Hijab is a sacrifice, that our sister's have to do that is mandatory, my Allah make it easier, may the men in our sisters lives around the world give them love, support, confidence, and admiration for there sacrifices.
I think having a struggle with some of God's commandments is normal, but when you continue to not like one of it, especially if it's something done on a regular basis like hijab, praying, fasting, charity, etc. i believe it is because the person is regularly frequenting or consuming content of people that promotes the opposite lifestyle. In that way it becomes even harder in our own eyes. the core belief that such practice is good for our own sake in the long run makes things more acceptable and easier to sustain (which is not necessarily the same when it comes to the struggle during the practice itself, take working out as an example: you shouldn't hate the idea of it if you want to be healthy for the rest of your life, which doesn't mean that you deny how hard it is) hating the hijab doesn't make you a bad muslima, but i believe it is something to look at and not leave on the side, cause it might get bigger and cause a cognitive dissonance
Alhamdulilah this isn’t the case for me, and I know it will get better in shaa Allah. Right now I find it very overstimulating because I have small children who climb on me, pull on it etc. Which makes it more difficult. But I know these factors won’t be forever in shaa Allah.
@@karsbreanne I pray that God rewards you for this and makes it easier for you and all the sisters, in shaa Allah. Especially for those of you here in the west
I honestly love it. My compassion goes to women who are struggling. I feel like maybe Allah (SWT) made hijab one of our jihads. If you don’t face external pressure, you get internal pressure. For me, I like wearing it because it puts a protective barrier between me and people with malicious intentions towards what I have underneath. I have a long history of dealing with predatory people before I started wearing hijab. I feel like it gives a sort of spiritual protection to wear it. But now, it’s my father and other “Christian” men who get hostile towards me for wearing it, so while internally I love wearing it, all the pressure to take it off is coming from the outside and it’s upsetting. I feel like Muslim women who are more free to wear hijab publicly without as much pressure from the outside to take it off, are more likely to experience that internal pressure for whatever reason. I know that’s not necessarily the case 100% of the time, some women get both kinds of pressure or neither (MashAllah), but it’s a societal pattern I’m noticing that it’s usually one or the other for most hijabi women.
I like It a lot , It represents dignity and value of women Unlike hollywood style merchandization of women's body, to sell chips, cars...Or dirty miserable indescent each year "fashion"..to gain/impose wide consumerism slaves, through unbridled capitalism / modern slavery .. Without a doubt it's a blessing for daily women live, especially when getting elder/older.. In fact there are tons of differents styles, types of modest clothing/Hijab, for women throught the world, and it's a true usefull blessed growing market, and a worthy market for muslim entrepreneurs women..
This is how I feel about it. I’m tired of people treating women like merchandise to be used, ogled at, and disposed of, without caring about our minds and hearts and souls. Hijab is a beautiful blessing for me, but people distance themselves from me or become hostile towards me for wearing it because they’re indoctrinated against my faith. It is what it is I guess…
Hizab is to obey Allah s.w.t. Don't care what other say. Practicing heavenly deeds is not always smooth. Follow the path shown by prophet Muhammad SA inshallah success will come. May Allah s.w.t bless you and grant
That's really fair. As someone who grew up wearing some sort of head covering all the time, even our traditional clothes have a scarf-type addition to it, I just see it as part of every day life, not necessarily something I love. Sometimes I'll find one I really like, just like sometimes you find a top that you really like; otherwise, it's just kinda...there.
Im not Muslim but i appreciate your honesty. From my understanding, God looks at the heart. I respect Muslims. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Peace of God to you and your family
I feel the exact same way. It’s hard especially as a convert, living your whole life without it. I also romanticizes and glamorize the idea of wearing a hijab before putting it on and now struggle to find it enjoyable. I do it but don’t think of it as „part of myself”
looks like a hasty opinions or judgments, without taking into consideration the different aspects and implications of the subject (economic/education/family values..), as well as the different ages and related constraints...
A female who put on Hijab or niqab or do not wear them: you don't cause me any harm in any way. Enjoy your life. Those who poke their nose into others about how they dress must keep quiet.
