The Preamble: Instantly Impress Someone You Like

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    It’s frustratingly common to get completely tongue tied when we’re in front of people we’d like to impress. Which is doubly unfortunate because it’s often those situations that could lead to us landing a great new job, connecting with a mentor, or even dating someone we’re smitten with.
    That’s why in this video I want to cover how you can avoid that awkward trap and impress the people you admire by standing out in a positive way. To do that, we’ll be referencing someone who has done it many times: Sean Evans of Hot Ones.
    ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
    1:38 - #1: Ask questions beyond the obvious ones.
    3:09 - #2: Use the question preamble.
    4:48 - #3: Steer conversation towards things that elicit emotion.
    7:40 - #4: Tease playfully / have fun.
    9:18 - #5: Comfortably express disagreement.
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  • @AscendedMasculine
    @AscendedMasculine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22967

    Treat someone like a celebrity and they'll treat you like a fan

    • @massarcasman8480
      @massarcasman8480 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1941

      Omg so true.. thats why im single..
      I treated her like a queen, so she treat me like a peasant🥺

    • @opaldeadventureersubscribe7825
      @opaldeadventureersubscribe7825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +177

      @@massarcasman8480 very true

    • @opaldeadventureersubscribe7825
      @opaldeadventureersubscribe7825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +628

      @synchromorph is that the reason you're treated like that too?

    • @andrewt6338
      @andrewt6338 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      That’s quite brilliant.

    • @DoDo.444
      @DoDo.444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Treat her with respect

  • @TimeFliesTimeManagement
    @TimeFliesTimeManagement 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5780

    *Confidence is silent, Insecurities are Loud*

    • @daithiocinnsealach3173
      @daithiocinnsealach3173 4 ปีที่แล้ว +312

      My insecurities make me silent.

    • @polaroidandroidjeff6383
      @polaroidandroidjeff6383 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Damn man with deep thoughts like this you should have your own TH-cam channel.....

    • @TheRightLadder
      @TheRightLadder 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Confidently releasing silent farts

    • @scotthannan8669
      @scotthannan8669 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Dumbest statement ever
      Confidence is not silent, insecurities are not loud, this is just a silly statement made for people who are insecure to feel better about themselves by thinking the opposite of the truth

    • @scotthannan8669
      @scotthannan8669 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      bookmarkthis haha

  • @HvyMetal4Ever
    @HvyMetal4Ever ปีที่แล้ว +172

    "see them as a human"
    Indeed
    I got to meet one of my musical heroes some years ago. It was backstage at a show, and everyone was losing their minds, asking for autographs and pictures. He wasn't in a great space at the time. His band-mate and dear friend passed away just 6 months prior.
    I approached him, and said "I'm so sorry for your loss"
    He was caught off guard. I think it was that human moment that so many skipped past all night.
    I saw him again a few months later at another show backstage. I made a comment, and I think it clicked who I was. It's like he was genuinely happy to see me. Such a great experience

    • @AutomHatter
      @AutomHatter 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Was that musical hero Dave Grohl?

    • @HvyMetal4Ever
      @HvyMetal4Ever 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@AutomHatter Chad Gray from Mudvayne / Hellyeah. It was shortly after Big Vinnie passed.

    • @HM87520
      @HM87520 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Don't take my question personally but did you say that because you genuinely wanted to comfort him or because you wanted to stand out among the other fans? 🤔

    • @HvyMetal4Ever
      @HvyMetal4Ever 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ⁠@@HM87520to be genuine. He looked broken man. I’ve been there, and I know what it’s like. Everyone else was putting him in Star mode, not a human being who just lost a dear friend.

  • @nak3dxsnake
    @nak3dxsnake ปีที่แล้ว +675

    Damn Sean Evans can even tease and joke with people who aren't funny and still relate to them. Thats always been next to impossible for me.

    • @MoltenPlastic
      @MoltenPlastic ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I find it helps to just switch off your brain for a moment and take the plunge. A bit like diving into cold water. After a respectful tease the whole conversation can get so much more relaxed.
      Don't forget that high status people are used to people tiptoeing around them and often bored of it.

    • @BD-zg7is
      @BD-zg7is ปีที่แล้ว +4

      practice. he's done hundreds of hundreds of interviews. just go practice with ppl :)

    • @corail53
      @corail53 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because he himself is not funny.

    • @Sorayan13
      @Sorayan13 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This is such a wrong view. Every person has humor, just not the same humor.
      So it's not because you don't find them funny that they aren't funny. It's just your opinion.
      Sean, or his team behind the curtains, have a talent of finding out everything there is to know about the celebs, even their kind of humor.

  • @Milestonemonger
    @Milestonemonger 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2037

    I appreciate a genuinely curious person.

    • @danparish1344
      @danparish1344 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Curiosity is probably my biggest asset to my company - I like to know every little detail when I problem solve.

    • @aidanh999
      @aidanh999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Why?

    • @PowerRedBullTypology
      @PowerRedBullTypology 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What is the best and the worst comment you've ever written? ;)

    • @weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006
      @weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@PowerRedBullTypology Man, do you ever think, "wow I wish I wrote that comment"?

    • @PowerRedBullTypology
      @PowerRedBullTypology 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006 Yeah when they have a lot of thumbs up I sometimes do..other than that not really. Why?

  • @ZacharyLaid
    @ZacharyLaid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7445

    Treat the person you admire as if they are just a normal friend.

    • @JoeSmith-oy3hk
      @JoeSmith-oy3hk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +352

      Treat the person I admire as if they are imaginary, got it.

    • @Michael-nq4rc
      @Michael-nq4rc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      ...Unless it's Robert De Niro.

    • @keiranleonard1301
      @keiranleonard1301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@Michael-nq4rc or Kim Jung un...

