd soon pick up... a reputation. They flock to the cities to be 'liberated' from _consequences,_ and (what they see as) constrictive, parochial morality and standards of conduct. In other words, they go to university to be 304s, getting an 'education' is just a cover story. Women are only as 'good' as they're forced to be, and in the city, they're free from silly rules. They're the main character and rules don't apply to them, dontcha know.
He is honest and nicely upfront with what he does - gives face ratings and offers an actual product (a book). However, I'd rather he creates a course named _"How to approach 500 girls and not get arrested"_ Really, how does he do it?
@GjVj yep and they wisen up to the fact that they have unlimited male options. Thats why an experienced 24 year old gf has no problem dumping her bf of 2 years over a text. He will spend months suffering while she will have another man immediatly
I have enough experience with young women to know that they try a bit, get disappointed then take a break. Then they try again and get disappointed and as time goes on the breaks get longer and longer. Truthfully the quality of men are just poor, not just looks but also personality. So if you don't have money, fame or some other kind of novelty then you will be overlooked.
I'm an okay looking guy with decent career and I'm always down for someone to set me up with someone who's decent. This can't be said for the average girl. Any thought of being set up by someone they utterly refuse unless it's someone famous or rich. Decent in their eyes is someone way above their league.
0:44 This survey is invalid argument. For woman, especially in her 20s to openly admit she is looking for a mate is "shameful" to a degree. On a dating site woman could ✍️write on her page "hahaha, a friend made this page for me just for fun". Why? Because admitting seeking for 💏relationship lower 👩woman's initial negotiation power... at least in her head.
I'm sure you're right re young people. As a Gen Xer in London when I got on eHarmony after divorce I found lots of women interested in dating me, up to about 8 or so years younger. Of course finding a high quality woman also into me still took effort.
You know you were definitely getting a bunch of overweight single mother Muslim chicks and he definitely didn't get any matches from 28-year-old women trying to start a family with a 18% BMI.
I have a question: Despite being an above average (good-) looking, 22 years old, roughly 6 feet tall man (~7/10, which I've figured out watching your videos while also knowing that I've inherited most of my facial features from my father, who still today gets choosing signals from numerous women, even though he's married) and working out so much that everyone says I'm shredded/jacked, I have yet to lose my V-card, let alone to find a girlfriend... any advice or idea as to why this is happening to me?
From what I’ve seen when a guy has all the advantages and they’re flopping with wommmen it means: -they’re somewhat socially awkward(once knew a socially awkward guy who was tall,white,blue eyed but lost his V card because the girl put it on him,and again he didn’t make an effort like you) -their standards are astronomically high(ie an 8 waiting for the attention of an 11) -ignores the interest of multiple wommen who obviously check him out as he walks down the street(aforementioned friend regularly did this,but he just ignored it so that’s a self sabotage I feel)
For attractive teenage guys a common problem is that they develop a crush for some girl near them and do not take her indirect refusals for an answer. It could still apply at 22 if you have no experience. Instead, give a chance to a girl who sends positive signals and see where you get. After the first kiss you likely forget your previous crush.
Because, many won’t admit it, but luck plays a huge part. I’m 5’8’’, 6/10 facially, and not muscular at all, II would say I’m lean. However a really pretty girl found me attractive enough to date me and later she fell in love with me.
I’ve had 55-60 lifetime first dates. Only 8 led to second dates and no third and no relationships no hook ups. And I’ve done nothing really that bad to scare them off. I’m just introverted so I may come off as disinterested because I’ve been rejected enough to where I just can’t get too enthusiastic only to be rejected again. I’m going to be alone rest of my life I’ve come to terms with it
Right, I had a repeat date rate of 70%. It helps that I'm 6'3, but there was a reason they wanted to see me again. And part of it was that I didnt take the girls overly serious
I went through 17 first dates until I found a girl willing to give me a second - and she became my girlfriend. Even today, I wouldn't be able to tell you what I did that was so off-putting to these women. They either ghosted me entirely or provided bullshit feedback such as "there's no spark."
I think women are trying to avoid random dudes like this guy who don’t care about them personally. I’d personally just find someone you like and just start investing your time in them. The key is just find someone you at least like and invest a lot in them. If it doesn’t work out, you’ll at least be in better shape to find the next one because you care. Take it from someone who is 52 and been married for 27 years and that definitely worked for me and I think it is what your generation is missing. You are just trying to find something new when you should just discover what you already have and start investing your time and attention.
Bro, forgive me for saying this, but you sound like a friggin' Boomer. By your own admission, you've been out of the game for more than a quarter of a century, and the environment has changed. Invest time and attention, and you'll be dismissed as a simp. That's a fast track to the friendzone, mate.
@ Thanks for the reply. I don’t mean to put them on a pedestal. You’re going to invest your time and energy no matter what. What I’m saying is don’t invest your time and energy in someone who doesn’t care about you but do invest your time and energy into someone who reciprocates your energy. People get it wrong thinking someone will fulfill all their needs. Just accept that it’s going to be a lot of work and find out who you have available by showing your interest and be prepared to back off if they don’t reciprocate. If they do reciprocate then do put your full time and energy into them. You aren’t going to be a simp if they reciprocate.
@ also it’s far from easy street for me. There isn’t going to be an easy option. The key is to accept that it’s going to be a lot of work. This is the path to being genuinely caring. Then you don’t need to put in effort to appear to be caring because you are. You will become a better person even if it doesn’t work out and the next one you will be a better person for and you’ll be more desirable.
@@robnelson6545 Thank *you* for the reply (apart from anything else, most of my comments get vanished, so getting a dialogue going is a rare treat, these days). I can't really disagree with what you're saying, especially the key part being *reciprocity.* That's what's missing - from wahmens. They're so used to so much attention, _without having to give anything in return_ - mainly via social media - that that's become their baseline reality (and it's made them _insanely_ entitled). They have time and attention, from legions of men, in such abundance, that it's lost all value to them. The _exceptional_ man (the kind they're interested in) is the man who rations and limits his time and attention. You have to 'flip the script' and make them compete for your attention. That's how you stand out in a world of simps. He who cares less, wins. Developing compassion and kindness is important (probably the most important thing in life), but one must establish and maintain _boundaries._ That's what a lot of men are lacking these days - because they're being actively taught that having boundaries (and preferences, and standards) is 'toxic'. Whilst wahmens are told that any limits placed on them are 'oppressive'. It's all so messed up... I can point out some of the problems, but I'm somewhat short on solutions, tbh. Cheers! [edited fur speeling]
@@robnelson6545 ffs... I wrote an essay in response (pretty much agreeing with you, as well) aaand... it's gone. Thank YOU, dude, for trying to have a conversation - I tried too. If you can read this: cheers!