Hijab is not the only sacrifice we make in Islam. We also need to pray five times a day, fasting, give zakat, etc. They're all part of the sacrifices we make. Additionally, hijab actually protects women from sex predators. When a woman wears a mini skirt or shorts, guys may pursue her. Your clothes reflect who you are. If you want people to think you are a homeless person, then dress like a homeless person. If you want people to think you are a professional worker, then dress like a professional worker.
I needed to see this video. Thank you. When I experience a decline in iman, i find that i dislike wearing the hijab. Men struggle with looking (at women) and women struggle with being looked at. Both are addicting and both are fitnas we have to fight against. So in the summer time, i find myself feeling pangs of jealousy towards women who are dressed in airy, light clothing. I feel ashamed about my pangs of jealousy because i know what’s right. It’s not like i’ll take off the hijab, but it would be nice to live in a place where immodesty wasnt a currency that a lot of women benefit from.
Insha allah allah will give us more rewards for things that r more difficult for us. In a hadith it says that near the time of dajjal it will be so hard to do good deeds but bcos of that, that time deeds will also be rewarded more for.
Complaining about the hijab is like complaining about any of the other elements of faith, whether it’s prayer, ablution, charity etc. Commandment of God. End of story. Someone said that it is a “sacrifice”. It is not a sacrifice. Is doing prayer a “sacrifice”? It is the commission of a commandment. End of story. If there is “hardship”in it then strengthen your faith until the hardship is removed.
I think by sacrifice they mean doing something they don't necessarily like just for God which is also a good thing. Ig if u mean u wouldn't call it a sacrifice bcos its not something to choose but u have to do it, then I get what u mean
@@digitaltheidiot3618 Is it a sacrifice to take bitter tasting antibiotics when you need them? I suppose a child could argue like that. An adult wouldn’t. Everything we do in Islam comes from God’s mercy. As spiritual adults we embrace them with zeal and gratitude looking to that bright place in the World to come. Whatever trivial hardships may come in this world we are grateful that God doesn’t test us with actual suffering and difficulty like our brethren in Gaza.
@@AereForst I agree with u but I think we just have different definitions of the word sacrifice coz if u take medicine that u don't like u could say ure sacrificing for the sake of ur health. Even tho it's an obvious thing to do I thought that would count as a sacrifice coz ure doing something u don't want to for the greater good. Maybe I just have the wrong definition for the word sacrifice lol. I do know that its normally used for big things that r very difficult to do tho and not for menial stuff like taking medicine
@@karsbreanne I’m not, to be honest. Sorry I seem that way to you. If you saw your reward in the world to come and understood the amazing blessing Islam is you wouldn’t even mention it. That alone is bad adab to Allah. Just keeping it real, Sister. The more we focus on the minor inconveniences, others of a weaker faith who watch your videos, may magnify them in their minds and it can lead to socially negative outcomes. Better to always focus on the immense positives of Islam. My 2c. May Allah Almighty bless you with much fortitude and resolution to maintain your Faith and practice always. May he grant you much satisfaction in your living this faith such that you are “well content with Him” (Qur’an 98:8)
I’m sure in the bible it says that god prefers modesty and decency. Isn’t there a quote regarding that?. Christianity and Islam and more similar than people think-a
Even if ur religion doesn't say to wear hijab, ur religion does encourage modesty and hijab is a kind of modesty so I thought u should understand more than Jews or other non Muslims. I think Christianity is the closest religion to Islam actually
1 Corinthians 11:6 “Yes, if she refuses to wear a head covering, she should cut off all her hair! But since it is shameful for a woman to have her hair cut or her head shaved, she should wear a covering.” Jewish and Christian women always traditionally covered their hair before the 20th century, except for some royals and wealthy women who wore wigs or thought their wealth made them an exception to the rule. The Bible actually explicitly names the hair, while the Quran tells women to take the veils they were already wearing anyway (as Christian and Jewish women, and as Arab monotheists), and cover their chests with it.
Hijab is a sacrifice, that our sister's have to do that is mandatory, my Allah make it easier, may the men in our sisters lives around the world give them love, support, confidence, and admiration for there sacrifices.