    • @Snow_Pulse
      @Snow_Pulse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Zachary Laid Finding Freedom You sir know what’s up Woke

    • @99999george
      @99999george 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      @@JoeSmith-oy3hk another good tip is to not overuse self-deprecating humor

  • @ragtop63
    @ragtop63 2 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    Sean is definitely a unique host. Make no mistake, there is a team of people, including the creator of Hot Ones, Chris Schonberger, doing the research and digging up the topics Sean presents during his shows. His delivery is definitely his own but all credit must be given where due.

    • @CristinaTringali
      @CristinaTringali ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I guess I’m watching a different show then all these other people. I see a super awkward guy reading prepared questions and never knowing how to follow up with anything interesting. The questions are good but they are delivered in a wooden manner and he can’t say or do anything clever on the fly.

    • @kevinbasto5611
      @kevinbasto5611 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@CristinaTringali 100% agree, its like he's reading these questions for the first time, like the room is empty...

    • @TNEQL
      @TNEQL 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@CristinaTringali The "awkwardness" is exactly the appeal of the show. Nobody wants to see rich people in suits stroking their own egos and pretending they're kings anymore.

    • @davidc2838
      @davidc2838 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@CristinaTringali Show us how it's done... Make something SUPER Successful that MILLIONS of people watch and love.

    • @davidc2838
      @davidc2838 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kevinbasto5611 Nonsense. Not a single bit of confusion or uncertainty on his part. Clearly you don't perform or have a huge following. He's ALSO eating Scorching Hot Wings of Death, WHILE doing the Interview. Go show us how it's done...or shut yer pie hole.

  • @rapzad3623
    @rapzad3623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    The problem with doing this, at least with “peers” (like someone you want to date) is if you “do research” and start asking in-depth questions about things you wouldn’t know about without that research you’re probably going to creep them out

    • @rileywiebe3512
      @rileywiebe3512 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Maybe do it in an uncreepy way-like comment on something obscure about a recent (not old) post. Like something or someone in the picture

    • @libertyandjusticeforall6435
      @libertyandjusticeforall6435 ปีที่แล้ว

      You sound like an ugly person

    • @themonsterunderyourbed9408
      @themonsterunderyourbed9408 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      When you start thinking with "my date is higher status than me."
      You've already failed (especially as a man).

    • @user-wg9hf8ly2f
      @user-wg9hf8ly2f 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think the research aspect would just force it anyways. There’s much to be said for asking unique and interesting questions but for dating I think the focus should just be on “what do you want to know about this person” rather than “how can I make this person like me”.

  • @bradenboyko
    @bradenboyko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7343

    *At a Job interview:*
    Me: so how are your 3 kids doing? Is your daughter still on the volleyball team?

    • @kushzei
      @kushzei 4 ปีที่แล้ว +377

      Easy way to impress interviewer for sure! :D

    • @Gabriel.4190
      @Gabriel.4190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      They’ll think your a stalker

    • @smokejc
      @smokejc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +372

      @@Gabriel.4190 that was the joke

    • @manchul
      @manchul 4 ปีที่แล้ว +422

      10/10 if you apply as a hacker

    • @Th3Colossus7
      @Th3Colossus7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      Who are you and what are you doing in my living room?

  • @adels.185
    @adels.185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5801

    Boss: Do you have any questions?
    Me: So do you have any weird fantasies?

    • @sal_strazzullo
      @sal_strazzullo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Lol

    • @chiepah2
      @chiepah2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      No longer potential Boss: Um... nooo.

    • @acc1541
      @acc1541 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Also boss: nope, but i do have weird fishes.

    • @babybu8452
      @babybu8452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      hahahaha killer question! nail it!

    • @seohyunism1
      @seohyunism1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      actually this is a good way to crack a joke in a serious situation, I think it's good

  • @SyrillSilly
    @SyrillSilly ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I am not sure if anyone has noticed how GREAT these videos are for people who struggle with pragmatics. I am an intervention specialist who has to help students on the spectrum learn how to interact with and/or read people in social situations.
    These videos are gold and an unexpected gift that emerged from the virtual void 🤩

    • @ramonew7815
      @ramonew7815 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Seeing people past what they represent to you and looking at the human beneath is absolute dynamite practical advice.

    • @dadadadave9652
      @dadadadave9652 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      "intervention specialist who has to help students on the spectrum learn how to interact with and/or read people in social situations" sorry, can you tell me more on this? what is this job and how do you go about doing so? sounds kinda fascinating!

    • @unredactedrecords8521
      @unredactedrecords8521 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @SyrillSilly, please tell me some of the highlights and the lowlights of helping students on the spectrum learn how to interact in social situations.

  • @aramislucas3281
    @aramislucas3281 ปีที่แล้ว +325

    Back when I used to be a treinee at a gym, there was a girl that I became friends with and I noticed she even used to became blushed and nervous when I talked to her, as if she was interested, and then when we followed each other on Instagram I discovered that she was a singer from a considerably popular local band that I had never happen to know because I'm not a big fan of that specific music style. But it was interesting to see how I behaved naturaly just because I didn't knew who she was. I didn't ask her out btw, I was not single at the time lol

    • @princesmith8008
      @princesmith8008 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Bruh....

    • @Goyleguy266
      @Goyleguy266 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      L

    • @alanalycan3986
      @alanalycan3986 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Aww c'mon we was all anticipating a love story here lol. I admire you though of course being faithful to your lady !!! 💙 Kudos

    • @1337-Nathaniel
      @1337-Nathaniel ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You're a real one. What's her band called though?

  • @thescoobymike
    @thescoobymike 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3724

    "This is such a good interview, good research"
    Sean: so are you!

