Peter LIED so he could go on vacation. He LEFT his son who has seizures to go on vacation. He MISLED his FIANCE so he could go on vacation. And that vacation was only a week because OP called Peter and informed him that she called CPS. And it's very clear that Peter still has feelings for his ex wife.
Jonah was safe with his grandparents. Leaving a young kid with epilepsy to go on a week-long beach vacation with your ex (kid's mom) and your high school friends? NTA. Stick to your decision. You are not the one who broke up a truly happy family. Peter did. He is a liar and he is having his flying monkeys after you. You did not send Jonah to foster care. He went to his grandparents. Please do not take this lying idiot back. If your relationship was that great he could-woulda-shoulda left Jonah with the grandparents and covered YOUR flight to the Maldives to join him, his ex and their friends. What a manipulative LIAR and all his idiot flying monkeys too. Good for you for having a shiny spine OP. Talk about dodging a bullet!
Some of y'all would've stayed with that cheating loser. She found out he had been cheating anyway. Plus SHE SENT THE CHILD TO HIS GRANDPARENT'S NOT TO A FOSTER HOME! CHILL OUT!
He lied to get you to babysit ( safe pair of hands ) ...Flew abroad for a week . If it was so innocent why wernt you invited ?? ..... The lies are a serious issue and I definitely support your decision
Respect respect was he showing you respect when he lied and dumped his sick kid on you to party with his ex. LOVE YOUR SHINNING SPINE YOU were blessed to find out before marrying him.
It’s the gaslighting and no accountability for me .. not the unmitigated gall .. talking bout rash judgement and respect.. why are you going vacation with ex and leaving ur sick child with girlfriend.. he knew u wouldn’t be stupid enough to let it fly . So he lied then wanted to make up a cover up story when he got back but got caught .. now wants to shift blame .. girl u dodged a speeding bullet..
My question is why do Peter and Sandra feel like it is okay to leave their sick son with OP under a LIE!!!! Even when the truth was "revealed" Peter had multiple chances to update OP. Instead, Peter and Sandra continued to have a WEEK-LONG VACATION! They could have left Jonah with his grandparents and avoided the CPS episode. OP was being used as a babysitter. This vacation was not an engagement celebration because wouldn't Sandra want Jonah to be part of a celebration? This was most likely a group of friends that supported Peter and Sandra's cheating ways and bad behavior.
Heck, an engagement celebration without the future groom?? If it was a bachelorette, sure, but its an “engagement celebration”. You don’t bring your ex to that while leaving your fiance behind. Smh
14:16 Excuse you, Auntie Sandra?! I beg every last one of your pardons. If Peter is so awesome then why aren’t you still married to him? I think these people are just upset that they’ve lost the free nanny services that OP had been lavishing upon them. NTA by any means. Edited to add that I have a strong feeling that Sandra and Peter are renegotiating their terms and are just delighting in making a fool out of OP.
This may be the best gaslighting/trust your gut stories I have ever heard. EVERYONE tried to make OP feel like the villian when in fact, she was right the ENTIRE TIME! People will do anything to play in your face while they do as they like. Smh. Im glad she was right in the end.
“You could have called me first” LMAO. So could he, so why preach when he can’t even follow his own words? It makes me laugh when people do sht like that and then use the same words to describe their bad behavior to preach to others. Him not telling her, keeping secrets etc, is basically him asking for her to come to her own conclusions. This could literally have been a two second conversation of “hey OP, my ex invited me to her engagement proposal out of time, i really want to be there so would you mind taking care of son while Im gone?” See? What an easy sentence to write and say out loud, truly magical how honesty can prevent misunderstandings and wrong conclusions!
“After everything we did together” remember: this is a sentence that people will say to guilt trip you. All you need to do is take that same sentence and flip it on them: “after everything we did together, you decided to keep secrets from me and leave me in the dark?” That simple.
