[Revisit] I'm Glad My Mom Died, with Jennette McCurdy
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 พ.ค. 2023
- A collection of the best moments from our conversation with writer, director, actor, and singer Jennette McCurdy! Join us as we revisit all of Jennette's empowering nuggets of wisdom, from disordered eating and her enmeshed relationship with her mother to the profound revelations she experienced following her mother’s death. Jennette also helps us break down harmful coping mechanisms, the pressures and anxieties she faced as a child actress and the source of financial support for her family, why we tolerate emotional discomfort for so long, and the power struggles surrounding love. Enjoy the best moments of Jennette McCurdy, and tune in on Tuesday for a brand new full episode of MAYIM BIALIK’S BREAKDOWN.
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One of the most resonant personal narratives I’ve heard in my life. I am sorry for your experiences, Jeanette, but sharing your story has helped me explore my own parent trauma.
My mom was just like Jennette's. I read her book and I juts nodded and agreed with all of it. My mom passed of Cancer in 2014. I related to so much,I cried. I would SO Thank Jennette for this book.....I just read it again,in like 4 days. I'm 46 now,and unless you had that relationship,you'd never understand the title. This book really helped me.
In what área in your Life this book helped you?
To hate even More your Mother??
@@abretusojos407 what is the point of your question? Curious. 😊
Good luck!
@@abretusojos407 Whats that question? Books like that help people to understand they are not alone with their thoughts and feelings. It helps other people to be more aware of toxic mothers and that not everyone who dies is suddenly a good person just because they died.
One of the things I had to do with my son when I apologized to him was take responsibility for me, making him my rock. I was a single mother, and I always told him that he was my happiness and my rock. This destroyed our relationship in the years to come. After being in therapy for a few years from my childhood trauma with my mother, I realized what I had done to my own son. My son and I’s relationship had become an emotional volcano. It took four years for us to come back together. I then except a responsibility for what I had done to him and I asked for his forgiveness. I am very lucky That my son is the bigger person. Our relationship now is not so much mother and son as it is two people trying to repair the damage that was done. I am fortunate to have a child that is willing to give his mother another chance after the damage that she had done. I’m not blaming my past for the things that I did to my son unconsciously. I have to except responsibility for my choices. Thank you very much for sharing your experience because it resonates with me and my son, and how I impose my happiness onto him from a very young child. I’m just lucky enough that I was able to recognize and take responsibility for my actions.
I'm sorry for what you had to go through during your own childhood, and it is beautiful and wonderful that you are taking responsibility. Of course, you and your son will have your own journeys through this process, but the ability to acknowledge where you fell short is a gift that takes courage.
@@blacksheepyoga Thank you! It has been a journey, but well worth it! He is worth it!
@@iminstiches 💜💜💜
And you my friend are God's child and doing the work man must do to heal. Yours is the kingdom of heaven. These clipped hypnotic self-identified narrative of this sick woman is possessed and demonic. The title of the book is not at all simple sarcasm. It is a message from the dark worshippers to our kids that there are no lessons to be learned but bitterness, robotic assesmnot God's.ent (JUDGEMENT) of the neighbor based in logic without emotional reflections nuance or FAITH. That's the point. In the end Satan just appears. His followers tell us the truth. They are practicing what they worship. And Mayam has no idea this person is sacrificing flesh in abusive satanic ritual abuse of babies- and kids via sex and torture. Bloodletting. HollySICK community will all now let you know they worship Ra the God of Man who they believe annointed them and exempted them from death. All the world is theirs to EXPLOIT, PERVERT and CONSUME and doing so without a conscience (ego can never die for them--there is no guilt or shame in ANY deed once they've detached from consciousness and heart resonance with goodness. They've been hurt too so assign that story to RA who to them WANTS them to "slay" eat and consume flesh and blood children to show his DOMINION over EARTH. The awewsome thing is that Jesus is here and .God DEFEATED Satan. They can try but Satan' is AFRAID like them. He's clever but can never reign and never has. The fall already happened. It was Babylon.
