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Man, is it able to pay for this from polish zł currency? I don't have any account in dollars, only NOK and EUR. I want to read your book but I don't know how to pay
I'm older and never had half these problems with exception of a very youthful "one-ittis" and shy around girls I liked--going promiscuous for a few yrs cured all that....put book in shopping cart finally anyway. :D
i would realy like to know.. you say men go and date multiple woman.. but woman dont date multiple men.. you said its another topic.. i would realy like to hear that.
There was a joke about a woman telling another woman about her dream: "I want a man to be handsome, rich, athletic, witty, popular, good dresser, good f*ker, generious, I want him to love my children and to love me, to be faithful and devoted; but the main thing is I do not want all those men to know about each other".
One thing I learned in life so far: No girl is so perfect that she cant be replaced. If she isnt treating you right, its better to see the red flags early rather than realizing 5 years later that she lost interest in you 4.5 years ago. Talking from experience. Those are some hard life lessons. If a girl makes you feel bad, leave. I left a girl after pining over her for 4 years. She was pretty and charming but she wasnt interested in a relationship. I wanted to be with her but realized that I had to go to protect myself and create new opportunities elsewhere. Since then, I never fell in the same trap again.
The more desperate and horny you are, the harder that will be. You will never get rid of horny, so you have to work on being desperate. TBH, most dudes won't be able to pull this off, and then they will be bitter and angry about blowing their chances.
ironically everyone's grandparents did courting. It was basically radical ruthless plate spinning. only difference was no one got physical or if they did it was on the lowdown.
Why men are so resistant to the idea that women can never be trusted because they are always open to the next best deal…. Blows my mind! Stop! Giving you undying loyalty to someone who will never earn it is just silly!!
That's because they (woman) are made out to be perfectly innocent 'angels' that can do no wrong. You see it being portrayed in movies, tv shows, and other media outlets - women who do 'cheat' are always seen to be victims whereas men who are 'players' or have 'affairs' are seen as pigs and dirtbags....but they always forget to mention that these are the types of dudes that women love to be around! Everything is in reverse with the female mind..
Thats your western society problems in muslim or conservative countries when mariage forms a coupne its a link between their two families and its there to last
I've watched Rich's entire video. I was in a relationship with a woman for a long time. Never got married. We broke up after more than a decade of being together. What Rich had said in this video is very concerning. If I were to date again, according to Rich, the woman is likely seeing other men. Nothing new, but I'm used to being with one woman. With what Rich has said, I'd rather live alone. I don't want to go through the disappointment of thinking this one woman likes me, only to find out she has stopped talking to me because she was dating someone else, too, and chose that other guy. I don't really need a woman in my life, especially if we're going to go through a lot of arguing, whining, and nagging. I'll wait for the right one, and if I have to wait a lifetime, oh well.
If you date multiple women, the odds of that disappointment diminish. It sounds like you are going in too deep from the start. Whether she accepts you should be a secondary goal. The primary goal is to find the most acceptable one, to you. And the more women you date, the better your chances of that.
@@brunetteordie agreed that’s my game plan too and just be open to the other dates that your meeting other women too (that is if they ask since no obligations or commitments as Rich mentioned in the video..)
@@angiehitch6807 Thank you for that hope. I, myself, if I were to go out with a female, I'd be available to her only. I'm not going to go "female-shopping". Going female-shopping (dating) maybe the efficient way to go for a lot of guys and girls, but I wouldn't be able to do it. I've got hobbies, an important job, a house to clean, and last but not least, mental resetting (sleep) to do, that I don't have time to go out with several women. I understand I'm missing out on potential mates, but I'm not going to lose my mind over females.
@@joebeta1837 I am glad that there is good men out there like yourself joe! Not all women are like that. this is just insane This Society lacks morals/values it’s just shameful smh 🤦♀️
That is correct women are never single I tell my 26 Year old son she's not yours it's just your turn. Last year he met a 19 year old hottie at work they were having a very good relationship but she was headed off to college I told him to not get emotionally involved sure enough he found her in a hotel room with some guy from school It hit him hard but he learned a valuable lesson now hes taking after dear old dad
I liked this answer. I’m 34 no kids never married with plenty of options. Still I have this desire to find one women. That being said I usually feel guilt when going on multiple dates in a week toward a woman I was starting to like. I then find a woman I like more. This video makes me feel great about the path I’m on. Keep in mind once red pulled, blue pill tendencies always want to creep back in. I keep watching your videos to stay red pill strong
I’ve had my fill of crazies for the last few decades as well. It was like a parade of routine, useless broken American whores for 15 years. Now I have a peaceful, pleasant life with no lunatics or NPCs👍🏻✌🏻
i dont care if you are rich, middle class, poor, or even completely homeless vagrant. No woman is loyal completely, its not wise to totally devote yourself to one. Any time down the road she will blow it all up and leave you holding the bag.
"holding the bag" - like what? If they leave, NEXT and so on. Not sure her leaving or me leaving her would be any different. Just keep all financial items separate
It's crazy...I did this in high school and thought I found the one. I dated different girls but found one I put in all the effort with and we ended off on a bad note. Afterwards I stopped dating with effort entirely.(about 7 years) I'm not a big muscular guy or some rich kid, but this has been more of a hard wakeup call to the soul tbh. Like I got a little mad at myself because of how on point this is. You nailed it on the head though and I thank you for making this upload :)
....I've had many cars the last 32 years, but only 1 wife...we're both in our fifties, married at 21. So yeah, I'm the one who went all in on one. Love is much more than a pleasant emotional feeling. What did i get for that 32 years with the same woman...3 daughters, 1 son...2 sons in law, 1 daughter in law, 2 grandsons, and 1 granddaughter...all worth it, especially at the holidays
I know a guy that tells EVERY girl he goes with in the beginning " You are out of your mind if you think you are the only woman I am going to have sex with for the rest of my life ". Up front , no bullshit , no sleazing around when nobody is looking.
If I ever get back to dating, the only way I personally would get serious with a girl is if she erased all dating apps and social media. I don't know if that's asking too much, maybe she isn't posting sexy pics of herself and just uses it for whatever else you do on Instagram and others, and I'm not on any dating our social media. I don't know, woman have too much to pic from and I stand know chance it seems like. But I can stay solo and be fine
Women are never single, many of my dates already have a boyfriend or husband, at that time it didn't bother me, I enjoyed it and so did they. Listen to Cooper !!
The one thing I will say about this whole concept is that I know from experience that there are women who are the exception to the "women" concept here. It's my opinion that those are the women worth pursuing, and that the best way to make yourself ineligible for such a woman is to be a "player" in the sense that is being described here. And don't blind yourself to the logical fallacy that is, "sleep with every woman you can but a daughter shouldn't lower her value by sleeping with lots of guys". If guys are being players then women are being encouraged to lower their value. That's the end result of this. You think the music stops and you will have the high value woman... that's borderline psychopathic thinking. You're damaging yourselves and everyone else.
Exactly. This video is such backwards thinking. Spinning plates just complicates things and undermines any trust that could be built which is the basis of a LTR. No mutual trust no LTR. Just because this worked for him doesn't guarantee it'll work for everybody else. If I have to become a player to find the right person for me then I'll just stay single. People need to rethink their morals regarding dating. It shouldn't have to be this complicated and it should never be machiavellian. This dude's perpetuating the same toxic dating culture that has ruined dating and sustainment of relationships.
You've saved me. I was consciously expecting monogamy from a girl I've been dating for 5 months. When I should be coming at it from a point of abundance etc.
Spin plates? I can't even get one plate that I'm attracted to and feel desire for. I do get matches and have conversations with young attractive women, but then I ask for a date it is silence, sometimes they agree to a date and later then I want to schedule it's silence. Have no problem getting dates or hooking up with less attractive women, chubby/overweight women or foreign women. As I have no interest in them I put them on ignore.
Just made this mistake with a 32 year old single mom, I’m only 24 was only seeing each other for 4 months she ended it Monday and I agreed. Time to get back on the grind
WOW ive been spinning plates many times in my life and never knew I was doing that....I just thought it was the definition of DATING. Unless you both commit to each other or get engaged then there is nothing wrong with spinning plates or dating.
I find it really confusing and complicated dating multiple chicks at a time, can never remeber what I have told each one. Fuck it, just enjoy pluggin the one at a time, but I guess always have a backup plan
In short, men have to aim at a target of one. The most eligible candidate. In your city, in your areas of movement. Or being ready & open for a true mutual “fall”. Love exists. Love from God, the platonic love from family. Love is there but very very rare, but all you need is that one.
