Reasons Why I No Longer Date Nigerian Men!!! (2023)

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  • @chosen4lyfe100
    @chosen4lyfe100 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I’ve been dating a Nigerian guy for a year now and he is Igbo… It has been nothing but heart aches and pains.. always cheating and lying… I have decided. To break up with him next month on his Birthday… That should teach him not to play with this Proud American woman of standards🇺🇸

    • @NKbutnot
      @NKbutnot 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Girl just leave.. you’re not going to teach him anything. He won’t care, he will be alright. Breakup now, go heal sis and attract better…. That is If you love yourself and know your worth

    • @Christimony222
      @Christimony222 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      on his birthday tho? thats just cruel . why not just do it before then? instead of purposely making some evil plan against him

    • @NKbutnot
      @NKbutnot 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@Christimony222 lol girl he is not evil for cheating and lying and being a manipulator? Plus he won’t care .. he will just go get some from the other girls he is messing around with. He’s not gonna cry about it. Men are not emotional like us.. he doesn’t care that’s why he’s cheating in the first place

    • @NKbutnot
      @NKbutnot 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Christimony222 if anything our good sis is wasting her time plotting revenge. Take the L and go do better. What one man don’t do the next one will. We gotta learn to know our worth and when realize a 🥷 is wasting our time to pick up and go. Time is currency.

    • @Christimony222
      @Christimony222 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@NKbutnot that’s not true. men do care about their birthday and their girl purposely being vindictive. If you don’t like the cheating, break up with him but purposely waiting for the one day to celebrate him is simply wrong.

  • @shaydavis9363
    @shaydavis9363 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I dated one recently here in Houston. Came off as the sweetest person! A Yoruba demon he was. He drunk alot and smoked a lot. It was his way or no way!
    He had some mean and evil ways about himself. He was very established and financial secured. He thought he was God. Looked and talked down on African Americans. First experience dating one! Thank God for saving me! I pulled a him on him. He got mad and dumped me.. sir I was raised by the OGssss… Tf out of here

    • @dorothycrawford3569
      @dorothycrawford3569 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's who they are yourba are not shit either they are terrible

    • @shaydavis9363
      @shaydavis9363 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dorothycrawford3569I never dated one until I met that one! I was completely clueless. He was a Narcissist. That’s alright though! I’m sure he’s telling his new supply the story of me 😂😂😂. A story he will never forget!

    • @Osunshoney409
      @Osunshoney409 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sis, you had a Yoruba demon too???? 😂😂😂😂… neva again lol

    • @shaydavis9363
      @shaydavis9363 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Osunshoney409Yessss! Unfortunately!!!!

  • @daenita08
    @daenita08 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I dated a Nigerian plastic surgeon that I thought was serious about his intentions and he turned out be deceptive. Be careful with those Nigerian men!

    • @naijamusictranslate6207
      @naijamusictranslate6207 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That's a Yoruba demon

    • @gamzilo
      @gamzilo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂

    • @Yara-py3qh
      @Yara-py3qh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They always have a bad intention breaking ladies hearts n playing with people's emotions is what they do best

  • @JM-ip1es
    @JM-ip1es ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I was talking to a Nigerian guy very briefly from the DMV. He was emotionally toxic and passive aggressive. I could tell by his actions he wasn’t serious about me, but expected me to reply to his text constantly. He would give me the silent treatment and ignore me when I set a boundary. The last straw is when he deliberately bragged about seeing another girl to my face. So I blocked him immediately. I also have had a bad experience with a Jamaican recently. I’m leery about dating foreign black men now… African American men aren’t perfect either, but it’s like foreigners think it’s culturally acceptable to mistreat women…almost like it’s mandatory.

    • @JM-ip1es
      @JM-ip1es ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I also will had I have made really close friends with nigerian women and Caribbean women, they’re nicer then their men ❤️

    • @AccordingToQueen
      @AccordingToQueen  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m so sorry you’ve had some bad experiences.. I’m sure the right one will come along soon 😀 Thank you for tuning in !