THANK YOU for sharing this so close to MOther's Day. Because for those of us with mothers like Jennette, that is a VERY complex day for us. Society REVERES "the Mother", and so many times, we see that all mothers are NOT deserving of praise (eventhough the worst ones usually demand and feel entitled to our reverence). (LETECIA STAUCH, LORI VALLOW DAYBELL ANYONE!??)
i know. The last few years on Mother's Day, I haven't put much thought into Mother's Day gifts myself.
Do you really think the "bad" mothers really do all the bad things on purpose, deliberately wanting to hurt their children? It seems obvious that they do it because of their own trauma from their own childhood caused by their own mothers/fathers/other people😢😢😢
Sick Stuff.
I’m a little older than her but I admire her courage and can relate to her a lot.
I'm reading her book right now and she is a very gifted writer. She is also very courageous for writing it so honestly. I hope nothing but the best for her in the future and in whatever path she chooses career-wise. I would definitely read another book by her ❤💜
Yes. It just flows so beautifully. LOFL
I am reading this book. What a timely Thursday bonus ! So much Mayim content this week and it made me so happy.
Bless Jennette, and all those who share their stories. Reading the comments and seeing people able to relate/connect with her is everything. When you're living in an unhealthy family you honestly don't know until you are shown otherwise that your family is simply not normal/well.
She is so lucky she got rid of her mom, mine is still alive and well. I am still wasting my life having her around and I am 50! She survived hip replacement surgery and covid at the same time, being in her 80s!
I loved that episode and can relate to it so much. I just checked my local library, and they have a copy of her book. I will definitely be reading it very, very soon.
I so wish this video included the clips of Mayim speaking, where Jennette verbally noted Mayim’s smart and relatable statements.
My childhood experience was very different but this book HELPED ME SO MUCH!!!
I LOVE YOU! Thank you for doing what you do. Much love and vibes to keep you going!. Breathe, close your eyes... You are amazing! Never doubt. Never stop!
I'm currently reading "I'm glad my mom died" and holy moly it really opens your eyes
@Mayim Bialek as a behavorial therapist in the CA public school system. Trying to change things from the inside. I work primarily with kids on the spectrum.
Hello Laura
How are you
ABA....right....? 😕
Thank you so much for posting this Thursday bonus video. I really enjoyed watching this and gave this thumbs up, Mayim! ❤
I was talking to my husband and son after the podcast and found out that my son already ordered and read Jeanette's book on his Audible account so I didn't even have to buy it.
Jennette McCurdy. You were my favorite TV actor once. You are still beautiful and a good person that I wish I could see more of on TV. 🌹📺
Sooo talented right! Hard to believe she was struggling when in front of the camera she was amazing. I definitely miss seeing her on the screen. Wish her all the best.
@@HawaiianSkiesyup
I'm a fan of this shorter format. I'm glad the long interviews exist but don't have the time to watch the whole thing.
I speed them up! Really helps!
Great episode. I still miss the old days though when it was just you at home. I wish you had time for both. I loved learning about your boys and what it was like raising vegan kids and just the personal touch this channel used to have.
Hello Elizabeth
How are you
This is basically Amy Farrah Fowler meets Sam Puckett. A crossover I never knew I needed!
Love you Mayim❤️❤️
great book, and interview
DBT quite literally saved my life.
Yeah for Thursday bonus!😊
Just recognised Jannet from Law and Order svu she played an abused girl ... Damn she was young. Had to come and see her talk about her experiences again. Hope she is happy now 😊
luv show... thx u
I just bought this book!
You were my favourite tbbt character..and your a wonderful person in real life..
Her book is VITAL and worth several reads. I want to hear much more from her 🥰
I loved her book! I read it back in January maybe.
Maybe? You did or you didn’t read it 😮😂
@@darnitthelma4247 I did I just can’t remember when I read it
Her love book. Best book last year my list
Fantastic Episode! 😎👍👌🍁♈🍁
Why the music
Just commenting for the algorithm 🖤
Love this format! Mayim, we know you’re intelligent and a good communicator and interviewer but you overdo it to put it mildly. Bit-sized and condensed, just listening to Jeanette, is all that’s necessary.
