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Woah it's possible if she got pregnant the day she gave birth each time which is doubtful. I think he meant she had 2 kids prior and one with him. But I may be wrong
@@jasminerose7148 that may very well be possible! And good point about her possibly having two prior kids. I think the possible idea that she got pregnant back to back and it being connected to abuse points to the possibility that he didn’t give her enough time to recover between births/pregnancies. This type of situation and behavior is often seen in fundamental religious households as well as households where the abuser wants control and to “trap” the other by making them reliant on them financially. (Often times the more kids one has means the more likely the mother is to stay home rather than work outside of the home) So many layers and I could very well be wrong!
@@jasminerose7148To get pregnant your ovaries need to have released an egg and your uterus lining needs to be prepared to implant the fertilized egg. I dont know if thats possible on the same day she gave birth. Its possible if she got pregnant in the beginning of the year, and had her baby 9 months into the year, then she would have 1-3 months left in the year to get pregnant again. That could have happened twice and now she is pregnant with the 3rd at the very end of their 2 years together. 3 pregnancies all within 1-3 months of giving birth is already extreme and abusive.
@jasminerose7148 idk why ur acting like getting pregnant same day of giving birth isn't also insane if that were the case? You have to wait like 6 weeks before getting active again after birth, because the vagina has to heal and stop bleeding. I don't know if any woman would want to go through that extra unnecessary pain after just pushing a human out. Idk anything abt this situation I'm 41 seconds in lol but that's still a weird thing to say so calmly
i just commented a few mins ago that his left pupil looks more dilated than the other but i'm not sure bc he has a ring light or something reflecting right at them!!
I’m pretty sure he’s the kinda guy who goes ‘oh yea modern women are horrible s!uts bc they aren’t cleaning the house and having 14 babies with me by the time they’re 20’- hope that poor girl runs for the hills
From what ive seen of these types of situations is looks like He's whats known as a 'passport bro' Men like him PURPOSELY go to other countries to find a wife because they think American women are "too independent " so they go to countries where women either don't have as many rights as we do or are stereotyped to be more "obedient."
"Age difference, 2 kids, pregnancy, kidnapping, cancer, dementia, separation, divorce, mother-in-law, father-in-law and Disney world" sound like warnings or tags from a Wattpad story written by a very sad teenager.
I will never understand why people SEEK OUT a partner of a different culture and then are baffled when they are expected to be respectful of that culture
Bec passport bros think women everywhere else but America are submissive little cute puppy wife’s who will pop out babies every year and worship them when that in fact will never happen
Gotta agree with the other comments, there's a strong Western exceptionalism mindset here-- they see themselves as the ticket into their superior American lifestyle, and they do NOT consider these women their equals.
@@cheyenner8532yes, these types of men see these women as “exotic”, as prizes or trophies to flaunt. “Look at this young woman I convinced to be with me, isn’t she pretty? Yeah once that fades and she’s seen my mask slip off though I’ll have to trade her in for a new one. And once I can’t do that I’ll complain that every woman I’ve been with has been the problem, not me though, the common denominator.”
Some women just quit cuz they got bored with what they have and don't want it anymore. And then they leave and realize life is so much harder than they realized and then they get sad and cry online about how hard life is after divorce.
@@emnewb641 If we want to go that route, then consider that a woman who leaves a good man for money, sex or anything else is still Not A Happy Woman When Leaving. Even if a woman's reasons for being unhappy are wrong, the statement still makes sense. You just need to consider *why* she left at that point and see if it's a failing on your end or not.
@@emnewb641 we're clearly not talking about such cases here, and your own relationship issues don't dictate how things usually go for women. Also, God forbid women decide something and it's wrong. It happens Why don't you have the same energy for men who do wrong, who treat good women poorly, etc.?
@@emnewb641 This is just something you made up in your head and are now using it to get angry at the imaginary scenario you created. Even if there are some women that happen to think this way, it is in no way connected to this situation.
My step mother is Filipino and my father is American. I've seen this type of stuff go down my entire childhood and it's still continuing, my dad was a total passport bro and he wanted to find a young woman that he could "own". My stepmother is a victim and she was so young when my father picked her up and married her. She never had a child before and just had moved on from her simple farm life, I've been surrounded by these white men obsessed with Filipinos for the longest time. She's the sweetest mother and I'm grateful to have her. But, my father practically ruined her :(
Maybe when you get older and are financially stable enough, maybe you could help her leave and let her stay with you until she recovers enough to be on her own. Or if you have children, she could just stay with you and always be safe and secure. I'm sure she'd love to be around her grandkids where she could relax and spoil them with love and attention. (I honestly don't mean it to sound like have her live there as an indentured maid anny.) You don't sound like that type of person, to me. I really hope you're both able to find true peace and happiness in your lives. And I hope this poor, wonderful woman can finally rest soon. Thank you for sharing your story and your "nother mommy" with us!!!🤍💖🤍 Maybe a lot of caring people will see this and take 2 seconds to send positive vibes to her, or prayers, or tell the Universe about her. Idk if any of that is real, but it only takes 2 seconds, and there's absolutely no chance that it could do any harm to her or to the girl who wrote this, so why not?
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So what im getting from this is he mistreated his wife and she realized she didnt have to stay with him? Is that about right? Passport bros are disgusting.
@looking4therealrepairmanjack I did leave this comment before watching the full video but after watching the full video I can say my initial thoughts were correct.
Adopting is against his religion but cheating isn’t? Cheating on your wife? Who has cancer? Why didn’t he just get a divorce before doing that? That’s obviously not against his religion.
I'm guessing the concept of sunscreen just went over his head too. I would get out of there if I were her and self deport yourself to a location out of the country where he cannot find you. Pick up a temp job in the meantime save your money in secret, stay at a women's shelter at night and change her email address or phone number and possibly get a restraining order, once that's in place and you have like a hotel or something to stay in Temporarily, save up at least 5,000-7 thousand dollars then jump on a flight and get going.. that's why he doesn't want her americanized because American women aren't push overs we're not going to put up with it and they know it. That's why there always talking bad about us behind our back because they can't afford us. Even if there was a law preventing us from leaving American men we'd still leave them. In fact I think the evil ones should be replaced with wealthy immigrants and they can go live with Russian women some kind of couples swap or something like that...
@mirastaz saw this vile man on an article 2 weeks ago. Went down a rabbit hole of their lore. The last I saw of this greasy weirdo it seemed they were sadly back together
7:24 “i wanted my own children” adoptive children are real children. i’m adopted and korean, my parents are white and also christian. i’m sick of the narrative that adoptive parents arent real parents. there is nothing about adoption that makes a family less real.
The guy is a dbag but people need to stop pretending like they don't know what he meant when he said that lmao. Someone saying they want to have their own blood related children is not the same as them saying adopted parents aren't real parents 😂
@@baconscoobysnacks3135 there’s nothing wrong with people wanting their own blood related children. i’ve never fully understood why people only want blood related children,and i believe part of it is because people like that USUALLY believe that adoptive children aren’t as legitimate as blood related kids. he literally said he’s not going to adopt because he wants “his own kids” and “their natural mother and father” as if adoption isn’t natural. i’m not necessarily saying he thinks adoptive parents aren’t real parents and saying that was probably a bit of an over exaggeration (although many people believe that to an extent) but the way he worded things is how many people talk about adoption. regardless of whether or not he thinks adoptive parents are real parents he’s part of the problem and it’s crazy if someone can’t see that.
@Lydia-ch8xp I will break this to you lightly, adoption is not natural, it's man made and there is nothing wrong with that. As far as if he or other people think blood related children are better, who even cares really? If they think that way chances are they're not adopting anyways. If a racist never participates in racist behavior, yes he's still a crappy person but people won't be lining up to protest
The flinching is possibly a sign of abuse. Especially in kids. I used to ALWAYS flinch when people raised their hands or moved their hands and still do sometimes. Definitely an overlooked sign of something bc people find it funny for some reason.
I love how you actually said “possibly” instead of “definitely” because i used to flinch at everything too: (now leaving comparisons land) even tho my parents never did anything to me, i was just scared people werent watching what they were doing because I myself walk into walls when im not paying attention. And my head is a magnet for soccer balls apparently, its like ripped out of a tv show at how many random soccer balls hit me in my childhood, never found some romance from it tho, just found apologies and “oh my god im so sorry are you ok?” And id be like “yeah? I think? It was just startling.” And we both part ways
@ most people who saw me flinch kinda just laughed and made jokes. It was a pretty well known thing in my school that I flinched even from hand raising and people pretended to hit me or throw something or stuff like that all the time. Most people thought it was just a funny reaction and not a sign of abuse so idk if most people know about it! But him saying “ i wasn’t going to hit you” is VERY telling that he possibly does hit the kid or knows that someone hits that kid or the kid totally could have vision issues that cause flinching! Idk the kid so i can’t say definitely bc even now I flinch and absolutely no one is abusing me at this point in time so!
