how to be an attractive introvert
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 มิ.ย. 2023
- This video is about how to an attractive introvert, and also the "black cat" aesthetic for guys.
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0:18 Intro
0:21 Key difference
0:45 Remember
1:15 Black Cat Boy
1:33 Media
1:44 Mystery
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First step: be attractive.
This.
Train like an mma fighter
go work out and it'l be fine
Then just be that guy. You know.
as long as your mentality is like this you won't get anywhere.
How to be an attractive introvert:
1) be attractive
2) be introvert
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Thank you for this very useful information.
And have money too can’t keep up with looks without money
What is love?
baby don't hurt me
This is me all the way. I used to b quiet and socially awkward but now that I’ve improved my style, lost weight and most importantly started SMILING to strangers, I’ve noticed I gravitate ppl even if I don’t talk or say little. Quiet, mysterious but approachable. I think the smile is what really gets ppl. I used to think being quiet was bad but if there is anyone else like me on here, we just gotta embrace is cuz it’s who we are.
Same here, It's a hard transition to make, but once you do and realize it, it is a great feeling knowing you do not have to change your introverted ways to still be involved in society. Being described this way when women tell me what their first impression of me was, gave me the confirmation i needed to know this instead of feeling like I am just lying to myself. Although not sure if you're the same but once someone gets close enough to me I do tend to open up and can be quite a different person around them specifically
How do you smile at strangers?
@@iwtkms1 yep, I can get loud once I’m comfortable but I don’t show everyone that part of me. I think we choose and pick who we decide to show our more loud side to. I think introverts read the room before going all in as a way to weed out ppl who we might view as fake or a waste of time.
Good shit brother
@@embracem7722 like this
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1) find what makes u unique and push urself outta comfort zone in any way, small steps make a difference
2)learn what is socially acceptable and how to keep a convo flowing, when to end it
3)combine both ideas and u will become a god of ur own world
Blue pill garbage
I need to really work on #2
@@juangal7569 doesnt take much bro stay mindful of urself and others. Remember that u have ur own goals and schedule, as well as the other person. Nothing to overthink just a good start 👍
it may sound weird but for me just nofap helped with it, my social skills are 1000x times better@@juangal7569
i go with messy hair is that good?
attractive introvert : he's so dark and mysterious
average introvert : he's so weird and awkward
😂literally
Damn that means I'm average...😢
C'mon let's be real here.
Attractive introvert: mysterious
Unattractive introvert: creepy
This.
💯😂😂
100% fax. When women say they like a man who’s introverted and mysterious what they really mean is he is physically attractive and just happens to be introverted. The mysteriousness is result of the halo effect from the guy being good looking, if he was ugly he’d just be creepy and uncomfortable to be around.
@@crxde_ 100% true. Women tell me I am mysterious but I am tall and good looking.
Literally used to be an awkward quiet guy with no social skills. But when I started working on myself, had confidence, and approached people at school, it made a huge difference despite being the same quiet introverted guy, people started talking to me.
How did u work on urself what did u do?
yeah what did u do?
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Not op, but what I did was lose a lot of weight by going to the gym. It helped me build a nice physique and I became "healthier." I also found a fitting hairstyle for myself (face shape + personal preference). I then started paying attention to how I dress and bought clothes that I thought looked nice on me. Doing all of these things helped build confidence and I began to appreciate myself more.
How did you bro? I’m in my early 20s and it’s embarrassing
dont change who you are... but be confident
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If you're a massive introvert you may find this helpful . First step is to socialise . Next when you're in a social setting use your greatest tool as an introvert that is observance , see how when what why and about who people talk . Pair that with being a good listener ( People actually gravitate towards a good listener ) If you can do this for the longest time you would get better results I did it for 5-6 months. Next try creating your own opinions and be careful about what you have to say make sure you mean it . Fourth step :- When you're sure about who you are and where you stand try taking charge and surprisingly people won't be mad if you do. Underneath all this keep working out . Attractiveness is not about how you look , it is small things like how you talk, your intonation , your pitch , your emphasis on parts of sentences also body language , eye contact , confidence and how you handle situation etc . It is a natural process . This worked for me and it took me around a year to be actually attractive (which isn't that much of time once you see the results ) you make take some different amount of time . Ik my comment won't get that much of an engagement but to whoever reads this hope this helps ! Edit :- I'd like to add , An introvert turned extrovert / attractive is a superpower .