I just saw this if you randomly online. O m g SO cute!!!!❤
15:44 Mayim: We’ll see you next time. So long, everybody. 😆😆😆😆
i need help
I’m a bit confused with this episode..it’s just bits an pieces from someone without real context, or input from the team…also, I have no idea who this person is:))
Jennette was a child/teen star, best known from her role as Sam in iCarly. Jennette never wanted to act, but her mom made her do it from the age of 6. If you want to know more, this video gives more background to who she is and what her mom did to her all these years: th-cam.com/video/hkqXK7nsvW0/w-d-xo.html
I can also recommend Jennettes book, its well written in my opinion.
@@realglutenfreeabsolutely
Everybody is ready to blame their parents for their psychological problems, but nobody wants to make one more step and think that maybe the parents were hurt in THEIR childhood, hense their behaviour
Or we can accept that our parents go hurt and still blame them. Just cause you got hurt in your childhood doesnt give you an excuse to drag your own kids through hell.
@@realglutenfree yeah, and don't forget to apply this to yourself
People keep dying around me, and that's how I've come to the point that wishing death upon people isn't the answer. Being glad people died, or wish that they just change so you don't have to celebrate someone's death...in a negative way.
Life is too short to have people fighting. Here one day, gone in a blink.
Our greatest enemies could become our greatest friends. It takes love
Some people are really bad and bring more negative to life. Also, I can’t see predators deserving to have their victims as friends.
Condolences for your losses, though
@@Saavycupcake Appreciate the consolation. it's close for another I think so I prepare myself.
Pure evil are demons really.
More or less, adversaries/rivalries. I don't think attempted murderers/actual predators will become friends.
However bullies, other small roles, can become friends. It's more likely if people can understand, not at all always agreeable, but understand the point of view or can attempt to. If people see an attempt, they can appreciate it and understand the good intentions, not intentionally offensive. It's interesting.
I got the freeze on the antibody
Somebody shot me
Who?
It was the truest form of pure like manure
In the sewer rests the crew your mic check 1,2 er
I do your ass in the past license to flash
Off like cash
Sink my teeth in so fast
I mastered mast
I rap rhyme class let out
Without a doubt
Scream and shout
Only rollin’ with the Syndicate now
Murder Pow!
Knock em out don’t allow
The crowd to sting
Word up bring the King into this
Dis your crew remain famous so true
Like Gong Fu
Anything else to do with it screw the lids on tight
Airtight keep the buds ripe
I Mic the Mike up
Soldier said what’s up?
Like the lightning struck
I give a fuck sincerely
Shed a tear be in the rear
Where you could hear G
Until you torn
It’s the War in progress
All stop sets to top threats
Flex on the wreck you done
Murder one
Serving guns and weapons
Steppin’ to the brethren
You left in
A stew
Raps rhyme still you brew
I’m in the sign off set like the X chief of staff
Murder was the class
I took shook and booked
By the police
Thrown in Prison by the seat of my pants
Pro clean the flow scene
What I mean is I seen it
Torture for the scorch your warm you’re
In it till you score blur
Your murderer were in the plural
All over and the whole World
I surely earn keys
To burn freeze
A disease stops a skeeze from hoing bleeds
All clone in the seeds we be growing
End of session no question
You get left in the dark
I hit up a mark who spark an arc
And extract wealth through the modern slave trade
Market Forces lay the ground all around
For efficiency let the difference be clear
We needed it and fear of the speed you get the spear
All day long conscript you into the military
The fear then be for your life
I take a slice of life and dip it into ice methamphetamine
The dream is on cream for this team yo
Let workers keep their profit and gleam glow
I extract wealth with seamless flow
All pay heed to the flow I undertow suck a brother know into the deep end
Get him to speak dead
Language the management can’t stand it went ape shit
To pay the rent
I invented capitalism, prison and racism
I’m sexist make an incision into the Wisdom of the Ages
Pages of script prove me wrong so in a song I rendered the law
Into a jaw dropping, nonstopping volume of knock you out the box then
Hmmm. Really? I don't believe ya.