@ do you maybe have vision issues? I have depth perception issues (aka no depth perception) so I constantly thought object were gonna hit me even if they missed
@ i have insane depth perception issues expecially at night when im driving home from work 🤦♀️ ill start to stop wayyyyyy before the red light wayyyy too early!
@@justboredhelpme195 oh yeah no, i think this guy hits his kids for the exact same reason, I genuinely wanted to appreciate your awareness about saying possibly instead of definitely ^~^ and jeez im sorry people made fun of you for it ;-; thats rude ash, I am pretty autistic, and my mom pointed out to me years later that when she would drop me off for school trips i would walk up to everyone like they were my best friend and had no clue they were rolling their eyes at me and being sarcastic to me ;-; I was kinda blessed in my own little bubble and had no idea that nobody liked me except maybe one friend, after 6th grade i got homeschooled and sobbed about loosing “all my friends”
He honestly sounds like a sociopathic narcissist. Sociopaths can be good people. However a sociopathic narcissist can never be a good person and can only focus on themselves. Most of the sociopaths I know are good people, they like making people happy as they know that making other people happy will only benefit them. I know two sociopaths who have chosen to follow the law and the unwritten rules of society. They are all around great people, they just don't care about people that aren't "theirs". They will choose a small pool of people that they will become attached to. Once you are one of their people, they might even go out of their way to improve your day or make you happy. They know that they will only benefit from making you happy and so that's what they do. I got stalked once and my sociopath friend took care of it. The man never approached me again. Too scared of my friend.
That and to add onto this it seems like a dominance thing. A way to figuratively pee on what he thinks is his. He doesn’t see or value her as an equal, she is a woman, she is younger, and she is from another culture that he views as lesser than.
#1: Not eating your wife’s parents’ FOOD?! Massive disrespect. Especially in Asian culture. DISRESPECT X1,000 #2: Calling your in-law parents Slobs?! Sir what is wrong with you? #3: Sarcastic claps- what is WRONG with you??? #4: Snatching keys- Why are we still going…? #5: “Fuck you too” Oh- O h- what- Is this guy insane 😃
8:16 These are the same people who will say their religion says no abortions and that the woman can just give the baby up for adoption, but at the same time it's against their religion to adopt 😅
i’m christian and i double checked and adoption is actually encouraged lol. so i looked up if any religions prohibit adoption and the answer is no so idk what he’s yapping about lmao
@@taylorjohnson3141Exactly! I used to watch tons of adoption content before, and a lot of the couples that would go through it state that it was their religion that encouraged them to adopt in the first place. Bro just made that up lmao.
Born and raised in the Philippines, this is a common occurence for a lot of my relatives and friends of friends. This is why I'm really wary whenever another Filipina is marrying a foreigner, because the abuse from these passport bros is so commonplace, thinking that we're cheap and easy, it's hard not to worry about them. Of course, the gold digging Filipinos does exist, but a lot of Filipinos who stake it out abroad usually do it to provide for their families just for a chance to get out of poverty. What Jay-Ann said was really sad一"you can abuse me but not my family". They put up with a lot of abuse just because they need the stability that they cannot sustain in our country.
Thank you so much for this comment! I was wondering if living in Philippines is really worse than living with someone like that. I didn't think about aspect of helping the family.
@@Bartekm8 It depends, really. If you can afford to live comfortably in the Philippines, living here is relatively alright (political issues aside) but the class divide is palpable. You can only afford so much on minimum wage and you pretty much have to finish school to get far and escape poverty. Sadly, it's not that easy. Education is not as affordable and/ or accessible here.
@@uptonogood6738 i'm not sure if you're also filipino so, i'm going to go on the assumption that you aren't. i'm not knowledgable about jay-ann's situation and circumstances, so maybe they aren't poor but generally speaking, in the philippines, being able to go to a foreign country is indeed a "great" feat. however, for most people like us in the lower class, going to a foreign country can be one or a combination of the options below: 1. taking out a loan - you get loan from your friends, extended family, and even brokers. 2. for overseas filipino workers (OFW), they get recruited into agencies that deploys filipinos abroad to do labor. sometimes, they do downpayment the agency or pay in full and then, the agency will find them an employer abroad. 3. you have a sponsor in the country you're going to一in this case, the US. buying tickets in dollars is relatively cheaper (foreign exchange aside) than in PHP. it's possible that a relative or friend in the US may have paid for their tickets. maybe jay-ann's family did options 1 and/or 3 or they were able to afford the tickets themselves, i'm not sure.
@mspluie-hx3gh Oh, of course, that could be the case for a lot of Filipinos who could afford to go abroad. I do see that as a possibility. Just that I've watched Jay Anne's tiktoks, her family, and everyone's saying she isn't even poor for that guy to be playing as some hero who saved her from her country. I don't necessarily think she put up with the abuse for the sake of financial stability, maybe for the sake of her kids. I just find it funny how they automatically think she's out for that bag, just because she's Filipina. Her parents wanted to give her some allowances, and apparently, that was one of the things the passport bro didn't appreciate.
@@marksmidt8225a guy who weighs in on relationship posts while running through a field with a giant red or green flag. I can't remember the exact channel name, but it should pop up if you type in "red flag guy" :)
Oh yeah I remember when my father found out that it wasn’t the 1960s anymore and the police actually responded to our call for the 1ST TIME EVER for him beating my Mom. It was 1996. Took over 30 years for police to not say “we don’t get involved in domestic situations.” This bastard even has the same look as my father 💀
@@AndromedasLight17 this is insane, and some brainwashed Americans will still think they are the land of freedom and the whole world is so much behind.
@@AndromedasLight17 I don’t know if you’re attempting to be funny or mean, but I’m from Blount County Tennessee, and until the spring of 1996, nobody came to help us. I have 4 siblings. Not one teacher. Not one cop. Not even the cops who showed up to our house and with their own eyes saw my bloody and bruised mother would help. Yes, she always said not to arrest him but, today..she wouldn’t have the choice. And even when they showed up in 1996 and saw him on the porch with a shot gun, all they did was take the gun and left him there with my mother. He’s broken all our noses except my little sister. He took my newborn away when I was 17 and didn’t come home with her. I found her 25 years later. It’s google-able. I made national news with that search for her. And even though that was the meanest thing he ever did to me, he was meaner to my oldest brother. His body was a human punching bag. So, are you trying to tell me you don’t believe me? Because you can quite literally find me online and read it in more detail if that’s what gets you off.
We know all we ever needed to know about him when he freely admits he left his wife whom even he says was a wonderful wife, WHILE SHE WAS FIGHTING FOR HER LIFE WITH CANCER CUZ SHE COULDN'T BEAR HIM ANY CHILDREN BECAUSE OF HER ONGOING BATTLE WITH CANCER!!! HES A FREAKIN MONSTER, PERIOD!
Bro didn't even get to keep the kid which is so fucking funny to me. That's just karma right there. I can't believe this asshole cheated on his wife with cancer and then tried to justify it with "bu-but, buh mah biological children must be created! I absolutely must have little clones of me running around!" He's just garbage and trash. I hope all of his kids grow up to hate him for what he is doing to their mom.
This type of man has been around forever. Before they were passport bros they were military wife hunters, or just marry an immigrant without money. My great grandfather was one of these types of men and other than his last name I know nothing of him. A white man from the americas preyed on my great grandmother as a young and poor Filipino immigrant to Hawaii and now he’s practically forgotten to history. Actually, I’ve decided it ends with me!! He’s forgotten!
Except Jay Anne actually came from privilege & has an education. Granted her opportunities are much more vast in the US, it pissed me off she had to make this statement. She shouldn't have to justify herself like that for people to respect her.
@@AndromedasLight17Oh, now that annoys me. Poor woman definitely is abused, but, people are forcing a narrative onto her? Ugh, can’t people be normal about women? Especially when they’re not from America?
she said she doesnt want to open a go fund me acc bcs she wants to stay with him for their unborn kid and doesnt want to disappoint the viewers by taking money without a proper plan
@@kasakgautam1320ugh, the children of divorced parents are statistically happier than the children of parents that stay together for the kids. Watching your parents fight all the time is freaking traumatizing. My parents have probably only had three fights in the entire 27 years I've been alive and each and every single one was terrifying for me. They have a great relationship but even people with good relationships can clash occasionally. The fights never got violent but the raised voices really scared me because, you know, no kid wants to watch their parents fight.