My goodness, people are always trying to pressure the woman into forgiving disrespect. They came at her when they only heard Peter's side of the story. If it was the other way around, Peter's friends would not have been pressuring him into forgiving the OP. It's just the fact that the lie he told was something so serious, and he definitely should've taken her with him, or just sent Sandra a congratulations from home. Also, that photo is completely inappropriate. If Peter's life was so great with OP in it, then why did he throw it away by acting like such a f*cking idiot? He's the one that tore the family apart. Let Peter tell his son how daddy f*cked up. Then Peter tries to tell her, "we owe it to ourselves to meet one last time and clear things up". Nope, classic manipulation tactic. I'm glad she said no because she knew that she might get back together with him if she met him. She should've blocked him again instead of just ignoring the messages. Sandra is an idiot for inviting her ex who had a fiance, but Peter lying was completely his decision. Stop trying to take the blame for the pos's lies. Showing up at her house though? F*ck off. First with Peter, then with Sandra, no one is interested in getting the OP's side of the story before trying to bite her head off. So, Peter's friends knew that Marcus wasn't on the trip with them, and some of them knew that they were cheating??? Yet, they still had the nerve to bash and harass OP?? F*ck them all. I'm glad Marcus found out though, and supported the OP. The only support she gets is from a guy she never met. Good on that friend for telling her the truth as well.
If the three of you got along, why weren't you invited and the son stay with his grandparents? If everyone else knew since they went on the trip together, why were the only one kept in the dark?
Peter seems very immature. He made an unavoidable mess and ruined his relationship with Op. He lied. He left nis sick son with Op. And he didn't answer her calls for a week. Her calling CPS was excessive. But her breaking up with this idiot was the best thing for her. She dodged a bullet.
So this dude left his child with his girlfriend to go on a vacation with his ex baby's mama and she is the mother of the child with him that's having the epileptic seizures and both of them ignored their child when if anything they should have took the child on the vacation as well so he could see the mother get engaged or enjoy the time with his mother being engaged to another man as well as spend time with his father. So yeah I would have dumped him and they would have been no other questions about it. And I would have dumped him before he went on his vacation because this is what I would have been asking him so if the mother is sick why are you not taking your child to see the sick mother? Also what is weird another thing that's weird about this no one's calling the mother out for ignoring her own child and not taking care of her own child. You're around here bad mouthing your baby daddy ex fiance about a child that belongs to you which is pretty strange. I'm sorry but I will be that b**** and say well first of all let's get one thing straight I am just your ex-boyfriends at fiance you're a child is not my child. And why are you not taking care of your child. You're so busy running around in the Maldives with your new flame that y'all forgot about your child.
I'm sure I heard that story before but with a different ending Jonah left completely because they didn't want him so op ended up adopting Jonah with the grandparents help same story until after the CPS bit
Assuming this is the US(because of course I do 😅) he left his epileptic child with said child's soon to be stepmom, telling her that he was going to another state because of ex wife's medical emergency(possibly surgery) and instead he went out of the country..... yeah, he's the arse here, not the OP
YTA. Peter handled things poorly but she knocks him out of the park here. Really, she sees a beach trip with multiple friends and the ex with a ring and assumes peter is the one who gave it to her, so firmly that she takes it out on his kid. Imagine being the kid. Still adjusting to his condition, spending time alone with his stepmother and out of the blue she calls the cops and tell them to take him away. This whole story downplays what she did to the kid and how it'll affect him long term. And she kinda goes oops, maybe i overreacted. Peter dodged a bullet. Oop sucks hard. Edit: havent finished the vid but im seeing stuff where he did cheat. I stand by my initial assessment, because the info presented and her decision to seriously traumatize a child haven't really changed. She could have taken him to the grandparent's house herself. It would have been a thousand times better for the kid than making him go with cops.
What? Both parents went on vacation abandoning their son, who has epilepsy, instead of leaving him with his grandparents. Stupid. Op wasn't petty. She cared more for Jonah then his own parents.
