How to Avoid Marrying Someone You Will Have "Bad Sex" With
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- What does the Bible say about sex in marriage? Here are 5 reasons some people get married and have unenjoyable sex together.
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When she's your fiance, you talk about that stuff beforehand. Actually, when she's your girlfriend. 😊 Still don't do anything until marriage, but talk about it before engagement. ( being engaged in commitment, rings, wedding plans, etc. )
You are correct, I agree with you and I think people are afraid to ask questions prior to having sex.
I definitely think it should be discussed during engagement not beforehand. It could strike temptation. The couple should absolutely be brutally honest with each other and ask questions.
I am from India and your videos give me lot of hope. Thank you for putting up this. Please pray for me that I get my desired partner with whom I can share pure love.
#3 is a great point because too many Christian men who are still in bondage to pmo(porn, masturbation and orgasm) think all will be good if they just got married, but it’s actually the opposite. Very important for one to be FULLY HEALED BEFORE marriage.
Women too
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That’s why obedience to God is very important for the best life in your life and family including your sex with your spouse.
Mark .. great word today… The heart tells everything n
God sees our heart ❤️
Amen!
Yes he does. Jehovah is great.🙏😀❤️
Thank you Mark for the words of wisdom❤
my pleasure! All glory to God!
Perfectly timed Amen Lord Thankyou 🙏🏽
God bless!
Thank you for this message
Amen 🙏🙌🙏
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I really enjoy this Channel, along with the AGW for Men Channel, and even when you put out videos like this, and I totally agree with every one of the lesson points, BUT just imagining what the results are for people with the "bad sex" and "terrible sex" terms to me...makes it sound funny. I can't help but laugh about it...every...time. I probably shouldn't, and I don't mean it the way it may sound in this post, but I'm just saying, to me, it all sounds funny if those things happen when no one is getting hurt, or manipulated, but when it just isn't enjoyable, mind you. I'm just being honest, that's all. Anyway, God Bless You, and AGW.
I'v never been married and I am praying for a god fearing woman who wants to serve our God Jehovah forever...Sex is to me about love and should be carried out between to souls who have become one flesh. 🙏
Agree in Jesus Name🙏
@@ForeverTogether219God bless you my friend.🙏😃
Fantastic stuff Mark! Thank you for the honest talks about sin in singleness/dating relationships. Also @7:20 Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more :P
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Thank you Mark for a great message!
My pleasure!
Amen 🙏✝️🙏🕊️❤️
God bless!
Please pray for me Katarina, who is my kingdom husband ? Who is my person ? God bless you 💓
God bless as you seek the will of the Lord!
Are you praying for the right things in your life? Are you in line with the Word, and how to be a bride for Christ? And how to accept His full and abounding love, and are you being taught, by the Lord, how to give it back to Him, first? Prayers from others are useless if all else is out of alignment. I would ask that His will be done and that he reveals what HE wants for you in this season. It is about true submission to our Savior first and loving Him more than man. 🙂
If it is from God, and it is a love that is godly. It will be good.i made the mistake having sex b4 marriage with my ex fiancé. What are ways to train yourself to not associate those bad things with sex? I’ve gotten in the word and pray daily but I have lost interest in p*rn only thanks to God’s power in my weakness and struggle.
I can see why God maybe using this single season to help me. Maybe it’s so I can learn to love and to love not just and to see marriage for more than sex and to strive to hve a good healthy marriage. Which like u said will cause healthy great sex. (Which is something I would like. True intimacy and healthy quality time)
Thank you Mark!
Love the comparison to junk food.
So when someone is courting, what time exactly is apropriate to start that conversation. Do women should wait till a godly man starts that or?
I’m not sure. But I do know that as a Christian man who’s saving myself for my future wife … I’m not averse to having that conversation before marriage. But not on the first date or so. That’s just me though. I’m Andrew and in my forties.
@@abkeener81 Jes you are right. Bless you and may Lord lead you in your purpose.
@@andreamegec9836 I’d love to get to know you if you’re interested.
Is it OK for a non married couple (yet) to talk about sex?
Is reading a book on how to have great sex a sin
Depends on the content and your motives. If you feel convicted by it, don't do it (Romans 14). Also, if you aren't married or getting married soon, it's probably a bad idea since you can't have sex anyways
No.
Knowledge isn't a sin
1:53 emotional connection is important.. Really good wifes know that when you need sex all she gotta do is starfish if he just needs sexual release. A woman who understands how simple men are and how sometimes men need sexual release that is one great way for a wife to show the man is loved is by not letting headaches and whatever you know not being in the mood all you got to do is starfish. But just keep in mind you need to maintain a deep emotional connection a lot of the times it's the coming up behind the woman and just you know while she's doing dishes just whispering in your ear how much you love her and how adorable and beautiful she is. And really maintaining that romantic connection in making her feel safe like even if the world is crumbling around her that you got her back it really gives a woman that emotional connection that she feels like she is loved heard and understood and that translates to panties dropping all the time. So understanding what starts her fire truck is important. Encouraging a non-judgmental environment with a woman will really bring that out early on so that she feels extremely comfortable when you're doing something that gets her sexually excited like sometimes like I know for me at least if I see a woman taking care of kids even if it's not my woman it turns me on to see a women taking care of her children. Its naturally tht way for a lot of women when they see men being good fathers. Gets her excited. It honestly makes you want to have a few more children. It's good if you want to be a present father and mother.
I think you could have worded your response much better. It is quite derogatory towards women and therefore is offensive.
Sex is a two-way street and isn’t just about pleasing the man.
However it’s your choice of words which is most offensive and certainly not God honouring.
@@ladypenelope99 your entitled to your opinion. Not one comment in there was derogatory. Truth is offensive I agree. You chose to be offended by what your not doing. I won't care if you're in a sexless marriage or if you deny your husband sex because "headaches" or not in the mood. Lots of women don't get offended by that simple fact I expressed. Sex is not just a 2 way street. You can ask worldly men all about that. You cannot make your refusal to recognize biological needs my problem. By making that comment you're exposing yourself more or less if you even have a husband.
@@ladypenelope99you're entitlement shows. If you don't have a man start there. There's nothing more nauseating than a woman who says you didn't word that statement the way I wanted it. I don't have to I'm not in a relationship with you.
Please listen to the angry and bitter way that you are talking. It’s not honouring to the Lord.
‘Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers. And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption. Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.’
Ephesians 4:29-32 (KJV)
@@ladypenelope99 lol. you're just not taking accountability for your personal problem. Sex is not a two-way street. Like I said you're entitled to your opinion. Even the incorrect ones adding scriptures not going to change the fact that sex is not a two-way street worldly men have sex with women for pleasure all the time I'll pray for you. You're not seeing how silly you look.
Amen🙌🏻🤍💜
Alicia💗
God bless!