    • @diezelspfdmvmusic1271
      @diezelspfdmvmusic1271 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Stay home sista. We love you

    • @Loveit45
      @Loveit45 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Time for me to date yt men

    • @allesklarism
      @allesklarism ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I had similar experience and for hım it was almost a right that a man has two women.He did not call "fuckbuddy".Not Muslim, agnóstic.

  • @Laura-sn7mh
    @Laura-sn7mh ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I married a Nigerian man who treated me like a queen thr whole year we dated. As soon as we married with in 3 months he changed. I made a fake social media account with pics of a beautiful black woman. Guess who slid in my dms. Yep my husband and says he is single 😮😮😮😮😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. I divorced him asap and found out he got a girl pregnant during our marriage. I thank god he showed me who his man was

    • @hlengiwemasondo2858
      @hlengiwemasondo2858 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Was he from Nigeria or a Nigerian raised in America?

    • @Laura-sn7mh
      @Laura-sn7mh ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@hlengiwemasondo2858 born and raised in Nigeria.

    • @animalworld3440
      @animalworld3440 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@Laura you people quick to divorce in black communities, no effort to make anything work in your communities, single mother are so high in your communities, like your own men are good, they have 5 baby mama most of them

    • @chikinairetor4308
      @chikinairetor4308 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow I’m so sorry for that
      I can just imagine what your going through. Hang in there sis.
      I only think what my husband is doing- he values is phone more than his wallet.I’m in the starting phase of preparing my paperwork to exit this non sense

    • @chikinairetor4308
      @chikinairetor4308 ปีที่แล้ว

      Any suggestions for me? It hasn’t been two years of marriage for me yet.

  • @Helen_590
    @Helen_590 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Nigerian men are the veteran Passport Bros

  • @debbieforareason364
    @debbieforareason364 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    There are over 250 distinct tribes in Nigeria and each culture is very peculiar. Some have got really inflated egos because a lot of the men/women are from traceable royal or generally well to-do families. It's sad that you had bad experiences

  • @shelleyguest4255
    @shelleyguest4255 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    From my experience? They all end up married and are trying to play on their wife or definitely have others making excuses about spending time with his “sister “ . I dont like to generalize but will be wary going forward after these experiences. 😢

    • @AccordingToQueen
      @AccordingToQueen  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m so sorry you had that experience.. and you’re right we have to be careful out here they can be tricky 😩Thank you for tuning in !

    • @Bri-nc8yp
      @Bri-nc8yp ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You not generalizing it’s the truth !!!

    • @msj793
      @msj793 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My ex husband not Nigerian and he did this. If the man wants to be committed he will if he doesn’t he won’t.

    • @samuelsaheed8941
      @samuelsaheed8941 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@msj793 thank u

    • @ReinaAfricana
      @ReinaAfricana 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah that's very true and I just went through this with one guy I wasn't really into. But it was more like a lust thing with him. He claimed to love me and everything and I was like nope I've been damaged far too long to know that you're lying.

  • @iruolajerealty
    @iruolajerealty ปีที่แล้ว +17

    If a Nigerian man is reluctant or refuse to integrated into local (American or non- Nigerian)culture, problematic.

    • @igbokwenu4934
      @igbokwenu4934 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What is "American culture"? Abuse of men and hsbands and fathers at the expense of pleasing bratty entitled female adolescents pretending to be adults their entire lives?
      Or the culture of fatherlessness caused by a justice system that rewards degeneracy and lack of honouring vows of only one gender by incentivising them to divorce?
      Yeah respectfully, I dont blame any Nigerian nor my igbo brethren from respectfully checking out of this degenerate fake "culture" thats circling down the drain.😑

  • @mariahssoapbox
    @mariahssoapbox ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Dating with intentions baby ! Don’t play with it don’t play with it!