    • @tychobrahe6379
      @tychobrahe6379 4 ปีที่แล้ว +257

      "Y-y-you too"

    • @FrenchToast663
      @FrenchToast663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Sean Evans is my favorite late night host

    • @Lenduya
      @Lenduya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +192

      Why are you leaving things out?
      K Stewart: This is wild...
      Sean Evans: So are you

    • @TheReal_Dirty_Dan
      @TheReal_Dirty_Dan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      At least he was aware so he doubles down by repeating it lol

    • @thescoobymike
      @thescoobymike 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Lenduya oh I didn't catch that lol

  • @saralind2032
    @saralind2032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1081

    "look at us. Hey. Look at us. Who would've though? Not me."

    • @anna_thema3732
      @anna_thema3732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      thanks for the chuckle

    • @saralind2032
      @saralind2032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      anna_thema didnt even think anyone would see this lolll

    • @Treyzor8989
      @Treyzor8989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thought*

    • @inh6940
      @inh6940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Look at us.
      Hey, look at us.
      Say it again.
      Look at us.

    • @duhvnlocs
      @duhvnlocs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      classic Rudd

  • @karabelles5142
    @karabelles5142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I love that we are now analyzing Sean’s interview and research skills. That’s how good he is. Thanks for this. Super helpful.

  • @punkinkng
    @punkinkng ปีที่แล้ว +236

    As highlighted in this video, Sean's real talent is predicting people's deaths.
    "Have you ever killed anyone?"
    "We haven't heard from Coolio in a while."

    • @BabyJesus66
      @BabyJesus66 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He killed Coolio

    • @Pb4Au
      @Pb4Au ปีที่แล้ว

      😬 i cringed at that

    • @jumpieva
      @jumpieva ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I caught that too, didn't age well lol

    • @djramennoodles
      @djramennoodles ปีที่แล้ว +18

      ​@@jumpieva neither did Coolio

    • @Vanden_Vanden
      @Vanden_Vanden ปีที่แล้ว

      Poor Coolio, did great work for children ,and had an interesting interview before his passing. "Coolio Joined The Hip Hop Uncensored Podcast To Talk about being approached to do some weird stuff while he was and artist. "

  • @lokidecat
    @lokidecat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4848

    Sean is the best interviewer hands down. He's respectful, funny, well-read, and has great banter. So great to watch a master at work.

    • @daweihuang9687
      @daweihuang9687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Really? He sounds like a robot trying to recite a script to me.

    • @orti1283
      @orti1283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@daweihuang9687 I don't think so, but even if he was, the script is very good

    • @lokidecat
      @lokidecat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@daweihuang9687 to each their own opinion. he's garnered much respect in the industry for his style and conversational tone. You don't have to like it.

    • @riderzinc
      @riderzinc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Sean Evans and Nardwuar are my favourite interviewers

    • @Noobie2k7
      @Noobie2k7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@riderzinc Natdwuar is on a whole different dimension.

  • @lokimorginstjarna33
    @lokimorginstjarna33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1772

    Sean Evans deserves everything he's made of himself. Him and his superb team host one of the best talk shows in history.

    • @emhchannel2842
      @emhchannel2842 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's a moron, and you're a moron for thinking he's not.

    • @TheMasterhomaster
      @TheMasterhomaster ปีที่แล้ว

      He* and his superb team.

  • @pastrana21
    @pastrana21 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    never get tired of how often sean impresses guests with his questions. though at the same time sean has said that he does a massive amount of research prior to any interview/guest

  • @e.l.2734
    @e.l.2734 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The way you put together those scenes really makes Sean's genius show.

  • @Harsh-bx2mf
    @Harsh-bx2mf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2453

    Do I need to eat 4000 gallons of hot sauce before I can be like Sean Evans

    • @calebf612
      @calebf612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Most likely, be strong

    • @tomothy527
      @tomothy527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      not in one sitting, do it in increasing amounts over the course of months.

    • @csnoopy
      @csnoopy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Heck no. You need 5000

    • @farwakhan4423
      @farwakhan4423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yes

    • @ClarkieReidri
      @ClarkieReidri 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yes, this is coming from someone who subjects themselves to the hottest sauces they can find, once you have drank a half bottle of Da Bomb, nothing can scare you anymore. No person or object will hurt you as much as that will.

  • @thescoobymike
    @thescoobymike 4 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    When Sean Evan's is impressed, you know you made it

  • @1989red13bfc
    @1989red13bfc ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sean is a gem. That’s why his show has done soo well.

  • @tyrroo
    @tyrroo 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Bro, this is the best ad for Hot Ones I've ever seen!
    As someone who hates spicy food, I had no idea it was a legit interview show, I thought it was just celebs eating gross intense spices!

  • @kobetiu8628
    @kobetiu8628 4 ปีที่แล้ว +921

    Sean: Hey what's your name?
    Person: *that's a great question*

    • @G33KST4R
      @G33KST4R 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Person: Wow. You really did your research.

    • @thedynamitepriest2755
      @thedynamitepriest2755 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Most likely question fro Sean:
      Imagine you live in a fantasy world and you wanted to get out of it. What name would you pick for yourself?

    • @Frdnnd
      @Frdnnd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@thedynamitepriest2755 that's a great question

    • @yourmajesty3569
      @yourmajesty3569 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is exactly what Sean doesn't do. And exactly how people don't respond.
      How are you funny?????

    • @nobodyishere
      @nobodyishere 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@yourmajesty3569 r/woooosh

  • @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862
    @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +526

    Be genuine, be yourself. If they don’t like you, move on

    • @fadeskywards1245
      @fadeskywards1245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right

    • @montanerdz
      @montanerdz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Yeah, until nobody likes you 😂 then what?

    • @Carlos1234jfk
      @Carlos1234jfk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@montanerdz then you're free

    • @AlexanderMoen
      @AlexanderMoen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Be careful. Lots of people use the "be yourself" reasoning as an excuse to not better themselves, or to justify jerk-like actions.