That's really bad take on things. OP is being lied to and exploited. If she had kept the child with her, there was a danger of her anger and hurt boiling over onto the child. Even if she remained calm, if anything genuinely went wrong and the kid ended up hurt then it would have been OP's neck on the line. She was very sensible in sending the kid to his grandparents WITH INDEPENDENT WITNESSES that she is handing the child over unharmed and safe and sound. Now she can't be blamed for any bruises or neglect. OP herself saud that she felt vengeful. So would it have been a sensible thing to do to kerp the kid around? That her vengefulness came out on the kid, no matter how hard she tried not to but still did? Plus it was an excellent slap on the ex's face of how dare he pull such a stunt on her. It is a very good thing that the first thing she did was send the kid away. For the kids safety and well-being AND her own. The kid has not actually suffered anything. If the kid is sad then the blame squarely falls on his parents.
Called it. Peter and Sandra were cheating on their fiance(e)s. There is no way he would lie about the whole thing if there wasn't anything fishy on that trip.
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Peter is just pissed about losing his free babysitter. That's it.
Peter LIED so he could go on vacation. He LEFT his son who has seizures to go on vacation. He MISLED his FIANCE so he could go on vacation. And that vacation was only a week because OP called Peter and informed him that she called CPS. And it's very clear that Peter still has feelings for his ex wife.
Jonah was safe with his grandparents. Leaving a young kid with epilepsy to go on a week-long beach vacation with your ex (kid's mom) and your high school friends? NTA. Stick to your decision. You are not the one who broke up a truly happy family. Peter did. He is a liar and he is having his flying monkeys after you. You did not send Jonah to foster care. He went to his grandparents. Please do not take this lying idiot back. If your relationship was that great he could-woulda-shoulda left Jonah with the grandparents and covered YOUR flight to the Maldives to join him, his ex and their friends. What a manipulative LIAR and all his idiot flying monkeys too. Good for you for having a shiny spine OP. Talk about dodging a bullet!
Well stated. ^^^
Peter and Sandra deserve each other.
That's so brave of you to take action for the child's safety 💪
Some of y'all would've stayed with that cheating loser. She found out he had been cheating anyway. Plus SHE SENT THE CHILD TO HIS GRANDPARENT'S NOT TO A FOSTER HOME! CHILL OUT!
He lied to get you to babysit ( safe pair of hands ) ...Flew abroad for a week . If it was so innocent why wernt you invited ?? ..... The lies are a serious issue and I definitely support your decision
Respect respect was he showing you respect when he lied and dumped his sick kid on you to party with his ex.
LOVE YOUR SHINNING SPINE YOU were blessed to find out before marrying him.
It’s the gaslighting and no accountability for me .. not the unmitigated gall .. talking bout rash judgement and respect.. why are you going vacation with ex and leaving ur sick child with girlfriend.. he knew u wouldn’t be stupid enough to let it fly . So he lied then wanted to make up a cover up story when he got back but got caught .. now wants to shift blame .. girl u dodged a speeding bullet..
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He lied, went to the maldives, and she's wrong! Glad she dumped him
My question is why do Peter and Sandra feel like it is okay to leave their sick son with OP under a LIE!!!! Even when the truth was "revealed" Peter had multiple chances to update OP. Instead, Peter and Sandra continued to have a WEEK-LONG VACATION! They could have left Jonah with his grandparents and avoided the CPS episode. OP was being used as a babysitter. This vacation was not an engagement celebration because wouldn't Sandra want Jonah to be part of a celebration? This was most likely a group of friends that supported Peter and Sandra's cheating ways and bad behavior.
Heck, an engagement celebration without the future groom?? If it was a bachelorette, sure, but its an “engagement celebration”. You don’t bring your ex to that while leaving your fiance behind. Smh
@@05bastille this!!!!!