    • @AccordingToQueen
      @AccordingToQueen  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yessss 🙌🏽 Thank you for tuning in 🤗

  • @mariahssoapbox
    @mariahssoapbox ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The Charlotte ones woooooohhhh my goodness. The Nigerian men are definitely growing but it’s super small. So you’re right you will end up dating someone’s friend because it’s small!

  • @ani_ndokwa1244
    @ani_ndokwa1244 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    It's fact.. when u date a Nigerian lady u are fully involved and known by her family members, they would outrightly ask u when u getting married some would put a timeline to it.. so most men would prefer to date other ethnic group coz they wanna play pending when they are ready to get married

  • @Jmahogane
    @Jmahogane ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Very insightful and understandable. As a AA married to a African I can definitely agree with some of the things you are saying but be vigilant sis🤣

    • @AccordingToQueen
      @AccordingToQueen  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol thank you so much😂I appreciate your support 🫶🏼

    • @thenativeconservationist
      @thenativeconservationist ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did you marry a South African man?

    • @vre7474
      @vre7474 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What african? We are not thee same

  • @Loveit45
    @Loveit45 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Ghanian and Nigerian men issa no 😂

  • @jayfizz545
    @jayfizz545 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    As a Nigerian man you really know too much lmao. #4 was facts, that family pressure makes it difficult to play with our own women because of the culture, they don't get done as bad as women from here. I've watched some of my brothers date others because that lack of pressure lets them do whatever.. In Africa everything is family based, your family is supposed to protect you from men who have bad intentions but since that doesn''t exist in American culture many girls get taken advantage of. I apologize on behalf of my kin sweetheart😂

    • @Cruisechatter
      @Cruisechatter 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Interesting fact. I like this input

    • @biancalucia8388
      @biancalucia8388 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol

    • @bukumiBrown
      @bukumiBrown 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank u for ur honesty. i hv found this to be true. American women don’t get to experience the best of Nigerian men because the relationships they hv with outsiders are not respected. when i say outsiders i mean NON AFRICAN! they do the absolute bare minimum for Americans ESPECIALLY AFRICAN AMERICAN. i wouldn’t advise any black American to date Nigerians. its never gonna end well.

    •  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not true. I’m American and was raised with men (my father and brothers) who were very overprotective and didn’t play about me. The average American guy couldn’t understand why I was not easy to take advantage of. They were not used to a lady telling them no to sex. I was pursued by a Nigerian and ended up marrying a Nigerian. We currently live in the USA 🇺🇸

    • @michaelolabode2994
      @michaelolabode2994 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You lied, you can't date Nigerian men because you can't manipulate them, they are very smart 😅😅😅😅

  • @sussybabie527
    @sussybabie527 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Nigeria man are not good they don't forgive if you guys have miss understanding u axed for forgiveness they will never forgive you 💔😭day ar heartless and heart breaker all what I want to say to you people if you want to be happy in your relationship please don't date Nigeria man 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🙏💔😭😭😭Day will send you to your early grave

    • @JordanSmith-pf1om
      @JordanSmith-pf1om ปีที่แล้ว

      Not all they came for business am sorry

    • @sussybabie527
      @sussybabie527 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JordanSmith-pf1om I see, if they don't stop god will visit them just like the way he visits turkey 🇹🇷😓🥺

    • @JordanSmith-pf1om
      @JordanSmith-pf1om ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sussybabie527 am sorry but u go na try me baby girl

    • @animalworld3440
      @animalworld3440 ปีที่แล้ว

      What is special about yall?

    • @hutup9092
      @hutup9092 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What did u do, that u want them to forgive?

  • @allthingsamanda1477
    @allthingsamanda1477 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The Prince Zamunda took me out 🤣🤣🤣. It’s definitely there moments and been noticing that specially in the music industry. Yeap that make sense Nigerian women is going to be on their neck.