It took me 20 years to understand that the "game" is heavily rigged and there's nothing wrong with me (other than not being pretty/"chad"y). Now I'm old and basically don't care anymore. 10 years now single (no sex too) and doing well on my own. Plenty of hobbies to spend my time. Why am I on this video ? Well, for laughs and giggles... ;-)
If you were to live in a shack without an infrastructure and your only ticket to survival would be marriege and kids, while your insurance end retirement option were your future kids you would do the same XD Another thing are arranged marriages. Not happening in the west. I bet my all belongings that both in Africa/India things look differently in rich neighbourhoods of rich cities than in province.
Those dudes "options" are paying for some lady. Women aren't magically different over there either. Money gets you gold diggers but it doesn't buy genuine attraction
Women are women bro. America and liberalism are the cultural norms across the world because our culture and political structure is our favorite thing to export to the world.
Girls in general are more selective and less hungry than men. By tradition it's also the mans job to ask a girl out. Complaining about these circumstances is pointless. Accept the reality and make the best out of your situation.
This is a great analysis of how women feel. Great research. I am guessing they feel like this because there isn't the financial dependency on men that there used to be. Sad though. The men still have the need but the women don't unless you present them with the most handsome men available.
Basically if women can’t lock down a Chad they would rather be alone.
This.
That's why we have women in their 40s, 50s and 60s still believing if they wait a bit longer there will be a peak Brad Pitt appearing for them.
They always talk about not wanting to "settle" for an "average" guy. Obviously they have no idea what average means and a demented self worth.
So women have priced themselves out of the market.
Chick maths cant compute why the top 5% of men arent committing to 100% of women.
This is why all previous societies put limits on women's freedom; the alternative is population collapse.
literally a tale as old as time. historically. I don't consider it black pill just reality.
It changes when they're old. But usually men don't want them at that age.
All red pill is is the truth and the acknowledgment that the majority of people don't want to accept it. @@martinithechobit
@@n-tertainmentx-tended4760 i would say when they hit 40/50 +, women change drastically at this age... dunno why
The amount of effort you have to put in to get a 5/10 girl in the west is crazy.
Where does the west end exactly? In eastern europe it's no different.
@@tsukmakur2696 Yeah, dating in London post divorce, eastern European women weren't a lot better than British women, except in looks. I ended up focusing on non-Western women who are much higher quality IME. I dated quite a few east-Asians - several Filipinas, a Siberian, a Chinese etc, but my gf now is Indian from South Africa. Amazing food & bedroom action. 😆
@@tsukmakur2696 In general the West implies any place where the majority is European descent civilization. What makes us alike is our genetics, history, and culture similarity. It's a historical contrast for Europeans when considering other civilizations such as the Islamic World.
@@tsukmakur2696 yes it is. The mentality in Eastern Europe is different beceause they are not so wealthy. You dont have to be Chad to succeed in the eastern of Europe. The biggest difference is that in Eastern Europe women still need a man to provide a family. In the west its a different story we are to wealthy so everyone can basically take care of themselves. I have better experience with women of eastern Europe. I think you did something wrong.
@@checkthisout2912 Do you live in eastern Europe? We are the west turned to 11.
if you're below a 6/10 in looks then yeah, zero.
Yeah you basically need to get yourself to 6/10. Which means you need to be blessed with at least 4/10 looks to start with, since it's nearly impossible to boost more than +2.
Sub 8 gets roastie while 9s slay
dont even bother! dedicate to other stuff, like cactus and cooking
@@simontmn Facts.
If you're sub4 you should probably just give up and cope. Looksmaxxing isn't enough ROI at that point.
same for woman?
the average woman has basically the same value as a top tier man!
it's wild & crazy!
More value
Have you seen the tier list video of some BP TH-camr? He aggregated all Tinder experiments and found out that a female dating profile with only one picture of the inside of their fridge scored higher on Tinder than a male model profile.
@@TwistedLullabies Then why are gigantic numbers of them alone?
@@kenofken9458 they are on only-chad-mode, thats why
@@kenofken9458 They choose to be
If you are not in the top 5% of looks, expect to make huge efforts to get marginal results.
Its better to just spend time on something else.
What if I dream of living in the rural, countryside away from cities? How common are women who are in for that as well?
@@orvos1459 If you finance her lifestyle and give a stress free life, maybe some would join to escape wageslavery.
But if you expect her to share hard work with you to live a "boring" life away from everything, i think you are screwed.
FR there a waste of time n space
@@user647fa1c5 yeah I should look for a religious woman specifically
@@orvos1459very few
the first trillion rejections are just warm up bro, just keep grinding
The first lifetime*
The first 10 to the power of the number of atoms in the universe is just a warm-up, bro.
😂😂😂😂
@@cordfortina9073 it's brover, bro
at least 10 septillion aka google quantum computing chip power actions are required to gather a 4/10
I believe this is a worldwide thing, not just the west.
If you go by birth rates, I think South Korea is the oldest nation on Earth.
Can confrm about eastern Europe.
Africa doesn't have this problem
It's spreading but Latin America and Southeast Asia haven't quite caught up. Only a matter of time though.
@@tsukmakur2696Don’t tell me Ukrainians have gone westernized! 😢
Hoeflation, then the collapse
We've already collapsed, this is the new normal. Don't expect anything dramatic to happen.
There is no collapse. It's just gonna be more of this
@@Krelian4400We've already collapsed? Lol no hardly. Things are still running. We are in the matured stages of a long decline sure. But not even remotely a collapse
Hoeflation isnt a thing
@@Sisyphus.. It is, normie.
Having worked around a lot of women at my jobs and overhearing their gossip - I can confirm that most of them truly do not like men. The misandry is pretty blatant. Chad is an exception of course. But it seems the desire for Chad is mostly about scoring with him and obtaining his genes and resources, not genuinely liking him as a person.
The women who aren't like this are the one's that entered a happy marriage long ago.
True .. true. Who knows why they barely like men it's weird. Many of them can thank men for most of the fun and cool things they do in thier lives like parties events and vacations. Yet they still whine. I posit we've raised a culture of women who behaved like spoiled rich kids who are never satisfied and nic pick everything
You can't really like something that has power over you. That goes for men and women.