    • @jk3838
      @jk3838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The person you want to be is the person you really are inside

  • @laurafedora5385
    @laurafedora5385 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    It’s hard to ask questions beyond the obvious ones if you don’t know the person that well though.
    Sean has the luxury of being able to do some research on celebrities’ interests or new work. If you did that to your crush, you’re a creepy stalker 😆

    • @JamesDavisakaRemguy
      @JamesDavisakaRemguy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good Point, let's hope he responds at some point in the (near?) future. I'm sure he can come up with some way of presenting this "research" so that it's not interpreted as a creepy invasion of one's privacy. If done (adroitly or adeptly?) done GOOD...ly(?!), it can come off as very flattering that you sacrificed the time/effort/blood/sweat/tears to go to these lengths, but that's probably part of the risk-taking that he refers to in this video. *It's all in the delivery* - which itself would make a great by-line for Charisma University!

    • @mrmatiti3405
      @mrmatiti3405 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not sure CoC agrees with this but my approach is to just be interested in what they are doing or where they have been, even though I am not familiar with it. For example, I met someone who worked with building electric excavators. My first response was "Well, that sounds a little unpractical because they require a lot of energy. How long does it last before it's out of battery?". It lead to a very interesting conversation where he got to give me some insights on electrical excavators.
      I am also the type to ask if someone wore hula skirts if I find out they lived in Hawaii. That either leads to a good laugh or a good story if they actually did wear one.

  • @davidcummins8125
    @davidcummins8125 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It is funny how much of the status thing is an illusion. A friend was star-struck in a bar when he saw the DJ of his favorite radio station. He would never have approached him. I didn't know who the heck he was, so I just dragged my friend over and had a 5 minute conversation with the guy. The real thing is the human connection. Another time I was at a conference and blew off a boring session. I ended up bumping into the guest speaker for the whole event in the cafeteria and bonding over how terrible the food was. I appreciate these videos for making the good moments more reliable, not just "a weird thing that happened to me".

  • @eliseerickson5994
    @eliseerickson5994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +521

    On the way into my first job interview I noticed a sign outside that stated the company was the oldest in its industry and the year it was founded. (exactly 200 years before!) When I was asked how much I knew about the company, I brought that up and asked if they were doing anything special for its anniversary. They called me the next morning with a job offer.

    • @TheRightLadder
      @TheRightLadder 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Did they do anything?

    • @eliseerickson5994
      @eliseerickson5994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      @@TheRightLadder they gave me the job

    • @christophergonzalez8598
      @christophergonzalez8598 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@eliseerickson5994 They have you a job because you are White.

    • @Rytoast99
      @Rytoast99 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Christopher Gonzalez no lol troll stfu

    • @eliseerickson5994
      @eliseerickson5994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@christophergonzalez8598 unfortunately, this is probably true :( white privilege is real asf

  • @Miketz
    @Miketz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +598

    Boss: "Do you have any questions?"
    Me: "Have you ever killed anybody?"

    • @jamesgarrett7844
      @jamesgarrett7844 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Can’t wait to use this at my next interview

    • @satyamprakash7030
      @satyamprakash7030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Maybe😋😋

    • @fistbomb3368
      @fistbomb3368 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jamesgarrett7844 so how did it went?

    • @anotherstockcivic
      @anotherstockcivic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Was it good for you too?

    • @miseno31
      @miseno31 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      And if you have, what were the highlights of killing, and what were the most frustrating things about it?

  • @drewphonix7685
    @drewphonix7685 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    That, "We haven't heard from Coolio in a long time" hit different 2023

    • @koshobai
      @koshobai ปีที่แล้ว

      What happened to him? Is it related to Weird Al?

    • @teme5866
      @teme5866 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@koshobai He passed away in september of 2022

    • @koshobai
      @koshobai ปีที่แล้ว

      @@teme5866 Welp, there we have it. Not so coolio in the end...

  • @cameronjadewallace
    @cameronjadewallace ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been listening to this channel all day after it came up in my autoplay, and I've been trying to learn how to human properly lately. I've been feeling like I'm out of sorts, but my self-confidence (that I've built on my own just by listening to NF) has gotten in my way. Now... I've been seeing flaws in my character and how I can fix it.
    I mentioned to my coworkers that I've found this channel today and been listening to it ravenously and they asked how it's been going... I laughed and said "Well, it's just Day 1!!!" And they found it hilarious.
    I've always been known for my humor, and now ... I actually think this is helping me be more personable, instead of relying on shock value.
    I love this channel. I hope it helps me human better.

  • @EricMarlow
    @EricMarlow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2775

    HOW TO IMPRESS SOMEONE YOU ADMIRE (summary)
    1. ask killer questions beyond the obvious ones 00:28
    2. use the question preamble to connect on a personal level 03:09
    3. steer conversations towards the other persons emotion or passions 04:52
    4. tease playfully and have some fun 07:37
    5. comfortably express disagreement 09:12
    This is an awesome video and this summary doesn't do it justice. Watch it all the way through. Thank me later. 🙂

    • @DougMarv
      @DougMarv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Actually, ty in advance =)

    • @Sabadoe2013
      @Sabadoe2013 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I clicked on the first time stamp you wrote. I didn't pause the video a single time after that.

    • @Santhanaram
      @Santhanaram 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thank you for creating the summary Eric...love the engagement

    • @Sneha-fh3uh
      @Sneha-fh3uh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks

    • @abelarvizu2898
      @abelarvizu2898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      this is awesome, thank you!

  • @drbelli
    @drbelli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +620

    Sean makes guests feel like not being interviewed at all, instead he plays inside the spicy wings game and the questions feels more like an excuse to engage those invited, rather than the focus of it all, Hot Ones format is unique and fresh, and is a display of good things to come. Sean is a talented guy, bright yet humble, a good content maker/contributor .

    • @CidGuerreiro1234
      @CidGuerreiro1234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Agree, the show is great. I normally don't give a flying about celebrities, but Sean makes the conversation interesting to watch by asking really good question (and actually letting them answer, unlike some hosts who wants to be in the spotlight 100% of the time).