I live in china with a child! It's really common to just leave food out on the table all day so that if someone is hungry, they can just grab some chopsticks and eat quick and easy. Especially with kids where meal times can be hard for everyone to eat together. I imagine it might be pretty similar in the Philippines
Yeah it's totally normal, especially for multigenerational households and those without strong aircon. Like there's no pressure to 'eat it while it's still hot' like in cold climates, plenty of food is good at room temperature for a few hours.
Thats what my latvian grandma would do with my sister and i when every we would come to her house after school. We would eat til we were full and if there was food left over she'd keep it out so we could come back and eat more of it when we got hungry later. Why get your panties in a bundle over having some food out for a bit?? Like its not like theyre leaving it out over night??? Even tho i am culturally half white american and grew up in america, white americans still floor me with all of the weird restrictive standards they have 😭
@XuiLeeEv exactly! And if the food is cooked most of the time being left out won't cause any problems. I wouldn't leave raw crab out for a couple hours but if its just stir fried veggies or meat then it's not gonna go bad so fast
Him- She was Americanized!!! Americanized in this context- no longer willing to tolerate his abuse. Me- *wipes a tear from my eye* I’ve never been so proud of my country.
I was also thinking that American women are just not tolerating these types of men. They have other options, he is just our throwaway. Many people/women overseas did not know about these men. I had to give my Filipino boyfriend the history of how horrible being born female was for most of our history. He was horrified. I think that since so many of these guys go overseas, more of the world is realizing why American women don't want them. @@aneleh6
He's not just recounting details of an explicit encounter in his past to his wife in public, he's also doing it while their kids are right there with them. This man is deeply unpleasant and I hope she can get far away from him as soon as possible.
Because that would require him to recognize that he's doing something wrong, and based on the way he talks, it sounds like he doesn't think he's doing anything wrong.
@@GrimmShadowsIIit sounds like he has some kind of cognitive disorder where he's unable to realize that his negative actions impacts his life in a negative way. He is in complete denial that his actions are abhorrent and sees no problem with them.
I doubt he has changed a single diaper or helped with any of the children. That's all women's work and he's a big ~strong~ man~. He's just a domineering A-hole.
The only silver lining in this situation is that he’s willingly posting how abusive he is so other unfortunate young women know to RUN. That poor woman, I hope she is able to fully break away from this loser despite them having kids.
That’s why I love this channel lol, I can actually sit through the whole thing without getting too anxious🥹 Like I get the point of staying calm but this kinda stuff just needs more outrage👹
I just find it comforting watching a man get completely outraged about something the average woman has been desensitized to and the average man just shrugs off or even defends. Gives me hope for the women in these situations and feels validating
I love when Cooper stands up to drive his point home because it shows off his always top tier fits and I creepily wanna make a Coop ootd scrapbook to give to my guy friends whenever they ask for fashion advice
As a filipina, we were already americanized. We were bought by the United States from Spain who first colonized us. Most filipinos, especially the ones that go to the US are westernized, the Philippines was colonized.
I'm so glad that information about abuse tactics and narcissists are so readily available that we see right through them. The fact that he thought his videos were a moment tells me everything about him and makes me trust the wife 110%
Anybody else notice that she said the ex wife is like a closest mother..... but the ex is probably younger than her husband.... and she considers her a mother. I hope this she can break free from this and heallllll!!!!
the adoption line really pissed me off. i have NEVER heard religion used as an excuse to not adopt. just say you don't want to adopt, don't bring your so called religion into it as an excuse.
15:01 my mom and family are from the philippines, she grew up there and moved here in her 20s. let me just say this, making sure everyone is fed and enjoys the food is EXTREMELY important to her, she won’t rest or be happy until that happens even if people are just visiting for a few minutes
I AM MAKING MY BEST FRIEND A VALENTINES GIFT and you might ask why bring this up? CAUSE IM AM WILLING TO SPEND OVER THREE HOURS DRAWING HER MAKE HER AN ANIMATION BUY HER BOOKS AND CANDY…and this man can’t be a good husband? Like bro not that hard I promise just be a good person
I'm assuming you're young. I love everything you said. But there's something I've had to learn the hard way, and I'm just now finally giving in to this fact @ 53 years old... Most people aren't kind hearted. For some of us, being nice, kind, caring, careful of how we act and speak towards others, whether they're family, loved ones or strangers, because it's important to us to not hurt people or make them feel bad... Unfortunately, we *are* a rare breed, anymore. This man has no idea how to be happy, much less strive to make someone else happy. He's not capable of doing anything you said. What you're doing for your best friend, he can't understand why someone would take the time and effort to do all that... unless **he** was getting something big out of it. I don't want to drag this out too long, I hope you understand what I'm trying to tell you. You're a special human being, so don't *ever* let someone extinguish your light. Because trust me, many are going to hate that light throughout your lifetime and either try to take it, or put it out. I really, really hope your best friend appreciates you, darlin!!! Sorry for being so mushy, but I do hope you have a great life!!! 🤍🤍🤍
Also I’m a mom of 2 girls. 24:10 that child flinching is not normal. Kids do not flinch like that unless they’re hit. Fear is learned… we aren’t born with it. Especially kids that small. (I also have multiple degrees in early childhood development )
What he seems to be misunderstanding is that it's his behavior that has reduced his marriage to being just about the "bag". She probably went into it thinking that she has a chance at family, stability AND love. But his disrespect and maltreatment have reduced their relationship to that point. She has children with him and no money to get away let alone provide for herself or them if she somehow manages to. I hope she can find the resources to get out with her children. Oh my God! Who treats people like this, let alone your In-laws? It literally just keeps getting worse.
Men will literally put their salary in their dating profiles and then complain about their exes being gold diggers. Like bruh, if you put cheese in a mousetrap, you're not going to catch a bear. Also I hate how he refers to his in-laws as if they're his own family and was STILL so disrespectful. I'm not an advocate for physical discipline, but I feel like that level of disrespect would have gotten him whooped by his parents. ETA posted a moment too soon, and it looks like maybe he'd whoop his kids for disrespect like that too 😬
My daughter in law is philipino and her and her family are the sweetest people. This girl is so strong for standing up to this douche canoe. She needs to keep it moving and never look back ❤
17:09 The thing with the clapping when the MIL 'finally' helped his wife with the kids - like, dude, why didn't *you* help her before?? It's literally your job as a parent?? But no, he was sitting on his ass, just watching and waiting for another opportunity to disrespect them.
Jay Anne is likely upper middle class in the Philippines. She said they have 2 businesses in the Philippines AND it is hard to get a US Visa as a Filipino. Like you need to prove you can afford it and that you have a stable income in the Philippines. The fact her parents was able to get a visa should say something. Point is, she is not a gold digger.
most men leave their wives when they get sick/can’t have kids. but expect their wife to stay when they get sick/sterile. this man literally left his wife with cancer for a tinder match. then baby trapped her. what a shame. his ex wife is an angel. going through cancer, husband leaves her, has kids with another woman, and his ex wife is still nice and respectful. that’s so sad.
I love how these passport bros go out seeking transactional relationships, then they get all butthurt when the woman also treats it like a transactional relationship
As a Filipino, hearing "americanized Filipino wife" is both insane and absolutely goofy like.... ???? huh??? Also hearing the guy describe Jay Anne as someone who is dumb, stupid, naive and from a third world country is just... ew.... gross. And Filipinos are very close to our families which is why it's reasonable and even preferable for Jay Anne to leave him
@@stinkiest_of_frogges1618in Filipino culture it’s quite common for people to refer to their in laws as mother/father etc. But the way he speaks about them tells me it isn’t out of respect for that…
Fr I don’t see the hype. They say you can tell a lot by a person by their friends and he dates a kardashian (one of the worst, gave millions of girls insecurities and claimed she was all natural in photoshopped pics)
To see this happening to one of my fellow Filipinos is heartbreaking and honestly people should never be like that ‘husband’ (at this point he shouldn’t be considered as her husband). I genuinely hope that all the victims in the world will eventually be helped but for now I just wish everyone here is doing ok.
I hope she is able to heal from all this and find someone truly meant for her. This man CLEARLY doesn’t see her as anything more than a f3tishized object. He doesn’t consider her a person with autonomy in the slightest and that’s clear just from the way he uses such distancing language alone. He chose her because of his stereotypical idea of having a submissive and ignorant wife so much so that he seemingly forgot or can’t comprehend that she actually has a mind of her own and is actually free to leave him whenever and however she wants to.