I've worked in extremely f-dominated workspaces and can confirm what you wrote. The problem is: 99.999% of men refuse to accept this. It's been this way since recorded history began.
you nailed it, its not about looks, most women hate men, they have been brainwashed to believe that men are the problem and shouldnt exist. the workplace is prime example of why most women cant stand men. they only tolerate a handsome man not because they love him, but because it makes them feel better about themselves
Why? Because men don't like women. I'm not even one that dislikes men, but I am sick of the way women are treated on a daily basis. It's not even hard to see why.
Speaking from my own circle of people I know, those women who want relationships are in one. Those who are single don't want relationships. But are still on the dating apps. The single men I know of do want relationships. In terms of the dating apps, it's grim. There was a recent experiment on a TH-cam video where they did profiles for an above average man and an AI generated woman who they deliberately made unattractive and obnoxious. It took the man 39 days to get the same amount of likes that the woman got in THREE MINUTES.
That's insane tbh, do you have the link or the name of the video?
Deffo link that video. Its not surprising though. Simps literally are the cancer that can never be cured.
Men will mate with anything. Have you not seen any nature show
yes link please
@@somerandomdudeOG and @Cineraria99 - it's a video by tmol called "ATTRACTIVE Man Finds Out What It’s Like To Be An “AVERAGE” Woman on Tinder". Can't directly link to it as TH-cam deletes comments with links that are not from the video creator.
I made a tinder profile using a 4/10 woman just as an experiment, and every single guy I swiped right on was a match and I got bombarded with messages. So yeah, even extremely average women have unlimited options, which is why women are super picky. No one wants to say it, but men themselves are a big reason why dating is so hard. Men act entirely too desperate and it ruins it for everybody, I seen it firsthand with my tinder experiment.
Because most guys are swiping on 300 profiles and not one response. So they swipe on literally everything
Yeah but WHY are the men so desperate? HINT, ITS BECAUSE WOMEN ARE AS STRINGENT AS THEY ARE WITH THEIR DATING PATTERNS. You wouldn't have men who are this desperate if the average man had any options to begin with dude.
@@BrianWaller-qe7gr exactly, do these guys not realize that it's their fault that women bluff power?
Because guys swipe on almost everyone, we don't take matches seriously and they are practically worthless. Until you guys get standards, we can't respect the "compliment" of being liked.
Maybe 1/100 are actually a) interested in actually dating and not just hooking up b) non creepy and overly sexual and c) will even have the confidence to move from chatting for 5 mins then ghosting to actually taking you on a date. The choice we have is an illusion, the only real choice we have is for a hookup. Something most women don't want.
Exactly like the birds n the bees. Mother nature is undefeated.
This is the year that I stop being a simp. Please understand that this will be difficult. I have been a simp my whole life. Simping on women comes so naturally to me. When I am around other simps, that's when I really shine! I try to out-simp my fellow simps. Not being a simp will be a big change for me.
I've stopped simping since 2023. No results.
Be like Butters Stotch, who made his long journey from simp to pimp 😅😂
@@DededeHeroat least you won’t spend your energy on nothing anymore
You’re ridiculous
I still cave if the woman looks good. It is simping or just I feel better around good looking things that makes me interested. So I try not to simp too much to the point of frustration. I wish o knew this stuff long ago. Imagine a second chance to be born again with knowledge.
“Abstaining from dating” for women means they still sleep with Chad.
No it doesn’t, I have first hand experience they don’t. I promise, they just stay single
@@WheatWaffles And I have first hand experience they do. I know several female coworkers who have been perpetually single for years. Chad still gets access. Many of the girls go out drinking hoping to score a Chad for the night. I've overheard it all and even witnessed it straight up.
@@WheatWaffleswhat is first hand experience? How can you trust what they say when women try not to disclose information that makes them look bad, like sleeping around ?
@@AirsoftOnlineShorts Ah young squire, only if you’d have the experiences I’ve had
@@WheatWaffles You're articulate and everything but the average person in a lot of countries is pushing mid 40's. Experience is not your forte just yet.
I saw a comment from some goof who said that his female friend told him years ago that there was nothing attractive about him. A few years later she told him that she had "fallen in love with him." He was even bragging about it.
Betabux deluxe hahahahahahahahahah
Sounds like she has been ran down in the good ol' Chad department.
women don't fall in love at first sight, like men do 😂
RIP that guy
Looked like time caught up with that female friend of his
A french youtuber made stats on Tinder, between 400 et 2600 profiles like, stats are here :
Chad : 10% match ratio
Normal guy : 0.19% match ratio
Popular normal guy : 0.34% match ratio
Rich guy : 0.54%
Pretty girl : 80% match ratio
Normal girl : 45% match ratio
Rich pretty girl : 85% match ratio
Info: It was hard for him to get data for girls as liking too much profiles as a girl is considered as "not a normal behavior, so probably a bot, and ban", while it's not for men. Also the banned account of the "normal girl" was a real girl that got banned for this test.
It is quite consistent with my experiments: average looking girl in more-less big city have 2x tinder "reciprocal" likes than a gigachad of the same age in the same city. Briefly speaking, any slightly overweight Jenny will have 300+ tinder likes within 48h and 80% of them respond instantly.
@@AndreyGreenYtube thanks for sharing, Tinder is a scam
Poissons fécond
Over for chadcels
what's the Name of the youtuber?
I am absolutely cooked bro
Same...
Don't feel too bad. That's the vast majority of men
if i was girl i would choose best ones to
@@rasplata we don’t want to hear this, but it’s the truth we all needed. If I was a woman, I wouldn’t look positively at a lot of these attempts either, especially if I already wasn’t hot about some of these guys to begin with
It's over for cookedbrocels.
Guys give women far too much attention. A lot of this is our fault.
100% right. That’s why I stopped following so many women on social media if they don’t follow me back. Why keep giving attention to those that give us none?
@@LordVader5738 Why would you even follow any woman on social media? I never did. The idea itself seems ridiculous to me.
@@Stoigniew666 mistakes I’ve made, my guy. But I’m learning and fixing my mistakes.
