That’s not how it works in some cases. The courts decide how assets are split in most states, even if one party objects or wants to do something else. She would have to accept the money, and pay the tax fees before giving it back to him. And even then that can be kind of long and complicated depending on where you live. She should just separate and go ghost with everything that’s hers. That way he can keep whatever is his
Given the amount of misery you’re currently going through, regardless of others opinions you deserve that money too. At least you’ll make it last and not blow it in 12 months 👀
She should leave him as he will run out of money sooner than she thinks. Her husband isn't a rich ans high class man with a high paying job. He's just a loser who came into money and spending it like crazy thinking he's better than his peers. And once he runs out he will become bitter and depressed and will take it out on those close to him.
What a unique situation where someone is scared of divorce due to the alimony they'd be receiving! Seeing the way this dude's spending the money, $1M doesn't feel like a lot.
I would leave. I wouldn't let him off Scott Free. Just an equal divorce. Just take my things. The luxury items that were given to me, I would sell. Invest that money. As for friends. The ones that were around before the settlement will understand why the divorce is happening. They already know that the money turned him into a grade A JA. The new "friends" will ghost him as soon as he is broke.
Suggesting the plastic surgery isn't a bad thing if OP had brought up insecurities before, but it sounds like she didn't so he's a douche for that. But I must be out of the loop, why would he want her to remove her bottom rib? Shouldn't he get that operation since he'll need that flexibility now?
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if op is so afraid of being considered a gold digger if she divorces him, then all she has to do is leave him his money when she splits up with him.
That’s not how it works in some cases. The courts decide how assets are split in most states, even if one party objects or wants to do something else.
She would have to accept the money, and pay the tax fees before giving it back to him. And even then that can be kind of long and complicated depending on where you live.
She should just separate and go ghost with everything that’s hers. That way he can keep whatever is his
dude will be broke again in like a year
Given the amount of misery you’re currently going through, regardless of others opinions you deserve that money too. At least you’ll make it last and not blow it in 12 months 👀
She should leave him as he will run out of money sooner than she thinks. Her husband isn't a rich ans high class man with a high paying job. He's just a loser who came into money and spending it like crazy thinking he's better than his peers. And once he runs out he will become bitter and depressed and will take it out on those close to him.
You're right @cww2490
What a unique situation where someone is scared of divorce due to the alimony they'd be receiving!
Seeing the way this dude's spending the money, $1M doesn't feel like a lot.
I would leave. I wouldn't let him off Scott Free. Just an equal divorce. Just take my things. The luxury items that were given to me, I would sell. Invest that money. As for friends. The ones that were around before the settlement will understand why the divorce is happening. They already know that the money turned him into a grade A JA. The new "friends" will ghost him as soon as he is broke.
Suggesting the plastic surgery isn't a bad thing if OP had brought up insecurities before, but it sounds like she didn't so he's a douche for that. But I must be out of the loop, why would he want her to remove her bottom rib? Shouldn't he get that operation since he'll need that flexibility now?