This is what it concerns me a bit with the red pillers..."men have to have concern to the women's sexual past". Sure, of course, for obvioulsy bio/psychological darwinistic reasons. But how can we come to peace terms with that fact, while spinning plates? My point is that red pillers are also part of the problem. It's like, they deny the "game" is good and all this hipergamy is bad and a pain in the ass for men, but they just want to accept the rules and in the end play the game too. It feels life a revengeful think that i saw som many red pillers in the past "i was a beta, no girl wanted me, i hate those playboys who spinned plates with them" but in the end they become the kind of guy that they hated the most and frustrated them so much in their teenage/young adult life. And then there's the condescendant argument of "my daugthers, i have a 12 caliber ready to protect their virginity", like really? Isn't that a bit ego centered? Rick told that he knows that's contraditory and would explain in anohter video...now i just have to find it. But imo, this hook up culture is basically fucking everything...no women are happy, it's fucking sad that a lot of women are sleeping with dozens of dudes, at the same time, it's hypocritical that red pillers will say that how shallow their behaviour is, but they also want to fuck a entire harem...and then, put in a swiss bank account a vestal virgin, trad wife and pick her when he wants to settle down. No one is perfect and i'm not looking for a medal for this, but, i know how fucked up is to see your love interest getting picked by another dude just because you were beta, shy or couldn't do shit to pick her interest, happens very much in highschool...and sometimes you saw that the guys just wanted to jump and dump, and ok, let's not sanctify women, bcz a lot are also just search for "fun". But it's hard when you knew the girl wanted a serious relationship and you wanted that too, but she picked up the other guy that was only there for the fun. That's why i never was the guy that would pick a girl just for some "rides" because i knew that could be another dude looking at that situation, like i was many times, getting heart broken bcz he really liked her and i would be just there for the casual sex. Of course that, for this becoming a norm must people would have to not think pretty much on their self pleasure and ego and that's quite hard since many of this stuff is human nature.
I'm proud of myself. In my earlier years, I saw the writing on the wall. I knew, marriage would be painful and explosive. I never got married. I was smart beyond my years. I'm proud of myself.
Here’s my issue with plate spinning; you’re ruining several females’ ability to pair bond with their future spouse. How can you expect to find decent women when you’re contributing to their downfall ?
I agree only if they are virgins. Almost always though, they have already whorified themselves. But yes I would not feel right deflowering a virgin girl under false pretenses. But zero sympathy if they've already made their own free choice to sleep around.
@@Flashback_Jack how fucked up we know western society is, is also being reflected in how fucked up their dating and marital relations are. You get videos like this that forms the new consensus on how to deal with women. But in societies where old traditions remain to some extent, these are problems with women you don't have to worry about. Then again, you also generally have masculine men in those kinds of relationships that keep their women in check at all times when it comes to even basic things in life. But it's not just the man, but social norms and values that also does it. We are so, so fucked up here it's sad.
Even in my youth when I didn't have a hard time finding women to date, I never wanted to "spin plates" as I don't like complicating my life further than it already is and I HATE drama. Dealing with one woman was always enough for me, and oftentimes it was more than enough. It must be exhausting for these alpha Chads out in the world to keep track of all these "plates" they are spinning and all the narratives that go along with that. Is it really worth all that effort?
most guys dont have a lot of options, so one crazy good looking one that actually likes you comes along, we are hooked, because ya never know when the next will come along.
my experience with dangerous women...2 woman when i was around 30 years really chased me. after a few weeks and dating i was like ok lets try a relation. after 1 week the 2 women were gone..ghosted me and I was not really intrested at the beginning 😂 when i said ok they got i was not the man that paid everything...i was not romantic but before it was all good for them. strange creatures some women
It seems so miserable when people try to make some "science" or "theories" about dating... No, just live actual life, have a real personality and great relationships will happen as you go through life. When guys create or read entire books about this stuff - it just reeks of desperation.
My thought is "spinning plates" is okay if you mean "not sleeping with them. Testing personality fit is cool. Sex is beyond that. Are you cool if a lady is spinning you that way? If so, okay I guess. I personally wouldn't have dated anyone like that. "Putting yourself first" with no thought for another is the opposite of healthy. It's Putin taking another country just because.
Well, women control access to sex while men control access to relationships and marriage. I dated for two years before I met the woman I am in a relationship with. During that two years, I dated close to 200 women and kept around 5 to 7 at a time. I make well into the six figure range, my house is paid off, and my monthly takehome income is 20k while I only spend about 3k. So I choose who will be in a relationship with me. I choose who I will marry. I have very high standards for the woman that I pick. So if you want to go spin plates, feel free. Dating is not fair and not equal. There are many double standards for both men and women. Would I pick a woman who does what I do? Nope, sure wouldn't. I don't have to.
@@robchurch881 I can respect that. You are right about the gateway. In every culture since the first recorded one, men stopped marrying when women stopped refusing sex outside of marriage. That generally marked the last stage of the culture before collapse. It's a recurring historical trend. To me, it doesn't say just that women are to blame. It says also that men are prone to do evil and reject responsibility if women allow don't give a motive to behave in the better interestof society. That speaks pretty poorly of us, considering we keep wanting to lead in relationships. Both sides have a part. I'd have to admit that the decline trend is not likely to come out ifferent this time. But, it is evil. As an individual, you have a choice to go with the flow and take what you can get along the fall or to step up and reject it. You may even stand alone, but at least you'll be standing. That's a really hard choice in a time when it is not largely rewarded. It if is encouraging, God promises in Psalm 91 that He can bring you to an upright partner even in a culture on fire. It's tough to trust and step out of the decline though. I know, because I did it. Went from never being without a date to having 3 years alone. But, I found a wife who was like me. Been married 26 years. Worth considering. I totally get your position though. Plenty of women will not reward your choice if you decide to start representing the better ideal.
@@foroneanotherwinningtogeth1142 interesting to read this in a text. As a follower of Christ, His followers are warned to refrain from and flee fornication. And that sex is reserved for marriage. Not what "the world" prefers to adhere too. Much to their detriment. John 14:6-7.
@@Ace.0.0.0. Yes, you could view it that way. In theory it is possible. I have found it really hard to treat others well when my default thinking is "me first". So I'm not really able to do it. Jesus said to put Him first and trust him with our needs. Matthew 6:33 said He will help us put the needs of others first without losing that we need. So far so good. I don't lack anything that matters. Thst doesn't mean I'm not tempted to treat some really rotten people badly. I totally am.
Well actually, when I bought my first car, I picked it up exactly like that. No comparison needed, outright picked it, cause I fell in love with it on the first sight. - Guess I am lost xD
Right high value men do this thing and it is the right way to choose the right girl to marry. My cousin has been doing this trick since his teens and now I have understood the matter.
That’s what I don’t like about modern women today, that they are “dating” a lot of guys at once. So I’m not going to do what bothers me to a woman I date. However, with that said I won’t go all in too early, until I know the relationship has a real chance to be a solid relationship. That’s not to say, I won’t talk and flirt with other women, of course I will… but I’m only dating one and sleeping with one (again because I hate that when women do it, sleep with several guys ongoing).
Got your book and now reading it the second time and now sharing them with my sons. I’ve been washing and neatly ironing red flags for years in the name of love as a beta mail 😂😂 thanks Rich
what he’s not talking about is how EXPENSIVE this is. dating one woman is a $200 a month bill. dating 3? you better be making GOOD money. and most men are not.
This video scared me a bit and gave me a feeling that everybody, both females and males, should just go on many dates with multiple people until they figure out what kind of person they would like to be with and until they find a suitable partner. For me, it sounds like a lot of heartbreak waiting to happen. I would like to share an experience of a male friend of mine whom I have a lot of respect for. He said he used to hang out with many girls, but always in a public setting and never go on romantic dates until it was made clear by both parties that they had a serious romantic interest towards each other. A public setting would mean training together outdoors or in a gym, participating in local charity events, doing activities together, not just stopping by an event, etc., and having lunch sometimes (with the girl paying for her own food). This way, he had a chance to get to know the girls, their personalities, their views on different things, etc., without giving them false hope of getting a boyfriend/sugar daddy or just free entertainment and a free meal. The girls took it well and liked being in his company because he just offered a good time. He never went out with the ones that expected him to be the only one to pay for entertainment. He wasn’t a ladies' man, the kind that had a new girl every night. He simply formed friendships when he met someone interesting and had a respectable reputation. But when he found out that both had romantic interest in mind, he stopped hanging out with the other ladies and became exclusive. I admire his approach to interacting with women. I’ve had some acquaintances who tried to go out with (almost) every female they met. Honestly, they gave me the impression that they were never really interested in their dates. I could not imagine myself in a situation where a guy I’m interested in keeps going out with other girls until we decide we’re exclusive. It would make me feel like today it’s me, tomorrow it’s someone else. I wouldn’t even consider such guys in my life. But, in my opinion, my friend’s approach was very respectful, and I wouldn’t mind if my romantic interest behaved similarly. I considered this gentlemanly behavior.
When did this pussification become endemic? I like most of your insights….I’m dumbfounded by how some even not so young guys struggle with getting or keeping a women. The pursuance of excellence ie money and and life acumen is paramount…all the rest will follow. Best not to clutter ones path prior to having the station in sight. Keep telling the story…..
Most men don't understand that as a man you have a certain energy when you have your shit together. Its attractive to women. When you have nothing going on, it gives off needy energy. This repels women.
Exactly, I mean as a guy if your getting 3,4 maybe 5 messages on a dating site just imagine how many She is getting. I mean you have to play the game yourself and keep a few on the line incase the one you want doesn't go out with you.
This is so sad. There’s still good men and women out here. I was raised by both my parents and saw my mom cheat on my dad. I saw how it destroyed him. I would never want to do that to any man I’m supposed to be with. I’m 32 years old and never cheated even when I’ve been cheated on. If all men have the same mindset as you and what you’re teaching, I’d rather be single.