  • @biancalucia8388
    @biancalucia8388 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I never knew dating Nigerian men was such a thing.

  • @lesliewallace7286
    @lesliewallace7286 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    THEY HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO BE HUMBLE~

  • @fistandpen2505
    @fistandpen2505 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    as a Nigerian man, it seems you are very familiar with the culture. So if you really want to settle with a Nigerian, you know age is big for us (for kids), so abeg find your oga and settle because you seem like a beautiful and lovely young lady that is a good catch. I'm just basing on how you come across. DMV has quite a few Nigerians and who are successful. Also it's easy to find out more about a person because it is a tight-knit community. Good luck.

  • @JordanSmith-pf1om
    @JordanSmith-pf1om ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Baby girl am from Nigeria and I promise you all Nigeria men are not the same

    • @urbanq5377
      @urbanq5377 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I hate when men say that cause yall that say that end up worse than the last one. This why i learned to never trust a black mans word no matter what part of the world he is from.

    • @ReinaAfricana
      @ReinaAfricana 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@urbanq5377I wholeheartedly agree with you I had to learn the hard way several times.

    • @23293
      @23293 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@urbanq5377 relax😅😆some of guys are nice you know

    • @Woliagba77
      @Woliagba77 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We the same… Who cares… lol 😆

    • @nowatalady
      @nowatalady 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I recently met a super duper very loving kind affectionate Nigerian man. We are in 2 different countries & that’s good so we can get to know each other before we meet. If it goes well.. we are definitely planning to marry!! We FaceTime everyday & talk throughout the day!! He’s amazing!!

  • @biggieshorty
    @biggieshorty 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The math doesn't even math... why would any American woman go after a Nigerian? 😂😂😂 like what?! The currency exchange doesn't work.

    • @AccordingToQueen
      @AccordingToQueen  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Lol I don’t go after them they go after me 😩 thanks for tuning in 😌

    • @bjbrownbob
      @bjbrownbob 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I like the "Currency Exchange" joke!!😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Osunshoney409
      @Osunshoney409 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lmao facts!!!!

  • @sholasholknb9199
    @sholasholknb9199 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    As a Nigerian man , I respect your opinion, Arnold schwazenneger said, I'll be BACK 😀, see you soon

  • @sunnni_
    @sunnni_ ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I didn't know any Nigerians until I went away to college back in 2015 and there's where I fell for their charm. I dated one who I really liked but ghosted me after I wouldn't have sex with him. Now I keep running into them and I'm like nope I will stay away 😂😂. But they really do be fine and smell so good, but I haven't dated to one in a year now, I been more focused on this Ghanian I had to cut off 😂

    • @Ifeanyiijeh
      @Ifeanyiijeh ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Why you running away from love. It's obvious you're destined to marry one of us. Lol

    • @sunnni_
      @sunnni_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Ifeanyiijeh 😂😂😂😂😂 the stress but I always come back so maybe it’s meant to be

  • @mariahssoapbox
    @mariahssoapbox ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m loving this intro !!!

  • @ebonysoblessed
    @ebonysoblessed ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Girl yes they all know each other here

    • @AccordingToQueen
      @AccordingToQueen  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yesss they do 😩 Thank you for tuning in 😀

  • @kiyanawillis2793
    @kiyanawillis2793 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I just started talking to a Nigerian man who lives there currently. I live in the USA and all the stories I'm hearing is giving me vibes to not even date this man. I never dated an African man but my friends seem to love the ones that are here in the states. Let me mention, the guy is younger and from my knowledge that alone good be an issue. I appreciate the video and will subscribe. Keep them coming.

    • @AccordingToQueen
      @AccordingToQueen  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wishing you the best with your current relationship 😀 Thank you so much for your support and for tuning in 🫶🏼

    • @binwoods23
      @binwoods23 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don’t do it because they lie so much and Nigerian men don’t respect African Americans

    • @Obaratuyaayaa
      @Obaratuyaayaa ปีที่แล้ว

      😂

    • @rhondas.journey
      @rhondas.journey ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Be careful that he isn't a scammer. Nigerian men aged 19-26 meeting wowen online, especially if you are middle aged...they are often romance scammers wanting 🤑🤑🤑.

