I dated a girl in the Philippines for one year and would go to visit her two times a year. I never sent her money and everything went good for that year.
For me, Thai gf #1 after 18 months and and me travelling to Thailand 5 times and bringing her to my country twice, she left me and married a rich Japanese guy.... Thai gf #2 I found out she had 2 other foreign boyfriends sending her money - how I know she mistakenly sent me a copy of her bank statement... Do I want to risk another Thai GF...... now short time and long time only.
You’re so in the wrong crowd. Plenty of Thai girls that don’t want that arrangement. You’re just exposed to people in the tourist industry. Even in the tourist industry you will find great women who want you and not your money. Also we are who we attract, that’s a big problem too. Re-examine yourself and see why you are attracting only that kind of girl my friend
@@thaikru I'm sure if he's 6 foot 10, strikingly handsome, rich, and looks like a male model you wouldn't demand money from him... on the first date. But eventually he will be expected to take care of you (this means money), your family (a LOT more money), your brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, etc. He'll be the cow your entire village attempts to milk and this is true for all women in Thailand everywhere, sorry. Foreigners are not simply imagining this - you are quite incorrect.
@@thaikruAll women cost money. Not just bar girls in Thailand. And not just Thai girls. ALL WOMEN. It's evolutionary. Women are more attracted to men that can take care of them. (And men are attracted to women who look like they're better at having kids). Historically, it's what we both bring to the relationship, so over hundreds o thousands of years, evolution just makes us the way we are. Every woman cost money. It's often the ones who _dont_ ask for it up front that end up costing the _most._ They just convince themselves it's all about love.
Hi Chalida. You are very funny.... i love how you tell us everything from a thai woman perspective ☺ i meet my very beautiful thai lady just before covid hit. So apart now 2 half years but we are still waiting to meet again early next year 2022. Love is very strong and the distance no problem. Of course send money because distance not separate the money as if we were together, also thai people can not get access to any government monies to live as like most other countries. Everything in life is a risk as we know so any distance relationship has no exceptions. Keep those very funny and honest youtube posts Chalida 😁😁😂
If you want to keep a Thai girl you’re dating long distance, the key is to allow her to date others without caring. Even if you don’t allow it, she’s going to secretly do it. Keep your options always opened. Thai people are very friendly to outsiders but can be quite selfish in intimate relationships. I’ve dated many women there, from the cities to the mountain villages, and caught most of them cheating.
Guys, Please take your time to find a lovely Thai Lady. If you meet a girl working a bar or a sex worker 99.99%chance you are not the only guy. You can meet nice Ladies here, an excellent place to meet is like malls and Markets. They are plenty of tube Vloggers on dating advice to help you not fall into a scam.
Thank you for the tips Chalida. Some very useful tips. Long distance relationships are very difficult anywhere in the world. Even long distance in your own country. 50% success rate sounds about right even with a "good girl". With a "bad girl" the success rate is less than 10%.
All good advice Thank you. I live in.Australia and I bring my beautiful GF out once or twice a year while I have to be here for work. I retire soon and will move to Thailand to live with her. We have been together for 6 years and video call each other 2 to 3 times every day we are apart
I agree with all of the above providing the two people work at it and don't become complacent, stubborn or frustrated. Everybody has a busy lifestyle and due to time differences it can become annoying leading to a breakup! I was dating a bar lady and she wouldn't take my calls or rarely reply to my messages so trying to stay calm and understanding is sometimes easier said than done because she needs to make her money with customers 🍷🥃🍸🍹 untill it all became overbearing and we split up ... Every circumstances are different.
Great common sense advice. I’d even be careful of sending money to people you have only met once or twice, if all of a sudden out of no where they have this deep interest in your life, and start telling you how much they "miss you na" or they keep sending you messages to " take care of yourself" and to "stay safe"... Their steady flow of foreigners has dropped down to a mere trickle and they are clutching at straws.
Thanks, lovely video and hints... by strong love, intuition and experience my Thai love Mananya and me considered all your hints already, before I saw your video today ... 😁😍, and we will manage to limit this challenging time of far distance relationship to 'just' 1,5 years: Mid February she will move to Germany 🇩🇪 and we get married 👰🏻 🤵🏻♂️💞. By considering the tips you describe, we managed to keep our love not only alife, but the love and desire for each other is even, in balance, growing on both sides - so wonderful 💓 💓 ❤🔥 ❤🔥
My Thai gf is not jealous at all. She already introduced me to her relatives (some of them). But sometimes she is super busy with her family and sometimes less... See each other once in 1-1,5 months, 3 hours flight. Call sometimes everyday sometimes once in 3-4 days. Baffles me that there's not one single moment of jealousy but it's just a fact.