That’s what happens when men are dipping in multiple women. They can’t love. It’s callous. I’m not sure where the women who are 30 who have had sex with 100 men are but his taste seems to be only that type of female. Porn ruined much.
same for me..i resented my mom for cheating on my dad...my kids cheer my ex for cheating on me, and then blame me for all their problems..lol...go figure.
Improve yourself, work on making more money. What else do you have to do? Play video games? I have taught at least ten younger guys how to make six figures without getting a college degree. Do you have any idea how bad the country needs electricians right now? How bad the country needs HVAC workers? Plumbers? I live in the Seattle area and these companies are so hard up for employees, they are starting apprentices at 30 an hour. A journey level electrician is making 75 an hour. This is the easiest time in the US to get to a six figure income.
@@robchurch881 I work in wastewater treatment and we get offers to join plumbing companies and the private sector as well. You can make alot of Money . But really you have to hit the gym
I found your channel last night and have been watching ever since. I've read the work of Neil Strauss as a teenager, but your stuff is really speaking to me as an adult especially this video. I ran into a relationship with a woman 6 years ago, and safe to say long story short my life ended up utterly destroyed. 3 kids later, I love them to death but I've been trying to rebuild my life for almost a year basically, and I think your content may help me so I just wanted to say thank you.
“Date, fuck multiple women…but don’t screw up your life!” Isn’t that the best way to screw up your life? When you have multiple people in the mix, the more drama you give energy to.
In Romania, it is assumed you are dating exclusively once you start taking a girl out. If she sees you with another, she'll consider it cheating, even if you're not committed to each other, like, officially.
Not every woman cheats.. but yes women have more options as more selection versus Men . HOWEVER just because we have more options remember quantity isn't always quality.. I have been on many dates with Men that told me straight to my face I just want a friends with benefits.. I think when two people are honest it goes better. BUT when you play games with people that's when It can get messy because someone almost always gets hurt...
Marriage with the right woman is a blessing and a joyful life. You’ll end up alone, lonely, depressed if you chase money, status, career goals, etc. By the time you wake up you’re 50 and life has passed you by. We were meant to form families and raise children. This pursuit of “individualism” has ruined the lives of both men and women.
I work a lot, and I don’t have time even for one woman, but how can I date more than one?? I broke up with my ex because she demanded that I spend more time with her, but I didn’t have time to spend, and now I’m finally unleashed and work like crazy, start a business, etc. What’s your advice for guys like me, achievers dedicated to their purpose. I just need peace in my life and a woman that supports me and handles all household chores and raises my kids while I’m out there in the open world grinding on my purpose and bringing money to the family. I don’t and will never have time for multiple women… Please advice me, I’m really frustrated
I was waiting for him to mention his car. So happy he didn’t disappoint. I haven’t (and won’t) read his book, but when he mentions a woman’s “notch count” as being too high, is he equitable in being critical to a man’s high “notch count” as well?
Exactly. A man with options finally upgrades himself to the mindset of abundance, a place women inhabit as soon as they realise what they can get through male attention. Non-exclusivity is their natural state, getting there as a man reduces the risks of getting One-itis and destroying your life.
I am both polygamous and hypergamous: and with my CV, I simply stand my place. Plus I am very romantic and extremely masculine. Not a problem is I ignore silly opinions of others who disappreciate me and are rude to me.
No. You see that means taking a break. It's not cheating he agreed! Have orgies and then if none of the 5 dudes are a Chad she can always go back to the bf/husband and she got to try out guilt free to see if she could monkey branch
I have been happily married for 25 years and trusted my wife implicitly as she had never given a hint that she might delve into infidelity with another man. She went to the east coast to visit grandchildren and while she was gone, I was preparing our boat for crab season. I had an older iPad that was hers and she had given it to me after she got a new one. It was practically Usless because it was too old. I thought I might be able to use it in conjunction with GPS on the boat. II opened it and soon found that it was still connected and signed into her email, text messages and face book. To my shock, I found emails and messenger communications with a former boyfriend from 1968 as well as a former coworker from the 1970s. The content was rather innocuous, just catching up,discussing family and careers . The former boyfriend lived in Texas and the former coworker lived in California so there was no physical contact that I am aware of. My wife searched out these two through Facebook in March 2011. The boyfriend subsequently died from a brain tumor and the coworker still resided in CA. I discovered this correspondence in May 2021 and unfortunately, I called my wife and told her that I found the correspondence and was more that upset about it. Looking back on it, I should have continued to monitor activity but with her on the east coast I imagined that maybe she planned to meet him as he was looking for property in TN at the time. Instantly, she claimed he was only a “friend” and the contact was only greetings on birthdays or holidays. This was the first lie as I had in front of me probably a hundred emails and messenger comments that covered just over ten years. As I said, the comments were pretty innocuous, however, as time went by his and her comments became more and more sensual, saying “ think of you often“, still beautiful, love your photos, and little red hearts began appearing at the conclusion of the messages. There reached a point where they were setting up Messenger’s secret message complete with each other’s keys for access. After I approached her, she promised to terminate all contact, however she was expecting an email from him announcing his new address in TN. Well, on July 04, 2021, that message arrived with the new address. He said at the end of the message,”let’s keep in touch” however, she responded “YES!” Then shortly after, I was looking through her address book and under a female friend’s address in TN, I found that she had written his new address in TN under the female friend’s and wrote it so that appeared that the friend had moved to a new location. Had I not memorized his address, it would have gone unnoticed. So here we are a year later and so far as I am able to determine, there has been no contact. I find that curious however, I sent him a thanksgiving card last year and said that if I found any hint of contact between them, my wife would not like the consequences. She deeply loves our home here deep in a cedar forest and the result of all this is that we are staying together and I am trying to get passed the destruction that has occurred as a result of this affair. I am thankful that distance prevented actual physical involvement (as best as I can determine). I will never trust her again and will always closely monitor her activities .
Hmmm....strongly advise you to realize who women really are, were, and will be. They are scheming opportunists who think they should have immunity invoked with a smile. Women are the best pathological liars, thieves, bimbos, and con artists that you would never ever suspect. Never ever waste energy on a women anymore than you would with a house cat-pet. If your cat left your yard and was seen at the neighbor's house where the cat was petted....would you get upset? That's what cats do. They belong to themselves. There is nothing you can do with a cat except understand who they are.
My ex wife went from being with me for 26 years to moving in with her boyfriend in two months. I thanked him and send him a cigar and flowers every divorce anniversary
This is a mistake I made in the past, becoming too invested in one girl too quickly. It's a terrible mistake to make but I did learn from it. I always date and talk to multiple girls at once now, and they are plentiful. Another lesson I learned which Rich touched on in this video is, the woman should always be the one who asks to become exclusive. If she wants me to stop spinning plates and just be with her she has to ask me and accept my response. A man should never ask a woman to become exclusive. She must always be required to come to him.
One thing I've learned about women is there is ALWAYS another guy. I don't care how strong you think your relationship is. She has a few Chads in her phone who she'll go to if you piss her off. Chad doesn't care if she's your girlfriend or wife. He'll invite her over to "chill".
If she does that dump her. Women with no integrity will drop you in a second. Not all women. True there is an orbiter but girls with morals will give you a shot. If she has any history or is dishonest who she is texting DUMP her! Seriously if she is a liar she is Chad chasing
This guy I know said his ex girlfriend who's 24 has a house and a kid with her boyfriend and she's still messaging him on the low about "meeting up", even though he's in a relationship and also has a kid now. It's insane how girls will never be happy with what they've got, and not only that, they also see that their ex is in a relationship and has a kid, but still shoot their shot.
They’re all dating that same dude, you know the one you’re striving to become, except they are there already, whether born into it or made the money moves
gentleman this guy only knows half the story. society stopped setting you up for success. you should only trust half of what he says. it would be easier if he was total bullshit. but he’s not. bless you guys who are also focusing on yourself to be better to increase your personal MMV. you have to work way harder and be way luckier to end up with a successful marriage. i once talked to a discouraged party chick about the power of sex; the only force powerful enough to create humans. She replied that “sometimes sex is just sex. no big deal.” She was dumbfounded when i asked her “its no surprise that sex can lose its power; but after its lost its power, how does it get it back?” if anyone does read his book, read the bible too. take the hypergamy from him and your understanding of the bonding power of sex from the bible.
" the average Joe downloads a dating app, gets a match then he goes all in on that girl" That's because the average Joe is lucky to get even a single match on the apps.
"Women are never single." So simple, yet so true. You're always on a "The Bachelorette" dating show, you just don't realize that. They are always, at the VERY least, talking to 2-3 guys. And that's at the VERY least. It's usually many more.
Wow! I’m shocked that the men in these comments actually think this about women. Maybe I’m a strange woman or especially ugly lol but I am not talking to or dating any man and I haven’t for nearly 3 years. Men never approach me so I never go on dates or get asked for my number… maybe other women out there are sluts but please don’t think we all are. Also everything this guy is saying about men being is scarcity mind set and getting played by women is the exact same for women. Yes we should all date multiple people when it’s strictly just dating, but I can assure you when a woman is into a man she has no interest in other men. She might pretend she has if she feels the man doesn’t feel the same… but honestly not all women are like what this guy describes.