As a Filipino woman and a fan of the channel, thank you so much Cooper for bringing this issue forward. You have no idea how sick I am of seeing these foreigners exploiting our women.
Utterly self-absorbed. Only thinks about and cares about himself. Expects wife to do exactly as told, holds them hostage to money and lord I feel sorry for the kids. You know they've seen some bad stuff in this relationship. I don't care much about looks, but his eyes are so close together they look like they're trying to pass in the middle...
i used to babysit for a narcissist like him when i was a teen. his wife would constantly vent to me. it was heartbreaking to see what he put his wife and kids through. lucky they divorced.
"I was a horrible irredeemable person to her and her family every opportunity I had to do so! I just don't understand why she would want to leave me!" That's this guy. That's what he sound like.
Flinch is a LEARNED RESPONSE. No matter how you put it. That’s awful! So glad you’re talking about this bozo, cooler. He’s such a douche and unfortunately not super unique 😩😩😩
As someone who’s adopted, i’ve never, NEVER, heard someone use religion as an EXCUSE to not adopt a kid. If you didn’t want to adopt because you were concerned about the KID and how the KID would feel, thats different. Health also comes into it. But RELIGION??? No way. This actually made me so furious i stopped the video to comment lmao, what the heck.
it's concerning that he has one pupil significantly smaller than the other... he needs to get himself checked and stop worrying about his "americanized filipino wife"
What a creeeeeeeeep - I've seen a few video essays on this dude, and he is literally every immigrant woman's worst nightmare. I'm so glad my parents were nothing like this. My dad met my mom in Manila while he was in the Air Force as a firefighter, and they were married for almost 30 years until her passing in 2013.
14:19 DIDN’T EAT THE FOOD?! ARE YOU KIDDING ME?! Philippine food is amazing and if you never had it you are missing out, i had double Christmas morning at my moms house night at my boyfriends moms house, lasagna for lunch, creamed corn, lobster & steak, fried rice, and more for dinner 🤤 dude i would commit heinous acts to get Philippine food
@@maryotrembiak5532 I was just about to comment all the things you said! Like pancit is just absolutely fire, and I really hope it's not what he literally just ignored
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I always wonder how you feel about your Blake Lively vid?
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Whatever you say princess
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@Obihann no one cares
HE LEFT HIS WIFE WHILE SHE NEEDED SUPPORT DURING CANCER BECAUSE HE COULDN'T GET WHAT HE WANTED FROM HER BODY ?????
dr. suess core!! 😻😻😻
@@RosePeysterIM CRYINGGGG 😂😭
after she cared for his mom with dementia
Sadly, this is not surprising. Research indicates that an increased risk of divorce is linked only to the onset of illness in the wife.
Karma is going to get this man
I haaaaaaaate the way he keeps describing her as “my Filipina wife”
Huge red flag, I'm an Eastern European married to an American and not once did he define me by my country of origin in the 6 years we've been together
he most definitely has a weird fetish
T reminds me of "White guy/ white girl"
Same. Like why can’t he just say wife….
I think he's trying to flex to passport bros 😬
The fact that they're together two years and she's on her third kid is its own kind of abuse
Reproductive + financial abuse = one hell of a trap
Woah it's possible if she got pregnant the day she gave birth each time which is doubtful. I think he meant she had 2 kids prior and one with him. But I may be wrong
@@jasminerose7148 that may very well be possible! And good point about her possibly having two prior kids. I think the possible idea that she got pregnant back to back and it being connected to abuse points to the possibility that he didn’t give her enough time to recover between births/pregnancies. This type of situation and behavior is often seen in fundamental religious households as well as households where the abuser wants control and to “trap” the other by making them reliant on them financially. (Often times the more kids one has means the more likely the mother is to stay home rather than work outside of the home) So many layers and I could very well be wrong!
@@jasminerose7148To get pregnant your ovaries need to have released an egg and your uterus lining needs to be prepared to implant the fertilized egg. I dont know if thats possible on the same day she gave birth.
Its possible if she got pregnant in the beginning of the year, and had her baby 9 months into the year, then she would have 1-3 months left in the year to get pregnant again. That could have happened twice and now she is pregnant with the 3rd at the very end of their 2 years together. 3 pregnancies all within 1-3 months of giving birth is already extreme and abusive.
@jasminerose7148 idk why ur acting like getting pregnant same day of giving birth isn't also insane if that were the case? You have to wait like 6 weeks before getting active again after birth, because the vagina has to heal and stop bleeding. I don't know if any woman would want to go through that extra unnecessary pain after just pushing a human out. Idk anything abt this situation I'm 41 seconds in lol but that's still a weird thing to say so calmly
That man is not sober. Pinpoint pupils and red face and sweating in every video is wild
I thought the same thing, I was gonna comment this. I don’t know what he’s on, but he’s definitely on something, his face screams high af.
i just commented a few mins ago that his left pupil looks more dilated than the other but i'm not sure bc he has a ring light or something reflecting right at them!!
He seems to possibly have scarring too
26:10 is that related
Oh geez, you're right
Does he use "americanised" as in, refuses to be obedient, has an own opinion, demands respect and doesn't want to be my domestic slave? 🤔
I’m pretty sure he’s the kinda guy who goes ‘oh yea modern women are horrible s!uts bc they aren’t cleaning the house and having 14 babies with me by the time they’re 20’- hope that poor girl runs for the hills
it's as if he expected her to be demure and obedient just because she's from SEA
yes, yes he dose
Yep, absolutely repulsive🤢
From what ive seen of these types of situations is looks like He's whats known as a 'passport bro' Men like him PURPOSELY go to other countries to find a wife because they think American women are "too independent " so they go to countries where women either don't have as many rights as we do or are stereotyped to be more "obedient."
"Age difference, 2 kids, pregnancy, kidnapping, cancer, dementia, separation, divorce, mother-in-law, father-in-law and Disney world" sound like warnings or tags from a Wattpad story written by a very sad teenager.
Fr, pretty sure I read a 1D fanfic with those exact tags once 😂😂
Originally published on Archive of our own😂 the wild west
Honestly true 😂
As an adopted person, when he said "my OWN children" I actually gagged
Never understood why that margrethe to people. 'My own blood' what does that even mean
It means maintaining their bloodline is more important to them than giving a child a family
SO thankful he didn’t adopt someone though because this would probably be a true crime episode instead. He seems like he’d be an evil father.
@@iiccyyy it’s giving malcolm foxworth
He literally thinks his genes are so important
I will never understand why people SEEK OUT a partner of a different culture and then are baffled when they are expected to be respectful of that culture
Bec passport bros think women everywhere else but America are submissive little cute puppy wife’s who will pop out babies every year and worship them when that in fact will never happen
the western mindset, hyperindividualism leaves no room for considering others
Americans and other cultures rarely go well together..
Gotta agree with the other comments, there's a strong Western exceptionalism mindset here-- they see themselves as the ticket into their superior American lifestyle, and they do NOT consider these women their equals.
@@cheyenner8532yes, these types of men see these women as “exotic”, as prizes or trophies to flaunt. “Look at this young woman I convinced to be with me, isn’t she pretty? Yeah once that fades and she’s seen my mask slip off though I’ll have to trade her in for a new one. And once I can’t do that I’ll complain that every woman I’ve been with has been the problem, not me though, the common denominator.”
this intro gives "her arms were cut off. her legs were cut off-"
WAIT I HEAR IT
@@Silly_Dizzy_kittyRIGHT
wait I don;t get it. care to explain pls?
@GreenteaMochi-o9b
Search it up; it's a meme, in a way.
@@GreenteaMochi-o9b I'm thinking it's from a movie or video game.
As a Filipino, I can confirm that I am currently going Fucking Insane
ME TOO
As someone who lived in Guam for two years, I am, too!
As a Filipino, I too, am going insane
Philippines mentioned 🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭
I hate how Asian women are so fetishized 😭🙏 like, we're expected to be "submissive" and "traditional"???
I hate this sm
Sucrose jumpscare
"A Happy Woman Never Leaves." FAAAAAAACTS!
We don't quit love, we quit being mistreated and miserable.
Some women just quit cuz they got bored with what they have and don't want it anymore. And then they leave and realize life is so much harder than they realized and then they get sad and cry online about how hard life is after divorce.
@@emnewb641 If we want to go that route, then consider that a woman who leaves a good man for money, sex or anything else is still Not A Happy Woman When Leaving. Even if a woman's reasons for being unhappy are wrong, the statement still makes sense. You just need to consider *why* she left at that point and see if it's a failing on your end or not.