I think having a struggle with some of God's commandments is normal, but when you continue to not like one of it, especially if it's something done on a regular basis like hijab, praying, fasting, charity, etc. i believe it is because the person is regularly frequenting or consuming content of people that promotes the opposite lifestyle. In that way it becomes even harder in our own eyes.
the core belief that such practice is good for our own sake in the long run makes things more acceptable and easier to sustain (which is not necessarily the same when it comes to the struggle during the practice itself, take working out as an example: you shouldn't hate the idea of it if you want to be healthy for the rest of your life, which doesn't mean that you deny how hard it is)
hating the hijab doesn't make you a bad muslima, but i believe it is something to look at and not leave on the side, cause it might get bigger and cause a cognitive dissonance
Alhamdulilah this isn’t the case for me, and I know it will get better in shaa Allah. Right now I find it very overstimulating because I have small children who climb on me, pull on it etc. Which makes it more difficult. But I know these factors won’t be forever in shaa Allah.
@@karsbreanne I pray that God rewards you for this and makes it easier for you and all the sisters, in shaa Allah. Especially for those of you here in the west
I honestly love it. My compassion goes to women who are struggling. I feel like maybe Allah (SWT) made hijab one of our jihads. If you don’t face external pressure, you get internal pressure. For me, I like wearing it because it puts a protective barrier between me and people with malicious intentions towards what I have underneath. I have a long history of dealing with predatory people before I started wearing hijab. I feel like it gives a sort of spiritual protection to wear it. But now, it’s my father and other “Christian” men who get hostile towards me for wearing it, so while internally I love wearing it, all the pressure to take it off is coming from the outside and it’s upsetting. I feel like Muslim women who are more free to wear hijab publicly without as much pressure from the outside to take it off, are more likely to experience that internal pressure for whatever reason. I know that’s not necessarily the case 100% of the time, some women get both kinds of pressure or neither (MashAllah), but it’s a societal pattern I’m noticing that it’s usually one or the other for most hijabi women.
I like It a lot , It represents dignity and value of women
Unlike hollywood style merchandization of women's body, to sell chips, cars...Or dirty miserable indescent each year "fashion"..to gain/impose wide consumerism slaves, through unbridled capitalism / modern slavery ..
Without a doubt it's a blessing for daily women live, especially when getting elder/older..
In fact there are tons of differents styles, types of modest clothing/Hijab, for women throught the world, and it's a true usefull blessed growing market, and a worthy market for muslim entrepreneurs women..
This is how I feel about it. I’m tired of people treating women like merchandise to be used, ogled at, and disposed of, without caring about our minds and hearts and souls. Hijab is a beautiful blessing for me, but people distance themselves from me or become hostile towards me for wearing it because they’re indoctrinated against my faith. It is what it is I guess…
@@azureflamehealing keep up 👍
This issue won't happen inside a muslim country or an educated (not brainwashed) society..
Hizab is to obey Allah s.w.t. Don't care what other say. Practicing heavenly deeds is not always smooth. Follow the path shown by prophet Muhammad SA inshallah success will come. May Allah s.w.t bless you and grant
That's really fair. As someone who grew up wearing some sort of head covering all the time, even our traditional clothes have a scarf-type addition to it, I just see it as part of every day life, not necessarily something I love. Sometimes I'll find one I really like, just like sometimes you find a top that you really like; otherwise, it's just kinda...there.
الحمدلله على نعمة الإسلام والعفاف
Im not Muslim but i appreciate your honesty. From my understanding, God looks at the heart.
I respect Muslims. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Peace of God to you and your family
I feel the exact same way. It’s hard especially as a convert, living your whole life without it. I also romanticizes and glamorize the idea of wearing a hijab before putting it on and now struggle to find it enjoyable. I do it but don’t think of it as „part of myself”
looks like a hasty opinions or judgments, without taking into consideration the different aspects and implications of the subject (economic/education/family values..), as well as the different ages and related constraints...
Alsalam Alaikum from pakistan 🇵🇰
A female who put on Hijab or niqab or do not wear them: you don't cause me any harm in any way. Enjoy your life.
Those who poke their nose into others about how they dress must keep quiet.
You are absolutely right sister You do hijab for the sake of Allah, that's the truth and comfort. May Allah help you in your quest.
Hijab is not the only sacrifice we make in Islam. We also need to pray five times a day, fasting, give zakat, etc. They're all part of the sacrifices we make.
Additionally, hijab actually protects women from sex predators. When a woman wears a mini skirt or shorts, guys may pursue her. Your clothes reflect who you are. If you want people to think you are a homeless person, then dress like a homeless person. If you want people to think you are a professional worker, then dress like a professional worker.