Hi! This Is a blanket statement. This channel seems negative and paranoid. Just be a nice person and date nice women and have the exclusivity talk when you (or her) realize they are different and special to you so you can lock them down.
When I was dating I never wanted a “girlfriend” or a “relationship” because I knew of this as a teenager. Pay attention, see the signs, and don’t let a nice pair throw you off your goals.
This is so true. I was with a woman for 2 years and we stopped talking for 2 months and we ended up talking again and she admitted to me she went on 8 dates with 8 different men. I was shocked… either she had those men as back up or she was serial dating whoever asked her to date. Either way it turned me off and made me realize women r for the community now.. I never took any woman serious since. Thanks for the message!
Every ex girlfriend or afair I had was immediately dating other guys or even got a relationship the next weeks or months after our break up. She is never yours, it's only your turn.
@@aspalt228gold doesn’t matter if she was single. The fact that she bounced around like that within 2 months shows there’s a possibility of her collecting more bodies to her count matters and is a complete turn off.
@@blair5475 oh I already know that I’m 34 years old I’ve been in the market long enough to know how these women operate. I am not a bird brain to this here game
i call on ALL men to delete all dating apps ... uninstall them all. it's time to take our choices back and this is a good place to start. watch what happens
I found out recently that there’s less males than females. This means males are more valuable and more rare. WHY THE FUCK are males acting like females are the rare treasure?!?!
“Women choose who they sleep with and men sleep with who they can.” Unless if the man is top tier, most guys will have a starving mindset with women. Most men may already know she is not the best option but will try to justify and complicate their life by force fitting her.
Thats why its important for a man to have things going for him. Not to impress women but there is a certain type of energy that women find attractive when a man is on his purpose.
Yeah, can't have that, for real. I've got standards for a woman, and I do my own stuff on the side. If she doesn't meet them then I'm not gonna beg or try to "change her", just move on. If it means a long search through dozens of them, so be it, but I'm not gonna waste my time with a woman who's not a decent human being
@@targetegrat Yep, true. I've got goals and ideals in mind, and while a great wife would be ideal for my plans to hopefully have kids, well, women won't be my priority as of now. Definitely have stuff going for me right now, for real 💯 so if any women want in on it later on, they gotta make the effort too. Men need to have higher standards, ask for what they're worth, cause many men undervalue themselves, and it's tragic
I see this line "Women are never single" everywhere and it's not that it's wrong, but there is one word at the beginning, that's always missing and it's "attractive".
I guess those do not count because those who are not attractive (at least in Eastern or in Central Europe) are not even visible. They are like ghosts, most men do not even see them even if they come to their face literally.
Ah no, you see, (pardon my prejudice) you will find that the fat goth girl is already married to a celebrity in her dreams, like a stalker, because of her inner beauty and chutzpah. There is a bonus layer, which is that you can make jokes with the less attractive ladies - they are allowed a sense of humour by the women's groups. Now... how's about this as an idea - why not go watch dating advice for women by women, if you really want to get the psychology... Don't listen to this guy, he's perfectly horrible. I am a fat lesbians. I'm not* but I might be** in fact I speak with the voice of the almighty, buried in my thighs, it's almighty nice to pull the left of the cosmos until the joke falls off (cue: "the front fell off" by Clarke and Dawe about concealment of negligence in the mining industry... mine's a conflict mineral hidden in a smartphone saying "help! Help! Get me out of here! It's haunted!"
Most guys really do need to realise that most women will always be in communication with other guys, even ones that are in relationships or married. It could be an ex or a potential future conquest, or even just a thirsty admirer they will communicate with to get some kind of validation. It was also a great point about the social media of women, as social media accounts for men and women are completely different. The only way most guys could understand this would be if they were to create a female profile to see what it’s like then be shocked by the tons of daily messages from thirsty strangers saying they love you and want to talk to you and of course loads of dick pics. It is a totally different world, and that’s why women get so addicted especially to things like Instagram as it gives them the validation they need so bad. Another thing I think guys need to understand is that most if not all women could go and be intimate with another guy and not give a damn about you or how you feel. As they are just acting on emotion in the moment, this is why a lot of guys struggle to go with other women. As they are not programmed that way. It’s kind of true what they say about Cats being like women as you can try to keep one as a pet but the minute it gets outside it will just go and find a better parent/family who will take care of it and give it all it needs. Where as dogs are more loyal like men for the most part. And don’t ever think they are sweet and innocent either. Just some good pointers.
@@dogsandyoga1743 He does...belongs right in the streets with his logic. It's just red pilled nonsense that these clown dudes want to hear to justify their trash behavior.
@@georgesontag2192 at what point do you determine to let one or two of them go? Especially if you are searching for a wife. It shouldn't take that long to figure out if some is compatible or worthy.
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I'm older and never had half these problems with exception of a very youthful "one-ittis" and shy around girls I liked--going promiscuous for a few yrs cured all that....put book in shopping cart finally anyway. :D
Dating IS the mistake!! U are like an atheist schilling for the Vatican!! U know nothing is there so why bother?
i would realy like to know.. you say men go and date multiple woman.. but woman dont date multiple men.. you said its another topic.. i would realy like to hear that.
@@soydansogukcesme470 He said "'it's a given that women ARE dating multiple men'"...how'd you manage to get that backwards?
You will never achieve happiness through a woman. Find your life purpose and go fo it. Women will follow, if not, you'll still be happy
Best comment I've seen here so far.
Well said brother!!!
Untrue… married my high school sweetheart at 20 years old, best decision I ever made. She is a massive source of my happiness!
@@zbrown72 but not true for all of us.
True for men and women
There was a joke about a woman telling another woman about her dream: "I want a man to be handsome, rich, athletic, witty, popular, good dresser, good f*ker, generious, I want him to love my children and to love me, to be faithful and devoted; but the main thing is I do not want all those men to know about each other".
Original🙄 ......wow
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They got betas during the week and Alphas on the weekends too.
Looking for Mr Right is more of Mr Right now
@@metalmike570they also make rules for betas and break rules for alphas
One thing I learned in life so far: No girl is so perfect that she cant be replaced. If she isnt treating you right, its better to see the red flags early rather than realizing 5 years later that she lost interest in you 4.5 years ago. Talking from experience. Those are some hard life lessons. If a girl makes you feel bad, leave. I left a girl after pining over her for 4 years. She was pretty and charming but she wasnt interested in a relationship. I wanted to be with her but realized that I had to go to protect myself and create new opportunities elsewhere. Since then, I never fell in the same trap again.
Abundance mindset.
Chuck norris doesn't date. He makes children by himself.
Great job man,, god bless😤😤💪🏽👏🏽
Yeah that's a bad sign right there: If you're pining, she's not synchronizing and you want her too much.
The more desperate and horny you are, the harder that will be. You will never get rid of horny, so you have to work on being desperate. TBH, most dudes won't be able to pull this off, and then they will be bitter and angry about blowing their chances.
What a disgrace!!! Comparing starting a relationship with a women with buying a new car. Cars are sacred man.
Lol
Had me in the first half.
ironically everyone's grandparents did courting. It was basically radical ruthless plate spinning. only difference was no one got physical or if they did it was on the lowdown.
Why men are so resistant to the idea that women can never be trusted because they are always open to the next best deal…. Blows my mind! Stop! Giving you undying loyalty to someone who will never earn it is just silly!!
Because men love idealistically and think women work the same way. It's the romantic lie that was sold to men because it greatly benefits women.
That's because they (woman) are made out to be perfectly innocent 'angels' that can do no wrong. You see it being portrayed in movies, tv shows, and other media outlets - women who do 'cheat' are always seen to be victims whereas men who are 'players' or have 'affairs' are seen as pigs and dirtbags....but they always forget to mention that these are the types of dudes that women love to be around! Everything is in reverse with the female mind..
Thats your western society problems in muslim or conservative countries when mariage forms a coupne its a link between their two families and its there to last
Underrated comment.
Trust, commitment, respect are EARNED.
That which is not earned is not valued.
@@amrdel2730 western society is so degenerate and fucked up, its crazy...that kinda of society can't last long
I've watched Rich's entire video. I was in a relationship with a woman for a long time. Never got married. We broke up after more than a decade of being together.
What Rich had said in this video is very concerning. If I were to date again, according to Rich, the woman is likely seeing other men. Nothing new, but I'm used to being with one woman.
With what Rich has said, I'd rather live alone. I don't want to go through the disappointment of thinking this one woman likes me, only to find out she has stopped talking to me because she was dating someone else, too, and chose that other guy.
I don't really need a woman in my life, especially if we're going to go through a lot of arguing, whining, and nagging.
I'll wait for the right one, and if I have to wait a lifetime, oh well.
If you date multiple women, the odds of that disappointment diminish. It sounds like you are going in too deep from the start. Whether she accepts you should be a secondary goal. The primary goal is to find the most acceptable one, to you. And the more women you date, the better your chances of that.
@@brunetteordie agreed that’s my game plan too and just be open to the other dates that your meeting other women too (that is if they ask since no obligations or commitments as Rich mentioned in the video..)
Rich is wrong. There are truly single women who aren't talking to multiple guys.