Poor Jonah, both of his parents doesn't care about him
A liar is a liar. They don't change
The gaslighting, absolutely not. This has crossed the line to harassment.
14:16 Excuse you, Auntie Sandra?! I beg every last one of your pardons. If Peter is so awesome then why aren’t you still married to him? I think these people are just upset that they’ve lost the free nanny services that OP had been lavishing upon them. NTA by any means.
Edited to add that I have a strong feeling that Sandra and Peter are renegotiating their terms and are just delighting in making a fool out of OP.
"I beg every last one of your pardons" 🤣🤣
This may be the best gaslighting/trust your gut stories I have ever heard. EVERYONE tried to make OP feel like the villian when in fact, she was right the ENTIRE TIME! People will do anything to play in your face while they do as they like. Smh. Im glad she was right in the end.
Seriously he did something stupid and wrong and he is trying to make her the culprit? Dump him.
“You could have called me first” LMAO. So could he, so why preach when he can’t even follow his own words? It makes me laugh when people do sht like that and then use the same words to describe their bad behavior to preach to others. Him not telling her, keeping secrets etc, is basically him asking for her to come to her own conclusions. This could literally have been a two second conversation of “hey OP, my ex invited me to her engagement proposal out of time, i really want to be there so would you mind taking care of son while Im gone?” See? What an easy sentence to write and say out loud, truly magical how honesty can prevent misunderstandings and wrong conclusions!
“After everything we did together” remember: this is a sentence that people will say to guilt trip you. All you need to do is take that same sentence and flip it on them: “after everything we did together, you decided to keep secrets from me and leave me in the dark?”
That simple.
OP should have been invited on the trip
Does anyone else think that dude had a fling while at the beach? She was not the one that did the kid wrong, he was by dumping the kid on her.
He did. With Sandra. Which is why Marcus ended their engagement even before OP told him.
OP did nothing wrong. Even calling CPS was a good decision.
If it weren't, the police wouldn't have taken the child from her.
My goodness, people are always trying to pressure the woman into forgiving disrespect. They came at her when they only heard Peter's side of the story. If it was the other way around, Peter's friends would not have been pressuring him into forgiving the OP. It's just the fact that the lie he told was something so serious, and he definitely should've taken her with him, or just sent Sandra a congratulations from home. Also, that photo is completely inappropriate. If Peter's life was so great with OP in it, then why did he throw it away by acting like such a f*cking idiot? He's the one that tore the family apart. Let Peter tell his son how daddy f*cked up.
Then Peter tries to tell her, "we owe it to ourselves to meet one last time and clear things up". Nope, classic manipulation tactic. I'm glad she said no because she knew that she might get back together with him if she met him. She should've blocked him again instead of just ignoring the messages. Sandra is an idiot for inviting her ex who had a fiance, but Peter lying was completely his decision. Stop trying to take the blame for the pos's lies. Showing up at her house though? F*ck off. First with Peter, then with Sandra, no one is interested in getting the OP's side of the story before trying to bite her head off.
So, Peter's friends knew that Marcus wasn't on the trip with them, and some of them knew that they were cheating??? Yet, they still had the nerve to bash and harass OP?? F*ck them all. I'm glad Marcus found out though, and supported the OP. The only support she gets is from a guy she never met. Good on that friend for telling her the truth as well.
The Mother and Father left their child to go on VACATION really. Left you to take care of their child 😂😂don't be a FOOL.
If the three of you got along, why weren't you invited and the son stay with his grandparents? If everyone else knew since they went on the trip together, why were the only one kept in the dark?
Peter seems very immature. He made an unavoidable mess and ruined his relationship with Op. He lied. He left nis sick son with Op. And he didn't answer her calls for a week. Her calling CPS was excessive. But her breaking up with this idiot was the best thing for her. She dodged a bullet.
No, it wasn't. Peter abandoned his child. Who had epilepsy! Op did good on this one but stupid to keep contact with these idiots.