Sure to some degree. Most of it is due to the imbalance that comes with an egalitarian and gynocentric society. A lot of this does come down to laws and broader cultural foundations simply following their natural conclusions. When you have a society which constantly undermines men and our authority while giving women everything and more without any consequences then society will break down
Your so not wrong
It took you 500 cold approaches to get 2 relationships. Let's assume you're a 6. Now take a guy who's a 2 or 3. Maybe 2000 cold approaches to get one girlfriend? He spends tons of time, effort and money, and likely gets dumped. Now add heartache. Would that be worth it? I say he's better off learning to enjoy life alone.
Even those attractive guys get dumped. You are dreaming if you believe otherwise. They use them to show off or a rich guy for his money. Then they move on.
A 2 or 3 gets nothing
If you are a 2 or 3 you are more likely to get arrested than get a girlfriend with 2000 cold approaches. If you have any chance at all it will be by warm approach. If you are a 3 some girl out there sees you as a 5. If you have a great personality she might just want you.
Literally the one thing motivating most men to pursue women is sex, Take that away and it's completely irrational.
@@alb12345672 Why would they be able to move on without value to attract anyone else?
I've repeating this to normies for years. 90% of women don't get it. Around 75% of men will agree with me.
The women get it. They just won't be honest about it to save face
@@torrancemoore6152 absolutely agree
@@torrancemoore6152 They are well aware what they are collectively doing to men and are laughing about it.
The women get it. They're not as stupid as they make themselves out to be. They would rather look like an idiot than having to agree with a man. They hate us so much, that they would rather disagree with us and look dumb rather than agree with us and look smart.
they know everything but ignore it as they live in the realm of feelings > never listen to what they say watch their actions
It's weird cause you expect that women are the ones that want a relationship through the media and movies you watched when young. Now everything is upside down. It's hard to navigate, even though all the evidence is here.
They do want a relationship - with a rich, tall, high status Chad.
@@Krelian4400this. They want them but not with the average guy
@Krelian4400 Well based of my comment. I'm comparing women to men. Which by that comparison, men are the ones who want to be in a relationship more than women. Women will not settle down until they find what you describe most of the time, thus holding off from a relationship more.
Women are complete without a man, that's the difference. A man is an added bonus and unless he brings value, why bother? Most men cause women extra work, domestically and emotionally. That's on top of us going to work. When we find the men willing to be equal partners and put in as much mutual effort, that's when we want a relationship. We just find few of those types.
Men always preferred to be in a relationship over women. Why? Because dating women is expensive, tiring, and time consuming. It's a chore. The sooner dating is over and done with, by securing a relationship, the better things are for a man (at least until the woman gets bored). Dating for women on the other hand comes free and it's exciting. It's like experiencing an amusement park with no entry fees. There's no incentive for a woman to be in a relationship. She's having too much fun dating.
Reddit would explode from being so triggered by this video lol. They really hate facts and logic when it comes to dating and the differences between men and women.
I don't think that's the only fact and logic they hate, we're talking about the most blatantly far-left platform on internet
@AFT_05G they're definitely a caricature of the left
Most women have decided to not settle for what they actually qualify for. Instead they’ll remain single wait for the Chad to sweep them off their feet which will never happen.
@Brain Exactly. Don't forget about Tyrone.
That's where cats and dildos come in 😂😹
@@Stephan5916 also Tyrone wont wont settle with low quality women.
Because its all about looks
It’s so over for you
At least women have sisterhood for them. Men created various nations ( built by men) for themselves but the nation doesn't give a damn about him.
My dating options (after numerous rejections and unrequited heartbreaks) are nonexistent despite learning as much as can about dating and growing as a man(burnt out)
Develop hobbies, explore the world, make money and resist the innate desire to reproduce.
Friendly reminder to all the guys to NOT clownmaxx with a girl they like, it doesn't build attraction and will most likely leave you humiliated... attraction on her end involves a facial analysis lasting a few milliseconds at best not "why did the chicken cross the road?"
clownmaxxing is a shore up to attraction, yes it's useless on it's own
Good thing I have been off the market since 18… MGTOW works out for me very well. I have known the truth of the dating market since then… by contrast, I’m 25 as of writing this comment.
I LOVE the fact that he ANSWERS FIRST then proceeds with the video, respect!
Bro bring back powerpoint videos
too much time to create, these vids he just has to talk to a camera😂
yeah fr you have a face for radio
@@fryhyh exactly. this is way easier to produce.
@@CustomerService-d7c face for radio is insane
@@CustomerService-d7clmao. Damn.
I appreciate your videos dude. You're giving the most pragmatic advice out there to follow that works. You look at the data and reality of dating instead of what feels good and what's politically correct to say.
I will go even further and say the ones who think they want a relationship initially just want to feel that “honeymoon” phase of the relationship but when they realize that relationships are about they change their mind and start looking for that dopamine hit again.
I often say that resolutions are stupid, and that I won't take part in them for this new years, but...
For this year, I'm gonna lock in and just forget about women. Pursue boxing, work hard, be on my own. The world and women don't give a dang about me. I don't encourage solitude for everyone else, but this is where life has led me personally.
If you feel the same, and haven't had any sort of affection in your life, I implore you, don't give up. I don't wanna sound corny or 🟥 pilled but do not give up. You have to keep going, there is no other way. Be determined and stay focused, guys.
I mean, spiritually celibacy and restraining from relationships is beneficial.
Becoming a dog breeder seems more and more lucrative
Take the dog pill bro
Exactly women should approach men sincerely and i mean real sincere choosing signals. A lot of fakery out there
They do to the guys they like (sometimes). It's just not most men
Exactly and with me I feel like they find me somewhat attractive and might secretly like me but are too intimidated to do anything. It s just ridiculous@@torrancemoore6152
Only the top % of guys get that
This video doesn’t take into account the fact that females need a longer time for attraction to take place which can make women APPEAR less interested in the initial phases of dating, even if they actually are looking to find someone. Hence why cold approach has a much lower success rate with women than in warmer environments.
Please don't cite Chat GPT as a source, it's actually laughable
It's more valid than your dating takes, that's for sure. I went into chatGPT and got it to admit that men are the issue in dating
truly. ridiculous
I genuinly believe we were not made to sleep around. It breaks women to the point that they kinda start hating the very gender they were supposed to fall in love with
Are u a chick ?
Can I give you my 2 cents about the hand gestures? I think you should mix them up more and open the hands from time to to time. Atm it's just the same gesture over and over again from left to right and me personally I don't like this half open hand, I would rather use a full open hand.
I agree, his hand gestures are very incongruent and feel forced.
Yee. Looks like I might consider myself lucky since I was a kid I knew that I just don't want any girlfriend. It's just really not worth putting any effort into it in these days.