@@angiehitch6807 Thank you for that hope. I, myself, if I were to go out with a female, I'd be available to her only. I'm not going to go "female-shopping". Going female-shopping (dating) maybe the efficient way to go for a lot of guys and girls, but I wouldn't be able to do it. I've got hobbies, an important job, a house to clean, and last but not least, mental resetting (sleep) to do, that I don't have time to go out with several women. I understand I'm missing out on potential mates, but I'm not going to lose my mind over females.
@@joebeta1837 I am glad that there is good men out there like yourself joe! Not all women are like that. this is just insane
This Society lacks morals/values it’s just shameful smh 🤦♀️
That is correct women are never single I tell my 26 Year old son she's not yours it's just your turn. Last year he met a 19 year old hottie at work they were having a very good relationship but she was headed off to college I told him to not get emotionally involved sure enough he found her in a hotel room with some guy from school It hit him hard but he learned a valuable lesson now hes taking after dear old dad
I liked this answer. I’m 34 no kids never married with plenty of options. Still I have this desire to find one women. That being said I usually feel guilt when going on multiple dates in a week toward a woman I was starting to like. I then find a woman I like more. This video makes me feel great about the path I’m on. Keep in mind once red pulled, blue pill tendencies always want to creep back in. I keep watching your videos to stay red pill strong
Caffeinate the hamster in her head. :D
...and read the Rational Male book by Rollo Tomassi.
I'm exactly like this. But I take my dose of the pill every other time. I don't want to be a playa but it's the world we live in. The game begat us.
Same. Meeting the bitches parents today. And I’m just thinking about all the guys who ran through that didn’t meet them
women do what you do all the time! you are good, man!
As a woman i can say this is 100% true for high value women
I agree with this. High-value women are less humbled.
I'm glad I'm at the point where I don't even care to spin plates. Most of them are already broken anyways.
That's what u men do to women .don't complain about brokenness.
I’ve had my fill of crazies for the last few decades as well. It was like a parade of routine, useless broken American whores for 15 years. Now I have a peaceful, pleasant life with no lunatics or NPCs👍🏻✌🏻
IN STOICISM....IT SAID " DO NOT TO CHASE AFTER WOMEN BUT CHASE AFTER EXCELLENCE"
i dont care if you are rich, middle class, poor, or even completely homeless vagrant. No woman is loyal completely, its not wise to totally devote yourself to one. Any time down the road she will blow it all up and leave you holding the bag.
"holding the bag" - like what? If they leave, NEXT and so on. Not sure her leaving or me leaving her would be any different. Just keep all financial items separate
@@DrAJ_LatinAmerica - I think he's talking about married women.
@@Lvatopesado right. That the reason for a prenup : ) let them leave. Next. Have three or four or five wives. What is the issue?
That’s some real talk. Don’t lock in too fast. Don’t lock in with your emotions. Create options and date different women.
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I locked in too fast. Wasted a lot of time. Now I know.😮
It's crazy...I did this in high school and thought I found the one.
I dated different girls but found one I put in all the effort with and we ended off on a bad note.
Afterwards I stopped dating with effort entirely.(about 7 years) I'm not a big muscular guy or some rich kid, but this has been more of a hard wakeup call to the soul tbh. Like I got a little mad at myself because of how on point this is.
You nailed it on the head though and I thank you for making this upload :)
....I've had many cars the last 32 years, but only 1 wife...we're both in our fifties, married at 21. So yeah, I'm the one who went all in on one. Love is much more than a pleasant emotional feeling. What did i get for that 32 years with the same woman...3 daughters, 1 son...2 sons in law, 1 daughter in law, 2 grandsons, and 1 granddaughter...all worth it, especially at the holidays
I know a guy that tells EVERY girl he goes with in the beginning " You are out of your mind if you think you are the only woman I am going to have sex with for the rest of my life ". Up front , no bullshit , no sleazing around when nobody is looking.
If I ever get back to dating, the only way I personally would get serious with a girl is if she erased all dating apps and social media. I don't know if that's asking too much, maybe she isn't posting sexy pics of herself and just uses it for whatever else you do on Instagram and others, and I'm not on any dating our social media. I don't know, woman have too much to pic from and I stand know chance it seems like. But I can stay solo and be fine
Women are never single, many of my dates already have a boyfriend or husband, at that time it didn't bother me, I enjoyed it and so did they. Listen to Cooper !!
Interesting show. Much love from Lusaka Zambia. Africa is watching
The one thing I will say about this whole concept is that I know from experience that there are women who are the exception to the "women" concept here. It's my opinion that those are the women worth pursuing, and that the best way to make yourself ineligible for such a woman is to be a "player" in the sense that is being described here.
And don't blind yourself to the logical fallacy that is, "sleep with every woman you can but a daughter shouldn't lower her value by sleeping with lots of guys". If guys are being players then women are being encouraged to lower their value. That's the end result of this. You think the music stops and you will have the high value woman... that's borderline psychopathic thinking. You're damaging yourselves and everyone else.
This comment speaks volumes and the truth about what this video is encouraging.
amen : )
Exactly. This video is such backwards thinking. Spinning plates just complicates things and undermines any trust that could be built which is the basis of a LTR. No mutual trust no LTR. Just because this worked for him doesn't guarantee it'll work for everybody else. If I have to become a player to find the right person for me then I'll just stay single. People need to rethink their morals regarding dating. It shouldn't have to be this complicated and it should never be machiavellian. This dude's perpetuating the same toxic dating culture that has ruined dating and sustainment of relationships.
I just can’t be bothered talking to low value girls right now and developing a ‘relationship’ with them, I’m on the GRIND 💪
My Brotha literally about to drop a chick cause she's a distraction to the hustle!!!
You've saved me. I was consciously expecting monogamy from a girl I've been dating for 5 months. When I should be coming at it from a point of abundance etc.
The sexual revelution and family court laws make modern marrage extremely dangerous.
Spin plates? I can't even get one plate that I'm attracted to and feel desire for. I do get matches and have conversations with young attractive women, but then I ask for a date it is silence, sometimes they agree to a date and later then I want to schedule it's silence.
Have no problem getting dates or hooking up with less attractive women, chubby/overweight women or foreign women. As I have no interest in them I put them on ignore.
Just got "The Unplugged Alpha" on Audible, look forward to listening to it.
Just made this mistake with a 32 year old single mom, I’m only 24 was only seeing each other for 4 months she ended it Monday and I agreed.
Time to get back on the grind
WOW ive been spinning plates many times in my life and never knew I was doing that....I just thought it was the definition of DATING. Unless you both commit to each other or get engaged then there is nothing wrong with spinning plates or dating.
Just remember: Abraham and Isaac had multiple baby mommas
I find it really confusing and complicated dating multiple chicks at a time, can never remeber what I have told each one. Fuck it, just enjoy pluggin the one at a time, but I guess always have a backup plan
In short, men have to aim at a target of one. The most eligible candidate. In your city, in your areas of movement. Or being ready & open for a true mutual “fall”. Love exists. Love from God, the platonic love from family. Love is there but very very rare, but all you need is that one.
This is what it concerns me a bit with the red pillers..."men have to have concern to the women's sexual past". Sure, of course, for obvioulsy bio/psychological darwinistic reasons. But how can we come to peace terms with that fact, while spinning plates? My point is that red pillers are also part of the problem. It's like, they deny the "game" is good and all this hipergamy is bad and a pain in the ass for men, but they just want to accept the rules and in the end play the game too. It feels life a revengeful think that i saw som many red pillers in the past "i was a beta, no girl wanted me, i hate those playboys who spinned plates with them" but in the end they become the kind of guy that they hated the most and frustrated them so much in their teenage/young adult life. And then there's the condescendant argument of "my daugthers, i have a 12 caliber ready to protect their virginity", like really? Isn't that a bit ego centered? Rick told that he knows that's contraditory and would explain in anohter video...now i just have to find it.
But imo, this hook up culture is basically fucking everything...no women are happy, it's fucking sad that a lot of women are sleeping with dozens of dudes, at the same time, it's hypocritical that red pillers will say that how shallow their behaviour is, but they also want to fuck a entire harem...and then, put in a swiss bank account a vestal virgin, trad wife and pick her when he wants to settle down. No one is perfect and i'm not looking for a medal for this, but, i know how fucked up is to see your love interest getting picked by another dude just because you were beta, shy or couldn't do shit to pick her interest, happens very much in highschool...and sometimes you saw that the guys just wanted to jump and dump, and ok, let's not sanctify women, bcz a lot are also just search for "fun". But it's hard when you knew the girl wanted a serious relationship and you wanted that too, but she picked up the other guy that was only there for the fun. That's why i never was the guy that would pick a girl just for some "rides" because i knew that could be another dude looking at that situation, like i was many times, getting heart broken bcz he really liked her and i would be just there for the casual sex. Of course that, for this becoming a norm must people would have to not think pretty much on their self pleasure and ego and that's quite hard since many of this stuff is human nature.
I've gotten to the point where I'd rather just be single.Tired of the BS.
I'm proud of myself. In my earlier years, I saw the writing on the wall. I knew, marriage would be painful and explosive. I never got married. I was smart beyond my years. I'm proud of myself.
I’m amazed so many men simply put this much time and effort into dating in general.