    • @SStupendous
      @SStupendous 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@CidGuerreiro1234 That last part applying to Kimmel. I really like this guy. ACTUAL interview. Instead of how many talk-show hosts are.

    • @katec5105
      @katec5105 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very true

    • @mummyjohn
      @mummyjohn ปีที่แล้ว

      feels similar to Craig Ferguson. I'll have to check this guy out

  • @ezra9401
    @ezra9401 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I usually would gloss over TH-cam videos these days, even the educational ones that I usually like. This video was really grabbing my attention and provides a great perspective and information. Kudos.

  • @andreschumann7327
    @andreschumann7327 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Basically, Sean doesn't talk to celebrities like they are celebrities. In a nutshell, he talks to them as a person to another person, trying to get to know them better. This is exactly how I conduct my business meetings.

  • @samtoshner8002
    @samtoshner8002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    Sean Evans deserves an award for his abilities as a talk show host.

  • @haythamhakla
    @haythamhakla 4 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    I remember I had an interview in a high tech company and I was extremely under qualified. I researched the interviewer online before the interview and found out he had a couple of patents. I brought that up while he was walking me from the lobby to the interview room. He was so shocked I even knew about it and I got the internship the next day.

    • @JustMe-ob3nw
      @JustMe-ob3nw ปีที่แล้ว

      What a terrible idea. I would’ve thought you were a freak, an adulator. It also makes you look like someone who is calculating. I would have you escorted out by security on the spot. Amazing you actually got the position. This person is probably very naive for having hired you. Also, people who behave like this are the reason why toxic working environments exist. I would bet you probably have very strong back stabbing’ tendencies too.

    • @Parallaxxx28
      @Parallaxxx28 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s actually a really good skill. How did you get to know who your interviewer was?

    • @ThinkBeFree99
      @ThinkBeFree99 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How did u ask this though. Could be kinda creepy for some lol

  • @kaalen24
    @kaalen24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I love how Sean and his show is getting well deserved recognition for how incredibly skilled he and the show is at these interviews. Better than anything you will find on TV. Shout out to Dustin Poirier for doing the show!

    • @Swordifsh1
      @Swordifsh1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I didnt see Poirier here? Or did you mean in a diff video?

  • @bonniecreevy2642
    @bonniecreevy2642 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love Sean Evans. You always learn something new about the celebrities and he doesn’t bait them just for views. I think he’s the best interviewer I’ve ever seen

  • @ALLROY240
    @ALLROY240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    0:49 I think that question would have floored most interviewees.

    • @kichapps
      @kichapps 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yeah. That's a really long sentence to comprehend...

    • @DustyyBoi
      @DustyyBoi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kichapps no? I'm gonna guess English isn't your first language

    • @meat.
      @meat. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Alojzija it’s a pretty complicated question. We don’t all watch rick and morty like you

    • @yanited7603
      @yanited7603 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@DustyyBoi Rude. You might need to watch more charisma on command.

    • @blackharpy7468
      @blackharpy7468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@DustyyBoi Stop judging and start self-developing. You need to.

  • @Benisued
    @Benisued 4 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    damn man the quality of this channel is soaring

    • @CC-bu2gv
      @CC-bu2gv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      so what are some of the highlight and lowlights of the videos you've seen so far?

    • @Benisued
      @Benisued 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CC-bu2gv
      highlights:
      5 easy ways to start a conversation
      why good relationships turn bad
      turn anxiety into charisma
      lowlights are difficult, I understand videos from this channel end up being pretty personal, a charisma lesson that I need will be different than what you need, but the reaction videos that they started making, I think, are their weakest link right now

  • @callmejeff9272
    @callmejeff9272 ปีที่แล้ว

    Honestly this one of the best vids I’ve come across. Became a standout at my current job because of asking those great questions at the end of the interview

  • @dimassalazar906
    @dimassalazar906 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Craig Furgerson is the best interviewer. Wish he was still on tv.

  • @silvervixen007
    @silvervixen007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1756

    As someone who is socially awkward and maybe even on the autism spectrum... this channel surprisingly helps me a lot! 🙆‍♀️

    • @shadmanhasan4205
      @shadmanhasan4205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Same.

    • @davecullins1606
      @davecullins1606 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      In my experience, if you start to *heavily* self-identify with something you see as fundamentally limited, then you're more likely in general to doubt your own abilities which is just going to lead you to give up on seizing a lot of opportunities you wouldn't otherwise have given up on if you hadn't let that thing be at the center of your identity. That thing being autism in this case.
      That has been my own experience as an autist, and I have also seen other autists suffer from not following that advice.

    • @jasperw.2701
      @jasperw.2701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I don't find that surprising. I'm kind of in the same place. This guy is a genius!

    • @Chris-Moore501
      @Chris-Moore501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The tools they give me confidence to carry on through the awkwardness haha

    • @wesleygraham335
      @wesleygraham335 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I think Dave is right. If you put yourself in box or category such as labelling yourself as ‘maybe even on the autism spectrum’ you’ve now created a belief in your mind which is not helping you. If you can remove the labels that society places on us we become more free to express who we are without caring. It takes work though. Your awkwardness is most likely due to suppression in society because you do things differently. Just a theory from someone that used to think the same things.

  • @evolicious
    @evolicious 2 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    Sean is this generation's greatest interviewer. He is light years ahead in connecting to celebrities in a modern way and knows how to treat everyone so equally and respectfully. Everyone WANTS to be on this show because of Sean and his team.

    • @joshuapikal7578
      @joshuapikal7578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      yes, but then there's Nardwuar

    • @yeldarb1880
      @yeldarb1880 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      3 letters, jre

    • @karenphan8046
      @karenphan8046 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joshuapikal7578 you

    • @orbit1894
      @orbit1894 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@joshuapikal7578 Nardwuar is the goat

    • @Elurin
      @Elurin ปีที่แล้ว

      @@orbit1894 Nah, he is a goat, or perhaps eats goats?