I eat the protoplasm
Cross the chasm with the spasm
I has em on the chuckwagon with the grand dragon of the Klu Klux Klan
Murder is who I am
I service blam
Get your word up jam
Program the Sun and
I run grands down in town
To score a pound of two of some good Ganja Grew
Grown locally the folk’ll be smokin’ up serve a key
So what’s up?
I float a tucked weapon never
I get ill with my hands forever until I sever heads off
With the blade no way I went soft
I delayed the cost to be the boss for the cross to bear
Air out the fair round town the country fair
Beware if you DARE Program student
Drugs? We doin’ it
Don’t ruin hits with foreign influence
Just shoot it trip and movie skip the groovy
All in the nude be with lewd conduct
Got the Bomb Ganja
Your momma want some cause drama
You front on Chuckwagon Cookin’
You forsookin’ the good looking Brooklyn kid who did too
He got screwed in the game by two tame tigers
Roster liable to tribal breeds
Disease come from Weed Grass ganja toked slow
Show up on roll tuck the weapon
Steppin’ to the chef and crept in
The fully auto Mac 10
Service a blemish on the furthest Dentist
I’m a menace with the sixth sense
Psychopath eating Pork Plus Shellfish
I’m selfish with my wealth
Until my mental health busts
I thrusted my cock into a big winner
I have the entrance centered on the adventure
I tent your pot smoke hotbox
I shook the storm before warning blame and morning came
Burning in the flame I’m the same as you
The crew said I new member since December
But now I’m old school
Like Old School Vans so cool
Everyone runs away from the fully auto spray
Of the Mac 10
Everyone afraid of that gun
A murderer sung hummed a tune about the groove he get in to wet in
The Mac 10 is expensive which is irreprehensible for the sensible
Citizen model full throttle the bottle of Night Train
A name like Trump came up you get thumped by Trump Goons
Murder soon in the spoon of Fentanyl
Execute dealers with the wherewithal
We don’t go through withdrawls we brawl
Maul all the soldiers who saw Folger’s crystals
With a fist full of cash my pistol stash
Make a grip and sift the coffee
Step off me I’m the boss see
Murdering cost ain’t for free
I break your knee and make you run up a tree and pee pee
In your pants do the avalanche dance and prance
Like a load in the washing machine
My service fiend for who works this to bleed
Demon seed of the Devil’s Lettuce
Let us not forget reefer madness
The gladness and sadness it bring
A dichotomy
I got a lobotomy and now I rip rock shock with G
On a shopping spree for methamphetamine
I cream in my genes when I hear screams of pleasure
The pleasure center inventor here
Drink beer that isn’t queer
I’m martial
So I start to pull up the weapon
Death is your best friend
In Heaven I recommend you die slow
Toe to toe with foes who flow on control of the game
Locked down shocked maimed
Further stain with blood
Number one cousin of the from the program
Go sniff a gram and tell you who I am
Known as Royal Fam
Except I’m special like 38 great for X to fully wait 7 days
I Gray Alien
The same as I came in within the addition fixation sensation
On a mission for the date rape victim to get even
Seen in the room as a screw dude with rude conduct
So my bomb struck the duck
She got plucked and messed around on the ground
All you heard was the sound of boots stomping
I respect Compton and I wrong to ring your telephone
So I zone on kilos of ring grows the rose bush
Soak it Sold Kush Bomb Sticky Green
You understand what I mean when you dream
I got a fiend on the gleam for the gangster lean with a beam
Weapon all set from the gang hang wet brung the slang
I ride a Harley
Go ahead and farm speed until you bleed from the seed it grew
Leisure too I feed a fool who isn’t cool
Chris got the meth cap
Lacks in Ganja grew
Slaughter who?