Thanks for this video. I met about 5-6 girls while in Holidays and I keep a very lovely memory. 2 of them still keep contact with me and try to keep a platonic relationship. No one out of 6 girls asked for money, ever ! I don't understand people that complain about sending money. I guess they look at wrong places and wrong persons.
@@ClipZoneAthletics Patong Beach. Both girls were bar girls. One of them left the bar and told me she wants to immigrate to S. Korea. Still no money demands to this day and both keep contact.
Fantastic video. you a very professional funny but know what you are talking about. most other yoters are well sceipted and planned.. you speak from your innerself and no bullshit thank you I hope you become a big hit
Thank you for this! I am struggling right now with a wonderful girl that I met. We message back and forth on Line, but it’s slow, scattered, and needs some help. 😅 I will try some of these!
It's so sad people don't know that. lol wow. Basically treat Thai women like a person not like a commodity. I can't even watch the whole vlog because we are not all like that. have a great day.
**Reasons why most Thai women are quite easygoing with Western men:** + The male-to-female ratio is much lower (due to a significant number of gay men). + Most Thai women (over 50%) have darker skin and are not as attractive as Vietnamese and East Asian women in general. + They are particularly keen on the beauty of mixed-race Westerners, as a majority of the population (over 50%) does not possess beautiful or fair skin typical of East Asians. + Many pursue relationships with Western men to improve their financial situation. **Reasons why most Filipino women are quite easygoing with Western men:** + The country is intercontinental, heavily influenced by cultural elements from Oceania and America, thus not being a purely East Asian nation, resulting in a beauty standard that is not entirely East Asian. + Many pursue relationships with Western men to improve their financial situation.
I really been searching the whole world 🌍 for a really beautiful girlfriend that has an on/off switch. So, I can just turn her off, if there's a problem. From what I understand, millions of men have been searching for the same thing!..😁
I dated a girl in the Philippines for one year and would go to visit her two times a year. I never sent her money and everything went good for that year.
The Philippines is *NOT* Thailand...
this has nothing to do with the video.
Wow !
I want to date a Thai girl with a relationship mindset like yours !
They all have that mindset in a poor country if the moneys right....
You could be the girl next door your English is fantastic.
For me, Thai gf #1 after 18 months and and me travelling to Thailand 5 times and bringing her to my country twice, she left me and married a rich Japanese guy.... Thai gf #2 I found out she had 2 other foreign boyfriends sending her money - how I know she mistakenly sent me a copy of her bank statement... Do I want to risk another Thai GF...... now short time and long time only.
Start by finding a gf you don’t have to pay.
@@thaikru that would be a gf who is not from Thailand. *All* Thai women demand regular payments, just like a car or house.
You’re so in the wrong crowd. Plenty of Thai girls that don’t want that arrangement. You’re just exposed to people in the tourist industry. Even in the tourist industry you will find great women who want you and not your money. Also we are who we attract, that’s a big problem too. Re-examine yourself and see why you are attracting only that kind of girl my friend
@@thaikru I'm sure if he's 6 foot 10, strikingly handsome, rich, and looks like a male model you wouldn't demand money from him... on the first date. But eventually he will be expected to take care of you (this means money), your family (a LOT more money), your brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, etc. He'll be the cow your entire village attempts to milk and this is true for all women in Thailand everywhere, sorry. Foreigners are not simply imagining this - you are quite incorrect.
@@thaikruAll women cost money. Not just bar girls in Thailand. And not just Thai girls. ALL WOMEN. It's evolutionary. Women are more attracted to men that can take care of them. (And men are attracted to women who look like they're better at having kids). Historically, it's what we both bring to the relationship, so over hundreds o thousands of years, evolution just makes us the way we are.
Every woman cost money.
It's often the ones who _dont_ ask for it up front that end up costing the _most._ They just convince themselves it's all about love.
Hi Chalida. You are very funny.... i love how you tell us everything from a thai woman perspective ☺ i meet my very beautiful thai lady just before covid hit. So apart now 2 half years but we are still waiting to meet again early next year 2022. Love is very strong and the distance no problem. Of course send money because distance not separate the money as if we were together, also thai people can not get access to any government monies to live as like most other countries. Everything in life is a risk as we know so any distance relationship has no exceptions. Keep those very funny and honest youtube posts Chalida 😁😁😂
Well... The one and only rule of long distans relationship is dont have any if you are not merried.
Chalida, you make the best wife and you look so beautiful too, When i move to Thailand I'm going to hire you for my new business in 2023.