@emnewb641 um... sorry that happened to you. Should probably talk about it in therapy, because that is a wild take.
@@emnewb641 we're clearly not talking about such cases here, and your own relationship issues don't dictate how things usually go for women. Also, God forbid women decide something and it's wrong. It happens
Why don't you have the same energy for men who do wrong, who treat good women poorly, etc.?
@@emnewb641 This is just something you made up in your head and are now using it to get angry at the imaginary scenario you created. Even if there are some women that happen to think this way, it is in no way connected to this situation.
My step mother is Filipino and my father is American. I've seen this type of stuff go down my entire childhood and it's still continuing, my dad was a total passport bro and he wanted to find a young woman that he could "own". My stepmother is a victim and she was so young when my father picked her up and married her. She never had a child before and just had moved on from her simple farm life, I've been surrounded by these white men obsessed with Filipinos for the longest time.
She's the sweetest mother and I'm grateful to have her.
But, my father practically ruined her :(
I wish the best for you and your stepmother ❤
God I'm so sorry :(
Maybe when you get older and are financially stable enough, maybe you could help her leave and let her stay with you until she recovers enough to be on her own. Or if you have children, she could just stay with you and always be safe and secure. I'm sure she'd love to be around her grandkids where she could relax and spoil them with love and attention. (I honestly don't mean it to sound like have her live there as an indentured maid
anny.) You don't sound like that type of person, to me.
I really hope you're both able to find true peace and happiness in your lives. And I hope this poor, wonderful woman can finally rest soon.
Thank you for sharing your story and your "nother mommy" with us!!!🤍💖🤍
Maybe a lot of caring people will see this and take 2 seconds to send positive vibes to her, or prayers, or tell the Universe about her. Idk if any of that is real, but it only takes 2 seconds, and there's absolutely no chance that it could do any harm to her or to the girl who wrote this, so why not?
@@scoopearlyI clicked your name to make sure that was really Spock* because he's always been my favorite original cast member. And to my surprise, I saw a lot of channels that I'm subscribed to, along with other channels I watch! If I ever see you in a live somewhere, I'll be sure to say hello!
(I'm not sure of your gender, but just in case, I'm not an unhinged male, creepy-stalker type...!)
(But I better say I'm not that female type, either.)
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wishing you the best in life, as well hoping your step mother has found a better situation (also awesome pfp :3)
So what im getting from this is he mistreated his wife and she realized she didnt have to stay with him? Is that about right? Passport bros are disgusting.
Did you even watch the whole thing? 'Cause I'm thinking definitely not.
@looking4therealrepairmanjack I did leave this comment before watching the full video but after watching the full video I can say my initial thoughts were correct.
@@looking4therealrepairmanjack did u watch the whole video? 😭
@@looking4therealrepairmanjack im thinking you didnt lmao
@@looking4therealrepairmanjackI did and that comment was 100% accurate
Adopting is against his religion but cheating isn’t? Cheating on your wife? Who has cancer? Why didn’t he just get a divorce before doing that? That’s obviously not against his religion.
Adopting is against his religion? What religion? The Church of Selfish Dickheads(Orthodox)?
I think his 'religion' is just rules he makes up as he goes along
This situation is obviously not about his religion. He just thinks religion sounds like a valid excuse.
It’s so sad because she is so cute and sweet and I wish the best for her and her kids. What a hateful man.
I hope she stays as far away as possible from him, and lives a happy and healthy life with her children.
I'm guessing the concept of sunscreen just went over his head too. I would get out of there if I were her and self deport yourself to a location out of the country where he cannot find you. Pick up a temp job in the meantime save your money in secret, stay at a women's shelter at night and change her email address or phone number and possibly get a restraining order, once that's in place and you have like a hotel or something to stay in Temporarily, save up at least 5,000-7 thousand dollars then jump on a flight and get going.. that's why he doesn't want her americanized because American women aren't push overs we're not going to put up with it and they know it. That's why there always talking bad about us behind our back because they can't afford us. Even if there was a law preventing us from leaving American men we'd still leave them. In fact I think the evil ones should be replaced with wealthy immigrants and they can go live with Russian women some kind of couples swap or something like that...
@mirastaz saw this vile man on an article 2 weeks ago. Went down a rabbit hole of their lore. The last I saw of this greasy weirdo it seemed they were sadly back together
7:24 “i wanted my own children” adoptive children are real children. i’m adopted and korean, my parents are white and also christian. i’m sick of the narrative that adoptive parents arent real parents. there is nothing about adoption that makes a family less real.
💯🙌
This man is ignorant beyond belief. And gross.
The guy is a dbag but people need to stop pretending like they don't know what he meant when he said that lmao. Someone saying they want to have their own blood related children is not the same as them saying adopted parents aren't real parents 😂
@@baconscoobysnacks3135 there’s nothing wrong with people wanting their own blood related children. i’ve never fully understood why people only want blood related children,and i believe part of it is because people like that USUALLY believe that adoptive children aren’t as legitimate as blood related kids. he literally said he’s not going to adopt because he wants “his own kids” and “their natural mother and father” as if adoption isn’t natural. i’m not necessarily saying he thinks adoptive parents aren’t real parents and saying that was probably a bit of an over exaggeration (although many people believe that to an extent) but the way he worded things is how many people talk about adoption. regardless of whether or not he thinks adoptive parents are real parents he’s part of the problem and it’s crazy if someone can’t see that.
@Lydia-ch8xp I will break this to you lightly, adoption is not natural, it's man made and there is nothing wrong with that. As far as if he or other people think blood related children are better, who even cares really? If they think that way chances are they're not adopting anyways. If a racist never participates in racist behavior, yes he's still a crappy person but people won't be lining up to protest
And cite the reason as relgion so DBAG IN BOLD@@baconscoobysnacks3135
The flinching is possibly a sign of abuse. Especially in kids. I used to ALWAYS flinch when people raised their hands or moved their hands and still do sometimes. Definitely an overlooked sign of something bc people find it funny for some reason.
I love how you actually said “possibly” instead of “definitely” because i used to flinch at everything too: (now leaving comparisons land) even tho my parents never did anything to me, i was just scared people werent watching what they were doing because I myself walk into walls when im not paying attention. And my head is a magnet for soccer balls apparently, its like ripped out of a tv show at how many random soccer balls hit me in my childhood, never found some romance from it tho, just found apologies and “oh my god im so sorry are you ok?” And id be like “yeah? I think? It was just startling.” And we both part ways
@ most people who saw me flinch kinda just laughed and made jokes. It was a pretty well known thing in my school that I flinched even from hand raising and people pretended to hit me or throw something or stuff like that all the time. Most people thought it was just a funny reaction and not a sign of abuse so idk if most people know about it! But him saying “ i wasn’t going to hit you” is VERY telling that he possibly does hit the kid or knows that someone hits that kid or the kid totally could have vision issues that cause flinching! Idk the kid so i can’t say definitely bc even now I flinch and absolutely no one is abusing me at this point in time so!
@ do you maybe have vision issues? I have depth perception issues (aka no depth perception) so I constantly thought object were gonna hit me even if they missed
@ i have insane depth perception issues expecially at night when im driving home from work 🤦♀️ ill start to stop wayyyyyy before the red light wayyyy too early!
@@justboredhelpme195 oh yeah no, i think this guy hits his kids for the exact same reason, I genuinely wanted to appreciate your awareness about saying possibly instead of definitely ^~^ and jeez im sorry people made fun of you for it ;-; thats rude ash, I am pretty autistic, and my mom pointed out to me years later that when she would drop me off for school trips i would walk up to everyone like they were my best friend and had no clue they were rolling their eyes at me and being sarcastic to me ;-; I was kinda blessed in my own little bubble and had no idea that nobody liked me except maybe one friend, after 6th grade i got homeschooled and sobbed about loosing “all my friends”
the fact there wasn’t even a reason for his behavior… he just wanted to embarrass her and disrespect her AND her family. what a weird sociopath.
He honestly sounds like a sociopathic narcissist. Sociopaths can be good people. However a sociopathic narcissist can never be a good person and can only focus on themselves.
Most of the sociopaths I know are good people, they like making people happy as they know that making other people happy will only benefit them. I know two sociopaths who have chosen to follow the law and the unwritten rules of society. They are all around great people, they just don't care about people that aren't "theirs". They will choose a small pool of people that they will become attached to. Once you are one of their people, they might even go out of their way to improve your day or make you happy. They know that they will only benefit from making you happy and so that's what they do. I got stalked once and my sociopath friend took care of it. The man never approached me again. Too scared of my friend.