He never knew his own current so he watches murder hit on TV
Bust a free seed of the Ganja Breed I take this mean
Medication is sensational when the way you pull drag off the J is all day
Soon I stay in my room and go out to play
Another day another lay back lay in bed
I’m half dead and my Rap spread until they end
I federal criminal seek the minimal oil illegal that need of wool
Slugged up and kill lumped up the Sum cut through the ice cream truck
I seen a buck
Kitchen knives and lives taken lives shaken
No fakin’ you can’t take in the blade skill
You will you won’t do it don’t screw up the hit you blew it already
Steady Freddy’ head heat up
Seat get glued stuck treat flow through lead so rule on the crew who said what to who?
This icicle is cool but I like Ganja daily
I’m not a burnout speekfreak
Here homie!
I blew you a dope headpiece to smoke Ganja through this bubbler
Just don’t fiend for s 50 piece of crack in the back with a stack
I act funny when there’s no money
Gun heat act sweet complete the treat to victim defeat the enemy
Everyone friendly in Santa Cruz
Ganja and the Trip move
You could soothe a rhythm in that place next to ace of spades
I lit up stayed lit all like 1 hit I got grit
This mic lit
All type of drugs thugs plugs for their rubs backward the Ganja sack toward
The third eye
I love to experience things high
I like the citrus
All types of taste sensations
I took a long vacation on herb
A murder heard of rarely in the square be gone round the town center air heat
In the bare beat
I love the way a beat chain up on Ganja stuck on the math soldiers felt the wrath
The dashboard raps toward sword
I don’t even acknowledge any other award
I mean they got ‘em but I ride shotgun with the hot Sun blazing
Sun-dried raisin
Copped downtown
From crosstown to sundown
Saw a stop sign
In my mind I tripped
My brains were lit
On Water
I thought your word was absurd
I heard through the grape vine
I relate on 9 vision
Indecision was the prison I was in
The stop sign said go
So I went with the flow
I knew I had to roll
I sold a folded map
In Hollywood sapped of all that’s good
Capped the roll through the stroll
Out of control
A soldier sold his soul
For pure Gold to mold in
The roll then plus on Acid LSD
The show they jammed
I had a command economy planned
I grabbed some beach sand
Knowing life was like the dice that roll
I hold a precious stone
WIth the morning come the storm and
A cup of coffee
I almost forgot my Ganja Weed
I rolled one up and flipped a sack of shrooms
I turned into the master dragon on cocaine
I had to explain to a kid that the rich go to hell
So I vandalized property
I stop and pick the lock enter the center on adventure
I hit up the hamburgers at McDonald’s
I full throttle a bottle swiggin’ rot gut on the women
In prison I had the vision to fix this thing
I swing on a chain with my brain in fire and flame
Murder maintain
I blame the game for aim of the industrial complex
My bomb effects yo momma’s sets
I wrong to X out the mark the spark a fight
I light up on the big oil
Poison the soil all Royal
I sure do puke when I eat a fruit that’s been sprayed
I grow Ganja sit in the shade and bomb bombers
I light up so much curve a word about it?
I shouted out loud did the route for bid and slid
Through the Wu into the Cream
Next dream
In a haze for days
My shop is lit up
But I don’t have the drugs!
Thugs get murdered plugs all server is love
Return the dub sack
Murder in the back of the act to relax
Flack spit out the dragon to hang ten surfing
Working the clean T-shirt thing
I burst bring a sting in the swing off the ringer
I’m an R&B Singer a dead ringer
Night time winger
Give you the finger
I have it cling here
To facts servin’ backs
My max is steady hit up ready to truck and Chevy
The soldiers Golden doors with the core for Wars
I tore into the crew with the Gong Fu
Don’t overuse violence it is base and serves a taste for blood
All of this just to scrub a brain clean
All the trippers know what I mean
Mayim, did you actually score 163 on an IQ test at one time?
I scored 165 😌. (I'm still a mess though.. Lol😂)
Well I dont know you so that number doesn't mean much to me. I'm more curious about Mayim
@@StonyCurtis Awh 😔. You're very rude! 😂😂
@@damotheman4196 I dont even know why you bothered responding, the question was for Mayim
@@StonyCurtis Oh so you're just really confused then. Not hurtful. That's nice to know. (I'm taking the piss child wake up!)
1.25 million subs and 13k views, 600 ups. Dang
Shut the channel down.