    • @kennyking5606
      @kennyking5606 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@nwdailyliving have you ever been scammed by a Nigerian before?. Stop this nonsense stereotype abeg jor

  • @Obalufon
    @Obalufon ปีที่แล้ว +18

    If you’re masculine, we will never go all the way through with you. That’s a fact!

    • @Obalufon
      @Obalufon ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cocosheabuttarosemaryqueen9204 Submissive to respect her man, and not a 304. The main problem is that three quater of kids nowadays are bastards and raised by men that are not the fathers

    • @cocosheabuttarosemaryqueen9204
      @cocosheabuttarosemaryqueen9204 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Obalufon 😂😂😂😂

    • @animalworld3440
      @animalworld3440 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@cocosheabuttarosemaryqueen9204 not a thug

    • @naijamusictranslate6207
      @naijamusictranslate6207 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cocosheabuttarosemaryqueen9204 and you want a masculine offensive trans of a lady?

    • @cocosheabuttarosemaryqueen9204
      @cocosheabuttarosemaryqueen9204 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@naijamusictranslate6207 I don't want for anything, ho

  • @diezelspfdmvmusic1271
    @diezelspfdmvmusic1271 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    From city to city, country to country with that thing huh. Good luck and wrap it up.

  • @carlaclark6866
    @carlaclark6866 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I currently just got engaged to a Nigerian man. We are both in our Fifties. Hes so sweet. He cooks his African dishes for me, he takes me out, the sex is great. Im getting nervous reading these comments, is he going to turn on me after we get married.

  • @cindyleandre3999
    @cindyleandre3999 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sister, you are addicted to Nigerian men. If you decide to date other Nigerian men in the UK, I must say that they have been good to you.

  • @arisekolaolayinka5294
    @arisekolaolayinka5294 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The settle-down part, it’s a lie. Any man knows if he wants to marry you from day one or not be it Nigerian or anywhere.
    It has nothing to do with Nigerians at all. When we marry we just don’t marry the beauty alone. the families of both parties have to make sense. No Nigerian will want to marry into a family that is full of baggies and drama.
    Well, I love your disclaimer anyway.

    • @ReinaAfricana
      @ReinaAfricana 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Well that's weird and also complete b*******. Because I was talking to this one guy who was basically 34 years old. The same age as me. He's also Nigerian however he was very aggressive with me and very mean to me. Needless to say he tried to marry me and another girl. However when we had that short break up he claims that's when he met her. Then he got back with me just to scare me. So I wouldn't dare mess with them anymore. I have one left who is actually 61 and he's pretty great but he is now giving me lack of attention. So I think East African men are a lot better at least when they cheat on you they'll let you know. They don't have time to sugarcoat any fairy tales like Nigerian men and some men from Ghana

  • @wilsonailen5015
    @wilsonailen5015 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I will urge you to take an ancestry test, you will find that you are 90% Nigerian. If you look back in history, 90% of African Americans are actually nigerians

    • @kayabe856
      @kayabe856 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your point?

    • @earthangel3240
      @earthangel3240 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@kayabe856lol

  • @DOTMH_1
    @DOTMH_1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well i was at work minding my business and making money and here he comes asking for my number. He has other women, lied about his money, controlling, stalker, absence, obsession, est he's too much for me but i feel somewhat stuck.

    • @animalworld3440
      @animalworld3440 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your own men don't like you

    • @God.sDaughter
      @God.sDaughter ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just move on. You’re worth much more than what he is giving you.

    • @ireneachieng4195
      @ireneachieng4195 ปีที่แล้ว

      For me my sister i fear Nigerian men like corona, i have experience with one in Dubai

  • @suzannedouglas1068
    @suzannedouglas1068 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I definitely learned my lesson.