Alhamdulillah ❤❤❤
Why don’t you change the style or colour of the hijab. I know it’s meant to be Simple and plain 🤍
you gotta be fucking kidding me
I needed to see this video. Thank you. When I experience a decline in iman, i find that i dislike wearing the hijab. Men struggle with looking (at women) and women struggle with being looked at. Both are addicting and both are fitnas we have to fight against. So in the summer time, i find myself feeling pangs of jealousy towards women who are dressed in airy, light clothing. I feel ashamed about my pangs of jealousy because i know what’s right. It’s not like i’ll take off the hijab, but it would be nice to live in a place where immodesty wasnt a currency that a lot of women benefit from.
Insha allah allah will give us more rewards for things that r more difficult for us. In a hadith it says that near the time of dajjal it will be so hard to do good deeds but bcos of that, that time deeds will also be rewarded more for.
As Salaam Alaikum sister
حياك الله
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Hijab originally came to divide between the slave women and the free women... so don't get over yourself
Complaining about the hijab is like complaining about any of the other elements of faith, whether it’s prayer, ablution, charity etc. Commandment of God. End of story. Someone said that it is a “sacrifice”. It is not a sacrifice. Is doing prayer a “sacrifice”? It is the commission of a commandment. End of story. If there is “hardship”in it then strengthen your faith until the hardship is removed.
I think by sacrifice they mean doing something they don't necessarily like just for God which is also a good thing. Ig if u mean u wouldn't call it a sacrifice bcos its not something to choose but u have to do it, then I get what u mean
@@digitaltheidiot3618 Is it a sacrifice to take bitter tasting antibiotics when you need them? I suppose a child could argue like that. An adult wouldn’t. Everything we do in Islam comes from God’s mercy. As spiritual adults we embrace them with zeal and gratitude looking to that bright place in the World to come. Whatever trivial hardships may come in this world we are grateful that God doesn’t test us with actual suffering and difficulty like our brethren in Gaza.
@@AereForst I agree with u but I think we just have different definitions of the word sacrifice coz if u take medicine that u don't like u could say ure sacrificing for the sake of ur health. Even tho it's an obvious thing to do I thought that would count as a sacrifice coz ure doing something u don't want to for the greater good. Maybe I just have the wrong definition for the word sacrifice lol. I do know that its normally used for big things that r very difficult to do tho and not for menial stuff like taking medicine
It’s not complaining it’s just being honest that it’s not easy bht we do it for the sake of Allah. Why are you so pressed lol
@@karsbreanne I’m not, to be honest. Sorry I seem that way to you. If you saw your reward in the world to come and understood the amazing blessing Islam is you wouldn’t even mention it. That alone is bad adab to Allah. Just keeping it real, Sister. The more we focus on the minor inconveniences, others of a weaker faith who watch your videos, may magnify them in their minds and it can lead to socially negative outcomes. Better to always focus on the immense positives of Islam. My 2c. May Allah Almighty bless you with much fortitude and resolution to maintain your Faith and practice always. May he grant you much satisfaction in your living this faith such that you are “well content with Him” (Qur’an 98:8)
Idk why this is in my recommended.. cause I’m a Christian.. that being said.. there’s no Hijab wearing in Christianity.. just saying 🤷🏽♂️
Except Mary, the mother of Jesus. She wore a hijab. Ever wonder why? Just saying 🤷♂️
@@AereForst😎
I’m sure in the bible it says that god prefers modesty and decency. Isn’t there a quote regarding that?. Christianity and Islam and more similar than people think-a
Even if ur religion doesn't say to wear hijab, ur religion does encourage modesty and hijab is a kind of modesty so I thought u should understand more than Jews or other non Muslims. I think Christianity is the closest religion to Islam actually
1 Corinthians 11:6 “Yes, if she refuses to wear a head covering, she should cut off all her hair! But since it is shameful for a woman to have her hair cut or her head shaved, she should wear a covering.”
Jewish and Christian women always traditionally covered their hair before the 20th century, except for some royals and wealthy women who wore wigs or thought their wealth made them an exception to the rule. The Bible actually explicitly names the hair, while the Quran tells women to take the veils they were already wearing anyway (as Christian and Jewish women, and as Arab monotheists), and cover their chests with it.
We want see your kids
Don't be weird please.