Typical narc behavior
That and to add onto this it seems like a dominance thing. A way to figuratively pee on what he thinks is his. He doesn’t see or value her as an equal, she is a woman, she is younger, and she is from another culture that he views as lesser than.
@@Blandopinion out of curiosity, how do you know multiple people with ASPD?
@@Blandopinionno sociopath can be a good person.
#1: Not eating your wife’s parents’ FOOD?! Massive disrespect. Especially in Asian culture. DISRESPECT X1,000
#2: Calling your in-law parents Slobs?! Sir what is wrong with you?
#3: Sarcastic claps- what is WRONG with you???
#4: Snatching keys- Why are we still going…?
#5: “Fuck you too” Oh- O h- what-
Is this guy insane 😃
He’s so old he should know better.
8:16 These are the same people who will say their religion says no abortions and that the woman can just give the baby up for adoption, but at the same time it's against their religion to adopt 😅
EXACTLYYY
"Muh legacy and bloodline mUrst conTinuuuuu!"
i’m christian and i double checked and adoption is actually encouraged lol. so i looked up if any religions prohibit adoption and the answer is no so idk what he’s yapping about lmao
No personality, insecure men, parroting other incel talking points. Itd be sad if they weren’t such smug and stupid
@@taylorjohnson3141Exactly! I used to watch tons of adoption content before, and a lot of the couples that would go through it state that it was their religion that encouraged them to adopt in the first place. Bro just made that up lmao.
Born and raised in the Philippines, this is a common occurence for a lot of my relatives and friends of friends. This is why I'm really wary whenever another Filipina is marrying a foreigner, because the abuse from these passport bros is so commonplace, thinking that we're cheap and easy, it's hard not to worry about them. Of course, the gold digging Filipinos does exist, but a lot of Filipinos who stake it out abroad usually do it to provide for their families just for a chance to get out of poverty. What Jay-Ann said was really sad一"you can abuse me but not my family". They put up with a lot of abuse just because they need the stability that they cannot sustain in our country.
Thank you so much for this comment! I was wondering if living in Philippines is really worse than living with someone like that. I didn't think about aspect of helping the family.
@@Bartekm8 It depends, really. If you can afford to live comfortably in the Philippines, living here is relatively alright (political issues aside) but the class divide is palpable. You can only afford so much on minimum wage and you pretty much have to finish school to get far and escape poverty. Sadly, it's not that easy. Education is not as affordable and/ or accessible here.
The funny thing is she and her family isn't even "poor" per se. They literally have the funds for flights abroad.
@@uptonogood6738 i'm not sure if you're also filipino so, i'm going to go on the assumption that you aren't. i'm not knowledgable about jay-ann's situation and circumstances, so maybe they aren't poor but generally speaking, in the philippines, being able to go to a foreign country is indeed a "great" feat. however, for most people like us in the lower class, going to a foreign country can be one or a combination of the options below:
1. taking out a loan - you get loan from your friends, extended family, and even brokers.
2. for overseas filipino workers (OFW), they get recruited into agencies that deploys filipinos abroad to do labor. sometimes, they do downpayment the agency or pay in full and then, the agency will find them an employer abroad.
3. you have a sponsor in the country you're going to一in this case, the US. buying tickets in dollars is relatively cheaper (foreign exchange aside) than in PHP. it's possible that a relative or friend in the US may have paid for their tickets.
maybe jay-ann's family did options 1 and/or 3 or they were able to afford the tickets themselves, i'm not sure.
@mspluie-hx3gh Oh, of course, that could be the case for a lot of Filipinos who could afford to go abroad. I do see that as a possibility. Just that I've watched Jay Anne's tiktoks, her family, and everyone's saying she isn't even poor for that guy to be playing as some hero who saved her from her country. I don't necessarily think she put up with the abuse for the sake of financial stability, maybe for the sake of her kids. I just find it funny how they automatically think she's out for that bag, just because she's Filipina. Her parents wanted to give her some allowances, and apparently, that was one of the things the passport bro didn't appreciate.
Red flag guy gonna have a lot of work with this one
I dont think he's got enough flags
Who’s the red flag guy?
@marksmidt8225 Red flag guy is Dustin Poynter. He’s here on YT. I’d go watch him to get his vibe. If you like Cooper, you’ll probably like him.
@@marksmidt8225a guy who weighs in on relationship posts while running through a field with a giant red or green flag. I can't remember the exact channel name, but it should pop up if you type in "red flag guy" :)
@@marksmidt8225Dustin Poynter
He's the kind of person who'd try to sue a store because he tripped on a puddle that HAD a wet floor sign
Hi, grocery store worker here. He definitely looks like the kind to walk through the puddle I’m mopping. It makes more marks it’s so annoying
Oh yeah I remember when my father found out that it wasn’t the 1960s anymore and the police actually responded to our call for the 1ST TIME EVER for him beating my Mom. It was 1996. Took over 30 years for police to not say “we don’t get involved in domestic situations.”
This bastard even has the same look as my father 💀
I’m so sorry you and your mom had to experience that ❤️🩹 but yay for that ig 😗
Fun fact: DV laws to protect victims weren't implemented until 1996!
@@AndromedasLight17 this is insane, and some brainwashed Americans will still think they are the land of freedom and the whole world is so much behind.
@@AndromedasLight17 I don’t know if you’re attempting to be funny or mean, but I’m from Blount County Tennessee, and until the spring of 1996, nobody came to help us. I have 4 siblings. Not one teacher. Not one cop. Not even the cops who showed up to our house and with their own eyes saw my bloody and bruised mother would help. Yes, she always said not to arrest him but, today..she wouldn’t have the choice. And even when they showed up in 1996 and saw him on the porch with a shot gun, all they did was take the gun and left him there with my mother. He’s broken all our noses except my little sister. He took my newborn away when I was 17 and didn’t come home with her. I found her 25 years later. It’s google-able. I made national news with that search for her. And even though that was the meanest thing he ever did to me, he was meaner to my oldest brother. His body was a human punching bag.
So, are you trying to tell me you don’t believe me? Because you can quite literally find me online and read it in more detail if that’s what gets you off.
We know all we ever needed to know about him when he freely admits he left his wife whom even he says was a wonderful wife, WHILE SHE WAS FIGHTING FOR HER LIFE WITH CANCER CUZ SHE COULDN'T BEAR HIM ANY CHILDREN BECAUSE OF HER ONGOING BATTLE WITH CANCER!!! HES A FREAKIN MONSTER, PERIOD!
AND SHE STILL PAID FOR HIS DISNEY VACATION??
As the son of an abusive father, I wish women were meaner to men.
Bro didn't even get to keep the kid which is so fucking funny to me. That's just karma right there. I can't believe this asshole cheated on his wife with cancer and then tried to justify it with "bu-but, buh mah biological children must be created! I absolutely must have little clones of me running around!"
He's just garbage and trash. I hope all of his kids grow up to hate him for what he is doing to their mom.
Right??? If that’s what your “religious beliefs” condone, then your religion is irredeemable, festering garbage.
This type of man has been around forever. Before they were passport bros they were military wife hunters, or just marry an immigrant without money. My great grandfather was one of these types of men and other than his last name I know nothing of him. A white man from the americas preyed on my great grandmother as a young and poor Filipino immigrant to Hawaii and now he’s practically forgotten to history. Actually, I’ve decided it ends with me!! He’s forgotten!
Exactly, mail order brides have been a thing since forever. It's sad, and I am so glad a majority of people see it as creepy now.
Good for you! 🎉
Except Jay Anne actually came from privilege & has an education. Granted her opportunities are much more vast in the US, it pissed me off she had to make this statement. She shouldn't have to justify herself like that for people to respect her.
@@AndromedasLight17Oh, now that annoys me. Poor woman definitely is abused, but, people are forcing a narrative onto her?
Ugh, can’t people be normal about women? Especially when they’re not from America?
the first 30 seconds of this video is already insane work omfg
Fr
What???
All she needs is a go fund me and a good lawyer.
This^
she said she doesnt want to open a go fund me acc bcs she wants to stay with him for their unborn kid and doesnt want to disappoint the viewers by taking money without a proper plan
@@kasakgautam1320ugh, the children of divorced parents are statistically happier than the children of parents that stay together for the kids. Watching your parents fight all the time is freaking traumatizing. My parents have probably only had three fights in the entire 27 years I've been alive and each and every single one was terrifying for me. They have a great relationship but even people with good relationships can clash occasionally. The fights never got violent but the raised voices really scared me because, you know, no kid wants to watch their parents fight.