  • @aliciastarsaturn2841
    @aliciastarsaturn2841 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Never… again! He lied through his teeth about everything

    • @Osunshoney409
      @Osunshoney409 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      When I say lie… I mean lies you ain’t ever heard before 😂😂😂

    • @aliciastarsaturn2841
      @aliciastarsaturn2841 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Osunshoney409yes honey! Lol

  • @eddya1043
    @eddya1043 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was offended when I saw the title, but watching the video made me not to be offended.

    • @AccordingToQueen
      @AccordingToQueen  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Awww thank you for giving it a chance and thank you for tuning in 😀

  • @Reactionswithkaggwa
    @Reactionswithkaggwa 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Your opinion appears discriminatory. I will do a video to correct your erroneous opinion soon

    • @noire9601
      @noire9601 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lmao...someone is triggered.

  • @JM-ip1es
    @JM-ip1es ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes I agree heavy on the part about foreign black men tend to us other women for seccc. So it’s almost is a waste of time.

    • @igbokwenu4934
      @igbokwenu4934 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because American "culture" raises wmn to be nothing but functioning Pr0s titutes that pretend to go out to "work" in corporate jobs.
      Thats why foreign men detect this and act accordingly from early doors. 😊

  • @johnnwabuforudemezue1108
    @johnnwabuforudemezue1108 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We love you dear!!!!

    • @AccordingToQueen
      @AccordingToQueen  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww thank you ! Thank you for tuning in😀

  • @cobblah44
    @cobblah44 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love them but
    This it for me mama's boys

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    10:01Okay, that was the part I was waiting for so you could still date one of us then.🇳🇬

  • @JordanSmith-pf1om
    @JordanSmith-pf1om ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Make more content about Nigeria please I want to hear more about my country Nigeria from an America

    • @AccordingToQueen
      @AccordingToQueen  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for tuning in 😀

    • @sussybabie527
      @sussybabie527 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The men in Nigeria are very heart less an evil but God will visit them with anger 💔😭💢😈I know what he can do

    • @JordanSmith-pf1om
      @JordanSmith-pf1om ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sussybabie527 no it a lie try dating a Nigerian guys you will know the different between true love and love

    • @sussybabie527
      @sussybabie527 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@JordanSmith-pf1om I have date 2 Nigeria guys they don't forgive they are Heartless people 💔😢do you know what I am passing through right now 💔😭😭😭😭😓I am from Sierra Leone do you know what Nigeria man did to me 💔😭😭😭😭I will never forgive him not even in my next life

    • @JordanSmith-pf1om
      @JordanSmith-pf1om ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sussybabie527 am so sorry they are the wrong people who want to use you for there selfish earn but Know that they did that for Money or something that. Benefit them

  • @josephrone91
    @josephrone91 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I dated a Nigerian man and he cheated and lied and scammer. Then I met a older one and he tried the same crap but I was already on game 😂😂😂

  • @ayorindfrancis1212
    @ayorindfrancis1212 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don't think all the Nigerian man are the same, I think there are some good people in Nigeria man and I think there are some people that is bad out of Nigeria man either living in Nigeria or abroad I think some of them have a good intention from the beginning to be honest. The best advice try to understand them learn their culture try to know their family try to see their family as your own family don't be like an American lady you know what I mean by that, try to be like them love them respect them because they like a lot of respect and demand a lot of respect from a woman make sure you show them love and make sure you always want to be with them treat them like your king then you will enjoy them don't try to be control those are the some of the things that don't really like? They hate it when a woman is controlling them always have a conversation with that over time are so many things.... just know that people come from abroad just to marry Nigerian men every day that is to tell you they have some things in them that is good that nobody see 👀 but God know the best thank you very much all I wish you learn from this comment 🙏 from Nigeria 🇳🇬

  • @ernestkanu1247
    @ernestkanu1247 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    There is a Nigerian saying " that what you are looking for at Sokoto is in your sokoto" .
    Meaning: You don't have to go to UK to find your Nigerian man. In your case, just you bit the wrong hook. Stuff like that happens everyday randomly. No need for the generalization with your small sample size.