I'm not that big into the Blackpill but this video def spits some truth!
spitting facts 👍
Just be tall and handsome 👍
5:00 india 93% men and 7% women on tinder😂😂 broooootal
It is brutal saar
I mean im an average looking Indian guy who had tinder for 6 months and i didn't get a single match which wasnt a catfish
HAHAAHAHAHAHA ITS OVAHH
@@jigsaw2253 brutal laaar
Indian men in America prove the black pill is very real. These guys have high salaries from working in tech but still struggle to get women here in California. Its looks above everything for this dimension
Don't forget, all this goes out the window for Chad.
Finally stopped looking at a phone.
Keep it up!
Its looks above everything for this whole dimension. Look up the study by elaine walster - what is beautiful is good . She said it was all down to attractiveness and this study was done back in the 60’s
yep humans > monkeys with big brains and cellphones
It’s juggernaut law, end of video
HOLY FXXK the sense-or-ship on here has escalated to the point that it is beyond ridiculous
It's blatant censorship. I straight up have seen some of the likes on your comment get removed.
My favourite part is receiving notifications about comment threads from which my remarks have been removed. So awesome!
Anyway, I feel your pain, dude.
@@GjVj What's even more messed up is the fact that a lot of the time a comment will look like it's still up, but no one else can see it.
@@gabeo9474 Huh. That's a new one on me - explains why I feel like I'm screaming into the void sometimes, though...
@@GjVj Yes. The deleted comments are only one aspect of the social engineering campaign. I've been monitoring this for some time now, and they have made several very subtle changes that all worked toward making their speech controls more covert.
At this point, there are multiple levels to how the system works: _comment removal_ and _comment silencing_ (AKA shadow banning). If you post a comment and then check back to confirm that it's still posted, that actually doesn't mean that it hasn't been silenced. The most nefarious aspect of the thought policing on this platform is that very often your comment will remain visible to you, but it won't be visible to anyone else, and there will be no notification or indication of any kind that this action has been taken against you. The only way to really know if your comment has been silenced or not is to open an incognito/private browser window (not logged in) and search through all the comments to see if yours is there. (Note: you used to be able to check quickly by changing the sorting of the comments to "most recent", but they changed it so that now the silenced comments are only removed from the "top comments" list, which is the default setting that nearly everyone sees. The bonus is that now anyone is able to see the silenced comments by switching to the "most recent" sorting).
The reason for this is to make people who are engaging in wrongthink believe that their silenced comments are publicly visible but that no one liked or interacted with the comments so they feel as though their ideas have been socially rejected. In most cases, this causes the person to be less likely to share the same ideas again and effectively pushes them toward "acceptable" ideas. Even when the person is fully aware of the silencing, simply having knowledge of the existence of such a mechanism inevitably makes the person less likely to share controversial ideas because of the hassle associated with avoiding certain words/phrases and the extra effort required to ensure that the comment really is publicly visible, so it's a win-win from their perspective.
I've seen videos where 65% (~4000 out of 6000+ total) of the comments had been silenced, and this doesn't even take into account all the comments that are outright removed.
Thanks for putting India in ur statistics 💀
Can you do a video on all the guys that'll drop out of working amd find other ways to get by once they realise at about age 40 that they never had a chance and what effect that will have on the economy/society? I think it's already happening with the over 50's as there is a known worklessness crisis with this demographic in the UK.
Yep I’m just working to sustain myself and nothing more. I no longer try to better myself. What’s the point when I have no family and I’ve invisible?
Planning on being one of those guys in the future. Got zero attention from females and honestly really don’t have any friends anymore so I have nothing to lose. Saving up for building a wooden cabin, decades worth of property tax, solar panels, food, utilities etc.
there has always been a workless crisis with a percentage of men. men from lower socio economic backgrounds ith low levels of education struggle to get the manual labor jobs they previously did as company realise they are an injury / insurance risk. In australia roughly half the people on unemployment benefits are over 45 some of which will never find work again
If you reach 40 and have not figured out that you need to use your passport options, your IQ is too low to find a mate anyway. If you want a wife, you work on yourself, avoid women, then when ready, don't sign up for dating apps, avoid western women, get a passport and find a foreign wife.
1. Someone SAYING that they’re looking or not looking to date in answer to a survey question is not necessarily indicative of whether they actually are or aren’t. It’s more likely to be reflective of how they felt at the time they were surveyed. This is not good evidence
2. If you went on 10 dates in 6 months, and none of them turned into a second date - at least part of the problem has to be you. Just because they told you they weren’t looking for a relationship, doesn’t mean that it’s true. That’s just another way of rejecting you.
3. Women don’t need to be on dating apps to get a date. They can easily draw male interest organically within their social circles, and they’ll be approached on instagram too.
4. Expecting women to ask guys out is like expecting a horse to breakdance - it’s not in their nature. Men chase, women choose. They don’t need to ask guys out because they’re already being pursued. When a woman complains that she can’t find a man, all she means is that she doesn’t believe that her best current options are representative of her full pulling potential.
5. This idea that most women aren’t interested in guys is ludicrous. It’s true that they’re highly selective, and that they’re only interested in a particular type of guy, but excluding women who have recently broken up, most women are interested in guys. Even old biddies beyond the menopause are. Attraction isn’t an intention, it’s an involuntary instinctive response. As long as women have the capacity to be attracted - they will be. Men just have to be attractive to get them.
Excellent video! I’ve been saying for years women should take more initiative and men need to stop being so desperate
Men get less desperate when they get more options. Not their fault
I don't think that's the answer at all. I think they'll likely all flock to the same 20% of highly attractive men. Giving them easy access to sex, which the men don't respect. While rejecting men that are actually on their level.
That's pretty much what's happening now.
Just check the DMs of athletes, rappers, and playboys.
I feel that women need to burst their own bubbles of delusion, find men on their own level attractive, appreciate good treatment and genuine affection, and stop the thoughts of demanding a princess lifestyle, which seems to keep them single and unhappy.
You have been saying? Lol.
Why would a person in better position i.e. woman, give up her power and be like "Yeah, I could relax and get the benefits but NO, I would rather exchange that for hard work". Men like you are so delusional.
Actually pretty insightful video.
Bruh go get yourself a fine asian girl lmao, should be EASY for you
What if he doesn’t want to race mix?