Hey boss, question for you, based off of your experience what keeps a conversation flowing and how do you engage in one?
@@Muichi_Yama025 You don't need much to engage in a conversation honestly , be approachable and be a good listener that's how I got through my silent phase. To keep conversations flowing is a different part , your conversations happen through your subconcious so we don't have any particular instruction to keep a conversation flowing , it needs to be natural. Different people can have unique responses to the same situation so your responses are gonna be unique too. It takes time is all.
@@Muichi_Yama025I’ve found asking questions really effective. Especially if it’s on a topic that they like. At some point in the conversation you might even find something to add from your own experience or branch out to other topics.
@@boing7395 thank you my man and @mattdaemontargaryen5256 you guys have been a great help, I'll work on my social skills.🤝🤝🤝
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Facts fr
You mean me fr?
Literally me
Love the editing in this 🙌🏻
Resonance in the background🔥
Experience from an attractive introvert
Im kinda introvert, i dont talk to much and dont have many friends... Im calm and kind to everyone who talks to me, i avoid discussions at all cost. In my first month of college people used to think i was junst a shy NPC, until i ''started to act out of character'' talking to the most beautiful girl and do really well at basketball. Im also on really good shape, strong 6 feet tall and i have really good skin, besides dressing well. After the first month, everyone starts to want to meet me, but im always nice to other people and only reveal the real personality to my close friends. Dont think that if u are a geek introvert u ll be making sucess, work on urself brother!
This one... Seems flawed?
The "Black Cat" persona has some requirements, starting with you overall body-shape.
You HAVE TO be tall, and YOU HAVE TO be slim. Your ethnicity also plays a large role, it's easier to make this work if you are either WHITE or LIGHT-TONE ASIAN. It's really hard to pull off that vibe if you are Latino, Tan-Tone Asian or Black. Being naturally attractive also plays a large role.
You can see that in the examples displayed.
then be a Black Panther boy why you want to become a black cat? create your own genre!
@@souhardya1487 In my case I'd be a Black Kitten Boy. I'm 5'3" BhAWAhaHA .-.
@@fuibancontafake3057 ay man, it works for Levi Ackerman so you still have a chance
Ohh thank god i am asian and tall af
@@fuibancontafake3057fr I’m a 5,2 mixed race male and it’s hard to be “attractive” (by white and light Asian standards)
Just yesterday I got destroyed at a table with 10 people. I couldn’t handle the attention from everyone all at once. I acted cool nonetheless. I just hate it to think if I had more charisma I could own a table.
It's interesting. For me when I'm 1 on 1 or max 2 other people talking I can get very open, tell jokes and laugh but as soon as more people join I get quiet and mostly observe and it's good if I even say 3 sentences in an hour.
@@vezzie9638same bro even if its people you know and are close to
the video we needed
Love your vids man. I cannot explain how much they have helped
I like the little bar he adds in the video that keep going...amazing editing tbh
Bro giving his best to improve us❤
i was skeptical at first but when i heard batman i was sold
How to be attractive introvert
- be handsome.
Step 1: be attractive
To attractive don't follow any steps be yourself,be comfortable with parents, friends and your loved ones 👍
Me sorprende mucho lo que ven estos videos, muchos introvertidos pensamos que somos raros pero que la gente quiera ser como nosotros y nosotros como ellos, te hace apreciarte mas
Approachable, smile❤
This is literally my personality without even trying, not aloof or charming i am but I always mind my own business focus on my hobbies I have passion and ambitions which I am chasing hard, I am Blackcat...cool tag dude.
Step 1. Be Attractive
Step 2. Be Introverted.
Done!!!
def doing this since im tall, light skin toned asian, has bank and attractive!!!
so good
Grrrrrr!!! Mystery is so cool
As an extrovert, I’m taking notes
Issue for me is that as an autistic, im both overconfident and underconfident at the same time, with no filter or way to change between both. and not in an attractive way either. And the worst part is id say im physically attractive individual so i get in the door with people pretty fast but staying there is pretty impossible for me. So basically every interaction i make with people is just a blue ball waiting to happen. Theres a very short list of people who actually spent time enough to care to get to know me more🤷♂️
I’d say just try to learn the guidelines of other ppl, everyone’s different so if you can learn what makes other people happy or upset do what you can with that.