  • @karijames5946
    @karijames5946 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I ended up with one who was a Nollywood actor and a straight romantic Scammer!!!

  • @Graceobianuju
    @Graceobianuju ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sorry for your experience.
    Coming from a naija sis😉

    • @AccordingToQueen
      @AccordingToQueen  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww thank you sis! Thank you for tuning in I appreciate your your support 🫶🏼

  • @The_nqeen
    @The_nqeen ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hahahahah. I just met someone and she said her husband is a Prince. Lol

  • @naijawave
    @naijawave ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I can tell from this video, you love it. You love all that comes with being a Nigerian man. Right now you just taking a time out. Dw we’ll be here waiting for you when you’re ready to return. 😂

    • @AccordingToQueen
      @AccordingToQueen  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂😭😂

    • @kennyking5606
      @kennyking5606 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@AccordingToQueen yes na . We are waiting when you are ready to return

    • @AccordingToQueen
      @AccordingToQueen  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kennyking5606 😂😂

  • @JordanSmith-pf1om
    @JordanSmith-pf1om ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Maybe u have Nigeria friends who have been in America for a long time or brought up in America, but am talking about born and brought up in Nigeria

    • @YouSeeMeNow966
      @YouSeeMeNow966 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      update@kiyanawillis

  • @TundeAjayi-ms2tw
    @TundeAjayi-ms2tw ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fallacy of hasty generalisation

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Queen do not give up on us though. It may be too soon to do that. 🇳🇬 represent

    • @AccordingToQueen
      @AccordingToQueen  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you for tuning in 😀

  • @mariahssoapbox
    @mariahssoapbox ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lol not having their way !😂

  • @karolinah12
    @karolinah12 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh and my comme t comes with facts, i dated a yoruba guy who had a nigerian gf in secret from me. I dumped his sorry ass and to this day he still tries to cheat on her with me. These shhh dudes are just rubbish and not worth a second of attention

  • @ogunsoladare2613
    @ogunsoladare2613 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    your number one point has disqualifies you and it shows you do not know Nigerian culture but you think do but you don't. Nigerian operate like a family.

  • @bossamerica86
    @bossamerica86 หลายเดือนก่อน

    same here … from my experience foreign men lie to much

  • @anacollado742
    @anacollado742 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes thats right maybe someday ❤❤❤😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @stinkystu1
    @stinkystu1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Armed men just ran off with a ballot box from the latest election in Nigeria. Sounds like a haven full of desirable men...

    • @p1ca550
      @p1ca550 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just say you have no game. Don’t be hating.

  • @mrslypromax
    @mrslypromax ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Quite insightful points you made there however, its popular opinion that Nigerian men are the best pick for relationships/marriages. I'll be reacting to this video 😉

    • @animalworld3440
      @animalworld3440 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Every foreign women now Nigerian men as husband now

    • @urbanq5377
      @urbanq5377 ปีที่แล้ว

      No they are not. I just dumped a nigerian man that was supposed to be my boyfriend but he playing them love scam games. A few other nigerians i talked to before him were on the same bs. Claiming they love me but only try to scam me. They asked for my bank log in, sent me fake checks and only talk to me when they want to transfer money. My sister is married to a nigerian man and he cheats on her all the time and treat her like trash. They have four kids together but he still don't care. He still treats her like trash.

    • @warrensrabbitry
      @warrensrabbitry 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not all are the best all the ones I talk to are ass. 😂

    • @ReinaAfricana
      @ReinaAfricana 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      East African men are much better I'm sorry.