Here’s my issue with plate spinning; you’re ruining several females’ ability to pair bond with their future spouse. How can you expect to find decent women when you’re contributing to their downfall ?
All this gamesmanship are character faults of western women. European and Asian women often don't BS men like this.
@@Flashback_Jack I’ll agree with that. But who allowed western women to begin acting like that in the first place? Weak western men
Women make the market, men only abide by the rules women set.
I agree only if they are virgins. Almost always though, they have already whorified themselves. But yes I would not feel right deflowering a virgin girl under false pretenses. But zero sympathy if they've already made their own free choice to sleep around.
@@Flashback_Jack how fucked up we know western society is, is also being reflected in how fucked up their dating and marital relations are. You get videos like this that forms the new consensus on how to deal with women. But in societies where old traditions remain to some extent, these are problems with women you don't have to worry about. Then again, you also generally have masculine men in those kinds of relationships that keep their women in check at all times when it comes to even basic things in life. But it's not just the man, but social norms and values that also does it. We are so, so fucked up here it's sad.
I’d say “hot women” are never single. The others are…
She doesn’t need to be hot. Even moderately attractive women have many options.
Very true
Even a dam 2 got options these days!
Even in my youth when I didn't have a hard time finding women to date, I never wanted to "spin plates" as I don't like complicating my life further than it already is and I HATE drama. Dealing with one woman was always enough for me, and oftentimes it was more than enough.
It must be exhausting for these alpha Chads out in the world to keep track of all these "plates" they are spinning and all the narratives that go along with that. Is it really worth all that effort?
most guys dont have a lot of options, so one crazy good looking one that actually likes you comes along, we are hooked, because ya never know when the next will come along.
my experience with dangerous women...2 woman when i was around 30 years really chased me. after a few weeks and dating i was like ok lets try a relation. after 1 week the 2 women were gone..ghosted me and I was not really intrested at the beginning 😂 when i said ok they got i was not the man that paid everything...i was not romantic but before it was all good for them. strange creatures some women
All single women I have met got this one guy that they would never let go.
Be that guy or forget it.
It seems so miserable when people try to make some "science" or "theories" about dating... No, just live actual life, have a real personality and great relationships will happen as you go through life. When guys create or read entire books about this stuff - it just reeks of desperation.
My thought is "spinning plates" is okay if you mean "not sleeping with them. Testing personality fit is cool.
Sex is beyond that. Are you cool if a lady is spinning you that way? If so, okay I guess. I personally wouldn't have dated anyone like that.
"Putting yourself first" with no thought for another is the opposite of healthy. It's Putin taking another country just because.
Well, women control access to sex while men control access to relationships and marriage. I dated for two years before I met the woman I am in a relationship with. During that two years, I dated close to 200 women and kept around 5 to 7 at a time. I make well into the six figure range, my house is paid off, and my monthly takehome income is 20k while I only spend about 3k.
So I choose who will be in a relationship with me. I choose who I will marry. I have very high standards for the woman that I pick. So if you want to go spin plates, feel free. Dating is not fair and not equal. There are many double standards for both men and women. Would I pick a woman who does what I do? Nope, sure wouldn't. I don't have to.
@@robchurch881 I can respect that. You are right about the gateway. In every culture since the first recorded one, men stopped marrying when women stopped refusing sex outside of marriage. That generally marked the last stage of the culture before collapse. It's a recurring historical trend.
To me, it doesn't say just that women are to blame. It says also that men are prone to do evil and reject responsibility if women allow don't give a motive to behave in the better interestof society. That speaks pretty poorly of us, considering we keep wanting to lead in relationships. Both sides have a part.
I'd have to admit that the decline trend is not likely to come out ifferent this time. But, it is evil.
As an individual, you have a choice to go with the flow and take what you can get along the fall or to step up and reject it. You may even stand alone, but at least you'll be standing.
That's a really hard choice in a time when it is not largely rewarded. It if is encouraging, God promises in Psalm 91 that He can bring you to an upright partner even in a culture on fire. It's tough to trust and step out of the decline though. I know, because I did it. Went from never being without a date to having 3 years alone. But, I found a wife who was like me. Been married 26 years.
Worth considering. I totally get your position though. Plenty of women will not reward your choice if you decide to start representing the better ideal.
@@foroneanotherwinningtogeth1142 interesting to read this in a text.
As a follower of Christ, His followers are warned to refrain from and flee fornication. And that sex is reserved for marriage. Not what "the world" prefers to adhere too. Much to their detriment.
John 14:6-7.
The proper thing to do is to put yourself first, AND don't trash others.
@@Ace.0.0.0. Yes, you could view it that way. In theory it is possible.
I have found it really hard to treat others well when my default thinking is "me first". So I'm not really able to do it. Jesus said to put Him first and trust him with our needs. Matthew 6:33 said He will help us put the needs of others first without losing that we need.
So far so good. I don't lack anything that matters. Thst doesn't mean I'm not tempted to treat some really rotten people badly. I totally am.
Well actually, when I bought my first car, I picked it up exactly like that. No comparison needed, outright picked it, cause I fell in love with it on the first sight. - Guess I am lost xD
Right high value men do this thing and it is the right way to choose the right girl to marry. My cousin has been doing this trick since his teens and now I have understood the matter.
That’s what I don’t like about modern women today, that they are “dating” a lot of guys at once.
So I’m not going to do what bothers me to a woman I date. However, with that said I won’t go all in too early, until I know the relationship has a real chance to be a solid relationship. That’s not to say, I won’t talk and flirt with other women, of course I will… but I’m only dating one and sleeping with one (again because I hate that when women do it, sleep with several guys ongoing).
Life in the physical realm is totally INSANE.
Got your book and now reading it the second time and now sharing them with my sons. I’ve been washing and neatly ironing red flags for years in the name of love as a beta mail 😂😂 thanks Rich
what he’s not talking about is how EXPENSIVE this is. dating one woman is a $200 a month bill. dating 3? you better be making GOOD money. and most men are not.
Focus on making yourself a better mate. The better you are, the easier it will be for them to choose you.
Girls who know they are desired always have options.
This video scared me a bit and gave me a feeling that everybody, both females and males, should just go on many dates with multiple people until they figure out what kind of person they would like to be with and until they find a suitable partner. For me, it sounds like a lot of heartbreak waiting to happen. I would like to share an experience of a male friend of mine whom I have a lot of respect for. He said he used to hang out with many girls, but always in a public setting and never go on romantic dates until it was made clear by both parties that they had a serious romantic interest towards each other. A public setting would mean training together outdoors or in a gym, participating in local charity events, doing activities together, not just stopping by an event, etc., and having lunch sometimes (with the girl paying for her own food). This way, he had a chance to get to know the girls, their personalities, their views on different things, etc., without giving them false hope of getting a boyfriend/sugar daddy or just free entertainment and a free meal. The girls took it well and liked being in his company because he just offered a good time. He never went out with the ones that expected him to be the only one to pay for entertainment. He wasn’t a ladies' man, the kind that had a new girl every night. He simply formed friendships when he met someone interesting and had a respectable reputation. But when he found out that both had romantic interest in mind, he stopped hanging out with the other ladies and became exclusive. I admire his approach to interacting with women. I’ve had some acquaintances who tried to go out with (almost) every female they met. Honestly, they gave me the impression that they were never really interested in their dates. I could not imagine myself in a situation where a guy I’m interested in keeps going out with other girls until we decide we’re exclusive. It would make me feel like today it’s me, tomorrow it’s someone else. I wouldn’t even consider such guys in my life. But, in my opinion, my friend’s approach was very respectful, and I wouldn’t mind if my romantic interest behaved similarly. I considered this gentlemanly behavior.
When did this pussification become endemic? I like most of your insights….I’m dumbfounded by how some even not so young guys struggle with getting or keeping a women. The pursuance of excellence ie money and and life acumen is paramount…all the rest will follow. Best not to clutter ones path prior to having the station in sight. Keep telling the story…..
Most men don't understand that as a man you have a certain energy when you have your shit together. Its attractive to women. When you have nothing going on, it gives off needy energy. This repels women.
@@targetegrat Hence the saying, “Women wait at the finish line for the winners.”
Exactly, I mean as a guy if your getting 3,4 maybe 5 messages on a dating site just imagine how many She is getting. I mean you have to play the game yourself and keep a few on the line incase the one you want doesn't go out with you.
This is so sad. There’s still good men and women out here.
I was raised by both my parents and saw my mom cheat on my dad. I saw how it destroyed him. I would never want to do that to any man I’m supposed to be with.
I’m 32 years old and never cheated even when I’ve been cheated on.
If all men have the same mindset as you and what you’re teaching, I’d rather be single.
That’s what happens when men are dipping in multiple women. They can’t love. It’s callous. I’m not sure where the women who are 30 who have had sex with 100 men are but his taste seems to be only that type of female. Porn ruined much.
same for me..i resented my mom for cheating on my dad...my kids cheer my ex for cheating on me, and then blame me for all their problems..lol...go figure.
It's the emotionally damaged acting like the opposite gender is some aliens that need taming because they feel the need to control others.
dating is just like interviewing, it's not lust and cheating
I've been with hundreds of women and I've never met one or seen one that's been single for 24 hours
The first map looks like it would be a great place to live.