@@DrillEntertainmentNetwork True... but like.. where do you draw the line. One could only take rejection for so long and he's got a market most men don't got
Only works if you actually go to Asia or pick up a REALLY recent immigrant.
Asian women in the West are just as bad.
@@DrillEntertainmentNetwork most men would race mix
it's most women that wouldn't
Easy?
They don't like gingers
They are not lonely at all.
sleeping with multiple different men each week is not dating in their dictionary :D
Because they surely have dozens of orbiters. Every, single, one of them.
Women don't really need to make "a move" but I do agree that ultimately they should put themselves out there and passively make this happen. It's like if you're a fast food worker just waiting for that dream +$100k/year job landing on your lap. That's not how it works. You will have to actively work and pursue it ... Otherwise you're just limiting your options. Sadly the concept of work-reward doesn't exist with women. It's just -reward for most of them.
Look at China 80% are single because of smartphones, O.F. and more have turned into lesbians. No woman or man talks face to face anymore and are all glued 24/7 on their cell phones which has destroyed the dating scene, end of the story. I've given up on women. No dating coach wants to really tell you the real truth. 15-20 years ago no one needed a dating coach, women would just approach men looking for a relationship. Now it's all about superficial hookups. Women today bring no value for men, so therefore no one wants to get married anymore. It's over. We will end up just like China sooner than you think.
Haven't seen the half naked women everywhere plus online?? Most men is just out of their budget bracket. Equality+ internet > delusional women who think a 0.01% guy is like 40% of men... for a young semi attractive girl , 90% of men are completely invisible
6:30 Break into her house and ask her out then. You won't be any creepier than approaching her in social situations anyways
40% of women looking to date 🤔
I say 100% of women looking to date ... but only with Chad 😝
True. Also, I think that when they say they're not looking to date, that just means their rosters are already full. And Chad doesn't need to do 'dates' either. The whole song-and-dance of 'dating' is for Backup Beta Bob.
to date is very ambiguous term > for most women having s*x with multiple guys is not dating
3:06 😂
But seriously istg I wasted an entire year chasing this 5/10 chinlet girl only for her to hangout with one specific guy. Not worth it anymore. I'd say normie girls are the most picky
Long story short. MONEY & Prenuptial & legacy. The gravitational curve of society is traditionalism. Thats why we have been fundamentally the same for thousands of years.
Traditionalism in this respect is = Transactional based relationships.
Bravo
All relationships transactional one way or another. Traditional = men providing and protecting and women nurturing her man, children, and household.
You have to resort to money because you aren't physically desired
@LooksMaximus-qx4tk 98% of men are not attractive. But guess what use to happen to the 2% before the 98% decided to create social norms. Let's just say counter to the Disney Narrative the 2% didn't make it back from the hunt. If society collapses, guess who takes the L first. So it behoove the 2% to also maintain the traditional social norms.
BECOME CHAD
LOOKS = HEALTH
Chad is genetics. It's a little more than eating right and going to the gym
It's not all about being a Chad or she will only look at you as a hookup. You need to be the full package.
Cope
just max your looks n money threshold n your good to go
@@mrzackattack261 exactly, transforming to Chad makes you realize how much the same and basic they are and you are just the "fun" guy in their life. They want the bag and the status as well to show off to her girlfriends.
We all already know the answer to this. Just say you're out of things to talk about
😂 true.
He needs to start making some more positive videos. This Doom and gloom stuff is getting old
@@AdviceandAdventuresat least some vdos showing his socks 😂
Who's 'we' mate?
@@AdviceandAdventures Maybe I'm just in a dark place myself (and there's no maybe about it, lol) but, in this realm, what positive things are there? 100% serious question.
@@AdviceandAdventures you got lost I see, this isnt an OF channel. You're not a black piller, stop pretending you're one of us.
I think that most women with minimal effort put towards their looks can get into relationships with 90-95% of men, it's just that most women want HIM. So they would rather die alone with cats than not be able to lock HIM down.
Nope, they can get sex, not relationships. These women will struggle to get a relationship. If she were to drop her standards, like you also if you drop your standards you'd be in relationships easy.
@@aliendroid1 Most of us inkwells want an average looking woman (that is, a woman within our league since the majority of us are plain average looking). So you want us to drop our standards and date with repulsive looking women? You're a clown.
That is right and there is nothing wrong with that. I don't understand why men are content with whatever they can get. I guess women have much higher standards for whom we're willing to date and if he isn't our first option we can't even be bothered. We're just different.
It would be nice if the main stream news covered what is happening with relationships in the west right now to alleviate the confusion so many people have. But, I don't think that's going to happen anytime soon.
That's not the media's job. Their entire purpose is to invert reality and construct misleading, divisive, and confusing narratives, not to enlighten people. That would run completely counter to the owners' interests. As you say, it might be nice, but it ain't going to happen.
I don't see why. Men are independent by nature and can survive alone. Unlike females. There's a difference between being alone and loneliness though. Many humans do need company. Can be problematic though. I mean you can be alone in an unloving relationship, which most men seem to be. Be strong.
Yeah men don't NEED women so they have to WANT them to pursue them. Since the dawn of mammals, women had little to no choice but to be with a man so there was never a need for women to like men
Damn, he's back
Its over for hand gesture cells.
If I had unlimited options I'd pick women who looked like 8s-9s and ignore the rest too.
Only way this will be broken is abundance on the male side. That can only come from realistic robots. We are in the 21st century for most needs but the 18th century in terms of scarcity (of romantic options)
I wouldn't normally say this, but women should now take the initiative and start asking men out and doing all the things that women would say they require men to do, like approaching and flirting with them, considering their feelings and emotions, etc. Women should go through what men go through, like coming up to them, flirting, talking, and interacting, and then see how difficult it is for men to get a date, girlfriend, fiancee, or wife. But then again how many would be able to handle that task?
They already do with Chad, just not us.
@@KUDIANEIRAglad someone said it.
They really move the same as we do. We just don't see it cuz it's not most of us
Women always make the first move with the men they desire
@@torrancemoore6152 Agree. I grew up with a Chad brother and cousin, I've seen exactly how women act towards men they like. All this effort is a lie, when she's attracted to you, you can even try to deliberately mess it up and still win. It's that easy.
If you're wondering what to text her to keep it flowing, it's already over.
I agree man
Guys what would happen if all men were chads? It would still remain some hierarchy or it would be easy for every man to find girlfriend?