  • @keneddy8258
    @keneddy8258 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Nigerian men I can tell you for a fact cannot deal with any woman who will not mix with their extended families. They are very family oriented. They take good care of their ladies, for sure. Nigerians are all about culture, and their families come first, versus the African American culture. I would say take your time and blend yourself into their culture and I guarantee you, you will enjoy them after all. You are a good looking sister and shouldn't any problem being my sister in-law.

    • @ayorindfrancis1212
      @ayorindfrancis1212 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You're right 100-percent

    • @ReinaAfricana
      @ReinaAfricana 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Not really too many of them just be straight lying I ain't got time for that😂

  • @victoriaspencer6357
    @victoriaspencer6357 ปีที่แล้ว

    Agreed

  • @Tluv_1955
    @Tluv_1955 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Just get to the point girl 😘

  • @samuelsaheed8941
    @samuelsaheed8941 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not every Nigerian en are ready, same goes to other country men as well. When the lady is ready and respectful and helpful. I bet u , no Nigeria guy will live u.

  • @Foodielover-f7s
    @Foodielover-f7s ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wahala 🙄

  • @kayabe856
    @kayabe856 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If the Nollywood movies are true it seems like it’s smiled upon to be a side piece.

  • @luckylu9780
    @luckylu9780 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nigerian women are loud and masculine 😂

  • @Obaratuyaayaa
    @Obaratuyaayaa ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Shebi you wan collect. You don collect nau 😂

    • @Hope27946
      @Hope27946 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    8:26 that is true

  • @willo5599
    @willo5599 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Weather you date or you no date other babes go date.

  • @ScarlettAdriana
    @ScarlettAdriana 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Igbo men dangerous yuroba at list but in general those Nigeria men are scammers there are not serious with out side woman

  • @danielawomukwu3024
    @danielawomukwu3024 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Everyone is talking about Nigerian men like they are a form of addiction. I keep the same question; why is it that any woman who dates a Nigerian man finds it hard to date another man if the relationship ends. They are not perfect but they are sweet. Please, leave Nigerian men for Nigerian women. Their women understand their men better. They are the most unique and sought-after African men.

    • @nyaintunyaintu509
      @nyaintunyaintu509 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lmfao yea that’s why a lot y’all women cry during relationships.. please I have a lot of Nigerian friends who are miserable as hell.
      Some of yall are misogynistic
      Tribalistic as hell…mentally, verbally and physically abusive.
      You’re right tho, yall women understand yall because they take your nonsense. Nigerian women especially the Yoruba are raised to worship men… divorcee is frowned upon because the women would rather d!e then be single parent.
      Toxic culture. I dated an Igbo who was very very very very generous.. with his money and also his PRICK… do u know why RAN because he had a nasty mouth…very very misogynistic!!

    • @ReinaAfricana
      @ReinaAfricana 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's funny you that mention this but plenty of your Nigerian brothers are too busy chasing other black women because they claim there is no good Nigerian women for them. Even when I tell them to just stick with their women. Because we don't like scammers Yahoo boys you get what I'm saying. You also have to understand that most African Americans are of Nigerian descent as well but at least it's a bit easier to deal with African American men.

    • @ReinaAfricana
      @ReinaAfricana 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are also not the most sought after men they just happen to be abundant in several countries. I like to go for African men who I can't find in my country. So if I see a bunch of Nigerians in a place I'm just going to assume that it s*** where they come from. And yeah sadly I am of Nigerian descent but I was born and raised over here anywho I see way too many of them. It's like seeing a bunch of headaches So I'm going to go for the Africans that I don't see like I've never met a man from Uganda until I went to Uganda. It's the same with Tanzania never met anybody from there unless I'm there in Tanzania.

    • @bukumiBrown
      @bukumiBrown 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      because after you date a Nigerian u will live in panic and fear! you will be traumatized forever!

    • @noire9601
      @noire9601 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@bukumiBrown Facts!

  • @blaqbeauty510
    @blaqbeauty510 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is scary