So abusive you can’t even fake being a decent guy for the parents..
Nothing better than watching Copper react to the worst husband after experiencing the worst step dad in real life
Sorry you had to experience a bad parental figure 🫶 hope ur better now
@medea5235 I'm okay haha, I use humor as a coping mechanism
@ real lol
Omg lol I thought you meant cooper was the one experiencing the bad stepdad
@ChaosAbsurdity lol no😭😭 at least I hope not
I live in china with a child! It's really common to just leave food out on the table all day so that if someone is hungry, they can just grab some chopsticks and eat quick and easy. Especially with kids where meal times can be hard for everyone to eat together. I imagine it might be pretty similar in the Philippines
Yeah it's totally normal, especially for multigenerational households and those without strong aircon. Like there's no pressure to 'eat it while it's still hot' like in cold climates, plenty of food is good at room temperature for a few hours.
Thats what my latvian grandma would do with my sister and i when every we would come to her house after school. We would eat til we were full and if there was food left over she'd keep it out so we could come back and eat more of it when we got hungry later. Why get your panties in a bundle over having some food out for a bit?? Like its not like theyre leaving it out over night??? Even tho i am culturally half white american and grew up in america, white americans still floor me with all of the weird restrictive standards they have 😭
Filipino here! And yes we do that too in my household!
@XuiLeeEv exactly! And if the food is cooked most of the time being left out won't cause any problems. I wouldn't leave raw crab out for a couple hours but if its just stir fried veggies or meat then it's not gonna go bad so fast
Him- She was Americanized!!!
Americanized in this context- no longer willing to tolerate his abuse.
Me- *wipes a tear from my eye* I’ve never been so proud of my country.
He just says „americanized“ because he doesn’t know any other countries that are considered first world.
I was also thinking that American women are just not tolerating these types of men. They have other options, he is just our throwaway. Many people/women overseas did not know about these men. I had to give my Filipino boyfriend the history of how horrible being born female was for most of our history. He was horrified. I think that since so many of these guys go overseas, more of the world is realizing why American women don't want them.
@@aneleh6
"Americanized" = expected to be treated like a human being instead of a bangmaid
The one time america is used in a good context lmao
He's not just recounting details of an explicit encounter in his past to his wife in public, he's also doing it while their kids are right there with them.
This man is deeply unpleasant and I hope she can get far away from him as soon as possible.
I hope someday the kids find his TikTok account. He's the kind of father they are going to ostracize as soon as they have agency.
If he wants a wife that never leaves and doesn't slander him why doesn't he just become a better person???
Because a-holes think they are the best of the best and have no reason to change and grow as a person. I hate people like this 🙄
Because that would require him to recognize that he's doing something wrong, and based on the way he talks, it sounds like he doesn't think he's doing anything wrong.
@@GrimmShadowsIIit sounds like he has some kind of cognitive disorder where he's unable to realize that his negative actions impacts his life in a negative way. He is in complete denial that his actions are abhorrent and sees no problem with them.
Noooooo see women are supposed to just accept subhuman treatment
Or just buy a sexdoll atp..
16:15 him saying he clapped sarcastically when his mother in law helped with the children... AS IF THAT"S NOT HIS JOB AS A FATHER
????
I doubt he has changed a single diaper or helped with any of the children. That's all women's work and he's a big ~strong~ man~. He's just a domineering A-hole.
The only silver lining in this situation is that he’s willingly posting how abusive he is so other unfortunate young women know to RUN. That poor woman, I hope she is able to fully break away from this loser despite them having kids.
Sadly, on the same platform, there’s a trad wannabe wife somewhere eager to be the next victim 😒
i love how bent out of shape these things make you because some youtubers just don’t get mad enough at these things for me lmfao
That’s why I love this channel lol, I can actually sit through the whole thing without getting too anxious🥹 Like I get the point of staying calm but this kinda stuff just needs more outrage👹
I just find it comforting watching a man get completely outraged about something the average woman has been desensitized to and the average man just shrugs off or even defends. Gives me hope for the women in these situations and feels validating
Chad : paying the least amout of respect and actively treating all of them badly
Also chad: why dont they like me???
24:31 there’s a huge difference between “I wasn’t gonna hit YOU” (how he sounded) and “I wasn’t gonna HIT you”
I think the point he made was valid and not valid because I’ve always flinched… BUTTTT idk that was kinda suspicious.
I love when Cooper stands up to drive his point home because it shows off his always top tier fits and I creepily wanna make a Coop ootd scrapbook to give to my guy friends whenever they ask for fashion advice
oml yesss his fits are top tier plz do
As a filipina, we were already americanized. We were bought by the United States from Spain who first colonized us. Most filipinos, especially the ones that go to the US are westernized, the Philippines was colonized.
I'm so glad that information about abuse tactics and narcissists are so readily available that we see right through them. The fact that he thought his videos were a moment tells me everything about him and makes me trust the wife 110%
Anybody else notice that she said the ex wife is like a closest mother..... but the ex is probably younger than her husband.... and she considers her a mother. I hope this she can break free from this and heallllll!!!!
the adoption line really pissed me off. i have NEVER heard religion used as an excuse to not adopt. just say you don't want to adopt, don't bring your so called religion into it as an excuse.
same people that say it's their religious belief that women should've have abortions and should adopt the baby out 😭
One of the abrahamic religions does not allow you to adopt, guess which
@@eyebleaching9215 which?
Watch it be a religion that actually does allow it but his local community just doesnt think it should be done for some reason
I know a guy who has forced 7 rounds of IVF on his wife because "I don't know what I would get if I adopt and I might not love them."
15:01 my mom and family are from the philippines, she grew up there and moved here in her 20s. let me just say this, making sure everyone is fed and enjoys the food is EXTREMELY important to her, she won’t rest or be happy until that happens even if people are just visiting for a few minutes
I AM MAKING MY BEST FRIEND A VALENTINES GIFT and you might ask why bring this up? CAUSE IM AM WILLING TO SPEND OVER THREE HOURS DRAWING HER MAKE HER AN ANIMATION BUY HER BOOKS AND CANDY…and this man can’t be a good husband? Like bro not that hard I promise just be a good person
I'm assuming you're young. I love everything you said. But there's something I've had to learn the hard way, and I'm just now finally giving in to this fact @ 53 years old... Most people aren't kind hearted. For some of us, being nice, kind, caring, careful of how we act and speak towards others, whether they're family, loved ones or strangers, because it's important to us to not hurt people or make them feel bad... Unfortunately, we *are* a rare breed, anymore.
This man has no idea how to be happy, much less strive to make someone else happy. He's not capable of doing anything you said. What you're doing for your best friend, he can't understand why someone would take the time and effort to do all that... unless **he** was getting something big out of it.
I don't want to drag this out too long, I hope you understand what I'm trying to tell you. You're a special human being, so don't *ever* let someone extinguish your light. Because trust me, many are going to hate that light throughout your lifetime and either try to take it, or put it out.
I really, really hope your best friend appreciates you, darlin!!!
Sorry for being so mushy, but I do hope you have a great life!!! 🤍🤍🤍
Also I’m a mom of 2 girls. 24:10 that child flinching is not normal. Kids do not flinch like that unless they’re hit. Fear is learned… we aren’t born with it. Especially kids that small. (I also have multiple degrees in early childhood development )
He didn't eat the food because he was fearful they would poison him... because he is a horrible person to everyone.
the dude looks like hes intoxicated in every vid
Looks like maybe some kinda painkiller. Pain point pupils red face kinda zoned in and out and easier for older people to get then most.
i will never get tired of cooper having the most wholesome and respectful rage towards the things i also rage at 😂
What he seems to be misunderstanding is that it's his behavior that has reduced his marriage to being just about the "bag". She probably went into it thinking that she has a chance at family, stability AND love. But his disrespect and maltreatment have reduced their relationship to that point. She has children with him and no money to get away let alone provide for herself or them if she somehow manages to. I hope she can find the resources to get out with her children.
Oh my God! Who treats people like this, let alone your In-laws?
It literally just keeps getting worse.
Shipping the original ex wife and the new ex wife SO BAD hope they stay lifelong friends and get this dude to prison
Men will literally put their salary in their dating profiles and then complain about their exes being gold diggers. Like bruh, if you put cheese in a mousetrap, you're not going to catch a bear.
Also I hate how he refers to his in-laws as if they're his own family and was STILL so disrespectful. I'm not an advocate for physical discipline, but I feel like that level of disrespect would have gotten him whooped by his parents.