  • @thomaschezik9769
    @thomaschezik9769 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I totally stumbled on this video, but this is one of the most valuable 15 minutes of education that anyone could have in learning how to network and connect with a stranger that they are interested in partnering with or learning from. HUGE HIGH YIELD how to.

  • @katomlife8635
    @katomlife8635 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sean Evans is such a talented interviewer.
    What makes highlight and lowlight questions so interesting to the interviewee...
    Highlight questions will bring them joy and make you sound interested in them.
    Lowlight questions sound like you care and will create a connection with them.

  • @warbylpunkaz8797
    @warbylpunkaz8797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    "We haven't heard from Coolio in a long time" - SE

  • @seanpowlesland1703
    @seanpowlesland1703 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Another thing that makes Sean so great is his how he takes his time. He never rushes his guests and takes his time asking questions. He's also comfortable in silence and doesn't feel pressured to ask killer question every time

  • @CharlesChacon
    @CharlesChacon 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    At a former job, I used to do a lot of job interviews and I loved asking questions like this. I always reviewed the resume of the candidates not to judge their qualifications, but to find talking points to start a personal connection and this led to some really good trust with every candidate we eventually went with

  • @FatimaFarmer
    @FatimaFarmer ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your channel is amazing! He is my favorite interviewer and this breakdown was so well done!

  • @LisaGemini
    @LisaGemini 2 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    Self confidence impresses anyone. Being intelligent is huge. It might seem geeky to you, but it's vital. Thanks for the video!

    • @7ylerD
      @7ylerD ปีที่แล้ว +10

      People don’t respect intelligence, per se; people respect competence. They like when you are able to effectively interpret and respond to what they’re saying, but they don’t like when you come off as a know-it-all.

    • @romancetips365
      @romancetips365 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have both and I still don't have any friends, go figure... :-P

    • @MikeD-hn9hf
      @MikeD-hn9hf ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think if recent history has taught us anything it's that you don't have to be intelligent to be confident.

    • @corail53
      @corail53 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@7ylerD If you claim you are intelligent is shows how insecure you are - that is what turns people off. The folks who have to brag about how smart they are etc. People respect people being themselves and not having to one up or brag about things like that.

    • @corail53
      @corail53 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MikeD-hn9hf You don't.

  • @zanemiracle6121
    @zanemiracle6121 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1726

    Before watching video:
    Guy: How's it going? ❌
    After watching videi;:
    Guy: Imagine how you're feeling right now. Now take that same situation and imagine that you're on Mars. So fellow martian, how's it going? ✅

    • @raphaelmotta7630
      @raphaelmotta7630 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      That actualy made me smile, if someone said that to me in real life I'd instantly conect with them. haha
      I'm gonna use this!

    • @Ot-ej5gi
      @Ot-ej5gi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      still the same thing, but only on Mars...

    • @Ot-ej5gi
      @Ot-ej5gi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Alan Hardcastle A story?! that's not even a story, they absolutely randomly pick Mars and the rest of it is just a totally RANDOM ramble.

    • @DeadPointDelusions
      @DeadPointDelusions 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Vadim Galperin I think you’re missing the point 😂 it entices your imagination

    • @Ot-ej5gi
      @Ot-ej5gi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DeadPointDelusions How so?

  • @syedali1401
    @syedali1401 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Eye contact is the most powerful thing to keep someone connected to you for a while.
    It helps me a lot, its just makes the other person in a trance like state. I dont know exactly how it works. But this thing is powerful

  • @SirGlacius1
    @SirGlacius1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I really like to watch hot ones. Sean is without a doubt a great host so you get to meet celebrities you love engaged in a warm and fun conversation.

  • @marc-andrecote2948
    @marc-andrecote2948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +630

    Got it, so killer question on first date: so do you think your insecurities in relationship are the fruit of a long and heartfelt grief from the fact your dad did not love you?

    • @CaneSr
      @CaneSr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Dayumn

    • @XIVDock
      @XIVDock 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Not open ended enough. Can still boil it down to yes or no, assuming the person decides to answer instead of immediately throwing themselves at you

    • @TheManhwaSummary
      @TheManhwaSummary 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hahahahahaha

    • @earlyangelo5704
      @earlyangelo5704 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Noted. Thanks

    • @Bryan-kl5rr
      @Bryan-kl5rr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This should help with my dating life, or lack thereof. Thanks 🤙

  • @lexilowe4928
    @lexilowe4928 4 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    Sean Evans is an awesome interviewer. He inspired me to start asking people more and better questions about themselves, and it's made my social life so much better. And for job interviews, I do a ton of research on all the people I'll meet. Probs not as much research as Sean and Chris do, but it would be weird if I tried to do an "Explain that Gram" on a job interview.

  • @dontmindme6995
    @dontmindme6995 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    For me the most important thing about conversations and questions is to ask something you're actually interested in.
    Sean asks phenomenal questions, but his job is to get information out of people for the sake of informing and entertaining viewers and listeners.
    When I'm in a conversation, I want this information for myself, so there is no point in asking something you don't care about.
    Also it gives the conversation genuity which can make even ordinary, uncreative questions feel natural and interesting

    • @MrTheRabber
      @MrTheRabber 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen.

  • @nawwk79
    @nawwk79 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Being yourself and not bombarding your brain with all this "How To" videos is the best way to impress someone genuinely.

  • @itsokbabygirl
    @itsokbabygirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Sean Evans is like the celebrity whisperer! Also, his humility is a definite plus. He’s the right balance of admirer, intelligence, and chill! I love him. ♥️🙌🏼💯

  • @AlexPlatinumAdvice
    @AlexPlatinumAdvice 4 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    This is a lot of great info, whenever I go out on a date I typically ask 5 in depth questions with the girl, then get into more detail.
    Also, in the past when I would have interviews I would always study up on the company. When they were founded, who founded them, what their goal and values are.
    I almost always got hired for every job I applied.
    Good stuff my man.