I've pondered this before. The "average" would just go up, and women would be attracted to rarer (positive traits). So let's say we did an experiment: There are 10 guys, 10 women. The guys are all 6-4, 200 pounds with a six pack. PP size the same. Full head of hair. Same money and clothes. Everyone is the same race (men and women). All guys are intelligent and articulate. If we leave things like hair and eye color to genetics, I suspect women would be attracted to the rarest positive trait they could find. So if two of the 10 guys have blond hair and blue eyes, those two would be chosen. If a third guy had black/brown hair, and gray/green eyes, he would be chosen as well. If hair and eye color are all the same (e.g., 10 blonde /blue eyed Chads) then the women would have to find some miniscule favorable trait that nobody would notice normally. Example, 2 guys have dimples and get chosen. If there are no discernable differences, then the women may not choose at all. My point is that there has to be some sort of hierarchy for the women to choose from. That's how they are wired.
نحن نعيش في مجتمع دارويني فالاخلاق و الكلام الذي يقال في التلفزيون و الميديا كله زائف البلاك بيل حقيقة لا ينكرها إلا الجاهلون انظر الى البطل في الافلام دائما يكون تشاد و البطلة ستايسي سوف تعرف أن الحبة السوداء حقيقة
I get extremely ‘simpy’ if I do or say something stupid (mostly drunk but not always). I find spending too much time around each other makes me less forgiving. Im working on that. My real problem is if the woman is a rare one, I try ‘simping’ harder.
In germany, in many rural areas (especially in east germany) there are significantly more young men than young women. (up to 40 %)
Many young women left the rural areas (especially in east germany) for the big cities, where the universities are.
I guess, there is an incel epidemic going on in this regions.
should've kept them there inkwell
Thats why i vote far right
@@PatronErdosGermans won’t change after two world wars
That's how it is in the US. Most women run to the city to try to get with liberal men who have money while abandoning the white republican voters.
Minor correction: that might be where the universities are, but that's not why they go there. They go there to ride the C. Carousel, in an atomized, anonymous environment - which means they can avoid judgement (and therefore accountability) for their decisions and behaviour. That's the appeal. In a rural area, where everyone knows everyone, and what they're up to, they'd soon pick up... a reputation. They flock to the cities to be 'liberated' from _consequences,_ and (what they see as) constrictive, parochial morality and standards of conduct.
In other words, they go to university to be 304s, getting an 'education' is just a cover story. Women are only as 'good' as they're forced to be, and in the city, they're free from silly rules. They're the main character and rules don't apply to them, dontcha know.
Why is wheat’s ear so small from the side😂
Btw - those india tinder stats XD I mean - is it grinder? :D
He is honest and nicely upfront with what he does - gives face ratings and offers an actual product (a book). However, I'd rather he creates a course named _"How to approach 500 girls and not get arrested"_
Really, how does he do it?
If you are that socially inept that you get arrested talking to women, give up dude.
After first love/relationship women look at relations like business transections coz women lose lose their pair bonding ability after a man or two
Nailed it. It's a brutal truth, but it's still the truth.
@GjVj yep and they wisen up to the fact that they have unlimited male options. Thats why an experienced 24 year old gf has no problem dumping her bf of 2 years over a text. He will spend months suffering while she will have another man immediatly
He had to approach 500 to get a relationship, plus apps? i thought he said "running the numbers" n the apps doesn't work
I remember online dating being easier when it was back in the early days of dialup internet
only the most desperate women were on it back then
@MikeG82 No man....there weren't that many choices back then on early internet
I have enough experience with young women to know that they try a bit, get disappointed then take a break. Then they try again and get disappointed and as time goes on the breaks get longer and longer.
Truthfully the quality of men are just poor, not just looks but also personality. So if you don't have money, fame or some other kind of novelty then you will be overlooked.
I'm a woman and I agree. I'm currently on a break partly because I'm busy and partly because I'm afraid I'd become jaded if I kept dating.
@@ismt9390 Most women have nothing to offer. Even when the perfect man shows up in front of them, most women wouldn't know what to do.
The quality of men are just pooor? But you stake no claim on the quality of wommmrn being poor?
@@thechosenone93 Men still want women despite poor quality, that is the difference.
What you said. I saw 20 different women today.. rated from 4 - 8+.. I would happily have a life with any one of them.
I'm an okay looking guy with decent career and I'm always down for someone to set me up with someone who's decent. This can't be said for the average girl. Any thought of being set up by someone they utterly refuse unless it's someone famous or rich. Decent in their eyes is someone way above their league.
Good to see you brother.
India is Cooked!!
0:44 This survey is invalid argument.
For woman, especially in her 20s to openly admit she is looking for a mate is "shameful" to a degree. On a dating site woman could ✍️write on her page "hahaha, a friend made this page for me just for fun". Why? Because admitting seeking for 💏relationship lower 👩woman's initial negotiation power... at least in her head.
I'm sure you're right re young people. As a Gen Xer in London when I got on eHarmony after divorce I found lots of women interested in dating me, up to about 8 or so years younger. Of course finding a high quality woman also into me still took effort.
You know you were definitely getting a bunch of overweight single mother Muslim chicks and he definitely didn't get any matches from 28-year-old women trying to start a family with a 18% BMI.
All due respect we're not trying to date used up hags old timer
I have a question: Despite being an above average (good-) looking, 22 years old, roughly 6 feet tall man (~7/10, which I've figured out watching your videos while also knowing that I've inherited most of my facial features from my father, who still today gets choosing signals from numerous women, even though he's married) and working out so much that everyone says I'm shredded/jacked, I have yet to lose my V-card, let alone to find a girlfriend... any advice or idea as to why this is happening to me?
Most likely you're not making an effort.
From what I’ve seen when a guy has all the advantages and they’re flopping with wommmen it means:
-they’re somewhat socially awkward(once knew a socially awkward guy who was tall,white,blue eyed but lost his V card because the girl put it on him,and again he didn’t make an effort like you)
-their standards are astronomically high(ie an 8 waiting for the attention of an 11)
-ignores the interest of multiple wommen who obviously check him out as he walks down the street(aforementioned friend regularly did this,but he just ignored it so that’s a self sabotage I feel)
For attractive teenage guys a common problem is that they develop a crush for some girl near them and do not take her indirect refusals for an answer. It could still apply at 22 if you have no experience.
Instead, give a chance to a girl who sends positive signals and see where you get. After the first kiss you likely forget your previous crush.