If you want to keep a Thai girl you’re dating long distance, the key is to allow her to date others without caring. Even if you don’t allow it, she’s going to secretly do it. Keep your options always opened. Thai people are very friendly to outsiders but can be quite selfish in intimate relationships. I’ve dated many women there, from the cities to the mountain villages, and caught most of them cheating.
Guys, Please take your time to find a lovely Thai Lady. If you meet a girl working a bar or a sex worker 99.99%chance you are not the only guy. You can meet nice Ladies here, an excellent place to meet is like malls and Markets. They are plenty of tube Vloggers on dating advice to help you not fall into a scam.
Thank you for the tips Chalida. Some very useful tips. Long distance relationships are very difficult anywhere in the world. Even long distance in your own country. 50% success rate sounds about right even with a "good girl". With a "bad girl" the success rate is less than 10%.
This advice will work with any relationship if it long distance. Thank you very much
Easy answer? Western Union.
Hahaah...
And BUY house or apartment
I would like to blah blah blah with you so much lol your so nice and cute 😘❤
Yes you are sure right 😁👍
Show them the money 💵 😢 😮 !
All good advice Thank you. I live in.Australia and I bring my beautiful GF out once or twice a year while I have to be here for work. I retire soon and will move to Thailand to live with her. We have been together for 6 years and video call each other 2 to 3 times every day we are apart
I agree with all of the above providing the two people work at it and don't become complacent, stubborn or frustrated. Everybody has a busy lifestyle and due to time differences it can become annoying leading to a breakup! I was dating a bar lady and she wouldn't take my calls or rarely reply to my messages so trying to stay calm and understanding is sometimes easier said than done because she needs to make her money with customers 🍷🥃🍸🍹 untill it all became overbearing and we split up ... Every circumstances are different.
Thankyou for this it's very useful information. Now I have to test the information when I move to Bangkok on the 22nd November to live :-)
Did you do it? Did you make the move to Bangkok?
@@squareff255 yes been living in Bangkok since November 2021 and moving to Chiang Mai Thailand in December
Make sure you never send money to someone you have never met in person.
Great common sense advice. I’d even be careful of sending money to people you have only met once or twice, if all of a sudden out of no where they have this deep interest in your life, and start telling you how much they "miss you na" or they keep sending you messages to " take care of yourself" and to "stay safe"... Their steady flow of foreigners has dropped down to a mere trickle and they are clutching at straws.
Great video. Thank you for sharing best practices and helping to bridge culture gap
Our pleasure!
Thanks, lovely video and hints... by strong love, intuition and experience my Thai love Mananya and me considered all your hints already, before I saw your video today ... 😁😍, and we will manage to limit this challenging time of far distance relationship to 'just' 1,5 years: Mid February she will move to Germany 🇩🇪 and we get married 👰🏻 🤵🏻♂️💞. By considering the tips you describe, we managed to keep our love not only alife, but the love and desire for each other is even, in balance, growing on both sides - so wonderful 💓 💓 ❤🔥 ❤🔥
My Thai gf is not jealous at all. She already introduced me to her relatives (some of them). But sometimes she is super busy with her family and sometimes less... See each other once in 1-1,5 months, 3 hours flight. Call sometimes everyday sometimes once in 3-4 days.
Baffles me that there's not one single moment of jealousy but it's just a fact.
Have you met her husband yet, oops I mean her cousin
@@smifff63 lmao she's divorced twice.
For Thai girl friend, just friend. No money no talks
Like what's the point of being in long distance relationship with any girl, she not gonna sit home counting months when you see her again
Mine works ft. It’s good so far
I like the tips for long distance date night.😊
Thanks for this video. I met about 5-6 girls while in Holidays and I keep a very lovely memory. 2 of them still keep contact with me and try to keep a platonic relationship. No one out of 6 girls asked for money, ever ! I don't understand people that complain about sending money. I guess they look at wrong places and wrong persons.
sounds good, where have you been - bangkok?
@@ClipZoneAthletics Patong Beach. Both girls were bar girls. One of them left the bar and told me she wants to immigrate to S. Korea. Still no money demands to this day and both keep contact.
@@titi7776 thank you for your answer I appreciate that
To quote the great singer Rod Stewart ".... I'm just going to find a girl I don't like and buy her a house."
55555
Different times to call is good too. I do morning Uk 🇬🇧 and evening time
so how do I marry you and live in thailand
good advices, thank you so much
I smile the entire time I listen to you!
what a fantastic video and great information and you are always amazing! keep up the great videos and all the information you provide.
Your a very beautiful girl I’m interested in dating a Thai girl you’ve been very helpful 😊.
Fantastic video. you a very professional funny but know what you are talking about. most other yoters are well sceipted and planned.. you speak from your innerself and no bullshit thank you I hope you become a big hit
What's the point!