If you can't get a single woman interested in going out with you, how are you going to get multiple women to go out with you?
Concentrate on getting one woman first.
Stop focusing on women period. THATS LITERALLY WHAT THIS WHOLE CHANNEL IS ABOUT JFC YOU GUYS ARE IDIOTS
Improve yourself to attract women.
Improve yourself, work on making more money. What else do you have to do? Play video games? I have taught at least ten younger guys how to make six figures without getting a college degree. Do you have any idea how bad the country needs electricians right now? How bad the country needs HVAC workers? Plumbers? I live in the Seattle area and these companies are so hard up for employees, they are starting apprentices at 30 an hour. A journey level electrician is making 75 an hour. This is the easiest time in the US to get to a six figure income.
@@robchurch881 I work in wastewater treatment and we get offers to join plumbing companies and the private sector as well. You can make alot of Money . But really you have to hit the gym
Needed a reminder, this video is absolute gold
I found your channel last night and have been watching ever since. I've read the work of Neil Strauss as a teenager, but your stuff is really speaking to me as an adult especially this video.
I ran into a relationship with a woman 6 years ago, and safe to say long story short my life ended up utterly destroyed. 3 kids later, I love them to death but I've been trying to rebuild my life for almost a year basically, and I think your content may help me so I just wanted to say thank you.
So what happens when she brings up the exclusivity conversation but you you still wanna spin plates?
“Date, fuck multiple women…but don’t screw up your life!” Isn’t that the best way to screw up your life? When you have multiple people in the mix, the more drama you give energy to.
In Romania, it is assumed you are dating exclusively once you start taking a girl out. If she sees you with another, she'll consider it cheating, even if you're not committed to each other, like, officially.
I haven't watched you in a year. With love, man you need to hit the weight bench. Rock on
She's not yours , it just your turn😂😂
Not every woman cheats.. but yes women have more options as more selection versus Men . HOWEVER just because we have more options remember quantity isn't always quality.. I have been on many dates with Men that told me straight to my face I just want a friends with benefits.. I think when two people are honest it goes better. BUT when you play games with people that's when It can get messy because someone almost always gets hurt...
Marriage with the right woman is a blessing and a joyful life. You’ll end up alone, lonely, depressed if you chase money, status, career goals, etc. By the time you wake up you’re 50 and life has passed you by. We were meant to form families and raise children. This pursuit of “individualism” has ruined the lives of both men and women.
I work a lot, and I don’t have time even for one woman, but how can I date more than one?? I broke up with my ex because she demanded that I spend more time with her, but I didn’t have time to spend, and now I’m finally unleashed and work like crazy, start a business, etc. What’s your advice for guys like me, achievers dedicated to their purpose. I just need peace in my life and a woman that supports me and handles all household chores and raises my kids while I’m out there in the open world grinding on my purpose and bringing money to the family. I don’t and will never have time for multiple women… Please advice me, I’m really frustrated
I was waiting for him to mention his car. So happy he didn’t disappoint. I haven’t (and won’t) read his book, but when he mentions a woman’s “notch count” as being too high, is he equitable in being critical to a man’s high “notch count” as well?
She’s never yours, it’s just your turn
Spin the plates!
indeed......be a high value men that always have options
Exactly. A man with options finally upgrades himself to the mindset of abundance, a place women inhabit as soon as they realise what they can get through male attention. Non-exclusivity is their natural state, getting there as a man reduces the risks of getting One-itis and destroying your life.
I am both polygamous and hypergamous: and with my CV, I simply stand my place. Plus I am very romantic and extremely masculine. Not a problem is I ignore silly opinions of others who disappreciate me and are rude to me.
I can't invest my time and energy to multiple women simultaneously. I get confused
When u in love You dont want to be a "player"
It's hard for me to find a woman that will say "yes" when I ask her out on a date (let alone spinning plates).
You have to keep asking..Make them laugh..where a nice watch .no spots on your tennis shoes...Keep that hair fly..and then ask them out.
Lol. . . " Are you new here? " Great points as always.
It’s not true that women are never single, but when they are it’s intentional.
Is not fare game , play accordingly.
When a woman says I've just broken up with my boyfriend * I am not ready for a relationship right now" 😂😂😂
what she means is she's getting run thru by 20+ dudes in town and she doesn't plan on ever being decent
No. You see that means taking a break. It's not cheating he agreed! Have orgies and then if none of the 5 dudes are a Chad she can always go back to the bf/husband and she got to try out guilt free to see if she could monkey branch
Quite frankly, they are all sisters! They all have their pick of the litter..Ignore them in social situations, It drives them crazy!
You have a fight, you go to a bar and drink.
She goes to a bar and hooks up.
I can't even spin one plate.
I have been happily married for 25 years and trusted my wife implicitly as she had never given a hint that she might delve into infidelity with another man. She went to the east coast to visit grandchildren and while she was gone, I was preparing our boat for crab season. I had an older iPad that was hers and she had given it to me after she got a new one. It was practically Usless because it was too old. I thought I might be able to use it in conjunction with GPS on the boat. II opened it and soon found that it was still connected and signed into her email, text messages and face book. To my shock, I found emails and messenger communications with a former boyfriend from 1968 as well as a former coworker from the 1970s. The content was rather innocuous, just catching up,discussing family and careers . The former boyfriend lived in Texas and the former coworker lived in California so there was no physical contact that I am aware of. My wife searched out these two through Facebook in March 2011. The boyfriend subsequently died from a brain tumor and the coworker still resided in CA. I discovered this correspondence in May 2021 and unfortunately, I called my wife and told her that I found the correspondence and was more that upset
about it. Looking back on it, I should have continued to monitor activity but with her on the east coast I imagined that maybe she planned to meet him as he was looking for property in TN at the time. Instantly, she claimed he was
only a “friend” and the contact was only greetings on birthdays or holidays. This was the first lie as I had in front of me probably a hundred emails and messenger comments that covered just over ten years. As I said, the comments were pretty innocuous, however, as time went by his and her comments became more and more sensual, saying “ think of you often“, still beautiful, love your photos, and little red hearts began appearing at the conclusion of the messages. There reached a point where they were setting up Messenger’s secret message complete with each other’s keys for access. After I approached her, she promised to terminate all contact, however she was expecting an email from him announcing his new address in TN. Well, on July 04, 2021, that message arrived with the new address. He said at the end of the message,”let’s keep in touch” however, she responded “YES!” Then shortly after, I was looking through her address book and under a female friend’s address in TN, I found that she had written his new address in TN under the female friend’s and wrote it so that appeared that the friend had moved to a new location. Had I not memorized his address, it would have gone unnoticed. So here we are a year later and so far as I am able to determine, there has been no contact. I find that curious however, I sent him a thanksgiving card last year and said that if I found any hint of contact between them, my wife would not like the consequences. She deeply loves our home here deep in a cedar forest and the result of all this is that we are staying together and I am trying to get passed the destruction that has occurred as a result of this affair. I am thankful that distance prevented actual physical involvement (as best as I can determine). I will never trust her again and will always closely monitor her activities .
Hmmm....strongly advise you to realize who women really are, were, and will be.
They are scheming opportunists who think they should have immunity invoked with a smile.
Women are the best pathological liars, thieves, bimbos, and con artists that you would never ever suspect. Never ever waste energy on a women anymore than you would with a house cat-pet.
If your cat left your yard and was seen at the neighbor's house where the cat was petted....would you get upset? That's what cats do. They belong to themselves. There is nothing you can do with a cat except understand who they are.
@@jimbeam7160 Well said
Shes not your girl, shes OUR GIRL
My ex wife went from being with me for 26 years to moving in with her boyfriend in two months. I thanked him and send him a cigar and flowers every divorce anniversary
That's epic
😂
Beautiful
he must be thinking damn what'd she do?
Nice work.
This is a mistake I made in the past, becoming too invested in one girl too quickly. It's a terrible mistake to make but I did learn from it. I always date and talk to multiple girls at once now, and they are plentiful. Another lesson I learned which Rich touched on in this video is, the woman should always be the one who asks to become exclusive. If she wants me to stop spinning plates and just be with her she has to ask me and accept my response. A man should never ask a woman to become exclusive. She must always be required to come to him.
Exactly, she has to ask for the commitment given she is the one who has it 30,000% easier finding sex. Only then can she "cheat".
Easy since majority men checking out. Don’t blame them
FACTS…. I’ve made the mistake and it’s unattractive to women when guys ask the girl to be exclusive
I do exactly the same and I´m a woman😂😂😂and I also made the exact same mistakes😉
The fact that the world got to this that exclusivity has to be asked at all, is sad. Humans are disgusting.
"See women don't want to be with a guy that nobody wants."
All so true.
Story of my life haha
Well this generation is diffrent
Idk if anyone wants me
They are disgusting people
Cause she can’t brag about it to other women.
One thing I've learned about women is there is ALWAYS another guy. I don't care how strong you think your relationship is. She has a few Chads in her phone who she'll go to if you piss her off. Chad doesn't care if she's your girlfriend or wife. He'll invite her over to "chill".