Because, many won’t admit it, but luck plays a huge part. I’m 5’8’’, 6/10 facially, and not muscular at all, II would say I’m lean. However a really pretty girl found me attractive enough to date me and later she fell in love with me.
Want to find a woman nowadays ? Go to Russia. The number of widows will increase by a lot on the next years.
Ahah and Ukraine
Russia already has a deficit of men, has had it since WW2
Doesn't change the women's behavior much
They are really attractive
They wouldnt even look at guys who arent chads
@@DisfattBidge-i2xfacts.
JFL.
Back on track
You had 10 first dates and not even one gave you a second date? You had bad luck or something is off here...
I’ve had 55-60 lifetime first dates. Only 8 led to second dates and no third and no relationships no hook ups. And I’ve done nothing really that bad to scare them off. I’m just introverted so I may come off as disinterested because I’ve been rejected enough to where I just can’t get too enthusiastic only to be rejected again. I’m going to be alone rest of my life I’ve come to terms with it
Right, I had a repeat date rate of 70%. It helps that I'm 6'3, but there was a reason they wanted to see me again. And part of it was that I didnt take the girls overly serious
I went through 17 first dates until I found a girl willing to give me a second - and she became my girlfriend. Even today, I wouldn't be able to tell you what I did that was so off-putting to these women. They either ghosted me entirely or provided bullshit feedback such as "there's no spark."
@@marcusmcgraw3519no it’s because you’re 6’3,not because “you didn’t take them seriously”😂
@@BrianWaller-qe7gr If those 55-60 dates are with local women that's your fault, get a passport and date foreign women, your life will change.
I think women are trying to avoid random dudes like this guy who don’t care about them personally. I’d personally just find someone you like and just start investing your time in them. The key is just find someone you at least like and invest a lot in them. If it doesn’t work out, you’ll at least be in better shape to find the next one because you care. Take it from someone who is 52 and been married for 27 years and that definitely worked for me and I think it is what your generation is missing. You are just trying to find something new when you should just discover what you already have and start investing your time and attention.
Bro, forgive me for saying this, but you sound like a friggin' Boomer. By your own admission, you've been out of the game for more than a quarter of a century, and the environment has changed. Invest time and attention, and you'll be dismissed as a simp. That's a fast track to the friendzone, mate.
@ Thanks for the reply. I don’t mean to put them on a pedestal. You’re going to invest your time and energy no matter what. What I’m saying is don’t invest your time and energy in someone who doesn’t care about you but do invest your time and energy into someone who reciprocates your energy. People get it wrong thinking someone will fulfill all their needs. Just accept that it’s going to be a lot of work and find out who you have available by showing your interest and be prepared to back off if they don’t reciprocate. If they do reciprocate then do put your full time and energy into them. You aren’t going to be a simp if they reciprocate.
@ also it’s far from easy street for me. There isn’t going to be an easy option. The key is to accept that it’s going to be a lot of work. This is the path to being genuinely caring. Then you don’t need to put in effort to appear to be caring because you are. You will become a better person even if it doesn’t work out and the next one you will be a better person for and you’ll be more desirable.
@@robnelson6545 Thank *you* for the reply (apart from anything else, most of my comments get vanished, so getting a dialogue going is a rare treat, these days).
I can't really disagree with what you're saying, especially the key part being *reciprocity.* That's what's missing - from wahmens. They're so used to so much attention, _without having to give anything in return_ - mainly via social media - that that's become their baseline reality (and it's made them _insanely_ entitled). They have time and attention, from legions of men, in such abundance, that it's lost all value to them.
The _exceptional_ man (the kind they're interested in) is the man who rations and limits his time and attention. You have to 'flip the script' and make them compete for your attention. That's how you stand out in a world of simps.
He who cares less, wins. Developing compassion and kindness is important (probably the most important thing in life), but one must establish and maintain _boundaries._
That's what a lot of men are lacking these days - because they're being actively taught that having boundaries (and preferences, and standards) is 'toxic'. Whilst wahmens are told that any limits placed on them are 'oppressive'.
It's all so messed up... I can point out some of the problems, but I'm somewhat short on solutions, tbh. Cheers!
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@@robnelson6545 ffs... I wrote an essay in response (pretty much agreeing with you, as well) aaand... it's gone. Thank YOU, dude, for trying to have a conversation - I tried too. If you can read this: cheers!
Griffter WHeat Waffles. What a joke
He’s posting water content ngl
Women have to approach Men directly at this point
He’s right 2 of my closest friends are celibate.. one of 2 years the other 5 years …. Single women are becoming less interested in men
Until the clock starts ticking louder
Translation: *Chad* is becoming less interested in _them._
Bring back the power points !
3:22 ChadGpt
It took me 20 years to understand that the "game" is heavily rigged and there's nothing wrong with me (other than not being pretty/"chad"y). Now I'm old and basically don't care anymore. 10 years now single (no sex too) and doing well on my own. Plenty of hobbies to spend my time.
Why am I on this video ? Well, for laughs and giggles... ;-)
Population decline. How come it's only in Western countries though. Africa and India population keeps going up. They don't have protection?
In western countries women don't need men anymore
If you were to live in a shack without an infrastructure and your only ticket to survival would be marriege and kids, while your insurance end retirement option were your future kids you would do the same XD
Another thing are arranged marriages. Not happening in the west. I bet my all belongings that both in Africa/India things look differently in rich neighbourhoods of rich cities than in province.
@@HCforLife1 It is if the society is affluent with empowered women. South Korea is not the West yet is the oldest nation on Earth.
India's fertility rate is now below replacement.
When you have low lifespans, you breed like rabits to compensate
I’ve never had a problem getting second dates or relationships
W genetics
Men have options overseas ;)
😂😂😂😂
Yea, betabuxx deluxe.
Those dudes "options" are paying for some lady. Women aren't magically different over there either. Money gets you gold diggers but it doesn't buy genuine attraction
@@torrancemoore6152 Nevertheless the quality to price ratio still seems higher there.
Women are women bro. America and liberalism are the cultural norms across the world because our culture and political structure is our favorite thing to export to the world.
Girls in general are more selective and less hungry than men. By tradition it's also the mans job to ask a girl out. Complaining about these circumstances is pointless. Accept the reality and make the best out of your situation.
This is a great analysis of how women feel. Great research. I am guessing they feel like this because there isn't the financial dependency on men that there used to be. Sad though. The men still have the need but the women don't unless you present them with the most handsome men available.
Nothing sad about women not being desperate. Y’all couldn’t learn from them