@PoGuy12 my response to that not trying to call it off because it makes sense, its just that I've already had that thought and unfortunately it doesn't work, if I try and be somebody else which is what I have to do alot of times, I become very stoic, in a way that isn't me. When you use all your focus on being normal you don't have any left for anything else.
@@natefnbr8494 I see. Good response nothing else to say but good luck on your journey! I hope you become the best version of yourself possible. (though what I meant is just avoid topics or focus MORE on topics you know the other person does or doesn’t like, not become a whole deferent person)
@PoGuy12 glad you agree because that's sort of what I do. Focus and talk about my own stuff so im not super bland. While sometimes sitting quite and just listening to people. It's not like I'm socially inept either, just unique, only theirs times when I don't pick up on social cues that a "normal"🤷♂️ person prolly would. Or sometimes I just won't talk at all because I'm just thinking too much, or over analyzing something.
@@natefnbr8494 Yep, we’ll good luck to you sir!
Warning : Never do this if you're not attractive and rich
Shut up. Dont spew your own weakness.
please make a video for guys with specs and the type of specs to enhance your looks
Can you please make one about Ambiverts, the thing is that I'm both Extrovert and Introvert so I'm kind of confused to what to adopt
may u do a video of how to sit attractively in different occasion
Resonance nice
Can you make a video on how to change from introvert to extrovert?
The only that I can say here is actually " Just Be Yourself"😉
Me trying to be cool and mysterious but nobody actually cares and I'm just delulu:
This sounds exactly like me; cool Mysterious aura 😅
As an Introvert I don't even need this.
bro that dog at 1:21 looks identical to my dog wtf
this vid is basically me lmao i have grown out hair, wear black, sasuke was #1 example character to represent me and i had the xact blackcatboi pic saved
what i got wrong as a kid is i confused being talkative as an optional Personality Type rather than a Skill/Quality
I suppose I’m a hybrid with this & stylistically “star boy”.
Hair care tips plz
I was so happy when I saw Vegeta
Just be tall and handsome. With aforementioned conditions met you may be introvert, outrovert, undervert, extravert, extravirgin or whatever funny word you like and get every possible benefit with little to no effort.
You are welcome.
or even pervert 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@TheGiantSlayer7 💀
Another character to describe a black cat, Jin Kazama!
Could you do an in depth guide on becoming a black cat guy at some point
Its not that difficult. You gotta start somewhere. So let's take the first step.
Let's start with self analysis. How much do we talk around people. Do we go quiet or do we start blabbering when pressured. Do we need to be kinder or do we need to tone down our loudness
You have to be tall, handsome with dark features and wear darker clothes while being introverted. Btw this person I just described to you is most probably less than 10% of the male population.
Step 1: be born handsome/beautiful
Joker: Someone said batman 😈
Introvert can be attractive anyway
Nobody likes a person who's always ready to speak like a fool parrot
But the problem starts when you don't say anything and shy!
By attractive; he means be approachable. Have open body language, and most of all, have some energy in the way you move 👌🏾🤘🏾
Only an extrovert would think of something as attractive introvert. Real introverts would search: how to stop people from bothering you and divert any attention.
one step closer to become a batman. now i need to be rich
This is all me
me extroverted: im not talking again
How to be an attractive introvert:
Step 1: Don't look ugly
As a beautiful person who doesn't talk much, I can talk, I can feel the stares
Song: Home - Reasonce
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00:00 🌟 Embrace your natural introverted strength to exude an air of mystery and coolness, which is often seen as attractive in men.
00:29 😊 Develop social skills and confidence as an introvert to remain approachable and avoid coming across as arrogant.
01:21 🦉 Adopt the "black cat aesthetic" - be reserved but assertive, wear darker clothing, and maintain a calm exterior to draw people in with your mystery and nuance.
02:04 🧠 Being a "black cat boy" means embracing your introverted strengths: confidence, approachability, and uniqueness while staying true to your nature.