If she does that dump her. Women with no integrity will drop you in a second. Not all women. True there is an orbiter but girls with morals will give you a shot. If she has any history or is dishonest who she is texting DUMP her! Seriously if she is a liar she is Chad chasing
Not true
This guy I know said his ex girlfriend who's 24 has a house and a kid with her boyfriend and she's still messaging him on the low about "meeting up", even though he's in a relationship and also has a kid now. It's insane how girls will never be happy with what they've got, and not only that, they also see that their ex is in a relationship and has a kid, but still shoot their shot.
What if "Chad's" just stopped doing that? Would the world be a better place?
@@cccbeats_ wild
I’ve been single now for over five years and to be honest I’ve given up on the dating scene.These days I just focus on myself.
Unintentionally single
They’re all dating that same dude, you know the one you’re striving to become, except they are there already, whether born into it or made the money moves
23 and I've never ever been in the dating scene
Same 😁
gentleman this guy only knows half the story. society stopped setting you up for success. you should only trust half of what he says. it would be easier if he was total bullshit. but he’s not.
bless you guys who are also focusing on yourself to be better to increase your personal MMV.
you have to work way harder and be way luckier to end up with a successful marriage.
i once talked to a discouraged party chick about the power of sex; the only force powerful enough to create humans. She replied that “sometimes sex is just sex. no big deal.”
She was dumbfounded when i asked her “its no surprise that sex can lose its power; but after its lost its power, how does it get it back?”
if anyone does read his book, read the bible too. take the hypergamy from him and your understanding of the bonding power of sex from the bible.
She’s never yours, it’s just your turn
to clap her cheeks before the man on her phone texts her and she hops on him next while telling you she has to go home early for "work" tomorrow
Boom 💥
Now you know why the Bible say's men should rule over them.
BRAVO. I couldn't have said it better myself.
Upvote for you. Here you go.
POW!
" the average Joe downloads a dating app, gets a match then he goes all in on that girl"
That's because the average Joe is lucky to get even a single match on the apps.
this is 100 percent correct. i’ve seen it happen to multiple friends of mine
thats true lol
Then become Better than Average. Be the best you that you can be.
@@DrAJ_LatinAmerica amen 🙏
Dating apps are eventually going to become passe when a critical mass of average men come to realise they don't work for them.
"Women are never single." So simple, yet so true. You're always on a "The Bachelorette" dating show, you just don't realize that. They are always, at the VERY least, talking to 2-3 guys. And that's at the VERY least. It's usually many more.
Wow! I’m shocked that the men in these comments actually think this about women. Maybe I’m a strange woman or especially ugly lol but I am not talking to or dating any man and I haven’t for nearly 3 years. Men never approach me so I never go on dates or get asked for my number… maybe other women out there are sluts but please don’t think we all are. Also everything this guy is saying about men being is scarcity mind set and getting played by women is the exact same for women. Yes we should all date multiple people when it’s strictly just dating, but I can assure you when a woman is into a man she has no interest in other men. She might pretend she has if she feels the man doesn’t feel the same… but honestly not all women are like what this guy describes.
Hi! This Is a blanket statement. This channel seems negative and paranoid. Just be a nice person and date nice women and have the exclusivity talk when you (or her) realize they are different and special to you so you can lock them down.
@@yeahdallasSaying pretty much the same thing, you just say it more eloquently. ;
@@yeahdallaslmfao who tf are you💀💀💀💀 hope nobody listened to the bs you just wrote lmao
Well said 👏👏
When I was dating I never wanted a “girlfriend” or a “relationship” because I knew of this as a teenager. Pay attention, see the signs, and don’t let a nice pair throw you off your goals.
I had a nice pear the other day. That'll do.
Word! Women are goal kryptonite
It's hard to tell when one that respects you likes you. I can appreciate the quiet ones.
@@JeffreyGillespie yep. you need to focus.
Damn nice pair 😉 can be titillating and distracting
This is so true. I was with a woman for 2 years and we stopped talking for 2 months and we ended up talking again and she admitted to me she went on 8 dates with 8 different men. I was shocked… either she had those men as back up or she was serial dating whoever asked her to date. Either way it turned me off and made me realize women r for the community now.. I never took any woman serious since. Thanks for the message!
Every ex girlfriend or afair I had was immediately dating other guys or even got a relationship the next weeks or months after our break up. She is never yours, it's only your turn.
But she’s single...? U guys broke up right?
@@aspalt228gold doesn’t matter if she was single. The fact that she bounced around like that within 2 months shows there’s a possibility of her collecting more bodies to her count matters and is a complete turn off.
I'm sorry to tell you this but she was also dating some of those men/other guys while she was with you.
@@blair5475 oh I already know that I’m 34 years old I’ve been in the market long enough to know how these women operate. I am not a bird brain to this here game
i call on ALL men to delete all dating apps ... uninstall them all. it's time to take our choices back and this is a good place to start. watch what happens
I wish they would do that AND .....STOP friggin' simping !! This is why even the most mediocre woman tends to have a huge ego !
I found out recently that there’s less males than females. This means males are more valuable and more rare.
WHY THE FUCK are males acting like females are the rare treasure?!?!
@@kevinward3088 exactly pimpin never simpin
Imagine all men in the world stopped giving af about vvomen and their needs? B* es would literally die.
lmao imagine everyone would do that and stop liking girls pictures on Instagram. mass suicide 😂
“Women choose who they sleep with and men sleep with who they can.” Unless if the man is top tier, most guys will have a starving mindset with women. Most men may already know she is not the best option but will try to justify and complicate their life by force fitting her.
Thats why its important for a man to have things going for him. Not to impress women but there is a certain type of energy that women find attractive when a man is on his purpose.
Hmmm, wonder how all those jobless non-top tier guys managed to find women they impregnated.🤔
Yeah, can't have that, for real. I've got standards for a woman, and I do my own stuff on the side. If she doesn't meet them then I'm not gonna beg or try to "change her", just move on.
If it means a long search through dozens of them, so be it, but I'm not gonna waste my time with a woman who's not a decent human being
And we decide when to make her our girlfriend wife. We have more power
@@targetegrat
Yep, true. I've got goals and ideals in mind, and while a great wife would be ideal for my plans to hopefully have kids, well, women won't be my priority as of now.
Definitely have stuff going for me right now, for real 💯 so if any women want in on it later on, they gotta make the effort too. Men need to have higher standards, ask for what they're worth, cause many men undervalue themselves, and it's tragic
I see this line "Women are never single" everywhere and it's not that it's wrong, but there is one word at the beginning, that's always missing and it's "attractive".
I guess those do not count because those who are not attractive (at least in Eastern or in Central Europe) are not even visible. They are like ghosts, most men do not even see them even if they come to their face literally.
Even ugly women have men thirsting for them.
Ah no, you see, (pardon my prejudice) you will find that the fat goth girl is already married to a celebrity in her dreams, like a stalker, because of her inner beauty and chutzpah. There is a bonus layer, which is that you can make jokes with the less attractive ladies - they are allowed a sense of humour by the women's groups.
Now... how's about this as an idea - why not go watch dating advice for women by women, if you really want to get the psychology...
Don't listen to this guy, he's perfectly horrible.
I am a fat lesbians. I'm not* but I might be** in fact I speak with the voice of the almighty, buried in my thighs, it's almighty nice to pull the left of the cosmos until the joke falls off (cue: "the front fell off" by Clarke and Dawe about concealment of negligence in the mining industry... mine's a conflict mineral hidden in a smartphone saying "help! Help! Get me out of here! It's haunted!"
Most guys really do need to realise that most women will always be in communication with other guys, even ones that are in relationships or married. It could be an ex or a potential future conquest, or even just a thirsty admirer they will communicate with to get some kind of validation.
It was also a great point about the social media of women, as social media accounts for men and women are completely different. The only way most guys could understand this would be if they were to create a female profile to see what it’s like then be shocked by the tons of daily messages from thirsty strangers saying they love you and want to talk to you and of course loads of dick pics. It is a totally different world, and that’s why women get so addicted especially to things like Instagram as it gives them the validation they need so bad.
Another thing I think guys need to understand is that most if not all women could go and be intimate with another guy and not give a damn about you or how you feel. As they are just acting on emotion in the moment, this is why a lot of guys struggle to go with other women. As they are not programmed that way. It’s kind of true what they say about Cats being like women as you can try to keep one as a pet but the minute it gets outside it will just go and find a better parent/family who will take care of it and give it all it needs. Where as dogs are more loyal like men for the most part.
And don’t ever think they are sweet and innocent either.
Just some good pointers.
Men are actually more romantic and think women are sweet and beautiful. All a facade of course.
Perfect comment brother
Very deep and accurate observation
Women are more selective and keep their options open. Guys usually want to go from 0-100 straight away.
100% facts
It sounds like the idea of "spinning plates" is what used to be known as "playing the field. "
He's for the streets 😂
trash.... no self-respecting woman with class and morals wants a dude who is a player. It's a 100% turn off.
@@dogsandyoga1743 He does...belongs right in the streets with his logic. It's just red pilled nonsense that these clown dudes want to hear to justify their trash behavior.
I have dated 4 or 5 women at one time. It's a big aggravation. Expensive, time consuming, mental drain...... I chose not to do that again.
@@georgesontag2192 at what point do you determine to let one or two of them go? Especially if you are searching for a wife. It shouldn't take that long to figure out if some is compatible or worthy.