    • @Ana-bx6fn
      @Ana-bx6fn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Could you give examples of the questions that you asked during the interviews?

    • @chag3406
      @chag3406 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      ^ and the first 5

    • @drpizzagames1015
      @drpizzagames1015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nothing to comment just want the notification when/if you respond to the replies

    • @NelemNaru
      @NelemNaru 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do you have a set of questions to asks on dates, or are they different depending on the girl?

    • @nexo8742
      @nexo8742 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What are the 5 deep questions?

  • @jesseowens4652
    @jesseowens4652 ปีที่แล้ว

    It helps a lot to keep your mind open and be truly curious about the person. If you are genuine it will show in a very obvious way and they will respect you for that.

  • @Antichaos111
    @Antichaos111 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome callout to Sean, guy has an amazing presence and does an amazing job as a personality.

  • @QueenZsWorld
    @QueenZsWorld 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    See them as human. Talk to then like you would a friend

  • @scotthullinger9955
    @scotthullinger9955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    The way you impress me is by not trying to impress me. Humility says a lot.

  • @itismeanttobe
    @itismeanttobe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sean evans is the embodiment of how to make friends and influence people

  • @Dougfrilled
    @Dougfrilled ปีที่แล้ว

    I started doing some extremely basic prep work for job interviews some years back and had the last one follow me to my car and give me the position on the spot. It’s that powerful.

  • @1chaplain
    @1chaplain 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    The day Sean gets featured in Charisma in Command, is the day I'm satisfied with the internet. Great content

  • @Nero_2276
    @Nero_2276 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I loved the line about asking a job interviewer about what they like about working there. That can lead into many directions.

    • @JaysonT1
      @JaysonT1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I ask that on very interview Iźve been on. They always say"the people". Ironically, I worked a job (setting up stages) where the people I worked with and the environment were VERY hastle.

    • @janetmiller2160
      @janetmiller2160 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JaysonT1 hostile, jicywi

  • @dameanvil
    @dameanvil 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    00:14 🎯 To impress someone higher in status, focus on asking unique, thoughtful questions. Avoid common, repetitive ones.
    01:38 🧠 Prioritize empathy and ask questions beyond the obvious to engage the person's interests and experiences.
    02:36 📖 Research the person or company before a meeting or interview. Avoid asking easily available information.
    03:47 🤔 Start conversations with a short preamble highlighting a specific aspect of their work to stand out.
    04:58 😊 Steer conversations towards emotional topics or their passions for a deeper connection.
    05:55 💬 Use "best and worst" questions to get people talking about what excites or frustrates them.
    08:46 😄 Don't be afraid to inject humor and playfulness, but maintain a balance and avoid overdoing it.
    09:29 🗣️ Disagree assertively while still acknowledging areas of agreement to showcase your independent thinking.
    10:51 👤 See the person as a human, not just their status or achievements, to create a more genuine connection.

  • @sweatiegonzalez9732
    @sweatiegonzalez9732 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sean is inspiring. I'll come back for inspiration any time I ever need to interview with anyone.

  • @JS-th7ow
    @JS-th7ow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Just wanted to thank you. This channel has helped me a lot. Due to medical conditions I spent my teen years in isolated. I’m 20 now and this channel has helped me a lot in terms of socializing and being a more confident person overall.

    • @romanpabianczyk8870
      @romanpabianczyk8870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Maybe if it helped you then maybe it can also help me, because I was an outsider and scapegoat whole my life and I would like to create more social mind.

  • @MH-dv2cz
    @MH-dv2cz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    So what I'm hearing is that my stalker skills are going to come in handy

  • @jesseworkme
    @jesseworkme ปีที่แล้ว

    you, and your team, are good at interviewing people ill give you that .. its frustratingly common for "influencers" and "celebrities" to believe they are better than the rest of the population

  • @ericsarchive7718
    @ericsarchive7718 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Evans Ramsey interview is maybe one of my all-time favorites.
    Every Hot Ones is a Master Class.

  • @ZachWeiss
    @ZachWeiss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +828

    How to impress someone you admire: “Be unapologetically yourself”
    Done.

    • @peterDcontact
      @peterDcontact 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      i am sorry, this is the kind of advice Tony Robbins would give, the kind that i hate, what does that even mean?

    • @ZachWeiss
      @ZachWeiss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      peterDcontact it means to stop trying to watch advice on how to be something other than how you would normally be. If you put on a show, the facade will fail at some point and that person you were trying to impress won’t stick around. If you don’t try to impress them from the get-go, if it’s meant to be, they will stay anyway.

    • @adels.185
      @adels.185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@peterDcontact Means (if I got it right) that you are yourself and stick to your opinions and beliefs unapologetically

    • @ben-asinus
      @ben-asinus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Yeah, but to be able to do that you have to be the best person you can possible be. And that is hard or nearly impossible. So it is useful to be aware of the fact that you are not perfect. And it is good to be modest and to ask for apology every time you were wrong.

    • @ZachWeiss
      @ZachWeiss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ben yeah of course. When you are objectively wrong on something. I do like the tips on this video, it’s more like in my opinion, when you act like yourself without restraint then you tend to polarize people and the only people who stick around are the ones who count. 😊

  • @HiddenLunarWings
    @HiddenLunarWings 4 ปีที่แล้ว +627

    Basically just be bald. Bald guys have all the charisma.

    • @witchbitchgirl
      @witchbitchgirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      That's the price you have to pay...

    • @alis7135
      @alis7135 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@witchbitchgirl lmao that was on point 👌

    • @jusayalex
      @jusayalex 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Saitama made the right decision

    • @kirkjohnson9353
      @kirkjohnson9353 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Why are bald homeless guys such a rare thing?