Not a chance 50% worked in the long term, I'd say about 5%
Great to watch and a pleasure good imfo
The stats bureau says 22% success rate I don’t know from where you got 50% 🤫🤫🤫
LMAO, I have never seen somebody THIS flirty with a camera.
Shopping shopping shopping
Yep agree money talks or they just say I'm bored
Still good video funny parts in there
Are those fragrance flowers behind sight? Place one in your hair signifie purity and innocence for your 🎂.
Thank you for sharing 🙏
Dot. dot. dot...
#9 and #13 same?
Wow Chalida is very cute.
I love Thai girls. Thanks
respect...kindness
Thank you for this! I am struggling right now with a wonderful girl that I met. We message back and forth on Line, but it’s slow, scattered, and needs some help. 😅 I will try some of these!
I have been asking you what I need for an Tourist visa
Do you have an internet connection?
Thanks for the tips already do all of the above plus western union. So I think she is very happy lol 😁👍
How to keep you girl friend happy 😃…….very easy…….just send her more money 💰……..but don’t forget just send money 💴
And if that doesn't work send her more money 😂
Stay off your phone and tell the truth.....this eliminates 98% of the Thai ladies available! 😉😉
Make that 99%..... !!!!
100%
I’ve been asking you what I need to get a tourist visa or can I just come to Thailand with my passport and vaccination card for Covid
I’ll sing that song to u if u ask😊😊😊😊
Difficult. They get very jealous , and think you get calls when on video calls .. when you not !! 😢🙈
We been chatting 9 months. Try to reassure. Says trusts then today says I was chatting to others ? Frustrating
Are you on thai friendly reply dear 🙏
No money no honey
I am still waiting for a beautiful mia noi, K. Chalida 😷😷
Really very difficult to meet a serious and motivated Thai who knows what she wants, changing her life does not seem to interest them
I think this would only apply to normal Thai women. if your trying to date a bar girl I don't think this advice would work.
What a Beautiful woman
Your pretty 😍
Don't interrupt girls? You HAVE to interrupt them if you want to talk. They'll talk all day.
Easy give money ....they think only money
She is just a child living in LalaLand
Have to ask if you are single? 😍
It's so sad people don't know that. lol wow. Basically treat Thai women like a person not like a commodity. I can't even watch the whole vlog because we are not all like that. have a great day.
555,, you so cool sister ,you be fun to hang out with ,,
how to keep a thai girl friend.send more MONEY.meow
I will always keep.her happy and take care i rather bring with me or i sty With her in thailand
It's easy, keep sending money....the illusion is real😂
No....not curious at all.
wear a costume??? :D
**Reasons why most Thai women are quite easygoing with Western men:**
+ The male-to-female ratio is much lower (due to a significant number of gay men).
+ Most Thai women (over 50%) have darker skin and are not as attractive as Vietnamese and East Asian women in general.
+ They are particularly keen on the beauty of mixed-race Westerners, as a majority of the population (over 50%) does not possess beautiful or fair skin typical of East Asians.
+ Many pursue relationships with Western men to improve their financial situation.
**Reasons why most Filipino women are quite easygoing with Western men:**
+ The country is intercontinental, heavily influenced by cultural elements from Oceania and America, thus not being a purely East Asian nation, resulting in a beauty standard that is not entirely East Asian.
+ Many pursue relationships with Western men to improve their financial situation.
where is your ring?
seems you still need husband?
im willing to volunteer myself for the job:-)
😊
Let's be honest.....all telephone conversations with your Thai partner always end with how much money she needs to live for the month 😅........
I long live in chaingrai changkalan road at hameeda apartment...near Lana Palace hotel...soi 1 my garment shop
You are a funny girl.. I am laughing watching you.
I told my Thai girlfriend i haye liars
PEACE
You are a mature woman
Baan you are so sweet and beautiful
Her name is not Baan, she is Chalida..😂😂
First thing first..I need to find someone like ****** when I go there next year. Anyways thank you for the advice. 👍
She looks not loyal😢
Can we will be friends.
Tip 9 - explanation unclear....
Send baht
I really been searching the whole world 🌍 for a really beautiful girlfriend that has an on/off switch. So, I can just turn her off, if there's a problem. From what I understand, millions of men have been searching for the same thing!..😁
you so funny
Muhammad Waseem here
Her name is Chalida
Accept Bitcoin(?)
I can see why she is single. Too much jibber jabber...พูดเล่น
haha, your so cute.
No need. Plenty of them everywhere
Start a new bussniss in Thailand.
Ur still single ?
Chaigmai my apartment.