01:49 🕵️♂️ Balance your quiet, cool, and relaxed persona with assertiveness, drawing people in to learn more about your deep, nuanced personality.
Wow now I have a girl friend and lots of friends thanks dude you really saved my life. I never knew being attractive was so simple
Teach me!🤣😭🙏
@@Muichi_Yama025let me do some surgery on you
whats that berserk part? 1:55
I need to win genetic lottery
Ppl used to bully folks and call em “weird” for being introverts, now it’s a trend😂 oh how times change
The Black Cat Boy: correct anime suggestion🫡
Literally me on my own comment.
I knew I was Batman fr
Step 1- Be attractive
Anyone know the exact jacket of the guy on the motorbike
sooo... you're telling me im batman?
i am a 5'2" balding Indian janitor will this work for me? thank you saar
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😂😂
Can you make a video on how to get rid of belly fat for skinny fat guys?
You can’t reduce fat in a certain area of your body, you just lose weight in general
I'll just stay alone and quiet
Being with people is not worth it
Be de dangerous man, the quietest man in the room is the most dangerous man
not putting giyu tomioka in the list is criminal
"Prince of Zimbabwe "
This is so sung jinwoo
at first looking at the thumbnail made me think that damn he is taking about me...
Bro please make a video on how to get a slim face/ how to remove face fat
Just distinguir bro
im glasd i have taken you up on this regement of being an atrtactivce introvbert. I am now sigma male in all of myt classes and everyione looks at me likke i own the room. In addition to this new swagegr that i have obtained, I can't hepl but notice the number of girls i continue to not pull, must be too confident for th;em. (I havent' wathced the video
You changed the thumbnail and title 😏
Did anyone Notice the blade runner thing?
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I AM BATMAN 🦇🦇
make a video about dna difriences
Yoooo found an albanian what city are you from
@@driftaddict228 negro u tell first
Seems like i already am one
Black cat boy 😂😂😂
As the title state's attractive comes before Introvert
I am batman
There once was a group of guys who approached me, before i knew what it meant to be a quiet guy. They were trying to start a problem but i looked deep into their eyes with no emotion, they all turned around and walked away, mysterious behaviour always tells people more than they see, if they see a small guy with no emotion and a deep gaze, they fear he is capable, and if they see a big guy with a smile and a clumsy behaviour, they feel he is vulnurable.
Always stay quiet, look down but not too low to where it makes you look scared and weak. Always have a subtle smile, but don’t show your teeth, to give off the impression that you are mysterious, so that the persons mind wanders and concludes you before you conclude yourself to them. That is when it comes to guys.
When it comes to women, i never show my excited side, i remain calm and collected when they’re around, and i lower my gaze to make their mind wonder why i’m not gazing upon them, women are emotionally capable, they conclude through emotions, if i make her feel happy and safe, she will be content. However if i make her feel miserable and dishonored, she will flee.
3 things i never do to women - i do not smile with my teeth, to make them feel they have to try harder to please me, i never tell them too much about myself, to make their minds wander and make up conclusions about me to which they will think about me, i never speak aloud, when women are around, to show that i am calm and collected, and make them wonder why i am so quiet.
Before people say that i am weird or toxic, i would like to state that it has made girls ask me why i’m so mysterious, and also tell me that it suits me, i have studied psychology throughout my life, reading books. It has learned me alot, perhaps this is just what suits me, because it compliments my looks, or it is just unresistable. This is my personality, and not my facade, this is how i am, i just started picking up on the impact it has on people after i stated studying psychology.
I have plenty of women come up to me on a regular basis, and i have had involvement with a lot of women, so to say i am giving off the impression that i’m a sad or unlikeable person is not correct.
That's some bullshit mate
man lives in his own world
cope
I stopped reading after that cringe “I looked in their eyes with no emotion” line 💀
I'm introvert but not guy
Gizemi herkes sever tabii ki. Black Cat boy terimi güzelmiş
step 1: become looking
step 2: repeat step 1
im batman
Song?
Bro, how can I get rid of my chubby chicks. Plz make a video on it 🙏🙏
what would christopher moltisanti be or paulie walnuts
It’s either you born attractive or you social skills are high