So they divorce and then both cheated on their fiance 🤡😵💫💀
That was no simple misunderstanding.
So this dude left his child with his girlfriend to go on a vacation with his ex baby's mama and she is the mother of the child with him that's having the epileptic seizures and both of them ignored their child when if anything they should have took the child on the vacation as well so he could see the mother get engaged or enjoy the time with his mother being engaged to another man as well as spend time with his father.
So yeah I would have dumped him and they would have been no other questions about it.
And I would have dumped him before he went on his vacation because this is what I would have been asking him so if the mother is sick why are you not taking your child to see the sick mother?
Also what is weird another thing that's weird about this no one's calling the mother out for ignoring her own child and not taking care of her own child. You're around here bad mouthing your baby daddy ex fiance about a child that belongs to you which is pretty strange.
I'm sorry but I will be that b**** and say well first of all let's get one thing straight I am just your ex-boyfriends at fiance you're a child is not my child. And why are you not taking care of your child. You're so busy running around in the Maldives with your new flame that y'all forgot about your child.
He just wanted to go bunnies on his child mother with no sick child on his back
Nope, he wanted a nanny red banners flying. Not your kid not your problem.
I'm sure I heard that story before but with a different ending Jonah left completely because they didn't want him so op ended up adopting Jonah with the grandparents help same story until after the CPS bit
Assuming this is the US(because of course I do 😅) he left his epileptic child with said child's soon to be stepmom, telling her that he was going to another state because of ex wife's medical emergency(possibly surgery) and instead he went out of the country..... yeah, he's the arse here, not the OP
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OP isn't really in-love with Peter that much. If she was, they would have already talked weeks after that incident.
YTA. Peter handled things poorly but she knocks him out of the park here. Really, she sees a beach trip with multiple friends and the ex with a ring and assumes peter is the one who gave it to her, so firmly that she takes it out on his kid. Imagine being the kid. Still adjusting to his condition, spending time alone with his stepmother and out of the blue she calls the cops and tell them to take him away. This whole story downplays what she did to the kid and how it'll affect him long term. And she kinda goes oops, maybe i overreacted. Peter dodged a bullet. Oop sucks hard.
Edit: havent finished the vid but im seeing stuff where he did cheat. I stand by my initial assessment, because the info presented and her decision to seriously traumatize a child haven't really changed. She could have taken him to the grandparent's house herself. It would have been a thousand times better for the kid than making him go with cops.
How hard is it for all these AI voices on these various channels to read co-, as in coworker, as “co” instead of “kio” or “chio”?
Wow your petty. That baby didn't do anything to you. You should of just waited for him to come back and talk to him
Lying about a emergency and not telling your partner who was looking after his kid that he was going aboard with his ex
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It’s you’re not your.
What? Both parents went on vacation abandoning their son, who has epilepsy, instead of leaving him with his grandparents. Stupid. Op wasn't petty. She cared more for Jonah then his own parents.
That's really bad take on things. OP is being lied to and exploited. If she had kept the child with her, there was a danger of her anger and hurt boiling over onto the child. Even if she remained calm, if anything genuinely went wrong and the kid ended up hurt then it would have been OP's neck on the line. She was very sensible in sending the kid to his grandparents WITH INDEPENDENT WITNESSES that she is handing the child over unharmed and safe and sound. Now she can't be blamed for any bruises or neglect. OP herself saud that she felt vengeful. So would it have been a sensible thing to do to kerp the kid around? That her vengefulness came out on the kid, no matter how hard she tried not to but still did? Plus it was an excellent slap on the ex's face of how dare he pull such a stunt on her. It is a very good thing that the first thing she did was send the kid away. For the kids safety and well-being AND her own.
The kid has not actually suffered anything. If the kid is sad then the blame squarely falls on his parents.
Called it. Peter and Sandra were cheating on their fiance(e)s. There is no way he would lie about the whole thing if there wasn't anything fishy on that trip.