What you guys are telling, I agree💯. Huge weddings are a scam unless you want to show off. It doesn’t matter if you’re rich or poor, that’s not the case it’s just common sense at this point. I never grew up dreaming about a wedding. Now that it’s actually my turn to plan one, I’m realizing just how much I still don’t like weddings! Sri Lankan weddings are a huge business-everything from the hotels to the cake seems to see couples as walking bags of cash. Honestly, the whole industry feels ridiculous to me. So, we decided to keep it simple. We got legally married with just our parents there, and then me and my husband went out to celebrate. It was one of the best days ever, and I have zero regrets.
Yess and yes!!!! What a valuable topic you guys have been sharing. Unfortunately the most of the srilankans thinks that wedding is a status! It is something they have to achieve if not , it make them a failure.. i am someone who don’t believe in huge wedding instead of I rather invest those money on a land or something. I will at least put those money in to a saving.
Like this conversation. Have a small/affordable wedding with close family and friends, pay a down payment/buy on a house go on a fantastic trip on the honeymoon and start your marriage not in debt!!
People have weddings beyond their limits. Specially sri lankans want to showoff the world.its useless. At the end with in a few months the marriage doesn't work.basically it could be a divorce or each other to find there own way by not continuing marriage life. I mean having grand weddings doesn't make any sence.end of the day when you both fail it becomes laughing stock. Thinking wisely is more practical rather than taking hasty decisions.
With the culture in Sri Lanka, we may like to do such a wedding because every family member expects to know whether they have a wedding or not, so people are very motivated to plan a wedding well and have a wedding with some ceremony because it is our Sri Lankan culture. In fact, looking at it from that point of view, it is not the fault of those who are in our current generation Because people in some foreign western countries plan their weddings in a very simple way without spending a lot of money. Because of their culture. If the people of our country have the same simple ideas, we can save a lot of money on our weddings. first People's attitude needs to be change With the culture in Sri Lanka,
What you guys are telling, I agree💯. Huge weddings are a scam unless you want to show off. It doesn’t matter if you’re rich or poor, that’s not the case it’s just common sense at this point.
I never grew up dreaming about a wedding. Now that it’s actually my turn to plan one, I’m realizing just how much I still don’t like weddings! Sri Lankan weddings are a huge business-everything from the hotels to the cake seems to see couples as walking bags of cash. Honestly, the whole industry feels ridiculous to me. So, we decided to keep it simple. We got legally married with just our parents there, and then me and my husband went out to celebrate. It was one of the best days ever, and I have zero regrets.
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Yess and yes!!!! What a valuable topic you guys have been sharing. Unfortunately the most of the srilankans thinks that wedding is a status! It is something they have to achieve if not , it make them a failure.. i am someone who don’t believe in huge wedding instead of I rather invest those money on a land or something. I will at least put those money in to a saving.
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Like this conversation. Have a small/affordable wedding with close family and friends, pay a down payment/buy on a house go on a fantastic trip on the honeymoon and start your marriage not in debt!!
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People have weddings beyond their limits.
Specially sri lankans want to showoff the world.its useless.
At the end with in a few months the marriage doesn't work.basically it could be a divorce or each other to find there own way by not continuing marriage life.
I mean having grand weddings doesn't make any sence.end of the day when you both fail it becomes laughing stock.
Thinking wisely is more practical rather than taking hasty decisions.
Well said 👏🏻
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With the culture in Sri Lanka, we may like to do such a wedding because every family member expects to know whether they have a wedding or not, so people are very motivated to plan a wedding well and have a wedding with some ceremony because it is our Sri Lankan culture.
In fact, looking at it from that point of view, it is not the fault of those who are in our current generation
Because people in some foreign western countries plan their weddings in a very simple way without spending a lot of money. Because of their culture. If the people of our country have the same simple ideas, we can save a lot of money on our weddings.
first People's attitude needs to be change With the culture in Sri Lanka,
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back again you’re showing how uneducated you are!! They both make lots of sense as someone who lives in abroad over 15 yrs i agree to them 100%
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