ETA posted a moment too soon, and it looks like maybe he'd whoop his kids for disrespect like that too 😬
Agreed to everything you've just stated!
My daughter in law is philipino and her and her family are the sweetest people. This girl is so strong for standing up to this douche canoe. She needs to keep it moving and never look back ❤
17:09 The thing with the clapping when the MIL 'finally' helped his wife with the kids - like, dude, why didn't *you* help her before?? It's literally your job as a parent?? But no, he was sitting on his ass, just watching and waiting for another opportunity to disrespect them.
“I think this guy is clinically dumb” the realest thing I have heard all day.
This is the first time I've read a comment about a quote in a video at the exact moment I hear it in the video
Jay Anne is likely upper middle class in the Philippines. She said they have 2 businesses in the Philippines AND it is hard to get a US Visa as a Filipino. Like you need to prove you can afford it and that you have a stable income in the Philippines. The fact her parents was able to get a visa should say something. Point is, she is not a gold digger.
Yes! It’s so strange. She clearly did want to have a happy marriage with him.
most men leave their wives when they get sick/can’t have kids. but expect their wife to stay when they get sick/sterile.
this man literally left his wife with cancer for a tinder match. then baby trapped her. what a shame.
his ex wife is an angel. going through cancer, husband leaves her, has kids with another woman, and his ex wife is still nice and respectful. that’s so sad.
and then calls himself out
Filipina here going insane lol!! Just had to thank you for defending my people!
First time watching you and you're hilarious!😆
Bro this video was so unhinged 😭😭
Fr 😭
I love how these passport bros go out seeking transactional relationships, then they get all butthurt when the woman also treats it like a transactional relationship
Because they see as they women they go after as trophies who have no identity rather than another human being with individual motives and desires
As a Filipino, hearing "americanized Filipino wife" is both insane and absolutely goofy like.... ???? huh???
Also hearing the guy describe Jay Anne as someone who is dumb, stupid, naive and from a third world country is just... ew.... gross. And Filipinos are very close to our families which is why it's reasonable and even preferable for Jay Anne to leave him
I don't know how to explain it but the way cHaD says Mama and Papa when referring to Jay Anne's parents icks me out.
He's treating them like kids.... because he's probably older than all 3 of them 🤢
@ yes exactly, it feels icky and condescending. Also racist just because of his whole vibe and general disposition.
@@stinkiest_of_frogges1618in Filipino culture it’s quite common for people to refer to their in laws as mother/father etc. But the way he speaks about them tells me it isn’t out of respect for that…
26:40 we need to stop normalizing Timothee chalamet
Normalize?
Fr I don’t see the hype. They say you can tell a lot by a person by their friends and he dates a kardashian (one of the worst, gave millions of girls insecurities and claimed she was all natural in photoshopped pics)
0:12 WHAT??
My exact reaction💀😭
My exact thoughts
Disney land made me snap my neck to look at the video cuz HUH
Exactly I'm like?????? 😂😂😂😂
Bro really said: 👶👶🤰🥷♋️🧠💔⚖️👵🧓🏰
“I W A S N T G O N N A H I T Y O U!!!! 💅🏻” brooooooooooooooooootherr.
Perfect person to watch while sick
Edit: to the people saying they’re also sick, I hope you get better guys!! 💙💙
Fr
@@babickaeditsare we all sick rn?
literally
Real actually.
omg i’m sick 2 get better !!!
I love how the young kids ignore him because they already know what he’s about
10:09 WHAT IS GOING ON WITH HIS HAIR LMAOOOO
he tryna emulate cooper’s luscious locks & failing tremendously lmAO
i was literally giggling when i saw it - it's like it's trying to fly away
Looks like a little girl that lost her hairtie during a hard day a kindergarten after having one of those fountain ponytails
"That divorce came out of nowhere!"
To see this happening to one of my fellow Filipinos is heartbreaking and honestly people should never be like that ‘husband’ (at this point he shouldn’t be considered as her husband). I genuinely hope that all the victims in the world will eventually be helped but for now I just wish everyone here is doing ok.
I hope she is able to heal from all this and find someone truly meant for her. This man CLEARLY doesn’t see her as anything more than a f3tishized object. He doesn’t consider her a person with autonomy in the slightest and that’s clear just from the way he uses such distancing language alone. He chose her because of his stereotypical idea of having a submissive and ignorant wife so much so that he seemingly forgot or can’t comprehend that she actually has a mind of her own and is actually free to leave him whenever and however she wants to.
25:41 WHY THE HELL IS HE USING #goth IN A VIDEO ABOUT HIM BEING REPUBLICAN?!?!??! 😭😭😭
As a Filipino woman and a fan of the channel, thank you so much Cooper for bringing this issue forward. You have no idea how sick I am of seeing these foreigners exploiting our women.
Utterly self-absorbed. Only thinks about and cares about himself. Expects wife to do exactly as told, holds them hostage to money and lord I feel sorry for the kids. You know they've seen some bad stuff in this relationship. I don't care much about looks, but his eyes are so close together they look like they're trying to pass in the middle...
i used to babysit for a narcissist like him when i was a teen. his wife would constantly vent to me. it was heartbreaking to see what he put his wife and kids through. lucky they divorced.
There is no light behind that mans eyes wtf
He looks like he has the crazy eyes from birdbox
He looks like the mayor from Whoville. His barber should be fired.
Don't insult my Whoville king like that 😂
OOOOOOOH that's what it waaas
Bro says it’s his religious belief to have his own biological children while ignoring the religious belief of not cheating on your wife.
Relating heavy to the "tubberware" vocal stim lmaoo
8:07 assuming he's Christian, isn't it Christian doctrine that Jesus wasn't Joseph's biological kid lol
And wasn't the whole point that Jesus adopted... all of mankind?
I got no idea on what bro's on about lol
"I was a horrible irredeemable person to her and her family every opportunity I had to do so! I just don't understand why she would want to leave me!"
That's this guy. That's what he sound like.
Flinch is a LEARNED RESPONSE. No matter how you put it. That’s awful! So glad you’re talking about this bozo, cooler. He’s such a douche and unfortunately not super unique 😩😩😩
0:49 It means that she has turned half Eagle💔😔
TRUE AMERICAN 🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲
I feel so bad for his wife. She deserves so much better.
As someone who’s adopted, i’ve never, NEVER, heard someone use religion as an EXCUSE to not adopt a kid. If you didn’t want to adopt because you were concerned about the KID and how the KID would feel, thats different. Health also comes into it. But RELIGION???
No way.
This actually made me so furious i stopped the video to comment lmao, what the heck.
I just realized how that sounded. I havent adopted a kid, i am adopted
it's concerning that he has one pupil significantly smaller than the other... he needs to get himself checked and stop worrying about his "americanized filipino wife"
What a creeeeeeeeep - I've seen a few video essays on this dude, and he is literally every immigrant woman's worst nightmare. I'm so glad my parents were nothing like this. My dad met my mom in Manila while he was in the Air Force as a firefighter, and they were married for almost 30 years until her passing in 2013.
how dare youtube hide this from me for 27 seconds
real
Imagine it being 5 minutes😭🙏
shut up
horror story fr 😭@@misecstinc
27 min 😔
the goth tag in that one post 😭😭😭
Why the hell did he even record himself trying to make his pregnant wife feel insecure? Ugh I hate him
14:19 DIDN’T EAT THE FOOD?! ARE YOU KIDDING ME?! Philippine food is amazing and if you never had it you are missing out, i had double Christmas morning at my moms house night at my boyfriends moms house, lasagna for lunch, creamed corn, lobster & steak, fried rice, and more for dinner 🤤 dude i would commit heinous acts to get Philippine food
Pancit! Chicken adobo! Lumpia! Anything pork related! 🤩
@@maryotrembiak5532 I was just about to comment all the things you said! Like pancit is just absolutely fire, and I really hope it's not what he literally just ignored
the poor kids bro 😭😭
Top five things I did to disrespect my Filipino in-laws!!!! (Number three will surprise you!)
10 seconds in and its already a roller coaster
Ye
It gets worse😅
He's so effing immature, she's more grown-up than he will ever be
Wake up Cooper posted
Periooooddd✨✨✨
copper..like the material.. i didnt know an inanimate object could post stuff on yt/j
@@_mistymistakesoops :3 lol
nooo copper was better 😢
@@XxXBløøDY_KiSSESxxX lmaoo its ok it wouldve been funny if u kept it
7:38 Haha 😂 bro, ima bet it’s not actually on any religious bases at all- it’s just for his ego, or he *would’ve* adopted.
We love a man that stands up for his mother what a king 🙌