    • @josephd53
      @josephd53 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Especially Seth Everman

  • @BabblingBuffoon
    @BabblingBuffoon ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sean needs to come out with a book that covers all his crazy interview tips.

  • @emory4258
    @emory4258 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These questions are also being asked while they are eating spicy food! This makes an even interesting conversation because not only are they concentrating on the heat going on in their mouth but they are also thinking about the conversation. So far this is the most interesting video so far for me in my opinion that I've watched from you. I haven't seen them all but so far.....

  • @wilbeugre
    @wilbeugre 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    So I was right: treat human beings as human beings and be kind to anyone; it doesn't mean that you'll agree on everything but that is ok ☺️
    Keep up the great work guys! 👍🏿

  • @lizicadumitru9683
    @lizicadumitru9683 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    You know the more I think about what this channel does and promotes the more I'm surprised at the genius of it 👍

  • @Jo3W3st
    @Jo3W3st ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He has a whole team including him who comes up with these amazing questions. He's just the face of the channel, asking the questions. Yes he does improve a lot but the writers don't get recognition honestly and if you're in the entertainment industry, you should have known this already.

    • @dumdum9367
      @dumdum9367 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He a natural, has charisma, someone who draws you in while letting you be, this man should be studied in university

  • @errolwebber
    @errolwebber 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for making this video! It reminded me of some important cues, while also reaffirming the strategy I used in an interaction I had with someone just yesterday. Excellent content!

    • @joy_villa
      @joy_villa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Errol! Hey my friend!!

    • @errolwebber
      @errolwebber 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joy_villa Well, hello there!

  • @joeymcarthur8679
    @joeymcarthur8679 4 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    I'm so glad you're doing Sean. He's like, a gold standard.

  • @TheDonkyGamePlay
    @TheDonkyGamePlay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I once commented how good of an interviewer Sean is, that his questions really make the other side open up and he really digs a lot of information about them. Never got so many disagreeing comments hah. Glad you pointed this out

  • @markc.7984
    @markc.7984 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "That's a great question" is a stalling technique while thinking up an answer.

  • @Mike_In_Idaho
    @Mike_In_Idaho ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video -- I really appreciate the tips to crack a joke occassionally, and how to assert yourself in a disagreement without offending. And now I want to go watch (and rewatch) more of Sean's videos!! :D

  • @devam7768
    @devam7768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That mindset is golden! It's been a true game-changer in my own life. Sometimes we put the people we admire on a pedestal instead of seeing them as a fellow human being. This prevents us from connecting with them and making a lasting impression.

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 4 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    Never reveal your merits/accomplishments - let them do the digging by asking questions
    It's more interesting to uncover than to be served

    • @x.invictus6597
      @x.invictus6597 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I wonder how I can block a channel.

    • @GladiatorPower
      @GladiatorPower 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@x.invictus6597 😂😂

    • @GladiatorPower
      @GladiatorPower 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Stop commenting on every video I watch.

    • @SharpDesign
      @SharpDesign 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      No place this would make any sense.

    • @elektrotehnik94
      @elektrotehnik94 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'd say make a tease about you accomplishments, then let them do the digging if it sparks their interest

  • @roberthuttle
    @roberthuttle 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well-spoken people that can negotiate are unstoppable

  • @pinto633
    @pinto633 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This creator needs a MC 😂 his content is always on point, lessons learnt on charisma are easy to be learnt and shows how much he cares about his community and self development

  • @BakaryD
    @BakaryD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +342

    Step 1 - Make a youtube channel where you eat chickens
    step 2 - Be the host
    Step 3 - have a guest
    Step 4 - Stalk them
    Step 5 - WIN

    • @danieltkach2330
      @danieltkach2330 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      You forgot to say you need a personality, and be smart, educated, emotionally and socially intelligent, balanced, a great communicator, among other traits...

    • @atom0824
      @atom0824 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣

    • @heyryanisonx3141
      @heyryanisonx3141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Step 6 - PROFIT

    • @nobodyishere
      @nobodyishere 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@danieltkach2330 you missed the joke

  • @blakeglosson
    @blakeglosson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Insightful and tangibly helpful. I love the idea of being playful with higher-profile people, rather than always speaking/responding in literal terms. Will definitely be using this. Thanks, Charlie!

  • @briangallagher710
    @briangallagher710 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is excellent advice. I would also add that one should never lie or distort the truth, no matter how bad.

  • @athmaid
    @athmaid ปีที่แล้ว

    Sean Evans and Mike Laita are the best interviewer on TH-cam imho, very different approaches but they know how to get stories out of their guests

  • @xingmenneigong
    @xingmenneigong 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I have a sarcastic dry sense of humour and it serves me well. I feel I need to change too much when I watch your videos. Causes me to over think, forget, then never say anything at all to people. Charisma comes through practice, intuition, empathy and a whole host of other skill sets learnt over time. To sum up your videos in one phrase "think outside the box", as cliche as that phrase is, it suits you perfectly. Stay confident, congratulations on your original TH-cam channel and best of luck in the future.

    • @__-fi6xg
      @__-fi6xg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think everyone has His own Magic, at.least If you are good with communication.
      I conciously decide to be less social and its Just the part of me who wants to be alone from time to time. You either Accept me as i am or Not, i dont care.

  • @sweetspleen795
    @sweetspleen795 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He got a team for his research. Kudos to them!

  • @aloe704
    @aloe704 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    *Sean honestly DOESN'T have to ask good question, because he knows many people watch his videos for the celebrities' reaction to hot sauce, but he still asks amazing questions, that's why he's the most underrated and best hosts of all time!!*

    • @matthewvanrensburg3824
      @matthewvanrensburg3824 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Without the questions the celebrities wouldn't be lining up to come on the show though. The wings are for the fans, the quality of the interview is for the celebs.

    • @corail53
      @corail53 ปีที่แล้ว

      no

  • @jujubees711
    @jujubees711 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sean Evans is the best interviewer hands down!